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He was literally 20, and was super talented and had his whole life ahead of him. A very sad tragedy all around. I hope his family have found peace and support in their grief. 💔
I know you added the truth about Cameron Boyce’s death to your pinned comment but I’m really bummed that you didn’t do the research ahead of time. I think it’s important when covering drama especially when critiquing an unreliable source to double check everything they are saying especially if it’s a 10 minute rant on one specific thing that is easily able to be fact checked.
@@extremelytired4584 I don't have the time to research movie information of actors, regardless of what she said was true or not, my statements still stand on how they view not aliving yourself. My response to her is about how they view not aliving themselves, not whether the claim is true or not; it does not change the context of my response. The person spreading misinformation is the person asking the question, not me responding to how they view not aliving themselves. My problem is with how they view not living oneself, not how they actually passed away, but I added to my pinned comment for clarification. Not everything I respond to needs some deep dive 'research' because if that was the case, I'd never get a video done.
@@indicafairy I can agree and disagree it would've been good. But the person still made the error and insulted him for something he didn't do. He didn't but I appreciate Repzion for trying to give understanding suicide and not calling it selfish. He responded directly to what the mother. She was still the one who was wrong. So was Repzion but I can understand facing the point directly
Tom cruise wasn't the best analogy. I understood the point but scientology specifically picked up cruise as a selling point. They want people, including kids, to see him in movies and equate him to scientology as a positive. He's a recruitment tool.
Just for clarification: the woman talking about the cast of Disney's descendants doesn't know what she's talking about. If she actually looked into it, Cameron died from a seizure in his sleep at the age of 20. He had issues with seizures his whole life. It's a small tidbit, but something I thought should be clarified.
That really bugged me when she said that because she made his death sound like something he chose to do (not that someone committing suicide isn’t just as devastating) rather than because of something that was out of his control. Like he chose to die. It’s even more infuriating is that the parent’s daughter is also suffering from health issues and could have looked up to him as a role model and now because of the parent’s inability to cross check, she’s no longer allowed to even mention him because of his supposed cause of death which could be disproved by a 2 second google search
Yes! Was just commenting to say this. He didn’t want to die it was an awful horrible thing that happened to him like where would she even get that info from just googling his name you’ll find out within 30 seconds what happened to him.
What gets me about the Disney Descendants story is the actor didn't commit suicide, he died of complications from epilepsy. The mother didn't even do the barest minimum of research. She just saw an actor who had died and I guess assumed it was because of suicide to make it fit her agenda of not wanting to allow her child to watch it anymore. What a shitty, shitty parent. I mean she wrote to Ruby for advice so that already was a choice but the way she just twisted the actual story of the actor's honestly sudden and tragic death is just disgusting on her part. I'm getting to a point where I think you should have to pass extensive psychological testing before being allowed to have, foster, or adopt children.
She's always unnerved me. There's something predatory about her smile and her voice always contained an air of thinly veiled rage. It's literally like witnessing a wolf pretend to be sheep.
Her every word makes a sickly feeling crawl down my spine, like she's pouring liquid evil into my ear canal. This woman is pure evil, and she's not good at holding back her malice from dripping out of her every word; I've heard literal serial killers sound less unsettling to listen to.
@@Legal_Sweetie333what? What are you talking about? Did she say anything as in did she report it? Have you been paying attention at all? If so then you would hopefully understand that people, including this psycho witch's own oldest daughter, has been reporting this for years with zero results. People are allowed to speak about their own observations and opinions without people like you attempting to call them out and accusing them of not doing something about situations like this one! People are allowed to express their own opinions and do not need harassment from self righteous jerks.😊
my daughter ( 6 yrs old at the time) was coming home from school Hungry. even though kids generally eat a lot my gut had me question her. what she told me was some kids were taking her lunch and throwing it on the floor and smashing it. that was a call to the principal who reviewed the surveillance videos of the lunch room and punished the two girls doing it. my wife and i had a long talk with my daughter on how important it is to speak up, even on the little things that she doesn't think are problems. she now knows mom and dad have an open door policy and are available to help at any time. this is proper parenting.
I'm so sorry your baby had to go through that! Another thing my husband and I do is tell our children that IF they are too scared to talk to us, out of fear that they will be punished, tell us exactly THAT and we WILL shut up and listen until you are done explaining. We are also willing to allow a pass on the "consequence" if they did something wrong and limit the "consequence" to a thorough conversation instead. This has worked very well for us. Our kids are 12 G& 14 B .
😥 that breaks my heart. But good for you asking and believing her. And then doing to something and talk to her about. Great parenting and understanding to your child.
@@Repzion in our case, my husband is a x mormon and I am a ex Jehovah witness lol... our actual "how we met story" starts like a joke :" a ex jw and a ex Mormon walk into a bar..." Lol. Anyhow, I do believe those negative experiences made us better parents, just as I am sure, your experiences help you know "what not to do", when it comes to your children. ❤️
I got bullied in school and I spoke up for myself but nothing really happened so I stopped speaking up :/ so I’m very happy you’re making sure stuff gets done and please continue to do so (mine was the school who just didn’t give a shit) and make the school do stuff every time even if it’s ‘minor’ stuff
My sister's and eldest son went to school with some of her kids in Northern UT before she decided to homeschool. They were NOT shy about telling everyone about the abuse they were experiencing with their peers and teachers/counselors. This was going on for YEARS. CPS was called hundreds of times by the school, parents of their classmates, people in the community, and people on UA-cam. Each time they dismissed the cases. It's absolutely disgusting and infuriating how broken the system is here in Utah, I'm moving next year and it can't come fast enough. The father was just as abusive, allegedly. Hopefully, he gets his as well.
Culture of abuse they either have the cops in their back pocket or the culture, obviously a part of it, since they’re all living in their own little bubble Mormons are more powerful and connected. Then you think it’s like going down a weird rabbit hole, apparently it’s not even the mafia that runs Las Vegas. The mafia will listen to the Mormons I’m talking like weird next level and illuminati shit and that’s not a conspiracy you can look into it.
It's even worse that if that little boy hadn't escaped, they would still be bound by their wrists & ankles, starving & alone 😢 the neighbors literally said they were afraid they'd see the kids brought out in body bags 😭
Growing up in Utah, I knew SO many kids with Mormon parents like Ruby. Those same kids are the ones who rebelled the hardest and ended up either making really poor life decisions or completely cut contact with their parents in adulthood.
It makes you question whether or not her kids really did “forget to pack their lunch” or if she was withholding food and telling their teachers to do the same to further that punishment, probably making her children believe that the teachers were on board and not giving them a safe place to land when they probably needed that the most. It’s so sick.
As someone who's disabilities went undiagnosed throughout high school, I can guarantee that I was bullied by other disabled kids just as much as I was bullied by the abled kids. That mom is just in insane amounts of denial. Also, people who abuse kids deserve to be under the prison.
I was in the same boat, the worst part of this whole thing that I have is that it could have been fixed when I was a child but because my neighbor's kid punched me on the bus I immediately when we got off the bus cuz he was my neighbor I decked him I broke his nose. So here I am 60 and that is what my dad told me I said the reason that I didn't get fixed when I was a kid was because of that and I had to live with that disability my entire life. I have no words but I overcame it despite my family which held it over my head the entire time I was growing up
Same here, I was diagnosed as a baby but I was never told why exactly I was in an IEP class, just that I had learning disabilities. My senior year of high school was the worst when I found out my”friends” were only friends with me because they felt bad for me.
this happened far too late. people have been complaining about her for years, and for years those kids continued to suffer. my heart breaks for them. this woman is an absolute monster.
It escalated to the point that a (7?) Year old little boy had to save himself & his siblings 😢 there should be consequences for the people that ignored the problem & failed these kids. What if he hadn't escaped?? They're lucky they survived
@@aphroditestan exactly!!! i can't stop thinking about what if they hadn't escaped? they had DUCT TAPE on their wrsits and ankles!!! who knows how long that monster was going to keep those babies tied up!!! i hope that the women is prison give her what she deserves.
UA-cam is also directly complicit for the same reason - she was openly, blatantly abusive in her videos and that abuse was reported to UA-cam literally hundreds of times. They did NOTHING
I agree with you this happened far too late and if anybody who was to see the situation and see the situation unfold none of this would not be happening none of it at all and she would’ve been in jail for the natural born days of her life, knowing damn well as a mother, you’re not supposed to do that and knowing damn well that you are Mom Kids did not ask to be here or babies did not ask to be here your only job as a mother is to give them food protect them love them and give them the basic necessities for them to live a happy childhood and also give them their fucking privacy in their space I’m gonna tell you right now I’ve been a mother for almost 4 years and I am 34 years old. I’ve also took care of other kids than mines, but I’m gonna tell you right now she should rotten hell for what she put her kids through the same. Most of them will not contemplatecertain disorders like they have that mental capacity to kill themselves at any moment or they could have that mental capacity where they can’t think for themselves at all it’s kind of gross to me
Ruby strikes me as a textbook narcissist -- whatever the problem is, it's always caused by someone else or something else. It couldn't possibly be *her* fault!
perfect reminder that what people show online is surface level. If a parent is acting batshit online, that’s only what they’re choosing to show, not what goes on behind closed doors. I remember seeing her video explaining to the teacher that her daughter would just have to go hungry. A child that young isn’t taking “I should have remembered” from that situation. they’re learning “if I make a simple mistake that results in something like physical hunger pain, my mom WANTS me to suffer and will not help me and will tell others to not help me”. I specifically remember thinking that if she’s THAT comfortable saying all of that online and to a teacher, there has to be way worse behind closed doors.
That broke my heart. Like a 5/6 year old being tasked with packing their own lunch is fine (I don’t necessarily agree bc they can barely reach the counter to make a sandwich but it’s not inherently wrong) but to essentially say “you’re just gonna have to be hungry” and not giving them lunch money or anything if they forget their lunch at school is so so cruel. Like no shit Ruby, the teacher is uncomfortable, she actually cares about her student and is concerned about abuse bc she’s not a wackadoodle who abuses and neglects kids.
My parents packed my lunch until I was like 11 when I asked to start packing my own. Sometimes my parents packed it even when I was in high school bc they wanted to
💯 I work in customer service and I feel this from some people from go. There’s a hyper self righteousness to some people. Even if they don’t start crazy, they always get there no matter how agreeable you are. Literally just a matter of time.
'I know she is uncomfortable with my daughter being hungry and me bringing her food would ease that discomfort' Only evil people logic things out like that let alone SAY they're logicing things out like that
As someone raised by hardcore isolated Mormons. Yep. This is how I was raised. To this day the only music my mother listens to is church music. If something was not faith affirming or directly in line with the church we did not get to do it. One time I was 13 and my dad caught me Mbaiting and so from 13-until I was kicked out I never had a bedroom door. They see EVERYTHING- food, water, privacy, education, as a luxury to be earned and that they can be taken away at any point. I didn't get to experience any of the world or media until I was an adult. Captain Underpants was NEVER allowed because it quote "encouraged nudity and crude humor". If I made money it was "to help the family". I wasn't allowed property, identity, or individuality and often denied NECESSITIES. People that I wanted to be friends with were always "bad influences". Mormonism is 100% a cult. I will forever be grateful that I escaped. Obv can't tell everything here but if anyone has more questions ama in the replies.
i’m so sorry you had to go through all that, seems as if you never had a childhood. the good thing is that you’re free and healing. you can share your experiences and educate other people on the horrors of these cult like religions, help people who are trapped recognize the abuse.
Your parents did that?! That's HORRIBLE, I'm so sorry... I think your parents might have been one of those extreme christians that think music is evil etc. My dad and mom are Mormons but they listen to all kinds of music and respect my tastes in style, music, and books. I've never met any mormon who was cruel, at least in my ward, I'm not so sure about the others.. My dad thinks christians who take religion to the extreme (such as Ruby and VERY strict 'mormons') are crazy and he warns me about them.
@@inkamerikagirl2732You're def one of the lucky few Mormons who _haven't_ been traumatized from being raised in the church. And for that, I'm sincerely happy for you. Unfortunately, there are so many that didn't have the same experience. My husband was raised in the church, until he left the day he turned 18. Now almost 20 years later, he still struggles with PTSD-type issues from things that were done and said. On top of the trauma of having to deprogram and come to terms with the fact that his parents raised him to fear God and shoved their religious views down his throat just to maintain as much control as possible. A funny-ish story though: When we met and were well into our relationship, a girl from his church would come by his parent's house just to "visit" with his mother. And every time, she would always make a point to say, "be sure and tell him to call me as soon as he's done with that _fling."_ We're from a small town so the parents always try to play "match-maker" when there are girls and boys in the same age group. We've been married 16 years now and she's STILL single and refuses to acknowledge me (or our son) if we bump into her in public 🙄😂
Do you know about the U tube Chanel Mormon story's? I'm pretty sure that they would love to hear your story, and I hope that you do. I'm so sorry for what you have been through, and I hope that you have a long and happy life.
In one clip she tells the youngest/4 year old daughter to get her shoes on to go to the movies, she politely asks 'what movie?' and the mom like relentlessly scolds her for asking and says she's being ungrateful, and even calls the babysitter while the kid keeps apologizing. Then she makes her like officially apologize again and hug her in front of the camera while she says she won't take an ungrateful kid to the movies. It's so sad and beyond demented the way she has always treated these poor kids
I bet Ruby and Jodie never go without. They are never dealt by hungry or have their doors taken away for their mistakes. Karma is already in motion. That 12 year old boy is so brave for saving himself and his sisters!
As someone who works as a classroom aide, I can’t imagine letting a child deal with something this horrific. Family Channels are problematic and terrible in general, but 8 Passengers is by far the absolute worst of the worst. I genuinely wish I could do something to help those poor children. This shit is gonna fuck them up and traumatize them FOREVER. Ruby Franke is an evil psychopath from the pits of hell and so is Jodie. Thank you so much for this, Mr. Repzion.
it fills me with dread, thinking that anyone tried to pattern their parenting after this abuse. Horrific that it took a child escaping to get something done.
@@appalachiabrauchfrauthe children don't deserve the afflictions, but the sad excuse of parents deserve the consequences of their mess, especially if it straight up lead to NC at best. (different story if the parents realise and break away from this dumbfuckery and actually try to rebuild the bridge across the chasm, but that's more of a case-by-case thing I guess)
As the child of two boomers, getting hit as a punishment sucked. But I can’t imagine being starved and and dehydrated alongside the physical abuse…. 😮🤦🏻♀️ that’s terrible
Can confirm, was in cps, even tho my mother wasn’t abusive or neglectful. Which was proven very quickly, but they didn’t give me up for 2 years, because they already had a person who was willing to pay lots of money to buy me. Sorry, I mean adopt. Meanwhile, these kids were being severely abused for years, and they didn’t do shit, despite all the recorded evidence.
as a child still going through physical abuse after calling CPS multiple times, they simply really don’t care. In order for anything to happen, you have to call the cops at the exact moment and you have to have tons and tons and tons of proof, it’s sad really and people nowadays wonder why the youth suicide rate is raising so fast
My wife had CPS called on her mother and they didn't do anything about the meth lab in the basement. She even told her school counselor about abuse in her home and no one did anything. I don't know why people who don't care about kids want to work with kids.
@@cztianaki2689I've seen that so many times. CPS drags their feet to give kids back to parents that weren't neglectful but they'll turn a blind eye to actual abuse or send kids back into a hostile household and then act surprised when the kids end up in the hospital or dead.
@@averysspookshowspectacular6205 CPS is not the DEA... If your mother had a methlab did you help keep it a secret too? Why didnt YOU tell the cops about the meth lab? Your story sounds like a lie, first and formost. I find it impossible to believe a CPS worker would see a methlab and not report it. CPS has no real power anyways, it is a SERVICE, not an enforcement agency. All they can do is bring cases to a judge, so if you're unhappy with CPS and want to put alot of blame on CPS then 1) vote for a person who will fund CPS better 2) speak out when judges are lenient with abusive people.
I'm a survivor of severe childhood neglect and food deprivation has had lifelong effects on my relationship with food. Only in my 30s am I really myself and growing beyond that shit. This woman fills me with seething rage.
When my grandkids were growing up, I would read the books they were reading. Not to control what they read but so we could discuss the books. This instilled a love of reading and helped them learn to discuss what they learned.
The fact that that other horrible mother lied about the cause of Cameron's death ANGERED me to a level I never thought possible. My twin brother is epileptic and I remembered that horrible panicked feeling i felt when I read about what happened to that poor boy. Both mother's are disgusting.😡😡😡
I'm 63 and my parents had tv restrictions, but reading, play and friends were not restricted. I want my child to learn everything they can because this will make them a well-rounded person as well as smart. I think the tv restrictions were in order as the 70s had some shit going on. I'm glad I was raised in an Episcopalian family as I know that we are a community and help others. I also got to decide for myself that I did not want to go to church and live my atheist lifestyle with my parents acceptance. Religion-extreme religion is about CONTROL!!
This isn’t from Our religion I promise you. We have a rule we make choices according to the dictates of our own conscience even to have people worship how they please. Taking agency is what Satan does and we are aware we can’t ever take agency. She’s living in distortion as she claims
@@averysspookshowspectacular6205 but what do you mean by 'bad'? Lord of the Flies is a classic but very brutal. Or, how about Animal Farm? 1984? You are probably one of those people who think that The Bible is age appropriate for minors. Despite the incest, infanticide, and all the brutality within. Funny thing is that I did read The Bible at age 11, but as a classic. I found it boring actually and confusing. But as I grew older I started reading other religious and philosophical books. Anthropology was something I greatly enjoyed. My Baptist mother never restricted what I read. Ever! I'm very well read. I read her romance novels, comic books, and the classics from Hawthorne to Shakespeare. I'm one of the very few teens from the 80s who willingly read The Scarlet Letter for fun. My advice is to let them read if that is what interests them. If you try to restrict them from reading something it just makes it forbidden fruit and they will read it anyway.
@cheriremily9360 Lol, no, I mean poorly written books. Like Diary of a Wimpy Kid, I had to read some of those for a class I took, and I HATED it. Boring, bland, monotonous, and full of little assholes, I'd hand my kids Captain Underpants any day for something that mixes traditional novels with graphic novels. My mom (a pastor, by the way) brought home this graphic novel of Genesis, and it was the most hilarious thing because you can't ignore the fucked up shit when it's literally drawn in front of you.
16:44 the irony of her talking about people having a "distortion" when her entire ideological framework is made up of cognitive distortion lol and as an aspiring art therapist, I pray for all the people that crazy "therapist" influenced and most certainly traumatized and invalidated. I've been a client been through all levels of care in the mental health system for my eating disorder which Ruby believes is a choice btw lol but again not surprised! A lot of people are ignorant AF
Even if he had died by suicide it is not her place to judge, it is NOBODY place to judge, suicide and mental disorders are a serious matter and it is disgusting how she called herself a therapist while blaming emotions and not taking seriously subjects like suicide and deprssion. There are a lot of Connexions videos where she basically says that if you are depressed it's your own fault...she should be charged for that too and for the "advice" she gave to peolpe searching for help.
Junie B. Jones is probably one of the most wholesome book series i could think of for kids off the top of my head. Can anyone remember something from the series that would make ot bannable even for extreme american christians?
@@kochiedough I guess I always saw that as the point. She's such an example of how not to be. (I feel like caillou is so much worse than Junie on a separate/barely related note)
@oboebuddy15 I guess that makes sense. I maybe kinda saw that as the authors method to teach kids? Like why would her parents need to correct/advise her if she behaves all the time
“Let me first define selfless”… proceeds to give self-centered example. To be clear, loving oneself isn’t bad but it’s not the definition of selfless. She’s just making shit up as she goes. They even created cult lingo. What does “living in distortion” even mean.. they never seem to clearly define it.
You'll notice this kind of obfuscation and nonsense speak in every cultish religion and toxic ideology, the use of absolute gibberish meant to sound vaguely profound or meaningful while confusing people who aren't already fully immersed in the nonsense and ready to spread lies to justify it to their victims.
@@notsae66 it’s scary that some people hear this nonsense and think they’ve found answers. It’s so clearly a bunch of nothing to most of us but some people are so vulnerable and in need.
She's always been horrible but meeting Jodi made it worse! You can see her get more and more radical and extreme in her beliefs after Jodi got in her ear. She pulled her kids out of school so she could have total freedom in her abuse. Teachers are required to report any and all signs of abuse so she no longer had to worry about that. Also she knew she was fkd when she was denied access to her kids at the hospital. She took off when she was told the police wanted to talk to her. I think she wanted to get them to pin it all on Jodi. When she couldn't get to them, she went to the house to clean up the crime scene. Idc what ruby tries to claim, she knew exactly what was happening to her kids. The police described them as being emaciated! That does not happen overnight
@@DimaRakesah I was never a fan of home schooling for the simple fact I believe kids should be in school. It's where they learn how to function in society. How to handle bullies, how to win and lose, how to be around people in general. Especially with Ruby and how she treated her kids on camera.. CPS and DCF should have kept a close eye especially with all the calls the family allegedly made
Boils me blood to hear her vent about a person who sadly passed away calling them them 'Slefish" all while she starved her kids, gave them wounds and duct taped them...So happy shes in jail with no parole.
13:23 you are absolutely correct on this point, particularly with relation to disabled teens and adults. The parents of disabled youth are often wonderful people who are navigating a new world. There is, however, a tendency to infantilize disabled people in adolescence and into adulthood - they even reference her as their “little princess” instead of recognizing her as the unique and complex person that she is growing into. It’s like all of the people who believe that people with Downs Syndrome or Fredrickson’s, Fragile X, or many other conditions which cause intellectual disability; that those people are unable to express anything other than abject joy, love, relational openness, and “childlike” sweetness. They insist these children are “forever children” who never will grow up. Its ableist, it’s disgusting, and it suggests that adults who face intellectual delays are not “real” adults. It is ableist in its refusal to recognize those disabled persons as their own unique, special creatures - just like their abled counterparts.
Yeah, this. I'd also like to add that at least some of these parents of disabled children aren't supporting their children to become as independent as possible and actually hinder them in it because they don't want to let them go and only see them as vulnerable children and not teenagers or adults that are their own unique person just like everyone else and actually could thrive and do well if they get the right accommodations and support in their life. They actively keep their children dependent on them and often times deny them privacy and the right to say no to things or to dislike something because it doesn't fit into their daily schedule/life/view of their child/whatever. In my opinion that's abuse. I know of at least one family vlog channel with a non-verbal autistic child that's a teenager by now where I'm seriously questioning everyone who has contact with them because clearly the parents aren't doing what's best for their child and don't really understand autism and why their child behaves the way they do, yet nobody does anything or stands up for this child and makes sure that their wants and needs are taken seriously. Someone "professional" told the parents that the child was basically manipulating them to get out of a situation. As an autistic person that made me extremely furious because even I could tell that that was absolutely not the case. Nobody tried to actually figure out the real reason or ask the child about it. Also, talking about a disabled person in front of them as if they can't hear or understand you is something quite a lot of people do and it's absolutely disgusting and not okay. I've seen it quite a few times, especially when it comes to autistic children/people...
It's also like, how should I put it... "Why is it that you fucks are willing to put in all the effort in the world to understand your pet dog's language, yet when it comes to an autistic individual or someone with some form of disability, your brain shut down and you start babbling like you barely learnt to pull yourself out of a damn artificial uterus filled with tar?!" Idk, I hope it gets the idea across clear enough. 😅
about the disabled thing like i promise you disabled ppl can be just as cruel and vicious if not more so bc of all the things they've had to go through also funniest ppl you'll ever meet
It's actually a bit messed up to assume that all special needs kids are all pure, perfect angels. Even good sounding stereotypes are still stereotypes, and denying that disabled kids are capable of being mean is just reducing them to a stereotype. It's almost infantilizing.
@@transsnackit is infantilising, and also going to lead to a really rude awakening too when they got verbally bullied by a kid with severe ADHD or missing arm. 😅
This was reported over and over again and nothing was done. Everyone of those child services worker that had contact with the kids should be fired and charged. If any cop did a welfare check and they did not take those kids away to safety should be fired. I am so sick of people failing children. They tell us to report and we do and NOTHING happens !
There is not much they can do unless they catch them in the act like having them chained up in filth. The kid escaping and getting help at the right time is what saved them. If the parents were on drugs or alcoholics it would have been easier to prove that it’s not a safe environment.
@@jezabell yes there is a lot they can do. Children looking malnourished, they have had bruises and there was video proof of the deprivation and abuse. No excuses.
@@ShopStylebyme what can they do? Lots of kids look malnourished, lots of kids look overfed. Kids have bruises all the time, all this can be explained away. I don’t think they take kids away from their homes for those things. I’m not a social worker but I think they need more proof than that.
@@jezabell they can do a lot. I am in the social service field. It is absolutely a sign of abuse and neglect being malnourished and dirty. They put what they were doing on video. They are supposed to have interviews doctors, teachers the children when there is evidence of neglect and abuse. None of this was done.
@@ShopStylebyme that’s a lot of resources to use up for a rich family. I just don’t see that happening. There are poor families with worse going on and nothing gets done. Reporting is not an automatic take down because there are people who make false reports, so they do ask the kids and that does count. Who knows what the kids said when faced with consequences. I think things escalated when the dad was no longer there, the kids may have felt even more abandoned and really wanted out at that point.
Thank you so much for making a video of your own about this Dan!! You're looking great, hope your gorgeous other half and the kids are all doing AMAZING ❤️😊 Anyways, regarding this topic... What angers me the most, when I was commenting on their videos about my concerns regarding the kids, people would literally bully me out of the frigging comment section!!! People seemed to be so okay with everything that's been going on back then on their channel and now, see all the people, actively talking against her actions, the same people who were literally rooting for her when she was successful (money-wise). It's making me fume inside out and I absolutely DESPISE that. To all those people who were watching and thinking there's nothing wrong with it but now acting as if they've always been against it - touch grass and learn priorities!!! Logical, humane and compassion priorities ffs, those kids were VISIBLY unwell and treated like a criminal being tortured!! This society has so many problems and more than to spread awareness and to pray, there's nothing we can do I guess, there will always be people who choose to be willingly blind to things as such and then just run from one "in and more popular" things to another, like sheep. Especially in cancel culture. God bless those children, may they rest, be taken care of properly and hopefully there are people around them who mean them well, wholeheartedly! I'm just scared with the system, it is so scary, children are being taken advantage of and we've seen it all with kids who went through similar things but got their money taken, ab*used even more and at the end, there's most of the times nothing but a shell of a tortured soul left anymore, because it gets unbearable, understandably. Let's go ahead and work on the ROOTS of these problems. Not only oh the symptoms!! PLEASE, FFS.. I'm so SORRY for the rant Dan. Whoever reads this, I hope life is treating you well ❤ ALL the best to you! 🍀💐🌞☺️
She always seems so full of hate when she speaks. It's like she can barely contain her evilness and rage from spilling out. That's what she's communicating with her tone and overall presentation.
Now this crazy Mom is going to take away all her disabled daughters toys and collectibles that she loves as punishment for being bullied? WTF??? You can't make this stuff up. This child will never, ever go to her Mom when she has a problem because she can't trust her to help.
She’s a piece of work. She really sounds so unhinged and unwell. I’m so glad her kids are finally in a better, safer/more healthy place!! I feel so bad for the kids.
My mom was exactly like this woman except with the camera. I had my room taken away for a year and had to sleep in the garage instead. My stepdad was the only reason why I got a sleeping bag. I was 45lbs at the age of 12. I was able to escape and move on but hearing everyone's reaction to this is wild because this is what I see as normal. Seeing how pissed everyone gets makes me feel some form of justice.
Quick thing with descendants. They’re referencing #3 and Cameron Boyce did not unalive himself. He had a grand Mal seizure in his sleep. This is ableist but common with the views on seizures, as someone with epilepsy. I’ve heard at least twice that im more likely to do something like that over my epilepsy. His family actually started a charity for epileptics. I’m uh. Blown away. By that part. Yiiiikes
Honestly I hope this opens up a larger investigation into the Utah CPS, police and judicial system by a federal agency. It is very clear that too many of the branches of accountability in that area are seeded with the very group responsible for this and other instances of child abuse.
When I seen the video of Ruby almost crashing into an actual car crash and telling her children they were all dying, I knew this woman was batshit behind the scenes.
I just hope this chick tries some of her superior attitude on her fellow inmates when she goes to prison - she’s gonna have all kinds of distortion coming her way - she will learn some painful “truth” for sure. And same for nurse Ratchet/Jodi.
if she does she's gonna be in a women's prison... they don't like child killers, abusers... and women can be just as ruthless as men, if not worse. she deserves no mercy, what so ever.
@@D4rthsunnywomen can always make things hurt even more. They use emotion behind things which always makes things more powerful and any prisoner that kicks this bitches ass deserve time served
13:15 The actor didn't end his own life btw. She's referring to cameron boyce who died from a seizure, if i remember correctly. it is twisted to portray his life ending from a seizure as su*cide.
That was my immediate thought. Like no, not only is suicide not selfish in ALL cases. He didn’t even do it. The daughter didn’t know. But the non existent selfishness that was unknown was making her daughter selfish? Sounds like a bunch of excuses for being a bad parent of a disabled child. Also, we don’t know her disability, she could just not be very social… which also isn’t selfish
@@humblenuggetI wouldn’t say suicide is not selfish in all cases. Murder suicide is a pretty selfish way to go. I also had a neighbour that cruelly chose to shoot himself in his young daughter’s room (naturally she was the first to come across that horrific seen) though I suppose it was better then offing himself right in front of her and his other children I guess. I’d say these could be considered selfish. On the other hand, there have been those that ended there lives in the forest or someplace isolated, so there families wouldn’t be the ones to find them, and I know of others that chose a bathtub with the curtain closed (to make clean up easier) That even in their darkest and loneliest time they took others into their consideration. All in all, it’s nuanced.
I always thought the reason people didn’t watch Tom Cruise movies was to not monetarily support an abuser, not because they thought watching him would turn their kids in to Scientologists?
The bullying thing hurt to hear. My parents never believing me or offering support has affected me as an adult. I've just been overseas on holiday, meeting up with my mum and brother (we live in different parts of the same country) and I could not open up about my personal issues even though I was visibly depressed the whole time. It also took 2 weeks of panic attacks and hiding from my family to ask my mum who speak the language for help getting more meds for my anxiety as I didn't expect to need much and those meds are hard to get here, let alone while on a remote island with no doctor or pharmacy.
from day one, when i first saw her about her child forgetting their lunch and telling the teacher NOT to feed her, i just had a really off feeling about the "mother". she's really something beyond wrong...something evil, who's a complete nutcase
She's insane, cruel, and a bunch of other ugly stuff. Its hard to believe that she got away for so long with her cruelty to her children, created a following and made millions of dollars along the way with her loser husband.
His name was Cameron boyce, the actor for carlos passed away in july 2019 from sudep at age 20. That mother had no respect to look into it, and he shouldnt be talked abt like that
Ironic that she didn't want 'distortion' but monetized every moment of her kids lives, robbing them of privacy, never with their consent and made a huge amount of bank doing it on a massive social media platform to a massive audience.
when i was a child, mind you my childhood wasn't perfect, i was asking for candy and soda. to know there's a child out there who asked for FOOD and WATER shakes me to my core. i hope these poor babies get the care they deserve
This isn't a Mormon thing. This is a psycho thing. Anyone else low-key think She's fighting back her "ungodly" feelings for her business partner and taking out her frustration on her own kids? Where were Jodi and Ruby when the kids were discovered? They were together right?
The thing that's crazy is that she's not just dragging people who die from suicide (which is bad enough) what she's saying is also demonstrably false. Cameron Boyce did not die by suicide. He die in his sleep from an epileptic seizure.
I'm really confused, because he didn't take his own life?? He has a medical condition?? So she's worried about something that her daughter doesn't know about because IT NEVER HAPPENED! Even if it did, I hate the implication that it's a selfish act, it's not. My sister unalived herself and she was the most selfless person I've ever met. She was taking a new medication and it had a major risk of suicidal behavior, it aggravated her depression and she couldn't take it anymore. Often those people genuinely believe that they are doing everyone a favor. They feel like such a burden that they don't think anyone will be sad, but instead happy. They also often have blinders on and can only see how unbearable their pain is, and a way out. They can't think of their family because they can't think of anything other than the pain. No one does that because it's fun or enjoyable, it always come deep, indescribable, darkness and a feeling will never end unless they do that.
Anyone who says suicide is selfish has never known what it's felt like to be truly suicidal. When you're suicidal it feels like you're doing every one else a favor
Their kids have been ABUSED, ABANDONED & absolutely TORTURED FROM BIRTH!!! It’s beyond incomprehensible. I cannot watch anymore of her videos bc it’s infuriating and heartbreaking & HOWWWW WERE CHARGES NOT PRESSED IN ALL THESE YEARS?!?!?!
Welcome to my childhood. I was much like Eve. Going from home to home trying to make friends. Even once I ran away and tried to hide my identity (I was like 5) with grass in my hair and dirt on my bike.
Their pseudo psychology is so so dangerous and self serving they telling you that everything bad happening to you is because of you, and everything good is because of them. And please look more into her "therapist" she is a dangerous piece of work. There are guaranteed broken and harmed families in their wake.
So an actor from a Disney movie dies of a seizure, and the mother comes to the conclusion that her daughter is lying about being bullied for attention??? And this is somehow a “Distortion”, that the movie caused for her daughter, according to Ruby? Holy Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss, Batman.
Iv noticed that this "disconnect" isn't disconnection it's creativety it's your kid having an imagination. This is a good thing. You as a parent should foster and support your childs creativity. And be the first line of defense against other children and especially other adults who should seek and destroy or disrupt that kids creativity.
That Pokemon story hurt ngl 😢 I cried when my cards were lost in a move, I couldn't imagine if they were thrown away by people I had no choice but to trust
Well sure! She has to protect them from all the `Godless` material out there. I mean, you can't very well leave "Captain Underpants" around for them to read while you leave them by themselves for hours on end and/or duct tape their hands and starve them to death! You wouldn't want them to get some crazy notions like "A superhero from one of the boys' homemade comic books, who accidentally becomes real when George and Harold hypnotize their cruel, bossy, and ill-tempered principal, Mr. Krupp." They might figure out that their mother is just like Mr Krupp. 😒Enjoy prison lady. I hope your fellow inmates are as disgusted by you as the rest of us.
So, I saw from comments that people were explaining that the "parent" either decided to not believe what they read or didn't actually research properly because the actor actually died in his sleep from a seizure disorder. Not from taking his own life. As someone who struggles with a seizure disorder myself, that infuriates me. How his death was changed to something it was not. Also, the fact that the "parent" believes that there's just no way that their daughter can be bullied while in a special needs program is RIDICULOUS. People can be bad to others even if they have special needs! This is coming from someone who grew up with a severely disabled older brother and then interacted with other kids in the family with special needs. And had friends who had family members with special needs who I interacted with. Like, what the heck...
Still at the beginning of the video, but speaking of child's social development, I'm a teacher at a private school and we have a hone schooled kid that comes in a couple of times a week in the morning specifically for social development. It's that important for human beings to socialize. Poor Eve was just looking for socialization on her own. And if she's homeschooled, shouldn't she be working on something?
The fact that parents are turning to someone who has absolutely no qualifications and any kind of counseling for advice on how to parent their children is what concerns me. This woman and her cohort are monsters, plain, and simple. I hope they get hit with a maximum jail sentence.
I always appreciate the manner you go about respecting the kids in these situations. I've been watching your channel long enough to remember DaddyOf5... As a victim of CSA and child neglect, it's always so *aggravating* to watch videos like these but I am happy that the kids are (hopefully) going to be taken care of. It will be a long road for them, for sure.
15:23 so I double checked this and the actor they are talking about is Cameron Boyce and he didn’t unalive himself, he passed away in his sleep from a seizure because he had a disorder. So way to go on even more ableism from the parents of a disabled child!
It baffles me how parents continue to justify such restrictive methods under the guise of protection. There have been so many people who have been vocal about sneaking around/lying in their teens-20s, essentially going off the rails into sex and drugs the second they could, and eventually the relationship becomes strained or cut off entirely. I haven't looked for myself but I'm almost certain there's research out there of some sort that supports this (there has to be, right??). Tbh seeing these types of parents get theirs when they die alone, their kid refuses to speak to them even on their deathbed, brings me great joy. Serves em right. I hope when it comes time for Ruby to meet her maker, she has never met any potential grandchildren and is filled with regret. Fuck her. She doesn't deserve another peaceful moment.
I completely agree with you. An example of tv shows or movies causing behavioral issues is when my husband was 7, he was banned from watching Power Rangers bc he kept dropkicking his siblings 😭💀
I had no idea you were reared by parents who subscribed to the IBLP ideology. I’m sorry you went through that. I’m really glad you are who you are and that you made it out (hopefully) mostly mentally/emotionally intact. Much love brother ❤.
Ruby and parents like her ultimately see their children as their possessions rather than individual vulnerable humans they have a responsibility to care for. They see parenting as a way you control your child rather than a way to support your child in growing into adulthood. I wouldn't trust someone like Ruby to care for a goldfish let alone 6 children. I really hope her kids have all the support and therapy to help them process the trauma their parents put them through.
for the subject of the woman claiming her daughter wasn't being bullied and didn't believe her JUST because she was in a school for teens with disabilities is completely ignorant. my brother has down syndrome and he was in disability classes yet he WAS bullied by another disabled student. the kid would hit and scratch at him and my mom finally had to pull him out of that school because the teacher was doing nothing to stop it. this kid would have violent tantrums and a lot of the time, my brother would be his target. it happens, sadly, no matter who you are. SHAME on the "mother" for not believing her daughter and instead decided to blame something that brings her daughter joy, wtf. ( this just really bugged 'cause my brother did go through something like this but my mom took the RIGHT actions and believed him and tried to talk to the teacher and get her to do something about it but when nothing was really being done, she removed him from there. she didn't weirdly think he was lying and didn't weirdly try to pretty much punish him by taking away something he loves like Spiderman- trying to blame the violence in that instead. Ruby is a terrible person but that lady writing to her really irked me ) plus the whole suicide thing is just disgusting...not to mention that thats not even how that actor passed away. of course thats the kind of woman she is that she'd be asking RUBY for advice.
Some say not to celebrate someone's downfall.... but I'm not one of them! I laughed my ass off the first I saw of this story. I hope the kids can recover and leave this wretched woman behind.
Just a point - yes, sometimes an actor's views very much affect the movie they are making. Battlefield Earth is a good example. Silent Hill is a less well known one. But the kid doesn't know anything about the actors or their personal lives, so it's insane to think that it somehow is causing bad behavior via proximity or osmosis or some shit.
The so-called "disconnect" is definitely the "lie" that she's being bullied. "If I make a committment, then I'll make a commitment with my heart, and I *will* follow through." that's pretty fcking rich from a woman whose daughter needed to go to the hospital and she said "I just want to take a shower first" and then sat in the bathroom FOR OVER AN HOUR after taking her shower because she didn't want to take her child to the hospital. It's not even just the fact the mom didn't do even the bare minimum of research about Cameron Boyce. It's the fact a *disabled child* came home upset that she was being bullied, and the mom somehow connected it to Descendants, and blamed.... the actors? An actor who died due to epilepsey and not self checkout? I don't think it's a case of "disabled people are so useless they can't bully" it's her thinking all disabled people are gentle and innocent and naive like young children. I think the mom never figured out how to navigate having a disabled child, and was an easy victim for Ruby's brainwashing and making parents deeply paranoid about their parenting. It's weird to me any follower of Ruby's even let her daughter watch a Disney series about the children of *the villains* where the protagonist's name is derived from the word "malicious" and whose mother is often cast as the most evil and cunning of he villains. Considering Ruby never let her kids have fun for even the smallest of infractions like not closing an upstairs window to the point it properly latched or something stupid. which idk if she did that but I can just hear her berating one of her kids over it, saying that now the room is cold and the power bill will be high trying to keep the room warm when the window is "open" and because of that they're losing their ipad privileges. Listening to Ruby stresses me out, she's so cruel.
Just a slightly off topic note: I wouldn't choose not to see a Tom Cruise movie because of his beliefs. Except that money that is made from a movie he is in will make it's way into Scientology's pocket, and I choose not to put money there. I don't make that a way to judge others, it's just a personal choice of mine. Similar to how I choose to not shop at hobby lobby.
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He was literally 20, and was super talented and had his whole life ahead of him. A very sad tragedy all around. I hope his family have found peace and support in their grief. 💔
I know you added the truth about Cameron Boyce’s death to your pinned comment but I’m really bummed that you didn’t do the research ahead of time.
I think it’s important when covering drama especially when critiquing an unreliable source to double check everything they are saying especially if it’s a 10 minute rant on one specific thing that is easily able to be fact checked.
@@extremelytired4584 I don't have the time to research movie information of actors, regardless of what she said was true or not, my statements still stand on how they view not aliving yourself. My response to her is about how they view not aliving themselves, not whether the claim is true or not; it does not change the context of my response.
The person spreading misinformation is the person asking the question, not me responding to how they view not aliving themselves. My problem is with how they view not living oneself, not how they actually passed away, but I added to my pinned comment for clarification. Not everything I respond to needs some deep dive 'research' because if that was the case, I'd never get a video done.
@@indicafairy I can agree and disagree it would've been good. But the person still made the error and insulted him for something he didn't do. He didn't but I appreciate Repzion for trying to give understanding suicide and not calling it selfish. He responded directly to what the mother. She was still the one who was wrong. So was Repzion but I can understand facing the point directly
Tom cruise wasn't the best analogy. I understood the point but scientology specifically picked up cruise as a selling point. They want people, including kids, to see him in movies and equate him to scientology as a positive. He's a recruitment tool.
Just for clarification: the woman talking about the cast of Disney's descendants doesn't know what she's talking about. If she actually looked into it, Cameron died from a seizure in his sleep at the age of 20. He had issues with seizures his whole life. It's a small tidbit, but something I thought should be clarified.
That really bugged me when she said that because she made his death sound like something he chose to do (not that someone committing suicide isn’t just as devastating) rather than because of something that was out of his control. Like he chose to die. It’s even more infuriating is that the parent’s daughter is also suffering from health issues and could have looked up to him as a role model and now because of the parent’s inability to cross check, she’s no longer allowed to even mention him because of his supposed cause of death which could be disproved by a 2 second google search
Yes! Was just commenting to say this. He didn’t want to die it was an awful horrible thing that happened to him like where would she even get that info from just googling his name you’ll find out within 30 seconds what happened to him.
Yeah fr. Their whole story was complete nonsense
What gets me about the Disney Descendants story is the actor didn't commit suicide, he died of complications from epilepsy. The mother didn't even do the barest minimum of research. She just saw an actor who had died and I guess assumed it was because of suicide to make it fit her agenda of not wanting to allow her child to watch it anymore. What a shitty, shitty parent. I mean she wrote to Ruby for advice so that already was a choice but the way she just twisted the actual story of the actor's honestly sudden and tragic death is just disgusting on her part. I'm getting to a point where I think you should have to pass extensive psychological testing before being allowed to have, foster, or adopt children.
I agree
WTF??!!! She said that about Cameron?? SCREW her!
I know,how disrespectful to Cameron and defaming.
no literally I came here just to say this! I was hoping I wasn’t the only one who was so upset about the mom accusing Cam of committing suicide.
I was tryna figure out who she was talking about till I came across this comment. I can't believe she said Cameron Boyce "killed himself" ....
She's always unnerved me. There's something predatory about her smile and her voice always contained an air of thinly veiled rage. It's literally like witnessing a wolf pretend to be sheep.
Her every word makes a sickly feeling crawl down my spine, like she's pouring liquid evil into my ear canal. This woman is pure evil, and she's not good at holding back her malice from dripping out of her every word; I've heard literal serial killers sound less unsettling to listen to.
Yeah, but did you say anything? For the kids?
@@Legal_Sweetie333I did and I was just old enough to vote
She is a disgusting person.
@@Legal_Sweetie333what? What are you talking about? Did she say anything as in did she report it? Have you been paying attention at all? If so then you would hopefully understand that people, including this psycho witch's own oldest daughter, has been reporting this for years with zero results. People are allowed to speak about their own observations and opinions without people like you attempting to call them out and accusing them of not doing something about situations like this one! People are allowed to express their own opinions and do not need harassment from self righteous jerks.😊
my daughter ( 6 yrs old at the time) was coming home from school Hungry. even though kids generally eat a lot my gut had me question her. what she told me was some kids were taking her lunch and throwing it on the floor and smashing it. that was a call to the principal who reviewed the surveillance videos of the lunch room and punished the two girls doing it. my wife and i had a long talk with my daughter on how important it is to speak up, even on the little things that she doesn't think are problems. she now knows mom and dad have an open door policy and are available to help at any time. this is proper parenting.
I'm so sorry your baby had to go through that! Another thing my husband and I do is tell our children that IF they are too scared to talk to us, out of fear that they will be punished, tell us exactly THAT and we WILL shut up and listen until you are done explaining. We are also willing to allow a pass on the "consequence" if they did something wrong and limit the "consequence" to a thorough conversation instead. This has worked very well for us. Our kids are 12 G& 14 B .
😥 that breaks my heart. But good for you asking and believing her. And then doing to something and talk to her about. Great parenting and understanding to your child.
Wow, that’s amazing
@@Repzion in our case, my husband is a x mormon and I am a ex Jehovah witness lol... our actual "how we met story" starts like a joke :" a ex jw and a ex Mormon walk into a bar..." Lol. Anyhow, I do believe those negative experiences made us better parents, just as I am sure, your experiences help you know "what not to do", when it comes to your children. ❤️
I got bullied in school and I spoke up for myself but nothing really happened so I stopped speaking up :/ so I’m very happy you’re making sure stuff gets done and please continue to do so (mine was the school who just didn’t give a shit) and make the school do stuff every time even if it’s ‘minor’ stuff
My sister's and eldest son went to school with some of her kids in Northern UT before she decided to homeschool. They were NOT shy about telling everyone about the abuse they were experiencing with their peers and teachers/counselors. This was going on for YEARS. CPS was called hundreds of times by the school, parents of their classmates, people in the community, and people on UA-cam. Each time they dismissed the cases. It's absolutely disgusting and infuriating how broken the system is here in Utah, I'm moving next year and it can't come fast enough. The father was just as abusive, allegedly. Hopefully, he gets his as well.
Blond upper middle class "Christian" mom. They gave her,a pass because of superficial impression
Culture of abuse they either have the cops in their back pocket or the culture, obviously a part of it, since they’re all living in their own little bubble Mormons are more powerful and connected. Then you think it’s like going down a weird rabbit hole, apparently it’s not even the mafia that runs Las Vegas. The mafia will listen to the Mormons I’m talking like weird next level and illuminati shit and that’s not a conspiracy you can look into it.
@@merriferrell2818Now imagine a black woman doing half of what she does, they would take the kids away in 5 business seconds.
@@misty9964 Apparently Murican CPS in general just shitty so I don't even think so?
It's even worse that if that little boy hadn't escaped, they would still be bound by their wrists & ankles, starving & alone 😢 the neighbors literally said they were afraid they'd see the kids brought out in body bags 😭
The cast member from The Descendants who died had epilepsy and passed because of it...he didn't "end himself".
Thanks for letting me know, I added that the pinned comment.
@@indicafairyHe did…
that shows how ignorant Ruby is. i’m so glad she’s getting what she deserves
@@indicafairy wait, how do you just edit already-posted video beyond just basic-ass clipping or something?
@@crowdemon_archivesyou can't
Growing up in Utah, I knew SO many kids with Mormon parents like Ruby. Those same kids are the ones who rebelled the hardest and ended up either making really poor life decisions or completely cut contact with their parents in adulthood.
It makes you question whether or not her kids really did “forget to pack their lunch” or if she was withholding food and telling their teachers to do the same to further that punishment, probably making her children believe that the teachers were on board and not giving them a safe place to land when they probably needed that the most. It’s so sick.
As someone who's disabilities went undiagnosed throughout high school, I can guarantee that I was bullied by other disabled kids just as much as I was bullied by the abled kids. That mom is just in insane amounts of denial.
Also, people who abuse kids deserve to be under the prison.
I was in the same boat, the worst part of this whole thing that I have is that it could have been fixed when I was a child but because my neighbor's kid punched me on the bus I immediately when we got off the bus cuz he was my neighbor I decked him I broke his nose. So here I am 60 and that is what my dad told me I said the reason that I didn't get fixed when I was a kid was because of that and I had to live with that disability my entire life. I have no words but I overcame it despite my family which held it over my head the entire time I was growing up
Same here, that was back in middle school days the past as well I hide animation series that I loved.
Same here, I was diagnosed as a baby but I was never told why exactly I was in an IEP class, just that I had learning disabilities. My senior year of high school was the worst when I found out my”friends” were only friends with me because they felt bad for me.
Same here. I have a few disabilities and I knew a girl who also had a disability. She was an absolute jerk to me.
I don't think they realize that kids can be very blunt and can be quite cruel.
this happened far too late. people have been complaining about her for years, and for years those kids continued to suffer. my heart breaks for them. this woman is an absolute monster.
It escalated to the point that a (7?) Year old little boy had to save himself & his siblings 😢 there should be consequences for the people that ignored the problem & failed these kids. What if he hadn't escaped?? They're lucky they survived
@@aphroditestan exactly!!! i can't stop thinking about what if they hadn't escaped? they had DUCT TAPE on their wrsits and ankles!!! who knows how long that monster was going to keep those babies tied up!!! i hope that the women is prison give her what she deserves.
UA-cam is also directly complicit for the same reason - she was openly, blatantly abusive in her videos and that abuse was reported to UA-cam literally hundreds of times.
They did NOTHING
@@crispeggiesI would say we learn more, as the kids will speak up
I agree with you this happened far too late and if anybody who was to see the situation and see the situation unfold none of this would not be happening none of it at all and she would’ve been in jail for the natural born days of her life, knowing damn well as a mother, you’re not supposed to do that and knowing damn well that you are Mom Kids did not ask to be here or babies did not ask to be here your only job as a mother is to give them food protect them love them and give them the basic necessities for them to live a happy childhood and also give them their fucking privacy in their space I’m gonna tell you right now I’ve been a mother for almost 4 years and I am 34 years old. I’ve also took care of other kids than mines, but I’m gonna tell you right now she should rotten hell for what she put her kids through the same. Most of them will not contemplatecertain disorders like they have that mental capacity to kill themselves at any moment or they could have that mental capacity where they can’t think for themselves at all it’s kind of gross to me
Ruby strikes me as a textbook narcissist -- whatever the problem is, it's always caused by someone else or something else. It couldn't possibly be *her* fault!
No, a textbook sadistic psychopath
It’s so scary how much she believes the outside world is so wrong and she’s so right. You’re 100%
perfect reminder that what people show online is surface level. If a parent is acting batshit online, that’s only what they’re choosing to show, not what goes on behind closed doors.
I remember seeing her video explaining to the teacher that her daughter would just have to go hungry. A child that young isn’t taking “I should have remembered” from that situation. they’re learning “if I make a simple mistake that results in something like physical hunger pain, my mom WANTS me to suffer and will not help me and will tell others to not help me”. I specifically remember thinking that if she’s THAT comfortable saying all of that online and to a teacher, there has to be way worse behind closed doors.
That broke my heart. Like a 5/6 year old being tasked with packing their own lunch is fine (I don’t necessarily agree bc they can barely reach the counter to make a sandwich but it’s not inherently wrong) but to essentially say “you’re just gonna have to be hungry” and not giving them lunch money or anything if they forget their lunch at school is so so cruel. Like no shit Ruby, the teacher is uncomfortable, she actually cares about her student and is concerned about abuse bc she’s not a wackadoodle who abuses and neglects kids.
My parents packed my lunch until I was like 11 when I asked to start packing my own. Sometimes my parents packed it even when I was in high school bc they wanted to
Her whole concept of “distortion” seems to almost be a mormonization of Scientology and she doesn’t even realize it; she’s so proud of herself.
Our religion doesn’t use this phrase they created this program and none of it makes sense
Our religion doesn’t use this phrase they created this program and none of it makes sense
@@strawberryme08i would invite you to look critically at your religion regardless of this crazy lady
@@strawberryme08theyre putting meaning to random words like they accuse everyone else of doing 😂
@@strawberryme08what religion
Right from the start, the mere tone of the opening few words of her statement told me this woman was evil and crazy.
💯 I work in customer service and I feel this from some people from go. There’s a hyper self righteousness to some people. Even if they don’t start crazy, they always get there no matter how agreeable you are. Literally just a matter of time.
'I know she is uncomfortable with my daughter being hungry and me bringing her food would ease that discomfort'
Only evil people logic things out like that let alone SAY they're logicing things out like that
As someone raised by hardcore isolated Mormons. Yep. This is how I was raised. To this day the only music my mother listens to is church music. If something was not faith affirming or directly in line with the church we did not get to do it. One time I was 13 and my dad caught me Mbaiting and so from 13-until I was kicked out I never had a bedroom door. They see EVERYTHING- food, water, privacy, education, as a luxury to be earned and that they can be taken away at any point. I didn't get to experience any of the world or media until I was an adult. Captain Underpants was NEVER allowed because it quote "encouraged nudity and crude humor". If I made money it was "to help the family". I wasn't allowed property, identity, or individuality and often denied NECESSITIES. People that I wanted to be friends with were always "bad influences". Mormonism is 100% a cult. I will forever be grateful that I escaped.
Obv can't tell everything here but if anyone has more questions ama in the replies.
i’m so sorry you had to go through all that, seems as if you never had a childhood. the good thing is that you’re free and healing. you can share your experiences and educate other people on the horrors of these cult like religions, help people who are trapped recognize the abuse.
Your parents did that?! That's HORRIBLE, I'm so sorry... I think your parents might have been one of those extreme christians that think music is evil etc. My dad and mom are Mormons but they listen to all kinds of music and respect my tastes in style, music, and books. I've never met any mormon who was cruel, at least in my ward, I'm not so sure about the others.. My dad thinks christians who take religion to the extreme (such as Ruby and VERY strict 'mormons') are crazy and he warns me about them.
@@inkamerikagirl2732You're def one of the lucky few Mormons who _haven't_ been traumatized from being raised in the church. And for that, I'm sincerely happy for you. Unfortunately, there are so many that didn't have the same experience. My husband was raised in the church, until he left the day he turned 18. Now almost 20 years later, he still struggles with PTSD-type issues from things that were done and said. On top of the trauma of having to deprogram and come to terms with the fact that his parents raised him to fear God and shoved their religious views down his throat just to maintain as much control as possible. A funny-ish story though: When we met and were well into our relationship, a girl from his church would come by his parent's house just to "visit" with his mother. And every time, she would always make a point to say, "be sure and tell him to call me as soon as he's done with that _fling."_ We're from a small town so the parents always try to play "match-maker" when there are girls and boys in the same age group. We've been married 16 years now and she's STILL single and refuses to acknowledge me (or our son) if we bump into her in public 🙄😂
Do you know about the U tube Chanel Mormon story's?
I'm pretty sure that they would love to hear your story, and I hope that you do.
I'm so sorry for what you have been through, and I hope that you have a long and happy life.
god damn...
The worst part of this whole thing about descendants is that he didn't off himself, he died in his sleep do to epilepsy related issues.
In one clip she tells the youngest/4 year old daughter to get her shoes on to go to the movies, she politely asks 'what movie?' and the mom like relentlessly scolds her for asking and says she's being ungrateful, and even calls the babysitter while the kid keeps apologizing. Then she makes her like officially apologize again and hug her in front of the camera while she says she won't take an ungrateful kid to the movies. It's so sad and beyond demented the way she has always treated these poor kids
I bet Ruby and Jodie never go without. They are never dealt by hungry or have their doors taken away for their mistakes. Karma is already in motion. That 12 year old boy is so brave for saving himself and his sisters!
As someone who works as a classroom aide, I can’t imagine letting a child deal with something this horrific. Family Channels are problematic and terrible in general, but 8 Passengers is by far the absolute worst of the worst.
I genuinely wish I could do something to help those poor children. This shit is gonna fuck them up and traumatize them FOREVER.
Ruby Franke is an evil psychopath from the pits of hell and so is Jodie. Thank you so much for this, Mr. Repzion.
"problematic"
@@Legal_Sweetie333we can go private for the real meanings
why did you put problematic in quotations? family channels definitely are problematic, lmao. @@Legal_Sweetie333
How many students have you slept with, and have they received their luckiest boy in the world medal?
@@Legal_Sweetie333not really sure what your point is. You know problematic is in fact a word right?
it fills me with dread, thinking that anyone tried to pattern their parenting after this abuse. Horrific that it took a child escaping to get something done.
The parents that followed her advice have mixed their kids into a recipe for cluster B personality disorders, so good luck to them lol.
@@appalachiabrauchfrauthe children don't deserve the afflictions, but the sad excuse of parents deserve the consequences of their mess, especially if it straight up lead to NC at best.
(different story if the parents realise and break away from this dumbfuckery and actually try to rebuild the bridge across the chasm, but that's more of a case-by-case thing I guess)
As the child of two boomers, getting hit as a punishment sucked. But I can’t imagine being starved and and dehydrated alongside the physical abuse…. 😮🤦🏻♀️ that’s terrible
This is yet another example of how utterly useless CPS is in cases like this
Can confirm, was in cps, even tho my mother wasn’t abusive or neglectful. Which was proven very quickly, but they didn’t give me up for 2 years, because they already had a person who was willing to pay lots of money to buy me. Sorry, I mean adopt.
Meanwhile, these kids were being severely abused for years, and they didn’t do shit, despite all the recorded evidence.
as a child still going through physical abuse after calling CPS multiple times, they simply really don’t care. In order for anything to happen, you have to call the cops at the exact moment and you have to have tons and tons and tons of proof, it’s sad really and people nowadays wonder why the youth suicide rate is raising so fast
My wife had CPS called on her mother and they didn't do anything about the meth lab in the basement. She even told her school counselor about abuse in her home and no one did anything. I don't know why people who don't care about kids want to work with kids.
@@cztianaki2689I've seen that so many times. CPS drags their feet to give kids back to parents that weren't neglectful but they'll turn a blind eye to actual abuse or send kids back into a hostile household and then act surprised when the kids end up in the hospital or dead.
@@averysspookshowspectacular6205
CPS is not the DEA...
If your mother had a methlab did you help keep it a secret too?
Why didnt YOU tell the cops about the meth lab?
Your story sounds like a lie, first and formost.
I find it impossible to believe a CPS worker would see a methlab and not report it.
CPS has no real power anyways, it is a SERVICE, not an enforcement agency.
All they can do is bring cases to a judge, so if you're unhappy with CPS and want to put alot of blame on CPS then
1) vote for a person who will fund CPS better
2) speak out when judges are lenient with abusive people.
I'm a survivor of severe childhood neglect and food deprivation has had lifelong effects on my relationship with food. Only in my 30s am I really myself and growing beyond that shit. This woman fills me with seething rage.
“Instead of seeking to understand they seek to judge.” Such a great quote!!
When my grandkids were growing up, I would read the books they were reading. Not to control what they read but so we could discuss the books. This instilled a love of reading and helped them learn to discuss what they learned.
Yep, she was trying to be the centre of her own cult. glad she got arrested
She can have her cult in her head, imprisoned forever
The fact that that other horrible mother lied about the cause of Cameron's death ANGERED me to a level I never thought possible. My twin brother is epileptic and I remembered that horrible panicked feeling i felt when I read about what happened to that poor boy. Both mother's are disgusting.😡😡😡
The stricter the parent; the sneaker the kid
She didn't just take his bed away she took his bedroom away. He slept in the family room on a bean bag.
I'm 63 and my parents had tv restrictions, but reading, play and friends were not restricted. I want my child to learn everything they can because this will make them a well-rounded person as well as smart. I think the tv restrictions were in order as the 70s had some shit going on. I'm glad I was raised in an Episcopalian family as I know that we are a community and help others. I also got to decide for myself that I did not want to go to church and live my atheist lifestyle with my parents acceptance. Religion-extreme religion is about CONTROL!!
This isn’t from
Our religion I promise you. We have a rule we make choices according to the dictates of our own conscience even to have people worship how they please. Taking agency is what Satan does and we are aware we can’t ever take agency. She’s living in distortion as she claims
The only books I plan to restrict for my kids are bad ones, haha
@@averysspookshowspectacular6205 but what do you mean by 'bad'? Lord of the Flies is a classic but very brutal. Or, how about Animal Farm? 1984? You are probably one of those people who think that The Bible is age appropriate for minors. Despite the incest, infanticide, and all the brutality within. Funny thing is that I did read The Bible at age 11, but as a classic. I found it boring actually and confusing. But as I grew older I started reading other religious and philosophical books. Anthropology was something I greatly enjoyed. My Baptist mother never restricted what I read. Ever! I'm very well read. I read her romance novels, comic books, and the classics from Hawthorne to Shakespeare. I'm one of the very few teens from the 80s who willingly read The Scarlet Letter for fun. My advice is to let them read if that is what interests them. If you try to restrict them from reading something it just makes it forbidden fruit and they will read it anyway.
@cheriremily9360 Lol, no, I mean poorly written books. Like Diary of a Wimpy Kid, I had to read some of those for a class I took, and I HATED it. Boring, bland, monotonous, and full of little assholes, I'd hand my kids Captain Underpants any day for something that mixes traditional novels with graphic novels. My mom (a pastor, by the way) brought home this graphic novel of Genesis, and it was the most hilarious thing because you can't ignore the fucked up shit when it's literally drawn in front of you.
@@averysspookshowspectacular6205oh agreed yeah need more parents like that although I actually think Diary of a whimsy kid is actually not bad
16:44 the irony of her talking about people having a "distortion" when her entire ideological framework is made up of cognitive distortion lol
and as an aspiring art therapist, I pray for all the people that crazy "therapist" influenced and most certainly traumatized and invalidated. I've been a client been through all levels of care in the mental health system for my eating disorder which Ruby believes is a choice btw lol but again not surprised! A lot of people are ignorant AF
Excited to get the full story, yet horrified to learn everything these kids have been subjected to.
It gets worse if you want more proof go look at SWOOP
Even if he had died by suicide it is not her place to judge, it is NOBODY place to judge, suicide and mental disorders are a serious matter and it is disgusting how she called herself a therapist while blaming emotions and not taking seriously subjects like suicide and deprssion. There are a lot of Connexions videos where she basically says that if you are depressed it's your own fault...she should be charged for that too and for the "advice" she gave to peolpe searching for help.
Junie B. Jones is probably one of the most wholesome book series i could think of for kids off the top of my head. Can anyone remember something from the series that would make ot bannable even for extreme american christians?
Because Junie B is a brat (I mean that in the best way haha)
It's mostly cause Junie B. herself is "a bad role model".
@@kochiedough I guess I always saw that as the point. She's such an example of how not to be. (I feel like caillou is so much worse than Junie on a separate/barely related note)
@oboebuddy15 I guess that makes sense. I maybe kinda saw that as the authors method to teach kids? Like why would her parents need to correct/advise her if she behaves all the time
I loved Junie B. Jones. I still have all the books. They were my first chapter books. I never copyed her behavior. 🤷🏻♀️
“Let me first define selfless”… proceeds to give self-centered example.
To be clear, loving oneself isn’t bad but it’s not the definition of selfless. She’s just making shit up as she goes. They even created cult lingo. What does “living in distortion” even mean.. they never seem to clearly define it.
You'll notice this kind of obfuscation and nonsense speak in every cultish religion and toxic ideology, the use of absolute gibberish meant to sound vaguely profound or meaningful while confusing people who aren't already fully immersed in the nonsense and ready to spread lies to justify it to their victims.
@@notsae66 it’s scary that some people hear this nonsense and think they’ve found answers. It’s so clearly a bunch of nothing to most of us but some people are so vulnerable and in need.
She's always been horrible but meeting Jodi made it worse! You can see her get more and more radical and extreme in her beliefs after Jodi got in her ear. She pulled her kids out of school so she could have total freedom in her abuse. Teachers are required to report any and all signs of abuse so she no longer had to worry about that. Also she knew she was fkd when she was denied access to her kids at the hospital. She took off when she was told the police wanted to talk to her. I think she wanted to get them to pin it all on Jodi. When she couldn't get to them, she went to the house to clean up the crime scene. Idc what ruby tries to claim, she knew exactly what was happening to her kids. The police described them as being emaciated! That does not happen overnight
This is one of the reasons I oppose allowing anyone to homeschool. It isolates children, making it easier for abuse to go unnoticed.
@@DimaRakesah I was never a fan of home schooling for the simple fact I believe kids should be in school. It's where they learn how to function in society. How to handle bullies, how to win and lose, how to be around people in general. Especially with Ruby and how she treated her kids on camera.. CPS and DCF should have kept a close eye especially with all the calls the family allegedly made
@@nikrixxx6338completely agree!!
Boils me blood to hear her vent about a person who sadly passed away calling them them 'Slefish" all while she starved her kids, gave them wounds and duct taped them...So happy shes in jail with no parole.
13:23 you are absolutely correct on this point, particularly with relation to disabled teens and adults. The parents of disabled youth are often wonderful people who are navigating a new world. There is, however, a tendency to infantilize disabled people in adolescence and into adulthood - they even reference her as their “little princess” instead of recognizing her as the unique and complex person that she is growing into. It’s like all of the people who believe that people with Downs Syndrome or Fredrickson’s, Fragile X, or many other conditions which cause intellectual disability; that those people are unable to express anything other than abject joy, love, relational openness, and “childlike” sweetness. They insist these children are “forever children” who never will grow up. Its ableist, it’s disgusting, and it suggests that adults who face intellectual delays are not “real” adults. It is ableist in its refusal to recognize those disabled persons as their own unique, special creatures - just like their abled counterparts.
Yeah, this. I'd also like to add that at least some of these parents of disabled children aren't supporting their children to become as independent as possible and actually hinder them in it because they don't want to let them go and only see them as vulnerable children and not teenagers or adults that are their own unique person just like everyone else and actually could thrive and do well if they get the right accommodations and support in their life.
They actively keep their children dependent on them and often times deny them privacy and the right to say no to things or to dislike something because it doesn't fit into their daily schedule/life/view of their child/whatever. In my opinion that's abuse.
I know of at least one family vlog channel with a non-verbal autistic child that's a teenager by now where I'm seriously questioning everyone who has contact with them because clearly the parents aren't doing what's best for their child and don't really understand autism and why their child behaves the way they do, yet nobody does anything or stands up for this child and makes sure that their wants and needs are taken seriously.
Someone "professional" told the parents that the child was basically manipulating them to get out of a situation. As an autistic person that made me extremely furious because even I could tell that that was absolutely not the case. Nobody tried to actually figure out the real reason or ask the child about it.
Also, talking about a disabled person in front of them as if they can't hear or understand you is something quite a lot of people do and it's absolutely disgusting and not okay. I've seen it quite a few times, especially when it comes to autistic children/people...
And then there's Munchausen syndrome
And then there's Munchausen syndrome
It's also like, how should I put it...
"Why is it that you fucks are willing to put in all the effort in the world to understand your pet dog's language, yet when it comes to an autistic individual or someone with some form of disability, your brain shut down and you start babbling like you barely learnt to pull yourself out of a damn artificial uterus filled with tar?!"
Idk, I hope it gets the idea across clear enough. 😅
about the disabled thing like i promise you disabled ppl can be just as cruel and vicious if not more so bc of all the things they've had to go through also funniest ppl you'll ever meet
It's actually a bit messed up to assume that all special needs kids are all pure, perfect angels. Even good sounding stereotypes are still stereotypes, and denying that disabled kids are capable of being mean is just reducing them to a stereotype. It's almost infantilizing.
@@transsnackit is infantilising, and also going to lead to a really rude awakening too when they got verbally bullied by a kid with severe ADHD or missing arm. 😅
This was reported over and over again and nothing was done. Everyone of those child services worker that had contact with the kids should be fired and charged. If any cop did a welfare check and they did not take those kids away to safety should be fired. I am so sick of people failing children. They tell us to report and we do and NOTHING happens !
There is not much they can do unless they catch them in the act like having them chained up in filth. The kid escaping and getting help at the right time is what saved them. If the parents were on drugs or alcoholics it would have been easier to prove that it’s not a safe environment.
@@jezabell yes there is a lot they can do. Children looking malnourished, they have had bruises and there was video proof of the deprivation and abuse. No excuses.
@@ShopStylebyme what can they do? Lots of kids look malnourished, lots of kids look overfed. Kids have bruises all the time, all this can be explained away. I don’t think they take kids away from their homes for those things. I’m not a social worker but I think they need more proof than that.
@@jezabell they can do a lot. I am in the social service field. It is absolutely a sign of abuse and neglect being malnourished and dirty. They put what they were doing on video. They are supposed to have interviews doctors, teachers the children when there is evidence of neglect and abuse. None of this was done.
@@ShopStylebyme that’s a lot of resources to use up for a rich family. I just don’t see that happening. There are poor families with worse going on and nothing gets done. Reporting is not an automatic take down because there are people who make false reports, so they do ask the kids and that does count. Who knows what the kids said when faced with consequences. I think things escalated when the dad was no longer there, the kids may have felt even more abandoned and really wanted out at that point.
She gives severe Lori Vallow vibes, and her husband was complicit and should be equally held accountable. Poor kids.
Thank you so much for making a video of your own about this Dan!!
You're looking great, hope your gorgeous other half and the kids are all doing AMAZING ❤️😊
Anyways, regarding this topic...
What angers me the most, when I was commenting on their videos about my concerns regarding the kids, people would literally bully me out of the frigging comment section!!!
People seemed to be so okay with everything that's been going on back then on their channel and now, see all the people, actively talking against her actions, the same people who were literally rooting for her when she was successful (money-wise).
It's making me fume inside out and I absolutely DESPISE that.
To all those people who were watching and thinking there's nothing wrong with it but now acting as if they've always been against it - touch grass and learn priorities!!! Logical, humane and compassion priorities ffs, those kids were VISIBLY unwell and treated like a criminal being tortured!!
This society has so many problems and more than to spread awareness and to pray, there's nothing we can do I guess, there will always be people who choose to be willingly blind to things as such and then just run from one "in and more popular" things to another, like sheep. Especially in cancel culture.
God bless those children, may they rest, be taken care of properly and hopefully there are people around them who mean them well, wholeheartedly!
I'm just scared with the system, it is so scary, children are being taken advantage of and we've seen it all with kids who went through similar things but got their money taken, ab*used even more and at the end, there's most of the times nothing but a shell of a tortured soul left anymore, because it gets unbearable, understandably.
Let's go ahead and work on the ROOTS of these problems. Not only oh the symptoms!!
PLEASE, FFS..
I'm so SORRY for the rant Dan.
Whoever reads this, I hope life is treating you well ❤
ALL the best to you! 🍀💐🌞☺️
She always seems so full of hate when she speaks. It's like she can barely contain her evilness and rage from spilling out. That's what she's communicating with her tone and overall presentation.
Now this crazy Mom is going to take away all her disabled daughters toys and collectibles that she loves as punishment for being bullied? WTF??? You can't make this stuff up. This child will never, ever go to her Mom when she has a problem because she can't trust her to help.
She’s a piece of work. She really sounds so unhinged and unwell. I’m so glad her kids are finally in a better, safer/more healthy place!! I feel so bad for the kids.
My mom was exactly like this woman except with the camera. I had my room taken away for a year and had to sleep in the garage instead. My stepdad was the only reason why I got a sleeping bag. I was 45lbs at the age of 12. I was able to escape and move on but hearing everyone's reaction to this is wild because this is what I see as normal. Seeing how pissed everyone gets makes me feel some form of justice.
Quick thing with descendants. They’re referencing #3 and Cameron Boyce did not unalive himself. He had a grand Mal seizure in his sleep. This is ableist but common with the views on seizures, as someone with epilepsy. I’ve heard at least twice that im more likely to do something like that over my epilepsy. His family actually started a charity for epileptics. I’m uh. Blown away. By that part. Yiiiikes
"Mothers" like franke make me SO grateful for my momma.
Honestly I hope this opens up a larger investigation into the Utah CPS, police and judicial system by a federal agency. It is very clear that too many of the branches of accountability in that area are seeded with the very group responsible for this and other instances of child abuse.
the worst part- that actor didn’t even commit unalive alive. he had epilepsy, had a seizure, and passed away. so having seizures is selfish now
When I seen the video of Ruby almost crashing into an actual car crash and telling her children they were all dying, I knew this woman was batshit behind the scenes.
I just hope this chick tries some of her superior attitude on her fellow inmates when she goes to prison - she’s gonna have all kinds of distortion coming her way - she will learn some painful “truth” for sure. And same for nurse Ratchet/Jodi.
@@2rific_2I get where you're coming from, but I'm with the original commenter. Love me some gen pop justice!
if she does she's gonna be in a women's prison... they don't like child killers, abusers... and women can be just as ruthless as men, if not worse. she deserves no mercy, what so ever.
She's going to be the block snitch. 100%. She's going to get on the good side of the screws and be the little teacher's pet narc without a doubt
Oh once inmates find out she’s an abuser she’s gonna be the one abused
@@D4rthsunnywomen can always make things hurt even more. They use emotion behind things which always makes things more powerful and any prisoner that kicks this bitches ass deserve time served
13:15
The actor didn't end his own life btw. She's referring to cameron boyce who died from a seizure, if i remember correctly.
it is twisted to portray his life ending from a seizure as su*cide.
So, there was no descendant actor/actress that killed themselves. Camon Boyce died due to epilepsy in his sleep.
That was my immediate thought. Like no, not only is suicide not selfish in ALL cases. He didn’t even do it. The daughter didn’t know. But the non existent selfishness that was unknown was making her daughter selfish? Sounds like a bunch of excuses for being a bad parent of a disabled child. Also, we don’t know her disability, she could just not be very social… which also isn’t selfish
@@humblenuggetI wouldn’t say suicide is not selfish in all cases. Murder suicide is a pretty selfish way to go. I also had a neighbour that cruelly chose to shoot himself in his young daughter’s room (naturally she was the first to come across that horrific seen) though I suppose it was better then offing himself right in front of her and his other children I guess. I’d say these could be considered selfish.
On the other hand, there have been those that ended there lives in the forest or someplace isolated, so there families wouldn’t be the ones to find them, and I know of others that chose a bathtub with the curtain closed (to make clean up easier) That even in their darkest and loneliest time they took others into their consideration.
All in all, it’s nuanced.
@@SlightlyPeeved murder suicide is pretty fucked, but also really sad in certain circumstances... ._.
I always thought the reason people didn’t watch Tom Cruise movies was to not monetarily support an abuser, not because they thought watching him would turn their kids in to Scientologists?
The bullying thing hurt to hear. My parents never believing me or offering support has affected me as an adult. I've just been overseas on holiday, meeting up with my mum and brother (we live in different parts of the same country) and I could not open up about my personal issues even though I was visibly depressed the whole time. It also took 2 weeks of panic attacks and hiding from my family to ask my mum who speak the language for help getting more meds for my anxiety as I didn't expect to need much and those meds are hard to get here, let alone while on a remote island with no doctor or pharmacy.
from day one, when i first saw her about her child forgetting their lunch and telling the teacher NOT to feed her, i just had a really off feeling about the "mother". she's really something beyond wrong...something evil, who's a complete nutcase
She's insane, cruel, and a bunch of other ugly stuff. Its hard to believe that she got away for so long with her cruelty to her children, created a following and made millions of dollars along the way with her loser husband.
His name was Cameron boyce, the actor for carlos passed away in july 2019 from sudep at age 20. That mother had no respect to look into it, and he shouldnt be talked abt like that
Ironic that she didn't want 'distortion' but monetized every moment of her kids lives, robbing them of privacy, never with their consent and made a huge amount of bank doing it on a massive social media platform to a massive audience.
when i was a child, mind you my childhood wasn't perfect, i was asking for candy and soda. to know there's a child out there who asked for FOOD and WATER shakes me to my core. i hope these poor babies get the care they deserve
This isn't a Mormon thing. This is a psycho thing. Anyone else low-key think She's fighting back her "ungodly" feelings for her business partner and taking out her frustration on her own kids? Where were Jodi and Ruby when the kids were discovered? They were together right?
The thing that's crazy is that she's not just dragging people who die from suicide (which is bad enough) what she's saying is also demonstrably false. Cameron Boyce did not die by suicide. He die in his sleep from an epileptic seizure.
Disabled people can bully other people. It happens all the damn time. Even if they’re of the same group or disabled group.
Yea, I'm sure my ASD doesn't stop me from being an absolute dick to random people lol tbh
I'm really confused, because he didn't take his own life?? He has a medical condition?? So she's worried about something that her daughter doesn't know about because IT NEVER HAPPENED!
Even if it did, I hate the implication that it's a selfish act, it's not. My sister unalived herself and she was the most selfless person I've ever met. She was taking a new medication and it had a major risk of suicidal behavior, it aggravated her depression and she couldn't take it anymore. Often those people genuinely believe that they are doing everyone a favor. They feel like such a burden that they don't think anyone will be sad, but instead happy. They also often have blinders on and can only see how unbearable their pain is, and a way out. They can't think of their family because they can't think of anything other than the pain. No one does that because it's fun or enjoyable, it always come deep, indescribable, darkness and a feeling will never end unless they do that.
Anyone who says suicide is selfish has never known what it's felt like to be truly suicidal. When you're suicidal it feels like you're doing every one else a favor
It's like people who say shite like this never experienced despair or has nonexistent empathy.
I also genuinely think if one of her kids passed due to thirst or starvation, Ruby would pin it on them as their faults for not following her beliefs.
Their kids have been ABUSED, ABANDONED & absolutely TORTURED FROM BIRTH!!! It’s beyond incomprehensible. I cannot watch anymore of her videos bc it’s infuriating and heartbreaking & HOWWWW WERE CHARGES NOT PRESSED IN ALL THESE YEARS?!?!?!
Probably no one properly reported to a specific person at a specific number at a specific county child protective services
Her channel was a how-to for creating sociopaths, imo. The whole thing is an absolutely disgusting justification for child neglect for profit.
Welcome to my childhood. I was much like Eve. Going from home to home trying to make friends. Even once I ran away and tried to hide my identity (I was like 5) with grass in my hair and dirt on my bike.
Their pseudo psychology is so so dangerous and self serving they telling you that everything bad happening to you is because of you, and everything good is because of them.
And please look more into her "therapist" she is a dangerous piece of work. There are guaranteed broken and harmed families in their wake.
So an actor from a Disney movie dies of a seizure, and the mother comes to the conclusion that her daughter is lying about being bullied for attention???
And this is somehow a “Distortion”, that the movie caused for her daughter, according to Ruby?
Holy Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss, Batman.
I am so, so happy to see you covering this.
Iv noticed that this "disconnect" isn't disconnection it's creativety it's your kid having an imagination. This is a good thing. You as a parent should foster and support your childs creativity. And be the first line of defense against other children and especially other adults who should seek and destroy or disrupt that kids creativity.
That Pokemon story hurt ngl 😢 I cried when my cards were lost in a move, I couldn't imagine if they were thrown away by people I had no choice but to trust
Isn't it peak selfishness to refuse your child anything that might bring them joy only because it might cost you your 100% influence over them
Well sure! She has to protect them from all the `Godless` material out there. I mean, you can't very well leave "Captain Underpants" around for them to read while you leave them by themselves for hours on end and/or duct tape their hands and starve them to death! You wouldn't want them to get some crazy notions like "A superhero from one of the boys' homemade comic books, who accidentally becomes real when George and Harold hypnotize their cruel, bossy, and ill-tempered principal, Mr. Krupp." They might figure out that their mother is just like Mr Krupp. 😒Enjoy prison lady. I hope your fellow inmates are as disgusted by you as the rest of us.
So, I saw from comments that people were explaining that the "parent" either decided to not believe what they read or didn't actually research properly because the actor actually died in his sleep from a seizure disorder. Not from taking his own life.
As someone who struggles with a seizure disorder myself, that infuriates me. How his death was changed to something it was not.
Also, the fact that the "parent" believes that there's just no way that their daughter can be bullied while in a special needs program is RIDICULOUS. People can be bad to others even if they have special needs!
This is coming from someone who grew up with a severely disabled older brother and then interacted with other kids in the family with special needs. And had friends who had family members with special needs who I interacted with.
Like, what the heck...
Still at the beginning of the video, but speaking of child's social development, I'm a teacher at a private school and we have a hone schooled kid that comes in a couple of times a week in the morning specifically for social development. It's that important for human beings to socialize. Poor Eve was just looking for socialization on her own. And if she's homeschooled, shouldn't she be working on something?
I love the fact that Ruby glossed over the disabled daughter being bullied in the response video.
The fact that parents are turning to someone who has absolutely no qualifications and any kind of counseling for advice on how to parent their children is what concerns me. This woman and her cohort are monsters, plain, and simple. I hope they get hit with a maximum jail sentence.
I always appreciate the manner you go about respecting the kids in these situations. I've been watching your channel long enough to remember DaddyOf5... As a victim of CSA and child neglect, it's always so *aggravating* to watch videos like these but I am happy that the kids are (hopefully) going to be taken care of. It will be a long road for them, for sure.
15:23 so I double checked this and the actor they are talking about is Cameron Boyce and he didn’t unalive himself, he passed away in his sleep from a seizure because he had a disorder. So way to go on even more ableism from the parents of a disabled child!
It’s called SUDEP.
So glad to hear your take on this! Thank you so much, Rep
The way she describes selflessness sounds more like Narcissism lmfao. Like yeah, it's important to love yourself, but holy crap.
It baffles me how parents continue to justify such restrictive methods under the guise of protection. There have been so many people who have been vocal about sneaking around/lying in their teens-20s, essentially going off the rails into sex and drugs the second they could, and eventually the relationship becomes strained or cut off entirely. I haven't looked for myself but I'm almost certain there's research out there of some sort that supports this (there has to be, right??). Tbh seeing these types of parents get theirs when they die alone, their kid refuses to speak to them even on their deathbed, brings me great joy. Serves em right. I hope when it comes time for Ruby to meet her maker, she has never met any potential grandchildren and is filled with regret. Fuck her. She doesn't deserve another peaceful moment.
Of course you need to monitor what comes into your house and you also need to FEED YOUR KIDS FFS!
I completely agree with you. An example of tv shows or movies causing behavioral issues is when my husband was 7, he was banned from watching Power Rangers bc he kept dropkicking his siblings 😭💀
I had no idea you were reared by parents who subscribed to the IBLP ideology. I’m sorry you went through that. I’m really glad you are who you are and that you made it out (hopefully) mostly mentally/emotionally intact. Much love brother ❤.
Ruby and parents like her ultimately see their children as their possessions rather than individual vulnerable humans they have a responsibility to care for. They see parenting as a way you control your child rather than a way to support your child in growing into adulthood. I wouldn't trust someone like Ruby to care for a goldfish let alone 6 children. I really hope her kids have all the support and therapy to help them process the trauma their parents put them through.
The Actor who died--died of epilepsy not unaliving himself. Cameron Boyce's death was a tragedy and devastated them all.
for the subject of the woman claiming her daughter wasn't being bullied and didn't believe her JUST because she was in a school for teens with disabilities is completely ignorant. my brother has down syndrome and he was in disability classes yet he WAS bullied by another disabled student. the kid would hit and scratch at him and my mom finally had to pull him out of that school because the teacher was doing nothing to stop it. this kid would have violent tantrums and a lot of the time, my brother would be his target. it happens, sadly, no matter who you are. SHAME on the "mother" for not believing her daughter and instead decided to blame something that brings her daughter joy, wtf.
( this just really bugged 'cause my brother did go through something like this but my mom took the RIGHT actions and believed him and tried to talk to the teacher and get her to do something about it but when nothing was really being done, she removed him from there. she didn't weirdly think he was lying and didn't weirdly try to pretty much punish him by taking away something he loves like Spiderman- trying to blame the violence in that instead. Ruby is a terrible person but that lady writing to her really irked me ) plus the whole suicide thing is just disgusting...not to mention that thats not even how that actor passed away. of course thats the kind of woman she is that she'd be asking RUBY for advice.
Some say not to celebrate someone's downfall.... but I'm not one of them! I laughed my ass off the first I saw of this story. I hope the kids can recover and leave this wretched woman behind.
13:22 he didn’t take his own life he died in his sleep. He didn’t even commit suicide.
EVIL 👿.. Pure EVIL! This woman should get the WORSE Punishment!
Just a point - yes, sometimes an actor's views very much affect the movie they are making. Battlefield Earth is a good example. Silent Hill is a less well known one. But the kid doesn't know anything about the actors or their personal lives, so it's insane to think that it somehow is causing bad behavior via proximity or osmosis or some shit.
"We protect them physically" but she starves her kids :))))
The so-called "disconnect" is definitely the "lie" that she's being bullied.
"If I make a committment, then I'll make a commitment with my heart, and I *will* follow through." that's pretty fcking rich from a woman whose daughter needed to go to the hospital and she said "I just want to take a shower first" and then sat in the bathroom FOR OVER AN HOUR after taking her shower because she didn't want to take her child to the hospital.
It's not even just the fact the mom didn't do even the bare minimum of research about Cameron Boyce. It's the fact a *disabled child* came home upset that she was being bullied, and the mom somehow connected it to Descendants, and blamed.... the actors? An actor who died due to epilepsey and not self checkout? I don't think it's a case of "disabled people are so useless they can't bully" it's her thinking all disabled people are gentle and innocent and naive like young children. I think the mom never figured out how to navigate having a disabled child, and was an easy victim for Ruby's brainwashing and making parents deeply paranoid about their parenting. It's weird to me any follower of Ruby's even let her daughter watch a Disney series about the children of *the villains* where the protagonist's name is derived from the word "malicious" and whose mother is often cast as the most evil and cunning of he villains. Considering Ruby never let her kids have fun for even the smallest of infractions like not closing an upstairs window to the point it properly latched or something stupid.
which idk if she did that but I can just hear her berating one of her kids over it, saying that now the room is cold and the power bill will be high trying to keep the room warm when the window is "open" and because of that they're losing their ipad privileges.
Listening to Ruby stresses me out, she's so cruel.
Just a slightly off topic note: I wouldn't choose not to see a Tom Cruise movie because of his beliefs. Except that money that is made from a movie he is in will make it's way into Scientology's pocket, and I choose not to put money there. I don't make that a way to judge others, it's just a personal choice of mine. Similar to how I choose to not shop at hobby lobby.
Alternatively: if you really want to watch the work that involves him, sailing the high sea is always an option. :^)
I hope she can never walk in public again without someone recognizing her and pointing out she's a monster