Son don't broken hearts okay alot people they don't have baby is okay look like my brother in -law and my daughter never have babies they said okay. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😢😢😢
Neeg ce thaum ua no tag lawm paub saab thiab muaj kev hlub rau tus tos lawm ne. Xyov lau yom. ua saab loj thiab mloog kj cov brothers lawv telling you 👌🏻 😮
Neb tsis cog lus Leej twg ntxeev siab thov kom npam no mas nws thiaj ntshai tab sis txhob tu siab yuav npam nws ib hnub twg xwb mog hos Koj ces yeej yuav tau txais txoj kev zoo xwb os tij laug 😭😭
This is what they call trying to get/have what’s not yours. One thing about hmoob folks though, pressuring people on when knowingly they can’t can’t conceive. Pressure them like if that couple’s conceiving will add lives to them folks.
I’m sorry you had to go through this. It must’ve been so hard. Only people who struggle with infertility can understand the longing for their own children and what they are willing to do.
Poor guy brother I feel your pain and give you props for such a strength of restraint because of it's me ob tug ntawv ces nyob hauv qab nyom lawm xwb. But koj kuj yog npwb zog lawm thiab tej zaum koj muaj kev npam last lifetime
Brother don’t feel bad not just you can not have kids. Do not worry things go around come around I hope one day you’ll hear about her story Go find medication help you to have kids
There’s plenty of fish in the sea!! Some women don’t want kids and are divorced because they either don’t want any, or can’t have them. Maybe this was a blessing in disguise. Either way, I truly hope you find your happiness someday!
Brother… I truly feel your pain. It must be so devastating for you… I want to tell you … not everyone has it good forever… for now, your wife and friend may seem to have it all.. the beautiful kids, your money, your home, your life the way it used to be… but everyone goes through hard times in life… you may have initiated this problem but you had the best of intentions only… one day I know your wife will look back on this situation and regretted her decision to leave you… if you have not abuse her or treated her badly, she will regret for sure. For now, just focus on getting your life back together. Forgive those two so you can start to heal. You cannot move forward with your life holding all the anger and self pity inside… doing so will be like driving forward looking at the rear view mirror only. In addition, I know having kids are a blessing that we all want, but truly… kids are not the only blessing you can have in life… there are so much in this world to see or do that does not involve having kids… life isn’t over just because you can’t have children of your own. Don’t focus on the door that closed… look for another door that you can open, and enjoy that adventure…. Be strong, have hope, and God bless you.
Your brother gave you good advice already. Accept the fact and move on. You could not have known your wife and your cousin would betray you. Don’t trust people so easily. You’re a good man and there are good women with children already who would want to be with you and love you. may God bless you.
This is why you go to Dr. For sperm donor, no string attach and feeling involved. Once you let your wife sleep with your best friend, they already develops feeling for each other.
You know uncle, when you sit down and really think about it is not as bad. You love your wife (ex-wife) and willing to do whatever it takes to make her happy. In the end she's happy at the cost of your happiness.. Take this as your payment for the wrong you did in the previous life like the elder said. May Heaven bless you so in another time and another place you will have children of your own.
??? So, the notarized agreement was to keep the ordeal a secret, yet it was leaked by the ex. Doesn't that mean she should receive some kind of retribution???
No such thing as a free lunch. You should've done this officially with lawyers and drs rather than think you'll get a freeby. How can you let your wife go intimate with a sperm donor. Geez....omg!
A father is someone who takes care the children. Just because he’s biological doesn’t mean he’s a better father. One day she will realize that she made a mistake. Move on with your life and be happy.
Brother, first...you need to admit that you made a mistake. If you choose a father donor, you gotta choose someone outside that you don't even know and have the doctor complete the procedure. Never give your spouse permission to sleep with other people unless if she wants to do it herself. If she wants to sleep with other people, just let her go and divorce her. Do learn that...when you are desperate, you will make mistake. Do don't ever make a desperate decision/action again. Finally, just be happy that you've found a way to make your ex wife happy and that the ex had found her happiness. So you just be happy for her because ultimately you cannot give her what she wants. Now....what is the future for you? If you want kids in your life, remarried to someone who is a widow because kids who don't have an alive father are likely to love you more. This is when you also love them. Otherwise, if you marry a single lady....again choose an anonymous father donor and if this happens, you gotta love the kid like your own. Otherwise, just be single forever. It's ok to be single. Anyway, so cheer up. Move on, live your life, let go of what isn't yours.
Brother, you already know about your feelings but you still go through with the fertility, it's your own fault, but it's ok its not the end of the world ,life must move on,continue with your life there's always another good person out there for someone...not many people would do what you do but i think you did it out of kind heart...i see some people out there that they dont have no children, but married to the other partner that have children and their step children love do love them alot...
Well if someone really loves you from the bottom of her or his heart. Children are not the problems. Everyone will be the same in heaven. Christ is the end of the law. Mankind always go against the creator's law.
Ua Cas hauv lub ntiaj teb no cov pluag pluag twb yuav tuag , ais ho muaj ib Co ho muaj muaj nyiaj muaj ciaj muaj tuag mus ua tau tej niag tsev loj cuag lub hauv roob rau neeg saib Kom neeg ntiaj teb ghuas nws , ais Cas lawv ho tsis muab lawv tej nyiaj uas ua tsev luaj tej lub roob ntawd Los faib pub rau neeg sawv daws Kom txhob muaj neeg pluag li os ? Neeg ntiaj teb Mas phem kawg li yod ?
It's sad that you and your ex-wife couldn't have babies, but it is your fault for pushing her onto your friend, so don't be upset that they got together because those are his kids, after all. Should've just adopted! Don't beat yourself up, though. There are divorcees or widows who have kids that you may be able to raise.
Brother don't feel regret for your past life.she is not your spouse you can start a new life your true wife still wait for you. I have a sister she is 21 years old she has 3 girls if you don't mind can you contact my sister? She's very nice but her husband do drugs so he divorced my sister already. Her last name is yang.
Sorry brother for what you are going through. Yes, it was your mistake for allowing them both to sleep together. If she really love you, she would have suggested another way besides sleeping with your friend. And your friend just used you because you were desperate for a child or two. Wish you the best and may you find someone that will love and respect you. Good luck!
I feel sorry for you brother, The moment you allow your wife to sleep with another guy she will not love you anymore and will not stop sleeping with that guy.
It's ok. We all make mistakes and we learn. Maybe she was never meant to be yours. Your friend there couldn't hold a stable life before your wife. So maybe she is suppose to be his. Things happen in life for a reason. Sometimes it doesn't go our way, but don't lose hope. Don't lose yourself. Find your own happiness. 😊
He had eyes for your wife already, that's why he sacrificed himself. Hahah! Umm. You have a big heart to let another man sleep with your wife. She is very lucky to have two men at the same time. Well, lesson learned for you. Be smarter next time.
Sorry things didn’t work out for you. You did what you did because you have a kind heart and people took advantage of your kindness. You trusted others because you think they have a good heart like you. But now we all know we can’t trust anyone. Hopefully this bad experience will help you to make better decisions in the future. Remember to NEVER share your spouse and secrets with ANYONE. Wishing you the best in the future.
Sorry, your marriage did not build in a strong and solid foundation. If your marriage have a strong foundation, you two would not walk in this pathway (not healthy and normal). To the husband: This is the most stupidest thing I have ever heard in my life. Very poor decision from your end! To the wife: Don’t ever disrespect yourself/your body and your marriage…to have children.
U make big mistakes when u r too desperate. It's ok. Being on earth is temporary so nothing is worth fighting too much for. Move on to what accepts you.
thank you for sharing ur story i hope u find love
I hope so too
So sorry for what happens you. My heart go out to you.
Koj tsis muaj qau thiab tim koj ua ntej yus muab poj niam rau lawv tsoob thaum kawg thiaj zoo nyob tas npaum li Amem
Vim ruam dlau lawm.
All Hmong men have to learn the lesson of their story. Thanks for sharing.
Wow, just do what your brother lecture you. Best of luck to you.
Son don't broken hearts okay alot people they don't have baby is okay look like my brother in -law and my daughter never have babies they said okay. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😢😢😢
Txhob tu siab os brother aw
Neeg ce thaum ua no tag lawm paub saab thiab muaj kev hlub rau tus tos lawm ne. Xyov lau yom. ua saab loj thiab mloog kj cov brothers lawv telling you 👌🏻 😮
Tus kwv tij ko ce tuag zoo dua os
Koj txoj hmoov tsis zoo los lub ntuj yuav ua tus txiav txim rau koj os mog kav tsij tos saib ntuj nyob qis2 li
😢😢😢
Zoo li ko ces mus nplog teb es mus ndhiav tshuaj kuab tau nyhuv tiaj ki pab tau koj xw os kwv tij
Life moves on. Time will heal.
Neb tsis cog lus Leej twg ntxeev siab thov kom npam no mas nws thiaj ntshai tab sis txhob tu siab yuav npam nws ib hnub twg xwb mog hos Koj ces yeej yuav tau txais txoj kev zoo xwb os tij laug 😭😭
Txhob tu siab os tus txiv tsev kev npam kev khaum yeej yuav raws cuag rau koj niag qub poj niam thiab koj niag phoojywg ntxeev siab ntawv os. Ua siab loj maj mam mus nrhiav kom tau ib tug hlub koj tiag xwb mog.
This is what they call trying to get/have what’s not yours.
One thing about hmoob folks though, pressuring people on when knowingly they can’t can’t conceive. Pressure them like if that couple’s conceiving will add lives to them folks.
Yog zoo li ko ces mus haus tshuaj ntxuav nyiaj thiaj pab tau koj
They should've gone to the sperm donor. It's Confidential and no one will ever know.
I’m sorry you had to go through this. It must’ve been so hard. Only people who struggle with infertility can understand the longing for their own children and what they are willing to do.
Should have ask me. I'll do it for FREE and will NEVER take your old lady from you😂.
Poor guy brother I feel your pain and give you props for such a strength of restraint because of it's me ob tug ntawv ces nyob hauv qab nyom lawm xwb. But koj kuj yog npwb zog lawm thiab tej zaum koj muaj kev npam last lifetime
All I can say is “🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️!”
Brother don’t feel bad not just you can not have kids.
Do not worry things go around come around
I hope one day you’ll hear about her story
Go find medication help you to have kids
Hi Nancy leeg twg yog tus hu txoj mai Es thov qhia tus hu zajnkauj no rau kuv 0s ......❤
Tus hu Yog Lis Toj. Twb nyob ntawm daim duab ne.
Good lesson for all man do not believe all wife
There’s plenty of fish in the sea!! Some women don’t want kids and are divorced because they either don’t want any, or can’t have them. Maybe this was a blessing in disguise. Either way, I truly hope you find your happiness someday!
😢😢that's sounds like my husband talking to my sons 😮😮😮 now my oldest son don't have kids but they loved each other and that's good enough ❤❤❤❤
Common sense life lesson: Never gamble your wife/husband!
Brother… I truly feel your pain. It must be so devastating for you… I want to tell you … not everyone has it good forever… for now, your wife and friend may seem to have it all.. the beautiful kids, your money, your home, your life the way it used to be… but everyone goes through hard times in life… you may have initiated this problem but you had the best of intentions only… one day I know your wife will look back on this situation and regretted her decision to leave you… if you have not abuse her or treated her badly, she will regret for sure.
For now, just focus on getting your life back together. Forgive those two so you can start to heal. You cannot move forward with your life holding all the anger and self pity inside… doing so will be like driving forward looking at the rear view mirror only.
In addition, I know having kids are a blessing that we all want, but truly… kids are not the only blessing you can have in life… there are so much in this world to see or do that does not involve having kids… life isn’t over just because you can’t have children of your own. Don’t focus on the door that closed… look for another door that you can open, and enjoy that adventure…. Be strong, have hope, and God bless you.
Neeg tsuam Los Cas kam muab poj niam tsau lawd tsuav ntsuag ces neej puag
❤brother don’t waste your for her she doesn’t love you if you don’t mind someone like me still waiting for you
I’m not even done with the story but I just got to say this, “ El Stupido”
Agreed!
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Lol 😂😂
Lol. I’m just starting
Wog!!! Yeej muaj tib neeg ruam npaum nov? And a US born citizen? I cannot 😂😂😂
Ua cas tiam no es cos txiv neej tsis qoos yuav muaj coob uas luaj li lawm nes. Ntshe ntuj tig ko diav rau pom niam lawm los yog li cas os
Poj niam ais muab rau lawv ua dawb xwb cais ua tsawg hmo Los lawv Kam kawg , tab sis thaum lawv ua ua lawm cais poj niam paub ghov zoo zoo lawm cais nws tsis yuav koj lawd vim lawv khoom hnyav dua koj ais thiaj muaj taus me nyuam laiv !
This story makes my husband so angry and can't finish it 😂
Your brother gave you good advice already. Accept the fact and move on. You could not have known your wife and your cousin would betray you. Don’t trust people so easily. You’re a good man and there are good women with children already who would want to be with you and love you. may God bless you.
Vim tej teeb meem zoo li no es neeg thiaj pheej sib tua los ma
Yuav txiv yau kiag xwb vim thawm poj niam tsis muaj me nyuam txiv neej twb yuav niam yau ne.
This is why you go to Dr. For sperm donor, no string attach and feeling involved. Once you let your wife sleep with your best friend, they already develops feeling for each other.
You know uncle, when you sit down and really think about it is not as bad. You love your wife (ex-wife) and willing to do whatever it takes to make her happy. In the end she's happy at the cost of your happiness.. Take this as your payment for the wrong you did in the previous life like the elder said. May Heaven bless you so in another time and another place you will have children of your own.
Did the song say.. Microwave don't act black hearted?😂😂😂😂
??? So, the notarized agreement was to keep the ordeal a secret, yet it was leaked by the ex. Doesn't that mean she should receive some kind of retribution???
Brother, at this point, you just have to love yourself. Only time will heal. Life goes on... take care. Thanks for sharing.
Ntuj aw....yog li ko ces tsis txhob chim os. Qi muag nti ua neeg nyob xwb mas.
No such thing as a free lunch. You should've done this officially with lawyers and drs rather than think you'll get a freeby. How can you let your wife go intimate with a sperm donor. Geez....omg!
I feel bad for you brother. Soon er or later your wife will move on. Time will heal you. Do feel bad you did your best for her.
Sorry that happen to you brother. Hope you find a good wife who will love til 120 years.
Muaj cov txiv neej ruam npaum no thiab 😂
A father is someone who takes care the children. Just because he’s biological doesn’t mean he’s a better father. One day she will realize that she made a mistake. Move on with your life and be happy.
Amem !!!!
Nej kawm ntawv siab tabsis nej tsis tau kawm txog poj niam thiab txiv neej thiab nej tsis tau kawm txog tib neeg lub neej.
😮😮😮😢😢sadly for u dude you should have done it differently but it is what it is.....what is done is done can't do anything
🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Brother, first...you need to admit that you made a mistake. If you choose a father donor, you gotta choose someone outside that you don't even know and have the doctor complete the procedure. Never give your spouse permission to sleep with other people unless if she wants to do it herself. If she wants to sleep with other people, just let her go and divorce her. Do learn that...when you are desperate, you will make mistake. Do don't ever make a desperate decision/action again. Finally, just be happy that you've found a way to make your ex wife happy and that the ex had found her happiness. So you just be happy for her because ultimately you cannot give her what she wants. Now....what is the future for you? If you want kids in your life, remarried to someone who is a widow because kids who don't have an alive father are likely to love you more. This is when you also love them. Otherwise, if you marry a single lady....again choose an anonymous father donor and if this happens, you gotta love the kid like your own. Otherwise, just be single forever. It's ok to be single. Anyway, so cheer up. Move on, live your life, let go of what isn't yours.
Brother, you already know about your feelings but you still go through with the fertility, it's your own fault, but it's ok its not the end of the world ,life must move on,continue with your life there's always another good person out there for someone...not many people would do what you do but i think you did it out of kind heart...i see some people out there that they dont have no children, but married to the other partner that have children and their step children love do love them alot...
That's ok brother. Just don't kill yourself. The old car run not good give to junk buy new one ok.
No words for you dude. Lesson learn for you.
Anyways, I love the song. bring be back to the 90s. I always though he said microwave as a kid.
hahaha tso taw rau pojniam kom muaj menyuam txog thaum kawg yus neej kaub huam, yus tso poj niam deev txiv neej ces thaum kawg luag tso yus nyob yus tus kheej, uncle uncle ces luag niaj hnub niaj hmoov tsoob yus poj niam paum.
You should just adopt and never let your wife sleep with him.
Im only half way in the story where the wife is about to go to the hotel with his best friend and i already know how this story is going to end smh
It's okay. Let her go, and let Karma do the rest.
You don't have to pay child support lol😮
Have faith that karma will come in full circle for your ex and your cousin for betraying you and taking all that you had.
Regardless never let your wife sleep just to have babies…
The title should be changed to "stupidity loss it all!"
Well if someone really loves you from the bottom of her or his heart. Children are not the problems. Everyone will be the same in heaven. Christ is the end of the law. Mankind always go against the creator's law.
Ua Cas hauv lub ntiaj teb no cov pluag pluag twb yuav tuag , ais ho muaj ib Co ho muaj muaj nyiaj muaj ciaj muaj tuag mus ua tau tej niag tsev loj cuag lub hauv roob rau neeg saib Kom neeg ntiaj teb ghuas nws , ais Cas lawv ho tsis muab lawv tej nyiaj uas ua tsev luaj tej lub roob ntawd Los faib pub rau neeg sawv daws Kom txhob muaj neeg pluag li os ? Neeg ntiaj teb Mas phem kawg li yod ?
It's sad that you and your ex-wife couldn't have babies, but it is your fault for pushing her onto your friend, so don't be upset that they got together because those are his kids, after all. Should've just adopted! Don't beat yourself up, though. There are divorcees or widows who have kids that you may be able to raise.
Tim yus ruam thaum pib, thaum kawg yus thiaj yuav dai tuag……….
Should like the other couple who, the husband met another woman n they both cannot have kids. They love each other n live life to the fullest.
Brother don't feel regret for your past life.she is not your spouse you can start a new life your true wife still wait for you. I have a sister she is 21 years old she has 3 girls if you don't mind can you contact my sister? She's very nice but her husband do drugs so he divorced my sister already. Her last name is yang.
Sorry brother. A lesson learned. Stop mopping around, pick yourself up, and move on. You were too nice...be sharper next time.
Karma will catch up to your cousin for betrayed you.
Sorry brother for what you are going through. Yes, it was your mistake for allowing them both to sleep together. If she really love you, she would have suggested another way besides sleeping with your friend. And your friend just used you because you were desperate for a child or two. Wish you the best and may you find someone that will love and respect you. Good luck!
Ua li neb ua Mas lawv tias tso taw ib yam li tej tsiaj . Koj poj niam yuav txiv hlob txiv you xwb , nws tau 2 rab phom luv lawd ! Koj poob peev lawm ,
If it was the other way around, you'd have married a niam yau and left your first wife in the dust. What can I say? It is what it is.
I feel sorry for you brother, The moment you allow your wife to sleep with another guy she will not love you anymore and will not stop sleeping with that guy.
That's hard to listen to your story. What's been done let it past and live a new life.
Wrong ideas to let your wife sleep with anyone. Especially about body pleasure
It's ok. We all make mistakes and we learn. Maybe she was never meant to be yours. Your friend there couldn't hold a stable life before your wife. So maybe she is suppose to be his. Things happen in life for a reason. Sometimes it doesn't go our way, but don't lose hope. Don't lose yourself. Find your own happiness. 😊
He had eyes for your wife already, that's why he sacrificed himself. Hahah! Umm. You have a big heart to let another man sleep with your wife. She is very lucky to have two men at the same time. Well, lesson learned for you. Be smarter next time.
OMG red flag already when he wants to do with your wife
Sorry things didn’t work out for you. You did what you did because you have a kind heart and people took advantage of your kindness. You trusted others because you think they have a good heart like you. But now we all know we can’t trust anyone. Hopefully this bad experience will help you to make better decisions in the future. Remember to NEVER share your spouse and secrets with ANYONE. Wishing you the best in the future.
I listened to the part about the friend 's swimmers and I had to stop listening.
Mr. You are a good man, just move on!
Your ex-wife’s new relationship will not last because he’s a looser.
Never trust the friend. Never trust his wife
Sorry, your marriage did not build in a strong and solid foundation. If your marriage have a strong foundation, you two would not walk in this pathway (not healthy and normal).
To the husband: This is the most stupidest thing I have ever heard in my life. Very poor decision from your end!
To the wife: Don’t ever disrespect yourself/your body and your marriage…to have children.
You are very ruam2 I’m sorry you put your self in that spot . SMH 🤦♂️
This guy not thinking right in the head.
Ua siab loj os thaub yog yus txoj hmoo os
U make big mistakes when u r too desperate. It's ok. Being on earth is temporary so nothing is worth fighting too much for. Move on to what accepts you.
Thaub aw koj ruam dhau lawm os
Koj ruam dhau lawm os thaub es
What can I say, ruam tshaj ruam......
El stupid idea..😂
If roles were to be reversed, you wouldn't be with your wife anymore either. Should have just used a syringe.
You made the mistake just by having the thought and messed up when you made it happen. You’re educated but not wise.
Lmao talk about child support..the kids are not even his why even say child support. He juz a father to them. It's not even his biological kids...
Nyob zoo koj os tuj niam tais zoo nkauj