Lub Zog Ntawm Daim Ntawv Sib Yuav. 7/21/21
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What I hate about hmong people is that when your partner passed away or divorced every penny you worked for they think it’s all theirs. Being a divorced/widow person in our Hmoob community mas tu siab tshaj plaws. People judge you from left to right and on top of that your in-laws will tried to steal everything from you like it’s their hard work. Hmoob mas lawv niag tub laib tub liam xwb los lawv mas nim tsa tsa nws cai. I am proud that you stand your ground. I am a widow myself and I am so thankful my in-laws weren’t that evil. Even though they created all these rumors about me they weren’t to that level of evil. Whatever you do in the future just be cautious. Majority of these yawg nraug just want your money. Also this should be a lesson for everyone that NEVER tell relatives how much money you and your spouse have. No matter how much or little money you have you don’t own anyone anything to be telling them the whole amount of money you have. They will only cav koj lub npe. It will only drag loser yawg nraug and the loser husband your way.
People only know as much as you tell them, that’s why it’s better to keep your personal life to yourself. Hmong in laws needs to know their boundaries. Unfortunately they don’t , so it’s best to just stay away from them.
Damn you talk like you tuff.. just remember that you will die being hmong and your spirit will not rest until it’s release the right way..
@@dretsab959 how about all the people that died in the war without proper burial or release??!? How about kidnapped or lost Hmong people? Don’t go around saying stupid things. I believe in our traditional way, but it’s not the end all.
@@Gurlhmong before you start talking, educate yourself about the culture first..
@@dretsab959 why you butt hurt? I never said I hate hmong people or our culture. I’m just saying that I hate the way hmong people judge without knowing the facts and the way they tried to manipulate other people to hating you. Maybe your butt hurt cuz you’re related to the her deceased husband or something. If you’re not one of those judgmental hmong people then my comment won’t bother you or maybe your one of those yawg nraug loser that’s why you’re so butt hurt.
Don't jump into a relationship. A lot of hmong guys (and girls) are looking for widows so they can live off your deceased spouse's life insurance money. These ppl are smart. They know what to do and say to get into your life. Very cunning.
Agree. Lots of gold digger out there. Even if you don’t have money it’s a waste of time.
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The power of a marriage license. Yes people, do it! You will lose everything of you don’t have one. So glad the wife was so powerful and determined to keep everything and stay strong
You will lose everything if its being use in the wrong way too. Lol 😆
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Txhob xav tias you yog niam es yuav tsis muaj kev npam txawm tias yu yog niam los yu siab phem yeej yuav npam li no tiag
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The hospital did you wrong too sis. They never followed the HIPAA regulations. The next of kin is always the spouse, if deceased was married, if not then it falls to the children. The mother of the deceased is not the first in line to be the next of kin. Good job sis, for standing up for love and your right!
OMG!!! Your Biatchy In-Laws are messing with the wrong Nyab!!! Stand your ground and move on from that Family! Btw, sorry for the Loss of your spouse.
Your ex mother in law is so mean! Glad u no longer have to deal with all of your former in laws, sister. I would'nt have given them a penny, but consider yourself a good person to even share some money with them. Best of luck to you in the future.
Nothing beats the written law… keep the faith
Im not sure why Hmong people feel obligated to disclosed all their financial/life policy to others. No one paid for your life insurance but you so you shouldnt feel obligated to disclosed.
I don't get it either. It's my policies, my business. Idky hmong people expects to know exactly how much u have. I would never disclose that info.
This is something Hmong people need to change. That’s their money and nobody have the business to demand to know their finance
Agree.
Wow; this story is something else. I’m glad everything worked your ways!
Very proud of u lady for doing things by the book. Your inlaws have no saying!! When comes to marriage it's good to get marriage license and have everything in papers.. Wish the best for you and your kids...
Proud of you sis for believing in a person who love you so strongly. Sorry he passed l. I'm glad you stood your ground live your life for your kids and glad you stay away from those toxic in laws.
Nyias tus nyias yug ces nyias yeej kws dua...
Wow what an amazing story. I 100% support you! My blessings are with you.
Omg this story pisses me off to the max, what an evil mil!!! I am so proud of you, you are such a strong Hmong woman. I'm truly sorry for your loss. Best wishes to you.
1. It’s your money, you earned it with your spouse. 2. You don’t need to disclose your financials to anyone. 3. I wouldn’t want any part of this family. I don’t know why Hmong people feel they need to belong to someone, clan and religious.
Thank you! Someone needed to tell those people who feels the need to belong!
I will never understand hmong people. Using so much money when the person is dead. Why not spend it when they were alive.
Yu yog tu nyab luag g nyiam ce yu lo khwv muaj npaum li ca lo yeej g muaj neeg nyiam li o tu me viv ncau aw ca zoo li kv thb o
This is the saddest part of our Hmong belief, culture and traditions. Why do parents, in laws, relatives and siblings feel obligated to take what is not theirs. Breaks my heart that we need to spend that much money when a loved one dies and not spend it with when they are alive, enjoying life together. These types of stories make me sick and disappointed.
Nyob zoo os niam tsuab teev ua cas koj tsis cog fans li os, vim lawg pab pab koj koj nas
I’m just astonished by all these people and the amount of money they got from it!!!! I’ve worked all my life and still broke!!
Me too. I live direct deposit to direct deposit
Tu siab ua luaj, txoj kev tuag no tsis muaj leej twg xav tau. Tus mob phem no tsis yog koj ib leeg xwb mog. Kuv tseem tau ib txoj kev tu tu siab li koj thiab…….kuv tus txiv zoo zoo tau mob cancer tau tuag lwm thiab mas tu siab kom kawg li, tsuas yog kuv tsis muaj cov teebmeem li koj xwb os.
Niam laus, koj mam lub siab loj, zoo thiab muaj peev xwm heev li os. Neeg zoo yeej tau txais kev zoo os.
Koj yog poj laib koj txiav tus tub yau koj. Tim koj .txhob tham li koj tu tu siab. You created your own problems so don't complain now. You talk like you are perfect
I feel you! I have a mother in law that doesn’t like me either. I secluded myself from the in laws and that makes my life much more peaceful. I live for myself and husband only. Best of luck to you.
Vim neb g yog ntawv raug tsuas yog teb nthawv raug xwb ces plaub qaib yeej g ciaj ncaig li os niam poj hmoob
Peb cov pojniam hmoob ces feem coob kawg taug txoj kev no xwb li cas los yus hlub nws ces kawg uv yus li niam pog xwb
Leej twg tsis tau taug txoj kev raug niam pog txiv yawg nkauj muam kwv tij tsim yeej tsis to taub tabsis rau rau siab a yus lub neej li tus niam tsev no xwb ces tau lawm. Lawv tsis nyiam yus los tsuas muaj lawv ntshaw yus pob nyiaj xwb yus tsis muaj qhov ntshaw lawv. Cov tsev neeg zoo li no mus tsis txog qhov twg.
Cov poj nrauj tam sim no ces tsis muaj cov siab zoo li tus niam tsev no lawm nawb lawv aw...
Npam kiag nws lau! Nws siab phem lim hiam hlawv ntawv rau koj tabsis rov qab raug nws ces yog tshaj li lawm!! Ohh tej neeg nkhaus lwj nkhaus liam no ma nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb!! You do you good sister!!
Niam pog ntshaw nyiaj aw..yog tsis muaj koj tus nyab ces ntshe koj niag tub tseem yuav tau phau policy los ntshe twb them tsis taus ntev li os koj ntshaw nyiaj xwb os koj yeej tsis hlub lawv li leej niam yug hlub os koj tsuas xav tau lawv qhov nyiaj noj xwb os cas tsis ua zoo na
The majority of Hmong problems and drama stem from the mother-in-law.
Uacas peb ib txhia hmoob nyiam yuav 3 4 life insurance li na. Yog yuav ntau life insurance, lawv puas investigate why few life insurance for same person.
Nyob lub teb chaws me kas txhob ua siab phem tsam zoo li tus niam pog no nawb
Cov kwv tij tsis muaj leej twg paub Meskas txoj cai los li cas tiag nawd
es thiab cia leej niam do tus nyab
heev ua luaj li os hmong awd.
lub teb chaws Meskas no ces tus poj niam thiab tus txiv yog 2 tug muaj cai tshaj plaws ntawm nkawv lub neej
leej niam thiab kwv tij mam li yog cov los tom qab
kawm tseg nawb mog
cas yov rymyam tag cuab kwvtij tib si
os hmong awd.
That’s why it’s important to have legal marriage papers in your country. If you didn’t have it, you would of just been his roommate.
Geezzz....this husband's mama was a drama queen. Txhob lam foom tus neeg tsis muaj txim os tsam rov qab los rau yus nawj.Cov laus no ua tshaj qhov tshaj lawm. Tus sister, zoo kawg koj rau7 siab ua koj lub neej koj thiaj tsis khes lawv. Wish you the best in life.
A di la that
Koj tau ib tsev neeg npab lawv thiaj ua phem2 rau koj ho tus txiv zoo ces tuag lawm os mog
Cov niam pog no ces nyuam qhuav haum rau cov nyab ntse no los qhia cai txhiaj li os...
Hi nyb zoo
Nrog koj tu siab thiab hlub koj kawg li os tus niam laus..!😭😭😭😭
niam ntsuab teev aw peb tos kj li neej neeg mas tos cuag me nyuam tos qe ho
Ua cas hauv lub ntiaj teb no yuav muaj ib cov neeg phem ua luaj 😩😡
You're so strong! What a good neej neeg!
You did the right thing!
Zoo heev kav tsij ua kom hmab tu hlua pluam thiaj li Kaj siab
Ua cas muaj ib cov niam pog phem ua lauj li tsis nyiam nws tus nyab kiag li oh my God
Ntuj o lub ntuj aw ca tseem tshuav tej hmoob phem tag npaum li no nyb 6 hauv lub ntiaj teb no thb o lub ntuj aw
Money is yours. Don’t disclose it to them ppl. You have kids.
Hauv lub qab ntuj no cas tseem muaj tej tsev hmoob phem npaum ko thiaj os hmoob aw….
Muaj kawg
Kuv tus niam pog ces 2-3 steps behind koj tus xwb thiab os me viv ncaus
This story should teach us to be better a mother in law in the future for your own kids. Let your kids marry whomever they want, it ain’t your life, its theirs. You can only give them life but cannot control them.
Tsevneeg Niamtais dablaug tsis nyiam tus Vauv tus Yawm Yij mas yog yus lubneej yim zoo lawv yim khib yim xav kom sib nrauj. I been marriage for 27 years, my wifey brother & mom still don't like me. White vs Green
Neeg phem ces ua li cas los yeej Tsi yeej tus zoo li os hahahaha🤣
If not so much life insurance money?….He still alive!!!….karma.
I’m embarrassed for your husband’s family! It’s a shame his siblings went along with their mother to torture you even though he is an adult and he chose you. They’re not smart people otherwise they would’ve known you’re the wife and you had all legal rights. I’m sure you would’ve given his parents more of his life insurance benefits if they weren’t so evil!
Cut ties with this family. You don’t need people like them in your life. Ex mother-in-law can rot in hell.
Koj niam pog lawv ntxub ntxub koj es lawv hlawv hlawv xyab thiab ntawv rau koj kom koj tuag mus no tab sis koj tsis txhaum es thiaj poob mus rau nws tus tub es nws tus tub thiaj tau txais txoj me ke tuag os. Tej xyab ntawv tsis zoo hlawv os yog yus tsis paub ces cov xyab ntawv yuav rov qab los coj yus mus hais plaub ntag hos.
OG this story tells us treat son and daughter equally muab qub txeeg qub teg faib sib npaug txhob yog muab 6 tub side xwb tsam tub ua ntej ces nom tswv txoj cai nyias ntsais baum txoj plob hau yeej dhia g dhau nawb .
A major reason to have an Estimate and living will. Protection. Keep in what you have and list out all the people whom to keep away. Put out the fire before it ever have to chance to be thought of.
Sister, be humble. You brought love, joy, and inspiration to your husband. You changed him to be a good person. Life is short and your husband came into his life for a reason. You were his savior. Love your children and guide them. You should not marry again.
Don't worry about those who don't like you, concentrate on those who love you
Hmoob Meskas kas mas muaj qee tus haj ntxim tshaj plaws neeg Asia lawm thiab 1 2 npav hu tub ceev xwm xwb ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws
Ua cas tus niam pog siab phem lim hiam ntawd yuav mus ntshaw nyiaj tas npaum no li os thiab cov niag muam na, cuag li yuav tsis txawj mus ua nyab tom ntej li!!! Thov txawj txaj muag thiab lau. Ua neeg nyob nyias muaj nyias ib daim lag zeb nplua os nawb...txog twg thib ces yeej yuav hla tsis dhau ib zaug li os poj hmoob aw!!!! Tus txiv yawg no hnav tiab los cas yuav tso nws niag poj dab no lim hiam tas sim neej li os! Ntxim ntxub tshaj li 😠😡😡
I hate the in laws that are sooo into people's relationships. Feel bad for you lady, but why buying so life insurance, this makes people suspicious about your spouse.
Koj tsis muaj hlwb los luag twb ntxub yus ua luaj number phone ploj hauv lub ntiaj teb no lawm os nws twb nrhiav tsis tau lawm os koj los zoo li koj thiab kuv tsis qhuas
Peb ua neej nyob tsis hais los yog niam pog leej twg siab phem ces yeej npam
ສູ້ໆນະເສຍໃຈນຳເດີ້
Hahahaha, yuav cov Txiv muaj criminals? Yuam kev loj !!! Tim koj lauj niam tsev lau!!!
Did you even listen to the full story?? You probably got through the first five min and then write your comment..
Nej ces yog sib txeeb nyiaj nkaus xwb tsis yog los ntawm txojkev sib hlub.
Wow - mother inlaw divorced widow daughter inlaw after son died? Unheard of until now.
Why people have the needs to tell others about their financial states, if they don’t have the need to ask for others help financially? Sounds like welfare system…
No one has the right to seek about how much you have or will have. That’s personal confidential info.
Situation like this lady’s, when she knew she got the money for the funeral, all she needs to do is call the shot and then pay for what is needed. No need to announce how much they have, how much she will get, how she like to do the funeral for her husband, and how she will take care of her children or move on with her future. Na…da….zip.
Right!
Tsuas yog kj xwb thiaj muab nyiaj mus uas lub ntees yog tias yog kuv es niam pog phem npaum ntawv ces kuv ntsia lawm xwb tsis pub kuv mus lub ntees los kuv tsis k..k.. Tsev hmoob phem
Inlaws....always fighting for the money as if they're entitled to part it 🙄😒
kuv thov qhuas tus niam tsev no os tus niam tsev awd
They don t like u. What/however u do they will not aporeciate
Yog tsis xav li cas no puas kam qhiav kuv poj niam los tso kuv tseg lawm thiab menkauj hmoob
Sister, you will never find someone who is like your husband that will love you but good luck though.
Tsis hlub yus ces yus tsis tas hlub lawv li thiab mas
Tus tub los muaj keeb kwm nyob nkuaj thiaj tham tsis tau hluas nkauj thiaj tau koj...koj thiaj tau nws. Niam pog txiv yawg ua yeeb ncuab npaum no rau koj ntag? Puas muaj tseeb tiag ma? Koj ho yuav $500,000 life insurance rau koj tus txiv thiab? Niam pog lawv doubt tias yog koj maj mam lom lawv tus tub..lawv thiaj ua luaj li. Lawv tuaj tos koj cov menyuam mus nrog lawv nyob ob peb hnub tab sis ho rov los nrog koj nyob? Hmmmm...nov yog koj cov lus xwb. Txawm li cas los thov Vajtswv zam txim rau koj thiab zam txim rau kuv tus uas sau cov ntawv lus no🙏
Why spend $100,000 for him when he's dead? Why didn't you let him live and spend the money when he was alive?
Smh..I never understand why people do this.
For real, funeral aren’t meant to be extravagant 🤦🏻♀️
Exactly what I was thinking, hardly ever go out to eat but spend 100k on a funeral. Hmong ppl these days be spending more on funerals than a wedding
I don't think you really listen to the story did you.
Sad but things like this happens a lot.
Tus NiAm pog no phem tiag tiag
It's good to save money but also live life too.
Cov pig yawg no phem com viab niag tub laib xwb tsuav nws hlub koj tiag ntshaw team tub hluas yuav pig laus qhov kav laus ces tsawg y.cov inlaws no phem tshaj dab yog kuv mas UA koj tsa koj hloov rau lawv tus tub laib Los UA neeg zoo
Yog vim li cas lawv tus tub twb yog tub nyob Tom nkuaj los xwb es cas lawv ho tsis pub lawv tus tub tham koj, yuav koj? Yog vim li cas tiag?
Peb ces noj txhij noj txhua
Haus nchuav ntws noj nplua mias
Ncig teb chaws
Ya nyob hoom
Mus Ua si txhij txhua
Tsis muaj qhov khuv xim li
Tsis txhob Ua li ob NIAM txiv no
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍👍👍
Nyob USA no yog sib yuav yuav tsum muaj marriage license UA dabtsi thaum teen meej tuaj yus thiaj hais yeej
This story is so sad and frustrating. I hate laws like these. Is the mother in law going to keep her son for herself or something? Those laws are just something else.
Vim koj txhaw tus hluas ne lov vim koj yeej paub zoo tias koj yog ib tus poj nrauj muaj txog 4 5 tus menyuam es mu yuav tus tseem yog tub hluas ne lov yeej yog tim koj nawb lov yus yog poj nrauj ma yus mu yuav tus yawg nrauj li yus xwb os
Koj ces tseen ruam tshaj npuam lawm
Neeg npam yeej npam tuag Tsi taus ces zoo li lawv ua li no thiab thiaj poob rau nws tus tub lawm ntag
Oh sh*t! Listening this story gave me high blood pressure. If this was me, I wouldn't give his parents/family a dime. What liberty do they have for me to feel like I owe them anything. If the parents came to their senses and realized they made a mistake, asked for forgiveness, and admit that they need $$$$ to help pay for their funerals, maybe, just maybe I may reconsider. What business does she have needing to let anyone know about how much $$$$ she got. When she was paying for the life insurance and working her butts off for the life she have, they weren't there to help her pay for any of it. I'm just a little heart broken that her husband didn't really get to enjoy the short time he has with her. Sad that it took for him to be diagnosed with a terminal illness for them to have their first meal at a restaurant. Best of luck to you sister.
Yim hmoob nos phem ua luaj.
neb muab yuav life insuaranc ntau dhau lawm ne thiaj tag nqi tau hau nyiaj muas tau nws txoj sia lawm thiab nws txoj hmoo qi dua cov nyiaj ntawd lawm yog li nws txoj sia thiaj li nyob ntev
You are wrong for taking there son away like that.. one day you will know how it feel because you are also a mother..since you went over the boundary of life and death and use that marriage license why won’t you just do it American funeral and why do you do a culture funeral..if I was the mother I would not allow a hmong funeral and let the son wondering the earth and stay by her side..
Tej zaum kuj muaj qee yam tseeb thiab tab sis muab hais tau tsis txaus ntseeg los ntawm txoj kev ntxub ntawm niam pog sab. Tej zau koj muab cuab tau loj log lawm. Peb hmoob cov niam txiv tsis phem txog qhab ko.
Vuag...15 lub xyoo es noj mov tom lab suav tau mas haib dhau li lawm thiab o. 😲 Cas koj ho yuav mus nplaum ua luaj li thiab na?
Depressed how we could love our in laws so much n they hate us. In laws like this deserve nyabs who wouldn’t give a shit n put them in check.
I’m sorry you had to go through this & sorry you loss your partner I’m forsure he loved you so much.
Isolate yourself from hate is a good thing, but why you gotta tell everyone how much money you have. None business. "More money more problem"
That’s why marriage license is so important in every aspects. You’re next of kin after your before his/her parents
Serves them right sister!!!... Infact I wouldn't even give her a penny.
Yes the sky is low low now.. so if you have done nothing to offend them and lawm burn Joss paper kom yus die... Nope .. it will come back 100 times to the person what called the heaven and Earth's.. that's black magic!!