@@brianmeen2158 it is dear, it only has ways we don't know off and rules , the rules by which karma works are unknown , for this reason we see some rich people getting richer and happier at the expense of others ,and a lot of poor people with good hearts suffering , the key is patience so we learn ,i advise you to watch a program called 1000 ways to die , developed by spike , indeed karma is seen on this program
Oh my goodness, I'm not sure why this video got recommended to me but I decided to watch it and it's simply heartbreaking. I can't believe how many people feel this way it's like an epidemic, it breaks my heart so much because I had a son and he died during the Covid and I sometimes think he felt this way😢 I just wanna tell you you are worth more than you'll ever know and you are loved more than I could ever say, mental health is so important, and learning to love yourself because you're very special young man❤ Please do whatever it takes to get your head right and know how special you are. ❤❤
I told everyone, that money, status and the approval of this cold, uncaring society wont make anyone happy or fulfilled. And people are STILL wallowing in the dirt, working themselves to exhaustion, yearning to be loved by this cruel, old hag called 'society'. I stopped since 2019. And now feel a LOT happier than before when I was 'living for something and with purpose.'
Thank you for sharing. I’ve been sitting in a cold car, for the last four hours, just zoning out and processing similar feelings. I am glad this came across my recommended; it’s nice to see someone who’s capable of being so vulnerable. Thank you.
Im happy that my video is helpful:) Many people seem to relate to this. We sometimes feel lonly and think that we are the only ones and nobody understands us, but it seems like more people than we think experience something like this.
I feel very similar in my situation and I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way, sorry if that sounded bad. Please, don't give up, don't pretend to be someone else because it will destroy you from the inside. I wish you to meet wonderful people in your life, who will accept you as you are. Take care.
There is nothing inherently wrong with having more money. If you feel sad with it you would feel sad without it. Find things that make you feel good and utilize money as a tool to fulfill them. We are all worth only the impact we leave on the world. You are worth as much as you want to be. You're talking about this fighting and anger with your family, so many face this. You're talking about it, you're helping people, improving lives. You are worth the communication you are giving out and hopefully receiving from others in return
What ever you do brother please stay authentic, I can relate always focus on healing any traumatic experiences from your child hood invite your child hood memories back and say to yourself you are more than enough and accept your self fully and honestly and you will see the shifts occur.
Robin Williams had every reason to enjoy life. Great career tons of fans made everyone in the room smile kids that love him and it still didn't take away the void he felt. Sometimes people are just empty. Now obviously not worrying about shelter or where your meal is coming next is the one thing money and success can greatly impact your feelings. But there comes a point where your soul is just missing something.
Were you raised by a narcissistic parent? The narcissistic parents are impossible to please. They usually grew up being told they were a worthless disappointment too and they perpetuate it by emotionally abusing their children. Their love is conditional. You might want to seek therapy to deal with the self esteem issues. I can tell by your speech here that you are a genuine and sensitive person and deserve happiness. My siblings and I grew up with a narcissistic single parent and spent years being high achievers or nurturing talents, being athletic, etc. In the end you come to find that happiness is a choice that comes from within. There was a seed of loathing that was planted in you and it is not your fault. It took me years to realize I was okay and to accept myself and not strive for perfection. That life was exhausting and depressing. I hope you receive guidance. You are right about achievements and success. There are millionaires and famous people who commit suicide and people who have next to nothing and yet are content. It's whether you decide to love yourself in spite of what an important person in your life said to you because of their own damage. Don't believe the lie.
I didn't have a horrible childhood, just simple bullying and parents not there for me emotionally. But I believe I also, am not worthy of anything. I'm afraid that even if i put in the effort fully; to lose weight and get in shape, to go back to school and find a career. It would all be pointless and i'll still feel the way I do about myself.
If you don't have kids that'll change your perspective. When I was younger didn't know why I was building my business until after I had my son, now all my decisions make sense.
you have immense worth, try affirmations, replace any negative thought about yourself with 3 good ones. and what would make you happy? think about it and go for it. we're gonna make it bros. God bless you.
This video was recommended to me, not too sure why but Jesus loves you. He died on the cross to save YOU! You’re definitely WORTH EVERYTHING and more. You’re loved and you’re valuable. Keep pushing ❤
Ah. I know what you mean. The problem with the vision is that you visualized the "result." The end result of anything will never be enough. The journey to the result is all that really matters. This is why you should establish goals that are relevant to things you enjoy doing, and then as you near the result set more goals to grow more. There is no destination that is a happy ending, climbing to goals is where purpose is derived. It doesn't matter if people accept you, and it doesn't matter if people approve of you, and you should never waste your time comparing yourself to anything or anyone.
Yes, I agree sometimes we chase some ideal that we thing we want, but the real benefit is the journey itself and the person that we become on that journey. And sometimes we forget this again and chase the external success again :D
@@dennisbettinger fully agreed. And then we find people like us to help remind us to see beyond what we are currently seeing. I am on the same page with you, I ebb and flow through it too. It is special to see you connecting with your existence, thanks for sharing.
I'm just a highschool kid but from my experience I'm the only brother in my family without a father so when i often feel lonely I used to hide these emotions by going to social media, playing games, watching UA-cams and porn. I know that this is making me even worse so I had to do something with it. I would go on UA-cam to find a way to help myself out with some techniques or ways to make me a better person but it's only effective up to 2 to 3 days for me and as I do more I started to lose respect of myself more and more. And as the day progress I gave up and started getting to my old habits again but one day I ask my friend how to deal with it She said no phone no laptop, nothing that could make u distracted or anything just stay outside for a while enjoy the environment even if your brain are telling to do something urgent just remain calm and after half a day it work out really good for me I realized that everything around me has meaning and it showed me that I'm wasting my time on something that would not help me in a long run so I started to enjoy the life outside more than before. It just make me feel really good about myself more and more Instead of a life inside social media platforms that would increase your dopamine like an addicted rat I stopped using social media like I used to and now at least I'm feeling better than what I used to be
Hey, thanks for sharing this. I do not know how much you are interested in that topic, but the book Letting Go by David Hawkins might be interesting for you and help you. Once we experience a negative emotion we often try to run away from it and repress it (Social Media, Drugs, Pron, etc.). Hawkins said that the problem is that these emotions are not gone but still in your body. So what he recommends is to experience and fully accept the emotion which will automatically lead to you feeling better. I am pretty sure this is why you made such a positive experience being in nature.
I feel like that most of the time. There's really nothing you can do about it. Acting a sort of way to satisfy pple will only take you so far. Every Friend group I've had I've always asked myself "If any of them were asked to call their Friends would they call me ??", sometimes It's really not them being mean but just me not being so involved. Its better you act one way and know that's why something happened than act like a mix of two different pple and be confused on what's making everyone act weird around you. Like them making a Group Chat without me and only added me when I asked about it and what hurts is that few weeks later the group got dead, and I feel like its cuz I got added. Worst for me is that feeling that am gonna grow old and have no Wife or just be lonely cuz guy friends can only go so far especially if they have gf or female friends they spend a lot of time with. Sorry 4 da long a** storyy
Thanks for sharing. I totally feel you and I wish you only the best for your journey. Our future lies in our hands. And I am strongly convinced that it might not be easy, but it is possible.
Brother I get your point but I have some things to share. You are lucky because you are looking really good a handsome young lad. We the ugly ones are facing discrimination more than you can imagine. So do not give up and try to pull yourself together try to improve yourself everyday.
The special hides in person itself, the more real, and different you are the more special you are. Never lie, never fake, never build on fake, one day you will lose everything that is fake, and it's going to be rough. Meaning in life is in what you do for other people, if you did something for others, that would change or even save someone elses life, you will realise, that in that your life had a meaning.
Somehow I was randomly recommended this video, watched it to the end. Todays social media needs more of these down-to-earth, real, insights into how folks feel. I see a lot of folks have commented, a lot of love in the comment-section, I'm glad to see that :)
Don't give up on your goals, do what YOU want to do and the people who fuck with you and what your doing will come, you dont need to change yourself. It's a hard journey, i'm still fighting myself, but you'll have way more peace of mind knowing that your doing what you want, regardless of who joins you.
I’ve been struggling with similar feelings. So many people are suffering mentally and emotionally. Even when I’m trying to love myself, I still want to feel loved from someone else. Christianity has helped somewhat. Not an immediate turn, but the thought that God loves me, helps. It’s something to hold on to. Hopefully people can come out of this trial sane.
As a young teenage guy I have felt like approval and validation from others is the only way I will ever feel confident about myself. People don’t take me seriously and think I’m pathetic or ugly and it made me suicidal even leading to attempts. I started working on myself because I wanted people to think I was cool. I picked up bad habits to escape and I used to try and fit in with the popular “bad boys” but it only made me look like a sheep in wolf’s clothing. I now started to realize that the only approval which is needed is your own. I was in such a rush to be at in my prime and peak as a 16/17 year old because other people the same age were getting glow ups and I was still in the same position, I wish I was just dead sometimes
this is rough advice but it might be useful to resign yourself to the fact that you ARE worthless, it's not a you problem, we all are worthless in the end. we live and we die. the alone problem can be easily fixed though. you're a handsome, amicable person and being cool and having money often doesn't matter, people will like you because you are honest and speak your mind. i think you're just stressing yourself out a whole lot. 🙂just breathe and hang in there we're all in this life together and we need to learn to help each other out.
It all depends on how we define 'worth'. We are bombarded with societies different definitions of it, but it comes down to how we personally define it.
I can relate. I feel the same way. Especially looking back, realizing I wasted all my life. You're still young. You can still change your life. Don't wait till it's too late.
The advice of not comparing yourself to anyone is interesting because comparing yourself to people who have the same comparisons as you somehow make you feel better about yourself
London Calling .Hey beautiful, please always remember that you are a valuable human being & do not seek to please other people, just be yourself friends and partners come & go in this life. I wish you enormous luck and every possible happiness.❤
Some things that come to mind after listening to this video... (Keep in mind I have very little context about you. This is the first video of your's that I've watched, but I'd like to share this.) 1. Hang out with friends that you can be goofy around and have fun with. You don't need to talk about work-stuff with them. It's amazing how much your head will clear when you're having good times just hanging out. This is the training ground where you can learn to let your guard down and act more authentically around people. Make time to hang out with friends once a week or so. 2. Get connected to your purpose. Everyone has their own giftings given to them to serve other people. If you're not totally convinced that you have something to offer someone that would truly change their life for the better, keep searching within you to discover what that thing is. It's there, but it may be something different than you initially thought. Then, go all-in with using your gifting to serve others. That's where you'll find deep satisfaction. The satisfaction won't come from the end result of 'success' or money. Satisfaction comes from the process of serving people in a way that changes their life for the better. 3. Get connected with people that are pursuing similar business things that you are. This is where you develop and refine your purpose. If you can meet in-person a couple times a month, great. Otherwise, Discord servers, Facebook groups, group texts, Zoom calls all work great for sharing tips/advice/asking questions that will improve your business. Thanks for sharing your video. Sounds like you're experiencing a spiritual valley. You desire an authentic life, but you feel that the 'true you' is hidden by layers of inauthenticity. Honestly, I'd say enjoy the valley while you're in it. Let yourself feel the emotions. Don't push them away. Your soul is alerting you to the incongruency. This is where transformation can happen. Journal a lot during this time and give yourself small goals to work on each week that will help you to be more authentic with the people around you. Stick with it- big things are gonna come from you!
Your not living for people and what they think doesn't matter. Be yourself and don't worry about being alone. Solitude teaches you alot. Healing isn't easy but there is hope my friend. Also you are very handsome sir. I love your German accent. Don't give up. Don't isolate yourself. Spend time in nature, socialize, let someone find you and the right person. Don't look for it. Choose friends wisely. Live your life for you and do what makes you happy. You can be happy. Do not worry about approval and don't strive to be liked. You are likeable and a beautiful soul struggling in this hell we live in. You can make it what you want it to be
This video is an achievement. No other I have seen is at once so personal and yet so universa SO MANY young men- bombarded as they are by 'you have to be like THIS! advertising pop promos while at the same time vilified for 'toxic masculinity and other immutable characteristics. Feel as you do but suffer in silence. You speak for them THANKS
I don't care what anybody says if you have financial success and you don't have to worry about bills and what's going to happen next week or next month on financial end of things It makes fixing your life easier at least I think having more time to not worry about those things but to fix your life fix mental you got it bro tie your shoes stand up and do something about it
Older and wiser, now, but I recall this phase of my life from mid-20 to early 30s. This video is like my younger self reaching across time. The angst of young adulthood.
I had a large amount of money once. But it was all easily spent. It goes. People do wear masks, I think we all have at sometime. Now that im in my sixties i feel so much better in myself than i did when i was younger. I can see what's important, and what's not. It's so clear now. Things change, and you will.
Hello mate I felt the same I know it's so hard coping feeling like this I can only say what helped me get through and it was starting the gospel....You are worth and loved mate keep fighting brother ❤ even these videos help others who feel alone suffering the same...God blessate and thank you ❤
I can tell you that it helps to help others. When we want to help others we can explain advice that is separated from our own old issues. When we separate them out it really helps us see the works more objectively. I also encourage you to cultivate humor within yourself. It helps when we can chuckle at the absurd or the ridiculous rather than see it in self condemning terms. I hope this helps : ) and I think your path of reflection and searching is a good one and it will also help
Stay strong bro. Summer is short but winter shall pass, life is full of love. There's just painful growth involved along the way, learn to see the positive sides of the down moments which allow you to know yourself more. Your inner peace is what's important and it's priceless, always put it before any goal you're aiming for. Everything happens for your greater good, keep it up and God bless you. Much love
Here's a piece of advice: stop focusing on yourself. When you talk about "feeling worthless", that primarily comes from self-focus and being preoccupied with yourself. When you focus on yourself that's going to create a problem no matter if you think good or bad things about yourself. If you think GOOD things, that could lead to arrogance or narcissism. If you think BAD things, that could lead to being depressed and negative. What I suggest instead is to only focus on things BESIDES yourself. For example if you're doing something focus on what you're doing. If you're talking or interacting with someone put all your focus on THEM. If you stop thinking about yourself so much then you won't get all these negative emotions.
But it's not easy to stop being self conscious... I can't keep myself busy all the time... when I get nothing to focus on, i get into depressing thoughts again..
@@claw320 dude that is EXACTLY what im always telling my buddies… I have never seen someone who is really invested into something who is depressed, thinking about yourself only just drives you farther down the vicious circle
I instantly had to watch your video when I saw it suggested to me. I don't know you yet Dennis but I accept you for who you are, you sound like a really cool and introspective guy. You're not alone in feeling this desparate need to prove yourself financially. As guys we feel valued when we have responsibility and status e.g. a father, CEO of your own company. This is why we can endure hard times for a greater purpose but feel depressed when it feels like we're not devoting ourselves to something meaningful. Have you got hobbies where you can forget all about this pressure?
I heard someone once say that success wasn’t wealth power or position it’s when your kids get older and they still want to spend time with you. That could be you one day so keep the head up
es ist schön zu sehen das leute die so erfolgreich und gut aussehen wie du auch probleme haben... macht dich menschlicher, sympathischer und schraubt meinen neid zurück.... aber die unangenehme tatsache ist nun mal das wir alle im wettbewerb gegeneinander sind und wir immer mehr wollen
Honestly man, you should fix your mental health first then chase success later. I don't know your situation but fixing your mental health will make your success journey easier. Also the reality of life as man is that you only get approval from people when you do something . The more you embrace it it becomes easier to live your life. Keep your head up and move forward. Wish you luck
@@thebatman1889 Honestly this is a very broad question, and when you ask broad questions you can only get a broad answer. Broad answer is to work on yourself. There is probably something that you don't like about yourself right now, and that is OK as long as you do something about it. That is all i can say. By working on yourself you will respect yourself more which will lead to better mental health overall.
You are worth something…you are special. What you witnessed and went through when you were younger was horrible but also it WAS NOT YOUR FAULT. Understand that you are and even back then were better than this and deserved a better childhood experience. You currently ARE BETTER and back then WERE BETTER than how you were treated. Always remember this. Separate yourself from toxicity and rememeber…that was temporary and you went through it so you can be stronger, wiser and kinder today.
You are very courageous discussing your deep feelings on social media . You are a good person and deserves all the happiness in the whole wide world . I will pray for you 🙏😇
@@paulcooper5748 All right. Connect with some friends or with your family members. Volunteer in clubs. Join the gym. Join the book club. Go to a bar or nightclub and meet new people there. 🤗🤗🤗🫂🫂🫂. I don’t know if you have a job or not. I hope you have good communication social skills. That’ll be a incredible gift. Keep doing you and your hobbies. I don’t know if you’re seeing or dating anyone. If you find someone, that emptiness and loneliness will go away and I guarantee you that. Have a good 1 G. I hope my advice helps you.
Open yourself up to others by engaging in stuff you like. Try to learn how to dance by joining classes, or play volleyball on the beach, reach out to old friends to genuinely ask them about their life. The sad truth is that most people never approach, but if you approach most people will be open to engage with you, hope things go better for you ❤
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. People who have the courage to be authentic and express what their honest feelings are highly undervalued in society. You're helping people and making a positive difference in their lives.
This might not be the answer you’re looking for, but I want to confirm that success will not fix your feelings of loneliness. I’m successful by every financial measure, but I’ve given up many potential connections along the way in lieu of that. It takes a lot of effort to make and maintain friendships to help ease loneliness. Best of luck, dude
Sometimes it really feels like this is the case. When you feel low, nobody could care less. But I also think that life is fair in the long run and if we work out asses of in out twenties life can become pretty amazing.
@@dennisbettinger agreed good man your not alone I suffer but in silence because society sees us as disposable we gotta stick together and stand strong. Salute from across the pond
just happened upon this video a year after you made it. i don’t know you but i hope you are doing better. you are valuable. you are worthy. i am here if you want to talk. ❤️
I know the exact feeling. I’m in the same boat. Idk the answer. I think brotherhood might be the answer because I think we’d value and appreciate each other because we understand each other
You know it's really surprising when hearing about loneliness from someone you least expect it. You're an attractive guy and people would assume you are privileged in the way people treat you and want you around them, but no one know the truth. I don't think it's just about being confident in yourself, trauma is a damn big setback. Hope you make it through man and realise your worth.
Man... Success wont change that - true; but that doesn't mean "nothing will change that"... Don't over think - don't suffocate yourself with negativity - move forward, and let life happen. It will get clearer as you go
Hey man I have very similar childhood like you and suffer from similar problems that you have right now. One thing I can suggest is get a motorcycle and join a motorcycle community in your area on facebook etc. You will start to feel alive and make good friends.
This is a wonderful video. I have so much to say on the topic, but I'm feeling a bit too lazy to collect my thoughts to type out an elaborate response to the many things you've said. You're definitely not alone in how you feel though. There are many people who feel the way that you feel. creating a UA-cam channel is actually a good idea because it can potentially connect you with SOOOO many people around the world. before social media, people who felt isolated and alone in whatever city or town they are from pretty much had to suffer in silence of get publicly berated on an incessant basis. now more than ever, we have opportunities to broaden our horizons and venture away from the places we in our hearts know that we don't belong. I hope you obtain whatever it is your soul desires.
Thank you:) I totally agree, this is my first video that actually reaches some people and its crazy how so many people from several countries can relate to how I felt / feeling from time to time.
Happiness begins in the heart, self love and worth is the start... Childhood traumas can be healed by accepting God. I use to feel like this untill recently. But I dragged myself out of this dark place by focusing on god and prayer. 🙏 I hope you feel better soon.
Don't give up on yourself... You need to push forward through this. .. go and stand in an open field and take time to think about you.re future ..it will get better 💕✝️🇬🇧
My brother, the wisest man to ever exist king Solomon said that all the riches, power and glory is all vanity and meaningless. I hope you read this message and receive it, I'm here to tell you my brother that the only way to achieve true happiness is through Jesus Christ. You are worth more than precious stones because you are a child of the Most High God and he accepts you for who you are! Please buy a KJV Bible and start reading with Matthew, Mark, Luke and John. I promise if you do this, you WILL feel happiness and Joy, I know this because I did it and The lord came through for me! If you need it contact me and I will buy one for you or even send you the money to get one. And If you need a friend I'm here for you bro. God Bless you my brother, and Jesus Christ loves you.
Thanks for the video man, I personally like them, so please keep them coming. If people don’t like others because they are not achieving anything then they are not worth having around. There are only a handful of youtubers vs the rest of the world who are like yourself and myself- I think we are a rarity. Let’s keep bouncing ideas off each other. Blessings
Please carry on in reaching out to people ...some 1 will plant a seed in your head and you will move forward in a time when u dont no you doing..you always havr some to talk to u just dont no it yet ..the lord is your savior, believe me he wont have all the answers but he will guild you thro ur sadness..i wish you good health amd further more happiness ..time is a healer ..keep reaching out...bless you love..❤
Sehr starke Worte! Bleib Stark und lass die negativen Gedanken nicht überhand nehmen Ich bin der Meinung, dass jeder Mensch mit sich selbst ausmachen muss wohin er möchte unabhängig was andere wollen oder über dich denken. Mach das was dich erfüllt, ganz egal was es ist... Vor allem, wenn man einen anderen Weg einschlägt zb. wenn man sich Selbstständig macht, dann ist der Weg steinig, einsam und hart.. Aber ich bin mir ganz sicher man schafft alles was man sich in den Kopf setzt. Geld macht nicht glücklich aber der Weg zu deinem persönlichen Erfolg macht glücklich.
I can relate as I don't feel that my pain will ever end. I've wasted my entire life trying to be "good enough". I have those same feelings of low self worth. Compounding this I'm indecisive which makes matters harder. I've hit a point where self isolation is best because I don't need the front.
you just have to see yourself like the most perfect thing of the creation, even if there are some failures, they are perfect failures. You are perfect as a world.
Gabor Maté speaks to what Dennis is talking about and many many many of us have experienced. As for the money and body work, do that for yourself - not the approval of others. It's good to have a people in your life but real relationships are hard and messy and often don't last. Angst is normal - you're doing fine. Day by day, brother. Tschüss!
I just can not imaging me having low moments like this allowing me to tell myself this type of things. I made exactly the contrary today morning, I was like: OSCAR YOUR ARE, YOUR ARE AWESOME; YOU ARE HEALTH; YOU ARE ENOUGH; YOU ARE THE BEST; YOU ARE GOLD; YOU ARE WORTHY. And i practically have conversations with myself everyday and I think these things or like, if he can do it, then I can do it for sure, and even though I could do it better... And oscar don´t forget ,,to fail today, dosn´t mean to fail in the future one time and another" you´ll success.
I deeply appreciate the effort you put the express your true self. I can understand some of your thoughts since I have some similar ones. While it is not easy think about that for me, you are sharing via internet. Such a bravery. Have a good journey
All the money in the world won't make you happy without love, family, and good friends. Also my belief in God gets me through a lot of days when I feel unneeded and unloved.
Hey thanks for your comment. Yeah I grew up with always hearing my parents talk about how we struggle with money, which is (at least in my unprofessional opinion) why I developed this craving for making money. Since a young age I told myself that I will make a lot of money, so I wont feel this "pain" of struggling with money anymore. But lately when I watch my emotions I have to agree with you. I neglegted relationships / girls in order to have better focus on making money. I think it had its upsides but it also comes with a price.
We live in a meritocracy where one is defined by what one does, especially if you are male. So by not doing you are essentially allowing your personhood to disintegrate in the eyes of most others. It's just the way it is and has been for a thousand years. But as long as you are not imposing on others, it's completely ok to drop off the societal map if that's what you need. A quiet life of free time and recreation is a very good life to have. Nothing has to happen.
Material success won't change anything because you have an inherent understanding that material possessions, social status, money and basically any worldly attributes are ultimately meaningless. This is an indisputable fact. You can't take any of that pointless crap with you and it has zero meaning beyond the flesh and this fallen world. I felt the exact same way that you are feeling right before I found Jesus Christ. As soon as you find Him and realise He was there all along and wants you to be reconciled to Him your life feels renewed and you feel like you've finally 'got it.' The emptiness you feel is the lack of a relationship you have with Him. Please be open-minded and trust in what I'm saying. I can't force you to pursue Him or make you want to but you can certainly be open-minded and find out for yourself and allow Him to pull you out of this rut. God bless.
Thats because a majority of guys are in up to their eyeballs in their jobs, gf/wives, family church, debt. in the matrix of life. Consider yourself lucky and ahead of all these simps. Too bad no time to themselves or their brothers in life. That's our culture now, total isolation and making YOU feel like there's something wrong with YOU. Really sad & pathetic way to live as a male in today's world. Stay strong brother!
I'm in a very similar place, bro. My justification for continuing is... I'd rather have options, have experiences, have possibility and just see what's on the other side. It doesn't matter either way, right? By the way... you don't need the wrong people liking you, they're of no value. They're not relevant to your truth and your authentic path. You're not wrong for your goals, people just don't want the same things. You still have value, whether they see it or not.
❤❤❤ Dennis you are absolutely not worthless and you don't have to be alone. I would love 😍 to be your friend? No one is worthless! I notice an accent in your voice, so we probably are not in the same country. I'm in the United States. But we could still be friends, if you want to. I have absolutely no one. No friends or no family and to add insult to injury my fur baby ginger passed at the end of June. And buddy money is not going to make you happy. Sent to you from me with the utmost respect. 😊😊😊
my friend if you do not suffer from an illness like ALS or muscular dystrophy then you good sir are WINNING and should cherish every moment that you can go through life without a disaster/nightmare of a progressive and fatal neurological or muscular condition tearing your very being down to nothing. You can be happy and enjoy your life on that basis alone that such a possibility was averted in your lifetime.
i understand this feeling my brother but your goals and accomplishments should be what you try to achieve, i too get lonely at times but i believe by truly being yourself and doing what you love you can find happiness, as for people i must say not to let that bother you. your character will attract the right people. live for your happiness and do what makes you feel good no correction feel great. lets all grow together and better ourselves 💪
Wasted my whole life trying to get approval from people. Maybe it’s just time to be alone right now is all.
If you made too good with others ,the world would do good to you , i hope that .
give us more details, what exactly do you mean, approval from others ?
@@mohamedaboujokh370karma isn’t real though although I wish it was
@@brianmeen2158 it is dear, it only has ways we don't know off and rules , the rules by which karma works are unknown , for this reason we see some rich people getting richer and happier at the expense of others ,and a lot of poor people with good hearts suffering , the key is patience so we learn ,i advise you to watch a program called 1000 ways to die , developed by spike , indeed karma is seen on this program
❤️ Absolutely
People are garbage. Find peace within yourself and you'll never be happier.
I spent 64 years searching for perfect love. Then it hit me. Dont expect love, just become the love you believe in. Cool.
Oh my goodness, I'm not sure why this video got recommended to me but I decided to watch it and it's simply heartbreaking.
I can't believe how many people feel this way it's like an epidemic, it breaks my heart so much because I had a son and he died during the Covid and I sometimes think he felt this way😢
I just wanna tell you you are worth more than you'll ever know and you are loved more than I could ever say, mental health is so important, and learning to love yourself because you're very special young man❤
Please do whatever it takes to get your head right and know how special you are. ❤❤
I´m sorry to hear that about your son ...
I appreciate you comment and your words.
@@dennisbettinger thank you for recognizing death of my son
much appreciated
Cope.
I'm so sorry 😞, God bless u
i’m so sorry for your loss, that’s really sad
Put on a mask if you want approval from the world.
If you are tired of this world, that means you're not stupid.
I told everyone, that money, status and the approval of this cold, uncaring society wont make anyone happy or fulfilled. And people are STILL wallowing in the dirt, working themselves to exhaustion, yearning to be loved by this cruel, old hag called 'society'.
I stopped since 2019. And now feel a LOT happier than before when I was 'living for something and with purpose.'
My husband is going through a sad time…hang in there. Life is hard…struggling and barely getting by makes it even harder. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for sharing. I’ve been sitting in a cold car, for the last four hours, just zoning out and processing similar feelings. I am glad this came across my recommended; it’s nice to see someone who’s capable of being so vulnerable. Thank you.
Im happy that my video is helpful:)
Many people seem to relate to this. We sometimes feel lonly and think that we are the only ones and nobody understands us, but it seems like more people than we think experience something like this.
@@dennisbettinger Knowing I'm not alone really helps me. Thank you for sharing this video..
You’re right Troubled Knight. Success is meaningless without purpose behind it.
I feel very similar in my situation and I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way, sorry if that sounded bad. Please, don't give up, don't pretend to be someone else because it will destroy you from the inside.
I wish you to meet wonderful people in your life, who will accept you as you are. Take care.
There is nothing inherently wrong with having more money. If you feel sad with it you would feel sad without it. Find things that make you feel good and utilize money as a tool to fulfill them. We are all worth only the impact we leave on the world. You are worth as much as you want to be.
You're talking about this fighting and anger with your family, so many face this. You're talking about it, you're helping people, improving lives. You are worth the communication you are giving out and hopefully receiving from others in return
What ever you do brother please stay authentic, I can relate always focus on healing any traumatic experiences from your child hood invite your child hood memories back and say to yourself you are more than enough and accept your self fully and honestly and you will see the shifts occur.
Robin Williams had every reason to enjoy life. Great career tons of fans made everyone in the room smile kids that love him and it still didn't take away the void he felt. Sometimes people are just empty. Now obviously not worrying about shelter or where your meal is coming next is the one thing money and success can greatly impact your feelings. But there comes a point where your soul is just missing something.
Were you raised by a narcissistic parent? The narcissistic parents are impossible to please. They usually grew up being told they were a worthless disappointment too and they perpetuate it by emotionally abusing their children. Their love is conditional. You might want to seek therapy to deal with the self esteem issues. I can tell by your speech here that you are a genuine and sensitive person and deserve happiness. My siblings and I grew up with a narcissistic single parent and spent years being high achievers or nurturing talents, being athletic, etc. In the end you come to find that happiness is a choice that comes from within. There was a seed of loathing that was planted in you and it is not your fault. It took me years to realize I was okay and to accept myself and not strive for perfection. That life was exhausting and depressing. I hope you receive guidance. You are right about achievements and success. There are millionaires and famous people who commit suicide and people who have next to nothing and yet are content. It's whether you decide to love yourself in spite of what an important person in your life said to you because of their own damage. Don't believe the lie.
Takes some fucking balls to do what you just did, respect bro keep you head up
Thanks:)
I didn't have a horrible childhood, just simple bullying and parents not there for me emotionally. But I believe I also, am not worthy of anything. I'm afraid that even if i put in the effort fully; to lose weight and get in shape, to go back to school and find a career. It would all be pointless and i'll still feel the way I do about myself.
If you don't have kids that'll change your perspective. When I was younger didn't know why I was building my business until after I had my son, now all my decisions make sense.
you have immense worth, try affirmations, replace any negative thought about yourself with 3 good ones. and what would make you happy? think about it and go for it. we're gonna make it bros. God bless you.
This video was recommended to me, not too sure why but Jesus loves you. He died on the cross to save YOU!
You’re definitely WORTH EVERYTHING and more. You’re loved and you’re valuable. Keep pushing ❤
He died because Roman soldiers put him on the cross. He didn't put himself on it.
Ah. I know what you mean. The problem with the vision is that you visualized the "result." The end result of anything will never be enough. The journey to the result is all that really matters. This is why you should establish goals that are relevant to things you enjoy doing, and then as you near the result set more goals to grow more. There is no destination that is a happy ending, climbing to goals is where purpose is derived. It doesn't matter if people accept you, and it doesn't matter if people approve of you, and you should never waste your time comparing yourself to anything or anyone.
And you are welcome, for listening to you.
Yes, I agree sometimes we chase some ideal that we thing we want, but the real benefit is the journey itself and the person that we become on that journey.
And sometimes we forget this again and chase the external success again :D
@@dennisbettinger fully agreed. And then we find people like us to help remind us to see beyond what we are currently seeing. I am on the same page with you, I ebb and flow through it too. It is special to see you connecting with your existence, thanks for sharing.
I'm just a highschool kid but from my experience I'm the only brother in my family without a father so when i often feel lonely I used to hide these emotions by going to social media, playing games, watching UA-cams and porn. I know that this is making me even worse so I had to do something with it. I would go on UA-cam to find a way to help myself out with some techniques or ways to make me a better person but it's only effective up to 2 to 3 days for me and as I do more I started to lose respect of myself more and more. And as the day progress I gave up and started getting to my old habits again but one day I ask my friend how to deal with it She said no phone no laptop, nothing that could make u distracted or anything just stay outside for a while enjoy the environment even if your brain are telling to do something urgent just remain calm and after half a day it work out really good for me I realized that everything around me has meaning and it showed me that I'm wasting my time on something that would not help me in a long run so I started to enjoy the life outside more than before. It just make me feel really good about myself more and more Instead of a life inside social media platforms that would increase your dopamine like an addicted rat I stopped using social media like I used to and now at least I'm feeling better than what I used to be
Hey, thanks for sharing this.
I do not know how much you are interested in that topic, but the book Letting Go by David Hawkins might be interesting for you and help you.
Once we experience a negative emotion we often try to run away from it and repress it (Social Media, Drugs, Pron, etc.). Hawkins said that the problem is that these emotions are not gone but still in your body.
So what he recommends is to experience and fully accept the emotion which will automatically lead to you feeling better. I am pretty sure this is why you made such a positive experience being in nature.
Positive vibes with this dialogue
Semen retention will help you
that stuff sounds normal, "social media, playing games, watching UA-cams and porn", lol.
@@hoho6708 it’s a myth
I feel like that most of the time. There's really nothing you can do about it. Acting a sort of way to satisfy pple will only take you so far. Every Friend group I've had I've always asked myself "If any of them were asked to call their Friends would they call me ??", sometimes It's really not them being mean but just me not being so involved. Its better you act one way and know that's why something happened than act like a mix of two different pple and be confused on what's making everyone act weird around you. Like them making a Group Chat without me and only added me when I asked about it and what hurts is that few weeks later the group got dead, and I feel like its cuz I got added.
Worst for me is that feeling that am gonna grow old and have no Wife or just be lonely cuz guy friends can only go so far especially if they have gf or female friends they spend a lot of time with.
Sorry 4 da long a** storyy
Thanks for sharing. I totally feel you and I wish you only the best for your journey.
Our future lies in our hands. And I am strongly convinced that it might not be easy, but it is possible.
Brother I get your point but I have some things to share. You are lucky because you are looking really good a handsome young lad. We the ugly ones are facing discrimination more than you can imagine. So do not give up and try to pull yourself together try to improve yourself everyday.
The special hides in person itself, the more real, and different you are the more special you are.
Never lie, never fake, never build on fake, one day you will lose everything that is fake, and it's going to be rough.
Meaning in life is in what you do for other people, if you did something for others, that would change or even save someone elses life, you will realise, that in that your life had a meaning.
Somehow I was randomly recommended this video, watched it to the end. Todays social media needs more of these down-to-earth, real, insights into how folks feel. I see a lot of folks have commented, a lot of love in the comment-section, I'm glad to see that :)
I can relate to you so much!! I’m joining the Air Force to escape it all and maybe be useful. Even if it’s as a shield
Don't give up on your goals, do what YOU want to do and the people who fuck with you and what your doing will come, you dont need to change yourself. It's a hard journey, i'm still fighting myself, but you'll have way more peace of mind knowing that your doing what you want, regardless of who joins you.
Thanks for the supportive words:) I wish you the best for your journey!
@@dennisbettinger you as well my friend !
I’ve been struggling with similar feelings. So many people are suffering mentally and emotionally. Even when I’m trying to love myself, I still want to feel loved from someone else. Christianity has helped somewhat. Not an immediate turn, but the thought that God loves me, helps. It’s something to hold on to. Hopefully people can come out of this trial sane.
As a young teenage guy I have felt like approval and validation from others is the only way I will ever feel confident about myself. People don’t take me seriously and think I’m pathetic or ugly and it made me suicidal even leading to attempts. I started working on myself because I wanted people to think I was cool. I picked up bad habits to escape and I used to try and fit in with the popular “bad boys” but it only made me look like a sheep in wolf’s clothing. I now started to realize that the only approval which is needed is your own. I was in such a rush to be at in my prime and peak as a 16/17 year old because other people the same age were getting glow ups and I was still in the same position, I wish I was just dead sometimes
this is rough advice but it might be useful to resign yourself to the fact that you ARE worthless, it's not a you problem, we all are worthless in the end. we live and we die. the alone problem can be easily fixed though. you're a handsome, amicable person and being cool and having money often doesn't matter, people will like you because you are honest and speak your mind. i think you're just stressing yourself out a whole lot. 🙂just breathe and hang in there we're all in this life together and we need to learn to help each other out.
It all depends on how we define 'worth'. We are bombarded with societies different definitions of it, but it comes down to how we personally define it.
you are going to be fine btoher, me too, trust the process. LOV
I can relate. I feel the same way. Especially looking back, realizing I wasted all my life. You're still young. You can still change your life. Don't wait till it's too late.
The advice of not comparing yourself to anyone is interesting because comparing yourself to people who have the same comparisons as you somehow make you feel better about yourself
Nice to meet you brotha don’t give up you are more important than you think
Hi, youtube brought me to your video! It's very authentic and I love that! keep going!
Thank you Camille. That was the goal of my channel to share everything, ups and downs, as authentically as possible. Glad to hear that you like it :)
London Calling .Hey beautiful, please always remember that you are a valuable human being & do not seek to please other people, just be yourself friends and partners come & go in this life. I wish you enormous luck and every possible happiness.❤
Hi John, thank you for your words and your wishes!
Some things that come to mind after listening to this video... (Keep in mind I have very little context about you. This is the first video of your's that I've watched, but I'd like to share this.)
1. Hang out with friends that you can be goofy around and have fun with. You don't need to talk about work-stuff with them. It's amazing how much your head will clear when you're having good times just hanging out. This is the training ground where you can learn to let your guard down and act more authentically around people. Make time to hang out with friends once a week or so.
2. Get connected to your purpose. Everyone has their own giftings given to them to serve other people. If you're not totally convinced that you have something to offer someone that would truly change their life for the better, keep searching within you to discover what that thing is. It's there, but it may be something different than you initially thought. Then, go all-in with using your gifting to serve others. That's where you'll find deep satisfaction. The satisfaction won't come from the end result of 'success' or money. Satisfaction comes from the process of serving people in a way that changes their life for the better.
3. Get connected with people that are pursuing similar business things that you are. This is where you develop and refine your purpose. If you can meet in-person a couple times a month, great. Otherwise, Discord servers, Facebook groups, group texts, Zoom calls all work great for sharing tips/advice/asking questions that will improve your business.
Thanks for sharing your video. Sounds like you're experiencing a spiritual valley. You desire an authentic life, but you feel that the 'true you' is hidden by layers of inauthenticity. Honestly, I'd say enjoy the valley while you're in it. Let yourself feel the emotions. Don't push them away. Your soul is alerting you to the incongruency. This is where transformation can happen. Journal a lot during this time and give yourself small goals to work on each week that will help you to be more authentic with the people around you. Stick with it- big things are gonna come from you!
Thank you for spening so much time and thoughts into writing me a helpful comment:)
Well said. I agree with you G. 🤗🤗🤗🫂🫂🫂. Hobbies and daily routines will definitely keep anyone busy from time to time.
If you hadn't typed it, I would have.
Time to be yourself. 🙏🏿
Your not living for people and what they think doesn't matter. Be yourself and don't worry about being alone. Solitude teaches you alot. Healing isn't easy but there is hope my friend. Also you are very handsome sir. I love your German accent. Don't give up. Don't isolate yourself. Spend time in nature, socialize, let someone find you and the right person. Don't look for it. Choose friends wisely. Live your life for you and do what makes you happy. You can be happy. Do not worry about approval and don't strive to be liked. You are likeable and a beautiful soul struggling in this hell we live in. You can make it what you want it to be
This video is an achievement. No other I have seen is at once so personal and yet so universa
SO MANY young men- bombarded as they are by 'you have to be like THIS! advertising pop promos while at the same time vilified for 'toxic masculinity and other immutable characteristics. Feel as you do but suffer in silence.
You speak for them
THANKS
I don't care what anybody says if you have financial success and you don't have to worry about bills and what's going to happen next week or next month on financial end of things It makes fixing your life easier at least I think having more time to not worry about those things but to fix your life fix mental you got it bro tie your shoes stand up and do something about it
Love you dennis ; from England. - I feel alone too. You are not alone feeling alone ; there is a funny irony in that
Greetings from germany:)
Older and wiser, now, but I recall this phase of my life from mid-20 to early 30s. This video is like my younger self reaching across time. The angst of young adulthood.
Stay strong ❤
I had a large amount of money once. But it was all easily spent. It goes. People do wear masks, I think we all have at sometime. Now that im in my sixties i feel so much better in myself than i did when i was younger. I can see what's important, and what's not. It's so clear now. Things change, and you will.
Hello mate I felt the same I know it's so hard coping feeling like this I can only say what helped me get through and it was starting the gospel....You are worth and loved mate keep fighting brother ❤ even these videos help others who feel alone suffering the same...God blessate and thank you ❤
Thank you for the words.
I can tell you that it helps to help others. When we want to help others we can explain advice that is separated from our own old issues. When we separate them out it really helps us see the works more objectively. I also encourage you to cultivate humor within yourself. It helps when we can chuckle at the absurd or the ridiculous rather than see it in self condemning terms. I hope this helps : ) and I think your path of reflection and searching is a good one and it will also help
Excellent advice. I practice this.
Really good advice!
Stay strong bro. Summer is short but winter shall pass, life is full of love. There's just painful growth involved along the way, learn to see the positive sides of the down moments which allow you to know yourself more. Your inner peace is what's important and it's priceless, always put it before any goal you're aiming for. Everything happens for your greater good, keep it up and God bless you. Much love
Here's a piece of advice: stop focusing on yourself. When you talk about "feeling worthless", that primarily comes from self-focus and being preoccupied with yourself. When you focus on yourself that's going to create a problem no matter if you think good or bad things about yourself. If you think GOOD things, that could lead to arrogance or narcissism. If you think BAD things, that could lead to being depressed and negative. What I suggest instead is to only focus on things BESIDES yourself. For example if you're doing something focus on what you're doing. If you're talking or interacting with someone put all your focus on THEM. If you stop thinking about yourself so much then you won't get all these negative emotions.
But it's not easy to stop being self conscious... I can't keep myself busy all the time... when I get nothing to focus on, i get into depressing thoughts again..
@@chan2725 Life is full of interesting things, infinite things really. Get more hobbies and interests!
@@claw320 dude that is EXACTLY what im always telling my buddies… I have never seen someone who is really invested into something who is depressed, thinking about yourself only just drives you farther down the vicious circle
@@chan2725 I did it
I instantly had to watch your video when I saw it suggested to me.
I don't know you yet Dennis but I accept you for who you are, you sound like a really cool and introspective guy. You're not alone in feeling this desparate need to prove yourself financially. As guys we feel valued when we have responsibility and status e.g. a father, CEO of your own company. This is why we can endure hard times for a greater purpose but feel depressed when it feels like we're not devoting ourselves to something meaningful. Have you got hobbies where you can forget all about this pressure?
I heard someone once say that success wasn’t wealth power or position it’s when your kids get older and they still want to spend time with you. That could be you one day so keep the head up
es ist schön zu sehen das leute die so erfolgreich und gut aussehen wie du auch probleme haben... macht dich menschlicher, sympathischer und schraubt meinen neid zurück.... aber die unangenehme tatsache ist nun mal das wir alle im wettbewerb gegeneinander sind und wir immer mehr wollen
Danke für das Kompliment, nur Stand aktuell bin ich noch nicht soo erfolgreich ... ich arbeite aber dran:D
You need to stop caring about what others people think of you, you just work for your goals..I’m here buddy
Watching you say all of this made me want to give you a big hug. I feel the same way, it feels unbearable sometimes, I wish you find your tribe
This relates on so many levels.
Honestly man, you should fix your mental health first then chase success later. I don't know your situation but fixing your mental health will make your success journey easier. Also the reality of life as man is that you only get approval from people when you do something . The more you embrace it it becomes easier to live your life. Keep your head up and move forward. Wish you luck
I definitely will :D
How can I cure my mental condition please reply
@@thebatman1889 Honestly this is a very broad question, and when you ask broad questions you can only get a broad answer. Broad answer is to work on yourself. There is probably something that you don't like about yourself right now, and that is OK as long as you do something about it. That is all i can say. By working on yourself you will respect yourself more which will lead to better mental health overall.
Keep your head up l,stick your chest out and handle it,it's a cold man's world keep holding it down brother
You are worth something…you are special. What you witnessed and went through when you were younger was horrible but also it WAS NOT YOUR FAULT. Understand that you are and even back then were better than this and deserved a better childhood experience. You currently ARE BETTER and back then WERE BETTER than how you were treated. Always remember this. Separate yourself from toxicity and rememeber…that was temporary and you went through it so you can be stronger, wiser and kinder today.
You are very courageous discussing your deep feelings on social media . You are a good person and deserves all the happiness in the whole wide world . I will pray for you 🙏😇
Thank you for your words Louisa :)
I can relate brother to what you are feeling with the loneliness and emptiness.
What can I do to help you feel better G?
@@judgeholder8112 I think communication helps.
@@paulcooper5748 All right. Connect with some friends or with your family members. Volunteer in clubs. Join the gym. Join the book club. Go to a bar or nightclub and meet new people there. 🤗🤗🤗🫂🫂🫂. I don’t know if you have a job or not. I hope you have good communication social skills. That’ll be a incredible gift. Keep doing you and your hobbies. I don’t know if you’re seeing or dating anyone. If you find someone, that emptiness and loneliness will go away and I guarantee you that. Have a good 1 G. I hope my advice helps you.
Open yourself up to others by engaging in stuff you like. Try to learn how to dance by joining classes, or play volleyball on the beach, reach out to old friends to genuinely ask them about their life.
The sad truth is that most people never approach, but if you approach most people will be open to engage with you, hope things go better for you ❤
think positive...ignore the negative thoughts. your podcast/youtube page is a start in regards to expressing yourself etc. keep up the good work.
I feel you bro, this just got in time for me, thanks for sharing, hope now everything is well and better!
Hi, thank you. Yes I am better now, even though there are always ups and downs.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. People who have the courage to be authentic and express what their honest feelings are highly undervalued in society. You're helping people and making a positive difference in their lives.
This might not be the answer you’re looking for, but I want to confirm that success will not fix your feelings of loneliness. I’m successful by every financial measure, but I’ve given up many potential connections along the way in lieu of that.
It takes a lot of effort to make and maintain friendships to help ease loneliness. Best of luck, dude
Thank you.
I get the pain I do but society doesn't care about men in pain we have 2 push forward there's no other option stand strong kings
Sometimes it really feels like this is the case. When you feel low, nobody could care less.
But I also think that life is fair in the long run and if we work out asses of in out twenties life can become pretty amazing.
@@dennisbettinger agreed good man your not alone I suffer but in silence because society sees us as disposable we gotta stick together and stand strong. Salute from across the pond
just happened upon this video a year after you made it. i don’t know you but i hope you are doing better. you are valuable. you are worthy. i am here if you want to talk. ❤️
I know the exact feeling. I’m in the same boat. Idk the answer. I think brotherhood might be the answer because I think we’d value and appreciate each other because we understand each other
You know it's really surprising when hearing about loneliness from someone you least expect it. You're an attractive guy and people would assume you are privileged in the way people treat you and want you around them, but no one know the truth. I don't think it's just about being confident in yourself, trauma is a damn big setback. Hope you make it through man and realise your worth.
Man... Success wont change that - true; but that doesn't mean "nothing will change that"... Don't over think - don't suffocate yourself with negativity - move forward, and let life happen. It will get clearer as you go
Hey man I have very similar childhood like you and suffer from similar problems that you have right now. One thing I can suggest is get a motorcycle and join a motorcycle community in your area on facebook etc. You will start to feel alive and make good friends.
This is a wonderful video. I have so much to say on the topic, but I'm feeling a bit too lazy to collect my thoughts to type out an elaborate response to the many things you've said. You're definitely not alone in how you feel though. There are many people who feel the way that you feel. creating a UA-cam channel is actually a good idea because it can potentially connect you with SOOOO many people around the world. before social media, people who felt isolated and alone in whatever city or town they are from pretty much had to suffer in silence of get publicly berated on an incessant basis. now more than ever, we have opportunities to broaden our horizons and venture away from the places we in our hearts know that we don't belong. I hope you obtain whatever it is your soul desires.
Thank you:) I totally agree, this is my first video that actually reaches some people and its crazy how so many people from several countries can relate to how I felt / feeling from time to time.
Happiness begins in the heart, self love and worth is the start... Childhood traumas can be healed by accepting God. I use to feel like this untill recently. But I dragged myself out of this dark place by focusing on god and prayer. 🙏 I hope you feel better soon.
Don't give up on yourself... You need to push forward through this. .. go and stand in an open field and take time to think about you.re future ..it will get better 💕✝️🇬🇧
My brother, the wisest man to ever exist king Solomon said that all the riches, power and glory is all vanity and meaningless. I hope you read this message and receive it, I'm here to tell you my brother that the only way to achieve true happiness is through Jesus Christ. You are worth more than precious stones because you are a child of the Most High God and he accepts you for who you are! Please buy a KJV Bible and start reading with Matthew, Mark, Luke and John. I promise if you do this, you WILL feel happiness and Joy, I know this because I did it and The lord came through for me! If you need it contact me and I will buy one for you or even send you the money to get one. And If you need a friend I'm here for you bro. God Bless you my brother, and Jesus Christ loves you.
Thank you for your words. I dont need your money, but still I extremly appreciate your offer :)
This helps a lot of people tbh. I'm glad you made a video to help so many people dealing with the same issues.
Thanks for the video man, I personally like them, so please keep them coming. If people don’t like others because they are not achieving anything then they are not worth having around. There are only a handful of youtubers vs the rest of the world who are like yourself and myself- I think we are a rarity. Let’s keep bouncing ideas off each other. Blessings
😢dont bring ya self down you are an amazing person trust me lonelyness is horrible ❤
Please carry on in reaching out to people ...some 1 will plant a seed in your head and you will move forward in a time when u dont no you doing..you always havr some to talk to u just dont no it yet ..the lord is your savior, believe me he wont have all the answers but he will guild you thro ur sadness..i wish you good health amd further more happiness ..time is a healer ..keep reaching out...bless you love..❤
Sehr starke Worte! Bleib Stark und lass die negativen Gedanken nicht überhand nehmen
Ich bin der Meinung, dass jeder Mensch mit sich selbst ausmachen muss wohin er möchte unabhängig was andere wollen oder über dich denken. Mach das was dich erfüllt, ganz egal was es ist...
Vor allem, wenn man einen anderen Weg einschlägt zb. wenn man sich Selbstständig macht, dann ist der Weg steinig, einsam und hart..
Aber ich bin mir ganz sicher man schafft alles was man sich in den Kopf setzt. Geld macht nicht glücklich aber der Weg zu deinem persönlichen Erfolg macht glücklich.
dude this is all in your head you seem like an interesting person thats easy to be around.
The problem with society now is we have all the technology and shi but nobody cares about each other anymore
I can relate as I don't feel that my pain will ever end. I've wasted my entire life trying to be "good enough". I have those same feelings of low self worth. Compounding this I'm indecisive which makes matters harder.
I've hit a point where self isolation is best because I don't need the front.
you dont know how much i can feel you..
you just have to see yourself like the most perfect thing of the creation, even if there are some failures, they are perfect failures. You are perfect as a world.
Gabor Maté speaks to what Dennis is talking about and many many many of us have experienced. As for the money and body work, do that for yourself - not the approval of others. It's good to have a people in your life but real relationships are hard and messy and often don't last. Angst is normal - you're doing fine. Day by day, brother. Tschüss!
I just can not imaging me having low moments like this allowing me to tell myself this type of things. I made exactly the contrary today morning, I was like: OSCAR YOUR ARE, YOUR ARE AWESOME; YOU ARE HEALTH; YOU ARE ENOUGH; YOU ARE THE BEST; YOU ARE GOLD; YOU ARE WORTHY. And i practically have conversations with myself everyday and I think these things or like, if he can do it, then I can do it for sure, and even though I could do it better... And oscar don´t forget ,,to fail today, dosn´t mean to fail in the future one time and another" you´ll success.
Thanks for sharing bro that helped me. stay strong brother
Stay strong my brother this life is hard people would trick into believe that your friend remember walk in your own path and you're be celebrated.
I deeply appreciate the effort you put the express your true self. I can understand some of your thoughts since I have some similar ones. While it is not easy think about that for me, you are sharing via internet. Such a bravery. Have a good journey
I feel exactly the same way it's hard trying to please people just for them to turn their back on you I guess being alone makes you stronger ✌️❤️
All the money in the world won't make you happy without love, family, and good friends. Also my belief in God gets me through a lot of days when I feel unneeded and unloved.
Hey thanks for your comment. Yeah I grew up with always hearing my parents talk about how we struggle with money, which is (at least in my unprofessional opinion) why I developed this craving for making money.
Since a young age I told myself that I will make a lot of money, so I wont feel this "pain" of struggling with money anymore.
But lately when I watch my emotions I have to agree with you. I neglegted relationships / girls in order to have better focus on making money. I think it had its upsides but it also comes with a price.
We live in a meritocracy where one is defined by what one does, especially if you are male. So by not doing you are essentially allowing your personhood to disintegrate in the eyes of most others. It's just the way it is and has been for a thousand years. But as long as you are not imposing on others, it's completely ok to drop off the societal map if that's what you need. A quiet life of free time and recreation is a very good life to have. Nothing has to happen.
Material success won't change anything because you have an inherent understanding that material possessions, social status, money and basically any worldly attributes are ultimately meaningless. This is an indisputable fact. You can't take any of that pointless crap with you and it has zero meaning beyond the flesh and this fallen world. I felt the exact same way that you are feeling right before I found Jesus Christ. As soon as you find Him and realise He was there all along and wants you to be reconciled to Him your life feels renewed and you feel like you've finally 'got it.' The emptiness you feel is the lack of a relationship you have with Him. Please be open-minded and trust in what I'm saying. I can't force you to pursue Him or make you want to but you can certainly be open-minded and find out for yourself and allow Him to pull you out of this rut. God bless.
Thats because a majority of guys are in up to their eyeballs in their jobs, gf/wives, family church, debt. in the matrix of life. Consider yourself lucky and ahead of all these simps. Too bad no time to themselves or their brothers in life. That's our culture now, total isolation and making YOU feel like there's something wrong with YOU. Really sad & pathetic way to live as a male in today's world. Stay strong brother!
MATE, you're alone, you're worthless, and success WON'T CHANGE IT BRAH
It Really doesn't matter what you
" feel" or what you "believe "
Your a Man, Think with Logic!
I'm in a very similar place, bro. My justification for continuing is... I'd rather have options, have experiences, have possibility and just see what's on the other side. It doesn't matter either way, right?
By the way... you don't need the wrong people liking you, they're of no value. They're not relevant to your truth and your authentic path. You're not wrong for your goals, people just don't want the same things. You still have value, whether they see it or not.
❤❤❤ Dennis you are absolutely not worthless and you don't have to be alone. I would love 😍 to be your friend? No one is worthless! I notice an accent in your voice, so we probably are not in the same country. I'm in the United States. But we could still be friends, if you want to. I have absolutely no one. No friends or no family and to add insult to injury my fur baby ginger passed at the end of June. And buddy money is not going to make you happy. Sent to you from me with the utmost respect. 😊😊😊
my friend if you do not suffer from an illness like ALS or muscular dystrophy then you good sir are WINNING and should cherish every moment that you can go through life without a disaster/nightmare of a progressive and fatal neurological or muscular condition tearing your very being down to nothing. You can be happy and enjoy your life on that basis alone that such a possibility was averted in your lifetime.
i understand this feeling my brother but your goals and accomplishments should be what you try to achieve, i too get lonely at times but i believe by truly being yourself and doing what you love you can find happiness, as for people i must say not to let that bother you. your character will attract the right people. live for your happiness and do what makes you feel good no correction feel great. lets all grow together and better ourselves 💪