THE WEEK OUR LIVES FELL APART | Losing Our Cat, Norovirus Illness, Sickness, Issues With Our Dogs

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  • THE WEEK OUR LIVES FELL APART ||
    To our viewers who always show such care for us,
    I edited this video yesterday (April 13th, 2024) so it’s almost been a month since this week happened… nonetheless editing this had me shaking crying in a corner downstairs. To me - it’s the opposite of anything we’ve ever shared. It was hard to watch every clip full of stress, sadness and each day it seemed another problem arose in our lives. I personally would not have wanted to share this - however the last 2 years so many of you have been on our life journey with us and have rooted for us, uplifted us, and been there with your sweet words in the comments and kind gestures you’ve sent us to our PO Box… i know our pets are a HUGE part of every video we share, and I get so many comments about our cat Menunckey and I know for fact that so many of you loved and adored her.. so I did not want to stop documenting and I am choosing to share this so that there is closure on the special life she lived… rather than just glossing over it and having to film an uncomfortable aftermath video. It’s been almost a month and we are doing much better - though the absence of our sweet kitty is still greatly felt in our house. We love her so much and miss her every day. 💔
    Thanks to everyone who reached out during this period of time and to those of you who sent such heartwarming gifts - we are so grateful and cherish them all.
    Love yall TONS,
    Stephen, Bryan & Kenzie

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  • @Handmadebusinesstips
    @Handmadebusinesstips 2 місяці тому +27

    I think it's safe to say that we all cried right along with you.

  • @user-ke8pp9gk8q
    @user-ke8pp9gk8q 2 місяці тому +34

    The world would be a much better place if everyone treated their animals the way you all have treated Menunckey. Hugs to all of you.❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @janineburrier4380
    @janineburrier4380 2 місяці тому +25

    Menunckey is not gone- all our loved furry family members stay with us in spirit. She was such a special and lovely girl. What a doll and so loving to her younger brother and sister pups. She will not be forgotten.

    • @nisiwatson2011
      @nisiwatson2011 2 місяці тому

      I am so sorry for your loss of precious Menunckey. Our pets are part of our family like yours , and therefore the feeling of loss is enormous. You have all been through way too much lately. You are such a special family with such big hearts (including pets). Because of this, I truly believe God made sure you would all find your way to each other. I hope you can take some comfort in this. Be easy on yourselves. Allow yourselves time to get back into your routine.❤️❤️❤️

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      So sweet. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @diannamacdonald3716
    @diannamacdonald3716 2 місяці тому +13

    Stephen, I hope you know that you are a warrior! Through your grief you persevered and did what you needed to keep your family going. Bryan’s illness, the pretties problems, Kenzie’s needs were all met and cared for as you worried about Menunkey and did your best for her. Thank you for sharing your life and vulnerability with us. The world would be a better place if we could all be as honest and caring as you are.💕

    • @TheShellie35
      @TheShellie35 2 місяці тому

      agree 💯percent

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @rebeccajones4311
    @rebeccajones4311 2 місяці тому +12

    Oh Stephen, this is Rebecca 🌻Oh Stephen😢 Menunckey was the luckiest Kitty in the World to be your Kitty! You gave Kitty the best life ever! I mean 15 years! That’s rare! It just shows what a healthy happy Kitty Menunckey was, Thanks to you! This truly showed that you’re not only beautiful on the outside, Super Beautiful! It shows you are just as beautiful on the inside! When my Chihuahua past at 14 years, I cried for 3 months! The pain gets better or easier to deal with after time, time is what it takes , I was very concerned about how you we’re going to edit this! Poor Stephen! You’re stronger than you know! Lots of Love and Hugs , Rebecca 🌻

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @douglaswild3852
    @douglaswild3852 2 місяці тому +6

    I have no words. I am so SO sorry for your whole family. My partner and I have three cats and have had one we had for 19 years pass away. It is ABSOLUTELY the worst. The pain is just awful! No less than losing a human family member. Please find comfort in knowing you did all you could, and remember what a LOVING and happy home you gave him. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very very sad time. Please take care of yourself and stay strong. 💔

  • @PO-PANDA
    @PO-PANDA 2 місяці тому +6

    I'm happy she spent her last few hours at Home instead of the vet hospital 😿 she loved you all 😿😭 💔🌈 Condolences. Menunckey, you will be missed and never forgotten 💕🫂🌈💔

  • @Atheenah
    @Atheenah 2 місяці тому +21

    Our cat is 17 and now in early stage kidney failure. Everyday is precious. My heart breaks for you guys. I do believe they go to a better place and your precious fur baby is free of her aging body. Much love and light!🙏

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому +9

      I am so so sorry that you are going through something similar. Sending your precious kitty and your family all the love and hugs ❤️

    • @user-ll5eb9bu9w
      @user-ll5eb9bu9w 2 місяці тому +1

      I am os sorry for your lots of cat. From Samantha clark from Watford Herts uk London

    • @charliebrogan7747
      @charliebrogan7747 2 місяці тому

      Stephen,I have watched this video twice now and cried each time. I truly feel your pain as I haave lost many fur babies ❤❤ please know you and the family are in my thoughts ❤❤❤

    • @jenniferkerr9311
      @jenniferkerr9311 2 місяці тому

      I was gutted watching you try and make this video. I know this feeling all too well. Our pets hold such a big piece of our hearts. It was clear that Menunckey was well loved and her memory will stay with you forever. Much love.
      Xoxox The Kerr Family.

  • @kaylaadams465
    @kaylaadams465 2 місяці тому +4

    the one thing i know is if a animal in a family is sick or something is wrong and there is other animals around that are close to the one is sick it means that it's almost time to let the one that is not doing good to let it or them go and rest in peace and not suffer and sending your family love and support . RIP Menunckey ❤❤

  • @nancydreher8883
    @nancydreher8883 2 місяці тому +9

    I am so sorry for your loss of your beloved Menunkey 😢Sending you lots of love and healing prayers!

  • @jeannebush4284
    @jeannebush4284 2 місяці тому +8

    I was in tears through this entire video, and I don't know how you made it through the editing. She had a wonderful life and as hard as it was, I am so glad she was with her family when she passed. Time heals, but you will never forget her. ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tracygass8479
    @tracygass8479 2 місяці тому +4

    Menunckey was the luckiest girl to be loved and cherished by the Holgate family!! The love she received in her last 24 hours is a testament to what absolutely beautiful people you and Bryan are. It’s time to heal and know your fans will be here as the family emerges stronger. I for one , love you guys to the moon and back and am so happy I stumbled upon your channel a year ago.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      So sweet. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @carlabergeron2171
    @carlabergeron2171 2 місяці тому +4

    Stephen.. my heart is broken in a million pieces for ya'll...you especially...me and menurky share the same birthday... I'm crying for you because i know the feeling...i lost my Pride and Joy in September...Hotfoot is still around..i actually hear him playing with his favorite toys .. God Bless you and your Family.. You are the glue that keeps ya'll together..Feel better Bryan and Kenzie you are a joy to watc😂h.. All cats go to Heaven...😢

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @flogittoyou
    @flogittoyou 2 місяці тому +4

    Sorry for your loss, but at least she was in your arms when she passed, she would have been feeling safe and feeling all the love from her famii;y surrounding her.

  • @shropshirelass264
    @shropshirelass264 2 місяці тому +13

    We shared many moments with your family. We share the good and tearful times. Sending you a hug from Shropshire x

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you so much. So glad to have you on here. Lots of love ❤️

  • @nickreed1367
    @nickreed1367 2 місяці тому +9

    I've never seen a loving cat that loves dogs as much as humans. Thats a testament to the character of Menunckey how she loved unconditionally and she learned from the Holgates how to do that no matter what race, color, creed, religion, sexual orientation. Thank you for sharing and documenting all of the memorable encounters to all of us in a way that makes us feel like we're a part of the family as well. I just can't describe the amount of sadness I feel right now as my heart is broken along with you. The tears are flowing heavily today and I want you all to know that i'll be thinking of you during this difficult time. RIP Menunckey, the amount of love and support you have spans the entire globe, but that still isn't enough love that you've shown to the Holgates and the world.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      So sweet. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nancydushay5744
    @nancydushay5744 2 місяці тому +11

    So sorry for your loss ……Our Pet are so important to us……She had a wonderful life with so much love….Take Care of yourself and those beautiful puppies……❤

  • @kathyanderson1509
    @kathyanderson1509 2 місяці тому +5

    Menunckey fall high sweet angel . Diddy ,dad & Kinzey my heart ❤ goes out to you .

  • @kellygooding9560
    @kellygooding9560 2 місяці тому +3

    Sorry for your loss, their not just pets. They are family, my thoughts are with you all.😢

  • @janefrick7154
    @janefrick7154 2 місяці тому +4

    My heart is broken for you guys, I know exactly how you feel. I lost my 17 year old dog. You had me crying through the whole video I could hardly see through the tears.💕

  • @Rainflower7494
    @Rainflower7494 2 місяці тому +9

    In 2019, we lost our precious kitty Lily. She was with us just shy of 18 years. Menunckey will always be in your heart and part of the little pretty crew.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ so so sorry for your loss too.

  • @helenahandbasket3016
    @helenahandbasket3016 2 місяці тому +5

    I'm so sorry. It's always hard to lose a family member and our fur babies are family the same as our humans. We love them all. Bless all of you. 😢❤

  • @kristinellis7654
    @kristinellis7654 2 місяці тому +3

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. Crying with you today. Our pets are our family. Heartbroken for you. ❤

  • @Chloe-hn8ge
    @Chloe-hn8ge 2 місяці тому +2

    just remember she isn't really gone her spirit lives on in your hearts. she knew it was her time to go and she didn't hesitate to hold on any longer she knew she did her part and she stuck with you as long as she could. she knew that she did everything she could and she knew she could leave and go to heaven and be with other cats in the fields. she will always be here no matter what

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      That means a lot to me. Thank you so much 😢❤️❤️💔💔

  • @janiceevans
    @janiceevans 2 місяці тому +3

    I can't watch it because I have lost too many fur babies as of late. Know I am crying and my heart goes out to all of you. May this next week bring you blessings and healing strength to create beautiful new memories in his honor.. he is with you. Trust me .

  • @suewalters9822
    @suewalters9822 2 місяці тому +5

    You have had your share of trials for sure! You're in our thoughts and wish you a better 2024 from now on. She had a beautiful cat life with you, you gave her the best life ever!! Be proud of that.

  • @HarmonyinColor
    @HarmonyinColor 2 місяці тому +7

    As a person who volunteers at cat rescue and loves fur babies and your videos, I am so sorry and sending you a big hug. I'm 120% sure Menunckey was the happiest cat to have you, Bryan, and Kenzie. Please take care of yourself as Menunckey is always with you🤍🤍🤍

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @caroldzialak9721
    @caroldzialak9721 2 місяці тому +3

    Oh my goodness 😢😢 Saddest video ever. I am so sorry for your family. I am sobbing for your family. Animals are such a huge part of our family. I am so incredibly sorry for your family’s loss. 😢😢❤

  • @sarahrex9127
    @sarahrex9127 2 місяці тому +6

    My heart. All my feels right now. It is an odd thing how you can have never met a family yet still empathize with their grief. 😢 hugs in advance

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому +5

      😔❤️❤️ you’re the best. I’m sitting with my heart pounding so nervous for this video to go up. Yesterday when I went to edit I thought I’d be ok because it’s been almost a month but it really re-traumatized me. Life can sure be rough sometimes.
      Sending you the biggest hug ❤️

    • @user-ll5eb9bu9w
      @user-ll5eb9bu9w 2 місяці тому +3

      I lots my dog three weeks go I am Stell up set about that . from Samantha from Watford Herts uk London

    • @countrygalgamer4478
      @countrygalgamer4478 2 місяці тому +2

      Sorry for your loss it's very hard loosing a family member, friends or pets. I've lost 3 chinchillas in the past year last one passed away 2 weeks ago. 😢

    • @sarahrex9127
      @sarahrex9127 2 місяці тому

      You are not expected to put on a happy face when the going gets tough. It never gets easier. We just find better ways to cope. I know that is not what you want for your viewers, but I am genuinely sad at this moment. Maybe it is because I have two orange tabbies or probably I simply care about you kind individuals. I bet Menunkey is on Bryans mom's lap at this moment. Nice work Kenzy with the cheer moves! I am glad no one is sick anymore. There is a balance in life. Good things are bound to be on their way. Maybe go buy a lottery ticket. More hugs
      ❤❤❤

    • @tikishannon
      @tikishannon 2 місяці тому

      Sending all of you a big hug. I’m so very sorry for your loss. I know this was so hard for you to film, but it is a beautiful tribute to a very much loved kitty. 😢❤

  • @TimButterbaugh
    @TimButterbaugh 2 місяці тому +13

    Such a loving and lovely tribute to share with us. If ever anyone questioned the impact our pets have on us and our families, they only need watch this video. Again, it was lovely. Thank you.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jinimcclelland
    @jinimcclelland 2 місяці тому +2

    Losing a pet - especially one who’ve you had for 15 years… is sometimes more emotional & painful than human family/friends b/c you’re with them more and quite frankly, pets are unconditional love. I’m so so sorry for your loss. This is heartbreaking. 💔 😢
    May Menunckey’s memory be a blessing to you all, Stephen, Bryan, & Kenzie.
    FWIW, I was hanging in there until you brought her home and Winnie & Copper loved on her. I started crying pretty heavily …and then I totally lost it with your screen shot of the announcement. We all share your grief.
    Love to your beautiful family.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @trishabaran1521
    @trishabaran1521 2 місяці тому +2

    I almost hated to hit the like button for this one 😢💔
    I’m thankful for one thing ( she came home , she said her goodbyes & passed away in her home & into the loving arms of her family . )😢💔

  • @andianderson9043
    @andianderson9043 2 місяці тому +2

    My heart broke for you all. I'm so sorry you are hurting so much. I cried my eyes out as I lost my 2 cats back to back and I know the pain to well. She will be pain free now running across the rainbow bridge and know how much she loved you all....so very very much❤️

  • @pattynoble3787
    @pattynoble3787 2 місяці тому +2

    My heart hurts so much for you all :(. I am so very sorry.

  • @user-mc8yf2rh3m
    @user-mc8yf2rh3m 2 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful girl Menunckey 😢 thinking of you all as I care for my 16yr old cavalier. ❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much 😢❤️❤️💔💔 hope your baby stays strong for so long

  • @monatraxel7752
    @monatraxel7752 2 місяці тому +4

    You are such a sweet Soul! Im so sorry about Menunky 😢💔🐈She knows how much you love her!
    💫🤍💫🤍💫🤍💫

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Aww thank you so much 💔😭❤️

  • @hannahwhitson7130
    @hannahwhitson7130 2 місяці тому +1

    The loss of a cat dog or any pet is horrible I have lost two cats and I still remember them to this day your kitty will always be in your heart and you will have fond memories love you guys i cried with you the look in her eyes she knew that you loved her

  • @PlsKpopMe
    @PlsKpopMe 2 місяці тому +3

    I am utterly shattered for you guys. Watching this took me back to last September when we lost our pug to lung cancer. She was 10 years old and our only pet.. I would gladly give a year of my life to have an extra year with her!! I'm so sorry for your loss.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ so sorry you’ve been thru it too.

  • @AngelatheHufflepuff
    @AngelatheHufflepuff 2 місяці тому +3

    My heart is so heavy right now for your family; humans and fur-friends. I know what that kind of loss feels like and I know what an absolute blessing it was to bring her home where she was comfortable, and loved, and surrounded by her family. Virtual hug to you all from somewhere near Lubbock, Texas. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🩷the color of my 🌈 is blue.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @elysel5040
    @elysel5040 2 місяці тому +5

    😢I’m so sorry for your loss. I cried with you this entire video.

  • @disneyLani
    @disneyLani 2 місяці тому +2

    So sorry for your loss. She will always be in your hearts😢We lost our 16 year old Terror in 2020 and my heart still aches.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ so sorry you went through it as well.

  • @katstevens8266
    @katstevens8266 2 місяці тому +1

    For United Caring Kindness !! Kindness Caring United Forever !! Painted on my Shoes 🦋❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much 😢❤️❤️💔💔

  • @sierraholbrook3284
    @sierraholbrook3284 2 місяці тому +6

    So sorry for your loss of Menunckey she is and always going to be a very beautiful and very special kitty.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @cathyaddison26
    @cathyaddison26 2 місяці тому +3

    Steven my hearts going out to you it's so hard for me to watch this I lost my dog and cat with in a year so praying for you lots of love from Arkansas ❤❤❤

  • @cherylcolgan3404
    @cherylcolgan3404 2 місяці тому +1

    So very sorry for your loss. We just lost our dog, who was 15 and still miss just having her presence by us. Prayers to you all through this difficult time. Our pets make our lives richer, and that is what makes it so hard to say goodbye.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much 😢💔❤️❤️❤️
      I am so sorry for your family’s loss as well

  • @Kmeaw86
    @Kmeaw86 2 місяці тому +3

    Sending so much love! Letting pets go over the rainbow bridge is so hard. Agree with you, anything with pets and children are some of the most difficult things to be tough for. Losing my childhood cat Margaret Flynn and a rescue kitten Chloe tore me up. Sending peace, love and hugs as you grieve. Menunckey will always be with you.

  • @nataliapetrulli418
    @nataliapetrulli418 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh my…. This video made me sob. Menunckey was so lucky to have such an amazing and loving family! She will be forever part of your hearts and waiting for you just across the 🌈 bridge. Sending lots of love and hugs! ❤️

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      You are so sweet 😭 Thank you so much 😢💔❤️❤️❤️

  • @christinedoody5409
    @christinedoody5409 2 місяці тому +3

    The love animals bring is so worth. It never gets easier but the love you have for her will never die. Sending love and sprinkling pixie dust for healing. Kitty was so loved and what more can we ask for than to be loved?

  • @potternerd84
    @potternerd84 2 місяці тому +2

    So sorry you lost your kitty. I've lost 2 dogs (family dogs when I still lived at home) and it never gets easier. 1 had liver cancer the other bad arthritis. Just know she's not in pain anymore. She lived a long beautiful life and that's the best gift you could of given her. I hope that brings you some comfort. ❤️

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Ralph-cc9xy
    @Ralph-cc9xy 2 місяці тому +2

    So sorry for your loss! I wish our pets could live as long as we do! Stephen I want you to know how much I appreciate you showing just how raw your pain is. Life isn't always happy for any of us and you being strong enough to show your pain and how you navigate through it helps many of us in ways you may never realize.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @traceyb3913
    @traceyb3913 2 місяці тому +2

    Sending your family all my love. Much love from NB 🇨🇦

  • @sandybernardo2998
    @sandybernardo2998 2 місяці тому +3

    I'm so, so sorry about your cat. I'm also in tears here. I also love animals and they are like your babies. Love you guys and keep us informed.❤❤❤😢😢😢

  • @paulamontgomery8457
    @paulamontgomery8457 2 місяці тому +2

    😢 I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful fur baby 🐈. Thinking of you all and sending love and hugs. Xxx

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @amyvaughan2661
    @amyvaughan2661 2 місяці тому

    We mourn with you. May Menunckeys memory be a blessing for always. ❤

  • @sharonwengler3225
    @sharonwengler3225 2 місяці тому +2

    Have not even watched the video yet and my heart is broken for you all and the loss of your beloved fur baby 😢

  • @user-jc5jo4qg8o
    @user-jc5jo4qg8o 2 місяці тому +1

    I’m crying, Love you guys and sending you prayers and love always! Know what it’s like to lose a beloved pet. 🙏💕🙏💕🙏💕🙏😞😢🌺🌸🌺

  • @InsatiableBankable37
    @InsatiableBankable37 2 місяці тому +2

    May you all be continued to be comforted in y'all's time of need; my heart and love goes out to y'all 🙏 ❤️ ✨️

  • @MichaelanneSpOiledMama
    @MichaelanneSpOiledMama 2 місяці тому +3

    So sorry for the loss of your fur baby. They are such a big part of the family. We had to have our kitty put down at 13 yrs due to urinary issues. She was definitely well loved in your family...loved watching her curled up with Copper and Winnie.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @angelaschaffner664
    @angelaschaffner664 2 місяці тому +3

    My deepest condolences Holgates rest in peace Menunkey💔

  • @kjb9911
    @kjb9911 2 місяці тому +3

    Oh my heart!! I am so sorry that you lost your lovely Menunckey!!! I balled like a baby through this whole video!! Totally get your tender heart for the innocent and helpless!!! You love your pets hard and when they leave this life they take a piece of you with them!! I just so love your sweet family!! My heart hurts for you and I am sending love and prayers your way!!!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lynnebenefiel5749
    @lynnebenefiel5749 2 місяці тому +1

    I am so so sorry, she was the luckiest kitty family member ever ❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much 😢❤️❤️💔💔

  • @charliebrogan7747
    @charliebrogan7747 2 місяці тому +1

    Stephen, I have watched this video 4 times, each time I do,I cry! Please know I’m thinking of you and the family.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Aw Thank you so much 😢💔❤️❤️❤️

  • @scarymarytv
    @scarymarytv 2 місяці тому +2

    Oh my sweet Holgates...
    I already had red on Instagram that you're beautiful little girl had crossed over to the Rainbow Bridge and I cried so much that night my boyfriend tried to console me as best as he could. It's funny because even though we don't know each other in person it has broken my heart into pieces that you had to say goodbye for now😢
    I do believe we will see our pets again someday and I am so thankful that even though it was heartbreaking you share the story because she is family and I know she's waiting on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge and I love you guys my boyfriend and I sent you a little condolence gift it really isn't much but we watch all your videos and we love you guys and care so much and love all your pets and I'm so sorry for your precious loss😢🌈🌈🌈🌈💔

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      You are so sweet. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @christineanderson3745
    @christineanderson3745 2 місяці тому +1

    I cried right along with you. ❤ The love you show makes you more lovable. Most of us have felt that pain, and you’re right. It’s worth it for the love you received.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      You are such a sweetheart. ❤️😭

  • @matildeg1635
    @matildeg1635 2 місяці тому +2

    Im so sorry to hear that you are having a horrible week 😢 Menunckey is in a better place now. Sending love and prayers ❤️

  • @julieannesimms981
    @julieannesimms981 2 місяці тому +1

    My heart is breaking for you I,m the same I can,t cope with it ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @likeatinglass
    @likeatinglass 2 місяці тому +1

    It took incredible strength to make this video, i cried as soon as it started. I relate closely to your pain of losing your “adult era” companion. Love you guys.
    Menunckey Forever. ❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️😢

  • @wendyhill1751
    @wendyhill1751 2 місяці тому +1

    My heart is breaking for you all

  • @mandydalton3867
    @mandydalton3867 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh I’m so sorry for you all, my heart is breaking for you. Thank you for sharing such a hard times with us, we are all sending you massive hugs, and please know our thoughts are with you. You are a wonderful, caring family ❤🌈xx

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @vimonty2807
    @vimonty2807 2 місяці тому +2

    I'm so sorry for your loss.😢 She was a very lucky kitty to have had all of you. She will live forever in our hearts. Be gentle with your hearts. Sending you my love.

  • @brendamiranda2347
    @brendamiranda2347 2 місяці тому +1

    So so sorry for your lost ,sending hugs .Now she is in heaven looking for all of you.🩷😘🌈

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      😭 Thank you so much 😢💔❤️❤️❤️

  • @SweetT-xh2ou
    @SweetT-xh2ou 2 місяці тому +1

    Whoo this hit my heart! I had my Seal Point Siamese Reily for 14 years he passed away Valentine’s Day 2018 from heart failure. When I say this cat was a part of my soul he was EVERYTHING! He would rest his paw on my wrist and alert when I was having takycardia episodes he saved my life through my hardest years. I held him and gave him all the kisses until he took his last breath I see any Siamese and I just want to sob I still love cats but they are not my Reily

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Aw I am so incredibly sorry that you went thru it as well. Just the worst. Thanks for your sweet comment. Sending so much love your way ❤️

  • @labelge327
    @labelge327 2 місяці тому +1

    We also have a kitty who acts more like a dog (plays fetch, sleeps on us, plays, is cuddly, not aloof, etc.). I was always fascinated how your Menunckey would lie down on or right next to your doggies. Many kitties will not do that. Losing a fur child is soooooo tough, especially when you have been through so many milestones with her. Her loyalty was very apparent in videos. There are no words, but just keep thinking about her & even looking at photos & videos of her as much as your heart desires..

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому +1

      Aww I love that 🥹 and thank you so much 💔😢❤️

  • @audradee13
    @audradee13 2 місяці тому +2

    My heart hugs your heart 💔 much love to you all 😢 I'm so sorry -- Audra
    from Richburg, SC

  • @charlakscott1256
    @charlakscott1256 2 місяці тому +2

    Omg.im so sorry ,I feel your pain.im so sorry

  • @anja6666
    @anja6666 2 місяці тому +2

    Ohhh no…so sorry…lots of love from Germany ❤

  • @iagodacrisanov5850
    @iagodacrisanov5850 2 місяці тому +2

    Love you all!!! Sorry four your loss 😢❤❤

  • @stephanierodriguez4139
    @stephanierodriguez4139 2 місяці тому +3

    Oh my goodness I cannot stop crying. Sending hugs to all of you. Thank you for allowing me to love your family and fur babies.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      You are so sweet. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kelliannawebb5738
    @kelliannawebb5738 2 місяці тому +2

    Your kitty was so very loved by all of you and then my the puppies too! Copper and Winnie were so loving on her. So know that she is in peace now and she had a long life. Hugs and much love. Know you guys have done such a wonderful job with all your pets. Best pet parents ever!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @MrsIzzy52
    @MrsIzzy52 2 місяці тому +1

    Sending our love from Scotland to you all 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much 😢💔❤️❤️❤️

  • @mashmello236
    @mashmello236 2 місяці тому +2

    I've been here for 2 years this loss is making me so sad
    So sorry for your loss❤❤

  • @gillianjohnston8570
    @gillianjohnston8570 2 місяці тому +1

    Heartbroken for you all, I'm in tears too. So many beautiful memories to last a lifetime, let those be your strength. Love to you all ❤😢

  • @stacyneuman8619
    @stacyneuman8619 2 місяці тому +1

    My sweet boy Tucker had incurable cancer and I had to put him down,I loved him beyond words and it broke my heart.This wasn’t to long ago and your crying made me cry.I can feel your pain and I’m so sorry for you.She will be waiting for you in Heaven.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому +1

      Aw so sorry you went thru it too. ❤️

  • @codiemorgan9648
    @codiemorgan9648 2 місяці тому +2

    Oh my goodness I am so sorry 😢 praying for y'all ❤ just remember all the great years you had with her and she isn't suffering anymore.

  • @ToriWoof
    @ToriWoof 2 місяці тому +1

    I’m so sorry about Menunkey but at least she’s not suffering anymore and you had her for almost 20 years and I’m so sorry Didi 😢

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much 😢💔❤️❤️❤️

  • @trishr2081
    @trishr2081 2 місяці тому +2

    My heart is breaking for you…..😢 I wish I could fix this but of course I can’t. Just know that I care so very much. ❤big warm hugs from Houston

  • @marthainsalaco9266
    @marthainsalaco9266 2 місяці тому +1

    I’m so incredibly sad to hear of your precious kitty passing away 😢What beautiful memories you all have of her❤ You provided her with the best life ever!! Big hugs to both

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @rhondapilgrim7082
    @rhondapilgrim7082 2 місяці тому +1

    Holgates, my arms are wrapped around all of you and I'm hugging you with everything I've got.😢😢

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      You are so sweet 😭 Thank you so much 😢❤️❤️💔💔

  • @jamiecus03
    @jamiecus03 2 місяці тому +2

    💙🫶 hugs to all of you. Thank you for sharing even when you all are in so much pain and sadness. So sweet how Copper and Winnie ran to Menunckey and kissed her hello. All the pics of her were so cute. 🫶🐈💙💙

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sallycollins7910
    @sallycollins7910 2 місяці тому +1

    I have literally been sitting here trying to think of something to say, but there isn't anything else that needs to be said that hasn't been already! How lucky were you all to have Menunckey for so long, sending you all the biggest hug at this time! ❤‍🩹❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому +1

      You are so sweet. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dottyauriemmo400
    @dottyauriemmo400 2 місяці тому +1

    My heart breaks for all of you. We lost our two best friends three years ago and not a day goes by we don’t think of how them. They were our everything. God picked the right family for Menunckey. She was loved and cherished for fifteen years. I know we don’t quite understand why they have to leave us but the happy memories will always be there. Winnie and Copper are so lucky to have you guys! Love you ❤️

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      I am so sorry you’ve been thru it too… just the worst. And Thank you so much 😢❤️❤️💔💔 love ya

  • @lauraj8483
    @lauraj8483 2 місяці тому +1

    We started watching you because you took the same cruise around the same time as I’m taking next year. We’ve stayed because your family just exudes love and positivity. Having just lost our three-legged, sixteen year old Miss Kitty my heart breaks for all of you.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому +1

      I am so sorry for your loss 💔 sending you guys so much love 😢

  • @lesliebell10
    @lesliebell10 2 місяці тому +1

    I had tears falling through the entire video but completely lost it when you brought Menunckey home and the dogs were so happy to see her. I'm so sorry you lost her! She was so well loved by both her human and dog family. She will be deeply missed!

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому +1

      😭❤️❤️
      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jennybaber3563
    @jennybaber3563 2 місяці тому +1

    Love to all of you...What a beautiful tribute to your precious Menunckey.

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much 😢❤️❤️💔💔

  • @Banyo__
    @Banyo__ 2 місяці тому +2

    My heart is seizing up because I've never had a dog or cat in my life because my parents never wanted one, and where I live now doesn't allow them, so I've always been Tia, to all my friends and families pets. In 2023, my best friend called me to tell me our beloved dog had passed away suddenly with zero warning. She just came out to the yard and found him dead, and then my brother's dog died a month later. On top of all of that both my dad and uncle found out they had the same cancer within six months of each other, so when it rains, IT POURS! As hard as it all is, it just teaches us what love is, to be loved, to give love, who is important to us in life, and how to cherish the ones we have left. RIP to your dear sweet kitty. She will live on in your heart forever.

    • @disneygirl884
      @disneygirl884 2 місяці тому +1

      So sorry that you`re going through all that. Beautiful words

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ so sorry for the things you have been through recently. Hugs

    • @Banyo__
      @Banyo__ 2 місяці тому

      @@TheHolgates thank you.

    • @Banyo__
      @Banyo__ 2 місяці тому

      @@disneygirl884 thank you.

  • @kareninavasquez8037
    @kareninavasquez8037 2 місяці тому +2

    We are soooooo sorry for your loss. We really appreciate you sharing this week and keep us included on such a tough week! You all inspire me to be sooooo Grateful bc you all really go through it 😔 When DD said “I wish I could take all the pain from my family & take it myself” 😭 You really are 1 in a Billion’ 😭

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ you are so sweet.

  • @traceycullen840
    @traceycullen840 2 місяці тому +1

    So sorry for your loss she was one of a kind she will be with you always ❤ Diddy, Dad and Kenzie.
    Menanuckey will always be with you l felt the same way you do when l lost both Cairo my cat and my Mom's Ed.

    • @traceycullen840
      @traceycullen840 2 місяці тому

      Don't be surprised if you hear her meow without having a video on it is her way of telling she is alright and watching over you Diddy

  • @user-qu6nj5ij9g
    @user-qu6nj5ij9g 2 місяці тому +1

    Sitting here crying with you Stephen. So sorry for your loss. Sending so much love to you and your precious family. From the Uk ❤

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      You are so sweet… Thank you so much 😢❤️❤️💔💔

  • @melissalampkin9576
    @melissalampkin9576 2 місяці тому +3

    My love and support for your family

  • @andreaarmstrong7543
    @andreaarmstrong7543 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh my, I was in tears when I finished watching. Your family has certainly had a horrible week. But seeing how committed you all were to each other in dreadful times is so lovely. This is a true testament to you all, and what an amazing way you demonstrated your love for Menunckey. I just wanted to wrap my arms around you, Stephen. Menunckey is here in spirit and will always be with you. My heart was sad for you. Sending all my love from NZ💗💙💚

    • @TheHolgates
      @TheHolgates  2 місяці тому

      You are so sweet. Thank you so much 😢💔❤️❤️❤️