Hi everyone!! In case some of you didn’t stick around until the end of the video, I wanted to let you all know that I’ve posted two new videos to my second channel: Gremlins Central. One is a reading of a poem I wrote several months ago about learning to accept my body as a trans person and the other is the start to a series I’m doing on the queer history of Germany! I’d love it if you all could check those out if you’re interested!
To my lovely transfemme sisters - don't dress for the male gaze. Dress for mine, the local agender aromantic asexual who will always hype you up & use your beauty as my artistic muse ❤
0:55 Oh, I'm already feeling understood on that one. That silent, unspoken AFAB in front of the NB will get you every time. And then people wonder why I'm skeptical of getting invitations to trans/NB events.
*Chainmail fact: recently learned that several of my transfem friends all had this thought process, have started dragging my enbys and girls along to these events. So far its never been as big a deal as any of them thought it would be, I get more sh-t for being a very masc presenting enby. Even if you dont have yourself an overconfident transmasc to drag you along, if you want to attend it attend it!*
The separate world hypothesis is so interesting to me, and useful too. I am so glad I learned about it. I love psychology SO much, I'm literally crying rn.
omg you're back!! happy to see your channel in my notifications!! :] Hi there again all👋 I'm just here to remind you that someone loves you... know that this stranger on the internet truly cares about you. You deserve happiness and love. I'm proud of you always and hope you're doing well
@Putting_the_Bi_in_Big_Nerd just life been lifing dude lol- been busy and haven't had the time to check out youtube notifications, but I'm doing the best I've been in awhile. hope all is going (as) good (as things can be) for you too dude, thanks for checking on me 🫶
About the separate world theory, I've always felt that conversations between women/girls are mostly about relating with each other and sharing things about an idea which essentially makes you closer because you relate about certain things about the idea which is a conversational style I am very good with. I think that might be the reason I have difficulties with conversing with guys because they don't fall into that conversational style as easily - someone tell me how to have small talk with guys please haha
Okay, I actually found the last TikTok really interesting. Does anyone know where I can find that study? Also Andromeda it's a delight to have you back in my notifs! Great to see ya!
18:05 bro this one had me really thinking because i have a twin who is an amab guy and im an afab uhhh genderfluid person and this actually affects the way we socialize so much!
Long time no see, everyone! Hope y'all had a nice Pride Month as well as an overall good 2024 so far! :D It's your local (digitally-so) bi demi dad/friend, wondering how are you all doing this day/night? \(^w^)/
@@imkyledude Happy to see you too, Kyle :D Awwwww, that's awesome to hear, little dude (^u^) You've got any plans for the one-year together? /curious /teasingly :)
@Putting_the_Bi_in_Big_Nerd we're long distance rn sadly- but gonna probably vc with him and draw some things for him :3 and dude I'm really glad you've been able to move on from your last partner, that's always a tough thing and I'm glad you've managed to move on :]
@@imkyledude Ah okie, I see; those are some very cute ideas, though (^u^) And yeah, it was definitely tough but time at least helped heal this wound :)
Heres a little rant rq: so i ordered pizza last night and it took a minute to get to my house, so whenever it got to my house...i saw a super attractive person get out the car and i kinda starred her down for a sec she gave me my pizza and she told me she had a bit of trouble getting to my house...as she was leaving i said 'hey i love ur septem' she had a big smile on her face and said 'thank youu☺️' anyways i had a big gay panic lol 1:48 too true😔🤌 4:04 ME AND WHO⁉️ 6:26 checking her band out rn💫🍃
btw in case anyone is curious about "im on a mens sports team for reasons that make sense", its because theyre in a sport where theres a role that anyone of any gender or sex can be in (as long as theyre fairly small). i wanna say it was rowing? something to do with boats, but basically they just need to be fairly small to not add too much weight to the boat lol. idk sports but i do follow that person on tiktok so i do at least remember some of how they explained it also that last one MADE SO MANY THINGS MAKE SO MUCH SENSE.
The last one is very interesting! I wonder if the fact that some autistic people develop quicker in some areas could affect how they interact with peers? As in, maybe they’ve already learned their own social rules before the groups properly separate? I’d love to know if they ever did more studies on that! I feel like I’d be a mix of both types of discussion structures.
17:04 Michel Lotito. Also known as Mr. Mangetout (Mr. Eateverything). Great man. Unrelated, if you’re a questioning straight person or out but feeling a bit of imposter syndrome (like I was) I have to recommend the Capitoline Museum.
welcome back!! happy to see one of my favourite queer-friendly channels / safe spaces posting again, hope you’ve had a nice break, can’t wait to see more soon :))
do you think you could explain it more? I don’t really understand what constitutes as contributing vs presenting to the group. Especially applying it to 1 on 1 interactions (like wage negotiation). Does it apply to 1 on 1 conversations?
@@pheonixrises11 typically when I talk to my transmasc friends we’ll talk and have one person say everything they want to say and then the next person says everything they want to say. This happens in 1-on-1 convos too.
Is it kinda like mini info dumps that each person involved gets to partake in? I feel like I do a bit of both worlds so to speak? I'm autistic if that wasn't obvious.
OMG WELCOME BACK HIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII. You compilations always brighten my day in a very gay way, as it should be :P
to people who say "but if you were gay in palestine they'd throw you off a building", if you were gay in palestine you'd actually be getting bombed and starved out just like if you were straight.
It feels so weird looking at trans community as a trans man who is autistic and was blissfully unaware of the gender concept for almost whole life, but one day it fit me like a rock and I tried to transition. But turns out that it's painful to pay attention to own gender and explain stuff to people and being afraid of other people's reaction to it. So i came back to presenting as a woman and kinda just adapting to it and ignoring gender again lol 👍
Glad to see you back. Just wanted to share, non confrontationally, that I noticed the vast majority of these videos come from a very white perspective. I respect your desire to compile a place of queer safety, but if that safety isn’t intersectional, it isn’t worth anything to a large and important part of this community. Algorithms don’t favor people of color, and if that means you have to put in more work to seek out those voices, then I ask that you please do better to amplify them, even if it is just in your videos.
Thank you for pointing that out! It’s my first video after being gone for a while and my for you page tends to be messed up when I’m not using Tik Tok more regularly, but I also should be more conscious of that. I’m working on editing the next video now and there’s a lot more people of color in it this time, I think possibly a majority of the videos! I’ll also make a conscious effort in future to make sure my videos are featuring more non-white creators. Since early on in my channel I’ve tried to make my compilations a safe and welcoming space, and you’re right that if I don’t make an effort to make that space intersectional then I’m not creating that community space for everyone and it doesn’t hold up my values or the ideals I’ve established for this channel. Again, thanks for your feedback, I’m always very grateful for comments like this that give constructive feedback on improving my channel!
@@nosamladna902 Happy to hear that it did give you lots of euphoria and speaking from my own secondhand experiences with the subject: over time, you'll have the ability to properly surround yourself with people who see the real you (^^)
Imma be honest and this is lowkey out of pocket, BUT: I love transfemme voices. Like the ones that many trans women use, that sounds feminine but still a bit different if y’know what I mean, I LOVE THAT! I LOVE THE SOUND OF IT! THEY SOUND SO PRETTY!
Hi everyone!! In case some of you didn’t stick around until the end of the video, I wanted to let you all know that I’ve posted two new videos to my second channel: Gremlins Central. One is a reading of a poem I wrote several months ago about learning to accept my body as a trans person and the other is the start to a series I’m doing on the queer history of Germany! I’d love it if you all could check those out if you’re interested!
To my lovely transfemme sisters - don't dress for the male gaze. Dress for mine, the local agender aromantic asexual who will always hype you up & use your beauty as my artistic muse ❤
Who needs car insurance when you're already triple A?
triple a battery
@@trueaidooo my sister called me Gay Triple A & I was like "I can, in fact, change a flat tire" LOL
@@sequoiatrees1 I am also an artist with ADHD & autism, so I'm a pair of em LOL
Jokes on you I am my own aro ace hype member and I demand baggy hoodie despite me having arms way too long for any hoodie to still be baggy
My eggs been cracked too many times at this point I’m scrambled eggs 😭
So how is life friend?
I'll scramble your eggs, Lil sis~ 🏳️⚧️💜
0:55 Oh, I'm already feeling understood on that one. That silent, unspoken AFAB in front of the NB will get you every time. And then people wonder why I'm skeptical of getting invitations to trans/NB events.
TERFs usually just try to tell AFAB NBs that they're "just confused" and insist on calling them "girl," "she/her," etc.
*Chainmail fact: recently learned that several of my transfem friends all had this thought process, have started dragging my enbys and girls along to these events. So far its never been as big a deal as any of them thought it would be, I get more sh-t for being a very masc presenting enby. Even if you dont have yourself an overconfident transmasc to drag you along, if you want to attend it attend it!*
The separate world hypothesis is so interesting to me, and useful too. I am so glad I learned about it. I love psychology SO much, I'm literally crying rn.
im so autistic that im in a different world entirely
@@Taylor_5724 same! except I think it might have to do more with me being bigender
Leah using the cigarette word for an actual cord of wood is so fuckin true
omg you're back!! happy to see your channel in my notifications!! :]
Hi there again all👋
I'm just here to remind you that someone loves you... know that this stranger on the internet truly cares about you. You deserve happiness and love. I'm proud of you always and hope you're doing well
Long time no see, Kian :)
How've you been, little dude? \(^w^)/
@Putting_the_Bi_in_Big_Nerd I've been good dude!! glad this channel is active again :]
how've you been??
@@imkyledude Glad to hear that and me too :P
I've been doing fairly good myself :)
@@imkyledude Haven't seen you around the newer uploads; hope things are going (as) well (as they can be) on your end, little dude :)
@Putting_the_Bi_in_Big_Nerd just life been lifing dude lol- been busy and haven't had the time to check out youtube notifications, but I'm doing the best I've been in awhile. hope all is going (as) good (as things can be) for you too dude, thanks for checking on me 🫶
the locker room talk is exactly how I remember it on my teams
About the separate world theory, I've always felt that conversations between women/girls are mostly about relating with each other and sharing things about an idea which essentially makes you closer because you relate about certain things about the idea which is a conversational style I am very good with. I think that might be the reason I have difficulties with conversing with guys because they don't fall into that conversational style as easily - someone tell me how to have small talk with guys please haha
nah haley is my stardew valley wife and we're the happiest lesbian couple 🥰💖
My egg have absolutely shattered
Okay, I actually found the last TikTok really interesting. Does anyone know where I can find that study?
Also Andromeda it's a delight to have you back in my notifs! Great to see ya!
GREMLINS UNITED IS BACK NO WAY
18:05 bro this one had me really thinking because i have a twin who is an amab guy and im an afab uhhh genderfluid person and this actually affects the way we socialize so much!
Thanks for coming back. I really appreciate it, needed this today, dysphoria was bad
Long time no see, everyone! Hope y'all had a nice Pride Month as well as an overall good 2024 so far! :D It's your local (digitally-so) bi demi dad/friend, wondering how are you all doing this day/night? \(^w^)/
hey dude!! been a bit, happy ta see you :]
for me it's I've been with my partner for almost a year, greatest thing that's ever happened to me!
@@imkyledude Happy to see you too, Kyle :D
Awwwww, that's awesome to hear, little dude (^u^)
You've got any plans for the one-year together? /curious /teasingly :)
@Putting_the_Bi_in_Big_Nerd we're long distance rn sadly- but gonna probably vc with him and draw some things for him :3
and dude I'm really glad you've been able to move on from your last partner, that's always a tough thing and I'm glad you've managed to move on :]
@@imkyledude Ah okie, I see; those are some very cute ideas, though (^u^)
And yeah, it was definitely tough but time at least helped heal this wound :)
I also moved on from my abusive ex. I am so much happier now and I hope you have a good day!! :)
-Another trans Kyle
4:25 is that. Hozier-
Heres a little rant rq: so i ordered pizza last night and it took a minute to get to my house, so whenever it got to my house...i saw a super attractive person get out the car and i kinda starred her down for a sec she gave me my pizza and she told me she had a bit of trouble getting to my house...as she was leaving i said 'hey i love ur septem' she had a big smile on her face and said 'thank youu☺️' anyways i had a big gay panic lol
1:48 too true😔🤌
4:04 ME AND WHO⁉️
6:26 checking her band out rn💫🍃
Gay moments Frfr (I say as a lesbian)
btw in case anyone is curious about "im on a mens sports team for reasons that make sense", its because theyre in a sport where theres a role that anyone of any gender or sex can be in (as long as theyre fairly small). i wanna say it was rowing? something to do with boats, but basically they just need to be fairly small to not add too much weight to the boat lol. idk sports but i do follow that person on tiktok so i do at least remember some of how they explained it
also that last one MADE SO MANY THINGS MAKE SO MUCH SENSE.
The last one is very interesting! I wonder if the fact that some autistic people develop quicker in some areas could affect how they interact with peers? As in, maybe they’ve already learned their own social rules before the groups properly separate? I’d love to know if they ever did more studies on that! I feel like I’d be a mix of both types of discussion structures.
17:04 Michel Lotito. Also known as Mr. Mangetout (Mr. Eateverything). Great man. Unrelated, if you’re a questioning straight person or out but feeling a bit of imposter syndrome (like I was) I have to recommend the Capitoline Museum.
Jake blemmings entire channel is a gift to the internet (and so is yours hehe)
welcome back!! happy to see one of my favourite queer-friendly channels / safe spaces posting again, hope you’ve had a nice break, can’t wait to see more soon :))
I never knew, how good TikTok could be. This collection is awesome. My egg is so totally cracked that I will need tons of Makeup to cover it up 😉
Haha love the feel of seeing some of these on my FYP first. I’ve found my crowd 😅
So glad you're back I hope you're doing okay!!! :)
Happy to have you bless me with your compilation once again :}
21:44 me and my transmasc friends already do the presenter audience thing. Were also all autistic so that might have something to do with it.
do you think you could explain it more? I don’t really understand what constitutes as contributing vs presenting to the group. Especially applying it to 1 on 1 interactions (like wage negotiation). Does it apply to 1 on 1 conversations?
@@pheonixrises11 typically when I talk to my transmasc friends we’ll talk and have one person say everything they want to say and then the next person says everything they want to say. This happens in 1-on-1 convos too.
Is it kinda like mini info dumps that each person involved gets to partake in? I feel like I do a bit of both worlds so to speak? I'm autistic if that wasn't obvious.
Happy you’re back!!! I love your channel a lot :))
OMG WELCOME BACK HIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII. You compilations always brighten my day in a very gay way, as it should be :P
Dang, gay barista for sure slayed 😭💅💅
Love the vibe. Love the humor. I wonder if the coffee is fabulous too
Welcome back!
Howdy, how are you doing today? :P
@@Putting_the_Bi_in_Big_NerdHii been alright, today is very cloudy and it brings me joy haha. How are ya
@@01-s Neat :) Hope you seem cool shapes in the clouds :P
I'm doing decently good myself :)
9:45 omg she's so cute 💛
pls dont forget abt palestine yall bc its still happening
to people who say "but if you were gay in palestine they'd throw you off a building", if you were gay in palestine you'd actually be getting bombed and starved out just like if you were straight.
3:04 don't call me and my thumb out.
Saaaame
Yay! We’re back >:]
Now I too want to dress like my babysitter from the 90s!!
welcome back, love your videos!
WE MISSED YOU ANDROMEDA
2:07 my girlfriend meeting me
0:20 IAN ALEXANDER FROM STAR TREK DISCOVERY???
5:59
Girl
You are amazing!
ohmygosh welcome back!! eating noodles while watching this :3
ANDROMEDA IS BACK?
ANDROMEDA IS BACK!!!
This is an excellent collection: interesting, useful, and fun!
Lillian Faderman!!!!! I read some of her books, she is an incredible historian
yayyy welcome bak!!
Yippee you’re back!!!!!
14:10 WAIT. That joke in White Christmas is about gay people… amazing
Missed you dude!!!
1:06 me when my girlfriend goes to a summer camp for a week we can’t message:
(I miss my wife chat…)
It feels so weird looking at trans community as a trans man who is autistic and was blissfully unaware of the gender concept for almost whole life, but one day it fit me like a rock and I tried to transition. But turns out that it's painful to pay attention to own gender and explain stuff to people and being afraid of other people's reaction to it.
So i came back to presenting as a woman and kinda just adapting to it and ignoring gender again lol 👍
Glad to see you back. Just wanted to share, non confrontationally, that I noticed the vast majority of these videos come from a very white perspective. I respect your desire to compile a place of queer safety, but if that safety isn’t intersectional, it isn’t worth anything to a large and important part of this community. Algorithms don’t favor people of color, and if that means you have to put in more work to seek out those voices, then I ask that you please do better to amplify them, even if it is just in your videos.
Thank you for pointing that out! It’s my first video after being gone for a while and my for you page tends to be messed up when I’m not using Tik Tok more regularly, but I also should be more conscious of that. I’m working on editing the next video now and there’s a lot more people of color in it this time, I think possibly a majority of the videos! I’ll also make a conscious effort in future to make sure my videos are featuring more non-white creators. Since early on in my channel I’ve tried to make my compilations a safe and welcoming space, and you’re right that if I don’t make an effort to make that space intersectional then I’m not creating that community space for everyone and it doesn’t hold up my values or the ideals I’ve established for this channel. Again, thanks for your feedback, I’m always very grateful for comments like this that give constructive feedback on improving my channel!
Uh oh. Right at the top of my home page? What are y'all tryna tell me? 😂
lets goooooo
Good profile photograph comrade
Hi everyone! Hope y’all are having a heart day :)
2:05 I didn’t want them I BECAME THEM😂
The return of the queen!
My egg fully broke last night!
I wake up this morning and see this on recommended.
Anyway can y’all call me Lily and she/her? Testing the name!
Hope I aim not too late but how's the new name treating you, Lily? /curious
@@Putting_the_Bi_in_Big_Nerd not enough people started calling me that, but the few who did, including you, gave me huge euphoria, thank you!
@@nosamladna902 Happy to hear that it did give you lots of euphoria and speaking from my own secondhand experiences with the subject: over time, you'll have the ability to properly surround yourself with people who see the real you (^^)
17:29 SNAPCUBE MOMENT ❗❗❗
At 2:00, it was giving Magnus Chase x Alex Fierro. Rick Riordan fans know.
2:12 That startled me so bad 😭
Yes
Imma be honest and this is lowkey out of pocket, BUT: I love transfemme voices. Like the ones that many trans women use, that sounds feminine but still a bit different if y’know what I mean, I LOVE THAT! I LOVE THE SOUND OF IT! THEY SOUND SO PRETTY!
For everybody wgo doesn't know who it is at 4:00, its Muna and Hozier!!
Not that anyone cares but i found out that i am boyflux today!! (They/he)
love you love you love you thank you!!! 🤭😚✨💖💕
16:59 I’m familiar with this story, and yeah this all sounds like stuff a bunch of cishet men would say
I love Peach Rings❤️
This didnt crack my egg
I want a refund!
2:12 i need to know the name of this remix RIGHT NOW.
3:05 So truee
4:09 what song is that and by whom???? i need to know omg
Halfway through…does this stay overwhelmingly yt? 😩
3:04 what about both?
😍😍😍
girls?? I WANNA SEE MEN
egg
16:16 what.
7:03 get off spiro, get on cypro or monotherapy. Why be mean to your kidneys when better alternatives exist?
youtube.com/@gremlinscentral?si=P6l3ChyBeRkxIz2O (the second channel)
Welcome back!
Welcome back!