Nobody Complained about Toxic masculinity when men fought wars
And nobody complained about feminism when a female does everything for myEn
Get the fuck off mYenn
@@kavinishedits208 female does everything for men? LMAO check the modern women who dont do their own work and say their men should do this as they're girls. Toxic femineity is hiding in plain sight
Masculinity isn't toxic. Lack of masculinity makes men toxic. Weak men are dangerous for society. A men who posses self confidence, don't dominate the weak.
Masculinity isn't defined by only physical superiority. It's a characteristic that everyone posses, may it be male or female. Only difference is the to what extent.
Brave, bold, strong, determination, confidence are some qualities which can be defined as masculine.
"Tough times create strong people, strong people create good times, good times create weak people, weak people create tough times".
Only those who are weak find the need to dominate over others. Those who aren't weak and are self confident don't need to show off and show dominance. Trying to show dominance over others can be considered strong but insulting others is such a weak quality.
"Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally.
A man is only loved under the condition that he provide something."
Absolulety !! So we need to man up, be strong !! Take some f***ing responsibility !!
Let they love us conditionally but we should love ourself unconditionally. No homo
@@reminiscence4142 true bro when the next war happen you will find these toxic masculine man fighting and protecting these people .
@@anons0479 like todays ukraine wen are escaping their land and men are not allowed
Become what they fear. Starting weak is acceptable staying weak is not. Be proud of ur masculinity and reject the laws of wokeness. These are woke times in which masculinity is apparently called "toxic". Feminization of males because of their insecurities seems to be their solution. Do not bow my guys, stay strong 💪.
"No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable"
-Socrates
Kudos to the guy who even dragged caste in this matter. You have achieved next level of woke. xd
Yarrr I am laughing too hard at your comment! Thank you for have written this 😎
@@SattwikaDutta I forgot about this lol 😭thanks for the reminder ❤️
Well then every goddammit para SF guy will be toxic
and when someone's gonna invade their house they will cry where is defense force lol
although defense officers are most liberal and open minded guys
@Pri Kat I never a woke person. Infact we need more people like bipin rawat. We need to be intolerant. And if you are too open minded your brain will fall outside.
I think there was no toxic masculinity here, he blamed his parents wish on toxic masculinity that was a bruh moment or he failed to give a proper context for that
I'm a boy and my mom used to tell me to "wear bangles" if I would do anything "feminine". I then asked her if wearing bangles make one weak. I reminded her that many female freedom fighters in India wore bangles. Does that mean they were weak? She was stunned by my response and now she doesn't use that insult on me
Wow that was brave wish everyone has such courage and call it out immediately then world would become a more better place to live
The fact that you as a boy called out your mom in the most logical way is amazing. Keep it up!! We need boys and men like you.
reject modernity , embrace masculanity.
@@Alexander99763 that's what the point is people who are born as a male or a female will behave like their gender that's what nature is these fake feminist just have no other work
There are videos by big youtubers which ridicule women for not being good drivers, for women being always called 'Papa ki Pari', jokes like Love marriage Roti vs Arrange marriage Roti etc. These videos influence their viewers who are usually young generation and justify & ingrain sexism in there mind.
Reject modernity
Embrace masculanity
"Clothes don't determine someone's gender."
I'll just leave this here.
Edit: What I meant to say was if someone wishes to wear outfits that they love and are comfortable wearing I see nothing wrong. They simply love exploring with fashion and wearing different outfits, so why question their gender or sexuality?
@Shiva Surya I mean if they love to wear makeup, heels and clothes they find attractive, we are no one to tell them.
@Shiva Surya i do. Have you see Harry styles and Damiano David rocking in those. Half of the population would gladly marry them. And clothes have no gender
I applaud each and every man here and tell them that you are more of a man than any of the soo called mard we often come across in society
*There is Nothing Wrong in Being More Masculine or in Indian context, More Mard.*
*There is No Toxic Masculinity. There is only Toxic Individuality*
*And all this Nonsense, Anti-Scientific & Any Wrong Feminist's Ideologies will not be Tolerated.*
*To the All Commenters & Media be Careful, a Legal file have even Registered. And a Legal Action will be taken against Anyone who spreads Wrong Concepts*
Dang I’m a toxic guy 🙄 and a sexist according to this video
@drag (Avdan OS Developer) I can't understand your English...do u speak Hindi?
@@ashutoshverma_11 You get angry when men are toxic, but when someone says women are toxic this is your reply. Grow up 🤡
I have seen boys who are not traditionally masculine or who are open about their emotions are often called "Meetha"," Chakka". This has to stop. Let's not restrict emotions to one gender only. Let boys and girls express themselves however they want without judgement
@Pratham bhandary he's not homophobic tho he's shown he's very aware about LGBT community although he's fan base interprets the jokes in a very worst way possible and yes being at a prime of his career he's responsible for what the fans think and react to his jokes. He didn't clarify or stepped in to stop the hatred either which is not acceptable
i disagree with this
not because something wrong with your statement but the way people get into it is wrong way.
many men get wrongly put themselves into gender spectrum.
those "meetha" in todays world are actually losing their testesterone with time.
lets be straight men must preserve their hormone and let it be. dont be toxic but nothing is wrong with to be musculine(with both body and mind) it gives men body an aim to build according to it. most of the men getting feminine not because they are emotionally balanced but because feminine pleasure take over their mind, the way they seeing po*n , the way they fantasize other musculine males keeps making them feminine.
@@chiragsharma2902 wtf!!!!! What grade r u in 3rd maybe ??
Testosterone is completely unrelated to someone's sexuality or gender it's almost completely depend on genes unless u intake toxins or antagonist hormones from outside. Grow up now learn some modern chemistry and biology and leave the prejudice behind....
@@trevorkhanna5865 well what you jzt said is partially amateur
You dont know yet.
There was a time human body behave as an animal
Now our mind abzorb everything ....not completely but men behaviour suffer from past time..
Too much porn
Adulteration in food
Stress and fantsies cause low levels of testosterone generation.
And do i need to tell you that trt is not a one time thing..body needs to make it every half an hr because it get destroyed...it means men need to carry his physical activities at certain level so that his hormone atleast dont fall below the mark otherwise he will face irritation
Low libido, low confidence and late muscle regeneration that causes delay in getting good physique.
Modern era where porn is jzt 2 seconds away and people who keep blindly promoting and fantasizing in their own room degrading the whole society.
"World war III begins"
Feminists who called for equal rights - Started washing dishes and clothes
happening in Ukraine...no fucking feminist asking for equal rights for women to fight
@@shierro3824 only thw women who were in military already that too a small percentage…but MEN ANY man is not allowed to leave the country and they are to join military…why ain’t feminists asking for equality?
This is so true.. my 2 year old nephew is a shy child and his grandmother calls him out everytime we talk on video calls like don't be shy like a girl..why are you blushing like a girl??
I'm really worried for that baby.
@@coolish3481 then he will embrace it and become the most shy person, sometimes parents need to hard on their kids to make them tough for this hard and cruel world...weaks dont survive here brother, weak people either cry or get smashed...this is the crude reality of life, and thats why u need to fight everyday fir ur survival and success...i am scared for ur child if u have it, but one thing is give them proper education of right and wrong and just dint teach them abt Toxic subjects
@@coolish3481 well he is a baby. He doesn't understand anything. I need to teach the people around him to accept the child the way they are. I was a shy child too and I was often bullied for not speaking up. Scarred my mind for life tbh.
@@coolish3481 are bhai batara hu ki agar age bachhe ho to unko tough banana, and achhi samjh dena,
"Boys don't cry" what about that? I feel like this has stuck with our generation for a long damn time!!
It's ok to cry and express emotion, I believe it's the healthy way of it
@@sykoprince2099 no... I cry in public i dont care i can cry anywhere why do people make fun of me for crying lol.
I think we all need to pour out our emotions for the sake of being a human.If its what it is you feel , just let it out. I think caring put people's opinions can be more dangerous when you stop yourselves for being You!
1:05 men not crying and falling into depression is also considered masculine,
Then they become alcohol addicts and then people tell them to express emotions to frnds. idk what this society really wants
My father is in Army and he's a brilliant cook...even then he's the most masculine guy I've known.... masculinity is not defined by your interests.... it's described by how you behave as a male human being.......
@I WON'T WRITE COMMENT No comments bruh my dad had handed several attacks happening in Kashmir frm 2008-11 😑 and my dad never cooked for soldiers cause he's and officer and officers don't cook in the mess 😅
reject modernity reject this woke society embrace musculinity.we are gonna make it brah
This is the outcome of staying weak. You all are agreeing to staying weak. Why no one talks about toxic feminity?
My man don't says he love his wife, he can't hold my hand affectionately in public, he can't even appreciate me in public and it's endless
@@TheAprajeeth yeah he doesn't even say her he loves her.. What kind of husband is he.
It’s also weird how girls playing sports and dressing masculine is “cool” and “tomboy” and “hot” but if a guy wore a dress or a skirt then he’s a “🐱” and “weak” and “gay”
The reason is prob bcuz being feminine is more for women and masculine is more for men (according to society) and that women r considered the less better gender so when a guy is doing some simple feminine things which usually the “less better gender” does then he’s considered bad or smth
Also because women embraced wearing pants and "masculine" way of dressing. Men still have a long way to go. But atleast now men wearing jewelry, bright colors and "feminine " clothes is depicted in popular culture. So with time change will happen
I love how you look at the society we need more open minded gen z in the society
Bro don't get me wrong
But why will a man wear skirt . It's really word . There's no use of it either
@@Atulpai2004 maybe bcuz he likes to? It’s been really normalized to shame men wearing skirts but there’s still no actual valid reason for it isn’t it?
@@Atulpai2004 well there are already some men out there wearing one. And come on ..look at the outfits indian kings wore in the past. Very similar to long shirts and gowns..so why the judgement now? What I'm saying is that men should be able to wear a skirt as freely as women can wear pants.
Read a line in my younger brothers textbook yesterday:
"Gender in now no more related to your sex but what ideas that are associated to it by the society"
Speaks volumes!!!
That's awesome! I'm glad we're trying to change these gender and sex related myths
Absolute Nonsense, Usko bol twitter kam chalaye and to Stop following West blindly. They became developed before they went woke.
Absolute rubbish. Gender and sex are inseparable. All socials constructs have biological underpinnings. Teach your brother to think.
@atheist until ur plan fails Sex(male and female) and Gender are both two different categories. Gender is not binary, but a spectrum. People can identify as Man, Woman, Both (Agender) or Neither (Non binary). That's why they can describe themselves however they want rather than using the pre-defined categories of male or female.
Also even if we don't quite understand people's gender differences, we should atleast try to respect it, because they know themselves better than anyone.
Me- Applying face mask
Others- Yeh toh ladkiya lgati h
Me- Being creative in school activities or choosing painting, dance over sports
classmates- Painting toh ladkiya krti h
Etc......
I don’t understanding why applying makeup skincare is a girls thing because taking care of ur skin is taking care of ur health skin is an organ of our body we need to protect it and if the person feels good and confident in makeup they do whatever they want
This world is soo idk what to call it anymore
Painting? OMG. Davinci, Picaso, Ravi Varma... All these people are males
@@mangiferaindica7989 yessss you r right but my classmates aren't 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
While it's a true fact that some men often turn toxic, it's VERY SEXIST to attach the word TOXIC with MASCULINITY alone.
Hope the producers of this video get the point someday and create a video on TOXIC FEMINITY as well.
Being masculine is different and toxic masculinity is way different. People often confuse between these two.
@@kpoptea9812 I think toxic feminity is when a woman uses the typical stereotypes to her advantage. Or even accusing men and getting away with it just cause she's a woman.
@@kpoptea9812 Toxic feminity? Lol. Either you've not seen the world enough and hence you've never come across any example of toxicity in females and feminists OR whatever world you've seen, you've seen with a bias against men, assuming that toxicity resides only in males.
Btw, if you come under the second category, then that's one of the traits of TOXIC FEMINITY. Cheers.
Next, they'll say that getting jacked and becoming a Chad is toxic masculinity 🤣
Yes they are kinda saying it, "Gym is Gay" something like that, they are so weak
Reject modernity, embrace masculinity.
@@meghanarora4136 what is toxic masculinity ? Please explain in u r words . 😀🤡
@@meghanarora4136 no we are real mens
Keep the grind up comrades show them power of super *toxic* musculinity
"We need to teach our children to be human beings." Well said
Ohh man society tells such things because people become trans genders
@@saisanjanagurram1423 shut up , stop with this gross mentality . Everyone has the right to love whomever they want and you and your society cant do anything.
@@bhavyejot9659 that is why women cheating on husband stats increasing. No accountability for women wheras alimony for husband. Thankyou
@@bhavyejot9659 your society cant do anything is the dumbest ive ever heard cuz my society has literally been killing homosexuals on having sex haha
Everyone cries yaar.
Those who holds it back, suffers most.
Yeah tears are realeased from our eyes to make us feel better if you wouldn't let tears fall your bottled up expressions would destroy your metal health that is like suicide but a very painful way
Albeit I've realised that talking about my problems makes me feel worse. Then again, who's listening. Who cares. Who wants to listen. It feels like talking/expressing is a waste of time even though I know how it can help some.
I guess it's the kind of people I'm around with.
@@vinomsnake get better people to talk with.
Same for me, nobody to listen.
@@vinomsnake Try to write your feelings down if there's no one you can talk to. Lockdown mein maine try kari thi and it was really effective 👌🏽
@@chxnkimi that's another problem. I think it's made me desensitized that I wouldn't know what to tell. It's almost like even a fake ass "good morning" from someone sounds so much better than just not being able to make any form of social contact.
Day 6 of my mental health vacation. Just stopped going to classes and work. Just lying at home, watching documentaries. Trying to ignite passion back from things I once loved.
People? I don't know.
I don't know how I can express here and feel better. Will I eventually stop understanding how to feel better talking about problems? I don't know.
But thanks for the thought. I'm glad it worked well for you.
Lets not forget the whole shit of being a "feminine man makes you gay". The other day I told my baby bro that anybody and everybody can wear nailpolish. My parents sat and gave me a half an hour lecture on that - "Now it's just nailpolish, then it will become *that*" They don't even have the guts to say the word gay. Also, gender expression has nothing to do with sexuality? When will people understand basic stuff like this? If he's gay, he's gay. Wearing nailpolish doesnt make anyone gay or straight.
True. If his sexuality is homosexual, let him be. Let him embrace it
@@ceenooriitaas24 when it won't be a prank, because you actually do like girls😂😂
How do you rationalise men putting on nail polish. This is just post modern crap. Why are gender markers been used since inception, both in animals and insects alike. I think your parents are pretty rationale.unlike you.
Please make a video of Four women who call out Toxic Femininity
My own father slapped because I was doing the house stuffs, basically I was washing the dishes.....and also said not to act like a woman(that a slang in Indian that many of us know)that work are for your mother or sister.....
Don't listen to your father. Do whatever you want. If you don't change their mindset now, then you can't change them forever.
I was also told that women should cleaning, cooking, etc., by my father but I disagree with him and said anyone can do cleaning, cooking, etc.
BE YOURSELF. BE CONFIDENT. DO WHATEVER YOU WANT.
Good on you for not following the same thought process of your father. May he realise his mistakes soon.
More power to you avilash sir , u have not done anything wrong to be slapped .
Brothers don’t listen to this nonsense. Reject modernity and embrace masculinity.
I swear if I didn't get these kinda gentlemen I ain't marrying!!!
Then we need to also be a woman where they can freely communicate and express themeselves if we want one of such amazing gentlemen.😊
@@mehakmehta6005 thank you very much for such comment, I'm genuinely very thankful for having such women in India who can actually listen and communicate instead of being like woke western feminists who attack the men in every possible way
@@vishaldonkena1819 dude. Feminism means equality between both the genders. Feminizism ,aka misdandry is attacking men. You can either be sexist (misogynist or misandrist) or feminist (equality). Calling it "western feminism" and claiming that it's a bad thing reflects on your knowledge on the aspect, which evidently, is none. My point, educate yourself and then talk. Peace.
@@user-wr1rq5xp8s my point here is to go and have a look at so called feminism in the West, first have a idea about the situations out there and then spit your facts
@@vishaldonkena1819 dude, what you've seen is feminazism. Take a look at Emma Watson, that's feminism. I've looked, and thus spitting facts. Thanks, peace.
Fighting toxic masculinity by downplaying, even to the point of outright eliminating masculinity, is actually a bad thing.
*There is nothing Called Toxic *Masculinity. It's Toxic Individuality.*
*Being a Female myself, I & many People are aware of Media's Nonsense Anti-Scientific Feminist ideologies.*
*False S€xism, False Gender Pay Gap & Even False notion that Society is Patriarchal all have come from Nonsense Feminist's Ideologies.*
*Do read Recent Gender Studies or watch Jordan Peterson Explanation on all that.*
@@equalrights494 I would like to know more on the topic "toxic individuality". Can you please explain more about it? ( Whenever you get time)
@@brindarajesh7651 If you're a man you'd already know- I won't have to define it for you. If you're not then why do you care?
no behaviour should be labelled as "feminine" & "masculine" in the 1st place. Ur gender doesn't decide ur actions & ur actions don't define ur gender. PERIOD.
How tf driving fast makes you a better man? Can't believe in what sort of society do we live.
WELL THAT ONE WAS JZT A FUN PHRASE WHICH SHOULD NOT BE TOLD..
BUT LOOKING AT THOSE COMMENT LIKE make men wear skirts, put nailpolish in mens nail and let him embrace it really made me fear of what this society becomes we men are women made different because it was supposed to be in this way why here in comment section telling men to embrace being feminine?
@@chiragsharma2902 No one is forcing anyone. If a guy wants to wear skirt, no ome should object. Thats it
@@chiragsharma2902 so according to you, women are "supposed" to wear make up? And men are not? Just because it would make you unable to distinguish between a guy and a girl? Sorry . With your insecurities which is clearly visible in almost every comment's reply section where you're literally talking about testosterone as if this was a biological video, you don't even deserve equality. Why is someone else wearing make up bothering you my dear? Answer that only.
@Sameer Samant I'm a zoology hons student and you'll spreading complete bs. Stop it with your unreasonable statements and make some sense. Testosterone is just a hormone which helps develope secondary sexual characters in guys. It doesn't increase adrenaline you numskull.
@@Empy003 he never included testosterone but adrenaline...and which kind of zoology student you are, don't you know anecdotal and early correlational evidence suggests that higher levels of circulating testosterone in men are associated with increases in male-typical behaviours, such as physical aggression and anger. 🤦
It's so hilarious that they claim male and female gender specific behaviour are part of socialization but gay and lesbian behaviour is determined at birth 🤡
hypocrite MFs are like this only, we need to work on ourselves rather than making excuses like these weak asses, keep grinding brahhh
actually it is
homosexuality is the basic biology of natural selection
"We need to teach our children to be human beings rather than particular genders"
Well said.
@atheist until ur plan fails Why? A man can be a woman if he doesnt feel comfortable with his gender and vice versa
@atheist until ur plan fails So you want to force a gender on an individual even if they arent comfortable and okay with it?
@atheist until ur plan fails ofcourse if you get surgeries done and identify yourself and legalize yourself as a woman you can definitely go to the females washroom :)
@atheist until ur plan fails do not spoil culture yea sure, we should definitely force the ideologies from mediaeval period which jad constant wars on males of our times when there aren't such constant threats to life and make them unable to express their emotions and feel liek they aren't right if they aren't as masculine as others and then have them fall into a pit of self hate and self esteem issues and then kill themselves and keep the already high suicide rates of men high sure that's definitely the society we should create just to save this so called culture a
You know what "The title of the video itself discriminatory and sexist to the core".
Masculinity can't be toxic. It's move of a characters rather then so called social problems.
Being a masculine man, I will always gona stand with my feminine men.
Lol such beta vibes
And to the guys who are masculine, don't get carried away by the video or by the comments. Be based. Always and every time. It's the strong men who upholds the society.
Summary of this video:
If your son cries, do not let your first words be "Don't cry like a girl".
That's it. Very simple.
There is nothing toxic about masculinity. Masculinity is the God's best gift to humanity
reject modernity, embrace masculinity
Love to see the comment section Embracing Masculinity and recognizing their true Value
we will make it brah
🔥🔥🔥🔥
Alpha Male - ❌
Toxic Male - ❌
Gentleman - ✅
I’ve had the privilege of being brought up in an environment where being vulnerable was never looked down upon. My family is kind and supportive. Most of my friends are women.
I’ve gone through heartbreak and tough times but none of it would have been an easy road if I wasn’t “allowed” to express how I felt.
If you’re someone who doesn’t have a similar environment, I’d highly encourage therapy/counselling.
I can't drive a car cause its confusing for me, I always mess up and I hate it, I love driving bike though but my parents say you are a guy and every guy should know how to drive a car, this makes me very anxious and sad sometimes, is it ok if I can't drive a car?
"most of my friends are women"
Me who is socially awkward among girls:
Cries in INTROVERT
@@Vizorfam it's 100% ok if you don't want to drive a car, but I do recommend knowing how to ride a car at the least. It would be really helpful in case of an emergency
I've been in therapy too! It's amazing and I highly recommend it to everyone!!! And don't worry, even when I was in middle school, I had 5 friends who were girls and 3 guys as friends. Girls were more easier to talk to as I was an emotional dude and could express myself more openly to girls. But times have changed as I'm doing college and there are a lot of my guy friends who are extremely welcoming and Non-judgemental and support me if my mental health is low. I've been in a somewhat similar environment so I know where you're coming from
These guys will never earn the respect of their peers the way they want to.
We are men we don't cry. We are monsters we know how to control it.. Reject Modernity Embrace Tradition. Its a country of warriors and philosopher not modern chutiya.
@@meghanarora4136 there is no one good here... Men are never born to be feminine... Understood 🙂 we are there on the borders to protect the women... Well we have to be a controlled musculin monster...
@@himalayandiaries2125 yes reject modernity embrace masculinity we not gona hear this femigays anymore comrade😈
When we have an injury and we say its hurting. We hear 'kaya ladkiyon ki tarah ro raha hai'. Ultimately you stop letting your emotions out. I didn't stop letting my emotions out, I stopped caring about these people who tell us how to be a man, I can cry because I feel pain because I am a human..
When my brother asks me water I have to give him. And when I'm tired if I ask for a glass of water he says it's girls work. Bullshit. So I stopped helping him😏.
Meri dee tho bhainsh jaisa soyi rahti hai ghar ka kaam tho mai kar ta hu pura 😭
@@freakboostez6971 Same here 😂 it's somewhat a custom in my family between my cousins and siblings where the little ones have to help out the elders. This actually really helped me a lot too xD
Such a pitiable state we are facing. Embrace masculinity and reject modernity.
My dad used to be toxic, but he changed for me.. Took him lot of time though..
@@shubham943 yes he does, family members with patience and love can change people
My Dad was also very toxic regarding masculinity when I was small...but, now he is very mild about this thing. I think he changed not for me but the environment placed very important role in changing his view.
From last 10 to 12 years even I warn my dad when we goes sexist sometimes...he changed a lot too...but it took too much time
Reject modernity, embrace masculinity
I dare you to speak on toxic feminity
As a girl, i would like to say that this toxic masculinity is SO absurd
Who even asked boys to behave in a certain way?
They're humans too..
They can cry too.. They are allowed to be sweet too. Just like how we girls don't like to be considered weak cause of a mere stereotype, boys dont need to act "tough" just because they're supposed to. I hate that so much, they should be allowed to express, and "that expressing" shouldn't be compared to women
Both of the genders are humans not males and females. I totally support the boys because they deserve importance too
Agree with your statement. We all are humans together, but in reality we stay like humans with each other unless an adult teaches us that "Sitting with girls makes you look bad", "you are a boy so you have to be a "insert occupation here". Toxic Masculinity is not a naturally occurring mindset, it's the one who teaches us, i.e. Our Teachers and our Parents (even friends as well). That's why you notice Children are pure with everything, they make friends with other religion and genders. If you don't listen to people, you are uninformed, but if you listen to the people, you're misinformed. I totally support girls and boys in this matter as well, they deserve importance.
We are made tough because if a girl gets hurt it's a medical emergency but if a boy gets hurt.... "Ah no big deal"..... People generally pay less attention to boys... Bcs of which we train ourselves to be more rigid because we know if some thing happens we will be the last ones to get attention....
There is a another reason why guys act tough and invincible.... Which includes why they don't cry openly...... There are only 3 things a boy chases in his life.... Money... Women.... And power..... And the more tough he shows the more powerful he is considered and crying is considered a quality of the weak....... And a weak boy will always feel insecure......... That's the nature of we as humans....
Your actions and emotions shouldn't depend it determine your gender. What and how you play sports also shouldn't determine your gender. A gender is just an identity, not a role.
The old comments in this video were sympathising with these wokes, but the newer comments are about embracing masculinity! Truly a revolution has started!
When i cry and express my emotions, my parents stereotype too.. I always blast them on making differences
There is nothing wrong in crying and let your emotions come out, the flow of emotions should not be stopped. U feel free after crying.
We need to understand males are human too and so they have emotions.It is a injustice not to let them express it
Yeah, don't cry my man. They gonna judge you, it's all bs on the internet, doesn't work in real
I think you crying is a catharsis and this is no where attached to a certain gender. If you need to cry?...just cry.... Someday world will be a broader place without being judgmental
i find it really funny how people say theyre scared to call out their "friends". dude if you're calling them your friend, you should be comfortable enough to let them know where they're wrong. if they're your "friend" it's all the more reason to educate them. that's what friends are for dude? this excuse makes zero sense to me.
It makes zero sense to you because maybe you don't have that kinds of friends as they have. Most of my classmates don't know the difference between being funny and humiliating. That's why I can relate. Even if you seriously tell them they're gonna be ignorant.
@@justanintrovertwithcooldp7 I have been there but you're just scared to call them out just like I was in my high-school days
even women say that dont like physically and emotionally weak men
Reject weakness, Embrace masculinity
Reject modernity , Embrace masculinity ❤️
Women's cry- Cry
Boys' cry- Women???
Need to change the old stereotype ✊🏾
All boys embrace masculinity 💪
India is very diverse in every aspect..
When it's comes to masculinity.. most of the society approve that and even the girl like tough boys.(not universal.. may be not in metropolitan cities) every time shit happens people ask me to help them.. and I made arrangements...
Although we should remove it but right now it's mostly irrelavant..
What a load of bs, it's "not okay" to be weak. We're men we braved the ocean's and the mountains, we fought for freedom and faith don't be so pathetic.
When men/boys cry
Society- Dont cry like a women/girl 😭😭😭
Nice Guy Syndrome being displayed in full swing in these comments.
All modern intellectuals need to understand men and women can never be equal.
As a human being we are all equal in God's eyes..but biologically we are different..
@@Lisa07-s of course we are but still no one can escape from our gender roles. Both men and woman
Reject feminity, embrace masculinity 👍
Masculinity rocks and needs to be embraced
Reject modernity, EMBRACE TRADITION
All those saying women don't like men who wear makeup, wear skirts etc... Bro, have you seen Harry styles and Damiano David rocking in them . Half the population would gladly marry them. P.S why not let men be who they are and clothes don't have gender. I'm very proud of every men in this video.
Finally someone said this!! I've had arguments about this topic with brown misogynistic boys who love to flaunt their toxic masculinity, and every single one of them said that girls don't like boys who wear makeup and are feminine and I was like,,umm excuse me?? Have you looked at harry styles's fan base? Or conan gray? Timothee?? Or any other man who embraces feminity?Like girls would die to even meet them for a single time, bruh girls love boys who don't think that being feminine is degrading
@I WON'T WRITE COMMENT No comments lmfao so you mean ugly girls like feminine boys? Sir how do you even draw that conclusion
Ikr! Even Park Jimin who embraces his feminine side gracefully has half of the population dying for him and guess what not only girls 😂
I believe this type of mentality is very much strong in north and southern part of India. During collage days once one of my male friend started crying over his family member's illness. Two of our profesor came forward and started consoling him saying cry as much as you can. It will make your heart feel lighter and will make you strong to deal with the situation. My art teacher's body language sometimes will be little feminine, but I never saw he is criticised because of that. He holds the limka book of record for his work. But it is true that sometimes we do talk about like this boy or that boy behaves like a girl. But I didn't see that someone has criticised them for that. When I came to south for job and started communicating with a lot of south Indians and north Indians , I have seen people calling some boys 'chakka', which later I came to know the meaning. I have seen boys mock other boys just because they are shy or talk less or have a thin voice. I was introduced with this type of behavior when I came out from my state. I believe I was very lucky to have a good surroundings for my upbringing.
A family member was sick and the boy "cried"? And crying is ok?
No it is not, man up and do something about your sick family members, don't cry!!
It's NOT OK TO BE WEAK !! Why would anyone choose to be weak?
Be a man not a "Chakka" !!
Oh!!! I see a south indian again bragging about how south india is good and north india is crap!!! Keep your fake stories to yourselves. I don't know which sort of thinking you've developed
Joining the military is toxic masculinity? Bro get this guy a school degree.
There is no such thing as toxic masculinity, only toxicity which can be in any gender.
Dont make young boys feel guilty about being males even when they didn't themselves do anything wrong.
Masculinity is not anger, it's not a six pack body, it's not winning wars, but to take responsibility. To help others who need you.
If there was no so called toxic masculinity, the whole world would speak German
Reject modernity embrace masculinity ❤️
Not one of these men are masculine in the slightest 😂😂
they are pathetic and weak both physically and emotionally and they can't take a single punch 👊
Hey brut let the next topic be toxic femininity and try to bring some females who will talk about it .
I bet only a small number of girls would agree for that..that too is much also
@@visualsofvivek bro he is a cool dude who is very liberal... 😭Let him express his super concern for the society
Boys don't cry
Masculinity ko Toxic bolne wale mad hai
Reject opinion embrace masculinity
The best part of all these men is that all of them are have a copy paste phenotype of the stereotypical "wojacks" 😂😂😂
This also proves wojack meme isn't a stereotype 🤣
Some of my life experiences:
1. In my highschool, I was crying staring at the ground while sitting on the top of bench. Two classmates - one girl and one boy, started to chuckle looking at me because everybody have seen me in the class from third standard that I cry over a lot of things and "very easily", idk why they laughed exactly but I'm guessing if it was a girl, some conversation would have happened, not mockery. I could read on their faces that they were laughing thinking that it must be a girl (there was one who near around that time left the school out of blues and she was really close to me). I'm quite known in my class to having serious emotional issues with girls and their romantic bonds with me. It was not because of the girl I was crying... It was my best friend. My male (supposedly) best friend.
2. After highschool, I came across a really beautiful girl who was genuinely interested in me and knowing about me. I surely lost that chance to be with her as my insecurities and fear to open up were there. But even when she was the one who was able to point these insecurities, she herself told the person because of who we came in communication with, that amd I quote (in English, it was Hindi), "he's so emotional himself. I want a guy who would be able to love me." I make a sense of this statement and it's pretty clear she wanted someone who can take care of her emotions and she didn't have to go through giving therapy to someone else. Fair enough.
3. In my filmmaking institute, during the third semester, I was experimenting on my looks. I clean shaved my beard, and had streak coloured hairs with a pompadour hairstyle. I have been always like I am from ky childhood... Gentle, kind, humble, friendly, expressive, talkative, maybe funny? LOL, never mind. People in the batch turned their heads back and looked at me when one of the students from other batch who was also my friend, was telling everyone about this ex-teacher on whom she had a crush on because he was a really handsome and nice guy but turned out to be gay (or maybe she suspected or something she said about his behaviour in relation to being gay). Because of the similarity in the teacher's charm and me, they also suspected if I'm also a gay. Yes, obviously it was a joke.
4. March 2019, I was drunk and stoned as well. It was Holi and I was coming back from an event. Bunch of boys from our class were hanging out and one of them called me to meet all of us outside my house. I reached there and mocked my aforementioned (supposedly) best friend by refusing to shaking his hand and saying things such as "don't know why douchebags are here". He's obviously meant to be angry as we were not "best friends" anymore so rather communicating with me, he choose to be angry and abuse me over SMS when I refused to pick his phone call and argue. We had argument in SMS and I just wrote one single reply after his continued 3-4 texts that "you don't deserve my friendship" to which he got more angry and now blabbering whatever things he was getting in his head to make me feel inferior and represent himself as superior. He said things like "what piece of sh*t you sre, impotent a-hole, who would beg to be around you, you don't have anyone around you and I've everyone around me" etc. He typed in one of the sent messages this, and I quote - "what happened? Are you crying?" Well, I was not but that definitely hurt me when I saw that person with whom I shared such incredible moments and thought he's my best friend was now treating me as inferior for my nature. Obviously it was clear how he saw me throughout our friendship, that's why he didn't choose me as his best friend at the end.
5. Around a year back, I decided to be a proud homemaker... I first started to casually talk about it. One of the classmates said "there would be no respect left for you man. Men don't do these things." Even my own elder sister said "you're supposed to earn for your family by using your physical strength, men are who do this, not women". I really didn't understand through these people that why I'm required to always show and use my "physical strength" to provide for my family throughout my life, and why I can't just choose to NOT be the financial head rather an emotional support for my family. How a man is bound to follow the top hierarchy customs and traditions while being passively agressive for every little thing coming across in life for, at the end of the day just providing finance and materials to the family?
I really never have understood when is it a curse... To be born as a boy or be born as a girl.
There is no such thing as "toxic masculinity". The correct term is MALE DEPRESSION. Maculinity is not TOXIC, tf........
Toxic masculinity means the masculinity which is considered toxic. it doesn't means that masculinity is toxic
@@whatcha_lookin_at8110 I know but there are still better terms then that. People of different genders are very careful of terms which are given to them specially lgbtq. Male depression is much better term.
See you are confused. Good masculinity is different and toxic masculinity is different. There's nothing wrong in being masculine lmao.
Reject weakness embrace masculinity
Rejected modernity, embrace masculinity.
Finally a comment i looking for.
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"we are all gonna make it braahhh"
@@racistindian5316 zyzz energy 💪🏼💪🏼
Les go brahs