“Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give, but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.” I read this awhile ago and it brought me to tears. Let yourself feel the grief and the love, it won’t ever go away but one day I hope you are able to feel that love over the sadness.
I lost my dad unexpectedly 2.5 years ago. And to the person who asked for advice on that all I can tell you is give it time. I can’t say that time will heal because there are moments when my grief today feels just as raw and painful as it did in April 2019 when I found out he was gone. But I can tell you that those moments are less frequent over time and you will think of him and feel that pain less and less often. Everybody grieves differently so like Kelly said give yourself grace and let yourself feel the feelings without judgement. Know that this horrible weight you feel in your chest will lessen and you will find joy again. I can’t say there will be a day when you won’t ever feel pain, because in my experience, there hasn’t been. Even writing this now I feel the sadness of losing my dad again-but you will be able to get past it and live life as normal. Life goes on. This is what we are built for as humans. It is the human experience to find, to love, and to lose. You are made to experience these things, as horrible as they are, and you will get through it. Find joy in the good memories, but also, it’s okay to be sad that there’s only memories left. I hope I helped in some way.
I also lost my dad 2 years ago and I still have some bad days but they are good days too. Idk if I will ever have just good days (I thought it) but I’m trying to move on and make him proud.
Losing my mum was one of the most devastating losses I've ever been through. We had a tight family. So even though we were adults our parents were our friends as well. And I think there is a bit of a sense of security knowing your parents are still there. Even if you don't depend on them much, but when you know they are gone. At first it can a while to hit you cause it can seem so surreal. And you realize the things you can no longer enjoy with them and questions only they would have answers to. Spend as much time with them as you can before they are gone. Take some time to think about them, especially the good times. I still have times when I get frustrated because I feel my mum was taken too early. Make sure you let the people you love know that you love them or care about them. Sometimes you will have dreams of them and they will make absolutely no sense, but at least it kinda feels like you got to see them again if only for a few moments.
Regarding grief, you are spot-on about allowing ourselves grace and time to grieve and vent, etc. My favorite quote after my dad passed is: "How lucky am I to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard." A.A. Milne
Just gonna drop this here as a very personal note to thank you. I lost both of my parents very unexpectedly(they were both under sixty and in great health at the start of the year) right before your loss. It's been so much, but your videos have been both a reprieve from the pain, and relatable in the worst of it. I can't begin to express how much I appreciate that.
I’m sorry about your loss, my dad passed away in 2020 and 3 months later my fiancé died. There’s no right way to grieve I think.I miss them everyday and it takes so long to adjust to life without them, I keep going. I have put my faith in God and that has helped me get through the worst of the worst. You’re gorgeous and life is short to have all the answers.
Advice for those who are grieving: My dad died suddenly and unexpectedly in 1988 when i was 15. My dad was my best friend when i was little, and he was an incredible role model for me, and it hurts my heart that he never got to meet my husband and my children. They say time heals all wounds, which is true, however the scars will always be there. BUT...one thing that helps me in those times of sadness and missing him is focusing on the good memories. I remind myself that it is only because we were so close and had such a good relationship that i miss him so terribly; it is because our bond was so tight that it hurts so much. I know he has never left me, and i know he was there the day i graduated high school, the day i got married, when each of my kids was born, and even daily. Allow yourself to feel all the things, and honor the emotions, but don't stay stuck there. We Greeks have a saying, "May his/her/their memory be eternal." I am actually glad to still miss him so much, because forgetting him would be far worse. Big hugs to all who are suffering, and i hope this helps. 🖤
Introversion/Extroversion is on a spectrum, and you can fluctuate between the two depending on where you fall, plus there is something called "Free Trait Theory" which says you can transcend your temperament for things you are passionate about (e.g. be an extreme introvert but be passionate about acting and do theatre). Introversion/Extroversion has more to do with energy than shyness vs. gregariousness. Introverts gets depleted by people and must be alone to recharge, while extroverts recharge by feeding off the energy of other people. They get depleted by being alone. Also, it has to do with stimuli and superficial (for lack of a better word) vs. deep. Introverts get overwhelmed by a lot of stimuli (noise, people, etc.) while extroverts revel in it and introverts hate superficial things, like small talk and prefer deep talk, while an extrovert loves to be surrounded by groups of people chatting and laughing about anything and everything. That's a very basic overview.
For some, grief is linear, but to me, grief is circular. It’s ups and down, good and bad days. There are days when it hits you like a toms of bricks. The intensity lessens over time , you also learn to cope a bit better with time. Learning how you deal with grief/loss is a journey to each their own. It’s been 20 years, and I have forgotten what my mom voice sound like, but will never forget her smile and her warmth. ❤️
David Kessler has some amazing work regarding grief, including some videos on UA-cam. The most important takeaway I've gotten from him is that the pain you feel in grief is really just love that you feel for that person who is gone from you. We'd never want to stop ourselves from feeling love, so we need to allow ourselves to feel grief. My heart is with everyone going through the process of loss.
It’s been 7 years since I lost my favorite person in the whole world. It gets a lot better. Now instead of feeling sadness I just feel a great amount of love for that person and determination to keep the persons memory alive. Advice I have is to do rituals, doing something in their honor, and talking about your favorite memories with someone who also loved that person. You’ve got this Kelly! ❤️
I lost my dad suddenly when I was 16- so i’ve been thinking about you and keeping you in my heart and prayers. It’s easier but still hard (i’m 35 now) but I just want to tell you and the girl asking and anyone else -- it’s ok to cry or be angry when you need, to ask for help, to do less sometimes…. but that there will be joy and healing in time. Celebrate the things you love, and don’t beat yourself up for not “doing better” because it stays hard for a long time and that’s ok. So so so much love and condolences to you.
I lost my father suddenly when I was 30. I am now 59, and it was extremely difficult. Because this happened at a young age for me, I didn't feel like my friends could relate to it, so I didn't talk about it much at all. But your quote will work well for you, as it just a very hard thing to go through, and there isn't an easy way to do it. My therapist described it like this: when we lose a loved one, it's like we have a deep cut that is quite painful. It will eventually heal and become a permanent bruise. Every once and a while, you will hit that bruise and the pain will come back but just for a short time. This analogy helped me so much~❤️
I lost my mom in 2014 and it's one of the hardest things I've gone through. I still vividly remember the day I was accepted to grad school, I was sitting with my then bf and I showed him the acceptance and said "omg I need to call my mom" and then broke down crying. I sometimes think of all the things she'd be proud of me for that she won't be able to witness and all the things I'd want to tell her. She was absolutely my best friend. My advice is also to talk about it often to keep their memory alive with you and I personally love to write my mom letters and keep them all in a notebook. I know a lot of people say it gets easier but I don't think it does, I think it just gets more normal to us. My heart breaks for you, Kelly, and for anybody else who is grieving
Sorry for your loss, it takes at lot of time for your heart to start to heal. I lost my mom seven years ago and still feel her absence. Just put one foot in front of the other. Much love and light
A good way to start talking to others about grief is to start by telling stories of who you lost. It lets you remember them or that other person to remember or experience a glimpse of them. It’s much easier to then say you miss them and to talk about it. I’ve learned in grief to feel it in that moment. Whatever the feeling is acknowledge it and feel it. It may last a moment or the whole day, but the feeling won’t last forever. Remember who you lost. Talk about them. Enjoy what you had. Miss them in the present. Laugh at things they probably would have said or reacted. Honor them as a whole person by remembering the good and the bad. Grief is complex and long. It’s the sign of deep love for them. It doesn’t make it less painful, but it’s something to remember. A quote I heard about someone grieving, “Suffer; they were worth it.”
Glad to hear you’re doing well in NY. Also glad you get to go visit your mom to celebrate your dad. I lost my dad almost a year ago so I can definitely say give yourself time and grace as you said. I’m slowly being able to remember the good memories without just thinking about the fact he’s gone. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us. I like these videos where we learn a little more about you ❤️
I had my first pumpkin creme cold brew today..I'm so excited for fall. I started doing therapy last year it has helped and can make you think about things you never thought about. ( most jobs offer eap and give you free sessions it really helps) I'm so grateful that mental health and therapy is talked about more now.
I know when I moved to a different state, I broke out horribly! Come to find out the shower water was much harder than I had previously experienced. I got a shower head filter (sprite brand) from Home Depot and it improved my hair and skin completely. I felt that my hair and skin products worked so much better. It’s not that expensive and you replace the filter every 6 months. Maybe this will help you ☺️
I have never been great at asking for help or talking about hard things because I didn't want to seem like a burden. One of the ways I have reframed that is to think of it as helping others. Your friends are wanting to help and also have a need to feel like they are doing something. Listening to you can be that for them. It's fine to say, I'm not looking for advice, I just need you to listen, etc. It really is a gift you are giving them as well as yourself.
I'm seeing this a week late -- because my siblings and I finally were able to gather to memorialize my Mom, who passed early this year. I know I'm so fortunate to miss my parents dearly. Seeing my siblings helped me a great deal, being able to talk with them freely about our parents, our loss. My Dad and I were super close, and I quelled my own grief when he passed, trying desperately to support my Mom (both in their 80s then). So, losing her now has dredged it all up; grieving them both. I wish I had advice for you. I do think one moment at a time; that it's OK to feel what you do; that it's OK to live your life fully, in gratitude and happiness, even when the latter is transitory, with tears when they come. I feel confident that he'd not have wanted you to stagnate, to whither into a figment of yourself, that he'd want you to thrive -- and that you have the strength to navigate there.
The number one thing that helped me the most when my dad died unexpectedly in 2006 was writing him letters. I wrote as frequently as I felt led for about a year. In a way, writing was like giving myself permission to grieve, instead of trying to bottle it up and move on. I would sit and write, cry, and then do my best to move on with my day. I actually posted them on a blog that my friends had access to, because like you I struggled to let them in to how I was feeling.
It may seem silly but regarding grief I feel like we all should let ourselves feel our feelings. Don’t let it overwhelm your life but feel the happiness and sadness when it comes. My Mom passed away 7 years ago and there are still times I cry out of nowhere. I hope you and your mom have a good day remembering your dad on his birthday! 💛💛💛
I’m glad you’re feeling at home here! I agree, NYC targets are terrible! Bummer that we’re not getting Ulta in Target. Speaking of acne, I’ve had great luck with differin (used to be prescription but now OTC) and prescription retin-A-both are also good for wrinkles (not that you have any!) Hope my fellow New Yorkers are making you feel welcome! 💖💕
Unrelated: I am just watching this (a day late), but literally JUST took off the KL Peanut Butter polish, and did a LL YNBB skittles mani. Needless to say, I recognized your nail color right away! What a pretty autumn camel color!
Kelly- you and Theresa is dead should do a shop with me in NYC video. To y'all that lost your dad I understand. I lost my dad in 2017 to ALS. This is the hardest time of year bc we would always go to Georgia football games together. For you, DAD GO DAWGS!!!
Maybe you could try the ordinary Q10 for protecting against the pollution? I think hyram had recommended that for a facial barrier against outside impurities. Also, I hope you and your mom can have a weekend to heal and talk, and I’ll be praying for y’all. And praying for anyone else that reads this comment and is going through a hard time. Please know you’re not alone ❤️
Yeah here in San Francisco we have a couple of those 2 story Targets that are actually pretty small. The city is so packed so things get built upward but even with that its still impossible to add the Ultas inside. The random desert suburb I lived in before I moved to San Francisco is one of the few California cities that got a Target Ulta - the city is Murrieta. I was like REALLY? 😂
Kelly I respect that you give us a piece of your personal life but do not spill the whole thing. Do I want to know it all? Of course. But it’s your life and you do not owe it to anyone to blab it on UA-cam to everyone. I think you’re so graceful with the way you answered the questions. Grief is a private journey for us all. We definitely have to allow ourselves the time and space to just feel the feelings and move through it. Some days are good and some days are hard, but God can definitely make them a lot easier for us! I lost my brother in January.
May I recommend PÜR Defence Skincare & Makeup line? It helps shield your skin from environmental stressors. There is also a very effective ampule by Earth Harbor called Helios that protects against pollution and repairs the skin.
the one year anniversary (i hate using that word for this) of my dad’s passing is coming up in november and i still haven’t fully grieved his death. i think a big part of it is because i’ve been having back to back surgeries, and i’ve been soooo overwhelmed with this chaos and focused on trying to get my prosthetic leg. i broke down once in the hospital because i looked to my right and he wasn’t there and it hurt so badly. he was my best friend biggest supporter. i try to take it day by day. there’s not one day that goes by that i don’t still talk to him because i believe in my heart that he’s listening to me. 💔
Grief advice from someone who’s been there: Let yourself cry the second you feel like you need to. When you push it down, it marinates and festers and it only gets worse. Also get yourself a therapist and surround yourself with people who make you feel amazing.
“Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give, but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.” I read this awhile ago and it brought me to tears. Let yourself feel the grief and the love, it won’t ever go away but one day I hope you are able to feel that love over the sadness.
that’s a beautiful saying. thank you for sharing this!
I lost my dad unexpectedly 2.5 years ago. And to the person who asked for advice on that all I can tell you is give it time. I can’t say that time will heal because there are moments when my grief today feels just as raw and painful as it did in April 2019 when I found out he was gone. But I can tell you that those moments are less frequent over time and you will think of him and feel that pain less and less often. Everybody grieves differently so like Kelly said give yourself grace and let yourself feel the feelings without judgement. Know that this horrible weight you feel in your chest will lessen and you will find joy again. I can’t say there will be a day when you won’t ever feel pain, because in my experience, there hasn’t been. Even writing this now I feel the sadness of losing my dad again-but you will be able to get past it and live life as normal. Life goes on. This is what we are built for as humans. It is the human experience to find, to love, and to lose. You are made to experience these things, as horrible as they are, and you will get through it. Find joy in the good memories, but also, it’s okay to be sad that there’s only memories left. I hope I helped in some way.
This is true. I‘m sorry for your loss. I lost my dad suddenly 1.5 years ago. Give yourself time.
I also find that they would want us to live our lives fully to honor their memory despite their struggles.
I also lost my dad 2 years ago and I still have some bad days but they are good days too. Idk if I will ever have just good days (I thought it) but I’m trying to move on and make him proud.
Losing my mum was one of the most devastating losses I've ever been through. We had a tight family. So even though we were adults our parents were our friends as well. And I think there is a bit of a sense of security knowing your parents are still there. Even if you don't depend on them much, but when you know they are gone. At first it can a while to hit you cause it can seem so surreal. And you realize the things you can no longer enjoy with them and questions only they would have answers to. Spend as much time with them as you can before they are gone. Take some time to think about them, especially the good times. I still have times when I get frustrated because I feel my mum was taken too early. Make sure you let the people you love know that you love them or care about them. Sometimes you will have dreams of them and they will make absolutely no sense, but at least it kinda feels like you got to see them again if only for a few moments.
Regarding grief, you are spot-on about allowing ourselves grace and time to grieve and vent, etc.
My favorite quote after my dad passed is:
"How lucky am I to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard." A.A. Milne
Just gonna drop this here as a very personal note to thank you. I lost both of my parents very unexpectedly(they were both under sixty and in great health at the start of the year) right before your loss. It's been so much, but your videos have been both a reprieve from the pain, and relatable in the worst of it. I can't begin to express how much I appreciate that.
I’m sorry about your loss, my dad passed away in 2020 and 3 months later my fiancé died. There’s no right way to grieve I think.I miss them everyday and it takes so long to adjust to life without them, I keep going. I have put my faith in God and that has helped me get through the worst of the worst. You’re gorgeous and life is short to have all the answers.
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️❤️
Advice for those who are grieving: My dad died suddenly and unexpectedly in 1988 when i was 15. My dad was my best friend when i was little, and he was an incredible role model for me, and it hurts my heart that he never got to meet my husband and my children. They say time heals all wounds, which is true, however the scars will always be there. BUT...one thing that helps me in those times of sadness and missing him is focusing on the good memories. I remind myself that it is only because we were so close and had such a good relationship that i miss him so terribly; it is because our bond was so tight that it hurts so much. I know he has never left me, and i know he was there the day i graduated high school, the day i got married, when each of my kids was born, and even daily. Allow yourself to feel all the things, and honor the emotions, but don't stay stuck there. We Greeks have a saying, "May his/her/their memory be eternal." I am actually glad to still miss him so much, because forgetting him would be far worse. Big hugs to all who are suffering, and i hope this helps. 🖤
Introversion/Extroversion is on a spectrum, and you can fluctuate between the two depending on where you fall, plus there is something called "Free Trait Theory" which says you can transcend your temperament for things you are passionate about (e.g. be an extreme introvert but be passionate about acting and do theatre). Introversion/Extroversion has more to do with energy than shyness vs. gregariousness. Introverts gets depleted by people and must be alone to recharge, while extroverts recharge by feeding off the energy of other people. They get depleted by being alone. Also, it has to do with stimuli and superficial (for lack of a better word) vs. deep. Introverts get overwhelmed by a lot of stimuli (noise, people, etc.) while extroverts revel in it and introverts hate superficial things, like small talk and prefer deep talk, while an extrovert loves to be surrounded by groups of people chatting and laughing about anything and everything. That's a very basic overview.
not sure when it happened but congrats on 80k! I'm glad I found your channel.
Thank you!
For some, grief is linear, but to me, grief is circular. It’s ups and down, good and bad days. There are days when it hits you like a toms of bricks. The intensity lessens over time , you also learn to cope a bit better with time. Learning how you deal with grief/loss is a journey to each their own. It’s been 20 years, and I have forgotten what my mom voice sound like, but will never forget her smile and her warmth. ❤️
So happy that you're happy in New York. It shows!
Thank you :)
David Kessler has some amazing work regarding grief, including some videos on UA-cam. The most important takeaway I've gotten from him is that the pain you feel in grief is really just love that you feel for that person who is gone from you. We'd never want to stop ourselves from feeling love, so we need to allow ourselves to feel grief. My heart is with everyone going through the process of loss.
It’s been 7 years since I lost my favorite person in the whole world. It gets a lot better. Now instead of feeling sadness I just feel a great amount of love for that person and determination to keep the persons memory alive. Advice I have is to do rituals, doing something in their honor, and talking about your favorite memories with someone who also loved that person. You’ve got this Kelly! ❤️
I lost my dad suddenly when I was 16- so i’ve been thinking about you and keeping you in my heart and prayers. It’s easier but still hard (i’m 35 now) but I just want to tell you and the girl asking and anyone else -- it’s ok to cry or be angry when you need, to ask for help, to do less sometimes…. but that there will be joy and healing in time. Celebrate the things you love, and don’t beat yourself up for not “doing better” because it stays hard for a long time and that’s ok. So so so much love and condolences to you.
I lost my dad at 17. I’m 27 now. I agree with you. Time helps so much.
Ah, I love a good Q&A! Thank you for uploading so early in the day. It makes for a great breakfast treat.
Thank you for watching!
I lost my father suddenly when I was 30. I am now 59, and it was extremely difficult. Because this happened at a young age for me, I didn't feel like my friends could relate to it, so I didn't talk about it much at all. But your quote will work well for you, as it just a very hard thing to go through, and there isn't an easy way to do it. My therapist described it like this: when we lose a loved one, it's like we have a deep cut that is quite painful. It will eventually heal and become a permanent bruise. Every once and a while, you will hit that bruise and the pain will come back but just for a short time. This analogy helped me so much~❤️
thank you for your vulnerability, it makes me feel so seen to hear a youtuber talking abt going to therapy & dealing with grief
Thank you, Allison!
I lost my mom in 2014 and it's one of the hardest things I've gone through. I still vividly remember the day I was accepted to grad school, I was sitting with my then bf and I showed him the acceptance and said "omg I need to call my mom" and then broke down crying. I sometimes think of all the things she'd be proud of me for that she won't be able to witness and all the things I'd want to tell her. She was absolutely my best friend.
My advice is also to talk about it often to keep their memory alive with you and I personally love to write my mom letters and keep them all in a notebook. I know a lot of people say it gets easier but I don't think it does, I think it just gets more normal to us. My heart breaks for you, Kelly, and for anybody else who is grieving
Sorry for your loss, it takes at lot of time for your heart to start to heal. I lost my mom seven years ago and still feel her absence. Just put one foot in front of the other. Much love and light
A good way to start talking to others about grief is to start by telling stories of who you lost. It lets you remember them or that other person to remember or experience a glimpse of them. It’s much easier to then say you miss them and to talk about it.
I’ve learned in grief to feel it in that moment. Whatever the feeling is acknowledge it and feel it. It may last a moment or the whole day, but the feeling won’t last forever. Remember who you lost. Talk about them. Enjoy what you had. Miss them in the present. Laugh at things they probably would have said or reacted. Honor them as a whole person by remembering the good and the bad. Grief is complex and long. It’s the sign of deep love for them. It doesn’t make it less painful, but it’s something to remember. A quote I heard about someone grieving, “Suffer; they were worth it.”
You're so calming to watch, I really enjoy that 😊
Glad to hear you’re doing well in NY. Also glad you get to go visit your mom to celebrate your dad. I lost my dad almost a year ago so I can definitely say give yourself time and grace as you said. I’m slowly being able to remember the good memories without just thinking about the fact he’s gone. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us. I like these videos where we learn a little more about you ❤️
Yay! So excited to see a look with the Pumpkin pallet!!
I love listening to you talk. 😊
Thank you for providing cruelty free makeup content!
I had my first pumpkin creme cold brew today..I'm so excited for fall. I started doing therapy last year it has helped and can make you think about things you never thought about. ( most jobs offer eap and give you free sessions it really helps) I'm so grateful that mental health and therapy is talked about more now.
Feel the feelings as they come. You need to walk through the grief and not avoid it. I lost my brother to suicide 6 years ago.
I know when I moved to a different state, I broke out horribly! Come to find out the shower water was much harder than I had previously experienced. I got a shower head filter (sprite brand) from Home Depot and it improved my hair and skin completely. I felt that my hair and skin products worked so much better. It’s not that expensive and you replace the filter every 6 months. Maybe this will help you ☺️
I have never been great at asking for help or talking about hard things because I didn't want to seem like a burden. One of the ways I have reframed that is to think of it as helping others. Your friends are wanting to help and also have a need to feel like they are doing something. Listening to you can be that for them. It's fine to say, I'm not looking for advice, I just need you to listen, etc. It really is a gift you are giving them as well as yourself.
I'm seeing this a week late -- because my siblings and I finally were able to gather to memorialize my Mom, who passed early this year. I know I'm so fortunate to miss my parents dearly. Seeing my siblings helped me a great deal, being able to talk with them freely about our parents, our loss. My Dad and I were super close, and I quelled my own grief when he passed, trying desperately to support my Mom (both in their 80s then). So, losing her now has dredged it all up; grieving them both. I wish I had advice for you. I do think one moment at a time; that it's OK to feel what you do; that it's OK to live your life fully, in gratitude and happiness, even when the latter is transitory, with tears when they come. I feel confident that he'd not have wanted you to stagnate, to whither into a figment of yourself, that he'd want you to thrive -- and that you have the strength to navigate there.
The number one thing that helped me the most when my dad died unexpectedly in 2006 was writing him letters. I wrote as frequently as I felt led for about a year. In a way, writing was like giving myself permission to grieve, instead of trying to bottle it up and move on. I would sit and write, cry, and then do my best to move on with my day. I actually posted them on a blog that my friends had access to, because like you I struggled to let them in to how I was feeling.
That blush looks so beautiful on you 😊
Thank you, Ingrid!
It may seem silly but regarding grief I feel like we all should let ourselves feel our feelings. Don’t let it overwhelm your life but feel the happiness and sadness when it comes. My Mom passed away 7 years ago and there are still times I cry out of nowhere. I hope you and your mom have a good day remembering your dad on his birthday! 💛💛💛
I’m glad you’re feeling at home here! I agree, NYC targets are terrible! Bummer that we’re not getting Ulta in Target. Speaking of acne, I’ve had great luck with differin (used to be prescription but now OTC) and prescription retin-A-both are also good for wrinkles (not that you have any!) Hope my fellow New Yorkers are making you feel welcome! 💖💕
Glad to hear you're open to meeting new people. Maybe I watch too many movies but I can just picture you on a date ice skating in Rockefeller Centre!
Always enjoy your videos! So glad you're enjoying your time in NY!
Thank you, Carli!
I’m obsessed with your nail polish!
Unrelated: I am just watching this (a day late), but literally JUST took off the KL Peanut Butter polish, and did a LL YNBB skittles mani. Needless to say, I recognized your nail color right away! What a pretty autumn camel color!
Can you post a up close look of your eyes on ig, kinda hard to see but looks pretty 😍
I find so many of my favorites from your recs, I never buy from Nyx, but bought the born to glow concealer and I’m loving it!
I would recommend adding the supplement L-Lysine. When I moved from AZ to Florida, my skin reacted badly.
So happy you're loving the PowerBrush 🥰❤️
I love Q&A’s. Finally listening now ❤️
Kelly- you and Theresa is dead should do a shop with me in NYC video. To y'all that lost your dad I understand. I lost my dad in 2017 to ALS. This is the hardest time of year bc we would always go to Georgia football games together. For you, DAD GO DAWGS!!!
ENFPs are said to be the most introverted of the extroverted types, if that makes sense.
Cool! I’m INFP!
Maybe you could try the ordinary Q10 for protecting against the pollution? I think hyram had recommended that for a facial barrier against outside impurities.
Also, I hope you and your mom can have a weekend to heal and talk, and I’ll be praying for y’all.
And praying for anyone else that reads this comment and is going through a hard time. Please know you’re not alone ❤️
Yeah here in San Francisco we have a couple of those 2 story Targets that are actually pretty small. The city is so packed so things get built upward but even with that its still impossible to add the Ultas inside. The random desert suburb I lived in before I moved to San Francisco is one of the few California cities that got a Target Ulta - the city is Murrieta. I was like REALLY? 😂
Love your channel and getting to know you and just wanted to express my gratitude and well
Wishes to you! 💜💜
Thank you!
Kelly I respect that you give us a piece of your personal life but do not spill the whole thing. Do I want to know it all? Of course. But it’s your life and you do not owe it to anyone to blab it on UA-cam to everyone. I think you’re so graceful with the way you answered the questions.
Grief is a private journey for us all. We definitely have to allow ourselves the time and space to just feel the feelings and move through it. Some days are good and some days are hard, but God can definitely make them a lot easier for us! I lost my brother in January.
May I recommend PÜR Defence Skincare & Makeup line? It helps shield your skin from environmental stressors. There is also a very effective ampule by Earth Harbor called Helios that protects against pollution and repairs the skin.
I’m an ENFP too 🙌🏼♥️
I'm an ENFP too!
the one year anniversary (i hate using that word for this) of my dad’s passing is coming up in november and i still haven’t fully grieved his death. i think a big part of it is because i’ve been having back to back surgeries, and i’ve been soooo overwhelmed with this chaos and focused on trying to get my prosthetic leg. i broke down once in the hospital because i looked to my right and he wasn’t there and it hurt so badly. he was my best friend biggest supporter. i try to take it day by day. there’s not one day that goes by that i don’t still talk to him because i believe in my heart that he’s listening to me. 💔
Grief advice from someone who’s been there: Let yourself cry the second you feel like you need to. When you push it down, it marinates and festers and it only gets worse. Also get yourself a therapist and surround yourself with people who make you feel amazing.
What is that powder brush you used?
wow, we are the same personality type :)
You are just so cute! :)
btw, is it just me or is your description box completely blank?!?!!!
It should be there now! Not sure why it wasn't showing up. Thank you!
@@KellyGooch of course babygirl. anytime!!! 🥰
Someone said MAC is cruelty free now?? I was coming to ask you lol
Don't they still sell in China? Where did you hear that?
They’re not :(
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