@@Sodogyunjukse For what it's worth, my snarky one, circumstances did have me return home after living out-of-state, on my own, for a couple of years. My mother had been widowed for several decades and had been living by herself. We'd lived together for about six years, until she was placed in an Adult Care facility. A friend of my mother commented to me, after her passing, just how much she'd appreciated me staying with her as I did. And my mother was, indeed, a sweet person, and I don't believed she'd wanted me out of her house!!
To OP - Sounds like you dodged a massive bullet, but let’s be real-letting someone’s best friend move in rent-free without clear boundaries was a rookie mistake. This could’ve been avoided if you laid down the rules upfront. Not everything is on them; some accountability is needed on your end too. Just saying!
@@davidnash8208 There are times when victims do share blame and it's absurd to pretend otherwise. That's some naive reddit nonsense. I was a victim of severe physical ass*ult when I was 21, and I sure as heck shared blame for it. The ass*ult was not in any way proportional to what I did, but I am regardless partially to blame for the situation. Had I been smarter and listened to reason, it would not have happened. People told me afterwards that I was a moron, and they were right. But that doesn't absolve the person who ass*ulted me of guilt. On the contrary he got severely punished for it, in court.
I'm assuming it was because she had moved in with him already by that point. Just judging by the fact she was always there and said something about him taking care of her.
If you are a dormat simp it's better you offer to pay hotel for the friend or anyone than to take them in even for a night. Inevitably this always seems to extend. Next thing you know they have tenant's rights. Eff that. Too much risk.
What a little spineless little wimp... it's your house dude, what are you doing compromising with a guest?😂😂😂.. throw them both out and get a new girlfriend.. "You'll never find another girl like me", thank God for that😂😂😂.. I think he took too long to kick them out..
OP's father is an idiot. If you own the house before the marriage, why would you add your new spouse's name when you get married? That's a good way to lose your house if/when you get divorced.
Because blue pilled men think it is a declaration of love and respect you give to your woman. Problem is 99% of women these days are not wife material and even most boomer women have failed the longevity test for being a wife.
What happened to the girlfriend's apartment? She should have housed her friend ovee there. I dont understand why girlfriend wasnt contributing herself. She's an entitled B. too.
As those pieces of shit weren’t tenants with rights, OP could have gotten rid of them quicker by stopping the restock of groceries and cut off the power and water when he wasn’t home using it as well as locking up anything else they may have needed to use but didn’t own.
How can he allow this for this long? This problem would only last 5 minutes if that were my house. How did he allow such disrespect?! Again, a male believing he should shoulder all the costs based on gender. He was a doormat until he had enough.
@@lawrencelopez9839 Yup, main character has to let it go on long enough to hit whatever monetization milestone the channel owner wants, in this case it looks like 20 minutes.
@@sugarbeefwhile also attrak the attention of "alpha males" who Will mock the wumahn and the simps or the women who Will be angry about the cheating husband and the mistress that always Will get pregnant/ fake the pregnancy / be left pennyless because she was a gold digger
Meh. I let my best buddy move in and sleep in the couch for a few months after he broke up with his girlfriend. There were no issues, he found a new apartment and moved out after 4 months or so. When my apartment bathroom was being renovated (water damage from the upstairs neighbors) I could use his place to shower. Real friends are never going to be an issue.
Why did he support his GF ⁉BIG red flag.A decent person wouldn't accept such an arrangement.They would offer to contribute in the bills and groceries.He let in a parasite and the parasite invited another one to leech on the host.
When her friends call on her behalf ask for their address to have them move in with them. Be thankful the friend with the backing of your gf, didn't make a false SA report. Wake up, never be nice to your gf or her friends!
Sadly a lot of young men today find themselves as being an ATM. Is she with you for you or your resources. OP tolerated increased levels of disrespect for far too long. The moment her friend disrespected me she would have been put out. There is a reason why they say nice guys finish last and this is a prime example.
I'm sorry, but how many times did he discuss this but let it go? How did he let it go on and on while both his GF and her friend completely disrespect him? How many times did we hear him say that this was enough? Even after he said they needed to leave they still ignored him. He handled this like a complete and utter chump. It was only when it got so bad he had to kick them both out that he took proper action. This is a classic example of how not to let toxic people take over your life.
Why did take this man so long to kick the "friend" out and break up with her girlfriend sooner? He might have well have been a door mat, until he grew a pair. For those persons who sympathized with the two leeches, why aren't they housing them?
Sounds like to me that Girlfriends friend would have ended up at your apartment even if you had originally said No from the outset as it seems to be your Girlfriend’s nature.
U show ur appreciation by trying to contribute, offer,it shows she doesn't have manners and the girlfriend doesn't either,he already let ur friend in the house least u could do is respect him
Dude, even after marriage you don't put anyone on your house. This way they can't take everything from you. As a woman, you can't trust women nowadays. And do a prenup.
If OP has the mortgage then he should also pay for all the utility bills Wouldn't it make more sense if he's paying the mortgage then they pay the utilities.
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"You'll never find someone like me!"
"Don't threaten me with a good time!"
@@DrownedInExile There was a joke where someone replied to that line with: "I certainly hope not! That's why we're breaking up!!"
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My mother once said, "It's easy to get someone into your house, but it's hard as Hell to get them out!"
Man is that true
I really hope she is a sweet person and was not talking about you😢
@@Sodogyunjukse For what it's worth, my snarky one, circumstances did have me return home after living out-of-state, on my own, for a couple of years.
My mother had been widowed for several decades and had been living by herself. We'd lived together for about six years, until she was placed in an Adult Care facility.
A friend of my mother commented to me, after her passing, just how much she'd appreciated me staying with her as I did.
And my mother was, indeed, a sweet person, and I don't believed she'd wanted me out of her house!!
@@KDC256 Thank you for sharing such a wonderful story.
To OP - Sounds like you dodged a massive bullet, but let’s be real-letting someone’s best friend move in rent-free without clear boundaries was a rookie mistake. This could’ve been avoided if you laid down the rules upfront. Not everything is on them; some accountability is needed on your end too. Just saying!
In my country it is a simple matter. Open the door and tell them to get out!
No legal nonsense.
Why would OP put up with that despicable girlfriend for so long ? SMH
I'm thinking insanely hot and a tiger in bed
If its the first serious relationship, you havent learned to enforce boundaries and how to enforce self respect in a relationship
Low level T wimp.
Is that how you snap😂😂
Boiling the frog
OP was absurdly passive and spineless for waaayyyy too long. His GF showed her true colors almost immediately and he just stood there and took it.
Simp 101
I knew there would be victim-blaming in the comments.
@@davidnash8208 There are times when victims do share blame and it's absurd to pretend otherwise. That's some naive reddit nonsense. I was a victim of severe physical ass*ult when I was 21, and I sure as heck shared blame for it. The ass*ult was not in any way proportional to what I did, but I am regardless partially to blame for the situation. Had I been smarter and listened to reason, it would not have happened. People told me afterwards that I was a moron, and they were right. But that doesn't absolve the person who ass*ulted me of guilt. On the contrary he got severely punished for it, in court.
"You're acting broke."
Says two unemployed women.
Strong independent wahmen are just tall children😂
Why didn't he tell his gf to have her friend stay at her place instead? What a simp.
You're right.
I'm assuming it was because she had moved in with him already by that point. Just judging by the fact she was always there and said something about him taking care of her.
If you are a dormat simp it's better you offer to pay hotel for the friend or anyone than to take them in even for a night. Inevitably this always seems to extend. Next thing you know they have tenant's rights. Eff that. Too much risk.
OP is lucky. His GF could have become pregnant. 18 years tied to her.
The "friends" who said you are heartless give the two free loaders the "friends" address and tell them your "friends" said they can move in with them.
2 weeks? OK. TWO WEEKS ONLY!
"Stop being stingy." I would I have said "Get out, now!"
What a little spineless little wimp... it's your house dude, what are you doing compromising with a guest?😂😂😂.. throw them both out and get a new girlfriend.. "You'll never find another girl like me", thank God for that😂😂😂.. I think he took too long to kick them out..
If the friend continued taking absurdly long showers, the OP should just shut off the hot water before he leaves for work
OP's father is an idiot. If you own the house before the marriage, why would you add your new spouse's name when you get married? That's a good way to lose your house if/when you get divorced.
Because blue pilled men think it is a declaration of love and respect you give to your woman. Problem is 99% of women these days are not wife material and even most boomer women have failed the longevity test for being a wife.
What happened to the girlfriend's apartment? She should have housed her friend ovee there. I dont understand why girlfriend wasnt contributing herself. She's an entitled B. too.
As those pieces of shit weren’t tenants with rights, OP could have gotten rid of them quicker by stopping the restock of groceries and cut off the power and water when he wasn’t home using it as well as locking up anything else they may have needed to use but didn’t own.
Spineless....... Absolutely spineless. The men in these reddit stories don't have a spine.
Wait, he never says the gf had given up her apartment and moved in permanently. So why isn't bff staying at the gf apartment?
How can he allow this for this long? This problem would only last 5 minutes if that were my house. How did he allow such disrespect?! Again, a male believing he should shoulder all the costs based on gender. He was a doormat until he had enough.
it's ai generated.
@@lawrencelopez9839 Yup, main character has to let it go on long enough to hit whatever monetization milestone the channel owner wants, in this case it looks like 20 minutes.
@lawrencelopez9839 rage bait stories cause I want to slap common sense into OP.
@@sugarbeefwhile also attrak the attention of "alpha males" who Will mock the wumahn and the simps or the women who Will be angry about the cheating husband and the mistress that always Will get pregnant/ fake the pregnancy / be left pennyless because she was a gold digger
Depending on the weather, turn off the electricity, turn off the gas, don’t buy groceries.
Never let someone move in your place, not paying rent, no matter how sad of a sob story they give you.
Meh. I let my best buddy move in and sleep in the couch for a few months after he broke up with his girlfriend. There were no issues, he found a new apartment and moved out after 4 months or so. When my apartment bathroom was being renovated (water damage from the upstairs neighbors) I could use his place to shower. Real friends are never going to be an issue.
OP has the patience of JOBE , boy did you dodge two bullets. talking about CHOOSEY BEGGARS.
Really OP? Another door mat .
Why did he support his GF ⁉BIG red flag.A decent person wouldn't accept such an arrangement.They would offer to contribute in the bills and groceries.He let in a parasite and the parasite invited another one to leech on the host.
OP was such a doormat for so long jesus
Weak man putting his little head in charge learning the hard way
Everybody plays the game better when they are told the rules of the game,before the game starts.
When her friends call on her behalf ask for their address to have them move in with them.
Be thankful the friend with the backing of your gf, didn't make a false SA report.
Wake up, never be nice to your gf or her friends!
Sadly a lot of young men today find themselves as being an ATM. Is she with you for you or your resources. OP tolerated increased levels of disrespect for far too long. The moment her friend disrespected me she would have been put out. There is a reason why they say nice guys finish last and this is a prime example.
I'm sorry, but how many times did he discuss this but let it go? How did he let it go on and on while both his GF and her friend completely disrespect him? How many times did we hear him say that this was enough? Even after he said they needed to leave they still ignored him. He handled this like a complete and utter chump. It was only when it got so bad he had to kick them both out that he took proper action. This is a classic example of how not to let toxic people take over your life.
Why did take this man so long to kick the "friend" out and break up with her girlfriend sooner? He might have well have been a door mat, until he grew a pair. For those persons who sympathized with the two leeches, why aren't they housing them?
Sounds like to me that Girlfriends friend would have ended up at your apartment even if you had originally said No from the outset as it seems to be your Girlfriend’s nature.
U show ur appreciation by trying to contribute, offer,it shows she doesn't have manners and the girlfriend doesn't either,he already let ur friend in the house least u could do is respect him
The housé das empty when the Police came she was in te room?
Why did OP's gf move in after less than 8 months?
You deserve it for letting them walk over you
Why do you have to suffer like that?
Broke up your girl friend.
They were squatters, not friends
Dude, even after marriage you don't put anyone on your house. This way they can't take everything from you. As a woman, you can't trust women nowadays. And do a prenup.
By the behaviour it sounds like you were dating a 12yr old girl.
Idiotic story, the protagonist is a total pushover, he should have never agreed to it in the first place
If OP has the mortgage then he should also pay for all the utility bills
Wouldn't it make more sense if he's paying the mortgage then they pay the utilities.
This guy is so ridiculously wimpy. 🙄
Is he a simp or something?
well so OP not live in california.
Let your friend take care of the leach.
The pathetic part is that he doesn't have the spine to remove them by force. Utterly spineless cuckold behaviour.
But she's having a relationship with her Friend 🥱😏🙄