But I’ve experienced basically the same. It’s kinda sad.. after corona virus and all the online teaching it’s now (mostly) back to teaching in person.. but it still feels so isolated. It’s not as it used to be and I think so many people can relate to this video. It kinda helps knowing you’re not alone
Gefühlen nicht so viel negativen Wert beizumessen und das Gefühl an sich einfach zuzulassen, zu spüren, dann weiter ziehen zu lassen, ist ne sehr wertvolle Erkenntnis.
Das sind die Art von Videos / Vlogs die mich zum Nachdenken, zur Selbstreflexion anregen, mich zur Ruhe bringen und mich wohlfühlen lassen. Einfach Danke für das was du uns zeigst und von dir teilst. So persönlich und einfach art :)
ein wundervolles video danke für deine offene Art zuzugeben, sich in der uni alleine zu fühlen. Das machts einfacher für andere, es selbst zu akzeptieren. danke für die arbeit und mühe, die du in das video investiert hast.
to be honest I haven’t watched ur videos in a long long time and I think I even stopped checking ur instagram some time ago but when I saw that u uploaded something I felt like I had to watch this one, and I‘m honestly so glad I did. I believe u’ve grown so much into somebody I can relate to more than ever, and u kind of always were someone like that to me. this video really made me fall in love with ur videos again, like the ones u posted so many years ago and I feel like we‘ve all grown up in that time and now it feels like we are some kind of old friends reconnecting after all this time. thank u for that. 🫶🏼
I can relate so much omg - maybe that’s why I love this video so much! But it’s also the aesthetic - it seems different. Very melancholic and I love it so much (not just because of the topic, which I can relate to soo much) … but also cuz it’s artistic
Ich komme nicht drauf klar WIE SCHÖN das gefilmt ist bitte mehr davon!🌺💗 und kann total relaten mit dem Alleinsein an der Uni ich hab zwar nette Komilitonen und man kennt mich und viele wissen wer ich bin jedoch ist sofort wieder diese Distanz da sobald man die Uni verlässt
Ich weiß nicht, ob das vielleicht irgendjemanden hier beruhigt, aber ich hab meinen gesamten Bachelor auch keine Freund*innen gefunden, weil mein Studiengang einfach groß und lose und von jeder studierenden Person selbst organisiert werden konnte. Viele Menschen, die in meinem Semester waren, hab ich vielleicht in einem einzigen Seminar getroffen. Liegt also nicht an euch, falls ihr allein seid. Im Master, der sehr klein ist und eher wie eine Schulklasse, ist es jetzt komplett anders!
Honestly yes... I was socially anxious before university, now I'm diag with an avoidant personality, I'm struggling so hard to make friends especially after one entire year without real class. At first it's was great for me, not feeling anxious anymore but finally I would love and still would love to have at least a group of 2 or 3 people I'm hanging out with very often, like 1 time a week. But nowadays, my friends live far away, my anxiety is terrible, I don't know how to make friends anymore and I'm very specific about friends since I'm willing to get very nice, passionate, gentle friends. I'm so sensitive I can't hang out with someone who like to make fun of me even if it's friendly 😥 so, I'm kinda lost about how to do that
Ich hab meinen Bachelor fertig und habe dort keine Freund:innen gefunden. Erstes Semester Präsenz aber ich bin gependelt und habe mich noch sehr introvertiert verhalten, die anderen 5 Semester online Lehre/ Auslandssemester jetzt bin ich fertig und habe keine neuen Freund:innen gefunden. Im Vergleich zu anderen Menschen aus anderen Städten fühle ich mich oft so, als hätte ich als Student:in gefailt das Studentenleben zu leben/ die Zeit des Lebens zu haben. Ich freue mich so sehr Ähnliche Erfahrungen in den Kommentaren zu lesen, das hilft!
oh i relate so much. but for me it's school, last year i lost my two best friends there and now i am all alone most of the time. I am also an introverted person who struggles with depression and the thing you said about excepting feelings and not giving them too much power really resonated with me. I think that approach is something i will take with me for some time. The whole vibe of your recent videos make me feel so inspired but also really comforted. You are doing so good val💞 before i go; have you read "bunny" by mona awad? Because i think you will devour the weirdness and genius that this book is
honestly I never hang out with people from uni and that's absolutely fine, having my friends out of university bubble also helps to just clear mind and not think about uni all day
I really love this video - the music is so relaxing and now i feel so motivated to take care of my body and I just want to read books 📚 ❣️I’m sorry for my bad English. I hope you understand everything because I speak German …and have a nice day I really like your videos
sometimes I feel like life is a burden but then I’m like why do I even think like that cause I’ve literally everything I need and no reason to be sad and I know there are people who are suffering and I feel so bad because I shouldn’t even be sad
hey val, could you maybe talk about why you are learning russian amidst the current war? Id assume its because of russian literature but could be wrong. Hearing someone learn the language of such a violent state was surprising to me. please don’t take this as criticism though, you’re free to do whatever you want of course, i was just curious !
But I’ve experienced basically the same. It’s kinda sad.. after corona virus and all the online teaching it’s now (mostly) back to teaching in person.. but it still feels so isolated. It’s not as it used to be and I think so many people can relate to this video. It kinda helps knowing you’re not alone
thank u
So true
Gefühlen nicht so viel negativen Wert beizumessen und das Gefühl an sich einfach zuzulassen, zu spüren, dann weiter ziehen zu lassen, ist ne sehr wertvolle Erkenntnis.
das hast du so schön gesagt
Das sind die Art von Videos / Vlogs die mich zum Nachdenken, zur Selbstreflexion anregen, mich zur Ruhe bringen und mich wohlfühlen lassen.
Einfach Danke für das was du uns zeigst und von dir teilst. So persönlich und einfach art :)
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Its so important to talk about this.
The society rates extroverts always so mutch higher and we get this feeling of: i'm alone and that's not good.
Ich fühl diesen Uni loneliness talk so sehr
Same dachte its just me die so fühlt😅
ein wundervolles video
danke für deine offene Art zuzugeben, sich in der uni alleine zu fühlen. Das machts einfacher für andere, es selbst zu akzeptieren.
danke für die arbeit und mühe, die du in das video investiert hast.
♥️♥️♥️
to be honest I haven’t watched ur videos in a long long time and I think I even stopped checking ur instagram some time ago
but when I saw that u uploaded something I felt like I had to watch this one, and I‘m honestly so glad I did.
I believe u’ve grown so much into somebody I can relate to more than ever, and u kind of always were someone like that to me.
this video really made me fall in love with ur videos again, like the ones u posted so many years ago and I feel like we‘ve all grown up in that time and now it feels like we are some kind of old friends reconnecting after all this time.
thank u for that. 🫶🏼
wow this means a lot!!
I can relate so much omg - maybe that’s why I love this video so much! But it’s also the aesthetic - it seems different. Very melancholic and I love it so much (not just because of the topic, which I can relate to soo much) … but also cuz it’s artistic
🥺🥺🥺
du hast das Gefühl des Alleinseins wundervoll eingefangen, danke für das schöne Video! :)
Ich komme nicht drauf klar WIE SCHÖN das gefilmt ist bitte mehr davon!🌺💗 und kann total relaten mit dem Alleinsein an der Uni ich hab zwar nette Komilitonen und man kennt mich und viele wissen wer ich bin jedoch ist sofort wieder diese Distanz da sobald man die Uni verlässt
your videos are a comfort place
Ich weiß nicht, ob das vielleicht irgendjemanden hier beruhigt, aber ich hab meinen gesamten Bachelor auch keine Freund*innen gefunden, weil mein Studiengang einfach groß und lose und von jeder studierenden Person selbst organisiert werden konnte. Viele Menschen, die in meinem Semester waren, hab ich vielleicht in einem einzigen Seminar getroffen. Liegt also nicht an euch, falls ihr allein seid. Im Master, der sehr klein ist und eher wie eine Schulklasse, ist es jetzt komplett anders!
I relate to this video sooo much!!! Loved the whole mood 💌
the way you speak is so poetic and comforting, I love it
Honestly yes... I was socially anxious before university, now I'm diag with an avoidant personality, I'm struggling so hard to make friends especially after one entire year without real class. At first it's was great for me, not feeling anxious anymore but finally I would love and still would love to have at least a group of 2 or 3 people I'm hanging out with very often, like 1 time a week. But nowadays, my friends live far away, my anxiety is terrible, I don't know how to make friends anymore and I'm very specific about friends since I'm willing to get very nice, passionate, gentle friends. I'm so sensitive I can't hang out with someone who like to make fun of me even if it's friendly 😥 so, I'm kinda lost about how to do that
Ich verstehe das Gefühl sehr gut! Danke für deine Ehrlichkeit. pure art
ich liebe den vibe des Videos und wie du Momente einfängst mit der Kamera!!
Ich hab meinen Bachelor fertig und habe dort keine Freund:innen gefunden. Erstes Semester Präsenz aber ich bin gependelt und habe mich noch sehr introvertiert verhalten, die anderen 5 Semester online Lehre/ Auslandssemester jetzt bin ich fertig und habe keine neuen Freund:innen gefunden. Im Vergleich zu anderen Menschen aus anderen Städten fühle ich mich oft so, als hätte ich als Student:in gefailt das Studentenleben zu leben/ die Zeit des Lebens zu haben. Ich freue mich so sehr Ähnliche Erfahrungen in den Kommentaren zu lesen, das hilft!
oh i relate so much. but for me it's school, last year i lost my two best friends there and now i am all alone most of the time. I am also an introverted person who struggles with depression and the thing you said about excepting feelings and not giving them too much power really resonated with me. I think that approach is something i will take with me for some time.
The whole vibe of your recent videos make me feel so inspired but also really comforted. You are doing so good val💞
before i go; have you read "bunny" by mona awad? Because i think you will devour the weirdness and genius that this book is
honestly I never hang out with people from uni and that's absolutely fine, having my friends out of university bubble also helps to just clear mind and not think about uni all day
He experimentado lo mismo en la universidad. Realmente estar solo no es algo malo.
I really love the vibe of your video and wish you all the best 💘
Mir hat die Fachschaft enorm geholfen mich nicht einsam in der Uni zu fühlen. Versuch es mal!
Much respect , 🤗 cuddle for when you need it!
dude the whole knife foot action though 0.0
I really love this video - the music is so relaxing and now i feel so motivated to take care of my body and I just want to read books 📚 ❣️I’m sorry for my bad English. I hope you understand everything because I speak German …and have a nice day I really like your videos
Sie kommt aus Deutschland, versteht also auch Deutsch :)
sometimes I feel like life is a burden but then I’m like why do I even think like that cause I’ve literally everything I need and no reason to be sad and I know there are people who are suffering and I feel so bad because I shouldn’t even be sad
It’s okay to feel like that. Just don’t loose yourself in this. But it’s kind of a sign of depression or a similar kind of mental illness
Im sure there are plenty of people that would wanna hang out with you
Hey val machst du eigentlich sport?
she doesn’t look happy at the moment:/
hey val, could you maybe talk about why you are learning russian amidst the current war? Id assume its because of russian literature but could be wrong. Hearing someone learn the language of such a violent state was surprising to me. please don’t take this as criticism though, you’re free to do whatever you want of course, i was just curious !
Was für ein Bettmodell hast du?