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The way the first woman handled the situation was very wise and respectable. She used positive reinforcement to deescalate things instead of speaking angrily to the guy who was harassing the father and daughter. She still would have been reasonable if she did react with frustration to that rude guy though
If both husband and wife is working, then it makes sense for the husband to do housework, but this experiment is weird since he isn't exactly a house husband as he is temporarily taking care of the kid.
Yeah it's pleasant feeling to live in a a place where everyone is like a family to you, no insecurities needed to be worried about :D. I do hope to live at a place like that too
It’s hard habit to get rid of living outside Japan! I always leave my bag on cafe table while I order at counter / going to toilet… realized thief can take my computer/ entire bag😂. 20 years later, I still have to refrain myself !!! “ this is not Japan”
Or maybe they are just afraid to tell the truth because they don't want others to feel offended by the truth. 😆 I think japanese people need to be more courageous and fight for truth and all that is right even if they could be wrongly accused of harshness.
I disagree. It’s communication style difference. I think we care each other deeply in Japan. We speak authentic truth gently, not afraid to be vulnerable. Loud voice, fighting is unnecessary if you can deflect the situation. I think Japanese way of communication is not just logic but also emotional = very effective wise communication 💜
He should be able to take that, men are like that, men don't change from country to country, that's why always respect your mother just like your father, because the mother is the emotional support, while the father gives you practical knowledge and shows you respect, that's why having 2 parents is so important
I am a househusband in Japan. For 15 years my wife was a housewife and I was the breadwinner. We lived in several countries in Europe. I am PhD. 2 MBAs, high paid but with demanding jobs. I got sick out of stress. We thought it was high time to either settle down in my country or in hers. We decided to come Japan, and swap roles. I would become a househusband for a while. My wife wanted to develop her career, and be close to her parents. I wanted to spend time with my daughter so that she could learn my language, I wanted to study Japanese to work as a professional. I like kids. In the past I was teacher in a Special Needs School. In my country, men normally cook, and I like cooking. Everyday after school, my daughter came with her friends and played at home. We cooked together cakes, muffins and I practiced a bit of Japanese. The problem came with my parents-in-law with their continuous meddling, strong views, and intense control upon our marriage and upon my 7 years daughter. They used everything at hand, such as health issues, or even Japanese culture to exert influence and control. They maneuvered to exclude me so that they could stay alone with my daughter. It reached a point I could not leave my house for fear my daughter would be manipulated. I could not confront them. Familiar law is highly unbalanced for foreigners, always gives custody to the Japanese spouse. The slightest reaction form my side could be use as a reason for divorce. So, there you have me, a full professional cornered at home. To make the story short, my wife decided that she would be better off withou me, and that her parents took my position. She presented a divorce. I presented recordings of my parents-in-law telling me to return to Europe to work, send them money and work as a man....but my wife is Japanese, and she will have custody of our daughter.....by the way, the family managed to manipulated my daughter. They taught her to say しね , きもい, that I should return to my country, that she does not like staying with me because I do not work....
What a horrible situation, I'm so sorry. The only positive I see is you got to spend some time with your daughter and that's priceless. I'm sure one day she will cherish those nice memories as well as be able to understand and truly appreciate why you wanted to stay home with her in the first place. Unfortunately, many families view men as financial providers and literally value men through that role and that role only. Once you stop working they lose their respect for you and in some cases they even lose their love for you. It sounds scary but that really does happen and it's horrifying. I was in a relatively similar situation so I know what I am talking about, and I also know exactly how you feel. Japan is a beautiful country but when it comes to gender roles, each individual's position in a family etc. they are probably one of the worst countries in the world and the main reason I could never live there long term. I'd choose Europe every day over Japan and Asia overall.
That's how it is for a man. There is nothing wrong with a stay at home dad. A job is important, but a child is way more important than a job. The problem is that while men can work their whole lives on a job, supporting their family. A woman can only do it temporarily, eventually she will think to leave you. We are wired differently. It is not bad to be a stay at home dad. But a wife will eventually leave you, that's the problem. It is beautiful for a dad to spend time with his kids, and it is good. But we know that as men, we will have to contribute financially. It is a sad reality. I hope you find peace, and I hope your daughter realizes that you were always a good father.
I remember my father teaching me and my brother how to use the washing machine, my uncle showed me how to use a mope properly and my other uncle showed me how to be responsible by taking care of my little cousin. I've never understood why do house work is exclusively made for women when we both gender need this things to be done to have a proper lifestyle, as much as I can understand, everyone needs clean clothes and live in a clean environment, that's not exclusive of one gender.
This was really good. I am a father and hearing the first woman’s experiences that her husband doesn’t do much household activities makes me really want to change Japan society. The problem still begins is that many people work very long hours in Japan. There are very few people that both spouses take care of their kids and usually it’s the mother. Because of long working hours, the mother tends to leave early from work in order to pick up kid(s) so she ends up having to handover work or feels bad she has to leave early, do the housework, cooking, help for homework, etc. It’s very tough physically and mentally for the Mom. The government keeps thinking about giving more money to families but it’s not about money. It’s about giving time and balance for families so both spouses can contribute and not being one sided. We have talented women and mothers out there and I really hope this can change one day. Your social experiments also prove many things in society and want to appreciate your content. Keep it up.
It is interesting that the one with a more progressive thinking is the older man. I think marriage and building a family is about facing problems and differences together and figuring our what works best and give more happiness for the family. If a family thinks it's okay to have the wife working and the husband taking care of the children and their house, why not. As long as it works for them, than it's not our business to say otherwise. Those saying that a husband has to protect the family, well, being with the children the dad can protect the family better, and I'm sure mom can protect herself. If you haven't know already read The Way of The Househusband, it can inspire you to think that doing household chores are serius businees 😁
I am a German and married to a Chinese. We both work very hard, but also we both do household and cooking. One day me, other day she. It depends on how busy each of us. But I would never put my ass down and demand from my wife do this or this. We are a family, we do all together. She cooks delicious Chinese food and I cook German / Europe food. For me is nothing wrong in that video, if the man takes care of child and household, it is considered a full-time job. Many people forget about that, many women work so hard, taking care of children and household.
Toda la razón, la familia se construye de a dos, ambos deben ayudarse como padre y madre, es triste que no suceda en muchas familias 😢 el segundo señor tiene toda la razón, un genio
I love your videos, both because of the important social experiments, but also because they are an excellent example of natural Japanese. I am a student of Japanese and I would love to be able to turn on Japanese subtitles during your videos so that I can read as well as listen to what is being said. Thank you for all your hard work bringing these videos to us.
Since the end of highschool I've mostly been living on my own throughout university, other studies or working; and I think it's important to make the time to properly learn how to take care of yourself and your living space, regardless of who you are. I think it'd be great if everyone could be able to take pride in their housemaking skills - and any life skills for that matter, rather than burdening someone else with the entire duty. I hope in the future more people can grow to better understand and respect the work that others in their lives do, whether it be working to support their family, or staying at home to take care of the household - and do their best to help out if they can
Agree that suprised me, because nowadays people automatically use the phone and take the video and post it social media and act that they care, but in reality they just taking advantage to the situation to gain popularity in social media. Acting like they are good human being.
The first lady just throwed a Javelin missile with the most beautiful eyes i ever seen in a long time. Tons of respect. And people, remember, as you are tired from doing your job, even your significant other is, keep always in mind that. It cost nothing to wash the dishes or do the laundry, heck, i think there's no best way to be repaid with a big smile from your partner
This is something America is going to have to learn, probably the hard way and not at all gracefully. The solid majority of college students are women nowadays, which means we are facing a future where women will frequently have more earning power than their husbands. If someone is needed at home to take care of kids, why would you make it the individual with the most earning power just to stoke the other parent’s ego?
The fact that one person can say something like that to another regardless of gender is bewildering to me, just mind blowing, so looking down, shaming demeaning someone who chooses to live differently is considered "good, manly or else" ??? So if a woman is stay at home mom she should be ashamed or it's ok for a woman since that's "her role anyway"😑.... society it truly rotten if this is how people think....I see this behaviour mostly from uninvolved parents and mostly men who think work akone wikl cut and it won't, it shows through their abandoned children who lack second parent's attention..... disgusting.....
It’s someone else’s family matter, but if someone shall speak out she should be shamed for being reliant on her husband. But have you seen the families where neither parent works and they sit on a large investment fund, where the dividends are more than a normal worker’s salary.
The way the first lady approached, I thought she was going to pull that kaishain’s scrot up over his head like a hoodie!!! She was having NONE of that crap (and I love it!)
It is not bad to be a stay at home dad, it is good. But a mother will not support the family financially indefinitely. They will only do it temporarily, eventually, they will leave you. That's the real problem.
If I have kids in the future, no matter boy or girl I will teach them all the house cores, martial arts. I will tell them that its true woman should be able to do all the house cores but so with man. because man should help woman with the house cores too. housecores are just like 24hours job so it will be easier if all the family member are taking part of the housecores responsibility. I will also tell them that man should protect woman, but woman should also be able to protect themself so both man and woman could protect their kids and family together in the future. We all should be able to do basics life skills regardless gender to make life easier.
As Asian I know and feel this thing. To me too, I also have the stigma of men should work and earn money, rather than the wife work and provide living for the house. BUT. As Muslim, I strongly believe in fate. that maybe He who not work or unemployed is just currently unemployed. Maybe he just had been fired. Or he don't have the opportunity to have job. Chances and fate is in hand of God. So Men, just try your best to be the leader of family. As long as we not lazing around and be good for nothing, it's okay.
I want to be a househusband It may sounds dumb or weird for you guys, but i've enough with society, i'm still young, not even reach 30y'old yet, but all the company/work that i used to was all the same. The senior/upper employee get jealous and start to slander, and do whatever they can to make me get fired just because i'm really good at my work. They looked you down when you hold back/not good, but they will hate you when you better than them. I'm tired of that kind of thing, so that's the reason why i'm jobless rn, still i feel like a failure, living on my parent's house but in the other side i can't stand to society anymore, it's pretty complicated and depressed😅
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This channel will bring you social experiments in Tokyo.
We look forward to hearing from you!
English subtitled playlist
ua-cam.com/video/r_s3AdhW_U8/v-deo.html
最初の女性「パパがいつも一緒にいてくれて嬉しいね？」、
2人目の男性「パパと遊んで楽しいね？」、
女の子の気持ちを引き出してくれて、ジーンときました。
役者さん、皆お上手！ パパ役の方、優しくて一言一言に感情が乗ってる！
時代の流れもあるけど、専業主夫、大変だよ、会社で、仕事してればといいますが、今は、女性が、外で、男性が、家事して、家族を守る人多いですよ、貴方も、奥さまを手伝いなさい。わかるから、主婦の気持ち、やってみてくださいね。
The way the first woman handled the situation was very wise and respectable. She used positive reinforcement to deescalate things instead of speaking angrily to the guy who was harassing the father and daughter. She still would have been reasonable if she did react with frustration to that rude guy though
She indirectly stabbed the suits guy with her words😂 i love it.
If both husband and wife is working, then it makes sense for the husband to do housework, but this experiment is weird since he isn't exactly a house husband as he is temporarily taking care of the kid.
I think he's playing the role of someone who usually does the housework and childcare. Taking her out to play is part of that.@@traveler8010
皆怒るんじゃなくて、
良いパパだねーと褒めて、
暗に伝えてて
（パパにはこれは良い行いだよ、悪者演者にはそんなこと言っちゃダメだよ）とても素晴らしい伝え方ができる方ばかりで心温まりました❤👏ありがとうございます😊
若い人だけでなく、価値観違う時代を生きてきた先人が温かい言葉かけるのも胸熱です❤
精神疾患を患っているため中々決まった仕事に着けず専業主婦をしながら病気とたたかっている者です。こちらのチャンネルに偶然いきつき様々なタイトルの動画を拝見しましたが、こんな素敵なお姉さんとひいてはその時代を生きてこられたおじいさまがいいじゃないそういうのも😊と当たり前のように話してくださってることにとても感銘を受けました😢こんなご年配の方々、柔軟に時代を生きて下さる先輩たちが増えることを心から願います😊
2人目のおじいちゃん画面越しに温かさが伝わってくる😢
最初のお姉さんかっこよすぎる。憧れます
専業主夫って素敵って言った女の人、男を建てられる良い女過ぎて素晴らしい✨
最初のお姉様かっこええ...すき
Imagine you live somewhere and you feel so safe to leave your belongings on a bench, even your phone and walk 20 meters away from it.
Yeah it's pleasant feeling to live in a a place where everyone is like a family to you, no insecurities needed to be worried about :D. I do hope to live at a place like that too
You can literally drop your wallet somewhere and come pick it up at the local police station later.
In other places you get stabbed for 50usd
@@davidmdertu1267 bro I've seen niggas get shot for a pair of sneakers lol
It’s hard habit to get rid of living outside Japan! I always leave my bag on cafe table while I order at counter / going to toilet… realized thief can take my computer/ entire bag😂. 20 years later, I still have to refrain myself !!! “ this is not Japan”
@@lehua16 At some places you can even be in trouble to leave your bag unattended because people will worry there can be a bomb inside.
自分はそもそも子供の前で親を馬鹿にする奴が許せん。
バカにしているという事は家事とか一切しないという、つまり「家事苦手」という証拠。
夫婦で協力して家庭がまわっているならどんな生活方法だろうがぶっちゃけ良いじゃん。
夫婦でちゃんと話し合っての結果なんだから他人がいちいち口出しする事じゃない。
専業主婦のパパを最初に褒めるの素晴らしい‼️
なんか心が温かくなった。私はみんなに優しくしたいと思う。そして、みんなが誰にでも優しくすれば、回り回って、全世界の人が幸せになる。つまり、自分自身も幸せになる。
私は男性、仕事をしている＝稼いでいるとあぐらをかいていました。この投稿を見て恥ずかしく思いました。家事や育児も立派なお仕事ですね。妻に感謝感謝です。
女性もおじさまも素敵😭✨
ほんまに人それぞれやからな
価値観も違うしね
なんか
わからんけど
涙が……1人目の女性良い人すぎる…
明るくてかっこいいですよね🥹
その家族がその形で上手く回ってりゃなんでもいいんだよ。
他人が口を出す領域では無い
Fyy😊😊😊😊😊😊
L
いろんな生き方があってもいいけど、自分と違う生き方や考え方を否定するのはおかしい、ましてや自分の考えを押し付けるのは違うと思う。
いろんな家族があっていい、他人がとかやかく言う必要ないと思う。
勇気ある２人の方に👏拍手
最初の女性も、手放しでお父さん褒めてて素敵だし！おじさまも自分が生きた時代と今の時代は違うと理解してて柔軟なお考えで素敵✨
I'm shocked at how respectful the Japanese are
Or maybe they are just afraid to tell the truth because they don't want others to feel offended by the truth. 😆 I think japanese people need to be more courageous and fight for truth and all that is right even if they could be wrongly accused of harshness.
I disagree. It’s communication style difference. I think we care each other deeply in Japan. We speak authentic truth gently, not afraid to be vulnerable. Loud voice, fighting is unnecessary if you can deflect the situation. I think Japanese way of communication is not just logic but also emotional = very effective wise communication 💜
@@kmnx3that is the dumbest comment i have read in so long. go get an education, bum.
私は生粋の日本人女性です。年齢は20代。もちろん両親は日本人。
母親がバリバリに働いていて、母より20歳も年上の父が仕事の時間を調節して私のご飯や家事をしてくれていました。
日本人男性は料理上手ですし、優しいですよ。私なんかよりずっと料理も家事も出来ます。
勝手に日本人男性についてのイメージを語って怒ってるコメントがあるけど、基本ナチュラルに見下してるよね。
Her husband watching this : 👁️👄👁️
"damn bruh u didn't have to do me like that 😐"
@@Pencylyou are so so cute 😩😭❤️
@@Realn_sayo what..
Wtf😭😭😭
He should be able to take that, men are like that, men don't change from country to country, that's why always respect your mother just like your father, because the mother is the emotional support, while the father gives you practical knowledge and shows you respect, that's why having 2 parents is so important
I am a househusband in Japan. For 15 years my wife was a housewife and I was the breadwinner. We lived in several countries in Europe. I am PhD. 2 MBAs, high paid but with demanding jobs. I got sick out of stress. We thought it was high time to either settle down in my country or in hers. We decided to come Japan, and swap roles. I would become a househusband for a while. My wife wanted to develop her career, and be close to her parents. I wanted to spend time with my daughter so that she could learn my language, I wanted to study Japanese to work as a professional. I like kids. In the past I was teacher in a Special Needs School. In my country, men normally cook, and I like cooking. Everyday after school, my daughter came with her friends and played at home. We cooked together cakes, muffins and I practiced a bit of Japanese.
The problem came with my parents-in-law with their continuous meddling, strong views, and intense control upon our marriage and upon my 7 years daughter. They used everything at hand, such as health issues, or even Japanese culture to exert influence and control. They maneuvered to exclude me so that they could stay alone with my daughter. It reached a point I could not leave my house for fear my daughter would be manipulated. I could not confront them. Familiar law is highly unbalanced for foreigners, always gives custody to the Japanese spouse. The slightest reaction form my side could be use as a reason for divorce. So, there you have me, a full professional cornered at home. To make the story short, my wife decided that she would be better off withou me, and that her parents took my position. She presented a divorce. I presented recordings of my parents-in-law telling me to return to Europe to work, send them money and work as a man....but my wife is Japanese, and she will have custody of our daughter.....by the way, the family managed to manipulated my daughter. They taught her to say しね , きもい, that I should return to my country, that she does not like staying with me because I do not work....
What a horrible situation, I'm so sorry. The only positive I see is you got to spend some time with your daughter and that's priceless. I'm sure one day she will cherish those nice memories as well as be able to understand and truly appreciate why you wanted to stay home with her in the first place. Unfortunately, many families view men as financial providers and literally value men through that role and that role only. Once you stop working they lose their respect for you and in some cases they even lose their love for you. It sounds scary but that really does happen and it's horrifying. I was in a relatively similar situation so I know what I am talking about, and I also know exactly how you feel. Japan is a beautiful country but when it comes to gender roles, each individual's position in a family etc. they are probably one of the worst countries in the world and the main reason I could never live there long term. I'd choose Europe every day over Japan and Asia overall.
That's how it is for a man. There is nothing wrong with a stay at home dad. A job is important, but a child is way more important than a job.
The problem is that while men can work their whole lives on a job, supporting their family. A woman can only do it temporarily, eventually she will think to leave you.
We are wired differently. It is not bad to be a stay at home dad. But a wife will eventually leave you, that's the problem.
It is beautiful for a dad to spend time with his kids, and it is good. But we know that as men, we will have to contribute financially. It is a sad reality.
I hope you find peace, and I hope your daughter realizes that you were always a good father.
holy
これらのビデオはもっと注目されるべきです
I remember my father teaching me and my brother how to use the washing machine, my uncle showed me how to use a mope properly and my other uncle showed me how to be responsible by taking care of my little cousin.
I've never understood why do house work is exclusively made for women when we both gender need this things to be done to have a proper lifestyle, as much as I can understand, everyone needs clean clothes and live in a clean environment, that's not exclusive of one gender.
心が洗われました。
とても暖かい気持ちになりました。
It is saddening if anything that a man doing household chores is considered "wonderful" instead of normal, hopefully that will change over time.
What’s wrong with doing housework being wonderful? Normally the kids do it.
Though I think robots should do the chores instead
Nothing wrong with “wonderful”. You’re over thinking it.
The man is being looked down upon, it’s understandable that she’d say something along that line to first cheer him up.
This was really good. I am a father and hearing the first woman’s experiences that her husband doesn’t do much household activities makes me really want to change Japan society. The problem still begins is that many people work very long hours in Japan. There are very few people that both spouses take care of their kids and usually it’s the mother. Because of long working hours, the mother tends to leave early from work in order to pick up kid(s) so she ends up having to handover work or feels bad she has to leave early, do the housework, cooking, help for homework, etc. It’s very tough physically and mentally for the Mom. The government keeps thinking about giving more money to families but it’s not about money. It’s about giving time and balance for families so both spouses can contribute and not being one sided. We have talented women and mothers out there and I really hope this can change one day.
Your social experiments also prove many things in society and want to appreciate your content. Keep it up.
おっちゃんめっちゃ味あるなw
理解のあるお父さんがいて、良かった。今の時代は、女だから男だからではなく協力し合う時代ですね。一番は家庭が上手くいって楽しく暮らせるのが、一番ですね🍀
家事育児しない男性と、家事育児する男性、どちらが素敵な旦那で素晴らしい父親なのか…わかんないやついないよな！？
自分で選んだ状況でもないのに、それを揶揄うのは非常に悪いことだと思う
It is interesting that the one with a more progressive thinking is the older man. I think marriage and building a family is about facing problems and differences together and figuring our what works best and give more happiness for the family. If a family thinks it's okay to have the wife working and the husband taking care of the children and their house, why not. As long as it works for them, than it's not our business to say otherwise. Those saying that a husband has to protect the family, well, being with the children the dad can protect the family better, and I'm sure mom can protect herself.
If you haven't know already read The Way of The Househusband, it can inspire you to think that doing household chores are serius businees 😁
You Are aware that they younger one was an actor...aren't you??
I am a German and married to a Chinese. We both work very hard, but also we both do household and cooking. One day me, other day she. It depends on how busy each of us. But I would never put my ass down and demand from my wife do this or this. We are a family, we do all together. She cooks delicious Chinese food and I cook German / Europe food. For me is nothing wrong in that video, if the man takes care of child and household, it is considered a full-time job. Many people forget about that, many women work so hard, taking care of children and household.
I know Germans generally love bread so I MUST ask: Do you bake bread at home?
No offense, just curious
Toda la razón, la familia se construye de a dos, ambos deben ayudarse como padre y madre, es triste que no suceda en muchas familias 😢 el segundo señor tiene toda la razón, un genio
Man never knew Japanese can be that level humble glad to see there is still good people on earth
I am an English teacher for Japanese students. I've witnessed how respectful they are ❤️
専業主婦も立派な仕事です専業主婦を侮辱発言するなんて酷いなと思います
I love your videos, both because of the important social experiments, but also because they are an excellent example of natural Japanese. I am a student of Japanese and I would love to be able to turn on Japanese subtitles during your videos so that I can read as well as listen to what is being said. Thank you for all your hard work bringing these videos to us.
I like the interviews! Good questions and answers💕thank you for the English subtitles
Since the end of highschool I've mostly been living on my own throughout university, other studies or working; and I think it's important to make the time to properly learn how to take care of yourself and your living space, regardless of who you are. I think it'd be great if everyone could be able to take pride in their housemaking skills - and any life skills for that matter, rather than burdening someone else with the entire duty. I hope in the future more people can grow to better understand and respect the work that others in their lives do, whether it be working to support their family, or staying at home to take care of the household - and do their best to help out if they can
最初の女性、カッコ良すぎる
子供のことを考えて、その場を荒げずに済ませるの本当にすごい
The first woman left her iphone & handbag just to defend the guy with her daughter! ❤
Agree that suprised me, because nowadays people automatically use the phone and take the video and post it social media and act that they care, but in reality they just taking advantage to the situation to gain popularity in social media. Acting like they are good human being.
Japan is a nice country. If you left your wallet in a train, it should go back to you.
最初の女の人、妙に愛くるしいですね
海外をターゲットにバズるのを祈っております
男女関係なく、誰かが頑張ってるのに自分は動かないってのは、手が空いたり時間ができたりするタイミングで次々仕事を探せない無能なんだと思うわ。多分そういう人間は、職場でも同じ事してる。誰かから指示されるまで動かない、指示されても動かない。
家でも職場でも、気づいて次々動いちゃう有能な人間が余計に疲れて損するんだよ。
夫婦間で決めた事を第三者があーだこーだ言うのが間違ってるからな
夫婦間で納得してるわけだからね
I'm proud of my country
2人目のおじさん、いい男や。
Очень милое видео ❤
Great video, please do more 😄
Hello from 🇵🇭
In my country,If I leave my belongings just like in this video and they will disappeared magically.
This should be normal, that there are dads that stay at home!
The first lady just throwed a Javelin missile with the most beautiful eyes i ever seen in a long time. Tons of respect.
And people, remember, as you are tired from doing your job, even your significant other is, keep always in mind that.
It cost nothing to wash the dishes or do the laundry, heck, i think there's no best way to be repaid with a big smile from your partner
Actually washing machine, dishwasher and dryer means you don’t really need to do any of them, you just throw it into the machine
@@1mol831 It may be your life and not the life of the general public. You can see how shallow you are when you use your values as others.
これは狂気的な怖さを感じる
This is something America is going to have to learn, probably the hard way and not at all gracefully. The solid majority of college students are women nowadays, which means we are facing a future where women will frequently have more earning power than their husbands. If someone is needed at home to take care of kids, why would you make it the individual with the most earning power just to stoke the other parent’s ego?
The fact that one person can say something like that to another regardless of gender is bewildering to me, just mind blowing, so looking down, shaming demeaning someone who chooses to live differently is considered "good, manly or else" ??? So if a woman is stay at home mom she should be ashamed or it's ok for a woman since that's "her role anyway"😑.... society it truly rotten if this is how people think....I see this behaviour mostly from uninvolved parents and mostly men who think work akone wikl cut and it won't, it shows through their abandoned children who lack second parent's attention..... disgusting.....
It’s someone else’s family matter, but if someone shall speak out she should be shamed for being reliant on her husband.
But have you seen the families where neither parent works and they sit on a large investment fund, where the dividends are more than a normal worker’s salary.
私たちにとって、父親が家にいるという状況は存在し、彼は仕事をしながら家事をし、子供の世話をする。違いは、子供の世話をするために彼の労働時間を調整できるということである。私たちが持っていることを考えると、彼はフランスの文化の一部である。あなたの国のように社会規範のない自由な国
職場のPC前に一人拍手をしてしまいます👏
場違いのコメになると思うけど、この女性トータルテンボスのUA-cam出てたsakuranabeでは…？
ですよね
私も思いました
@@来週から雨が続くね 疑ってはいけないが、やらせなのかなーと思ってしまう。全員がそうではないだろうが声かけない人の方が最近は多い気がしますね。
The way the first lady approached, I thought she was going to pull that kaishain’s scrot up over his head like a hoodie!!! She was having NONE of that crap (and I love it!)
It is not bad to be a stay at home dad, it is good.
But a mother will not support the family financially indefinitely. They will only do it temporarily, eventually, they will leave you. That's the real problem.
Какая смелая девушка! Умничка❤ я тронута 😭
My Lil Brother do housework as much as i do. My parents education there IS no gender. When you Can help you MUST do it.
In fact my father cook better than my mother but 🤫 it's a secret
But i Cook better than my Brother 😌 that's a matter of fact
In our house too everyone does he's or her own laundry. Since i was 16... I wash my own cloths so as my Brother And father
Here also in Philippines they are also called a single dad. ♥️
If I have kids in the future, no matter boy or girl I will teach them all the house cores, martial arts. I will tell them that its true woman should be able to do all the house cores but so with man. because man should help woman with the house cores too. housecores are just like 24hours job so it will be easier if all the family member are taking part of the housecores responsibility. I will also tell them that man should protect woman, but woman should also be able to protect themself so both man and woman could protect their kids and family together in the future.
We all should be able to do basics life skills regardless gender to make life easier.
主夫をする家庭があってもいいんじゃない？夫婦が納得しているなら
他人が口を挟む事じゃない。
As Asian I know and feel this thing. To me too, I also have the stigma of men should work and earn money, rather than the wife work and provide living for the house.
BUT. As Muslim, I strongly believe in fate. that maybe He who not work or unemployed is just currently unemployed. Maybe he just had been fired. Or he don't have the opportunity to have job. Chances and fate is in hand of God. So Men, just try your best to be the leader of family. As long as we not lazing around and be good for nothing, it's okay.
This is why I was in favor of Andrew Yang's universal basic income. I think house parents should be paid for their role in society.
Both parent should help eachother to raise their children and do the household
心ﮩ٨ـﮩﮩ٨ـも身体も綺麗な方に守られると、何か何だか自然𖡼.𖤣𖥧𖡼.𖤣𖥧と元気とパワーを、貰える気がしちゃうよね👊
( ¨̮💪)❣️
主婦業ってお金に換算すると35万位
だそうです。
パパ「いやぁ、嫁さんの年収1億ぐらいあるんですよね〜」
I want to be a househusband
It may sounds dumb or weird for you guys, but i've enough with society, i'm still young, not even reach 30y'old yet, but all the company/work that i used to was all the same.
The senior/upper employee get jealous and start to slander, and do whatever they can to make me get fired just because i'm really good at my work.
They looked you down when you hold back/not good, but they will hate you when you better than them. I'm tired of that kind of thing, so that's the reason why i'm jobless rn, still i feel like a failure, living on my parent's house but in the other side i can't stand to society anymore, it's pretty complicated and depressed😅
Someone's gotta put in that kinda work
仕事と子育て
どっちも大変
座ってるお前は何してんだｗｗｗｗｗ
専業主夫になれるような奥さんが凄い。奥さんを褒めたい。
男は外、女は家の方が理想的ではあるが。
そんなこと言われたらぶちきれるよ俺は😂
domestic labour is labour!!
❤❤
第三者がよそ様の家庭に口出しするのは良くないんよ
家庭を持ちたいけど、仕事にも専念したい、だから主夫してくれる男性と結婚したいと思いましたが、時代が時代(45年前)だけに叶わず結局､家庭は持てず仕事一筋、今(70才)に至ります。
株で資産形成してFIREしたんですよ、もう遊んで暮らせるんですよ、あなたは未だに働いてんの！て言ってやったらどうでしょうね。😂
Most Americans that would watch this would strongly disagree with the first one.
こればかりはね。
色んな意見あるだろうけど、結婚とか無縁の私には申し訳ないけど
お互いが仕事を言い訳にしてめんどくさい事を擦り付け合ってるようにしか見えない。
お互いでやればいいじゃんって思うけど。
やれ旦那さんが仕事で、やれ奥さんが仕事でって。
互いで楽しようとするからダメなのでは？
まぁ結婚しないと決めた私にはどっちでもいい話ですが。
仕事も家事も同じくらい大変だよ
❤️🇯🇵🎌👍✌️
You should not interfere with others because it is not your business...... Thank you for the Arabic translation. ❤️❤️
I mean, if the woman and the grandpa wouldn't interfere it would be sad, right?
男子女の子同じだよ
このサラリーマン役の人の名前分かる方いますか？
Oooo
Kayaknya gw pernah liat dah
:)