The thing with life is as you move into new dimensions, you get new friends and your best friend also got new friends and slowly you just lose that connection 😤
If you do choose to have some friends it's very important to choose your friends wisely and be careful who you trust and tell your problems to because everyone who smiles at you is not your friend
I love friendships but what I've learned is friendship is a lot of work that most people won't or can't put in because life is lifeing them - everything from Adulting, grief, struggling with their finances to be present. You have to be sacrificial and keep loving them even when it's not reciprocated, it's hard I can't lie but I think friendships are often about serving others. Then there's the other truth that seasons change, people evolve, and there's nothing earth shattering, you just aren't the same people and can't connect at that level and that's okay too. I love friendships but currently in my late twenties it's harder with people moving countries, having babies, getting married, dealing with life - it requires more intentionality.
To be honest, making friends and keeping them is super hard for me. It feels like after I move past every phase, I just stop connecting with them unknowingly. I always complain that I don't have friends, but I also don't have the energy to keep them😭
I’ve been looking for that orange biscuit since the slumber party day Bella. 😭😭 the biscuit is so gooooooddddd. Thank God I saw this nylon. I’ll check blenco for it.
Thank you so much for watching ❤ I think it’s a gradual process so give yourself grace and be open to actually stating what you’re looking for in that friendship
I really don’t try to make friends anymore because I haven’t been sustaining the one I have already There are times that I feel really bad about it and I try to reach out to some of my friends but after that one time reaching out, a long time of silence comes in again
The thing with life is as you move into new dimensions, you get new friends and your best friend also got new friends and slowly you just lose that connection 😤
If you do choose to have some friends it's very important to choose your friends wisely and be careful who you trust and tell your problems to because everyone who smiles at you is not your friend
I love friendships but what I've learned is friendship is a lot of work that most people won't or can't put in because life is lifeing them - everything from Adulting, grief, struggling with their finances to be present. You have to be sacrificial and keep loving them even when it's not reciprocated, it's hard I can't lie but I think friendships are often about serving others.
Then there's the other truth that seasons change, people evolve, and there's nothing earth shattering, you just aren't the same people and can't connect at that level and that's okay too.
I love friendships but currently in my late twenties it's harder with people moving countries, having babies, getting married, dealing with life - it requires more intentionality.
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1) for it’s to last longer❤
The edits and quality of this video as well!
To be honest, making friends and keeping them is super hard for me. It feels like after I move past every phase, I just stop connecting with them unknowingly.
I always complain that I don't have friends, but I also don't have the energy to keep them😭
I’ve been looking for that orange biscuit since the slumber party day Bella. 😭😭 the biscuit is so gooooooddddd. Thank God I saw this nylon.
I’ll check blenco for it.
Let’s appreciate the quality on the edit 👏🏽👏🏽 plus this friendship topic is hard cause I don’t know how to shoot my shot but learning.
Thank you so much for watching ❤
I think it’s a gradual process so give yourself grace and be open to actually stating what you’re looking for in that friendship
Loved this video so muchh❤❤
I love the storytelling
This video is so packed ❤
I have not gotten to the MC part but I already see you slaying it
Awwn thank you 🥰
I really don’t try to make friends anymore because I haven’t been sustaining the one I have already
There are times that I feel really bad about it and I try to reach out to some of my friends but after that one time reaching out, a long time of silence comes in again
The edit👏👏👏
This was so properly put together, well done Bella 👏🏽🔥 A lot of valid points too.
@@seyioluboba8752 thank you so much babes ❤️❤️
@@seyioluboba8752 what point stood out to you the most?
@@theindependentbella all 😂
Sending this to my friends. Thank you for this video
That’s a great idea!
Thank you for watching ❤
Thank you so so so much for this!!!!
lol! 2go somehow added some good to this world
I watched till the end. Love this video ❤
Yayyy! Thank you so much ❤️
What was your favorite part?
@@theindependentbella I love all the points because I too became intentional about my friendships recently
Let me add that I love the intro ❤
it's the intro for me
I love this video❤❤❤❤
I’m so glad you enjoyed it! Took a lot of hours to put together ❤
What part stood out to you the most?
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Thank you for this!!!! This friendship kini is a lot and yes you’re right friendship heartbreak is worse than romantic relationship heartbreak🥹