SNEAK PEEK: Is the Romance Fading Between Toya & Eugene? | Married to Medicine (S10 E9) | Bravo

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  • Toya Bush-Harris and husband, Dr. Eugene, struggle with romance as Dr. Eugene's suggestion of a stay-at-home date falls flat. Also, Da Brat visits Dr. Jackie Walters for another check up. Watch new episodes of Married to Medicine, Sundays at 9/8c on Bravo and stream next day on Peacock.
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    About Married to Medicine:
    The women of “Married to Medicine” are back and serving season 10 realness. The ladies are all looking to make a fresh start with new friendship dynamics and putting old rivalries to rest.
    Dr. Jackie is busy balancing her businesses and, with a special celebrity patient in their final trimester, she is working hard while also making time for family and friends as the peacemaker in the group.
    Dr. Simone and Cecil have put their dreams of being authors on hold and are now looking at the potential of having both of their sons move back home full-time despite Dr. Simone’s desire to maintain her empty-nester status.
    Dr. Heavenly is working on her unfiltered demeanor while not being ready for Alaura to be college bound and out of ATL.
    Toya is diligently working on her marriage with Dr. Eugene and focusing on expanding her wine club business.
    Miss Quad is still working on nurturing her friendships with the ladies while the women are still looking for her to take accountability.
    Phaedra is making new friends, as well as a name for herself, in the world of holistic medicine while extending her Reiki expertise to the group to mend the broken relationships between Quad and the ladies.
    Lateasha is making sure her voice is heard and, while building a new sisterhood with the ladies, is ready to walk down the aisle with Dr. Gregory Lunceford despite the judgment and criticism from some in the friend group.
    Meanwhile, new friend Dr. Alicia is pivoting her career from dentistry to a full-time mompreneur. With so many life changes and drama at a fever pitch, will the ladies be able to get past the pettiness?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 719

  • @twallington100
    @twallington100 6 місяців тому +915

    She needs to do some volunteer work, get a job, or something. She expects him to work all day as a doctor and come home and entertain her. She needs to have people’s lives in her hand daily and come home to him, then she would understand him.

    • @frenchtoast7742
      @frenchtoast7742 6 місяців тому +67

      Or at least make dinner . My grandmother raised 12 children and had dinner on the table for my grandfather at the end of the day . And she found time to do a little job on the side when the kids got older. Shows you can do it all .

    • @laurenallen8459
      @laurenallen8459 6 місяців тому +99

      Everybody has different wants and needs in a relationship. They have 2 different ideas of romantic time. Her wanting to go out on dates when she’s spending time with her husband isn’t a bad thing lol. Marriages often times fall into a rhythm and before you realize it all of your feelings are gone. Money isn’t everything and if she felt lonely while her husband was working 72+ hours a week last year that was a real feeling. Regardless of whether she works or not.

    • @lashondarochell7584
      @lashondarochell7584 6 місяців тому +54

      Everybody marriage will not. be the same you always here this talk of "I can do it all" No one can do it all and sometimes the family don't get affected, Toya has a right to want her husband to spend quality time together, they both have to sacrifice. Eugene has needs and wants as well they both need to compromise.

    • @floram3722
      @floram3722 6 місяців тому +12

      Go to Noonday Bible class.

    • @longbranch11207
      @longbranch11207 6 місяців тому +3

      Facts

  • @britonyabanks
    @britonyabanks 6 місяців тому +152

    Toya is the most self absorbed person. I’m surprised Eugene hasn’t collapsed from working all the time.

  • @LareinaJE
    @LareinaJE 6 місяців тому +532

    I love Toya but she is the epitome of a woman who is never satisfied. She is a stay at home mother who plays tennis, shops and takes care of her children but that still is not enough. We all know they struggle financially so perhaps the stay at home dates are Eugene's way of saving money. At least he is home. She needs to learn to be more appreciative of the lifestyle her husband works so hard to give his family.

    • @nnekam6153
      @nnekam6153 6 місяців тому +63

      For a doctor i can tell you that most of us our idea of a nice time is just to lie down in front of the tv with food and drinks! Just the thought of doing nothing can be a form of enjoyment /relaxation to us. Sometimes just the thought of lying in bed the whole day in our pjs is just what we crave. Toya needs to appreciate that man more; Eugene is an Angel!

    • @Truthteller978
      @Truthteller978 6 місяців тому +9

      Because she wants those she considers beneath her to struggle so she can enjoy her blessings. She is one of those people.

    • @nancyfischer4875
      @nancyfischer4875 6 місяців тому +21

      Yes she is never satisfied SHE WANTS everything he gives her a big house she still complain that man just want to be at HOME, they go out of the country she’s not happy. He’s work like a dog she’s not satisfied everything is about her it’s sad. Why didn’t she have anything planned as much as that man works

    • @LareinaJE
      @LareinaJE 6 місяців тому +18

      ⁠​⁠@@nancyfischer4875and she has had MULTIPLE big houses. She does not realize but all her dissatisfaction and complaining opens the door for these viper women to come for your marriage. Atlanta has plenty and I’m sure there is a woman who would scoop up Eugene in a heartbeat. All they need is for Eugene to have a weak moment of feeling unappreciated and BAM..another Dr Jackie moment. You see she learned and working a bit harder to keep Curtis happy.

    • @missm472
      @missm472 6 місяців тому +5

      She’s an Aries woman. Full of energy and hard to please.

  • @ogenna_
    @ogenna_ 6 місяців тому +145

    Eugene works 12 hour days, supports all of Toya’s spending habits, COOKS, cleans, and most importantly - LOVES HER without judgment. I hear Toya but she doesn’t know how good she has it

  • @goddessnoele
    @goddessnoele 6 місяців тому +679

    Toya is semi right. As a married couple, you do need to keep the romance alive. HOWEVER, when your husband has to work like a dog to support your spending , he won't always feel like going out

    • @jessbaby2997
      @jessbaby2997 6 місяців тому +16

      Well at least she is vocal about her feelings just take her out at least once every two weeks

    • @marztitus3472
      @marztitus3472 6 місяців тому +44

      @@jessbaby2997did you miss the part where she said her husband has to work like a dog to support her? lol you glossed right over that.

    • @Phushprada1
      @Phushprada1 6 місяців тому +29

      Not when one is a surgical doctor, who works long hours and is expected to be in lover mode when he gets home, while the other, sits around, ordering staff tj do things and then saying they’re doing something. That shit is bound to cause resentment and loss of romance. She needs to understand that, as the person with the less responsibility, it’s her job to keep the romance alive, especially when the husband is working to give you the demanding lifestyle you want.

    • @lovingmyselffirst5535
      @lovingmyselffirst5535 6 місяців тому +23

      How can he keep romance alive 😮when he too busy working getting them out of debt cause she spending all the money

    • @lovingmyselffirst5535
      @lovingmyselffirst5535 6 місяців тому +13

      Eugene needs another woman Toya unappreciative

  • @itzjdub282
    @itzjdub282 6 місяців тому +193

    Eugene cooks, works double shifts, and takes out Toya's weave. What more does he needs to do?

    • @suporiaa6826
      @suporiaa6826 6 місяців тому +6

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sedi2066
      @sedi2066 6 місяців тому +13

      LMAO no really poor guy. Love Toya though she literally has it ALL

    • @JuicyRealTalk
      @JuicyRealTalk 6 місяців тому +1

      lmao

    • @ivorycoe1473
      @ivorycoe1473 6 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Scandalous_behavior
      @Scandalous_behavior 6 місяців тому +11

      He should come take care of me as well. I’m low maintenance.

  • @idilali
    @idilali 6 місяців тому +376

    Toya is crazy. She should be so lucky to have a good man like Eugene.

    • @traciescott1871
      @traciescott1871 6 місяців тому +10

      Just saying...like WTH?! Complaining because your man wants to cook at home on top of the fact that he works doubles to satisfy your overspending!
      Bye Girl! It's ladies out here watching this in horror. 😑

    • @somebody6907
      @somebody6907 6 місяців тому +7

      I would love a man like him..

    • @tanfel4
      @tanfel4 6 місяців тому +5

      Sometimes, people don't really understand how blessed that are, until it has gone away. Marriage is about compromise and balance.

    • @teebradley2078
      @teebradley2078 6 місяців тому +2

      💯‼️

    • @uluv2h898
      @uluv2h898 6 місяців тому +2

      She better appreciate him and all he contributes to their household. Toya has it easy ! You know how many women would love to live her life. She plays tennis and spends money all day and doesn’t work while Eugene works 12+ hour shifts and she complains about him not entertaining her when he comes home. Really Toya!!? 🙄🥴

  • @beautifulherizon1011
    @beautifulherizon1011 6 місяців тому +95

    I absolutely love the fact that he told Toya, that you can't you can't over talk a point that don't make sense", he's a Dr. He deals with people lives 24/7, learn to appreciate the time you have with your husband while you still can Mrs. Toya... Enough Said 🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🥴💯

  • @NA-ko4ub
    @NA-ko4ub 6 місяців тому +31

    She put them in debt to the point that he has to work so hard and have the nerve to be ungrateful. Stop spending so much.

  • @BigL88
    @BigL88 6 місяців тому +309

    As a straight man, Toya comes across as ungrateful and unappreciative.

    • @laverdad8038
      @laverdad8038 6 місяців тому +46

      She comes of the same to women. You’re not wrong

    • @operationpaperclip3952
      @operationpaperclip3952 6 місяців тому +39

      For YEARS now.

    • @Graydreamer8543
      @Graydreamer8543 6 місяців тому +16

      No fr seeing her behavior play out just reminds me of how much of a headache as a woman she is to deal with . I send all good luck to Eugene.

    • @Ms.Kat318
      @Ms.Kat318 6 місяців тому +6

      By The Things She Says, I Feel As Though This Is True, But Wat Her Biggest Problem Is, Is That She's Not Bein Satisfied In Bed, And Because Of That, She Creates A Problem. Truth B Told🤔🤔🤔

    • @FreeSpiritInGod
      @FreeSpiritInGod 6 місяців тому +4

      @@Ms.Kat318yeah I think that’s what it really is

  • @TheRenegadeStarr
    @TheRenegadeStarr 6 місяців тому +192

    I love that Judy doesn’t lie when it comes to brats health 😂

  • @Ceemoore67
    @Ceemoore67 6 місяців тому +228

    What does Toya do to romance Eugene? He is a great guy with high emotional intelligence and the patience of Job. I think Toya is delusional.

    • @xoangelicaf0523
      @xoangelicaf0523 6 місяців тому +7

      Maybe a lot he doesn’t have time to to participate

    • @ANGELSLVME
      @ANGELSLVME 6 місяців тому +10

      I believe EUGENE IS HONESTLY SCARED OF TONYA!😢😢😢

    • @Trinity_2016
      @Trinity_2016 6 місяців тому +17

      What Toya sees as romance is obviously different at what Eugene sees as romance. I think Toya sees the materialistic side of romance where Eugene sees the emotional side of romance. Just my observation

    • @sedi2066
      @sedi2066 6 місяців тому +5

      The patience of Job sent me

    • @dedgrawingo4084
      @dedgrawingo4084 6 місяців тому +2

      I agree!

  • @InstaluxeNails
    @InstaluxeNails 6 місяців тому +95

    I love how he allows her to be vocal and loves her so hard ❤

    • @tamaradula1331
      @tamaradula1331 6 місяців тому +13

      Agreed she’s spoiled because he spoiled her. And he loves spoiling her she wants him to maintain that vibe he set in the beginning. I love that for them and he’s a really good man !

    • @KIMjB72
      @KIMjB72 6 місяців тому +1

      Why argue with her it will take less time to just stop and let her finish

    • @angelarandall143
      @angelarandall143 6 місяців тому +1

      @@tamaradula1331 Right. Even I who am not dating a doctor can get like that too.

    • @angelarandall143
      @angelarandall143 6 місяців тому

      For sure love that about him the most.

    • @andre-chancegoddard6975
      @andre-chancegoddard6975 6 місяців тому +4

      Yikes. You think Eugene looks happy with what "vocal" seems to mean? You yearn to be able to emulate her behavior when it looks like it's sucking the life outta her partner.
      It's interesting how we each see something different.

  • @shalandreahillsion6900
    @shalandreahillsion6900 6 місяців тому +96

    Toya is one of the few women who have a husband that truly loves them..pays all or most of the bills while she frolics through life…but alas she still isn’t satisfied…She better wake up..before she wakes up and Eugene is gone….

  • @starletrobinson
    @starletrobinson 6 місяців тому +80

    Eugene and Toya both have valid points. They just have to meet in the middle

    • @nk7925
      @nk7925 6 місяців тому +3

      What middle ?! He works all damn day ! She needs to get a job

    • @starletrobinson
      @starletrobinson 6 місяців тому

      @@nk7925 she has one. Don’t diminish the amount of work that stay at home moms do. In marriage you compromise

    • @Exxtol1
      @Exxtol1 6 місяців тому +4

      @@starletrobinson I don't think anyone is diminishing it, but she clearly has way more energy (and time) than Eugene and that's likely because Eugene has a higher workload.....to satisfy her demanding and materialistic lifestyle I might add. My brother works full time and has primary custody of his kids. Raising kids is hard, but I know plenty of people that work (full time) and raise their kids. She's not doing anything special.

  • @floram3722
    @floram3722 6 місяців тому +167

    Toya is full of energy and Eugenene is probably tired.

    • @floram3722
      @floram3722 6 місяців тому +19

      Get a JOB!!

    • @moee_thyself
      @moee_thyself 6 місяців тому

      @@floram3722housewife is a job

    • @xoangelicaf0523
      @xoangelicaf0523 6 місяців тому +3

      She has a job & a business

    • @malehlohonolo8463
      @malehlohonolo8463 6 місяців тому +17

      He's exhausted, look at his face. She needs to stop pushing him before he collapses.

    • @malehlohonolo8463
      @malehlohonolo8463 6 місяців тому +19

      And why tf does someone who works 12hr shifts need to come back home and cook??

  • @nicolam4513
    @nicolam4513 6 місяців тому +141

    Dr. Jackie needs to walk it like she talk it, if she means for us to believe her. Don't say black women are lazy and exaggerate health symptoms from one side of your mouth and then do this whole see something, say something spiel out the other.

    • @DIVASFORTRESS
      @DIVASFORTRESS 6 місяців тому +17

      exactly!!!!

    • @Lexylulee
      @Lexylulee 6 місяців тому

      Look at the childish patient she had. No wonder she feels that way.

    • @JustAshleyDanielle
      @JustAshleyDanielle 6 місяців тому +1

      @@Lexyluleethe Brat isn’t childish

    • @LyricSnowe
      @LyricSnowe 5 місяців тому

      Ozempic peddler

  • @jessicashante6577
    @jessicashante6577 6 місяців тому +14

    She needs to plan the dates. This man be working. I know he is tired. Lawd

  • @blasiandoll9367
    @blasiandoll9367 6 місяців тому +22

    Da brats wife snitching on Her at every appointment is too cute 😂😂

  • @cortneyb4443
    @cortneyb4443 6 місяців тому +58

    Toya is so DRAINING!! She is running the man into the ground. I just know his family is sick of her

    • @blessedlife2056
      @blessedlife2056 6 місяців тому +10

      Yes! Draining and running him into the ground. She is never satisfied nor happy with poor, loyal, hardworking Eugene!

    • @user-dh4jl1nw1v
      @user-dh4jl1nw1v 6 місяців тому +2

      💯

  • @user-dr6zr5ip1q
    @user-dr6zr5ip1q 6 місяців тому +263

    Jackie is really feeling herself since her talk with Kamala

    • @mimid6354
      @mimid6354 6 місяців тому +54

      Anything that makes her feel that she above the rest of the ladies

    • @timyka100
      @timyka100 6 місяців тому +62

      Right!!! I don't think I've heard her talk about this issue ever on the show! Kamala need Black votes again! That's why she's appearing on RHOA! BYE JACKIE AND Kamala

    • @luisafrance1635
      @luisafrance1635 6 місяців тому +12

      @@timyka100… Kamala is clever!

    • @timyka100
      @timyka100 6 місяців тому +25

      @luisafrance1635 Well, her cleverness may have backfired since the internet is dragging Jackie

    • @kazimali8383
      @kazimali8383 6 місяців тому +14

      Damn y’all hate to see people happy😂

  • @luciajack2494
    @luciajack2494 6 місяців тому +113

    Toya and Eugene, I love that they talk things out, address on camera no sprinkles, coz that's her truth

    • @ChristSaves88
      @ChristSaves88 6 місяців тому +4

      I agree!

    • @sofreshsoclean12345
      @sofreshsoclean12345 6 місяців тому

      She got the right one cause I woulda left her so fast. That brother is secure; she’s embarrassing and exhausting. 😣

    • @janesmith8150
      @janesmith8150 6 місяців тому

      Toya comes off as a nagging, ungrateful, narcissistic woman. Dr. Eugene reminds me of a husband that wonders what can he do to satisfy this woman.

    • @ralphangel561
      @ralphangel561 6 місяців тому +2

      Her opinion and perspective. Not truth

    • @toluadeyemi9049
      @toluadeyemi9049 6 місяців тому

      Right?? A marriage with open communication is good to have

  • @feliciacleveland269
    @feliciacleveland269 6 місяців тому +87

    Eugene and Toya both need individual and personal counseling. I thought Eugene was going to try and finds what makes him happy. He definitely needs an outlet. Toya void is not something Eugene is supposed to fix. It maybe something spiritual. She definitely needs to be able to enjoy being alone. Toya plays victim.

    • @myrahaines5255
      @myrahaines5255 6 місяців тому +5

      Exactly

    • @chinenyeodozi7677
      @chinenyeodozi7677 6 місяців тому +2

      I totally disagree with you she doesn't need to learn how to be alone when she is married. What are you talking about?

    • @MsTishalish
      @MsTishalish 6 місяців тому +5

      @@chinenyeodozi7677 I thinkshe meant tht Toya needs to learn how to be content in herself.

    • @feliciacleveland269
      @feliciacleveland269 6 місяців тому +2

      @@chinenyeodozi7677 yes because everyone knows marriage last forever? You have to know what makes you happy. No one else can fill that void . Married people definitely need date nights. In the mean time Toya needs to find hers too passion. A counselor would be a good start . Unfortunately Eugene may need Toya to be the main breadwinner at some point. She needs to be prepared.

  • @prettyblkgyrl74
    @prettyblkgyrl74 6 місяців тому +37

    DaBrat reacting to Judy snitching on her CRACKS ME UP 😂😂😂

  • @k.s.3421
    @k.s.3421 6 місяців тому +14

    Does Toya at least boil water? All she does is spend, wine, and whine! 😫🙄

  • @AmberTyseti
    @AmberTyseti 6 місяців тому +141

    Toya needs to go do one day of 12 hour work anywhere and then she can understand. She’s not even with her children 12 hours a day, at most 3-4 hours before they go to bed. He spoiled her and it’s his fault.

    • @ak24553
      @ak24553 6 місяців тому +25

      She wants to keep up with the Joneses

    • @AmberTyseti
      @AmberTyseti 6 місяців тому +11

      @@ak24553 keeping up with the Jones’s mean keeping your husband.

    • @ak24553
      @ak24553 6 місяців тому +19

      @@AmberTyseti she wants a lifestyle that requires a two person income and not just one. Moving into those expensive homes for 10 years has made her complain and not understand what goes into the lifestyle she desires

    • @hlelatuluma1494
      @hlelatuluma1494 6 місяців тому

      Toya works. What you guys on about

    • @hlelatuluma1494
      @hlelatuluma1494 6 місяців тому +1

      Toya works. What you guys on about

  • @TheRenegadeStarr
    @TheRenegadeStarr 6 місяців тому +44

    Toya… you been having this conversation on tv for years… you have a hard working DOCTOR husband… YOU setup a sexy date with your husband who’s always on his feet and I’m sure Eugene would be more than willing to go along and enjoy the experience with you… you endlessly spending this man’s money on rental homes… stop. I can’t with these rich ppl complaints

  • @xfacme7815
    @xfacme7815 6 місяців тому +13

    That’s crazy Eugene can’t even rest on his day off. Toya trying to run her husband into the ground

  • @mysisterisafoodie
    @mysisterisafoodie 6 місяців тому +102

    Romance and intimacy isn’t just in the big gestures, it’s in the everyday moments, and the joy of routine with someone you love. But Toya and her bird brain doesn’t understand that.
    Toya wants Porsha’s life, on Instagram. She wants a show, she wants to flex online, she doesn’t want romance.

    • @zeemali4369
      @zeemali4369 6 місяців тому +9

      Well said👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @marcusjones2961
      @marcusjones2961 6 місяців тому +5

      Thank you 😊 we on the same page I went off on my friend about porsha thinks she some type of queen two air head checks dating men for the wrong reasons

    • @NikkiAkoth
      @NikkiAkoth 6 місяців тому

      Everyone is different.
      She likes big gestures and some people don't.

  • @VoiceVirtuoso
    @VoiceVirtuoso 6 місяців тому +13

    Toya can be such a spoiled brat sometimes. She calls being free all day while the kids are at school, shopping, hanging out with friends, drinking in the middle of the day, etc being a stay at home mom. She's very fortunate, yet she acts as though she's slumming it and being neglecteds. Shameful.

  • @blessedlife2056
    @blessedlife2056 6 місяців тому +8

    Toya does not really love her Husband. She loves his Title and Salary. She thinks she’s too hot for him. Smh 😂 He is too good for her.

    • @YB882
      @YB882 4 місяці тому

      Agreed!

  • @seajatta6297
    @seajatta6297 6 місяців тому +18

    Toya needs to be careful

  • @libralibra3962
    @libralibra3962 6 місяців тому +62

    Toya wants money money money,and material things,she doesn’t want Eugene,and doesn’t see his frustration ‼️

    • @floram3722
      @floram3722 6 місяців тому +11

      I agree. She saw a gravy train and got on it.

    • @VernethaCaston
      @VernethaCaston 5 місяців тому +2

      That’s why on the couples trip when Toya and Eugene came up to sit in the chairs during couples therapy . Heavenly asked her something like do you live Eugene or is it the material things/what he can do for you. That’s why she was pissed because she know it is true.

  • @preciousthomas8009
    @preciousthomas8009 6 місяців тому +8

    She doesn’t even see that he is clearly exhausted smh

  • @keyshawnsneed9046
    @keyshawnsneed9046 6 місяців тому +47

    Sweet Tea doing a tik tok is like a grandma learning new technology. Smh

    • @Nashae-kz5bc
      @Nashae-kz5bc 6 місяців тому +4

      Byyyyeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @theajayieffect
      @theajayieffect 6 місяців тому +2

      And you saw the Turtle shut her down, talking about he hungry 😂😂😂

  • @Moniquedb222
    @Moniquedb222 6 місяців тому +55

    toya and her ego is getting out of cotrol

    • @asobijoyce5802
      @asobijoyce5802 6 місяців тому +11

      She whines like a child!

    • @marcusjones2961
      @marcusjones2961 6 місяців тому

      Watch n see when that divorce comes he will be married to a white woman 🤔💯

  • @LeoLeo-ni1mf
    @LeoLeo-ni1mf 6 місяців тому +7

    She needs a job so she see what he is going through. She is blessed to have him.

  • @gabbyntsuntsha9615
    @gabbyntsuntsha9615 6 місяців тому +10

    I hate this side of toys....she's really doesn't appreciate everything her husband does for her...
    She honestly can't compare being a stay at home mom...to being an ER Doctor....it can never be the same

  • @jenznwachukwu
    @jenznwachukwu 6 місяців тому +39

    Hearing Toya, I do feel her but I also think that she has to evolve. Her husband has evolved since the early years of their marriage and I think there's a need to recognise where they are in their journey. Rather than expect the things of yesterday, things that were done because his time and energy was available, I think she needs to also adapt and be creative with the season they are in.
    He seems tired even sitting there at the table. Doing a job where you are constantly exchanging time for money is relentless and I can't even imagine the type of hours he has to put in.
    Wishing them well

  • @JStube33
    @JStube33 6 місяців тому +23

    Eugene really loved his wife.

  • @TravelerSanna
    @TravelerSanna 6 місяців тому +24

    *Cute throwback pictures of Toya and Eugene!* 🩷

  • @Inprogress_of_newbeginings
    @Inprogress_of_newbeginings 6 місяців тому +25

    The good thing about this marriage is the honesty. They might not agree, but at the least they are voicing their concerns and it will avoid resentment building up.

  • @quatessicatrammell2069
    @quatessicatrammell2069 6 місяців тому +4

    I wish I had a man who like cook just chill in the house

  • @teetee6708
    @teetee6708 6 місяців тому +14

    Poor Eugene 😂😂😂😂

  • @pgdarling301
    @pgdarling301 6 місяців тому +38

    10 years of this nonsense with Toya! My husband and I were watching earlier seasons and I was saying if he were a Dr working all day or night, soon as he comes home I would tend to him, put him to bed, go hang out by the pool with the kids or go hang out with my friends... whatever I want to do. Eugene always bends to her will just to keep her happy. I don't want a man I can run over you lose respect real quick as Toya has done. There's no way she respects that man carrying on like that. Smdh

    • @Justdoit-ky5ir
      @Justdoit-ky5ir 6 місяців тому +3

      I believe she cheating/cheated because she has been complaining a whole lot this season about their sec life......

  • @dsmart2002
    @dsmart2002 6 місяців тому +7

    The romance stopped because she kept putting the family in debt wanting to live a higher lifestyle than they could afford so the man has to work harder and longer to make sure that it doesn't happen again! She just doesn't get it. He did all those things when they probably lived a modest lifestyle.

  • @tarirogatsi6494
    @tarirogatsi6494 6 місяців тому +4

    Toya don't know how good she got it

  • @ninadorsey2473
    @ninadorsey2473 6 місяців тому +8

    Toya comes across as being ungrateful. Eugene is a doctor she needs to show him that she appreciates what he does for her and the kids. He is working, coming home to her and still entertaining her nonsense. Girl go volunteer somewhere and get a clue.

  • @ms.j.2961
    @ms.j.2961 6 місяців тому +54

    I would like to see Dr. Eugene and Toya have a few scenes of marital therapy sessions. Toya made some valid points. Sounds like Dr. Eugene really catered to Toya & perhaps she became "spoiled" as a result.
    I think there are some other things brewing beneath the surface as well. Folks criticize Toya about being a housewife but being one IS work; just without a paycheck. Children need as much stability as possible & it's a blessing for her or any other wife to be "home" with and for their children.

    • @malehlohonolo8463
      @malehlohonolo8463 6 місяців тому +12

      It is work but its not a 12hr shift at the ER. That man is tired, he takes double shifts to pay her unnecessary debt. She'll appreciated him after he collapses🤞🏾

    • @stacylala2816
      @stacylala2816 6 місяців тому +7

      Them kids in school, she ain’t working all day!

    • @jholland8462
      @jholland8462 6 місяців тому +10

      Toya is NOT a housewife. She’s a wife that stays home. My mother was a housewife. My mother cook, clean, raised us kids, and a wife to my father with no help. Toya does nothing but complain! She wants to be able to play tennis, drink wine, and spend money! She’s annoying and ungrateful!

    • @nk7925
      @nk7925 6 місяців тому +2

      Lol please. No it’s not, her kids are grown and she doesn’t do much , that’s why she has so much energy unused. She needs to get a job or a hobby.

  • @gailbrown2887
    @gailbrown2887 6 місяців тому +10

    Toya, your kids are not babies anymore. You do something to spice things up. When you first met, he didn't have a family to take care of.

    • @nnekam6153
      @nnekam6153 6 місяців тому

      Exactly and he is not getting younger ! The demands of life and work has taken over.

  • @ShiroMuch
    @ShiroMuch 6 місяців тому +56

    Toya just wants him to put in the effort he did when they were dating. Nothing wrong with her wants / needs. They just need to communicate better.

    • @shanda123
      @shanda123 6 місяців тому +14

      He probably wasn’t an er doctor then and had the time plus he’s working overtime to support her lifestyle

    • @nk7925
      @nk7925 6 місяців тому +3

      Lol so many selfish inconsiderate people. He works!

  • @nicolas8346
    @nicolas8346 6 місяців тому +4

    That poor man is overworked and exhausted. I'm surprised he hasn't have a heart attack yet. Lord, give him a break. To work 12+ hour shift daily is brutal.

  • @neshkatama9083
    @neshkatama9083 6 місяців тому +9

    My husband is not a Dr but we have this conversation all the time we both work and he just prefers to chill at the house and I want to go outside 😊

  • @Luciano00777
    @Luciano00777 6 місяців тому +4

    She Toya is missing the signs. He’s done with her. No sparks in his eyes. He’s just going along to get along. Wow!!!

    • @santanagonsalves6461
      @santanagonsalves6461 6 місяців тому

      Nah he knows his wife, he will work through it just like they always do. That’s marriage.

  • @cyt70
    @cyt70 6 місяців тому +35

    It’s interesting to see contrast of what Dr Jackie says on this show and what her patients have said about her.

    • @virgodiva2811
      @virgodiva2811 6 місяців тому +1

      Can you elaborate or give some examples please? Thanx.

    • @sugalovely1238
      @sugalovely1238 6 місяців тому

      What does Dr. Jackie's patients say about her?!!

    • @juatevinhicks7911
      @juatevinhicks7911 6 місяців тому +3

      She’s not a good doctor and very impersonal.

    • @virgodiva2811
      @virgodiva2811 6 місяців тому +2

      @@juatevinhicks7911 I can see that. She looks like she's cold and impersonal. IJS. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @cyt70
      @cyt70 6 місяців тому

      @@virgodiva2811 She doesn’t really advocate for her patients like she says black women should be. And she seems to care more for her celebrity patients. There are several of her former patients that have told their stories of how she treated them and their horrible experiences with her as their doctor on TikTok.

  • @AHavenOfWellness
    @AHavenOfWellness 6 місяців тому +21

    Nothing wrong with wanting a man to pay you attention and but you 💐 flowers

  • @janesmith8150
    @janesmith8150 6 місяців тому +3

    Having to put up with her insatiable appetite for everything material is enough for the most understanding man. This woman is to much into her self.

  • @TheBlackDorothyZbornak
    @TheBlackDorothyZbornak 6 місяців тому +4

    Toya is not helping those kids with homework cut it out. Last year when she said "childrens" I lost it. Those kids are smarter than her

    • @nat3843
      @nat3843 6 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

  • @r_n_c_4408
    @r_n_c_4408 6 місяців тому +7

    Eugene can never please Toya. I think he likes that about her though.

  • @zuria07
    @zuria07 6 місяців тому +3

    Toya needs to tread carefully. You only get that type of unconditional love once, maybe twice, in your lifetime. Some people don’t experience it at all.

  • @straightnochaser2450
    @straightnochaser2450 6 місяців тому +3

    Toya doesn't like that man. He is her human ATM only!

    • @chrisw.5823
      @chrisw.5823 6 місяців тому +1

      Then why would she care to spend time with him?

  • @morgan.greene
    @morgan.greene 6 місяців тому +28

    What he was doing WAS romantic, she's just not grateful. Poor Eugene.

    • @nishashawn2021
      @nishashawn2021 6 місяців тому +3

      Ppl are allowed to evolve. The stuff I enjoyed at 21...changed by the time I got to 41...that doesn't make me or Toya a villain.

    • @ralphangel561
      @ralphangel561 6 місяців тому

      ​@@nishashawn2021 It doesn't make someone a villain. It's just not healthy to a big deal about requests that could easily be resolved

  • @kimberleydavidson8006
    @kimberleydavidson8006 6 місяців тому +10

    I think they’ll be ok, atleast they talk about the subjects needed. I like that Eugene is always supportive and ready to fix the issue. Beautiful family, may hod continue to bless💯🙏🥰🦋

  • @libralibra3962
    @libralibra3962 6 місяців тому +6

    Like he said,Toya,Not making sense,Eugene is going to find a work wife

  • @gwendolynsurles8821
    @gwendolynsurles8821 6 місяців тому +2

    Every time a stay at home mom gets a coin they get bored with the hubby 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @marierose9163
    @marierose9163 6 місяців тому +3

    Im exhausted just listening to Toya. I can't imagine what her husband is feeling. I feel he is also a bit insecure.

    • @YB882
      @YB882 4 місяці тому

      That's exactly what it is. Anyone else would've left her ungrateful behind.

  • @optimusjanebrooks523
    @optimusjanebrooks523 6 місяців тому +1

    The way Eugene holding the bacon 😂😂😂

  • @loddiehert2742
    @loddiehert2742 6 місяців тому +17

    Im a nurse and i work 12 hour shifts overnight, sometimes i have to pick up shifts and do OT. My s/o is very supportive, he does not complain, we live together so he watches my other 4 children that arent his and our baby that we have together when im at work and i watch her in the day when he works. Yes im exhausted having to work all night come home and watch our daughter and get my other kids off to school but we help each other. We take turns cooking, we serve each other, etc

    • @danijones819
      @danijones819 6 місяців тому +5

      watching your 4 kids..he 's not the babysitter its called being a parent

    • @miimonalisa
      @miimonalisa 6 місяців тому +3

      @@danijones819 i’m pretty sure she knows that lol she was just giving example of the give-and-take that we are supposed to have in our relationships

    • @marztitus3472
      @marztitus3472 6 місяців тому +2

      Whew. He’s a good man I’m not gon lie. You having 4 children & him having only 1 together with you is wild not gonna lie. But he’s def a good one for taking on all of that.

    • @danijones819
      @danijones819 6 місяців тому +1

      @@miimonalisa she said watch like he's the free babysitter not even take care of them ...I said what I meant and I meant what I said

    • @princessd3966
      @princessd3966 6 місяців тому

      @@danijones819The 4 kids aren’t his though. Did you read the comment?

  • @s2891j
    @s2891j 6 місяців тому +2

    Dr. Jackie doesn’t care about anyone but herself!

  • @jackoenyegue
    @jackoenyegue 6 місяців тому +9

    Nothing will ever be enough for Toya.. she is a digestive system!! Whatever you put in.. will be digested and she’ll be hungry again and again and again and again and again.. sometime maybe just be quiet and let him be.. let him breathe!!

    • @nnekam6153
      @nnekam6153 6 місяців тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 at digestive system!!

  • @june-gm7nf
    @june-gm7nf 6 місяців тому +14

    Kamala is Jackie's new storyline 🙄

  • @Faith_Walker_
    @Faith_Walker_ 6 місяців тому +7

    I’ve been watching the old seasons and Eugene is still working hard. I wonder if we’ll get to see the children graduate before M2M comes to an end.

  • @TinkMarshae
    @TinkMarshae 6 місяців тому +24

    It was once said to me when I got married that we are two individuals who've decided to do life together. Have a hobby and make yourself happy before expecting him to do the same. TOYA IMO is acting like someone who is wants to separate but doesn’t want to give up the “life”.

    • @learg948
      @learg948 6 місяців тому

      I wholeheartedly understand that meaning .. 💯

    • @latasih
      @latasih 6 місяців тому +1

      she does not want that man. When she spoke on his penis size, that spoke volumes. I also believe the rumor of her possibly cheating on him. She has an idle mind and you know what comes with that.

  • @queenjj201
    @queenjj201 6 місяців тому +21

    Toya is making a little money, now her husband is a problem. Why don't we see Jackie at home with her husband anymore?

    • @bernicesmith1173
      @bernicesmith1173 6 місяців тому +3

      🤔

    • @Ennui83
      @Ennui83 6 місяців тому +8

      Who is interested in Jackie's marriage or Curtis at all?

    • @ceexlove1
      @ceexlove1 6 місяців тому +1

      I think they stopped showing him as much after the whole cheating scandal 😱😂

  • @georgiesimmons5924
    @georgiesimmons5924 6 місяців тому +11

    I have watched in season one She is the most disrespectful wife and it's his fault. He enables her he allows her to talk over him. He allows her to disrespect him in front of the group as she has done in past seasons, and that's his fault.

  • @jayeff819
    @jayeff819 6 місяців тому +11

    Toya is ungrateful!

  • @myrahaines5255
    @myrahaines5255 6 місяців тому +3

    Exactly Toya you don't work 12hrs a day. Go back to school for a degree. Find a real job to occupy your time while the kids in school 🏫

  • @athena4519
    @athena4519 6 місяців тому +4

    The irony of Jackie’s speech 😂

    • @sugalovely1238
      @sugalovely1238 6 місяців тому +1

      Why do people keep saying that?!

  • @321Venia
    @321Venia 6 місяців тому +3

    Notice Toya’s words. She keeps saying “lonely” and keeps emphasizing how she (in her mind) has already been "patient." That girl gon cheat with a man that shows her “affection” (gifts)
    Also they both have different love languages. Eugene's love language is acts of service (always cooking and will do hair etc) also quality time.
    Toyas love language is also acts of service (loves being a mom) but her main love language is receiving gifts.
    Eugene took Toya's hair out and wanted toya to accept that as a date, but quality time is not her love language.

  • @shedoesntcare745
    @shedoesntcare745 6 місяців тому +36

    Now if somebody tell jackie she's a barren anorexic they'll be wrong. The lady has not eaten one time on this show, and I bet Eugene family can't stand Toya.

    • @vihx17
      @vihx17 6 місяців тому +5

      😂 I was thinking about his family too…I was like man I bet they roll they eyes when she comes around…I love the girl but she’s hella high maintenance 😅

    • @chrisw.5823
      @chrisw.5823 6 місяців тому +1

      Shit 💀

    • @jr90450
      @jr90450 6 місяців тому +1

      I don't know about now but it was stated in an earlier season that they don't get along.

    • @Lisa-em6ed
      @Lisa-em6ed 6 місяців тому +1

      @@jr90450i don't blame them. Toy a is going to run Eugene into an early grave and he is letting her.

  • @suchaliersounfair4456
    @suchaliersounfair4456 6 місяців тому +34

    Toya seems like a very spoiled woman and selfish it's all about her happiness

  • @MaineGer
    @MaineGer 6 місяців тому +11

    Toya only wants the name, money and prestige of being a Dr's wife.

  • @madehoney5052
    @madehoney5052 6 місяців тому +4

    When Eugene passes away Toya will say it’s because he never worked out…

  • @melbel10333
    @melbel10333 6 місяців тому +1

    Judy and Da Brat are basically cast members this season lol

  • @AshBoogie24
    @AshBoogie24 6 місяців тому +5

    Im sorry but I had to fast forward dr.Jackie part

  • @Ennui83
    @Ennui83 6 місяців тому +8

    Eugene is a good man*. Not was, he is that type of man. Let that man sleep, be an engaged homebody when he is not working, and get his bearings in this stage of your lives together. Toya should orchestrate the romance if that's what she wants. Like. . . take and keep the lead until he can lead again. Why is that a problem?
    (*Cecil, Eugene, Damon, and Aydin are/were the good men on this show.)

  • @juatevinhicks7911
    @juatevinhicks7911 6 місяців тому +22

    Toya isn’t wrong about wanting to keep their relationship alive. You have to keep dating your partner. Of course he’s not going to wanna go out every time he’s off but it seems as if he’s made not going out with his wife a normal thing.

    • @felisahenderson3879
      @felisahenderson3879 6 місяців тому

      Maybe she should work and take some of the load off

    • @nk7925
      @nk7925 6 місяців тому

      @@felisahenderson3879exactly, half these people live in LALA land

  • @here4drealt333
    @here4drealt333 6 місяців тому +3

    This woman has been criticizing this man since day one of this show! It's like he can't ever do anything right! It is so sad to see her berate him like this season after season. Last year she talked about his pee pee's size. It was very uncomfortable to watch. He works all the time bc of her spending habits true, but he is probably just staying away from her.

  • @jenniferdyer8449
    @jenniferdyer8449 6 місяців тому +21

    This was a great conversation. I like that Toya speaks up without disrespecting Eugene, and that he “eventually” listens. Stepping out of the house when you’re always there is a necessity.

  • @07labelle
    @07labelle 6 місяців тому +2

    If Eugene don’t start standing up for himself, Toya will destroy his life, drive him crazy or to an early grave. I feel so bad for him however he is her enabler

  • @nene5857
    @nene5857 6 місяців тому +3

    Toya is beating Eugene down and he’s rolling with the punches. She better hope he doesn’t exit stage left after the kids are grown. She will have a rude awakening.

  • @whostrue
    @whostrue 6 місяців тому +3

    Toya will never be happy with Eugene cause i think he liked and loved her more.

  • @van2820
    @van2820 6 місяців тому +11

    Fast forward past Jackie….

  • @deniseslay8965
    @deniseslay8965 6 місяців тому +7

    Toya don't blow your marriage bravo isn't worth it 😮😮.

  • @ISayUnpopularSht
    @ISayUnpopularSht 6 місяців тому +1

    Heavenly gave that girl the old cheap veneers. Chile I’d cry too!😂😂

  • @ytaylor263
    @ytaylor263 6 місяців тому +4

    Toya and Eugene are starting to remind me of Monique and Chris. I hope they are able to get on the same page.

  • @nguverenande3074
    @nguverenande3074 6 місяців тому +1

    “ m hungry ’m hungry”🤣😂🤣

    • @pro_noir
      @pro_noir 6 місяців тому

      😩😭😭😭😭

  • @charlieb1976
    @charlieb1976 6 місяців тому +1

    Lmfao at Dr. Jackie confessionals being reshot is evident

  • @Blended144
    @Blended144 6 місяців тому +1

    Not at all, until she works just as hard as he does, she’ll never understand. It’s not that he doesn’t want to do these things, he can’t because not only is he exhausted, but he has to keep those boys in private school and accommodate Toyas lifestyle.

  • @kylesummers2462
    @kylesummers2462 6 місяців тому +3

    Eugene you need to separate from Toya for a good month because she doesn’t appreciate you. She works on this show for 3 months a year, makes a cute coin and doesn’t realize that the rest of the world actually goes to work everyday and is tired as hell lol