I’m 48 and been having mammograms since I was 40. When I was 45 I had my mammogram and got the call the next day. I was freaking out. I had to do a biopsy and thank goodness it was benign. For the week I waited for the appointment was horrible. I’m so glad that you’re sharing this. I hope it makes all women get their mammograms ❤❤❤. I’m so sorry about your friend having breast cancer 😔. I’m so glad all is well ❤❤❤. Sending you all my best ❤❤❤.
Don't worry! Everytime I've ever had a mammogram (age 35 to age 73) they usually called me back for another, and even without lumps, I've had several breast biopsies--never any cancers! I'm getting off the mammogram hamster wheel next year, at 74.
I had 2 that were pretty large(fibroadenoma) 1 at 17 and 1 at 20. Both were removed due to the size. They were round, hard, and rolled around, not painful. Both benign. Stopped with hormonal birth control and never had another issue. Now 51❤
I’m so sorry that you had to go through that. You are very wise to make your health a priority. I’ve had scares like that, and it’s so stressful! The older I’ve gotten, the more I need to see the doctor, and have imaging. It’s very overwhelming 10:29 at times. Stay well, and best wishes to you. ❤
I went to elementary school with a little girl who had breast cancer and a mastectomy at age 9. Some babies are even born with different forms of cancer.😥
I wish doctors would stop saying that they believe you're too young to be concerned. That upsets me, and it's condescending to someone who is just being careful. It's always good to check. Good thoughts and prayers for you! :)
I agree. My daughter's best friend died 2 years ago from bowel cancer, which according to doctors, at 28, she was far too young to be suffering from. My friends 19 year old sister also passed from bowel cancer and she was also repeatedly told that she was too young to have the disease. I myself had to fight for a bone density scan when I was 40 as all 3 of my older sisters had been diagnosed with osteoporosis. Again and again told I was too young. When they finally gave me a scan, I was already down to 73% density in my spine. It's time doctors stopped diagnosing by textbooks and started accepting that there are always exceptions to the rule. And if you're worried about any symptoms, don't give up asking for further investigations. You know your body best.
You are so beautiful, I hated seeing you teary. You’ve had enough in y’alls young life. Enjoy your family, get regular checkups (you too Kameron- you are a dad now, have to do dad things). My beloved grandmother gave me tidbits of advice that I’ll pass on. Don’t sweat the small stuff, there will be “those” days but they always pass and tomorrow is a new day. Start the day by smiling in the mirror even if you think it is stupid, smile at the stupidity. Say I love you daily to those around you that you love, including yourself. And compliment at least one stranger a day. Say your prayers before bed. It has always been solid advice for me. Been married 36 years to my best friend. He and I raised 2 girls. I’ve had a good life so far….
Just saw this and my heart dropped hun, uve been through so much and really dont deserve anymore! Fingers crossed its just a lump that can be left alone and wont cause u any discomfort, but its a good sign that she seemed happy for you to go and that its benign. Bless you, it was so lovely seeing you so relieved, u deserve all the happiness in the world and you have a beautiful little family! Xxxx
My sweet Stefanie I’m praying for the best for you and the family. Hopefully it’s a blocked duct or a cyst that will dissolve on its own. Thank you for sharing because so many of us go through the “what if’s” alone. We are right here for you sweet Stefanie ❤
It is hard not to freak out. When they found a lump on my right breast I was 65, so not in child bearing age range, but I still freaked out. After a biopsy came back “undeterminable” I had it removed. Luckily it was a cyst that came back benign. One thing I will say, the radiologist would not have let you go without talking to you if they thought it was something to worry about right now.
Thank you for sharing such a private and intimate part of your life with us! Your experience has prompted me to make an appointment for a mammogram. You could be saving lives! ❤ much love to you and your little family! ❤
Yes! It's very scary. The reason I pushed to have it even after she didn't think it was necessary was because my friend younger than me had stage 3 breast cancer. I'm glad I'm starting to advocate for my health.
I recently went through this same experience, although I’m much older than you are. I sat in my car and cried with relief after they told me everything was okay. I’m glad you are, too. Sending you a hug.
I am so happy that you are okay! I know how scary that can be. I've been through that scare several times. My maternal grandmother had breast cancer. So, I am very vigilant about getting my breast exams and go for mammograms yearly. Most years go well, others I have had to go for repeat mammograms and ultrasounds. So far, all is well. Love you and your family! Stay well!
Glad all is well! Always be your own advocate and put your foot down when it comes to your health. I don't let Dr's gaslight me. I'm very stern with them. Illnesses don't discriminate you can get anything at any time.
Yep, me too! I have been through this twice in my life so far. Luckily both times it was benign but there is family history of breast cancer so every time it happens the anxiety hits. Glad you are on top of your health, stay that way! You are your best advocate. ❤
Eat everything Soursop. Fruit, tea from leaves, bark; I've read the roots are very helpful fighting cancer cells (not saying that you have it but more to prevent anything). Read about it, maybe it can help you out ❤.
Had the same thing happen to me too, and of course i put myself through all that stress for nothing. Happy to hear you are in great health. You can tell that you are losing weight and getting toned up!😊 Breath Stefanie you are doing Great and looking Beautiful!🦋🧡🦋💛🦋
I am so glad you are advocating for yourself. I have 2 older sisters who both had breast cancer and one of my sisters did not make it. She was in her 40s. I am 7 years younger then she was. I know have a 3D mammogram and breast MRI done yearly. 1 year they did find something on my mammogram, fortunately with a ultrasound i found out it was fluid filled sack and nothing to really worry about but just monitor. I think its absolutely wonderful that you are taking the time to put yourself 1st as far as mental and physical health, you will be a better mom and wife knowing you are healthy in all aspects
It is totally normal to be scared. I had a breast exam at a Planned Parenthood when I was 27 and insurance-less and they found a lump. I was referred to a doctor who confirmed the lump and while it didn’t show classic indications of breast cancer (dimpling by the lump, pulling into the skin), he scheduled me for an ultrasound with a needle-aspiration biopsy for a few months later when I had insurance. The wait was scary and I obsessed over the worst-case scenario. During the ultrasound, they took thin pieces of the lump to biopsy and placed a little “clip” into the lump at the end of the scan so they’ll know it’s been tested before. My results came back benign. I found out later that I’m pretty high risk for breast cancer and started yearly mammograms at 35. This is the first video of yours I’ve seen but I wanted to let you know all of your feelings are valid and I’m happy everything came back benign for you too.
When I went through this REPEATEDLY (I have fibrocystic breasts) since I was a teenager….i now have PTSD. Last mammogram I had got me called in to have an ultrasound. Luckily, everything looked benign at that point, but for the next 2 years I had to have a mammogram every 6 months. I still cannot make myself open and read the report from that ultrasound. Just thinking about it sends me into panic mode. My doctor did say that the report says it looks benign so I’m going to just let THEM handle it. I need to make another appt for a mammogram now. I’m definitely due. And just a note, I know that regular recommendations state that women should have a mammogram every other year. Well the nurses that run the mammography dept told me to never wait 2 years in between check up! The number of changes that can happen in just one year are staggering. And your insurance will cover a yearly mammogram if you request it. Especially now for you Stefanie because you’ve had a lump. I’m so glad everything is ok! Thank you lord!
I have a benign cyst, I had all the scans you said about and they drained it there and then and said it’ll probably just grow back! It has but I can live with it knowing it’s okay. All the best to you ❤😊
Stephanie you have been through so much within your baby girl losing your mother and then not feeling well but you have your beautiful blessing you're beautiful kids try to stay positive and not worry too much and tell you know I pray it's nothing serious and I will keep you and your beautiful family in my prayers God bless you and your family❤❤❤
I had a benign cyst 16 years ago. I even had to undergo a needle biopsy after an ultrasound. My mother had breast cancer twice, although that is not what took her life. I totally understand your anxiety, Stefanie, since I suffer with that also. I'm glad you got good news!❤
Good for you for advocating for yourself. I'm sorry you have to go through this. It sounds like whatever it is was found early and that is good! Cancer is a scary word, think positive. My hope for you is that it nothing. (From one who's going through the breast cancer journey)
I found a lump about 20 years ago and had anxiety and the fear of cancer. Fortunately, after a biopsy, some initial discomfort when the needle was inserted, it came back negative. I have fibrocystic breast disease and dense breasts. I do have yearly routine mammograms which continue to be negative. When reaching the end of your blog, I am glad you had good results. Great news Stefanie! ❤
So happy it wasn’t serious. I’m 72 & 26 years ago I had a lump but mine unfortunately was cancer. Only stage 1, NO positive lymph nodes. Had surgery, chemo and radiation - - no problems since then. It was no picnic, though & my kids were HS & Middle School age - not really young like yours. That would have been a lot harder. You should celebrate in whatever way is fun for you - - that’s definitely deserving of some sort of celebration 🙂❤️
Don't worry, cysts are very common and breastcancer pretty unlikely shortly after prgnancy and breastfeeding. When I had a breast-tuck at my late 20s, they found a big cyst that no one was looking for, examined it, was harmless. I didn't waste more thoughts on it. Now I'm a mom and also more worried about my own health more, so I agree to the exams (here in Germany the doctors kinda urge you to let them do it), though I dislike them thouching me 😖
Yeah this is something that caught me of guard when i moved to germany. I too am in the young range but after my papsmear the ladydoc was like you want me to check? I was like meh might aswel. But before i lived in germany this was never offers. Even stated its early to check but they off it but i shouldnt worry or expect anything.
Thank goodness for the good outcome. My best friend went thru breast cancer treatment in 2021-2023. Her scans are still clear and I'm praying they stay that way forever!
I have had had reoccurring cysts in my breast’s since I was 15. I remember going to the hospital for my mammogram and feeling so out of place among the older people who were there. But they have always been benign, thank goodness. I had my most recent one after losing my daughter two years ago and cried on the ultrasound table because it was so triggering. All of this to say…it’s okay to be scared. It’s NEVER too early to be aware of what is going on with your body. I’ve had too many doctors give me the “too young to be ill” speech with my years of dealing with chronic illness. What ever you experience is valid. The fear is valid. I’m so glad that everything is all clear.
Sending you love! You got this Mama no matter what happens. Praying for you and that its nothing. Im currently having a scare too just a different one. 😢
I have had soooo many of those in my life starting at age 32 when I actually had to have a surgical biopsy. If they were really concerned they would have had a second screening ordered pronto! If you feel it and it moves you are 100 pct fine. Even if it doesn't move, I still know that if your doctor was very concerned they would not have been so laid back about it.
I understand how you feel when I found my first lump and I did the same things as you. It was polykystik cyst really common in big breast. Keep us posted. Sending you positive vibes. ❤❤❤
Benign breast tumors and lumps are very common. As a breast cancer survivor, stay positive and always get your mammograms. I also understand the mix of emotions and the anxiety (I battle with severe anxiety too) that comes with the waiting for answers. My thoughts and prayers are with you. ♥️ One day I’ll share my positive experience with breast cancer.
My early detection and decision to have a double mastectomy (I’m much older) with clean lymph nodes = no chemo or radiation therapy. I’m on tamoxifen for 5 years. I’m extremely lucky and so so so grateful. 🙏🏼
TRY TO STAY STRONG MAMA. YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH SOME CHALLENGES IN YOUR LIFE AND YOU MADE IT THROUGH IT. AND YOU NEED TO TELL YOURSELF THAT YOU HAVE 3 REASONS TO HAVE THE STRENGTH TO GET THROUGH THIS CHALLENGE TOO...❤️
Having been there, after/during ultrasound they immediately did a biopsy, I waited 10 days for the result. Longest 10 days of my life. It was breast cancer. If there had been any doubt you would have had a biopsy right away. Breast cancer is not a death sentence anymore. I waited until I watched your whole video before I posted. I’m fine now, and bonus, my hair came back curly :) I’m so happy you got good news! Hugs
Hi, i got diagnosed at 38, went through hemo surgery radiotherapy, more chemo immunotherapy, and now hormone blockers. I was so excited that my hair came back curly! Made the whole experience much better! I hope you are okay now. I am still waiting for the all clear I was diagnosed stage 3B (in Australia).
So glad you’re ok and happy that you went to get checked out. So often we just push things aside because we’re so busy especially in the early days of motherhood.👏🏼👏🏼💜
I had a routine mammagram last year. They detected cancer, I hadn't felt any lumps. Had biopsy, surgery, radiation, and on chemo in tablet form for 5 years. See allmf the drs every 3 months. Ladies please get your mammogram when required. If it wasn't for that, my cancer would have grown and been a lot bigger.
I feel you sister. A lump in your breast is always terrifying. You were right to ask for a breast exam. I have fibrocystic breasts so mine are lumpy all over and doing self exams can be hard. I have a history of first degree relative with pre-menopausal breast cancer (my Mom) so I began having mammos at 25. Don't ever let anyone tell you that you're too young to be concerned just because you are still of child bearing age. I'm so glad it's benign and that you are okay. Breathe a sigh of relief now Mama. Hugs to you and the fam.
I’m 60 and had a biopsy done recently. It came back fine. So don’t let your fear get to you. The biopsy was not fun but thank God no cancer. Praying for the best news for you ❤ so happy you didn’t need a biopsy 😊
Breast lumps and benign growths are incredibly common and it's the reason mammograms and follow ups when indicated are so important if something shows up. My experience has been they will refer you for a biopsy at the appointment if they're still not sure on imaging. I've been through this twice (and we have strong history of breast cancer on my mom's side, genetic testing has been negative). Both times they were benign. But it's scary AF, I know. Happy that you got good news!
My doctors been refusing me a test even for breast lumps, because I’m 25 years old, these are new bumps and they are painful they burn and itch uncontrollably
Glad to hear you’re alright!! Keep us updated on what the lump is, I know we don’t know each other in person but I have watched your vlogs for several years now, since you found out you were pregnant with Kieran. And I feel like you’re a close internet friend. I’m very glad to hear that you’re in good health 🙏
I am so glad you are in the clear. I am 73. I had breast cancer at 39, and again 23 years later. Turned out I was BRCA 1 positive. I well remember the panic the first time around. Know that I am thinking of you. ❤
As a breast cancer survivor (7 years and doing well!) who had an abnormal mammogram just a couple months ago, believe me, I understand! (A repeat mammogram that was more detailed came back normal, and whatever the ultrasound was looking for had gone away on its own.) Breast lumps should NEVER be disregarded! I know this, because I almost didn't have the biopsy because everyone said the images were probably benign.
Hi Stephanie so pleased for you that it wasn't anything nasty. The Dr will probably tell you what the lump was at your next appointment. I had breast cancer at age 60yrs. Went through all the treatment operation and 5 yrs of tablets. I'm really good now, but l was so scared. We all need to be vigilant it can happen to anyone. Big hugs Stephanie ❤❤
My heart hurts for you. My heart dropped when I saw this title. I was scared this was what the appointments were about. I get anxiety too and I worry about people I care about way more than I worry about myself.
Okay...writing this comment before watching the vlogs, but it feels so urgent. A lump in the breast can have many different reasons that are not cancer. I unsterstand how you might be anxious right now, but try to think ALL the positive thoughts.
I had a large one too, turned out to be a cyst, had a biopsy done. Supposedly its just a cyst. Doctor's in an er years ago said i had breast cancer (5 yrs later) it was just a large cyst
Thank God everything is ok. I was to young for a mamagram the first time there was a problem shortly after my first daughter was done breastfeeding. It turned out to just be a sebaceous cyst.
Thank you for posting this. I completely forgot that at my last doctor appointment (3 months ago), I was told it was time for a mammogram. I completely spaced it because I got busy with the holidays, etc. I am calling tomorrow to set up the appointment. Thanks for the reminder! 😊
The sooner you get diagnosed the better your chances of fighting it are. Always stay positive and surround yourself with lots of support even if you have nobody there are lots of women that will support you even if you don't know them. Love one another ❤
Glad all is ok. Love Sawbones Podcast. They just discussed some of the wild things that happen after pregnancy- including lumps and bumps that grow and freak us out! Glad you are ok.
I've always had lumpy breasts and I'm 70. Had many mammograms over the years and a few where I was called back for an untrasound, but it always proved to be nothing. That said, a good friend of mine let quite a few years lapse with no check ups or screenings. She was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer by the time it was caught. Fortunately with treatment, she's a four year survivor.
After chemo and radiation from a stage 3brain cancer I was told I likely would not be able to have children. I’m happy to report I have four grown daughters, 2 of which were conceived naturally with c section deliveries. Just because you have chemo does not mean you can’t have children or become infernal. You probably have a clogged milk duct due to breast feeding. Your gonna be ok momma
In our country there is a huge campaign around younger women and breast cancer to raise awareness because they are not regularly screened. Always pays to check ❤ its an anxious time, ive been for further investigation and imaging like many others and it turned out to be tissue
Stefanie, it's gonna be ok. Your body has pretty much had 3 back to back pregnancies, and your boobs fed both of your earth side babies. Your boobs have put in the WORK girl! Cysts aren't unheard of in such circumstances, believe me I am 42 and have a large cyst in my left breast. It's all gonna be alright and until a biopsy comes back as something cancerous it's best to not let it stress you out! You have enough to think about.
It riles me up when people think your too young to be worried about it! I found my first lump and had it drained when I was 15! Have had a few different types of lumps through the years and went to the doctor about lump a couple years back and my doctor said she thought this was it this time, told me which type of cancer she thought we could be dealing with, told me to make sure I do take a support person and it was going to be an urgent ultrasound, and that afterwards they would do a mammogram and counseling, luckily that time it still turned out to not be concerning, and I was 28. And even though they've always come back benign so far, it's never been the exact same thing, I will always get them checked. I'm grateful I've always been taken seriously about it
Good news, Very stressful though. Been through this with a very close relative recently, very unpleasant and harrowing, so thank goodness you are OK. For sure your body has been through massive changes during the past few years. It needs a well deserved break now. from the UK
I found a lump at 16 turned out to be no big deal they did take it out. You’re never too young for an exam. Mamograms should be given to younger women. Prayers that it’s nothing but I’m so glad you chose to push your Dr. Don’t feel bad about asking your Dr for what you want and insist! You need to go ahead and have the babies you want to have the older you get the more problems you can have. Thank you for sharing this some young woman out there somewhere may have needed to see this to know to be assertive with their health care. It’s ok to freak out. That’s normal.
Any of us who have had lumps can relate. In Australia they don’t like to mammogram women under 55 because hormones can change the breast tissue for imaging. So I just had an ultrasound.
I have anxiety too, and ADHD, unmedicated because my body rejects any medication we try.. anyways my mind goes to the worst case scenario every time. No matter how many times I try to tell myself don't jump to conclusions it's like my brain has to be prepared for the worst case scenario because it is the worst case scenario I'm prepared I don't think that if I got the worst case scenario upfront I've ever been mentally okay
I too had a lump in my breast. It was biopsied and ended up being benign. It is scary so you had every reason to feel the feels you felt. I’m very glad you are ok.
Omg how scarry. I found a walnut size lump last year in one breast. I had scans and biopsy but it was not breast cancer. It was lymphoma cancer which I already had. This info was given to me April 2024. By Dec my leukemia was fully back and I'm on chemo tabs. My lump went away after I got cortisone shot for arthritis. Great news for you.
Wow! I never realized how common benign lumps are! Thank you all for sharing your stories! ❤
I’m 48 and been having mammograms since I was 40. When I was 45 I had my mammogram and got the call the next day. I was freaking out. I had to do a biopsy and thank goodness it was benign. For the week I waited for the appointment was horrible. I’m so glad that you’re sharing this. I hope it makes all women get their mammograms ❤❤❤. I’m so sorry about your friend having breast cancer 😔. I’m so glad all is well ❤❤❤. Sending you all my best ❤❤❤.
Don't worry! Everytime I've ever had a mammogram (age 35 to age 73) they usually called me back for another, and even without lumps, I've had several breast biopsies--never any cancers! I'm getting off the mammogram hamster wheel next year, at 74.
I had 2 that were pretty large(fibroadenoma) 1 at 17 and 1 at 20. Both were removed due to the size. They were round, hard, and rolled around, not painful. Both benign. Stopped with hormonal birth control and never had another issue. Now 51❤
I’m so sorry that you had to go through that. You are very wise to make your health a priority.
I’ve had scares like that, and it’s so stressful! The older I’ve gotten, the more I need to see the doctor, and have imaging. It’s very overwhelming 10:29 at times.
Stay well, and best wishes to you. ❤
@@Edangel14-421 Those are a lot less common than they used to be.
What an odd thing for a doctor to say. Anyone can get cancer at any time. Thank you for sharing your story, mama
Yeah, i thought it was weird too lol
RIGHT?? !!
So weird! I’m 32 and my obgyn has done a routine boob check on me every year!
I went to elementary school with a little girl who had breast cancer and a mastectomy at age 9. Some babies are even born with different forms of cancer.😥
Prayers Stefanie! Deep breath!! Hugs! Benign lumps are very common. If they tell you it looks good, it’s okay!
I wish doctors would stop saying that they believe you're too young to be concerned. That upsets me, and it's condescending to someone who is just being careful. It's always good to check. Good thoughts and prayers for you! :)
I agree. My daughter's best friend died 2 years ago from bowel cancer, which according to doctors, at 28, she was far too young to be suffering from. My friends 19 year old sister also passed from bowel cancer and she was also repeatedly told that she was too young to have the disease. I myself had to fight for a bone density scan when I was 40 as all 3 of my older sisters had been diagnosed with osteoporosis. Again and again told I was too young. When they finally gave me a scan, I was already down to 73% density in my spine. It's time doctors stopped diagnosing by textbooks and started accepting that there are always exceptions to the rule. And if you're worried about any symptoms, don't give up asking for further investigations. You know your body best.
You are so beautiful, I hated seeing you teary. You’ve had enough in y’alls young life. Enjoy your family, get regular checkups (you too Kameron- you are a dad now, have to do dad things). My beloved grandmother gave me tidbits of advice that I’ll pass on. Don’t sweat the small stuff, there will be “those” days but they always pass and tomorrow is a new day. Start the day by smiling in the mirror even if you think it is stupid, smile at the stupidity. Say I love you daily to those around you that you love, including yourself. And compliment at least one stranger a day. Say your prayers before bed. It has always been solid advice for me. Been married 36 years to my best friend. He and I raised 2 girls. I’ve had a good life so far….
Just saw this and my heart dropped hun, uve been through so much and really dont deserve anymore! Fingers crossed its just a lump that can be left alone and wont cause u any discomfort, but its a good sign that she seemed happy for you to go and that its benign. Bless you, it was so lovely seeing you so relieved, u deserve all the happiness in the world and you have a beautiful little family! Xxxx
My sweet Stefanie I’m praying for the best for you and the family. Hopefully it’s a blocked duct or a cyst that will dissolve on its own. Thank you for sharing because so many of us go through the “what if’s” alone. We are right here for you sweet Stefanie ❤
I’m glad you had a breast exam Stefanie. I have had many mammograms. Better safe than sorry.
Stay strong! ❤️
It is hard not to freak out. When they found a lump on my right breast I was 65, so not in child bearing age range, but I still freaked out. After a biopsy came back “undeterminable” I had it removed. Luckily it was a cyst that came back benign. One thing I will say, the radiologist would not have let you go without talking to you if they thought it was something to worry about right now.
yes, that's for sure.
Thank you for sharing such a private and intimate part of your life with us! Your experience has prompted me to make an appointment for a mammogram. You could be saving lives! ❤ much love to you and your little family! ❤
Sending you positive vibes and gentle hugs. You got this beautiful lady!!! ❤
I hate the doctor hesitated! Women are getting breast cancer younger and younger now.
Yes! It's very scary. The reason I pushed to have it even after she didn't think it was necessary was because my friend younger than me had stage 3 breast cancer. I'm glad I'm starting to advocate for my health.
lol I knew you would still freak out. I LITERALLY snorted out mashed potatoes at you saying you feel like having a victory steak 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@McCreaFamilyHomestead You know Our Stefanie is gonna get a joke in the most serious situations. 💖
Damn, garlic mash sounds good now too 😂
I recently went through this same experience, although I’m much older than you are. I sat in my car and cried with relief after they told me everything was okay. I’m glad you are, too. Sending you a hug.
I am so happy that you are okay! I know how scary that can be. I've been through that scare several times. My maternal grandmother had breast cancer. So, I am very vigilant about getting my breast exams and go for mammograms yearly. Most years go well, others I have had to go for repeat mammograms and ultrasounds. So far, all is well. Love you and your family! Stay well!
Praying for you, sweet girl. God has got you, you need to be strong and healthy for those beautiful kiddos
Glad all is well! Always be your own advocate and put your foot down when it comes to your health. I don't let Dr's gaslight me. I'm very stern with them. Illnesses don't discriminate you can get anything at any time.
Yep, me too! I have been through this twice in my life so far. Luckily both times it was benign but there is family history of breast cancer so every time it happens the anxiety hits. Glad you are on top of your health, stay that way! You are your best advocate. ❤
Eat everything Soursop. Fruit, tea from leaves, bark; I've read the roots are very helpful fighting cancer cells (not saying that you have it but more to prevent anything). Read about it, maybe it can help you out ❤.
Had the same thing happen to me too, and of course i put myself through all that stress for nothing. Happy to hear you are in great health. You can tell that you are losing weight and getting toned up!😊 Breath Stefanie you are doing Great and looking Beautiful!🦋🧡🦋💛🦋
I'm really glad you are okay, as soon as I saw this come up my heart sank for you, take care ❤xx
I am so glad you are advocating for yourself. I have 2 older sisters who both had breast cancer and one of my sisters did not make it. She was in her 40s. I am 7 years younger then she was. I know have a 3D mammogram and breast MRI done yearly. 1 year they did find something on my mammogram, fortunately with a ultrasound i found out it was fluid filled sack and nothing to really worry about but just monitor. I think its absolutely wonderful that you are taking the time to put yourself 1st as far as mental and physical health, you will be a better mom and wife knowing you are healthy in all aspects
I had a lump followed by ultrasound and biopsy and turned out to be benign fibroma. Not all lumps are bad but all lumps should be checked.
You did a great thing sharing this. Someone somewhere could see this and ask for that exam ❤❤
It is totally normal to be scared. I had a breast exam at a Planned Parenthood when I was 27 and insurance-less and they found a lump. I was referred to a doctor who confirmed the lump and while it didn’t show classic indications of breast cancer (dimpling by the lump, pulling into the skin), he scheduled me for an ultrasound with a needle-aspiration biopsy for a few months later when I had insurance. The wait was scary and I obsessed over the worst-case scenario. During the ultrasound, they took thin pieces of the lump to biopsy and placed a little “clip” into the lump at the end of the scan so they’ll know it’s been tested before. My results came back benign. I found out later that I’m pretty high risk for breast cancer and started yearly mammograms at 35. This is the first video of yours I’ve seen but I wanted to let you know all of your feelings are valid and I’m happy everything came back benign for you too.
When I went through this REPEATEDLY (I have fibrocystic breasts) since I was a teenager….i now have PTSD. Last mammogram I had got me called in to have an ultrasound. Luckily, everything looked benign at that point, but for the next 2 years I had to have a mammogram every 6 months. I still cannot make myself open and read the report from that ultrasound. Just thinking about it sends me into panic mode. My doctor did say that the report says it looks benign so I’m going to just let THEM handle it. I need to make another appt for a mammogram now. I’m definitely due. And just a note, I know that regular recommendations state that women should have a mammogram every other year. Well the nurses that run the mammography dept told me to never wait 2 years in between check up! The number of changes that can happen in just one year are staggering. And your insurance will cover a yearly mammogram if you request it. Especially now for you Stefanie because you’ve had a lump. I’m so glad everything is ok! Thank you lord!
Hi Stephanie, sending you LOTS of love and positive vibes from Pennsylvania. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. 🙏🏻💗
I have a benign cyst, I had all the scans you said about and they drained it there and then and said it’ll probably just grow back! It has but I can live with it knowing it’s okay. All the best to you ❤😊
I'm so glad yours wasn't anything serious! ❤
Stephanie you have been through so much within your baby girl losing your mother and then not feeling well but you have your beautiful blessing you're beautiful kids try to stay positive and not worry too much and tell you know I pray it's nothing serious and I will keep you and your beautiful family in my prayers God bless you and your family❤❤❤
👏🏽👏🏽 we all go through that period of anxiety and stress to hear what’s happening after a test or exam .
Sending love and many prayers your way Stefanie and kameron
I had a benign cyst 16 years ago. I even had to undergo a needle biopsy after an ultrasound. My mother had breast cancer twice, although that is not what took her life. I totally understand your anxiety, Stefanie, since I suffer with that also. I'm glad you got good news!❤
Good for you for advocating for yourself. I'm sorry you have to go through this. It sounds like whatever it is was found early and that is good! Cancer is a scary word, think positive. My hope for you is that it nothing. (From one who's going through the breast cancer journey)
I found a lump about 20 years ago and had anxiety and the fear of cancer. Fortunately, after a biopsy, some initial discomfort when the needle was inserted, it came back negative. I have fibrocystic breast disease and dense breasts. I do have yearly routine mammograms which continue to be negative. When reaching the end of your blog, I am glad you had good results. Great news Stefanie! ❤
Sending hugs!!🙏🩷 It's so very scary. I've had a couple of scares. Not for the faint of heart. It's hard not to freak out. Glad everything is ok!!
Oh Stefanie keeping my fingers crossed 🤞
I had mine done today and everything is fine so it's gonna be fine with you as well 🤞❤
So happy it wasn’t serious. I’m 72 & 26 years ago I had a lump but mine unfortunately was cancer. Only stage 1, NO positive lymph nodes. Had surgery, chemo and radiation - - no problems since then. It was no picnic, though & my kids were HS & Middle School age - not really young like yours. That would have been a lot harder. You should celebrate in whatever way is fun for you - - that’s definitely deserving of some sort of celebration 🙂❤️
Don't worry, cysts are very common and breastcancer pretty unlikely shortly after prgnancy and breastfeeding. When I had a breast-tuck at my late 20s, they found a big cyst that no one was looking for, examined it, was harmless. I didn't waste more thoughts on it. Now I'm a mom and also more worried about my own health more, so I agree to the exams (here in Germany the doctors kinda urge you to let them do it), though I dislike them thouching me 😖
Yeah this is something that caught me of guard when i moved to germany. I too am in the young range but after my papsmear the ladydoc was like you want me to check? I was like meh might aswel. But before i lived in germany this was never offers. Even stated its early to check but they off it but i shouldnt worry or expect anything.
Everything will
Be fine. Even if it’s not it wi be. We all will be right with you no matter what you go through!!
Stephanie I’m praying for you that everything will be alright. God Bless your beautiful family.
Thank goodness for the good outcome. My best friend went thru breast cancer treatment in 2021-2023. Her scans are still clear and I'm praying they stay that way forever!
I am glad you are alright! Your babies and husband need you. And you don't need to be dealing with the C word.
I have had had reoccurring cysts in my breast’s since I was 15. I remember going to the hospital for my mammogram and feeling so out of place among the older people who were there. But they have always been benign, thank goodness. I had my most recent one after losing my daughter two years ago and cried on the ultrasound table because it was so triggering. All of this to say…it’s okay to be scared. It’s NEVER too early to be aware of what is going on with your body. I’ve had too many doctors give me the “too young to be ill” speech with my years of dealing with chronic illness. What ever you experience is valid. The fear is valid. I’m so glad that everything is all clear.
Aw Stephanie I’m so happy that your in good health. Just so scary. 😊
Sending you love! You got this Mama no matter what happens. Praying for you and that its nothing. Im currently having a scare too just a different one. 😢
STEF. THANKS FOR SHARING! YOU ARE SUCH A GREAT Mom❤
I have had soooo many of those in my life starting at age 32 when I actually had to have a surgical biopsy. If they were really concerned they would have had a second screening ordered pronto! If you feel it and it moves you are 100 pct fine. Even if it doesn't move, I still know that if your doctor was very concerned they would not have been so laid back about it.
32.. D mascetomy.. Tough journey... BRACA 1
So happy you had good news! You look fabulous and your little family is so cute!
Praise be the Lord! I am so glad that everything is okay❤
I understand how you feel when I found my first lump and I did the same things as you. It was polykystik cyst really common in big breast. Keep us posted. Sending you positive vibes. ❤❤❤
Benign breast tumors and lumps are very common. As a breast cancer survivor, stay positive and always get your mammograms.
I also understand the mix of emotions and the anxiety (I battle with severe anxiety too) that comes with the waiting for answers. My thoughts and prayers are with you. ♥️
One day I’ll share my positive experience with breast cancer.
My early detection and decision to have a double mastectomy (I’m much older) with clean lymph nodes = no chemo or radiation therapy. I’m on tamoxifen for 5 years. I’m extremely lucky and so so so grateful. 🙏🏼
TRY TO STAY STRONG MAMA. YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH SOME CHALLENGES IN YOUR LIFE AND YOU MADE IT THROUGH IT. AND YOU NEED TO TELL YOURSELF THAT YOU HAVE 3 REASONS TO HAVE THE STRENGTH TO GET THROUGH THIS CHALLENGE TOO...❤️
Having been there, after/during ultrasound they immediately did a biopsy, I waited 10 days for the result. Longest 10 days of my life. It was breast cancer. If there had been any doubt you would have had a biopsy right away. Breast cancer is not a death sentence anymore. I waited until I watched your whole video before I posted. I’m fine now, and bonus, my hair came back curly :) I’m so happy you got good news! Hugs
Hi, i got diagnosed at 38, went through hemo surgery radiotherapy, more chemo immunotherapy, and now hormone blockers. I was so excited that my hair came back curly! Made the whole experience much better!
I hope you are okay now.
I am still waiting for the all clear I was diagnosed stage 3B (in Australia).
So glad you’re ok and happy that you went to get checked out. So often we just push things aside because we’re so busy especially in the early days of motherhood.👏🏼👏🏼💜
I had a routine mammagram last year. They detected cancer, I hadn't felt any lumps. Had biopsy, surgery, radiation, and on chemo in tablet form for 5 years. See allmf the drs every 3 months. Ladies please get your mammogram when required. If it wasn't for that, my cancer would have grown and been a lot bigger.
Damien 😊 He can't let you have a serious conversation ever! I'm glad all is well with your breast health ❤
Sending you the biggest warmest Irish hug 🥰
so happpy for you , I've had several lumps throughout the years fortunately they have been cysts and I've had them drained, thank god you're okay xxx
I feel you sister. A lump in your breast is always terrifying. You were right to ask for a breast exam. I have fibrocystic breasts so mine are lumpy all over and doing self exams can be hard. I have a history of first degree relative with pre-menopausal breast cancer (my Mom) so I began having mammos at 25. Don't ever let anyone tell you that you're too young to be concerned just because you are still of child bearing age. I'm so glad it's benign and that you are okay. Breathe a sigh of relief now Mama. Hugs to you and the fam.
I know you were so anxious im so glad everything was ok things come out of the blue its so scary glad you take such good care of yourself god bless
I’m 60 and had a biopsy done recently. It came back fine. So don’t let your fear get to you. The biopsy was not fun but thank God no cancer. Praying for the best news for you ❤ so happy you didn’t need a biopsy 😊
Breast lumps and benign growths are incredibly common and it's the reason mammograms and follow ups when indicated are so important if something shows up. My experience has been they will refer you for a biopsy at the appointment if they're still not sure on imaging. I've been through this twice (and we have strong history of breast cancer on my mom's side, genetic testing has been negative). Both times they were benign. But it's scary AF, I know. Happy that you got good news!
Thank God you're okay. I once had a lump in my breast, but thankfully that turned out to be fatty tissue. I'm so glad you're okay!
My doctors been refusing me a test even for breast lumps, because I’m 25 years old, these are new bumps and they are painful they burn and itch uncontrollably
Glad to hear you’re alright!! Keep us updated on what the lump is, I know we don’t know each other in person but I have watched your vlogs for several years now, since you found out you were pregnant with Kieran. And I feel like you’re a close internet friend. I’m very glad to hear that you’re in good health 🙏
I am so glad you are in the clear. I am 73. I had breast cancer at 39, and again 23 years later. Turned out I was BRCA 1 positive. I well remember the panic the first time around. Know that I am thinking of you. ❤
As a breast cancer survivor (7 years and doing well!) who had an abnormal mammogram just a couple months ago, believe me, I understand! (A repeat mammogram that was more detailed came back normal, and whatever the ultrasound was looking for had gone away on its own.) Breast lumps should NEVER be disregarded!
I know this, because I almost didn't have the biopsy because everyone said the images were probably benign.
So glad it all worked out and your okay.
Peace of mind, peace of heart, peace to you and yours, prayers for these, good health.
Hi sweetie! Yay!! Congrats on the great news! ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉
Hi Stephanie so pleased for you that it wasn't anything nasty. The Dr will probably tell you what the lump was at your next appointment. I had breast cancer at age 60yrs. Went through all the treatment operation and 5 yrs of tablets. I'm really good now, but l was so scared. We all need to be vigilant it can happen to anyone. Big hugs Stephanie ❤❤
My heart hurts for you. My heart dropped when I saw this title. I was scared this was what the appointments were about. I get anxiety too and I worry about people I care about way more than I worry about myself.
I found one on my breast in October....it was just a cyst...so they will follow up with me every 6 months. I will be praying for you.
Okay...writing this comment before watching the vlogs, but it feels so urgent. A lump in the breast can have many different reasons that are not cancer. I unsterstand how you might be anxious right now, but try to think ALL the positive thoughts.
I had a large one too, turned out to be a cyst, had a biopsy done. Supposedly its just a cyst. Doctor's in an er years ago said i had breast cancer (5 yrs later) it was just a large cyst
You are going to be fine. Don't worry about anything until you have too.
Easier said than done though.
I will pray for you!!
Thank God everything is ok. I was to young for a mamagram the first time there was a problem shortly after my first daughter was done breastfeeding. It turned out to just be a sebaceous cyst.
Thank you for posting this. I completely forgot that at my last doctor appointment (3 months ago), I was told it was time for a mammogram. I completely spaced it because I got busy with the holidays, etc. I am calling tomorrow to set up the appointment. Thanks for the reminder! 😊
Oh my wow... Big sigh of relief Mama 🩷🙏🏼 So good to hear that you're ok. Health anxiety is really tough.
The sooner you get diagnosed the better your chances of fighting it are. Always stay positive and surround yourself with lots of support even if you have nobody there are lots of women that will support you even if you don't know them. Love one another ❤
Glad all is ok. Love Sawbones Podcast. They just discussed some of the wild things that happen after pregnancy- including lumps and bumps that grow and freak us out! Glad you are ok.
I've always had lumpy breasts and I'm 70. Had many mammograms over the years and a few where I was called back for an untrasound, but it always proved to be nothing. That said, a good friend of mine let quite a few years lapse with no check ups or screenings. She was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer by the time it was caught. Fortunately with treatment, she's a four year survivor.
I hope you stay well and enjoy your beautiful family ❤❤
After chemo and radiation from a stage 3brain cancer I was told I likely would not be able to have children. I’m happy to report I have four grown daughters, 2 of which were conceived naturally with c section deliveries. Just because you have chemo does not mean you can’t have children or become infernal. You probably have a clogged milk duct due to breast feeding. Your gonna be ok momma
In our country there is a huge campaign around younger women and breast cancer to raise awareness because they are not regularly screened.
Always pays to check ❤ its an anxious time, ive been for further investigation and imaging like many others and it turned out to be tissue
Stefanie, it's gonna be ok. Your body has pretty much had 3 back to back pregnancies, and your boobs fed both of your earth side babies. Your boobs have put in the WORK girl! Cysts aren't unheard of in such circumstances, believe me I am 42 and have a large cyst in my left breast. It's all gonna be alright and until a biopsy comes back as something cancerous it's best to not let it stress you out! You have enough to think about.
Praying for you!!! Hope everything is ok !! God Bless 😊
It riles me up when people think your too young to be worried about it! I found my first lump and had it drained when I was 15! Have had a few different types of lumps through the years and went to the doctor about lump a couple years back and my doctor said she thought this was it this time, told me which type of cancer she thought we could be dealing with, told me to make sure I do take a support person and it was going to be an urgent ultrasound, and that afterwards they would do a mammogram and counseling, luckily that time it still turned out to not be concerning, and I was 28. And even though they've always come back benign so far, it's never been the exact same thing, I will always get them checked. I'm grateful I've always been taken seriously about it
Prayers for a good out come.
Good news, Very stressful though. Been through this with a very close relative recently, very unpleasant and harrowing, so thank goodness you are OK. For sure your body has been through massive changes during the past few years. It needs a well deserved break now. from the UK
I found a lump at 16 turned out to be no big deal they did take it out. You’re never too young for an exam. Mamograms should be given to younger women. Prayers that it’s nothing but I’m so glad you chose to push your Dr. Don’t feel bad about asking your Dr for what you want and insist! You need to go ahead and have the babies you want to have the older you get the more problems you can have. Thank you for sharing this some young woman out there somewhere may have needed to see this to know to be assertive with their health care. It’s ok to freak out. That’s normal.
Any of us who have had lumps can relate. In Australia they don’t like to mammogram women under 55 because hormones can change the breast tissue for imaging. So I just had an ultrasound.
I’ve been having mine since 40 and get reminders every two years
@@lisakemp7352same and I'm in Australia
I had my first at 38 when I found a lump turned out to be cancer. I think it depends on the state you live and area. I am in NSW.
I have anxiety too, and ADHD, unmedicated because my body rejects any medication we try.. anyways my mind goes to the worst case scenario every time. No matter how many times I try to tell myself don't jump to conclusions it's like my brain has to be prepared for the worst case scenario because it is the worst case scenario I'm prepared I don't think that if I got the worst case scenario upfront I've ever been mentally okay
I too had a lump in my breast. It was biopsied and ended up being benign. It is scary so you had every reason to feel the feels you felt. I’m very glad you are ok.
I have benign lumps. It’s really a common thing
Happy to hear your fine and healthy 👏🏻
Love y’all bunches
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Omg how scarry. I found a walnut size lump last year in one breast. I had scans and biopsy but it was not breast cancer. It was lymphoma cancer which I already had. This info was given to me April 2024. By Dec my leukemia was fully back and I'm on chemo tabs. My lump went away after I got cortisone shot for arthritis. Great news for you.
I'm so glad all went well Stephanie! Praise God ❤❤❤
I also had a cyst after the birth of my daughter. Glad to know everything is okay!
Been there, my doctor was watching a lump for two years. There was no change and it dissolved, Glad you got good news.