OSHO: The Idea that Children Are Your Children Is Wrong
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- Stress is everywhere in our modern world. The demands of parenting can make that stress even harder to manage. So, would spending a few minutes doing nothing, without any distractions every day be helpful? Of course, but where to find the time in a busy schedule?
Would you also love to find the time to spend with your kids?
Supposing we combine both of these? Would that help?
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i grew up christian pentecostal in new york. my father told me himself that i am his property. i had to go to church and follow his orders or i would be beaten. now i live in china, i have my own son. i dont raise him religious or atheist, i simply raise him. i want him to be the person he was born to be and do my best to keep his growth from religious, cultural, or other kinds of interference.
Good for you and your son 👍...
Came from a very traditional background myself. Taking off those mental chains has been heavy work
Well done
The best gift a mother can give to her children...
The only spiritual guru for all time, I was searching for one for the last 40-50 years and I found him but I wish I could have found him before
Osho is totally different from anyone so far before him, I pray for him to revisit us asap
Im only 16 and everything Osho says explains my exact outlook on life..
+aly c (kitty) that is a great thing. remain open and sensitive, your life will flourish.
It's symbol u hv a great intellect.
Damn me too
You lucky dog!
@@sankhua aaàaaàaaaaaaaaààaaaaaaa
Every human being should be very aware of this fact before having children, it's very important, spread the video as much as you can!! Thanks Osho
You are right but society interferes in everybody's life. Children are influenced by the world.
Consciousness is the only way.
how come there are still ppl who don't understand this and say he is crazy and an awfull person?
Gibran Khalil Gibran :
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable.
Khalil Gibran was a talented writer, poet and good human being. Osho is a con man who took peoples life savings and owned a fleet of 100 Rolls Royces.
No enlightened man wants ONE Rolls Royce much less a fleet of 100.
@@ExtrovertedCenobite I don't know how can anyone decide what an enlightened man wants or not want. I have observed that enlightenment has proved to have several paths, and every path and relevant person has it's own preferences. Saying that he shouldn't have accepted Rolls Royces or gifts as an enlightened person is like we shouldn't eat with spoons if we have hands.
@@ExtrovertedCenobite , the world is full of conman, but, you should learn from him if something good can be learned. This is what a wise man do even after coming across a conman.
Wow incredible.
Now that is deep.
Every parent should watch this.
And every young adult thinking of having children
Hearing this message again in 2023 is still so very true and helpful. This message helped me so much when I heard it years ago as a young parent. ❤❤❤
Im gonna send it to my parents
you should watch it again 4 u not interfere with you kids future .. ur parebts are done with u
Wonderful! And so much contrary to modern society where children are eternally fusioned with their parents because the consumer paradigm requires it for its own survival. This is such an honest way of telling people that children are spiritual beings, not possessions. It is what the late Françoise Dolto said, the eminent child therapist. Thanks for posting this invaluable video. Osho may be shocking at times (why are there no comments here....) but he's always bluntly honest.
I hope my parents did not stunt my growth. I listened to them. I am sure they have prevented me making mistakes. But then we learn from our mistakes early in life. Many parents can't hold on to this message. Even today I like to advise my grown up adult son, but many times I can sense that he thinks I am wasting my time. Osho is right - perhaps I was 'conditioned' to thinking in a certain way which may have hampered my true understanding of the world.
Yes, only once we understand and experience that we are all spiritual beings in human form, and each one of us are unique, we can understand what he says!
Our experiencing of parenting allowing Osho's suggestions is a daughter who is lovely,gentle,independent and creative,
while at the same time successful in the world (or as Osho might say, In the world yet not of it.) Our gratitude to this
enlightened mystic poet is immense and everlasting.
I would like to know if there is a longer talk of this because i'd like to listen to it, Thank you
I wish I could like this video a trillion times! ❤️👑
growing up in FREEDOM.... for all children in the world...
All parents should see this video.
osho telling the truth
back to traditional and original ways of raising children
african and asian way of raising a child is to let it in the hands of the whole village
then he can be a real individual
And also to beat the child for any little thing and let it do the housework and no school. No to speak of slaughtering the girls genitals. In africa anyway. Osho is good and wise. But dont think in africa it is wonderful to be a child.
@@truffaut0650 i am african growing up was wonderful. What are you talking about
'They belong to existence'
Wow! :)
That is exactly how i am feeling................... Sad but so truth ..........
Osho is my master!
Far ahead from time....
My parents went to their grave hating me because I didn’t live up to their standards.
You are your parents
You made your choice... So did they
You did a wonderful job by ignoring their standards!
Felt it, experienced it. It is the conditioning that binds. But that is also the truth that they are the victims of the conditioning too. Hence as a gratitude to our own being, we should forgive them. Love & Respect for you, Master. 🙏
Very nice vedio full agree as every soul is one but different impressions so if you want to grow up your children then allow them in Natural way don't impose your impressions your wish on your children other wise you both partners end up in old age Asharam jai shree Krishna ji ki jai Charan sparsh,jai Guru Dev ji ki jai Charan sparsh
And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, "Speak to us of Children."
And he said:
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.
Kahlil Gibran!!!
Right!
great thiker of 21 centuary.
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how the fuck people dislike his videos i dont get it
Osho you are great person i ever seen.
Most people simply should not be parents. They think it’s a big game.
"YESSIRMADAME, lach, really beautifully, HERZlichst DANKE, jawohloooove, PLITSCHplatschhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh"
I want to be free like osho
Exactly right...
Very Well Explained by Bhagwan Rajneesh about our assets which we are thinking since the human are born that our children is ours !!
What if ones parents not able understand this words of wisdom ....
Don't worry think about your childrens are never going to be worried about your concern.
The majority of parents are not going to understand the wisdom. Even if they do, they're not going to accept it.
Make money and leave
yes master you says rite.......you have only past and they have feature both are different do not impose your beliefs on there new age new time
Thank god I don't "have" children in this modern world. I believe in the saying "It takes a village" and I take it literally... And methinks an [enlightened] village would be much more adept at properly raising children than even most enlightened/adept parent or pair of parents...and I don't see many enlightened villages in this world even when I look for them...so yeah.
Can i put a headphones on my parents ears in theie sleep so they can listen to this.
It is not necessary to copy the parents. The children since the most remote childhood imitate singers, dancers, presenters, superheroes, tv programs. And the parents applaud them : "I must be doing the correct thing. Dad and Mom are laughing lots, so the neighbors, family. " They are investing in the child, a future success, but all in all - we will ave another carbon copy, again. Thanks for the video.
Sadguru preaches similar to osho
Reality 🙏🙏🙏🙏
They know better than us.. but when you ask them what better do they know…
This the only guy who can make me feel fear whenever I’m happily unaware
Agree, but his other video about HELP says don’t help and don’t enter fear. Kinda confused
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"your children are not yours! They are the children of life" Jibran Khalil Jibran
Precioso maestro osho 🙏🙏🙏
Showering is good for health
I am coming flood gates!!
Existence is enough.
Harley davidson!!
🥀🕊️👁️🤍👁️🕊️🥀
🔥
Osho ❤
أوشو المحبه 💚
But they don't understand osho.... They always say that they are feeding us so we have no right to take our own life decisions. We have to abide by our parents.... Uuff this is too much....
Reminds me of Kahlil Gibran's..
It really makes sense
This doesn't mean that these kids aren't yours, it means adapt to the times they live and accept their dreams and respect them as individuals. They are your kids, they just aren't as you or want same things u wanted.
🙏🙏🙏
😍
..that Child grow up and want his Children to be as he Thinks too much Apparently
I'm not a carbon copy I don't work like my dad but I do have the same name as him maybe that is a carbon copy lol its crazy cause I don't belong to society. Idk man but this world is all polluted I see mostly everybody enjoying there life and I was the chosen one for this existence and I feel like I don't belong IMA all confused
bulshit
Osho how can you say that? A mother experiences immense pain while delivering a child and now you are saying that their children dont belong to them? Wtf? Holding baby in her womb for 9 months and then going through immense pain just to abandon that child to existence?? Is that what you are trying to say? I agree with you on the point that we have no right to impose our own views on childrens but telling that out children don't belong to us is stupidity.
You need to meditate more to understand the essence of oshos message
You don't understand Osho correctly!!!!
He is explaining White and you are understanding Black.
The most beautiful way of explaining = understood wrongly.
It is like the yinyang symbol, Osho is explaing it in its totality. And you are receiving it in fragments. You have lost the two dots in the white and in the black fishes. The black fish with the white dot = listening from inner silence. The black fish without the White dot is judgemental-listening.
The fish lost his inner silence!!!!
Kahlil Gibran tells exactly the same about chidren and parents.
I feel pity on you becz u cn never understand him... And by the way, nothing is ours in this world.
I hope you don't blackmail your children by reminding them about your nine months, your milk etc