Abel Chungu Musuka - Mwamuna Sama Lila (A Man Does Not Cry)[Feat. KB Killa Beats](Official Audio)

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  • @VanEssa-gv1ye
    @VanEssa-gv1ye 4 роки тому +743

    My brother has had to be strong for the both of us since mums passing and I notice its eating him up inside. To my brother! I got you. U dont have to be strong anymore, let it out, ama be your shoulder. Am a big girl now. I love you biggie, to the moon and back.❤

    • @abelchungumusuka8950
      @abelchungumusuka8950  4 роки тому +111

      Please send him this song. Thank you for being an amazing sister. Alot of brothers need sisters like you.

    • @VanEssa-gv1ye
      @VanEssa-gv1ye 4 роки тому +39

      @@abelchungumusuka8950 I will...I actually plan on playing it for him when I visit him. Thank you so much😊

    • @francismulenga2981
      @francismulenga2981 3 роки тому +15

      This song hits home, sometimes I feel the weight of the world on me. Thanks mate.

    • @bernadettemalinda2609
      @bernadettemalinda2609 3 роки тому +3

      Awwwwh

    • @constancekangwa6233
      @constancekangwa6233 3 роки тому +4

      God bless you young queen

  • @angiemus5688
    @angiemus5688 4 роки тому +232

    Chungu if you ever see this I want you to know I used your music to boast to friends in school that made fun of me for being Christian...eventually everyone became a believer 😇😇😇

    • @constantinentambo3498
      @constantinentambo3498 4 роки тому

      👏👏👏👏👏

    • @abelchungumusuka8950
      @abelchungumusuka8950  4 роки тому +51

      Wow. Thank you for sharing this Angie. My music is meant for people to connect with Gods heart. In any situation they are in they will know God is real and He's there. Jesus at the centre of it all.

    • @angiemus5688
      @angiemus5688 4 роки тому +21

      @@abelchungumusuka8950 😳😳eeehhhh see God..chungu Abel Musuka replied..🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️iyeee mwelesa wandi ine...I'm crying..I feel like I'm dreaming ..ahhh Chungu I love you..I love you I love you so much..you will never understand the impact your music has had in my life,I cant explain it..God bless you with long life and Good health sir..I love you so much

    • @anganilekalonga9851
      @anganilekalonga9851 3 роки тому +2

      @@abelchungumusuka8950 you are an angel sent from above..God knew I would need to listen to your song never left, I was going through hell but your song healed me..God shud bless you more and more

    • @ulunjisichinga3205
      @ulunjisichinga3205 3 роки тому

      Amen To God be the glory.

  • @peggymulenga6766
    @peggymulenga6766 6 місяців тому +11

    This was my drivers favorite song, he died months ago, I miss him so much, all the time he would sing along to this song. I wish he could tell me why he loved this song. But it's to late now😢😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @edwinnambo7105
    @edwinnambo7105 4 роки тому +276

    We have been raised with a mentality that men don’t cry, to be honest I lost my parents at a tender age but I never shade a tear for them because of that societal syndrome of men not cry, but the pain hits real hard when I hit rock bottom, but mwamuna siama lila: I feel men cry and we need the support of society to help us go through certain challenges in life.

  • @jeffchoombe3892
    @jeffchoombe3892 3 роки тому +51

    I will leave this comment here so that whenever someone likes it I’ll be reminded of this masterpiece.

  • @likandomwilima6231
    @likandomwilima6231 3 роки тому +235

    This song should be sold at the pharmacy, it relieves stress 🔥🔥

  • @tehillahc2456
    @tehillahc2456 4 роки тому +150

    There is so much societal pressure exerted on the African male child. It’s grossly unfair and I believe that to a large extent it’s the reason we have witnessed a surge suicide cases among our brothers. Let’s be their keeper. This is a message. 🙏🏾 Thank you

    • @mannymanny3776
      @mannymanny3776 4 роки тому +1

      God bless you

    • @thee_adriel
      @thee_adriel 4 роки тому +4

      Can't agree more...
      Especially when you are the 1st born, there's usually no chance of experimenting with what ur gonna become in life... like pursuing music or any sports career.

    • @MorganChabalaJr
      @MorganChabalaJr 4 роки тому +2

      I like your explicit explanation and analysis of this subject matter. It is very true, we as men need counselling and awareness on mental health and eventually homicide/killing of spouses might reduce.

    • @Ms_Trii
      @Ms_Trii 4 роки тому +3

      This is so true.
      The pressure exerted on a man is too much.

    • @mwate8764
      @mwate8764 4 роки тому +1

      Well explained Tehillah

  • @ruthmonde2702
    @ruthmonde2702 Рік тому +5

    My fiance use to play this song everyday, wen he was going through a tough time without getting paid his full pay, i stood by him , encouraging him never to give up❤️

  • @JohnnyBrave_
    @JohnnyBrave_ 4 роки тому +187

    I was eating bread 🍞 before listening to this, but now I'm eating toast. Fire 🔥🔥🔥!!!! Watching from Kenya

  • @marezmarebesa910
    @marezmarebesa910 4 роки тому +76

    The irony is that I'm crying whilst listening to this song. Beautiful song & powerful message. Abel Chungu you are amazing, brave and inspiring bro..

  • @chelseatcchirambo7224
    @chelseatcchirambo7224 3 роки тому +81

    Everytime I listen to this song I literally break down into tears, it’s literally not just males even us first born daughters are asked to be strong for everyone and sometimes they forget we humans 😔but gents I’m sending you all the love and peace of mind. It’s okey to cry😭😭😭my heart though. Abel Chungu thank you for this touching song.

    • @patiencemakungu1
      @patiencemakungu1 2 роки тому

      I know what you mean....

    • @ericaphiri5198
      @ericaphiri5198 Рік тому

      It's true😢 us first born daughters we are just like men

    • @elizamzumara6833
      @elizamzumara6833 Рік тому

      True

    • @wazzy281
      @wazzy281 3 місяці тому

      Am a first born daughter... I dedicated this song to myself ❤

  • @morningstar917
    @morningstar917 Рік тому +7

    I am a mother of two daughters only, I feel the pain of what men go through when I listen to this song. Bless you Abel, your music is amazing.

  • @charlesmuwowo1484
    @charlesmuwowo1484 Місяць тому +2

    Just had to cry when my daughter graduated to grade 1. Never had my dad come to any of my graduations. He died when I was 11.

  • @wycliffekutexa
    @wycliffekutexa 4 роки тому +162

    I am Ugandan.. buh y'all make the most beautiful african music.. I need a friend to help me translate 🥺.. Buh much love.. much much love❤️

    • @abelchungumusuka8950
      @abelchungumusuka8950  4 роки тому +52

      A lyrics video is coming.😁

    • @kerubol
      @kerubol 4 роки тому +4

      @@abelchungumusuka8950 pheeew!!! lol!!! Much appreciated!!

    • @yande275
      @yande275 4 роки тому +16

      @@kerubol mwamuma sama lila a man doesn't cry. Its something in our culture men get told mwamuma salila
      But his saying this is something we told from when we young but the truth is men do cry

    • @natashasichone549
      @natashasichone549 4 роки тому +2

      This is really a beautiful song

    • @rachelsakala490
      @rachelsakala490 4 роки тому +1

      @Wycliffe the title is men don't cry, but I suggest you wait for the lyrics.

  • @mikethapoetmb698
    @mikethapoetmb698 4 роки тому +30

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Bruhv! This song just made me cry, 2020 has been shit on my part and it hasn't been easy to vent out because I am afraid to look weak 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 like ah!

    • @estherphiri764
      @estherphiri764 4 роки тому +1

      It shall be well with you ,cry to God he knows you better than any , it's okay it shall be orite one day,crying it out is not a problem but to whom is what matters

    • @abelchungumusuka8950
      @abelchungumusuka8950  4 роки тому +1

      Letting out is important

    • @prudencechambwe6331
      @prudencechambwe6331 3 роки тому +1

      Cry out to God.. hugs🤗

    • @shebakabwe
      @shebakabwe 3 роки тому

      It's okay not to be okay. Cry you a river, tell God about it and better still talk to someone, that's why he gave us friends. Find someone trustworthy. Wishing you well. Better days are coming.

    • @patiencemakungu1
      @patiencemakungu1 2 роки тому

      Sending hugs your way, hope you are well now。

  • @twaambochilundika4962
    @twaambochilundika4962 Рік тому +6

    As a mother to a son, I will consistently remind him that he should never carry burdens alone and that it is okay to cry.

  • @michaelsulamoyosakala9646
    @michaelsulamoyosakala9646 4 роки тому +10

    Abel chungu is the most under rated artist in Zambia. This guy is one of the cream of zambian music. Respect

  • @ArielZambia
    @ArielZambia 4 роки тому +32

    Your pen Bro!!! God continue blessing you with more fire.

  • @hozeyphiri4544
    @hozeyphiri4544 4 роки тому +13

    The pressure we grew up with...
    We need not to pass this knowledge to the next generation.
    #Mwamuna ni muntu. Amalila

  • @poshmake1361
    @poshmake1361 4 роки тому +20

    I hear you. Being the first born you are told to be strong for others even as a girl child. The pressure is real . Nice piece 😭😭

    • @ShellyMwikisa
      @ShellyMwikisa Місяць тому

      As a girl you have to be a mother and sister to your siblings 😢

  • @davidng7592
    @davidng7592 9 місяців тому +5

    3 years later this song still strengthens .. when ever i got low and get low i come here

  • @kelvinsakala
    @kelvinsakala 4 роки тому +34

    OK I love this song so much i feel like it's my dedication my dad died on 23 October 2003, this song just hit me differently believe me abel chungu, that day I cried like like the bible says Jesus wept........ Thanks Abel this is now my dedication to the big man.

    • @chileshekapwepwe9618
      @chileshekapwepwe9618 4 роки тому +1

      My condolences to you and your family. Can't imagine how hard this day must be for you ❤🙏

    • @kelvinsakala
      @kelvinsakala 4 роки тому +2

      @@chileshekapwepwe9618 words cant describe.

    • @abelchungumusuka8950
      @abelchungumusuka8950  4 роки тому +8

      Thank you for sharing this. My own dad's memorial is coming up this November.

    • @nephutalynyirongo2132
      @nephutalynyirongo2132 2 роки тому +1

      @@abelchungumusuka8950 l like your songs and this one is my favorite

    • @theresamwape7269
      @theresamwape7269 2 роки тому +1

      Let it out its okay to cry.

  • @georgemwanza2480
    @georgemwanza2480 Рік тому +5

    We go through so much as men,its not easy. I feel there are a few women out there that can even begin to understand what we go through as men. Its never been easy.

  • @shawnalbowah6857
    @shawnalbowah6857 4 роки тому +5

    How can you honestly click dont like button seriously. I'm wondering the deslikes.. what is there to deslike. for the first time men have a song that does not portray them as villains, abusers or cheaters but speaks of what goes on in our daily lives behind the scenes. BIG UPS this is song of the year for me.

  • @ivwananjinakamba70
    @ivwananjinakamba70 4 роки тому +15

    Sending love and light to all the gents out there. We often forget that you're human too, you bleed too and things hurt you too. I hope you can all find peace❤️

  • @evelynhauteqouture25
    @evelynhauteqouture25 3 роки тому +6

    Song is so beautiful... some words sound like Luganda...I think it's a Bantu language 😍😍😍💞💞 so sweet 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬

  • @jobsoko8927
    @jobsoko8927 4 роки тому +7

    Man don’t cry I think it’s a way to tell a young boy to grow strong because their is a lot of pressure in the society so it’s a way to make us be prepared as we grow older

  • @purityzulu6844
    @purityzulu6844 2 роки тому +5

    All the way from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 here. We love the track!!..well done man!

  • @classic1275
    @classic1275 4 роки тому +9

    Only Satan can dislike this lovely song

  • @tendaikalandu7751
    @tendaikalandu7751 3 роки тому +32

    The emotion in this song is almost tangible....men you have every right to cry when it hurts. Break, scream cry let it out
    Then fix your crown and walk.

  • @Janemwangata97
    @Janemwangata97 4 роки тому +10

    This is the return of the prince... Glory to the Crown of the King, You are witnessing the rise of the Kingdom... may every chain be broken... #I really feel these words😰
    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @mnekasaint5428
    @mnekasaint5428 4 роки тому +12

    25.10.2020
    We done been through a whole lot of pressing issues, we cry, we fall, we break, and scream in total anguish, but remember, this is the return of the Prince!
    Dear Men,
    We cry!
    Cry! While you pick yourself up, you are not alone.
    You are valued, your happiness counts.
    Thank you Abel😘😍😍😗😥😥😥😥

  • @eunicendungu8985
    @eunicendungu8985 2 роки тому +2

    Waaaooh @Abel am a great fun from Kenya ,if we could get the lyrics it would be even better

  • @cynthialungu2977
    @cynthialungu2977 4 роки тому +39

    Thank you Abel for this beautiful song that covers men, Society so often tosses their emotions aside. When you sang “This is the return of the Prince” I could tell this song meant so much to you personally as it does to so many looking at the comments here. May all of you deserving Kings find worthy Queens who will allow you to fall apart then pick you up and allow you to re-invent yourselves. God Bless you all🙏🏾

    • @mukukajrchalwe500
      @mukukajrchalwe500 Рік тому

      It's the prayer of every hardworking man to find a helper in a loving woman to help him in this punishing world for men.

  • @mikesimuchimba7033
    @mikesimuchimba7033 4 роки тому +10

    I wish i really knew wat a real man is but i will be praising God coz am still standing... this is a song of the year may God bless u its a hit bro...

  • @andfordbanda2988
    @andfordbanda2988 Рік тому +1

    Rip dad been two years now, mwamuna samalila

    • @christophermwenya1484
      @christophermwenya1484 Рік тому

      Stay strong anonymous I lost both parents before I could turn 12 years am the only male child

  • @BlakRedGrin
    @BlakRedGrin 2 роки тому +3

    Wow what a song, known it after Driemo's cover🇲🇼🤝🇿🇲

  • @tendaigabrielnkhata2737
    @tendaigabrielnkhata2737 Місяць тому

    Growing up without a father and having so much pressure to make mama proud, it's my prayer that my father finds peace in his absence in my life , may God bless and open more doors to all the man out there 👑👊✊

  • @scottakili3009
    @scottakili3009 2 роки тому +2

    I don't know the Zambian language but I vibed with this song. Can somebody please translate these lyrics for me>

  • @marchella1st
    @marchella1st 3 роки тому +2

    It's time to change the narrative I've been saying this for a while men are going through so much pressure because of culture,traditions and society.

  • @noelimanga8754
    @noelimanga8754 2 роки тому +1

    Mwamuna samalila, I never used used to know wat those words really meant till I became a man,
    A man is a Pilar of strength in every family hence shouldn't show it that you are broken when u are really broken, only a few family members 1,2 or 3 should know /friends 1 or 2are enough.
    A broken Man is considered to be weak and undesirable by society

  • @giftmuswema8111
    @giftmuswema8111 4 роки тому +27

    This song is so emotional and so needed in our time,stumbled upon it at this hour 03hrs and it has really blessed me

  • @mambwemumba8387
    @mambwemumba8387 4 роки тому +13

    May the 12 people that disliked this song find inner peace and Gods grace. What a beautiful song, well done Abel.

    • @Nizo3D
      @Nizo3D 3 роки тому

      They now 81 busy liking music that don't make sense but a song with a meaning they dislike

    • @tonilungu_tv2080
      @tonilungu_tv2080 3 роки тому +2

      @@Nizo3D Jst enjoy the song, maybe they thought it was a download button..am yet to see a video without dislikes

  • @jefmbewe2360
    @jefmbewe2360 4 роки тому +11

    The spiritual root of all addictions is the need to be loved , been a tough two years . Thanks for this abel 💪

  • @milesnguni6943
    @milesnguni6943 2 роки тому +1

    Mental health is real... been dealing with alot of inner pain... but am now getting there.

  • @GODWINKAPIHYATV
    @GODWINKAPIHYATV Місяць тому +23

    Who's still listening to this jam in 2024

  • @tanimulefu6010
    @tanimulefu6010 2 роки тому +2

    Such a great talent!! Keep it up king!! A true fan rooting all the way! Vibe approved!! #🇿🇲🇺🇸🇺🇸fan!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @mwansachisanga1670
    @mwansachisanga1670 2 роки тому +3

    A beautiful song with a beautiful message 💕 I always tell my husband to cry 😢 if he feels defeated. Mwamula alila

  • @elizamzumara6833
    @elizamzumara6833 Рік тому +1

    First born daughter's we are men in a way , this song helps me alot

  • @jojokuria
    @jojokuria 2 роки тому +1

    Listening from + 254 Kenya! This is beautiful🖤

  • @johnlungu4899
    @johnlungu4899 2 роки тому +1

    For me I will say it again this song is one of the greatest song done by a Zambian artist if not the greatest song ever

  • @priscoviakabwe5947
    @priscoviakabwe5947 Рік тому +2

    Everytime i lisen to this song i always break down in tears😭😭 because even us first born daughters are told not to cry because have to take of your younger ones😰

  • @chriskabz8332
    @chriskabz8332 4 роки тому +8

    Abel this is Beautiful.. I will say it again Extremely Beautiful... Always looking forward to your great work.
    Your music brings alot peace to me. May God keep blessing you.

  • @sarahm.nampokolwe2959
    @sarahm.nampokolwe2959 6 місяців тому +1

    Almost 4 years later is when I'm getting to know about this song, through a work colleague. I don't have a son yet, but i do have a baby brother that has been in my arms since he was days old. I actively see all the societal norms that tell him to not cry when he falls or hurts himself, to not behave or feel a certain way because he's a boy. I don't even tolerate that whether from our mother or grandmother. I tell him, cry all want, scream if you want to. Talk about your feelings, your thoughts. Tell me everything, when you think there's no one to listen I'm here. Because at the end of the day we're all human, with thoughts and feelings regardless of gender. And there is power in embracing the things that make you weak. Because then no one will ever use them against you. Thank you for this masterpiece Abel Chungu❤

  • @mathewsmwale7929
    @mathewsmwale7929 4 роки тому +18

    Been there when I felt all hope is gone, at the time I wish I had an elder sister or brother to help me or just hug to say it's going to alright hang in there ... This song Abel you may not have an idea of what the impact it has had already. It's all God thank you for this great master class. Now it's testimony time

  • @choolwe_75
    @choolwe_75 4 роки тому +8

    You're making us feel the deepest heart's troubles.
    But anyway,siniza lila ndine mwamuna.
    Thank you for the best songs Abel ..much appreciated bruv.

  • @tamaraphiri4353
    @tamaraphiri4353 3 роки тому +2

    Am raising two sons, I shed tears at times to think the pressure that they will someday have as fathers and providers.

  • @BlakRedGrin
    @BlakRedGrin 2 роки тому +2

    Wow this man is a big thing Zambia, first time to listen to him but I can tell the man has talent 2:12-2:17 I see R Kelly 🇲🇼🤝🇿🇲

  • @olavijonas1110
    @olavijonas1110 8 місяців тому +1

    I hope you release an English version one day

  • @lasiwenjovu6232
    @lasiwenjovu6232 3 роки тому +6

    this song is underrated. it deserves way more than what it got. its explains reality.

  • @suwilanjimwendapole8901
    @suwilanjimwendapole8901 4 роки тому +7

    Funny thing is my siblings have been going through this for years suddenly I am only realizing now and it is too late. Thank you for the song Abel the words have hit a nail on MY head. Love it, Men are also emotional and we need to realize that and be more sensitive. 😍😍😍😍

  • @PaulLimbaniThaulo
    @PaulLimbaniThaulo 3 роки тому +11

    This song has touched me. It pains everytime when i want to relieve myself, they tell me Mamuna Samalira. (Men dont cry). Its time for Zambia and Malawi to use our common language for the good. Our market share is our teritory, lets make musik good and lets make our talents see no boundary betwen us.

  • @enossphiri5643
    @enossphiri5643 2 роки тому +1

    Always like this song as many times even my comments to remind me to listen to it... My world in this

  • @gracemugodi-xh5ug
    @gracemugodi-xh5ug Рік тому +1

    When my parents left me when I was young my brother took care of as all by himself, he went through alot think you bro I love u

  • @lewischingi4166
    @lewischingi4166 2 роки тому +2

    This song hits home. It's hard being a man, I realised that when dad passed on... broken but had to stand tall for mom and siblings and at the same time had to go and write exams 😔😔

  • @LacksonMwanzaJr
    @LacksonMwanzaJr 3 роки тому +8

    The first time I listened to this masterpiece, I cried like a toddler. After that I sent it to my siblings who happens to be females and my mother. I told them to talk to their partners coz it's rough for a male child out there, to give them an opportunity to cry if possible so that they let it out. @Able Chungu Musuku thanks a lot for this man, may God continue guiding and lighting your path coz we need you as men. God Bless

  • @monicachisela8581
    @monicachisela8581 Рік тому +5

    My 11 year old brother told me this song got him through mum's death ....this makes me questions why we feel why we should think men are strong when they also have to cry .. thanks for this song coz u mad me realize men have mental health to deal with also ...m

  • @Nabagerekka
    @Nabagerekka 3 роки тому +3

    This song brought me to tears so much...because I’ve seen what the whole men don’t cry mentality has done to the men around me....my grandmother died and I watched my father hold in so much pain coz he had to be strong for everyone coz he was the only man...so he had to be strong my aunties and my cousins and us his kids...and I could see him break inside...took him a long time to recover and it hurt more coz everyone kept on telling him his a man...he needs to be strong...society needs to have this conversation

  • @eunicemuyunda2645
    @eunicemuyunda2645 4 роки тому +8

    Abel Chungu Musuka, your music has that healing power..lifts my spirit

  • @BashiT2019
    @BashiT2019 3 роки тому +2

    Abel my big brother...am sorry for judging this song before I could listen to it...I was influenced by my fellow Zambians...Today as I was driving...it played on a radio station.. listened to it and discovered it's a good piece.. apparently it's not for average minds ... Continue with the good work...and almighty God bless you 🙏

  • @george6863
    @george6863 3 роки тому +1

    CTA has brought me here. Lots of love and appreciation from Kenya 🇰🇪. How about some English lyrics video bro Abel?

  • @Harold12660
    @Harold12660 3 роки тому +1

    A movie can do bro
    This message has to be spread out to the world men go through alot
    Organizations has to be formed for them also

  • @Davidkuchalo
    @Davidkuchalo Рік тому

    sir your song is on repeat since yesterday, in the current state plus any other things men go through your song speaks to all. thank you

  • @EmmanuelMwamba-k3b
    @EmmanuelMwamba-k3b 8 місяців тому

    This song will forever and ever be my power of strength to overcome any challenges,we played this song me and yiung brother lynos ray mwamba jnr when getting our beloved father from FSG morque to his final place at mutumbi😭😭😭

  • @gracenakasote7521
    @gracenakasote7521 3 роки тому +1

    Mwanuna samalila has a lot of men fighting depression in our society. This is a great song. To all the men out there its oky to cry.

  • @sibesokalaluka2991
    @sibesokalaluka2991 3 роки тому +1

    Thé sad reality is that today it’s not even family that’s demanding and repeating these words in men’s ears, but the people they are seeking to share their weaknesses with and find comfort, Spouse or girlfriend..
    « Mwamuna afunika ndalama ‘a man should have money’ »

  • @EWISGROUP
    @EWISGROUP 9 місяців тому +1

    This song never gets old for me.....and it keeps ministering to me

  • @nathanchibwe1165
    @nathanchibwe1165 4 роки тому +6

    My Favorite Zambian artist.
    Thank you for this lovely piece of art.

  • @chabuedwinahmwila2796
    @chabuedwinahmwila2796 2 роки тому +2

    I always tell my man that it's okay to cry when he feels emotionally defeated.🥺🥺

  • @brainlesstechie5490
    @brainlesstechie5490 4 роки тому +11

    i personal love this song, in an age where men's mental health is only becoming something people are aware about, this song does justice because men are human too an not just mechanical bread winners, i love my wife for sharing this with me.. i mean i may not actually cry but am glad she has an idea of what i go through.

  • @vestinemusanabera5327
    @vestinemusanabera5327 2 роки тому +2

    This song is so beautiful... because everyone's always talking about the challenges females face forgetting the challenges men face .

  • @georgebanda3213
    @georgebanda3213 Рік тому +1

    I'll stream this song until it reaches a million

  • @jaydee2896
    @jaydee2896 3 роки тому

    Bruh......its true......African men are not expected 2 cry.....for example....when my mom died ....everyone kept looking at my dad .....waiting 4 him to cry...but he didn't.....publicly anyway.....but....much love from ....Uganda....God bless u 4 yo voice....coz u be speaking facts...

  • @blessintinah2973
    @blessintinah2973 2 дні тому

    Love from Uganda your music speaks volumes may God bless you always ❤

  • @hellenkasabweharrington
    @hellenkasabweharrington 4 роки тому +4

    It's the "mwamuna alila" at the end that got to Me.Crying doesn't make u weak on the contrary I feel Humbled when a man can express his emotions to that extent before Me.Women n Society at large please change your perception as in regards to men's Emotions .Thank you Abel for this msg..Happy independence day Mother Zambia 🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲

  • @annanakanyika2602
    @annanakanyika2602 Рік тому

    Mwamuna samalila but honestly every bread winner feels they should be strong for everyone else
    It's not easy fighting to make things better for our families but I pray that God fulfils our hearts desires

  • @johnphirl5699
    @johnphirl5699 2 роки тому +1

    Sometimes things happening around us becames too deep for us not to cry.

  • @michaelphiri4234
    @michaelphiri4234 2 роки тому +1

    Lost mum at 9 years and dad at 14 years, it has never been easy, been through thick and thin. God has seen me through...

  • @kutembalyangenda4047
    @kutembalyangenda4047 2 роки тому

    To my husband and my 2 brothers (Elijah and Mwila) I will always be that shoulder you can cry on.

  • @ramshelbanda8980
    @ramshelbanda8980 Рік тому +1

    I don’t where my life stands but I always run on UA-cam to listen to this song and remain hope and also hold back tears cause this here comforts me

  • @Animazingtube
    @Animazingtube 4 роки тому +2

    i feel that the pain is out now,thanks #abel,growing up without my father.....it is really hard.

  • @mwangelwakabuku5168
    @mwangelwakabuku5168 4 роки тому +3

    Hush chibaba really strike the meaning of the silence that every man goes through when hurting listening to this song all the way from India... thanks

  • @collinsmatafwali614
    @collinsmatafwali614 3 роки тому +1

    Story of my life 😭😭
    Story of many 💔💔
    It hurts 😢😢

  • @mirriamkunda8613
    @mirriamkunda8613 3 роки тому +3

    When ever I listen to this song I always cry 😭it's crazy how society believes that man shouldn't cry but they are also human they feel pain which us women coz sometimes when you cry it's realief the mind🙌I think God understands the language of the tears we shade. thanks Abel for blessing us with this beautiful song God bless you more 🙏💓

  • @zaliyamanda2504
    @zaliyamanda2504 Рік тому

    We are all humans with emotions regardless of our gender we get hurt 😢 if it hurts whether male or female cry it out

  • @memorywakisagondwe1914
    @memorywakisagondwe1914 7 місяців тому +1

    Am proud of my DAD ❤️

  • @norahbanda5162
    @norahbanda5162 Рік тому +1

    My brother continue with this message of telling people that a man is suppose to cry in order to remove his pain. GOD BLESS YOU ABEL CHUNGU

  • @wombinho2010
    @wombinho2010 4 роки тому +8

    This is so beautifull exactly what i just needed to listen to so thank you Abel

  • @rodneykangwa7252
    @rodneykangwa7252 5 місяців тому

    This is actually the same as 'to be a man' by dax,but this is ours!!

  • @SDizoh
    @SDizoh 4 роки тому +14

    The phrase "MWAMUNA SAMALILA" has led a lot of men to commit suicide coz the society doesn't allow us to say what we are going via freely and we are scared to be told ati MWAMUNA SAMALILA
    It is high time we started showing gender equality and allow everyone to express themselves without undermining them/her/him
    Nice sensitization Abel Chungu, I wish you can also do it for the other gender also
    We need each other to stop Wife battering, RAPE etc