मेरी मां बचपन मे खत्म हूं गई थी और कुछ समय बाद पापा ने भी साथ छोड़ दिया ।मेरी परवरिश मेरे दादा जी ने की ओर 21 की age मे मुझे एक लड़की से प्यार हुआ और आज चार साल बाद दादा जी के आशीर्वाद से हम दोनो शादी कर रहे है। मुझे क्या चाहिए ये मेरे दादा जी बहुत अच्छे से जानते है और दादा जी ने मेरी बचपन से हर एक ख्वाशिस पूरी करी है। दादा जी मेरे लिए मेरे परमपिता परमेश्वर हैं 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Mai 13 saal apne relation ko di hu aur hmdono ek dusre se bahut pyar krte hain but humare sath problem ye hai ki humdono me se koi independent nhi hain😔😭 mere boyfrnd ka job hi nahi ho raha bahut bad luck hain hum dono😔😭plz pray for us🙏🙏 unka job ho jaay jaldi sa aur humlog happily married kar le plz pray for me🙏🙏
Bura mat manna ...tumhara kesa pyar hai 13 saal tak baat hi ki kya bas Aapne goal pr bhi focus Kiya hota ...1 baar fail hote 2 baar 3 baar last me job mil hi jati .... 13 saal aise hi kaat diye tum bevkuf ho apna future nahi dikhaai diya
My family supported me blindly while they know what will be the repercussions and this is karma what I'm going through I didn't obey my parents during that time i didn't hear them out.
@@jyotiupadhyay5516 मान लीजिए कि आप किसी को चाहती हैं, और भगवान ना करे कि आगे चलकर आपको ये लगे कि वो इंसान आपकी कदर ही नहीं करता है, बात बात पर केवल आपको ही गलत करार देता है, तो ऐसे में क्या ये आपकी गलती होगी कि आप उस इंसान को पहले समझ नहीं पाए? कभी कभी धोखा भी तो हो जाता है किसी को समझने में... क्या इस वजह से आप सारी जिंदगी घुट घुटकर काटेंगे???
App ka toh pura sentence hi glt hai सही लाइन ये है " इंसान अच्छा हो तो अरेंज मैरिज भी चलती है अगर इंसान ही अच्छा ना हो तो लव मैरिज कर के भी लोग रोते है "
@@happybirthday9652 apko bishwas nhi hoga mere ex ne kaha tha mujhse shadi krni h to 30 lakh se jda dowry lenge mere papa tumre de pynge kya ...tumra ghr chota h .....tumri padhai bhi khs nhi h
Agar aj k time pr na to smart phone use hota, na he log WhatsApp,FB,ye sb use krte or na he love marriage ho pata, jiske wjh se aaj 90% log arrange marriage krte.
Bilkl shai par mai wo insan hu...jaha 1 rista me jamin se v niche girkar minate mangakr v rista chalna chaha par nho cah paya....bhag gaya bhahoda....parents ka nam dekar
दिमाग आ जाता है शादी बाद लड़की और लड़कों में हकीकत दिखने लगती है... फिजिकल अट्रैक्शन और शारीरिक सुंदरता के कारण शादी कर लेते हैं और फिर पछतावा करते हैं।
U r exactly right sir.... Specially for girls bina financially independent bne shadi mat krna..... Q ki kal agar pati ne chhor diya to bhik mangne ya galat kam krne ki naubat na aye...
Allah ka shukr hai meri love 😘 marriage hui thi 2018 mein aur abhi bhi hm dono bht achhe se rehte hain maasha Allah mere husband bht achhe Hain 😊 Allah hamare rishte ki hifazat kare aameen.
Mine was also a love marriage. I can say people don’t even understand love. It can turn into exploitative marriage. I am luckily divorced now. So don’t trust anyone who says they love you esp for girls.
@@khushbooraval5519 log jaanbhujakr share nhi krte h...Taki same mistakes sabhi kre....Aisa nhi h ki jwan hoti ldkiyo ko maa ya baap samajhte nhi hai...Ki follow celibacy.....Lekin group m sabhi ke affair ho rhe hote h to..... Pressure ki wjh se kafi ldkiya fas jati hai...Kisi ki frnd apne bf ke frnd se seting krwa deti hai...
@@khushbooraval5519 aap aware nhi the kuki aapne childhood se sharukh khan ki movies dekhi thi......Is bollywood ne jitna naash hmare smaj ka kiya h sayad hi kisi or ne kiya hoga
इंसान अच्छा होना चाहिए जो कि समय के साथ पता चलता है शादी से पहले सब अच्छे बने रहते है। समस्या ये है कि बाद में छोड़ने का विकल्प आम नही है नही तो जीवन और खुशहाल हो जाये भारत मे।
अनुभव जी आज आपकी एक गलतफहमी दूर कर देता हूं। अधिकतर जिन लोगों को गुस्सा ज्यादा आता है वे लोग ज्यादा ईमानदार और दिल से साफ होते हैं। वरना अधिकतर बेईमान लोग अपने मुंह पर छल कपट वाली हंसी रखते हैं और दूसरे के कहने पर किसी तीसरे को नीचा दिखाते हैं कुछ चंद रुपयों और अपने कुछ फायदे के लिए।
कभी तानों में कटेगी, कभी तारीफों में, ये जिंदगी हैं यारों पल पल घटेगी..... पाने को कुछ नहीं, ले जाने को कुछ नहीं, फिर भी क्यों चिंता करते हो इससे सिर्फ खूबसूरती घटेगी ये जिंदगी हैं यारों पल पल घटे बार बार रफू करता रहता हूं जिंदगी की जेब, कम्बख्त फिर भी निकल जाते हैं खुशियों के कुछ लम्हें... में सारा झगड़ा ही ख्वाहिशों का हैं... ना तो किसी को गम चाहिए, ना ही किसी को कम चाहिए.।
Break up 🤘 Reason : she always told a lie . In Begining i ignored But after a year i broke up our relationship . Loyal 💔Bht kaam hai nibhane walle To love someone is easy . But To trust someone is very difficult.
Apki sari batein sunkar ...I can actually feel .. How lucky I'm to have a person .... I'm in relationship since 9 years ... And most probably next year we'll get married ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️.......
To mat kare support 🧐🧐 tum parents ke dum pe jee rahe ho kya. Khud se kuch kar lo koi bhagwan nahi hai iss duniya me Aadami khud se bhi jindgi jee sakta hai
Bhaiya mera bhi he seen n tha 8 sal se relationship me the ..bt ab uski shadi ho gyi h ...ha starting me thoda .muze bhi pain hua bt ab me move on kr liya h .apne kam pe focus h nd abhi aisi ladki mere life me he ki ..o muze har chiz me samj kr leti hee.....isliye life me jo hota h hone do kuch hona bhi jaruri h tbhi insan. Badal jata h nd kisi ke jane se koi n rukta h wakt ke sath sab badal jata ..bcoz experience bhi utne mil jate h ...❤️ab me khush hu apne life me ..
जब प्यार गहराई से होता है तो सालों बाद प्यार ख़त्म नहीं होता है बल्क़ि बहुत ज़्यादा गहरा और एडिक्टसन जैसा हो जाता है। जिनको प्यार करके शादी करनी होती है वो इंतज़ार करते हैं, साथ देते हैं।
I had relationship of 8 years frm my schol lyf we faced many things together but bcoz of intercaste our family nt accepting our relation after 2-3 years of struggle then we get married by own now everything is normal everyone accepted we r back to after 2-3 months having my dream lyf ♥️♥️
Mere sath bhi yhi 8 sal ho gye but sadi k liye papa ni maan rhe ladki bhi same caste ki hai bas bat yhi hai ki mere aur ladki ki family me banati ni hai
India me parents hi bachcho ko le dubte hain. Isliye ek waqt k baad relatives se doori bna leni chahiye. Aur ye tabhi ho sakta h jab aap sirf apne career and stability par focus karein.
Agreed, mere case me bhi aisa hi hai. Mai aur mere husband self dependent hai aur hame kisi ke support ki zarurat nahi. Alag rehte hai aur achhe se jite hai.
True but how many ppl follow this. Haven't seen who like the family of the spouse. Still many girls try to compromise but many girls cross their limits upto extreme to insult and torture both the spouse n his family members. Don't know whats rt?
Actually that used to be true but that's changing now a days... since couples are living in metros for the jobs... nuclear families... the interaction with family is becoming less and less...
Sahi baat bhaiya mene b apse baat ki thi, m mene b love marriage ki, or shaadi k ekk saal baad hi usne affair rakhliya tha, itna disturbance hua, vo chor k chala gya , fir usne dusri shaadi karli dusri
Sbse buri hai love marriage meri hui hai aab roo rahi hu kbi kisi PE trst nai krna chahiye agr koi bolta hai ki mai maar jau ga apke bina nai reh skta bo bs kehne k liye hota hai ki nai reh skte shadi baad bo apko nai sambale ga Love marriage sbse bdi glti hai😢😢😢😢😢
1.jab tak aap bhav nai dete ho tab tak he aage piche ghumte hai ladka, ek baar aap committed ho jao us k baad bhav kam ho jata hai 2. Self respect is must thodi bahut sunne ki bhi zarurat nai hai 4. Arrange ho ya love shadi k baad sab change ho jata hai chahe kitna bhi waqt de do 5.independence is must 6.pyar mein koi compromise nai hota , sab flow k saath ho jata hai
It is NOT necessary that LOVE marriage is the best thing in the world. There are arranged marriages too which have been perfect for both but it is a taboo that people are biased about categories of marriages.
*जो भी इस वक्त मेरा कमेंट पढ़ रहा/ रही है हम सब एक दूसरे से अनजान है पर फिर भी मैं भगवान से प्रार्थना 🙏करती हूं कि अभी आपकी लाइफ में कोई भी टेंशन चल रही है तो वह दूर हो जाए" आप हमेशा खुश रहे"🤗🤗😍😍🥰😘😘😘😘😘😘*
@Shipra Saxena mil jata h aise insaan ko easly tabhi to wo chhor jaate hn hme rota bilakhta hua hm rote hn gidgidaate hn fir v fark nhi padta h us insaan ko
धन्यवाद बाबा जी आपने मेरे मम्मी पापा को मेरी लव मैरिज के लिए तैयार किया आपका एहसान में कभी नहीं भूल पाऊंगी आपकी वजह से ही मेरा वैवाहिक जीवन अच्छा चल रहा है बाबा जी को कोटि कोटि प्रणाम🎉🎉
I completely agree with your words . Maximum baate hmse relate hoti h. Lekin mere case me 5 -6 saall ek healthy relationship me rhne ke baad bhi , ek dusre ko Har tarh se Janne samjhne ke baad bhi ... my partner said that she fall in love with other person whom she know only for 2 months and left me in a moment and broke my heart and trust. I asked why ?she told me that she always wanted a much taller bf and so she found that person so now I have to leave her ... Was that years of love with me was a joke and only timepass? I till now can't able to understand how a person left someone after so many years of having intense love and understanding. Akhir itna saal ke relation pr bhi agar trust loyalty maintain nhi ho skti to phir kb insan kisi pr trust kre. Ek pal me insan itna badal jata hai selfish ho jata h . Till now I am not able to forget her but she forgotten me . True love exists but only form one side in maximum relations that is why maximum relation finish badly..... Kya sir ap koi tarika Bata skte hai kisi pr kb trust kiya ja ske ???
It means my love is perfect for me... your all things positively in between us ...now I am going to marry with my love he is perfectly positively match with your points... thanks for this video ... please pray for us 🙏♥️
Mne love or arrange dono marriage dkhi h.. kai pe love successful h kai pe arrange or kai kai dono Me he bht jda gnde jhgde hte dkhe h...it's all about understanding sacrifice commitment n adjustments n nobody wants to engage themselves with all these things ..this is d truth of today's world nothing else
Sir mujhe pehle laga ki aap love marriage critic ho.....main aapki baat se ekdam sehmat hu. Aisa badhiya content har jagah nahi milta...bahut acha laga mujhe
Very Nice my dear brother, I agree with your all points in this videos...here you help the people to take themselves decision on surface level, neither on illusion or intense emotions..🙏
Love marriage mei b muh khol ke dowry maangi jati hai.....aur shakal body dekh ke lust hota hai bas kuch din kaa... Ye kaunsa pyar hua.... Sahi baat h..
Relationship succeeded when both has fear of losing each other, Once fear gone love vanish and Relationship becomes toxic and ends, Please don't play with innocent heart just for fun love people use things...❤❤
I m also in relationship and we are going to married soon and I can say that love Exists we r so loyal to each other and he is very caring nd protective
Love marriage ho ya arrange marriage dono ka smjhdar hona jaruri hai aajkal log love marriage karke bhi apne partner ko dhokha dete hai aur arrange marriage me bhi yahi hota hai , isliye love ho ya arrange marriage insaan ko pahnchan kar shaadi karo
Bro I don’t want to u face my sentence in future but one day u realised you destroyed your life for them who don’t care your life… it’s very painful and sorrow thing but it’s true. Man…
@@happybirthday9652 to wolog kya insan nai hain? Jab tak youth hai tb tk showbiz career hai ur sath me other entertainments mgr 45-50 age k bd logo ko asli companionship ka pata chalta hai isliye celebrities shadi krte hain
This types of videos should be viral, because nowadays mostly we can see child marriage influencer in our country.Entire life is infront of them but they want to do marriage and put a full stop in their life. Sir ,your lines are absolutely correct,I agree with you.
Sir aapne bhut he shi baat bole h q ki bina parents k support k saadi nhi karni chahiye love marrige to aur nhi q ki usme dhokhe k alawa kuch aur mil v nhi sakta aaj kl ki larki ho ya larka apne parents ko dhokha dene m koi kasar nhi chorte h
Sir रिश्तों की इतनी अच्छी समझ रिस्तेदार भी नही दे पाते जितने अच्छे से आपने कुछ समय के वीडियो में ही समझा दिया,प्लीज पति पत्नी के रिश्तों को मजबूत करने के लिए भी कोई वीडियो बनाये,
Aapki baaton me logic hai sir. Pyar k saath uski pariksha v hoti h jo saath ni de skte aise logo k saath rehna v ni chaiyye. Chahe shadi se phle ho ya shadi k baad ❤️
@Barun Kalet tumne sbko dekha h kya. Kr leti ka kya mtlb h. Tumhari himmat kaisi hui ye bolne ki kis adhikar se bol rhe. Tum mere kuch lgte ho kya jo yeha hagne chle aaye. Aur ha sb girls m apni behan ko v shamil kr do fir. Wo v krti hogi sb
@Barun Kalet apna ganda muh aur soch apne ghar p dikhao. Yeha tum jaiso ki zarurat ni. Aur ha tum ladke hi sb krwate ho tbhi koi ladki aage badhti h tumpr vishwas kr k. Tum ladke muh marne k liye pehle aate ho. Smjhe
Very true 👍 Understanding is very much required in marriage & both should have tolerance to each other. Because No one is 100% perfect in life because we are human beings.. Thanks for your vdo for young generations those who are thinking now a days money is everything in life. But it is true for some % age. Other things are also required in life to be happy in life. I don't think people could be 100% happy in life.. some shortfall surely will be there in life.. With warm regards. Kolkata..😊🙏
Someone asked me : Love marriage or arrange marriage My answer : No marriage....akailai rho kush rho ...life ko explore kro ....ma pa ko kush rakho ...😊
Sir apki baat sunkr mujhe bht guilty feel ho rha h , main bhi apne partner ko aisa bolkr hurt kr deti hu ki apko mujhse better ni milegi nd i'm so sorry for that ab main apna ye attitude jrur change krungi ........apke vedio s mujhe ye smjh a gya h he is best for me ❤️ isse achaa insaan mere parent bhi ni dhoond skte koi bina vjh itne tantrums ni jhelta kisi ldki k nd wo hmesha support krte h mujhe . Thnk u so much sir apne mujhe meri glti realise kra di ❤️💜
पहली बात शादी करो ही मत अकेले रहने का सबसे बड़ा एक फायदा ना कोई साथ छोड़ कर जा पाएगा ना कोई दिल तोड़ कर जा पाएगा ना किसी को खोने का डर ना किसी के लिए रोने का डर न किसी की याद आएगी और ना कभी जान जाएगी
Agar aap khud se khush nahi ho to koi bhi aapko khush nahi rakh sakta. Partner vo hota hai jo aapko pita ka tarah protect kare, dost ki Tarah aapki pareshani share karle khud se, dukh sukh ka partner ho, aur ego Hurt na kare... aur sabse zada zaruri, aapko unse expectations nahi honi chahiye, sirf aapko apni Taraf se Pura pyaar karna hai. Tab relationship acchi chalti hai🙂
Humne to ye sb bhi kr liya.mgr aaj bhi kbhi gussa ho jau..to 4-4 din bat he ni krti..kehna he nhi manti..jbki mostly m gussa tb krta hu jab wo apni galti ki wajh s apna nukssn krwa leto h.otherwise meko mera nhi hota..har bat ko ulta le jati..usko pyar s smjhau to smjhti nhi..fir jb gussa kro to kehti h sunaa diya..end mai mujhe he mnana pdta h.glti meri ho ya na ho..khud mhino gussa reh legi..mai ek din bhi gussa reh lu to ulta gussa hoke muh fula leti h.ye nhi smjhti ki samne wala insan h..agr mene uske liye apne shok apni kuch cheejay jo meko bhut psnd thi wo chori h to use bhi chorni chahiye...bas meri kmjori ye hai ki mai dil ka saaf hu..gusse m bhi uska bura ni sochta..pyar krta hu..but dar h akhir kb tk seh pauga...2.5 saal ho gye h..thk h usne bhi bhut kuch kiya mere liye..but compromise ek time tk kiye uske bad fir s pehle jesa ho gya h sb..ldaiya bad gyi h..ek ldka hoke bhi mene use kbhi ye nhi kha ki call kr ya video call kr..na mene aaj tk usko call ki..kyuki usne mna kiya tha..hmari sirf chats hoti h...long distance h..itne saal m mushkil s 50 bar call pe bat ki hogi or itni he bar video call..or kese support kre ek ldka?? Usko koi risk na ho is liye ghnto intejar kr leta hu..fir bhi..kbhi gussa kr lu to sb kiye kraye pe paani..ab btao kya kiya jaaye?..sirf 2 bar mile h..wo bhi itni dur..sirf 5 ghnte ki mulaqat..or kitna support kre ek ldka?..kbhi kbhi dil krta h give up kr du..fir yad aata h ki nhi..usne kha tha meko kisi hall m chorke na jana..bs uska wo request samne a jati h.apna gussa bhul jata h..jb tk wo naraj rehti h.likhta rehta hu..shikayat nhi us s bs kbhi kbhi hurt hota he h
@@maahi3644 @Usless agar vo ladki tume apna time deti h... Efforts deti h... Or tume smjhti hai... Tumare sath thoda compromise kr skti hai... To vo theek partner h tumare liye... Dekho gussa ata h sab ko lekin agar vo bina baat ke gussa karti hai or zyada hi karti hai to usse is issue pe baat karo... Use smjhao ki tume kitna bura lagta h jab ye sab hota hai... usse pucho ki itna gussa kis reason se hai. Agr vo tumse kai kai din baat nhi karti h or ladai hone pr kabhi tume manaya bhi nhi... Or tumari kisi b baat ko zyada importance nhi deti h vo toh...may be vo puri tarah se committed na ho.... Usse khul ke baat karo jo bhi issues lagte hai...or clearly pucho ki puri tarah se committed hai bhi ya nhi. Qki ase relationship kheechne se koi fayda nhi agar efforts one sided ho toh.
I strongly claim all positive energy's and advice from this beautiful video for my beautiful life... Thank you universe💋 thank you destiny💋 thank you guru Ji💋 thank you brother💋
Now a days relationship are very fragile. People got confused love with other feelings like excitement or something. It's hard to find true love and accept one the way it is.
Mai bhi loue marriage karke 10 saal se roti hu kya karu samjh nahi aati meri nanad hasband bhi prasan karta hai hamesha dusri shadi karne ki baat krta hai
I have seen a lot of examples like this Love marriage is a charm at early stages But later life will be normal... Kesi kesi love marriages baad mai jagde par utar jati hai I have personally seen this in my neighborhood.. Ya to ek partner ko jhukna padega calm hona padega Tb esse relation chalte hai Jisme dusre ko jhukna padta hai
@@deven2849 bhai mere nazar me arrange marriage se bada scam koi ni. Socho zara. Do logo ko life bitana hai aur koi teesra tay krta hai do min ki baat cheet se. Aas pados wale keh denge bahut acha ladka/ ladki hai. Bus shaadi pakki
@@maishayartonahigalat bola yaha par, arrange marriage ho ya love marriage isse koi fark nhi padta.....sabse badi problem us insaan ka ego hota hai, jab koi jhukne ko tyar nhi hota aur apne ap ko best sabit karne ka competition chalta ho tab ye problem aati hai
Yes sir aapka her ak point sahi hai.mein v apne husband se 5 year baat kare. or mein apna study or wo v army officer banne k baad sadi kr liye.ab life happy hein
Sir Aapka 4th point to arrange marriage me bhi applicable hai. Mai love marriage ko support karti hu kyuki arrange marriage ke side effects aajkal ke time me zyada hai. Bina kisi ko jane samjhe family pressure me shaadi karna koi akalmandi nahi hai kyuki aajkal fraud cases bahut ho rahe hai. Dikhate kuch hai, nikalta kuch aur hai.
Yeah exactly...galat insaan love arrange kisi me bhi nikal sakta..it's about individual personality..nothin is granted that this works or dat..even in arrange marriage people who r actually not happy are just running the shadi cz family ne karai h n all..ND pura Jeevan na khush rhke nikal jata..which might be possible in love too but people in love are more upfront n walk out
Your work is really top-class sir.I would like to throw some light on my opinions. It's never about Love marriage or arranged marriage sir, It's about being mindful & be able to know the kind of person. So, overall it's not about marriage. It's about the person you are going to marry!
Sir I openly admit that in my relationship I AM the kind of person who blocks him frequently , and its true that I hardly apologise , and yes I sometimes tell him that he is nothing without me. I can justify above things by examples and reasoning it , but I won't because , now I realise that what HE goes through. I actually never looked at these situations from his point of view . I do love him , but , sometimes when i get insecure I act irrationally and immaturely. thank you for this eye-opening video.🙏
Most women act immaturely and irrationally without seeing things from men’s viewpoint. They quickly judge and shame them. Most women lack accountability.
Bhaiya ek chiz aur bhi add kariye Jo log pehle s kisi rishte mein hote hue bhi doosre logon ke saath flirt karte hain ya unme interest rakhte hain aise log bhi kabhi unse pyaar nahi karte
Aapki baate dil Chu gayi sir ❤... Maine bhi usko chor diya , kyoki wo hame lekr aage peeche ho rahi thi aur teesra ka enter ho gaya tha .....aur to aur uska behaviour bhi change ho gaya mere prati ....isiliye maine bhi usko chor diya ab ....
Aager aapki life mai koi problem h to aap mere ko bol sakte ho mai aapki pore dil se help karu gey mera naam muskaan h mai eek professional relationship advisor hu
Meri graduation complete ho gayi hai hamara 4 saal ka relation hai woh matriculation Tak padhe hai aur woh bhi business kar rahe hai ,hum dono saath main bahut khus hai unke family main sab Raji hai hamare relation ko lekar but meri family nahi janti hai mujhe ab kaise parents ko manana chahiye plz batayenge?
Mere v love marriage h sadi k 9 sal bad i want devorce just boz usne kabi muje pyar hi nhi kiya kadar hi nhi ki or ab jaan se marne ki koshes ki 😔 love is nothing
Yrr eek din sb theek ho jayega aager tumhare life me koi problem h to tum mere ko bata sakte ho mai tumhari help karu gey mai eek professional relationship advisor hu aager aapko kuch batana h ya jaanna h to aap aap aapni telegram I'd de sakte ho mai aapki help karu gey
मेरी मां बचपन मे खत्म हूं गई थी और कुछ समय बाद पापा ने भी साथ छोड़ दिया ।मेरी परवरिश मेरे दादा जी ने की ओर 21 की age मे मुझे एक लड़की से प्यार हुआ और आज चार साल बाद दादा जी के आशीर्वाद से हम दोनो शादी कर रहे है। मुझे क्या चाहिए ये मेरे दादा जी बहुत अच्छे से जानते है और दादा जी ने मेरी बचपन से हर एक ख्वाशिस पूरी करी है। दादा जी मेरे लिए मेरे परमपिता परमेश्वर हैं 🙏🙏🙏🙏
नसीब लगता है मेरे भाई
मेरे भाई तेरे को भगवान हर मनोकामना पुर्ण
Apka name Ashish Mishra hai kya
Caste problem नहीं हुयी??? बड़े बुजुर्ग तो और ज्यादा मानते हैं उच नीच.
Love हो या Arrange पार्टनर समझदार होना चाहिए तभी रिश्ते दूर तक चलता है
पर Arrange marriage में पता कैसे चले कि सामने वाला कैसा हैं?
@@pallavigupta2934parents yhi cheez nhi samjte
Right 100%
Ryt
Marriage mein sabse jayada paisa kaam ata hai agar apke pass paisa hai toh sab set hai
Mai 13 saal apne relation ko di hu aur hmdono ek dusre se bahut pyar krte hain but humare sath problem ye hai ki humdono me se koi independent nhi hain😔😭 mere boyfrnd ka job hi nahi ho raha bahut bad luck hain hum dono😔😭plz pray for us🙏🙏 unka job ho jaay jaldi sa aur humlog happily married kar le plz pray for me🙏🙏
Jis insan k pass job nhi h usko sadi nhi krni chahiye kya kr lo sadi kismat m hogi to bad m job mil jaegi mujhe 8 sal bad mili job
Same problem yrr meri bhi hai 🥺but mujhe believe hai wo bahut hardworking person hai aur loyal bhi ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Bura mat manna ...tumhara kesa pyar hai 13 saal tak baat hi ki kya bas
Aapne goal pr bhi focus Kiya hota ...1 baar fail hote 2 baar 3 baar last me job mil hi jati ....
13 saal aise hi kaat diye tum bevkuf ho apna future nahi dikhaai diya
@@JaatJaat-ps4es parents kvi ready nhi honge bina job k kon apne bacche ka shadi krwaynge.??
@@riyajangid7614 aap apne jagah pr bilkul sahi ho but hum sirf baat nhi Kiye, ye upsc hai behan achhe achhe ki wat lg jati hum kya chiz h...
love marriage with family support
is the best feeling in the world❤❤
My family supported me blindly while they know what will be the repercussions and this is karma what I'm going through I didn't obey my parents during that time i didn't hear them out.
Yess lekin family ka support nahi milta haii 🥺
Ager Dono sadi krna chahye or bich m cast aa jatti h or ghr vle cast ki vjh se mna kr date h sadi ko to kya krna chahiye
@@babygoldy1450 Hnji Jiske sath hm khush h uske sath ghr vle khush ni h
@@babygoldy1450 kalpnik bate nhi aisa sirf lucky logo k nashib hota h.
किसी ने ठीक ही कहा है कि बात अगर इज्जत पर आ जाए तो मोहब्बत को भी छोड़ देना चाहिए...
@@jyotiupadhyay5516 मान लीजिए कि आप किसी को चाहती हैं, और भगवान ना करे कि आगे चलकर आपको ये लगे कि वो इंसान आपकी कदर ही नहीं करता है, बात बात पर केवल आपको ही गलत करार देता है, तो ऐसे में क्या ये आपकी गलती होगी कि आप उस इंसान को पहले समझ नहीं पाए? कभी कभी धोखा भी तो हो जाता है किसी को समझने में... क्या इस वजह से आप सारी जिंदगी घुट घुटकर काटेंगे???
@Piyush Somani: Agreed... Self Respect is everything!!
True ..self respect is First
Ye sirf bolne ki bate hai, aisa Krna bahot kathin hai
Sahi baat hai Maine yahi kia
जब बात आत्मसम्मान पर आएगी तब जान से प्यारी चीज भी छोड़ दी जाएगी ....
Nhi😂😂😂 meri pyri chij pass h mere roz usse jalil hoti hu m... Ksm se....
😂😂😂😂@@payalrani3697
इंसान अच्छा हो तो लव मैरिज भी चलती इंसान अच्छा ना हो तो अरेंज भी नहीं चलती
App ka toh pura sentence hi glt hai
सही लाइन ये है " इंसान अच्छा हो तो अरेंज मैरिज भी चलती है अगर इंसान ही अच्छा ना हो तो लव मैरिज कर के भी लोग रोते है "
@@Muskanchaturvedi921 I think he is right...kyuki hamari society yahi sochti ki love marriage hamesha fail hi hote hain
@@stutysuman8188 kisko app right bol rhe ho " mujhe ya jispe mai comment ki use ????
Galt hai insaan ki kismat hoti hai achhe insaan ziyaada barbad hotey hai
@~Radhey Mohan motivational ~ yaa
Beshak maut aa jaye lekin kisi pe dil n aaye ☹️❤️
I totally agree 💯👍
Bilkul
Right 💔😭
Agree with you
@@Sakura.haruno12.2 😞
Love marriage with family support is the best feeling in the world
I completely agree with this point that every person should get married only after becoming independent.👍👍
Dixit ji , absolutely right
I am with you girl
Exactly
@@happybirthday9652 apko bishwas nhi hoga mere ex ne kaha tha mujhse shadi krni h to 30 lakh se jda dowry lenge mere papa tumre de pynge kya ...tumra ghr chota h .....tumri padhai bhi khs nhi h
Agar aj k time pr na to smart phone use hota, na he log WhatsApp,FB,ye sb use krte or na he love marriage ho pata, jiske wjh se aaj 90% log arrange marriage krte.
Sabse zaruri hai izzat... Self respect.. Jaha izzat na ho waha kabhi shadi na karna.....
Mene apke comment kai jgh dekhe
Bilkul sahi baat h
Bilkl shai par mai wo insan hu...jaha 1 rista me jamin se v niche girkar minate mangakr v rista chalna chaha par nho cah paya....bhag gaya bhahoda....parents ka nam dekar
True
sahi kha apne yehi masla.mre.sath ho rha he kya aap sister help krogi meri mujhe kuch smjh nahi aarha ky karu condition asi ho gayi
कौन कहता है कि मोहबत बर्बाद कर देती है निभाने वाला मिल ही जाये तो दुनिया याद करती है
Yeah.. Ekdm sach..
आपका पांचवा प्वाइंट बहुत अच्छा लगा ।
और जरूरी है पहले आर्थिक आत्मनिर्भरता।
विनती है लड़कियों और लड़कों से बिना आर्थिक रूप से मजबूत हुए शादी मत करना।
दिमाग आ जाता है शादी बाद लड़की और लड़कों में हकीकत दिखने लगती है... फिजिकल अट्रैक्शन और शारीरिक सुंदरता के कारण शादी कर लेते हैं और फिर पछतावा करते हैं।
Tum sahi bol raho jo hota h vo dikhayi kuch deta h
Sb ek jase ni hote ....nibhaane waale b h is duniya me...
Sahi kaha 😭😭😭😭
Very true
Shadi hi mat karo phir😂😂 ARRANGE MARRIAGE ME PUJA KARTE HAI KYA LADKA LADKI EK DUSRE KA
U r exactly right sir.... Specially for girls bina financially independent bne shadi mat krna..... Q ki kal agar pati ne chhor diya to bhik mangne ya galat kam krne ki naubat na aye...
Allah ka shukr hai meri love 😘 marriage hui thi 2018 mein aur abhi bhi hm dono bht achhe se rehte hain maasha Allah mere husband bht achhe Hain 😊 Allah hamare rishte ki hifazat kare aameen.
Han to phir aameen
Aameen
Bus aise hi always khushi khusi rahiye....we all pray for u nd all these love stories
God bless both of u❤❤
@@kanganajeswani2808 thanks for your precious wishes 😊
Mine was also a love marriage. I can say people don’t even understand love. It can turn into exploitative marriage. I am luckily divorced now. So don’t trust anyone who says they love you esp for girls.
Aapne bhi to kisi pr trust kiya na....Ab aap kisi or ko kitna bhi samjha lo....Wo nhi manege....Thokar lgne pr hi insaan samajhta hai...
@@anujdimple yes but no one shared their experience with me so I was not aware that such thing can also happen
@@khushbooraval5519 log jaanbhujakr share nhi krte h...Taki same mistakes sabhi kre....Aisa nhi h ki jwan hoti ldkiyo ko maa ya baap samajhte nhi hai...Ki follow celibacy.....Lekin group m sabhi ke affair ho rhe hote h to..... Pressure ki wjh se kafi ldkiya fas jati hai...Kisi ki frnd apne bf ke frnd se seting krwa deti hai...
@@khushbooraval5519 aap aware nhi the kuki aapne childhood se sharukh khan ki movies dekhi thi......Is bollywood ne jitna naash hmare smaj ka kiya h sayad hi kisi or ne kiya hoga
Apka baccha bhi h kya? Or parents apke support me the ki nhi
कोई भी हो चाहे arrange marriage ही क्यों ना हो, दूध से धुले हुए कोई नही है जी 😂😂😂
Sahi baat 😅😅
इंसान अच्छा होना चाहिए जो कि समय के साथ पता चलता है शादी से पहले सब अच्छे बने रहते है। समस्या ये है कि बाद में छोड़ने का विकल्प आम नही है नही तो जीवन और खुशहाल हो जाये भारत मे।
अनुभव जी आज आपकी एक गलतफहमी दूर कर देता हूं।
अधिकतर जिन लोगों को गुस्सा ज्यादा आता है वे लोग ज्यादा ईमानदार और दिल से साफ होते हैं। वरना अधिकतर बेईमान लोग अपने मुंह पर छल कपट वाली हंसी रखते हैं और दूसरे के कहने पर किसी तीसरे को नीचा दिखाते हैं कुछ चंद रुपयों और अपने कुछ फायदे के लिए।
Bilkul shi
I think i agree with u
Akdam sahi Kha bhai
Bilkul sahi kha aapne
Right
कभी तानों में कटेगी, कभी तारीफों में,
ये जिंदगी हैं यारों पल पल घटेगी.....
पाने को कुछ नहीं,
ले जाने को कुछ नहीं,
फिर भी क्यों चिंता करते हो इससे सिर्फ खूबसूरती घटेगी ये जिंदगी हैं यारों पल पल घटे
बार बार रफू करता रहता हूं जिंदगी की जेब,
कम्बख्त फिर भी निकल जाते हैं खुशियों के कुछ लम्हें...
में सारा झगड़ा ही ख्वाहिशों का हैं...
ना तो किसी को गम चाहिए, ना ही किसी को कम चाहिए.।
Kya baat khi h aapne❤❤
Gajab
Break up 🤘
Reason : she always told a lie .
In Begining i ignored
But after a year i broke up our relationship .
Loyal 💔Bht kaam hai nibhane walle
To love someone is easy .
But To trust someone is very difficult.
Apki sari batein sunkar ...I can actually feel ..
How lucky I'm to have a person .... I'm in relationship since 9 years ... And most probably next year we'll get married ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️.......
Congratulations 🎉...
Congratulations ❤
9 years bita diye aur abhi ek Saal aur nikalna hai. Kya aap dono asal mein shadi karoge?
Congratulations yr
@@humasaifi9997 yes definitely ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️n
And it'll also arrange with love marriage 🥰🥰🥰❣️
ज़ब ग़रीबी...
दरवाज़े से दस्तक देती है ना बच्चो..
Tb ❤️प्यार खिड़की से, निकल लेता है 👍
.. बाबा ईमान हाश्मी 🙏
Love marriage ka sabse bda drawback h parents man to jate he... But hmesha unsatisfied rhte he........ Support nhi krte
Aager aapki life mai koi problem h to aap mere ko bolo mai eek professional relationship advisor hu mai aapki help karu gey
@@muskanjatin7215 mam ek ladki pasand h but usko Puri tarah se kaise samjhu milna jhulna nhi hota h
Aur usko philophobia h
@@bhupendrarana7717 to tum usko visvas dialoo
doesn't matter in long term
To mat kare support 🧐🧐 tum parents ke dum pe jee rahe ho kya. Khud se kuch kar lo koi bhagwan nahi hai iss duniya me
Aadami khud se bhi jindgi jee sakta hai
Bhaiya mera bhi he seen n tha 8 sal se relationship me the ..bt ab uski shadi ho gyi h ...ha starting me thoda .muze bhi pain hua bt ab me move on kr liya h .apne kam pe focus h nd abhi aisi ladki mere life me he ki ..o muze har chiz me samj kr leti hee.....isliye life me jo hota h hone do kuch hona bhi jaruri h tbhi insan. Badal jata h nd kisi ke jane se koi n rukta h wakt ke sath sab badal jata ..bcoz experience bhi utne mil jate h ...❤️ab me khush hu apne life me ..
Bakkt akk aisa" हथियार " hai Jo gahra se gahra kuchh jakham bhar deta hai.🙇♀️.....
जब प्यार गहराई से होता है तो सालों बाद प्यार ख़त्म नहीं होता है बल्क़ि बहुत ज़्यादा गहरा और एडिक्टसन जैसा हो जाता है।
जिनको प्यार करके शादी करनी होती है वो इंतज़ार करते हैं, साथ देते हैं।
Sahi h
Mujhe pareshani bahut hai
@@amitdaga5952 konshi paresani h
@@savitavishwakarma3777 koi kaam nhi bnta h life partner chahiye
Hazaro logo se baat krke lakho logo ki jindagi safe krne wali baat khi aapne sir..... Thanks for your valuable knowledge 🙏🙏😊
God bless you :)
Such kha Anup. Thanks anubhav bhaiya💯❤
I had relationship of 8 years frm my schol lyf we faced many things together but bcoz of intercaste our family nt accepting our relation after 2-3 years of struggle then we get married by own now everything is normal everyone accepted we r back to after 2-3 months having my dream lyf ♥️♥️
Mashaallah ❤️
Oho Congratulations 🎉❤️
Mashallah
Mere sath bhi yhi 8 sal ho gye but sadi k liye papa ni maan rhe ladki bhi same caste ki hai bas bat yhi hai ki mere aur ladki ki family me banati ni hai
@@sumitchauhan7745 Bihari Ho na
If wealth gone nothing gone ,if health gone something gone, but if character gone everything gone
Love marriage with faimly support is the best feelings in world
India me parents hi bachcho ko le dubte hain. Isliye ek waqt k baad relatives se doori bna leni chahiye. Aur ye tabhi ho sakta h jab aap sirf apne career and stability par focus karein.
Correct
Yes
Agreed, mere case me bhi aisa hi hai. Mai aur mere husband self dependent hai aur hame kisi ke support ki zarurat nahi. Alag rehte hai aur achhe se jite hai.
@@rims1104 yes
No nonsense
I read a quote once and i think it fits perfectly
"You don't just marry a person you marry a family"
That line was used in the novel “Two States" by Chetan Bhagat.
@@babygoldy1450 bikl shi
Arey bap re pure family se sadi hogi toh khrcha kaise chlega
True but how many ppl follow this. Haven't seen who like the family of the spouse. Still many girls try to compromise but many girls cross their limits upto extreme to insult and torture both the spouse n his family members. Don't know whats rt?
Actually that used to be true but that's changing now a days... since couples are living in metros for the jobs... nuclear families... the interaction with family is becoming less and less...
Sahi baat bhaiya mene b apse baat ki thi, m mene b love marriage ki, or shaadi k ekk saal baad hi usne affair rakhliya tha, itna disturbance hua, vo chor k chala gya , fir usne dusri shaadi karli dusri
Jo tmhe set kr skta h....Wo kisi or ko bhi set kr skta hai....Agar samne se line milegi to wo jayega hi jayega...
Aese hrami ka bhagwaan bura kre bholenath aur apko nyay mile
To ab ap kaha rahete ho
@Happy 😀 🌍 World ky meaning h pura smj ni aaya i am hindi medium hu
@Happy 😀 🌍 World Bilkul shi kha apne thanku so much
Sbse buri hai love marriage meri hui hai aab roo rahi hu kbi kisi PE trst nai krna chahiye agr koi bolta hai ki mai maar jau ga apke bina nai reh skta bo bs kehne k liye hota hai ki nai reh skte shadi baad bo apko nai sambale ga
Love marriage sbse bdi glti hai😢😢😢😢😢
Tujhe kisne bola muh maarne ko 😂😂😂😂😂😂
jab kismat khrb hoti h na tbb kya love or kya arrange
Wah kya bt kah di aapne
@@studytime4032 hai na shhi baat
@@ektashrivatava9697 hai jiski kismat hi kharab h usko mil k v kho jata h
Sadi ek juwa ki trh h chahe lv ho ya arrenge
@@rohitrawani5952 bhut achhi baat boli apne jisme girls jo jda suffer krna pdta hai
1.jab tak aap bhav nai dete ho tab tak he aage piche ghumte hai ladka, ek baar aap committed ho jao us k baad bhav kam ho jata hai 2. Self respect is must thodi bahut sunne ki bhi zarurat nai hai 4. Arrange ho ya love shadi k baad sab change ho jata hai chahe kitna bhi waqt de do 5.independence is must 6.pyar mein koi compromise nai hota , sab flow k saath ho jata hai
It is NOT necessary that LOVE marriage is the best thing in the world. There are arranged marriages too which have been perfect for both but it is a taboo that people are biased about categories of marriages.
Yes sir understanding nd maturity is most important in marriage
*जो भी इस वक्त मेरा कमेंट पढ़ रहा/ रही है हम सब एक दूसरे से अनजान है पर फिर भी मैं भगवान से प्रार्थना 🙏करती हूं कि अभी आपकी लाइफ में कोई भी टेंशन चल रही है तो वह दूर हो जाए" आप हमेशा खुश रहे"🤗🤗😍😍🥰😘😘😘😘😘😘*
Meri to zindagi hi barbaad ho gayi bht bada dhokha mila h mujhe jise mai zindagi bhar nhi bhula sakti😭😭😭
I wish the same for you ❤️❤️
Thanks you very much
@Shipra Saxena pyar me dhokha sister😭😭😭😭
@Shipra Saxena mil jata h aise insaan ko easly tabhi to wo chhor jaate hn hme rota bilakhta hua hm rote hn gidgidaate hn fir v fark nhi padta h us insaan ko
धन्यवाद बाबा जी आपने मेरे मम्मी पापा को मेरी लव मैरिज के लिए तैयार किया आपका एहसान में कभी नहीं भूल पाऊंगी आपकी वजह से ही मेरा वैवाहिक जीवन अच्छा चल रहा है बाबा जी को कोटि कोटि प्रणाम🎉🎉
I completely agree with your words . Maximum baate hmse relate hoti h.
Lekin mere case me 5 -6 saall ek healthy relationship me rhne ke baad bhi , ek dusre ko Har tarh se Janne samjhne ke baad bhi ... my partner said that she fall in love with other person whom she know only for 2 months and left me in a moment and broke my heart and trust.
I asked why ?she told me that she always wanted a much taller bf and so she found that person so now I have to leave her ...
Was that years of love with me was a joke and only timepass?
I till now can't able to understand how a person left someone after so many years of having intense love and understanding.
Akhir itna saal ke relation pr bhi agar trust loyalty maintain nhi ho skti to phir kb insan kisi pr trust kre.
Ek pal me insan itna badal jata hai selfish ho jata h .
Till now I am not able to forget her but she forgotten me .
True love exists but only form one side in maximum relations that is why maximum relation finish badly.....
Kya sir ap koi tarika Bata skte hai kisi pr kb trust kiya ja ske ???
timepass aapka kt chuka h
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She wanted a taller bf
Had h duniya m
@@SonuKumar-tc5xo 🤣🤣
@@cerberus9612 🤣🤣
Bhaai aise topics love marriage pe laatey rahiye...it really helps.. aise koi nahi bataata jaise aap bataate ho...
@@Choudhary-o6r sabko ja kr puchte raho ,khi koi ha bol de ,waise kehna kya chahte ho
Right.....frist priority is always career....✨✨
Ok I am your waiting
It means my love is perfect for me... your all things positively in between us ...now I am going to marry with my love he is perfectly positively match with your points... thanks for this video ... please pray for us 🙏♥️
Mne love or arrange dono marriage dkhi h.. kai pe love successful h kai pe arrange or kai kai dono Me he bht jda gnde jhgde hte dkhe h...it's all about understanding sacrifice commitment n adjustments n nobody wants to engage themselves with all these things ..this is d truth of today's world nothing else
Sir mujhe pehle laga ki aap love marriage critic ho.....main aapki baat se ekdam sehmat hu. Aisa badhiya content har jagah nahi milta...bahut acha laga mujhe
Sir am 28year unmarried person and i saved to your pricious advice i always remember in my future life 🙏
Bhai guruji ko call krle. Guruji apki life bna denge 🤣
Aisa nhi hota. Adjustment dono TRF se hone chahiye
Very Nice my dear brother, I agree with your all points in this videos...here you help the people to take themselves decision on surface level, neither on illusion or intense emotions..🙏
बस सब करो लेकिन प्यार मत करो करो तो अपनी बिरादरी में प्यार करो ताकी कुछ प्रॉब्लम हो तो सॉल्व जल्दी हो जाये 👍👍👍
Jaruri nhi h k biradri m hi pyarr hoga pyar to kisi s bhi ho sakta h aap esa kese bol sakte h inshaan pyar biradri dekhker kerta h kya
@@Musali-t8y cast m shadi krna muje nhi lgta sahi...... Baki mann hai apne vichar hain sbke..
Pyar kbi soch smj ke ni hota agr soch smj ke pyr hota h to pyr swarth ha
Sahi kaha pyar soch samajh ke nahi hota isiliye pyar or Sadi dono alag chij hai pyar Bina soche karo but Sadi soch ke karo
Understanding+ Maturity = ANUBHAV
Love marriage mei b muh khol ke dowry maangi jati hai.....aur shakal body dekh ke lust hota hai bas kuch din kaa... Ye kaunsa pyar hua.... Sahi baat h..
I hate these types of people 😖😖😖
Jb dhej hi mang lia to love ksa
Relationship succeeded when both has fear of losing each other, Once fear gone love vanish and Relationship becomes toxic and ends,
Please don't play with innocent heart just for fun love people use things...❤❤
I m also in relationship and we are going to married soon and I can say that love Exists we r so loyal to each other and he is very caring nd protective
Pyaar mohabbat faltu h sb
Tere saath v whi hoga .
Kr le avi shadi
@@divyaprakash4573 jo jsa bolta usky sath wsa hi hota h
@@chitrasingh8724 Aisa nhi hota hai bolte rho tum jitna bolna hai.
2 saal baad break up krk ghr chle jaana phir yha comment krna
@@chitrasingh8724 1-2 bchhe v krwa lena tbtk ,usk baad wo puchhega v nhi
Sadi hi nhi karni chahiye 😢. Batchelor life is best single raho khus raho 🥲
Sahi boli par 50 saal bad marna bhi Hoga nahi to kaise jiyoge Akele ho jaoge sab dhost apna life me busy ho jayega
Sahi hai
Love marriage ho ya arrange marriage dono ka smjhdar hona jaruri hai aajkal log love marriage karke bhi apne partner ko dhokha dete hai aur arrange marriage me bhi yahi hota hai , isliye love ho ya arrange marriage insaan ko pahnchan kar shaadi karo
Pro tip :- don't marry anyone....care parents.stay single die single 🙃 tension, stress free life...
Bro I don’t want to u face my sentence in future but one day u realised you destroyed your life for them who don’t care your life… it’s very painful and sorrow thing but it’s true. Man…
You think it's easy?
Kuch bhi??
Kya fayda😂
@@saisaketh8433 prostitusion,ye podoa ki bhade..... Plbm solved.
Jo log chhod k chale jate hain, saath chhod dete hain unka hi sab acha hota hai... Baaki dusre ko sab dukh milta hai...
Ri8 👍
Esa kuch nai h jo chodhkar chale jate h anee wale waqt par unhe bi koi chodkr jata h vo bi rote h yahi life circle h jesa kroge wesa paoge
@@soniyashah1076 asa kuch nhi hota
@@jaatkhaap1687 lagta h apke sat bi bhot bada dhoka hua h par vishvas to rkho kyuki vishvas par hi duniya tiki hui h
@@soniyashah1076 hua to tha but shrab pikr depression se nikal gya
Biggest fraud in the world is relationships 😂😂😂
Marriage is a trap
I feel that marriages should be abolished from the world.
Yes...gone are those days when people used to marry.
😂😂
@@happybirthday9652 to wolog kya insan nai hain?
Jab tak youth hai tb tk showbiz career hai ur sath me other entertainments mgr 45-50 age k bd logo ko asli companionship ka pata chalta hai isliye celebrities shadi krte hain
😂😂😂
Bro bro🤣🤣
Love ho ya arrange .dono hi dangerous h, bs ek sahi life partner hona chahiye ya toh single raho no shadi
Right 💯💯
Bina Settle huwe kabhi shadi nhi karni chahiye, chahe woh love marriage ho ya Arrenge marriage ho
Tuch wood hamari love marriage hai hamdono ki soch bhi milti hai aur mere husband bhut achhe inshan hai
Ye sab problems sirf love marriage main nahi same to same arrange marriage main bhi hote hain
Arraing marriage m ghar wale sath dete h or love marriage m wo bi sath chod dete h
शादी उनसें मत कीजिएं कि जिनकें बगैर आप एक पल भी नहीं रह सकतें,
बल्कि उनसें कीजिए जिसकें साथ आप अपनें जीवन का हर एक पल खुशी खुशी गुज़ार सकतें हैं।।
This types of videos should be viral, because nowadays mostly we can see child marriage influencer in our country.Entire life is infront of them but they want to do marriage and put a full stop in their life. Sir ,your lines are absolutely correct,I agree with you.
I am 25 years old and proud to be unmarried and single . I want discover life more and more focused on carrier
Absolutely right
Seriously sir yh bht valuable point h jo apne share kie h life saving points h ❤️🙏 independent hona bht zaruri h
@@happybirthday9652 🤗🙏
Agar Insan Achcha ho to love marriage chalta hai Nahin to arrange marriage bhi nahin chalta😘😘🙏🇮🇳❤
Ikdam sahi baat hai ♥️ Ek baar Kisi Ko hasil krne ke baad har ladka badal jata hai chahe wo love marriage ho ya arranged marriage
दिमाग आ जाता है शादी बाद लड़कों में हकीकत दिखने लगती है... फिजिकल अट्रैक्शन और शारीरिक सुंदरता के कारण शादी कर लेते हैं और फिर पछतावा करते हैं।
Its not you ,its biology read that book ,you understand where is the problem
@@SachinTamrakar-um9fh eddam sahi bol rahe ho aap eddam truth
Totally agree with you sir whatever points you have said. Thank you so much for giving amazing tips.
Sir aapne bhut he shi baat bole h q ki bina parents k support k saadi nhi karni chahiye love marrige to aur nhi q ki usme dhokhe k alawa kuch aur mil v nhi sakta aaj kl ki larki ho ya larka apne parents ko dhokha dene m koi kasar nhi chorte h
Sir रिश्तों की इतनी अच्छी समझ रिस्तेदार भी नही दे पाते जितने अच्छे से आपने कुछ समय के वीडियो में ही समझा दिया,प्लीज पति पत्नी के रिश्तों को मजबूत करने के लिए भी कोई वीडियो बनाये,
Aapki baaton me logic hai sir. Pyar k saath uski pariksha v hoti h jo saath ni de skte aise logo k saath rehna v ni chaiyye. Chahe shadi se phle ho ya shadi k baad ❤️
@Barun Kalet tumne sbko dekha h kya. Kr leti ka kya mtlb h. Tumhari himmat kaisi hui ye bolne ki kis adhikar se bol rhe. Tum mere kuch lgte ho kya jo yeha hagne chle aaye. Aur ha sb girls m apni behan ko v shamil kr do fir. Wo v krti hogi sb
@Barun Kalet apna ganda muh aur soch apne ghar p dikhao. Yeha tum jaiso ki zarurat ni. Aur ha tum ladke hi sb krwate ho tbhi koi ladki aage badhti h tumpr vishwas kr k. Tum ladke muh marne k liye pehle aate ho. Smjhe
@Barun Kalet apni namardi wali soch jo ladkiyo k liye paal k rkha h yaad rkh teri ghar ki aurte v isi me aati h. Wo koi dusri ni h😡😡😡😡😡😡
@@shonalimitra2107उसने अपना comment delete कर दिया 😂, चलो कुछ तो शर्म हैं उसमे.
ऐसे लड़कों को देखकर अब तो Arrange marriage से और डर लगने लगा है.
0:50 sahi baat 5:10 Love marriage ki baat 6:35 financial independent ❤❤
Focus on yr goal not others becoz yr goal give everything What u want..🔥
Very true 👍
Understanding is very much required in marriage & both should have tolerance to each other. Because No one is 100% perfect in life because we are human beings..
Thanks for your vdo for young generations those who are thinking now a days money is everything in life. But it is true for some % age. Other things are also required in life to be happy in life.
I don't think people could be 100% happy in life.. some shortfall surely will be there in life..
With warm regards.
Kolkata..😊🙏
Someone asked me : Love marriage or arrange marriage
My answer : No marriage....akailai rho kush rho ...life ko explore kro ....ma pa ko kush rakho ...😊
Absolutely true! But ye baat shadi krne k baad hi samjh aati hai.
@@ps-qh3yr maire nhi huee or jinki huee unhai daikh kr bus yhi lgta ...ma pa ki sewa kro or life explore kro bus .....
@@krpankaj4982 Beautiful thought! You're right. Sari society ki sewa karna uttam kaam hai. Stay happily single, time for self-realization!!
Do love after then marry with him / her, with your family's blessings and support make sure you will always happy 🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️💥💥✨️✨️💫💫
Sir apki baat sunkr mujhe bht guilty feel ho rha h , main bhi apne partner ko aisa bolkr hurt kr deti hu ki apko mujhse better ni milegi nd i'm so sorry for that ab main apna ye attitude jrur change krungi ........apke vedio s mujhe ye smjh a gya h he is best for me ❤️ isse achaa insaan mere parent bhi ni dhoond skte koi bina vjh itne tantrums ni jhelta kisi ldki k nd wo hmesha support krte h mujhe . Thnk u so much sir apne mujhe meri glti realise kra di ❤️💜
Apni galti maanna aur samay rehete sudhar jaaana maturity bhi hai aur ek luxury bhi. God bless you :)
पहली बात शादी करो ही मत
अकेले रहने का सबसे बड़ा एक फायदा
ना कोई साथ छोड़ कर जा पाएगा
ना कोई दिल तोड़ कर जा पाएगा
ना किसी को खोने का डर
ना किसी के लिए रोने का डर
न किसी की याद आएगी
और ना कभी जान जाएगी
😂
😅😅
Budhape me kon Kam aayega
Agar aap khud se khush nahi ho to koi bhi aapko khush nahi rakh sakta. Partner vo hota hai jo aapko pita ka tarah protect kare, dost ki Tarah aapki pareshani share karle khud se, dukh sukh ka partner ho, aur ego Hurt na kare... aur sabse zada zaruri, aapko unse expectations nahi honi chahiye, sirf aapko apni Taraf se Pura pyaar karna hai. Tab relationship acchi chalti hai🙂
Humne to ye sb bhi kr liya.mgr aaj bhi kbhi gussa ho jau..to 4-4 din bat he ni krti..kehna he nhi manti..jbki mostly m gussa tb krta hu jab wo apni galti ki wajh s apna nukssn krwa leto h.otherwise meko mera nhi hota..har bat ko ulta le jati..usko pyar s smjhau to smjhti nhi..fir jb gussa kro to kehti h sunaa diya..end mai mujhe he mnana pdta h.glti meri ho ya na ho..khud mhino gussa reh legi..mai ek din bhi gussa reh lu to ulta gussa hoke muh fula leti h.ye nhi smjhti ki samne wala insan h..agr mene uske liye apne shok apni kuch cheejay jo meko bhut psnd thi wo chori h to use bhi chorni chahiye...bas meri kmjori ye hai ki mai dil ka saaf hu..gusse m bhi uska bura ni sochta..pyar krta hu..but dar h akhir kb tk seh pauga...2.5 saal ho gye h..thk h usne bhi bhut kuch kiya mere liye..but compromise ek time tk kiye uske bad fir s pehle jesa ho gya h sb..ldaiya bad gyi h..ek ldka hoke bhi mene use kbhi ye nhi kha ki call kr ya video call kr..na mene aaj tk usko call ki..kyuki usne mna kiya tha..hmari sirf chats hoti h...long distance h..itne saal m mushkil s 50 bar call pe bat ki hogi or itni he bar video call..or kese support kre ek ldka?? Usko koi risk na ho is liye ghnto intejar kr leta hu..fir bhi..kbhi gussa kr lu to sb kiye kraye pe paani..ab btao kya kiya jaaye?..sirf 2 bar mile h..wo bhi itni dur..sirf 5 ghnte ki mulaqat..or kitna support kre ek ldka?..kbhi kbhi dil krta h give up kr du..fir yad aata h ki nhi..usne kha tha meko kisi hall m chorke na jana..bs uska wo request samne a jati h.apna gussa bhul jata h..jb tk wo naraj rehti h.likhta rehta hu..shikayat nhi us s bs kbhi kbhi hurt hota he h
@@maahi3644 @Usless agar vo ladki tume apna time deti h... Efforts deti h... Or tume smjhti hai... Tumare sath thoda compromise kr skti hai... To vo theek partner h tumare liye... Dekho gussa ata h sab ko lekin agar vo bina baat ke gussa karti hai or zyada hi karti hai to usse is issue pe baat karo... Use smjhao ki tume kitna bura lagta h jab ye sab hota hai... usse pucho ki itna gussa kis reason se hai.
Agr vo tumse kai kai din baat nhi karti h or ladai hone pr kabhi tume manaya bhi nhi... Or tumari kisi b baat ko zyada importance nhi deti h vo toh...may be vo puri tarah se committed na ho.... Usse khul ke baat karo jo bhi issues lagte hai...or clearly pucho ki puri tarah se committed hai bhi ya nhi. Qki ase relationship kheechne se koi fayda nhi agar efforts one sided ho toh.
Well explained bhaiya... Bilkul sahi point aapne cover kiye hai
I strongly claim all positive energy's and advice from this beautiful video for my beautiful life...
Thank you universe💋 thank you destiny💋 thank you guru Ji💋 thank you brother💋
Now a days relationship are very fragile. People got confused love with other feelings like excitement or something. It's hard to find true love and accept one the way it is.
U are true motivator sir... Salute u... Always wins my heart through ur words🥰❤❤
Sahi kaha . Anubhav bhaiya is the best
Mai bhi loue marriage karke 10 saal se roti hu kya karu samjh nahi aati meri nanad hasband bhi prasan karta hai hamesha dusri shadi karne ki baat krta hai
I have seen a lot of examples like this
Love marriage is a charm at early stages
But later life will be normal...
Kesi kesi love marriages baad mai jagde par utar jati hai
I have personally seen this in my neighborhood..
Ya to ek partner ko jhukna padega calm hona padega
Tb esse relation chalte hai
Jisme dusre ko jhukna padta hai
bhai arrange marriage sabse bada dhoka hai sadi ke bad ladki ko jan pate hai uske pehle parents hi sab decide krte hai
@@deven2849 bhai mere nazar me arrange marriage se bada scam koi ni. Socho zara. Do logo ko life bitana hai aur koi teesra tay krta hai do min ki baat cheet se. Aas pados wale keh denge bahut acha ladka/ ladki hai. Bus shaadi pakki
@@maishayartonahigalat bola yaha par, arrange marriage ho ya love marriage isse koi fark nhi padta.....sabse badi problem us insaan ka ego hota hai, jab koi jhukne ko tyar nhi hota aur apne ap ko best sabit karne ka competition chalta ho tab ye problem aati hai
Yes sir aapka her ak point sahi hai.mein v apne husband se 5 year baat kare. or mein apna study or wo v army officer banne k baad sadi kr liye.ab life happy hein
one should spend atleast 1.5 to 2 years together, I agree.
Sir Aapka 4th point to arrange marriage me bhi applicable hai.
Mai love marriage ko support karti hu kyuki arrange marriage ke side effects aajkal ke time me zyada hai. Bina kisi ko jane samjhe family pressure me shaadi karna koi akalmandi nahi hai kyuki aajkal fraud cases bahut ho rahe hai. Dikhate kuch hai, nikalta kuch aur hai.
Main dono ko support karta hun par tareeka sahi hona chahiye, aankhen band karke kuch nahi karna chahiye
Just show we have nothing ...we will not give dowry
Yeah exactly...galat insaan love arrange kisi me bhi nikal sakta..it's about individual personality..nothin is granted that this works or dat..even in arrange marriage people who r actually not happy are just running the shadi cz family ne karai h n all..ND pura Jeevan na khush rhke nikal jata..which might be possible in love too but people in love are more upfront n walk out
Love ya Arrange marriage ho understanding dono me rhna chahiye..
Your work is really top-class sir.I would like to throw some light on my opinions.
It's never about Love marriage or arranged marriage sir, It's about being mindful & be able to know the kind of person.
So, overall it's not about marriage. It's about the person you are going to marry!
Very true, that's what I want to say :)
Sir I openly admit that in my relationship I AM the kind of person who blocks him frequently , and its true that I hardly apologise , and yes I sometimes tell him that he is nothing without me.
I can justify above things by examples and reasoning it , but I won't because , now I realise that what HE goes through.
I actually never looked at these situations from his point of view . I do love him , but , sometimes when i get insecure I act irrationally and immaturely.
thank you for this eye-opening video.🙏
Same here I am the person who blocks him
Gold digger hain tu bsdk.
Most women act immaturely and irrationally without seeing things from men’s viewpoint. They quickly judge and shame them. Most women lack accountability.
Bhaiya ek chiz aur bhi add kariye Jo log pehle s kisi rishte mein hote hue bhi doosre logon ke saath flirt karte hain ya unme interest rakhte hain aise log bhi kabhi unse pyaar nahi karte
Bilkul sahi baat kahi bhai
Aapki baate dil Chu gayi sir ❤...
Maine bhi usko chor diya , kyoki wo hame lekr aage peeche ho rahi thi aur teesra ka enter ho gaya tha .....aur to aur uska behaviour bhi change ho gaya mere prati ....isiliye maine bhi usko chor diya ab ....
Arrange marriage is the riskiest thing love marriage is the future
U can't say.
@@bhaskarsingh7793risky तो है, आपको आपके रिश्तेदारों पर पूरा भरोसा हैं तो अच्छी बात है.
Sir jinhe dhokha milna hota h arrange marriage 💑 mai hi mil jata h
Right 👍
Aager aapki life mai koi problem h to aap mere ko bol sakte ho mai aapki pore dil se help karu gey mera naam muskaan h mai eek professional relationship advisor hu
Aager aapko mere se baat krne h to aap aapni telegram I'd de sakte ho
Right
@@muskanjatin7215hii
Meri graduation complete ho gayi hai hamara 4 saal ka relation hai woh matriculation Tak padhe hai aur woh bhi business kar rahe hai ,hum dono saath main bahut khus hai unke family main sab Raji hai hamare relation ko lekar but meri family nahi janti hai mujhe ab kaise parents ko manana chahiye plz batayenge?
Mere v love marriage h sadi k 9 sal bad i want devorce just boz usne kabi muje pyar hi nhi kiya kadar hi nhi ki or ab jaan se marne ki koshes ki 😔 love is nothing
Ladkiya kitna jhuth bolti h sbko pta h
Yrr eek din sb theek ho jayega aager tumhare life me koi problem h to tum mere ko bata sakte ho mai tumhari help karu gey mai eek professional relationship advisor hu aager aapko kuch batana h ya jaanna h to aap aap aapni telegram I'd de sakte ho mai aapki help karu gey
Mai aapki pori help karu gey aapki problem se aapko door krne mai aap aapni I'd de sakte ho
Telegram ki
@@ǟռֆ-u9p to ap kyu aaye ho mere comments me mene to nhi bola apko aane ko ladake kutte hote h sab 🙏🏻 mere se dur rahe ap 😔