*UNEDITED* DAY IN MY LIFE WITH A NEWBORN ps lots of crying| VLOGMAS

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  • @MarissaLace
    @MarissaLace  2 роки тому +15

    Happy vlogmas my sweet sweet friends! Let’s talk formula, rough baby days, and just a real af vlog🥲👏🏼👼🏼

  • @DakotahKeefe
    @DakotahKeefe 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you so much for posting a hard day with a newborn. My son is 6 weeks and he’s in his first leap and were struggling, it was so nice to see that it’s not always rainbows and sunshines like a lot of influencers post. It made me feel really good that I’m not failing as a mom, babe just having a hard day. 💕😭

  • @jakelinesalazar4600
    @jakelinesalazar4600 Рік тому +8

    Thank you for keeping it real. I see other videos where babies don't cry at all! This was very helpful!

  • @GloriaOGrace
    @GloriaOGrace 2 роки тому +35

    I absolutely love the "I'm not asking" and the I'm just letting you know what I do from my mommy journey to yours lol I agree! Do it your way because no one has ur baby but you.

  • @denimae9998
    @denimae9998 2 роки тому +9

    Hahaha I loved your “shit” after telling lilah its okayyy when she’s crying 🤣😂 always keeping it real. Love you

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому +3

      Def thought I’d habe like 5-7 mins to make a baba 🤣

  • @ambermoore7200
    @ambermoore7200 2 роки тому +14

    I’m due in less than 60 days and watching this brought me so much relief! Thank you for showing the raw and real side of motherhood. You have no idea how helpful videos like this are to first time mamas like me! ❤️

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому +1

      You got this mama! Don’t forget those tips i mentioned! You got this🌹🌹🌹

  • @caridavenport2421
    @caridavenport2421 2 роки тому +11

    The way you talk to Lilah is so calming to me 😂good vibes all day lady, beautiful job ❤️

  • @camilleschryve9649
    @camilleschryve9649 2 роки тому +4

    I had my baby just a couple of days after you had yours and I have been following you ever since! I'm so happy you posted this because my baby cries a lot (and has been like that since birth) and when I was watching your videos, I was always wondering if something was wrong with my baby or if you somehow got ''lucky''. I love my baby even when she cries but man it is SO challenging when you can't figure out what's wrong! This video is veryyy relatable!!!

  • @brieanamorneau9473
    @brieanamorneau9473 2 роки тому +3

    I have a 3 month old and we use a powdered formula. I would recommend the dr brown pitcher from Amazon! You can pre mix the formula and let it sit in the fridge for a few hours so the bubbles go away! Just pour into the bottle, warm it up (don’t shake) and your set! The process has worked so well for us!

  • @OwnBestFriend
    @OwnBestFriend 2 роки тому +3

    Never ever stop talking to her like that!! She will have such a strong vocabulary when she so my 3 I promise you that one! Much love momma!!

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому

      Oh yes we talk allllll day 🤣🙌🏻

    • @OwnBestFriend
      @OwnBestFriend 2 роки тому

      @@MarissaLace people used to make fun of me saying my kids couldn’t understand me, but boy do they learn fast! How are you! Momma guilt is the worst thing ever, I’m sure you get plenty of advice but if I could give you anything else it would be to never stop being gentle with her AND yourself as a mother. She’ll get older and grow a cute 😅 little attitude they say you get what you gave and I talked so much and my oldest is a complete chatter box. Im like.. girlll I love you but I can’t even hear my own thoughts sometime lol but anyway I wish I didn’t let myself get angry and maybe that is just super normal as a human and mother but if you could stay soft that would be my advice and I mean for you to stay soft with yourself as well ♥️ much love as always! Happy holidays!!

  • @brandir.9830
    @brandir.9830 2 роки тому +2

    Love your videos and how you are always so positive!! Fellow first time mom here with a 12 week old and I really appreciate this real AF look at mom life!

  • @kariolsen791
    @kariolsen791 2 роки тому +2

    Lilah is just a doll! I love her little bear pjs! Thank you for sharing the realness. Sometimes it’s hard to remind ourselves that all we see in the socials are other peoples highlight reels and that our lives are all the same and normal (And beautiful!)

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому

      Hahaha no highlight reel here baby! Omg yes it’s from target and so soft!

  • @michaelascofero376
    @michaelascofero376 2 роки тому +3

    you two are gonna be besties forever 🥺 happy for you mama!! you’re doing great, not pregnant yet but I loveeee your baby content

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому +1

      Awww thank you!!!! You’re going to crush it one day as a mama

  • @samlpendleton
    @samlpendleton 2 роки тому +4

    I can’t thank you enough for this. I have a 4 week old and thought she was colic because she would cry and I never see anyone else’s newborn cry that much but just turns out like you said she’s a newborn! Also I just learned to burp my baby when she would fight to latch I had no idea!

  • @katieallen5164
    @katieallen5164 2 роки тому +4

    I love you so much, you’re literally the realist & sweetest person ever. So thankful TikTok brought you to me 💗💗💗

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому

      Thank you my sweet sweet friend

  • @Cancer-2016
    @Cancer-2016 2 роки тому +2

    Mama your doing great. Do whatever works for you and your baby . My daughter for the first couple of months lived at n her Boppy pillow and her rocking chair

  • @kaylakipley6281
    @kaylakipley6281 2 роки тому +2

    Us mama's HAVE to take them naps where we can get them. Sometimes my sweet girl just can't relax unless it's in her bouncer. I watch her and make sure her airways are clear. My 14 week old daughter also LOVES her SnuggleMe. The mom mafia is something else. I'm convinced they don't actually have children they are responsible for. I just went back to work and these vlogs keep me sane, especially while I pump.

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому

      Omg i love you because i had pumping shows or channels I’d watch! You have to it makes it go by so fast and you look forward to it 🤣

  • @lindsayann9856
    @lindsayann9856 2 роки тому +3

    My kids wouldn’t nap for me in anything but the swing 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ they eventually started napping in the crib. Mommin’ can be tough!!! You just do what’s best for you and your baby👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому

      She had a swing phase also!!!! Do what we gotta do with bb! She would only sleep in the snuggle me one of the first nights and i let her and simply stayed awake 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @natashalynn5
    @natashalynn5 2 роки тому +1

    I’m due in 3 weeks, I found your tiktok at my halfway point and have been following you ever since! I love your vlogs, I love your vibe! 🤍

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому

      Ahhh so close you got this queen! I love you!!!! Blessings to a smooth and present delivery!!!!

  • @karasanderson8910
    @karasanderson8910 2 роки тому +1

    We got a formula pitcher online, and we just make a big pitcher of formula each morning! Then the bubbles settle by the time we need to feed our little guy!

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому

      If we switch to powder we def will get one!

  • @Lashesanyone
    @Lashesanyone 2 роки тому +2

    Can we appreciate that Marissa is still showing up producing content for Vlogmas during the busiest season with a new baby girl? A true queen.
    Sidebar: I love that you still make space to do your daily 5 even while being a new momma. So many of my girlfriends tell me they get lost and lose themselves once they’re married and had babies. You are proof it can all fit. So admirable. 💞♥️Love, Ash

  • @Lovelyladiix2
    @Lovelyladiix2 2 роки тому

    to get less bubbles with the powder formula use a little spoon to stir!! game changer!!! also the crying and bottle making process is so stressful hahaha

  • @elliesilva1907
    @elliesilva1907 2 роки тому

    You are such a fabulous mom I see how much you love her ❤️❤️❤️ great job mama

  • @jaimebh30
    @jaimebh30 2 роки тому

    You and your partner are doing great! A fed and happy baby and family are best. I remember hard days with a newborn are rough. My girl cried all day one day at 2 months. I think she probably needed more food. It was tough being a solo parent for three weeks. A trick I learned with my formula fed girl was make a big batch for the day in an easy to pour water bottle. It saved valuable time not needing to measure water or scoops. I loved the Contiago flip top 32 oz. bottle. I hope you and your family have a great day!

  • @summerszen2234
    @summerszen2234 2 роки тому +1

    Similac Alimentum saved my baby girl from her pain in her belly!!!! SWEAR BY IT! sending prayers 💜

  • @MaddieDonaldsonn
    @MaddieDonaldsonn 2 роки тому +1

    Totally pulling this out of my first time mom butt, but- I wonder if it is okay to do half liquid similac, and then add half prepared Bobbie formula to her bottle to ease her into it

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому

      Feel like I’ve read you can? When transitioning!

  • @OwnBestFriend
    @OwnBestFriend 2 роки тому

    Her little toes at 6:00 oh my goodness so happy for you! Nights are long but the years are short ♥️♥️♥️

  • @AmandaLewis
    @AmandaLewis 2 роки тому

    Powerful Mother moments love to see it!!!! 💖

  • @mommyof3tx
    @mommyof3tx 2 роки тому +1

    We import Kendamil Organic formula for our girl. She does SO well on it, it's from the UK. They have higher standards so it's much cleaner....similar to Bobbie but even better, IMO. We are still doing breastmilk and formula and she goes back and forth with no issues. Might be something to try if you're looking for something cleaner like Bobbie, but she doesn't like Bobbie? Hipp from the UK and Holle are also highly recommended brands

  • @korileighmay6271
    @korileighmay6271 2 роки тому +1

    I have a 4 month old son and this looks just like my day lol he will also only drink ready to feed formula he shivers in disgust at powder. My supply tanked when I got my lovely period 6 weeks after having him 😒

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому

      Yes yes it’s just easier on lilahs tummy so I’m team liquid at the moment 🤣

  • @courtneydanielleyt
    @courtneydanielleyt 2 роки тому +2

    You say “meowk” exactly the same way I say it to my son! 😆😆

  • @Lanaslife247
    @Lanaslife247 2 роки тому +3

    Oh my god marissa !! Lila is absolutely stunning !!!! 🤩🤩🤩🤩

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому

      Thank you angel! She’s so grumpy in this video and it’s so cute 🤣🥲

  • @evelyngomez4968
    @evelyngomez4968 2 роки тому

    Love you always keep it real !!! Thank you from a struggling first time mommy over here ! My daughter is currently 6wks and OMG 😳 so hard !

  • @mirroronthewall6995
    @mirroronthewall6995 2 роки тому

    Ughh my baby is turning 2 in 6 months now and she used to LOOOOVE pro sensitive from Similac and oh wow how time really does fly 🥺❤️ the liquid version saved me so much time ESPECIALLY those late nights/early mornings when I was half awake it’s so easy!

  • @nikkip.2343
    @nikkip.2343 2 роки тому

    DR. Browns bottles. They vent out air so less gas . They're awesome. More pieces to clean but idec.

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому

      Such great bottles! Lilah unfortunately said.. meh no

  • @jacquebodley4088
    @jacquebodley4088 2 роки тому +1

    I use Tommee Tippee bottle for my little one, and I love them!! There are anti colic bottles that don’t have the insert tube and there are so many different nipple flows, they are also modeled after breasts!!

  • @SincerelyChristina
    @SincerelyChristina 2 роки тому

    Wow I love the transparency. I am new to vlogging and know how hard it is.

  • @zxcvbnmjhify
    @zxcvbnmjhify 2 роки тому

    Finding the right formula is so hard, my babygirl loves the ready to feed also. I pump & literally only get like 5ml so I give that to her every time because something is better than nothing

  • @TheOnlyAngie23
    @TheOnlyAngie23 2 роки тому

    You go Marissa! I also feed my baby the similac pro sensitive. She was on the liquid her first month. We transitioned her to the powder one by alternating one liquid bottle then powder through the day, it helped so much. Now she is only on the powder. It’s saved me coinsss lol

  • @SuperCandyjunkie
    @SuperCandyjunkie 2 роки тому +1

    Love the blue comfy pants, are they from Target? You are a wonderful mother and your baby is beautiful!

  • @kylah.3061
    @kylah.3061 2 роки тому

    Been watching you for yeeeearss. Love you as a momma ❤

  • @leesadoe2440
    @leesadoe2440 Рік тому

    how much rent to live in a house like that? where is that? Im in Ca and we rarely even get
    rain.

  • @LatashaP
    @LatashaP Рік тому

    We’re did you get the gas drops and did they help any for her

  • @crazymumlife8735
    @crazymumlife8735 2 роки тому +1

    Just letting you know your meant to feed babies pre boiled water not tap water

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому +1

      Not true 🤣🤣🤣

    • @crazymumlife8735
      @crazymumlife8735 2 роки тому

      It is true 🤔

    • @irishlass777
      @irishlass777 2 роки тому

      You shouldn’t use well water from a tap. Fluoridated tap water is fine if it’s cold. Hot tap water is not good as it can carry junk from the pipes with the water

  • @catsutyono5469
    @catsutyono5469 2 роки тому +1

    At first I was like, how is this baby crying while taking a bottle, and then I realized it was my baby that was crying. My baby was born October 8th! He likes to stand up too lol
    Also what robe are you wearing, it looks so comfortable!

  • @ecurrey6700
    @ecurrey6700 2 роки тому +3

    Did u stop breastfeeding? just wondering

    • @kariolsen791
      @kariolsen791 2 роки тому +2

      Why do you feel the need to ask?

  • @courtneydanielleyt
    @courtneydanielleyt 2 роки тому

    Okay I found you on TikTok about a month ago but I had no idea you had UA-cam! 🙌🏼

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому

      Awwww yay so happy you found it!

  • @DioraLove
    @DioraLove 2 роки тому +1

    Hi ! Following and watching from Belgium. Thank you for all the tips and love your videos. 💋

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому +1

      omg belgium how cool!

    • @DioraLove
      @DioraLove 2 роки тому

      Our babies are one week apart haha

  • @SherryBaby2003
    @SherryBaby2003 9 місяців тому

    She is not making eye contact - I hope she’s ok

  • @TS-hz4me
    @TS-hz4me 2 роки тому +1

    My 5 week old strictly naps on me 😂 but she naps like a freaking champ and I get to watch a lot of UA-cam so I’m cool with it lmao

    • @MarissaLace
      @MarissaLace  2 роки тому

      Awww so sweet! Yes! Lilah loves a nap in her carrier cuddling mama!

  • @leannejohnston8278
    @leannejohnston8278 2 роки тому

    Why would u use water from a tap , babies need cooled boiled water it get any stuff out the water . Not being cheeky 25 year my oldest is down to 12 I have 5. God if midwife seen u do that in this country they go mad and our water in Northern Ireland is very clean . Tap water can cause colic , constipation etc. ask you doc I know in the us been many times and we drink bottle water. Mayb were u r is it normal to do that a subscriber no hate . Just really finds it’s strange x

  • @leannejohnston8278
    @leannejohnston8278 2 роки тому

    Give her a dummy highly recommended all 5 mine took and def gets u bit peace and settles

  • @LisaAlman-sk6pq
    @LisaAlman-sk6pq 4 місяці тому

    Wonder why she didn’t pump her milk

  • @samconway7794
    @samconway7794 2 роки тому

    My son only ever tolerated the liquid Similac sensitive formula for the whole first year. We transitioned him to whole milk at one year and he had no problem tolerating it. Go figure lol.

    • @samconway7794
      @samconway7794 2 роки тому

      Also they have massive bottles of the liquid available at Costco which is much more cost effective.