This goes for both men and women when it comes to relationships: Don't expect to be treated like a king or a queen if you treat your partner/spouse like a servant or a peasant.
You get out what you put in,it is a partnership in life,my wife is not any less or more than me,we both bring different things to the table ,but she will always be referred to as my wife not my partner,keeping it old skool like me
The word submissive should be replaced with cooperative because I think most of relationships in society are based on cooperation rather than submission
I was always tough, to survive I had to be. It was so hard to put the walls down. My husband…. He’s the one who showed me he was safe. And I’m so happy he feels the same. Our twentieth wedding anniversary is August 25, 2024. Together 21 years. He’s home. And so am I. I am a traditional wife and mom. We choose that from day one, so I’d be home with our sons. I want this stability to show them what they deserve, as good men. But a family can look however you need. This was the one that we needed.
You have to be tough around everyone not just men, and more so with people who seem harmful that's the issue women you put walls to good men and just open it up to whatever jackass you come across and the cycle repeats, then I should say the same a put walls to women just bc some are disgusting? That's the funny part women wanna men prove to them, but you don't want to prove the other way around that's a convenient game, that's the root of all this toxicity in dating, rules for some, no rules for the rest, I can be toxic and you man have to heal me, that's dumb imo.
I recall being a little peeved that my wife didn't keep her surname when we married at the beginning of the 90s... Hippie Era boomer, she neither wears makeup nor shaves. Fine by me, neither do l! I did my share of child minding(work from home dad), but left the mothering to her: she was the better parent. I give her most of the credit for how well our son turned out. So many kids have addiction issues. I worked quite long hours: you don't get a break working for yourself.
This is not a Woman thing. This is a Human thing. You WANT to do things for the person you love. Then being happy and fulfilled MAKES YOU happy and fulfilled. It's how we have always been, it works in both directions.
THIS IS EXACTLY WHY AMERICAN WOMEN ARE NOT AN OPTION, WHEN IT COMES TO DATING, OR ANYTHING! Women from other countries offer more, bring more to the table, and beyond American women in maturity.
i don't even blame women any more if the truth was told and the right systems (pro-human) were in place our society could have a harmonious relationship between the sexes. normal women are very open to suggestion and that is initially out of love. but the lizards that controlled everything hate natural love and sex. I was in a halfway house with a good mix of men and women and everyone was on the same page and each had a bed buddy. that house was so peaceful.
I don't understand why there's this insistence on using the word submissive. There are better words that don't carry the same connotations. Use one of the many more suitable words that doesn't carry that same connotation. Instead of explaining what a word 'really' means, just replace the word you're defending with the words you use in your explanation. Saying trust, cooperation, or whatever isn't any more difficult and communicates more clearly. Consistently using that word in spite of better options, especially when the people who insist on that word the most are toxic redpill types (of like the Fresh & Fit variety who DO promote that women are immoral unless they fulfill traditional roles and give up their agency), makes it look like what we're really trying to do is trick people into accepting the connotations of that word trojan horse style. As an MRA, I don't like being associated with that.
When I married 38 years ago, I don’t recall ever having a formal discussion with my wife about the “division of duties.” We just fell into our natural roles based on our skill sets: she cooked, shopped, cleaned the house, did the laundry, and was the primary caregiver of the children when they were young. I worked the usual 40 hours per week, did the yard work, did the house repairs, maintained the cars and all the mechanical stuff in the house, and did what I could when the children were young and assumed more responsibilities when they got older.
That woman has been freed from the grasp of corrupting evil. I’m not saying women need to be their spouse’s slave, but I’m saying they don’t need to be some toxic hater or exploiter of men that hates women who support true gender equality. Every relationship is different, just like how every person is different. You just need to find what works for you and your potential partner.
I know a guy with a 1950s style relationship and that works well for them, on the other hand I know a husband and wife where the wife has a job she can do from home too. There are plenty of ways a relationship can be done. How successful depends on the people
Cooperation works way better than this hyper competitive nonsense in most relationships. Men have to swallow their pride too in hopes to keep a relationship cooperative. If a woman in a relationship is having it too well, the man is paying for it with money time and sanity.
Women tend to mistake the word submission for subjugation. Submission is obedience given willingly out of love and respect. Subjugation is obedience given out of fear of repercussions. Men generally have most of the traits that good leaders are required to have so it shouldn't be surprising that we generally fill the roll of leader. To follow is not a bad thing. To follow blindly is.
@@theupson To serve your fellow man is what makes you human. You're both there in a relationship to serve, but in different ways. A mans job is to lead. In doing so, he's serving his wife's best interest by offering logic over emotion. Pragmatism over idealism. A man serves his family by providing resources. Whatever that may entail, but most commonly takes the form of money.
@@aaronburdon221 There's no men's or women's jobs. There's just whatever works for any given person or relationship. The mentality you describe is pretentious as hell, and reeks of manifest destiny. It's really gross. Anyone neutral reading this, don't let this represent MRAs. It doesn't represent me. I just want men & women to treat each other with equal respect and have equal rights. People can have whatever relationship they want so long as everyone involved is acting of their own uncoerced free will.
My grandmother was a feminist. She worked with my grandfather 50/50 on building a successful small business in a historically economically depressed region of Canada. Her oldest daughter (one of my favorite aunts) was a feminist. She was one of the first women invited to the modern Olympics in 1928 as a 17-year-old sprinter. My mother was a feminist. In 1967 she was the first woman elected in her own right to chair the Town Council where I grew up. She also campaigned hard for my home state's first female governor. All of these true feminists we're able to maintain their femininity while doing all of these things, and would be horrified at the DEvolution of feminism into the cesspool of hypocritical misandry that it is today.
Where are these women? I've never witnessed one. I'm always expected to be the only cook, the only cleaner, and pay bills. It's literally every woman I've ever met.
Its almost as if women are maternalistic and like to do things they are capable of for the men they love. But men can do everything for themselves and woman can to. A symbiotic relationship is silly.
When a woman submits to a man, he is indirectly submitting to her. Healthy relationships are the ones, where actually no submission is adressed from any side, powergames excluded, and where both compete rather for the interest of the other.
This is why there is a difference between being vulnerable and being submissive. One lets you enjoy doing things for your partner and then letting them take care of you on the next turn around, and the other is being told what to do while then being told how worthless you are if you say no because they only care about theirself.
Honestly I feel like when a woman is doing everything like cooking and cleaning for the man the man is honestly depend more dependent on her yeah he's provides the everything but she provides the comfort which makes me think he's more dependent on her yeah man I can cook and clean for yourself, but it got me thinking about what is a female comedian Ali Wong said she wanted to cook and clean for her husband not to be like a submissive housewife but because he will be totally dependent on her.😂😂
Once again proving my thesis that women are literally physically incapable of loving unconditionally. Only men seem to be able to do this. That's why when men provide, they don't talk about how they do it solely to make their family dependent on them, they do it out of a sense of duty. Women only "provide" insofar as it gets them something in return.
I cook for my partner because i want to cook, it makes me happy. But I’ll also accept anything my partner would make or do with me. It’s nice to spend time with them and we just vibe together regardless of what we do
This goes for both men and women when it comes to relationships: Don't expect to be treated like a king or a queen if you treat your partner/spouse like a servant or a peasant.
Facts teamwork makes the dream work
You get out what you put in,it is a partnership in life,my wife is not any less or more than me,we both bring different things to the table ,but she will always be referred to as my wife not my partner,keeping it old skool like me
facts
Exactly! Thank you!
@@lonniemcdaniel1402exactly! If a relationship isn’t a team, then it’s not a relationship.
The word submissive should be replaced with cooperative because I think most of relationships in society are based on cooperation rather than submission
@@arasabdo60 submit defines as confide in
I was always tough, to survive I had to be. It was so hard to put the walls down. My husband…. He’s the one who showed me he was safe. And I’m so happy he feels the same. Our twentieth wedding anniversary is August 25, 2024. Together 21 years. He’s home. And so am I. I am a traditional wife and mom. We choose that from day one, so I’d be home with our sons. I want this stability to show them what they deserve, as good men. But a family can look however you need. This was the one that we needed.
You have to be tough around everyone not just men, and more so with people who seem harmful that's the issue women you put walls to good men and just open it up to whatever jackass you come across and the cycle repeats, then I should say the same a put walls to women just bc some are disgusting? That's the funny part women wanna men prove to them, but you don't want to prove the other way around that's a convenient game, that's the root of all this toxicity in dating, rules for some, no rules for the rest, I can be toxic and you man have to heal me, that's dumb imo.
I recall being a little peeved that my wife didn't keep her surname when we married at the beginning of the 90s... Hippie Era boomer, she neither wears makeup nor shaves. Fine by me, neither do l! I did my share of child minding(work from home dad), but left the mothering to her: she was the better parent. I give her most of the credit for how well our son turned out. So many kids have addiction issues. I worked quite long hours: you don't get a break working for yourself.
When what's been oppressive for the past ten years is no longer seen as oppressive. Jesus, I love the female mind.
This is not a Woman thing. This is a Human thing. You WANT to do things for the person you love. Then being happy and fulfilled MAKES YOU happy and fulfilled. It's how we have always been, it works in both directions.
That’s right it has to be a genuine match of energy. Not one sided
Please we need you here in South Africa talk to our woman they outrageously misguided
THIS IS EXACTLY WHY AMERICAN WOMEN ARE NOT AN OPTION, WHEN IT COMES TO DATING, OR ANYTHING! Women from other countries offer more, bring more to the table, and beyond American women in maturity.
Not at all what she said dude…
Is he disgusted with... being nice?
i don't even blame women any more if the truth was told and the right systems (pro-human) were in place our society could have a harmonious relationship between the sexes. normal women are very open to suggestion and that is initially out of love. but the lizards that controlled everything hate natural love and sex. I was in a halfway house with a good mix of men and women and everyone was on the same page and each had a bed buddy. that house was so peaceful.
I’m about to be. 54 would love a women like that an me single she do whatever 😂she does
I don't understand why there's this insistence on using the word submissive. There are better words that don't carry the same connotations. Use one of the many more suitable words that doesn't carry that same connotation. Instead of explaining what a word 'really' means, just replace the word you're defending with the words you use in your explanation. Saying trust, cooperation, or whatever isn't any more difficult and communicates more clearly.
Consistently using that word in spite of better options, especially when the people who insist on that word the most are toxic redpill types (of like the Fresh & Fit variety who DO promote that women are immoral unless they fulfill traditional roles and give up their agency), makes it look like what we're really trying to do is trick people into accepting the connotations of that word trojan horse style. As an MRA, I don't like being associated with that.
Dogs are submissive to their masters too.... does that make them any less loving?
When I married 38 years ago, I don’t recall ever having a formal discussion with my wife about the “division of duties.” We just fell into our natural roles based on our skill sets: she cooked, shopped, cleaned the house, did the laundry, and was the primary caregiver of the children when they were young. I worked the usual 40 hours per week, did the yard work, did the house repairs, maintained the cars and all the mechanical stuff in the house, and did what I could when the children were young and assumed more responsibilities when they got older.
For what it’s worth, your comment is exceptionally well punctuated.
@@jamesmcisaac9545 Thank you.
That woman has been freed from the grasp of corrupting evil. I’m not saying women need to be their spouse’s slave, but I’m saying they don’t need to be some toxic hater or exploiter of men that hates women who support true gender equality.
Every relationship is different, just like how every person is different. You just need to find what works for you and your potential partner.
I know a guy with a 1950s style relationship and that works well for them, on the other hand I know a husband and wife where the wife has a job she can do from home too. There are plenty of ways a relationship can be done. How successful depends on the people
Good girls. Look after each other in complimentary ways.
Facts
plthank you!!!
Cooperation works way better than this hyper competitive nonsense in most relationships. Men have to swallow their pride too in hopes to keep a relationship cooperative. If a woman in a relationship is having it too well, the man is paying for it with money time and sanity.
It's funny, because I've seen this happen many times. Radical feminists just need to find true love. But they tend not to be that lovable
See how the gears run in these machines?just be carefull.
Well yeah because that's what it naturally is.... A female cooking a man's dinner is just a natural thing. There's nothing sexist about it
“I think I’ve been possesed” yup and it’s called loving and wanting to take care of your man. I’m sure he feels the same too😊
No thank you
It’s so sad that this whole world is where it is.
its too late for this
Women tend to mistake the word submission for subjugation. Submission is obedience given willingly out of love and respect. Subjugation is obedience given out of fear of repercussions. Men generally have most of the traits that good leaders are required to have so it shouldn't be surprising that we generally fill the roll of leader. To follow is not a bad thing. To follow blindly is.
"i don't know why the people i want to serve me are too stupid to realize they want to serve me"
@@theupson To serve your fellow man is what makes you human. You're both there in a relationship to serve, but in different ways. A mans job is to lead. In doing so, he's serving his wife's best interest by offering logic over emotion. Pragmatism over idealism. A man serves his family by providing resources. Whatever that may entail, but most commonly takes the form of money.
@@aaronburdon221 There's no men's or women's jobs. There's just whatever works for any given person or relationship. The mentality you describe is pretentious as hell, and reeks of manifest destiny. It's really gross.
Anyone neutral reading this, don't let this represent MRAs. It doesn't represent me. I just want men & women to treat each other with equal respect and have equal rights. People can have whatever relationship they want so long as everyone involved is acting of their own uncoerced free will.
My grandmother was a feminist. She worked with my grandfather 50/50 on building a successful small business in a historically economically depressed region of Canada. Her oldest daughter (one of my favorite aunts) was a feminist. She was one of the first women invited to the modern Olympics in 1928 as a 17-year-old sprinter. My mother was a feminist. In 1967 she was the first woman elected in her own right to chair the Town Council where I grew up. She also campaigned hard for my home state's first female governor. All of these true feminists we're able to maintain their femininity while doing all of these things, and would be horrified at the DEvolution of feminism into the cesspool of hypocritical misandry that it is today.
Beautiful
I expected this video to be totally cringe. But a woman wanting to take care of her man isn’t cringe.
Where are these women? I've never witnessed one. I'm always expected to be the only cook, the only cleaner, and pay bills. It's literally every woman I've ever met.
Its almost as if women are maternalistic and like to do things they are capable of for the men they love. But men can do everything for themselves and woman can to. A symbiotic relationship is silly.
When a woman submits to a man, he is indirectly submitting to her. Healthy relationships are the ones, where actually no submission is adressed from any side, powergames excluded, and where both compete rather for the interest of the other.
When I was young, my father would hand my mother his paycheck when he got paid, and she managed all the money.
This is why there is a difference between being vulnerable and being submissive. One lets you enjoy doing things for your partner and then letting them take care of you on the next turn around, and the other is being told what to do while then being told how worthless you are if you say no because they only care about theirself.
submission is when your husband leads you follow and watch his back
She done an excellent job on her makeup she looks amazing
She said it. She wants to do what she can to make life better.
💯💯💪💯
Thanks for this Chloe!
as a business woman, I agree with Roma
I agree with this.
Honestly I feel like when a woman is doing everything like cooking and cleaning for the man the man is honestly depend more dependent on her yeah he's provides the everything but she provides the comfort which makes me think he's more dependent on her yeah man I can cook and clean for yourself, but it got me thinking about what is a female comedian Ali Wong said she wanted to cook and clean for her husband not to be like a submissive housewife but because he will be totally dependent on her.😂😂
Once again proving my thesis that women are literally physically incapable of loving unconditionally.
Only men seem to be able to do this. That's why when men provide, they don't talk about how they do it solely to make their family dependent on them, they do it out of a sense of duty.
Women only "provide" insofar as it gets them something in return.
I cook for my partner because i want to cook, it makes me happy. But I’ll also accept anything my partner would make or do with me. It’s nice to spend time with them and we just vibe together regardless of what we do
If you can make enough money to support the house and he wants to stay at home. Why the f*** not who the f*** cames
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WHOLE GRAINS ?!!!! WHY ARE YOU POISIONING HIM?
He's a lucky man, that girl is a real sweetheart.