So, I'm a doctor. And i was on therapy in my former years. I would like to say that therapy does tell u where everything went wrong and more often than not it stems down to ur childhood but then it helps u to forgive everyone and everything and realise that u can still chage patterns when u know why it is happening. It wasn't anyone's fault. Everyone was trying the best of what they could in that very time. U got damaged in the process but that's still fixable if u know that it's never about blaming anyone. Talking about doctors overdiaganosing or following up for money. So, firstly there are always enough sick people to make money. Even if basic is done for all of them at minimal price, money would never be an issue. There are a few reasons for this. Firstly, medical science has progressed so much that everyone has something and thinking about it in the long term, u want to fix it and call the patient back again. Secondly, most of the times by the time someone approaches a doctor he already has developed so many problems which were not diagnosed that they get surprised when they know about it. For eg i get like several thousand patient who have their first response as denial. Like how could this happen to them when they came walking and talking and there was no issue 2 days back. I would like to say here that human body is a marvellous machine. It would fix itself to a point where it can further not and that's when u seek help. So everytime and always, problems will start suddenly. Everyone needs to calm down. Thirdly, doctors keep searching for problems in every patient but as mentioned mental health superceeds. On several sevaral occasions,it's the mind having problems. But since it's a diagnosis of exclusion, u need to rule all the other causes out before u say it's the brain and that takes time and several investigations. Thus, the follow up.
I found that I have some symptoms of schizoid personality and anxiety disorder. I feel emotionless for the last 2 years. I didn't have sad emotions when something happened banned. but if I want to call someone I can easily interact with everyone but I avoid it most of the time. There is a thin line between this disease and introvert Btw I ambivert. Can any physiologist help me? Just give me knowledge about this because Googlele sometimes doesn't right in symptoms. I will meet with my local neurologist but can anyone please explain this? If anyone is a certified neurologist.
I found my issues just by self-reading and exploring case studies, and I'm not even a medic. It's more about the mindset and individual's approach to the problem.
@@mehtamahrshi7109 I'd say it's not always the personality issue. So basically they call it xyz personality disorder if it's filling out some criteria for that but if u think about it, it could just be your coping mechanism. The defence you developed over the years. If it's not troubling you, it can be easy to recognise and address the weak spots.
Both have same cause, and the treatment is the same when it's done by a professional physician. They are not B.A. in Psychology from a third tier college!
@@sunilkumarnayak7268 Firstly... Kindly do some basic research & brush up your knowledge before writing such arrogant,, factually incorrect comments !! Pls understand that Anxiety diagnosis, medication & coounseling is done by a certified PSYCHIATRIST & THERAPIST respectively! Its not done by PHYSICIAN as you earlier stated ... Pls educate yourself first !! As someone who is being treated for anxiety since last 2 years.. I can vouch for the fact that medicines basically help in managing/ alleviating your symptoms . Symptoms can reoccur (once medication is stopped) if the root cause has not been eradicated (through therapy, lifestyle changes, wellness program etc). Hence it's immensely true that treating or rather managing symptoms... And eradicating the root cause are two seperate challenging tasks !
I second you on this dear👍 People generally don't understand that Anxiety diagnosis, medication & coounseling is done by a certified Psychiatrist & Therapist respectively! As someone who is being treated for anxiety since last 2 years.. I can vouch for the fact that medicines basically help in managing/ alleviating your symptoms . Symptoms can reoccur (once medication is stopped) if the root cause has not been eradicated (through therapy, lifestyle changes, wellness program etc). Hence it's immensely true that treating or rather managing symptoms... And eradicating the root cause are two seperate challenging tasks !
@@vintagesoul7068 someone took it personally, and we probably know why! The basic fact that you can't even spell common English words correctly proves my point. I need not argue back. Continue..
@@sunilkumarnayak7268 they tried educating you on the truth but you are the one who took it personally. Just because they put an extra o in counselling doesn't mean they can't spell common English words, you can tell their English was good by reading it. Autocorrect may have not been there. Funny how you think it's a personal attack when they were trying to correct yourself from a foolish blunder.
Achara is pretty correct with her opinion in deeper deconstruction of quirks rather than just the surface. This quirk of Jaby with just fixing the 3 things on surface example is itself a thing that he needs help with. I think Achara caught that but decided to let Jaby take his own journey there. @CineDesi
Achara is right but Jaby also has a point. Often times you need to get the immediate issues sorted out. You might not have the time or money to go for long sessions. In such cases the immediate issue and the cognitive logic behind it can be addressed. probing much deeper can be left for more serious psychological ailments
On paper ESR should be around 20 but in reality it's still just fine if you even have it around 70-80 that's because of our daily lives, many factors could effect your toxin levels in your blood like air quality around you, you ate something, any other underlying disease, the environment around your or your general lifestyle. ESR on 20 is the sign of a mostly fit and healthly person but even if it's higher it's still normal, you just have to improve your diet and lifestyle to make it better avoiding any future complications in the process. However if your ESR is near 90-100 than it's a concern and a sign of a probable underlying disease and only then doctors take further examinations. So here, Abhishek's fear of high ESR is totally invalid as it's still in 20's and his fears and anxiety are taking over because everything is not perfect from his pov
I have to agree with Achara, even though I relate with Jaby more. IT is not healthy to treat symptoms instead of figuring out the root cause of the problems. This is my nightmare with my mom, who is more content with treating the symptoms instead of taking care of the root cause. I understand this, but I always dread getting blood tests or any other tests done. During the height of Pandemic, when I was living in US and I was traveling to and from India, I absolutely hated taking the tests before travel. The possibility that it might show COVID positive kept me up at night before tests. Thankfully I was always negative. The idea of missing the trip and more importantly dealing with the repercussions of having COVID scared me to the point I would rather blissfully remain ignorant.
Actually specially in Asian culture or in India we generally don't say i love u or show much affection normally to our close family or parents its just a cultural thing maybe specially when we are grown up it just feels weird like we love them and they love us more than anyone we know it but we just don't show it and I have seen it in all Asian culture mostly like u will notice westerns always saying love u and all to their parents but it doesn't happen in India or in Asian countries like on daily basis our love language is taking up scolding and all..😂
Yeah,,,, and when someone shows affection openly, it feels weird. and there's a lot of mental baggage, school fees discussion, bills, not enough money, quarrels etc So We just try to shut off our emotions or vent them else where
Therapist can also cause trauma. It happened to me. He wasn't bothered with my complaints & problems and kept pushing mein things when I wasn't ready for that. So yeah there are conman in this field. I ended up trying another path i.e. vipassana. It helped me a LOT. It depends on you what really works for you because only when you open up to something will it work. Trust is important.
I’m glad you choose the right path Vipasana ….. I practice Vipasana too …. It is a miraculous tool for mankind. Also read Upshanid n vedant you will get more clarity of human core issues and mental problems.
Jaby was really struggling to say what was in his mind at the end but I agree with him doctors some times exaggerate your problem so that you would come to them for a long time and since you know almost nothing but medical science you have high chance of getting screwed into paying them a amount that is way to much for that problem if doctors told you it is a minor problem you won't pay them that much
@@SilverGate007 Lol not all doctors. Mostly if you have a very like regular connect with your therapist he most probably will tell you himself that you don't need to come because he'll have all context of your life
Most relatable reaction till now. Was really waiting for this one. Totally relate with Jaby, felt like i am listening to myself😂 therapists do get annoying sometimes, even though they're just doing their jobs. Yes most of them are genuine i believe. But many of em are just cons. One must be careful while seeking therapy which one to chose. And as he said, go with the goal you have, go with an open mind and ignore rest of the bs.
In Indian culture the majority of parents don't say I Love you to their children and children never say I love you. We all just show each other love and affection. And also I see that a word loses its meaning if it's spoken all the time :P which makes sense if you see it. Although this I love you from the West has started reaching India too in the last decade and you see these phrases being used almost every day in India as well.
You're not completely wrong jaby, it would be good if therapists heard their patients on what they want to deal with at the moment, one person could want their entire life looked at and distangle everything while another one can want to just work on their top 3 prblms only. So if the therapists listens and gives u the disclaimer that being the second person would have some limitations then it would be better
My therapist did that. I told her, ya I know there was a lot of issues...can u enlist all my issues. She did. I am not under therapy now bt I recognized my problem and trying to deal with it rn. I am a master's student in astrophysics, I don't have that much money to solve all the things wrong with me. I just try to have a healthy mindset. Try to take a break from anxious situations, try to disassociate. And always take others' help when dealing with issues. I had a lot of trauma, don't have time to deal with it. I will when I have the time and money. I am just trying to be sane everyday.
I'm pretty sure abhimanyu and their friends recorded their conversation while they were high , and next he sat and write down all those jokes looking at the video tape . . The comedies are so specifically "high" comedies ..
Loved what you guys do and keep on doing Besides all the hate comments plus the viewers demanding to react to certain video is ...omg like wtf😂😡😓 appreciate your hard work
Okay, so speaking as a Psychology masters. There are different types of therapy. The "goes on forever" kind of therapy is psychoanalytical therapy. There are also therapies than end in 12-14 sessions like CBT. When you go to a therapist, ask them which type of therapist they primarily are and how long they think their treatment will last to get you to your goal (they can usually give an estimate depending on problems). This is to happen in first/second session so that you can decide if you want to commit to therapy or not. If your therapist refuses to give you these, then they are wasting your time and you need to find another one. We do need to do history taking of your childhood and other things, but that is just because people usually do not know where their issues stem from. So do tell everything to your therapist. They will not share this with anyone else, well anyone else who is not a doctor. Doctors talk to each other, and it is very useful in psychologists because sometimes we find out ways that can help us with our own patients. You never know with human mind.
@@Achara sorry I just didn't know if they were going posted since jaby said it depended on the view count. My comment might of sounded a bit like a demand, it was more of a question.
8:23 ESR increase is basically at what speed your red blood cells settle at the bottom when your blood is taken in a westergreen tube, usually higher in females and can be caused by increase in fibrinogen in blood and other reasons too
Dayum Jabys impersonation of the therapy How did you get thus cough? Where were you going? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm just imaging a sketch comedy where jaby is the therapist for whole Desicine team Syntax, Achara and all and it's him that need the therapy 😂😂😂 would so much love this
E.S.R.: erythrocyte sedimentation rate.....meaning any abnormality in the shape and density of rbc will decrease or increase their esr...its non specific type of test....
I work in lab, ESR is the rate of sedimentation of red blood cells in an ESR tube in one hour. high ESR can mean a lot of things, infection being one of them. Edit: Rin is clothes washing detergent.
Each time i mention my pain my mother brings her, and the whole topic changes. That's so true! But lack of affection just makes me easier target to fall into love and affection. But i have worked on it.
Both of them have taken the comedy act into serious direction, abhishek was trying to say that because of the internet, people have become over conscious about health, self diagnosis, and doing things that are not necessary.
0:55 wow!!!! That's amazing!!! You guys have cool nicknames now!!! AK and JK!!! Don't lose them please!!! That sounds cool!!! Personally I think that's a 'must have' for cool UA-camrs like you..
No i support achara on that ! Most of main things are deep rooted…. If i have have cough a bad doctor will give medicine right away but a good doctor will ask u what did u eat and many other things……..even u solve the three thing which are in fount of u like jaby want… it will not be a permanent solution and new problems will come the main thing is to find root cause and then solve it……
Depression and anxiety are two mental problems both having common symptoms and their solution are same,if a person is anxious he/she will always fight ,shout,run fast,walk fast,eat fast,take tensions for completing a project, or having sweat while writing an exam/test,feeling irritating when someone is mocking you,so when you take all these be heart ,you go into Depression, What ever I said now are all stage 1,these symptoms are common among all people but reacting to all this situation depends on people to people, so now I have a solution, 1)taking a slow cold water shower 2) jogging along with a close friend continuously and the same time talking positively 3)meditation combined with yoga is the best solution specifically relaxation techniques 4)massages for full body/and head 5)not involving in a fight,getting away from negative person who always mock you ,that will certainly help 6)smart phones/laptops/psp/video games all these are the major reasons for anxiety ,so try not to use them not more than 1 hour in 24 hours,more the games we play more the anxious we become,and then that goes out of control,then we start to get physical symptoms of ticking sensation throughout the body, which may result in sleepless night,then we start assuming it to be other big disease and start going to shamam/pandit/swamy/maulvi/father of church, which may increase your symptoms more and more So the magic solution is patience, try talking like a naive doctor and not a road side coolie, Thanks Try to down to earth,don't expect anything from anyone ,do your homework, be prepared,stay strong, you can do it
JABY NEEDS THERAPY! hahaha Jokes apart.. There were two famous psychologists, Freud' s followers believe that everything is deep rooted and I believed it too. I read Gabor Mate's 'the myth of normal' which supports this theory. But, then there is Adler who has a split opinion (Courage to be disliked is a book based on his theories). I suggest you read both to decide for yourself.
It's like how the girl said. Unless you cure the root cause, you will keep coming back. And clearing the root cause has to be uncomfortable, because it deals with your fears n anxieties that you don't even want to confront. This is my first time on this channel, but I can feel Jaby has lots of issues that he doesn't want to deal with n it's a trigger for him. A lot of people with relationship issues, get it from their parents abusive relationships or broken marriages. Subconsciously they keep thinking it happens with everyone, without even knowing that they have this fear. Result, broken relationships, fear of commitments.... You can't cure these just by giving them advice for their last broken relationship.
Women like to talk about their emotions and men like to have a solution so that they dont have to worry about it anymore. Its a wiring thing because talking doesnt really help us solve - say - self hate. When we look for solutions hearing how our parents did us wrong won't help us, but getting a different perspective of tackling with the self hate might help us understand it better and slowly we will win over that aspect of life! Thats how we see things. Its not a point if good or bad / right or wrong
What I have seen most of the “doctors sometimes doesn’t know” kind of cases only happens in Western countries. I live in Germany and here most doctors cant even diagnose half of the diseases that gets treated in India. For example Tuberculosis is very common in India but very rare in European countries so the European doctors will not be able to diagnose it properly, While Indian doctors will 99.9% narrow it down to the correct diagnosis based on your symptoms and few tests. So if you look up at something in the internet and go to an Indian doctor he will still make you take initial tests. He won’t diagnose you based on your own google research. He will be like “Are you the doctor or me?” 😂😂
@jabykoay Symptoms are indications of something happeing deep inside you. If your tv is not switching on, there is a possibility that your tv is bad or your electricity is overloaded or something wrong in your house circuit. It can only be found by testing.
Well, here jaby is wrong here about just fixing three surface issues and not going in the deeper sides. Somimes your ping point is not even the cause why you're feeling the pain. Example lower back pain, I'm facing that for almost 5 yrs and all the physiotherapists and doctors suggested till now was that my lower back is weak, the doctor went far enough and said that there is a problem with my bones. Untill now, just found a new physiotherapist and he looked at my overall physical health and diagnosed me with a disc bulge and weak hamstrings. Now, I'm feeling great and improving everyday. Bottomline is that sometimes a problem occurring in part of the body might have a deep rooted issues with something else.
Occam’s Razor- “when you hear hoofbeats, think horses, not zebras”-go for the simplest diagnosis to explain their patient's symptoms. The reason why drs straight away didn’t start all random tests because the symptoms and signs were not pointing towards any major issue.
Mannn it's relatable. My doctors too say you are not like common or other people. You feel more intense emotions than normal people😂😂😂😂saying my parents are overly caring for me. 😂But it has 50 percent environmental causes and 50 percent biologically or inherited. That anxiety pain travels within my body sometimes though
Rin is a detergent soap. Please do consider that in India mental health and therapy is not much respected/believed, and the last part of the skit is based on that viewpoint of Indians. This skit is really funny in the Indian context.
Rin is what we Indians used to wash clothes back in the days, it was made for the sole purpose of washing clothes using a detergent bar like a bar of soap as washing machines was not a thing in India back then
I agree with Jaby's statement to some extent as most of them are doing it for the money juat like any private doctor or dentist...But I am with Achara on this one as there are many doctors or therapists who are doing their work cause they need to cure or treat someone and not just the money... And the fact that it takes time to understand a person behaviour and issues compared to the physical issues like cought or fever...You can exactly measure mental illness with a thermometer or check congestion with the help of stethoscope... So obviously, therapists will need to take more time and more sessions...But the main problem is that their sessions are very costly compared to doctor's visit... US is just an exception though where medicals bill can be more than just expensive...
16:20 for a change, Jaby is understanding the context of something while Achara is confused. Rare💀
Exceedingly rare
Rare Jaby W
Once in a lifetime rare
Cheers for Jaby 🙌
Fat se haalat badal gaye, jasbaat badal gaye
Now that's called a well researched stand up..HATS OFF Abhifek!! ♥️🙃
It's Abhishek
@@an-nin-me you haven't seen the "tongue Issues" video. Have ya ?
@@an-nin-me r/woosh
@@an-nin-me Tongue Issues
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So, I'm a doctor. And i was on therapy in my former years. I would like to say that therapy does tell u where everything went wrong and more often than not it stems down to ur childhood but then it helps u to forgive everyone and everything and realise that u can still chage patterns when u know why it is happening. It wasn't anyone's fault. Everyone was trying the best of what they could in that very time. U got damaged in the process but that's still fixable if u know that it's never about blaming anyone.
Talking about doctors overdiaganosing or following up for money. So, firstly there are always enough sick people to make money. Even if basic is done for all of them at minimal price, money would never be an issue. There are a few reasons for this. Firstly, medical science has progressed so much that everyone has something and thinking about it in the long term, u want to fix it and call the patient back again. Secondly, most of the times by the time someone approaches a doctor he already has developed so many problems which were not diagnosed that they get surprised when they know about it. For eg i get like several thousand patient who have their first response as denial. Like how could this happen to them when they came walking and talking and there was no issue 2 days back. I would like to say here that human body is a marvellous machine. It would fix itself to a point where it can further not and that's when u seek help. So everytime and always, problems will start suddenly. Everyone needs to calm down. Thirdly, doctors keep searching for problems in every patient but as mentioned mental health superceeds. On several sevaral occasions,it's the mind having problems. But since it's a diagnosis of exclusion, u need to rule all the other causes out before u say it's the brain and that takes time and several investigations. Thus, the follow up.
I found that I have some symptoms of schizoid personality and anxiety disorder.
I feel emotionless for the last 2 years. I didn't have sad emotions when something happened banned. but if I want to call someone I can easily interact with everyone but I avoid it most of the time.
There is a thin line between this disease and introvert
Btw I ambivert.
Can any physiologist help me?
Just give me knowledge about this because Googlele sometimes doesn't right in symptoms.
I will meet with my local neurologist but can anyone please explain this?
If anyone is a certified neurologist.
I found my issues just by self-reading and exploring case studies, and I'm not even a medic. It's more about the mindset and individual's approach to the problem.
@🌟 R 🌟 🤣
@@sunilkumarnayak7268 yeah, u need a push sometime, though.
@@mehtamahrshi7109 I'd say it's not always the personality issue. So basically they call it xyz personality disorder if it's filling out some criteria for that but if u think about it, it could just be your coping mechanism. The defence you developed over the years. If it's not troubling you, it can be easy to recognise and address the weak spots.
Jaby needs to understand that there is a difference between treating just the symptom and treating the root cause.
Both have same cause, and the treatment is the same when it's done by a professional physician. They are not B.A. in Psychology from a third tier college!
@@sunilkumarnayak7268 Firstly... Kindly do some basic research & brush up your knowledge before writing such arrogant,, factually incorrect comments !!
Pls understand that Anxiety diagnosis, medication & coounseling is done by a certified PSYCHIATRIST & THERAPIST respectively! Its not done by PHYSICIAN as you earlier stated ... Pls educate yourself first !!
As someone who is being treated for anxiety since last 2 years..
I can vouch for the fact that medicines basically help in managing/ alleviating your symptoms .
Symptoms can reoccur (once medication is stopped) if the root cause has not been eradicated (through therapy, lifestyle changes, wellness program etc).
Hence it's immensely true that treating or rather managing symptoms... And eradicating the root cause are two seperate challenging tasks !
I second you on this dear👍 People generally don't understand that Anxiety diagnosis, medication & coounseling is done by a certified Psychiatrist & Therapist respectively!
As someone who is being treated for anxiety since last 2 years.. I can vouch for the fact that medicines basically help in managing/ alleviating your symptoms .
Symptoms can reoccur (once medication is stopped) if the root cause has not been eradicated (through therapy, lifestyle changes, wellness program etc).
Hence it's immensely true that treating or rather managing symptoms... And eradicating the root cause are two seperate challenging tasks !
@@vintagesoul7068 someone took it personally, and we probably know why! The basic fact that you can't even spell common English words correctly proves my point. I need not argue back. Continue..
@@sunilkumarnayak7268 they tried educating you on the truth but you are the one who took it personally.
Just because they put an extra o in counselling doesn't mean they can't spell common English words, you can tell their English was good by reading it. Autocorrect may have not been there.
Funny how you think it's a personal attack when they were trying to correct yourself from a foolish blunder.
jaby always gets emotional whenever parents came in a conversation even in jokes
true
I wonder what happened..
We need to know jaby .. please tell us
@@zzzzzzz8493 His dad passed away 2-3 years ago.
Farzi acting for video.
Achara is pretty correct with her opinion in deeper deconstruction of quirks rather than just the surface. This quirk of Jaby with just fixing the 3 things on surface example is itself a thing that he needs help with. I think Achara caught that but decided to let Jaby take his own journey there. @CineDesi
आपका नाम बहुत अच्छा है👌
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Achara is right but Jaby also has a point. Often times you need to get the immediate issues sorted out. You might not have the time or money to go for long sessions. In such cases the immediate issue and the cognitive logic behind it can be addressed. probing much deeper can be left for more serious psychological ailments
Let me guess your profession. Are you a therapist?
@@elgaatooo No, I am a Mobile Application Developer ☺
RIN is washing powder, so that's the reason for Abhishek's father to get bald, but JUST LOVE YOUR REACTIONS, THANKS ALOT FOR THESE REACTIONS
Jaby always takes jokes in its literally way and gets serious about it 😜😜🤣🤣
achara and abhimanyu are in perfect sync at 8:35
You're legend
@@sameermajhi8478 haha thanks
Lmao jus coming here to comment the same thing 🤣
Op
@@Akshay_PJO legend 🤝 legend
7:11 It was such a cute moment that Jaby & Achara both picked their bottles to drink cause Abhishek's doctor prescribed "water"
The hand gesture sync of Achara and Abhishek was legendary 08:38
More cricket fever episodes coming??
@AMAN YADAV ik
Yes, we want more cricket reactions!!
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No
A big yes
On paper ESR should be around 20 but in reality it's still just fine if you even have it around 70-80 that's because of our daily lives, many factors could effect your toxin levels in your blood like air quality around you, you ate something, any other underlying disease, the environment around your or your general lifestyle. ESR on 20 is the sign of a mostly fit and healthly person but even if it's higher it's still normal, you just have to improve your diet and lifestyle to make it better avoiding any future complications in the process. However if your ESR is near 90-100 than it's a concern and a sign of a probable underlying disease and only then doctors take further examinations. So here, Abhishek's fear of high ESR is totally invalid as it's still in 20's and his fears and anxiety are taking over because everything is not perfect from his pov
@Jaby & Achara .. 22:27 Rin is detergent for clothes.
Love you guys. Thanks for your content 😄
I have to agree with Achara, even though I relate with Jaby more. IT is not healthy to treat symptoms instead of figuring out the root cause of the problems. This is my nightmare with my mom, who is more content with treating the symptoms instead of taking care of the root cause. I understand this, but I always dread getting blood tests or any other tests done. During the height of Pandemic, when I was living in US and I was traveling to and from India, I absolutely hated taking the tests before travel. The possibility that it might show COVID positive kept me up at night before tests. Thankfully I was always negative. The idea of missing the trip and more importantly dealing with the repercussions of having COVID scared me to the point I would rather blissfully remain ignorant.
Actually specially in Asian culture or in India we generally don't say i love u or show much affection normally to our close family or parents its just a cultural thing maybe specially when we are grown up it just feels weird like we love them and they love us more than anyone we know it but we just don't show it and I have seen it in all Asian culture mostly like u will notice westerns always saying love u and all to their parents but it doesn't happen in India or in Asian countries like on daily basis our love language is taking up scolding and all..😂
Yeah,,,, and when someone shows affection openly, it feels weird. and there's a lot of mental baggage, school fees discussion, bills, not enough money, quarrels etc
So We just try to shut off our emotions or vent them else where
😂 I can relate. It feels awkward. I am okay with sharing my emotions with my mother. But with my dad it's awkward. 😁
Ya and we don't say sorry or expect a sorry from our parents we just fight and start talking normally the next day 🤣
I’ve never hugged my parents and that’s completely normal here 😅
@@genetahiyang8210 that's not normal dude you hug your parents sometimes atleast not everyday
So Basically this is what Jaby is looking for:
Jaby: Hey, I keep procrastinating. Fix it!
Therapist: Ok. Stop procrastinating!
Jaby: Cool. Thanks!
Therapist can also cause trauma. It happened to me. He wasn't bothered with my complaints & problems and kept pushing mein things when I wasn't ready for that. So yeah there are conman in this field. I ended up trying another path i.e. vipassana. It helped me a LOT.
It depends on you what really works for you because only when you open up to something will it work. Trust is important.
I’m glad you choose the right path Vipasana ….. I practice Vipasana too …. It is a miraculous tool for mankind. Also read Upshanid n vedant you will get more clarity of human core issues and mental problems.
Jaby was really struggling to say what was in his mind at the end but I agree with him doctors some times exaggerate your problem so that you would come to them for a long time and since you know almost nothing but medical science you have high chance of getting screwed into paying them a amount that is way to much for that problem if doctors told you it is a minor problem you won't pay them that much
Not all doctors brother..... he's talking about therapists
@@SilverGate007 Lol not all doctors. Mostly if you have a very like regular connect with your therapist he most probably will tell you himself that you don't need to come because he'll have all context of your life
@@SilverGate007 Therapists aren't doctors.
India: the only country where they bad mouth doctors and think they should be paid less than engineers lmfao
These doctors are the exception, most have integrity.
Most relatable reaction till now. Was really waiting for this one.
Totally relate with Jaby, felt like i am listening to myself😂 therapists do get annoying sometimes, even though they're just doing their jobs.
Yes most of them are genuine i believe. But many of em are just cons. One must be careful while seeking therapy which one to chose. And as he said, go with the goal you have, go with an open mind and ignore rest of the bs.
In Indian culture the majority of parents don't say I Love you to their children and children never say I love you. We all just show each other love and affection. And also I see that a word loses its meaning if it's spoken all the time :P which makes sense if you see it. Although this I love you from the West has started reaching India too in the last decade and you see these phrases being used almost every day in India as well.
You're not completely wrong jaby, it would be good if therapists heard their patients on what they want to deal with at the moment, one person could want their entire life looked at and distangle everything while another one can want to just work on their top 3 prblms only. So if the therapists listens and gives u the disclaimer that being the second person would have some limitations then it would be better
My therapist did that. I told her, ya I know there was a lot of issues...can u enlist all my issues. She did. I am not under therapy now bt I recognized my problem and trying to deal with it rn. I am a master's student in astrophysics, I don't have that much money to solve all the things wrong with me. I just try to have a healthy mindset. Try to take a break from anxious situations, try to disassociate. And always take others' help when dealing with issues. I had a lot of trauma, don't have time to deal with it. I will when I have the time and money. I am just trying to be sane everyday.
I don't even know how long I was waiting for this specific reaction.
Worth the wait 🤓
We like more comedy special reaction from you.❤️❤️ there's more of Zakir Khan, aakash Gupta and many more
the most cute part of the video is Achara trying hard to manage Jaby's "EMOTIONAL OUTBURST"!! My wife does the same, all the time!! 😄
I'm pretty sure abhimanyu and their friends recorded their conversation while they were high , and next he sat and write down all those jokes looking at the video tape . .
The comedies are so specifically "high" comedies ..
0:24 his name's pronounce is "oopmanyu" not "upmanyu"
Very deep thinker and tell story about himself very effectively...
Loved what you guys do and keep on doing Besides all the hate comments plus the viewers demanding to react to certain video is ...omg like wtf😂😡😓 appreciate your hard work
7:06 both of them started drinking water🤣😂
Channel's name changed but I still search for "jaby koay"!! 🙂
Okay, so speaking as a Psychology masters.
There are different types of therapy. The "goes on forever" kind of therapy is psychoanalytical therapy. There are also therapies than end in 12-14 sessions like CBT. When you go to a therapist, ask them which type of therapist they primarily are and how long they think their treatment will last to get you to your goal (they can usually give an estimate depending on problems). This is to happen in first/second session so that you can decide if you want to commit to therapy or not. If your therapist refuses to give you these, then they are wasting your time and you need to find another one.
We do need to do history taking of your childhood and other things, but that is just because people usually do not know where their issues stem from. So do tell everything to your therapist. They will not share this with anyone else, well anyone else who is not a doctor. Doctors talk to each other, and it is very useful in psychologists because sometimes we find out ways that can help us with our own patients. You never know with human mind.
Jaby are you going to post the other episodes of the cricket fever
He should
yes, are you gonna do it or not?
*Yes Yes Yes*
They’re coming! Hold on to your hats people!
@@Achara sorry I just didn't know if they were going posted since jaby said it depended on the view count. My comment might of sounded a bit like a demand, it was more of a question.
Finally😍...it's like waiting for months for that reaction 😄
I miss these OG sessions with just Jaby and Achara. I always look forward to Jaby's breakdown and his opinion of the video. 😊
he encapsulated the biomedical model versus psychosocial model of rehab so *chef's kiss * perfectly
8:23 ESR increase is basically at what speed your red blood cells settle at the bottom when your blood is taken in a westergreen tube, usually higher in females and can be caused by increase in fibrinogen in blood and other reasons too
Most awaited video of Abhishek upmanyu❤❤
Dayum Jabys impersonation of the therapy How did you get thus cough? Where were you going? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm just imaging a sketch comedy where jaby is the therapist for whole Desicine team Syntax, Achara and all and it's him that need the therapy 😂😂😂 would so much love this
I live for the banter they have unrelated to the video at the end😂😂 jaby you were on an entire trip abt the therapist 😂
I just Love Achara. She is intelligent. She is the kind of friend I need in my circle, to whom I can talk about a variety of topics. Just love her.
I laugh more in the last few minutes of achara and jabys discussion about therapy 😂😂😂😂😂 thing is I am agree with both of them
Waited for this reaction video for about 2months..now my health anxiety is gone!!^_^
E.S.R.: erythrocyte sedimentation rate.....meaning any abnormality in the shape and density of rbc will decrease or increase their esr...its non specific type of test....
badhiya shabas
I work in lab, ESR is the rate of sedimentation of red blood cells in an ESR tube in one hour. high ESR can mean a lot of things, infection being one of them.
Edit: Rin is clothes washing detergent.
Each time i mention my pain my mother brings her, and the whole topic changes. That's so true! But lack of affection just makes me easier target to fall into love and affection. But i have worked on it.
Both of them have taken the comedy act into serious direction, abhishek was trying to say that because of the internet, people have become over conscious about health, self diagnosis, and doing things that are not necessary.
0:55 wow!!!! That's amazing!!! You guys have cool nicknames now!!! AK and JK!!! Don't lose them please!!! That sounds cool!!! Personally I think that's a 'must have' for cool UA-camrs like you..
16:32 is one of the rare moments when Jaby is explaining something to Achara and not the other way round.
5:25 HE GOT US😂
6:42 Yes, that's so true. It happened to me too... 💀
To enjoy comedy you actually need to understand the language used by the comedian. Sometimes subtitles can't deliver the actual fun
8:29 achara hand sync with abhishek 😄👌👌
We want cricket fever jaby! 😌
nah
Nah Bro we cool.
5:28 we do care jaby 🥺❤ always feel free to share buddy
Waiting for cricket fever 2nd episode reaction
Next episode of Cricket Fever please!
Rin is a cloth washing soap
No i support achara on that ! Most of main things are deep rooted…. If i have have cough a bad doctor will give medicine right away but a good doctor will ask u what did u eat and many other things……..even u solve the three thing which are in fount of u like jaby want… it will not be a permanent solution and new problems will come the main thing is to find root cause and then solve it……
Depression and anxiety are two mental problems both having common symptoms and their solution are same,if a person is anxious he/she will always fight ,shout,run fast,walk fast,eat fast,take tensions for completing a project, or having sweat while writing an exam/test,feeling irritating when someone is mocking you,so when you take all these be heart ,you go into Depression,
What ever I said now are all stage 1,these symptoms are common among all people but reacting to all this situation depends on people to people, so now I have a solution,
1)taking a slow cold water shower
2) jogging along with a close friend continuously and the same time talking positively
3)meditation combined with yoga is the best solution specifically relaxation techniques
4)massages for full body/and head
5)not involving in a fight,getting away from negative person who always mock you ,that will certainly help
6)smart phones/laptops/psp/video games all these are the major reasons for anxiety ,so try not to use them not more than 1 hour in 24 hours,more the games we play more the anxious we become,and then that goes out of control,then we start to get physical symptoms of ticking sensation throughout the body, which may result in sleepless night,then we start assuming it to be other big disease and start going to shamam/pandit/swamy/maulvi/father of church, which may increase your symptoms more and more
So the magic solution is patience, try talking like a naive doctor and not a road side coolie,
Thanks
Try to down to earth,don't expect anything from anyone ,do your homework, be prepared,stay strong, you can do it
His jokes is so random, silly and relatable to middle class family that's why most people in foreigns may not get his jokes
Rrewwr
JABY NEEDS THERAPY! hahaha
Jokes apart.. There were two famous psychologists, Freud' s followers believe that everything is deep rooted and I believed it too. I read Gabor Mate's 'the myth of normal' which supports this theory. But, then there is Adler who has a split opinion (Courage to be disliked is a book based on his theories). I suggest you read both to decide for yourself.
You both are so good 😊
You both got your Stanley mugs, thats awesome 😎
I agree with Jaby's analysis of Therapy.
Great reaction you both are such a messed up vibe for the viewers 😂❤
It's like how the girl said. Unless you cure the root cause, you will keep coming back. And clearing the root cause has to be uncomfortable, because it deals with your fears n anxieties that you don't even want to confront.
This is my first time on this channel, but I can feel Jaby has lots of issues that he doesn't want to deal with n it's a trigger for him.
A lot of people with relationship issues, get it from their parents abusive relationships or broken marriages. Subconsciously they keep thinking it happens with everyone, without even knowing that they have this fear. Result, broken relationships, fear of commitments....
You can't cure these just by giving them advice for their last broken relationship.
Achara Kirk AKA AK was looking beautiful today in that muted blue dress... ❤❤❤
This was a good stand up.. And reaction was on point
really appreciate that you guys give video some time before reacting to it
22:32 Rin is a cloth washing soap sold in India
23:55 Main bolti hu ❤❤
Girls and women do say it usually. It's way easier for you. For boys, it's weird. Shwoing those kinds of emotions through words.
@@HarryK-ld2ed yess that's true ☺️😘
Women like to talk about their emotions and men like to have a solution so that they dont have to worry about it anymore. Its a wiring thing because talking doesnt really help us solve - say - self hate. When we look for solutions hearing how our parents did us wrong won't help us, but getting a different perspective of tackling with the self hate might help us understand it better and slowly we will win over that aspect of life! Thats how we see things. Its not a point if good or bad / right or wrong
Water lubricates the joints. It helps to drink more water when doing workouts, walking, cycling, running.
Physical pain due to mental distress is called somatic symptom disorder, previously called somatoform disorder.
Yes , I think Ms Achara pointed out he is a 'hypochondriac'. which is also another synonym of Somatic Symptom Disorder.
God save america, doctors there can't detect gall stone, here doctor will just press your stomach and will tell you that you have gall stone.
You guys everyone don't miss the discussion after the video you will know someone needs therapy really badly 😂
😂😂😂
To be fair, if you see your life from the perspective of psychology, everyone including you and the psychiatrist have the mental issues. 😂
What I have seen most of the “doctors sometimes doesn’t know” kind of cases only happens in Western countries. I live in Germany and here most doctors cant even diagnose half of the diseases that gets treated in India. For example Tuberculosis is very common in India but very rare in European countries so the European doctors will not be able to diagnose it properly, While Indian doctors will 99.9% narrow it down to the correct diagnosis based on your symptoms and few tests.
So if you look up at something in the internet and go to an Indian doctor he will still make you take initial tests. He won’t diagnose you based on your own google research. He will be like “Are you the doctor or me?” 😂😂
@jabykoay Symptoms are indications of something happeing deep inside you.
If your tv is not switching on, there is a possibility that your tv is bad or your electricity is overloaded or something wrong in your house circuit.
It can only be found by testing.
You both look like made for each other.......❤
Well, here jaby is wrong here about just fixing three surface issues and not going in the deeper sides. Somimes your ping point is not even the cause why you're feeling the pain. Example lower back pain, I'm facing that for almost 5 yrs and all the physiotherapists and doctors suggested till now was that my lower back is weak, the doctor went far enough and said that there is a problem with my bones. Untill now, just found a new physiotherapist and he looked at my overall physical health and diagnosed me with a disc bulge and weak hamstrings. Now, I'm feeling great and improving everyday. Bottomline is that sometimes a problem occurring in part of the body might have a deep rooted issues with something else.
Can't disagree more with Jaby, as Achara said all significant psychological issues are deep rooted.
Occam’s Razor- “when you hear hoofbeats, think horses, not zebras”-go for the simplest diagnosis to explain their patient's symptoms. The reason why drs straight away didn’t start all random tests because the symptoms and signs were not pointing towards any major issue.
you dont need to go that deep 29:14... and the meme came hahahaha LOL
Interesting the conversation a comedy clip has generated. Love it
22:28 RIN... One of the washing powder for clothes in India...
22:29, Rin is a detergent soap brand in india.
His show is in my city for Dec 2024 and its already booked.
Mannn it's relatable. My doctors too say you are not like common or other people. You feel more intense emotions than normal people😂😂😂😂saying my parents are overly caring for me. 😂But it has 50 percent environmental causes and 50 percent biologically or inherited. That anxiety pain travels within my body sometimes though
Rin is a detergent soap. Please do consider that in India mental health and therapy is not much respected/believed, and the last part of the skit is based on that viewpoint of Indians. This skit is really funny in the Indian context.
Rin is very popular soap for washing clothes in India, his dad used it for washing hairs.
U guys should totally start a podcast😭😭i always have so much fun listening to both of you lmaoo
22:25 "Rin" is a washing Powder brand name, 😂😂😂
Slaypoint new video Jaby and Achara 😍
Rin is what we Indians used to wash clothes back in the days, it was made for the sole purpose of washing clothes using a detergent bar like a bar of soap as washing machines was not a thing in India back then
22:27 Rin is detergent powder for washing clothes. 😂
That's what she said (love it!!!!!!❤❤)
I agree with Jaby's statement to some extent as most of them are doing it for the money juat like any private doctor or dentist...But I am with Achara on this one as there are many doctors or therapists who are doing their work cause they need to cure or treat someone and not just the money...
And the fact that it takes time to understand a person behaviour and issues compared to the physical issues like cought or fever...You can exactly measure mental illness with a thermometer or check congestion with the help of stethoscope...
So obviously, therapists will need to take more time and more sessions...But the main problem is that their sessions are very costly compared to doctor's visit...
US is just an exception though where medicals bill can be more than just expensive...
nobody has a kid or even gets married normally around 25 in india many just start dating around that age.
AcharaKirk is so smart technically & emotionally ❤ i love u so much