I have a few realistic financial goals for the year that are in my budget. I’ve made it one of my personal goals to go out for a walk somewhere I’ve not been before each weekend regardless of the weather!
I’d like to hear more about your journey with weaning yourself off of being a people pleaser. I’ve been in that situation since childhood and it puts a lot of pressure on yourself. I’m almost afraid to be less like this as I feel that people won’t like me as much. I’m thought of as kind, generous and thoughtful which I’d like to continue being but with less emphasis on trying to be everything to everyone but I don’t want to be thought of as uncaring! Where do you start!!! Great video by the way xx
I'm a people pleaser. It takes practise. I still get a pang when I say no but I try and think about how saying yes would affect me, my husband and kids. If it's negative and not worth it then it makes it easier (not easy !) to say no.
I'm so glad I'm not the only who rushes into setting Goals on Jan 1st. My midset this year is Grace & Patience. I am going to try and have 1 Goal a month that can stack on to the previous if that makes sense. When I write a list I get overwhelmed and end up not doing any of them 😅
That's amazing! I know this one is a bit late to the party, but then I never was one for trends 🙃 I like to make goals I have taken a lot of time over and can stick to.Grace and Patience is a beautiful mindset for the year! x
I completely get this! It's hard when there's not a predicted income but once the basics can be worked on (EF, Budget, Spending habits, Singink funds etc) then it really helps get control over our finances x
I have a few realistic financial goals for the year that are in my budget. I’ve made it one of my personal goals to go out for a walk somewhere I’ve not been before each weekend regardless of the weather!
That's a lovely goal! Really nice to get out and explore somewhere new, good for you! xx
I’d like to hear more about your journey with weaning yourself off of being a people pleaser. I’ve been in that situation since childhood and it puts a lot of pressure on yourself. I’m almost afraid to be less like this as I feel that people won’t like me as much. I’m thought of as kind, generous and thoughtful which I’d like to continue being but with less emphasis on trying to be everything to everyone but I don’t want to be thought of as uncaring! Where do you start!!! Great video by the way xx
I'm a people pleaser. It takes practise. I still get a pang when I say no but I try and think about how saying yes would affect me, my husband and kids. If it's negative and not worth it then it makes it easier (not easy !) to say no.
Hi Lara, very interesting vlog. Love how you look at life. Has given me a new aspect of how to approach matters that impact on me. Thanks Again x
Oh that's a lovely comment, thanks so much, I'm really glad you enjoyed it xx
I'm so glad I'm not the only who rushes into setting Goals on Jan 1st. My midset this year is Grace & Patience. I am going to try and have 1 Goal a month that can stack on to the previous if that makes sense. When I write a list I get overwhelmed and end up not doing any of them 😅
That's amazing! I know this one is a bit late to the party, but then I never was one for trends 🙃 I like to make goals I have taken a lot of time over and can stick to.Grace and Patience is a beautiful mindset for the year! x
My finances are a priority this year. I work fir myself so i dont always get a
Steady income
I completely get this! It's hard when there's not a predicted income but once the basics can be worked on (EF, Budget, Spending habits, Singink funds etc) then it really helps get control over our finances x
Really enjoyed this video Lara great job
Thank you so much! xx