Be realistic in your expectations and if you can do the same if others expect it from you Then no need to be there if you get a NO Just make distance from that person
After seeing this, I feel grateful that I don't have friends like this (like the ones she has to say no to). They always try to include me and everyone and are considerate towards each other. I hope everyone finds friends like these.
Ak content aise logo pe banai Jo manipulate krke emotional krke apse sirf paise lete hai mera ak dost k sath Aisha hi ho rha h lekin wo bolta nhi or samjhta v nhi h cr. Card se 3.5 lakh tk le liye or wo emi k liye struggle kr rha mein samhati hu pr usko fir manipulate kr deta muhchore h ladka ho k v Aisha kaise to jo ladke aise logo k chakar me hh unko influence Krne k liye acha content banai log video dekh kr jyada samjhte hai.
It takes a Lot of Courage to Say " NO ". Thanks for this Video. It will Come Gradually. One Night Solution Nahi hai. But At least someone is Showing a Path to Move on.
@@something7419 For people like me, overthinking (thoughts) are itself the obstacles... and also self-conscious about what others think is the biggest thing to overcome, but at a point of time... I think those thoughts will disappear as we self-analyse, accept what we are and realize the reality of others
It's actually true. Lot of people especially the one's you call friends they intimidate you when you can't say no. I can feel every single thing in this video. And most of them now feel that you are rude towards them by declining them.
saying NO is one of the Most Difficult Thing... But the BESTEST one to keep you out of various problems & complications... It needs a tough and straight person to say NO... I AM ONE OF THEM.. & proud too
Nahi ,,ek bar NO bolke to dekho fir maza ane lagega ,,or adat pad jaayegi ,,it's not difficult,,it's easiest,,, bas 1 bar try ,,, then you will do whatever you like to do 😁,,
Exactly. This gives so much liberation, I can't tell you. Learn to say 'no' at right places. You may lose people, but for good. Right ones will stay anyway else who cares . Be busy, work on yourself. The world will follow.
Just yesterday i was worrying about saying too much of “no” to people all the time and feeling guilty for it. But this video gives me reason that its okay to stand one’s ground.
Everytime i try to say NO and do say NO, i feel like being very rude to them, but i realise they never hesitated to ignore my feelings and never acknowledged how i felt, so now i do it anyways. If they feel bad and leave, cant help it! Everyone needs to respect one's boundaries! To everyone who take courageous decision to say 'NO' im proud of you. Its a hard thing to do. ❤
The moment you start saying no for these things, they start targeting you, they call you mean and want you to be the bigger person as always. But I’m glad I’m learning this too, slowly but surely :)
You know I have always been so proud of myself for saying no on things which I don't want to do. This makes life much easier everyone should learn to say no to things they don't want to do
Behen , as a friend she needs your attention that time, it is her choice to stay in her bf s life or not, you don't have to feel bad just because they are together again, you have to feel happy if they love each other and they are together, sometime every one needs a friend to listen to them, it shows how selfish you are, when you will be in that situation then you will understand babe
@ankumoni9299 Everybody does not need to do that and everybody does not feel that way. If you bitch about your boyfriend to your friends, obviously your friends will not like your boyfriend. Then if they ever meet your boyfriend in social settings, it will be very awkward for them to pretend to like him. And if you stay with him, then your friends will think why is she with such a bad guy? Is she an idiot? Why am I friends with such an idiot? Does she bitch about me also when we fight to other people? Is she really my friend?
@@AnimeCritical Miss gusshe main log akshaar apne dost ke samne hi kuch v bolte hain, agar ap uske dost hoke uski feelings ko na samajhke usko hi judge krne lg jao aur idiot samjho then how can you call yourself as her friend aur rhi baat apko uncommon feel hone ki then agar apko pta hain hi ki do teen din baad dono fir se thik ho jayege yeh bass gusse main aakr kuch v bematlab ka bol rhi hai then why are judging someone because of her words. No one can force you to tell bad about someone
the last one is so relatable , sometimes friends always talk about their relationship and the pain they go through , for getting your validation and they don't want to hear the turth , like dude can u talk about smth else I am tired of hearing this all day
In my 20 years of age, I said "NO" for the first time to my parents about the boy they choose for my marriage......... But I love another boy ........ now my parents are not talking with me that much 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
hi, this happened to me also when i turned 20. My dad didnt get upset with me as much as my mom did. She was heartbroken. Our relationship got bitter. But she was my mom, i gave her the time she needed and the assuramce that maybe something better is written for me. After an year, things got much better
I started saying things like this and then suddenly they became aggressive, started argument, said mean and rude things to me, criticized my feelings and lastly blocked me everywhere. Now I am afraid to say anything to anyone 🤐
They are not your true friends, it is time to find new friends. As they say, you cannot select your family members but you can select your friends. Selfish friends are not worth the mental stress.
I used to a people pleaser but after I made my new friend, I told her clearly 1. we will ALWAYS do contro neither of us will pay for other person. 2. We will be understanding if any plan is canceled last moment. 3. Family is first priority, friend comes later. This made a lot of things easy for both of us. 4. If we are bitching (mutual) on someone, we will do it together 😂 5. I would never join any plan post 6 pm and there were many times where she helped me out of those moments. 6. We always choose a middle point of the city so other one doesn't have to take extra km. 7. Never keep unreasonable high expectations cuz it will lead to disappointment eventually. People would say that's not a real friendship why are there boundaries and conditions in it but these boundaries have contributed to smooth sailing in our friendship. Both of us have polar opposite personalities, if not for these boundaries we would had a lot of clashes as I'm an overthinker and have trust issues.
Best thing in the world is saying no. I have lost almost everyone after started saying no 🫶🏻 then i found my soulmate he is my bestie boyfriend husband everything and i can comfortably say no to him.❤️
People do this to sensitive people a lot. Taking them for granted n making them a scapegoat. I feel so seen. Thanks sis. Feel deeply satisfied seeing this. 👌 Well done. 😢
I have also learnt to say no to people, so I have learnt to recognize real friends and fake ones in my life. And I'm happy now😊 One real friend is better than 10 fake friends
Saying No is one thing and saying it politely and respectfully without hurting anyone’s feelings and being respectful is another , the facial expressions and tone of your voice plays an important role in it . People who are around you won’t be there always, make every conversation by keeping this in mind that this might be the last talk with them .. 😊
Don't know why mene bar bar ye vdo dekhi or muje bda maza aa rha h dekh k mene b kuch salo pehle na bolna start kr diya tha ab whi dost bache h jo sache h ❤
Absolutely true-if you always remain calm, people start thinking you're crazy. I used to be like that too, always caring about others' feelings. But now, it really bothers me because people start taking advantage. I always supported one of my friends, helped her in every way-studies, clothes, money-I never kept count. But whenever I needed something, she would always run away, and she always looked out for her own benefit. And when I started using her own tactics against her, she would get upset. I’ve realized that such people don’t deserve kindness. Now, I’ve changed too, and it hurts to have people like that around. It's better to be alone than to deal with people like that 💯🫠
The anxiety I felt after she said no. 😢
It takes a lot of courage and shows a secure attachment style.
IKR 😭
Same 🥲
makkad shab rocks
But once you get comfortable by saying no when you need to you win half of the battle over unnecessary struggle.
Be realistic in your expectations and if you can do the same if others expect it from you
Then no need to be there if you get a NO
Just make distance from that person
Not only that, sometimes they even make you feel guilty for saying ‘no.’ Now I am happy that I have finally learnt to protect my boundaries.
Sameeeee
Agree. When it’s their selfishness, they still try to make u fell guilty.
Those are the people u need to first say no to. If they are out of ur life after that,it's much better
When i learned to say No i lost half of my friends 😅
Exactly... you removed garbage from your life😅...congratulations
*fake friends
And I lost all 😂😂😂
Those all are 🐍 .
..congrats you are finally free
I think just be alone atleast toxicity is remove from life
👏🏼👏🏼
It's difficult to start saying NO, but once we feel confident enough, it doesn't seem that difficult! ❤
Kya satisfaction mila h y dekhke 😍
Such me
Sach mein
Main 5 baar dekh li back to back. Lag raha tha main hi bol rahi apne dosto ko
Sach me...
हां इसिलिऐ दो बार देखा। 😂
After seeing this, I feel grateful that I don't have friends like this (like the ones she has to say no to). They always try to include me and everyone and are considerate towards each other. I hope everyone finds friends like these.
That's my girl
I am so proud of you 👏👏👏
❤❤
Where is part 1
Kyo Tu uskaa baap hai 😂 jo bolra hai "That's my girl "
Ak content aise logo pe banai Jo manipulate krke emotional krke apse sirf paise lete hai mera ak dost k sath Aisha hi ho rha h lekin wo bolta nhi or samjhta v nhi h cr. Card se 3.5 lakh tk le liye or wo emi k liye struggle kr rha mein samhati hu pr usko fir manipulate kr deta muhchore h ladka ho k v Aisha kaise to jo ladke aise logo k chakar me hh unko influence Krne k liye acha content banai log video dekh kr jyada samjhte hai.
@@aakhiri_pasta 1K likes 😀
I am famous now 😂😂
It's related to me and educated for me. Thanks a lot sister.❤
It takes a Lot of Courage to Say " NO ". Thanks for this Video. It will Come Gradually. One Night Solution Nahi hai. But At least someone is Showing a Path to Move on.
for me personally I think the opposite is true.
But just out of curiosity what obstacles would you possibly face when saying 'No'
No
@@something7419 For people like me, overthinking (thoughts) are itself the obstacles... and also self-conscious about what others think is the biggest thing to overcome, but at a point of time... I think those thoughts will disappear as we self-analyse, accept what we are and realize the reality of others
True
What. Is this 🤔
My satisfaction level went so high📈 😊 thank you for this video🎥
The satisfaction>>
Yeah ❤
It's actually true. Lot of people especially the one's you call friends they intimidate you when you can't say no. I can feel every single thing in this video. And most of them now feel that you are rude towards them by declining them.
saying NO is one of the Most Difficult Thing... But the BESTEST one to keep you out of various problems & complications... It needs a tough and straight person to say NO... I AM ONE OF THEM.. & proud too
Ye mere se acha kon Jan sakta hai
Nahi ,,ek bar NO bolke to dekho fir maza ane lagega ,,or adat pad jaayegi ,,it's not difficult,,it's easiest,,, bas 1 bar try ,,, then you will do whatever you like to do 😁,,
After watching this type of videos, satisfaction level 💯😌😌
Exactly. This gives so much liberation, I can't tell you. Learn to say 'no' at right places. You may lose people, but for good. Right ones will stay anyway else who cares . Be busy, work on yourself. The world will follow.
This one really healed my inner feelings ❤ finally someone express what it actually felt from the people around us .😌
Just yesterday i was worrying about saying too much of “no” to people all the time and feeling guilty for it. But this video gives me reason that its okay to stand one’s ground.
Everytime i try to say NO and do say NO, i feel like being very rude to them, but i realise they never hesitated to ignore my feelings and never acknowledged how i felt, so now i do it anyways. If they feel bad and leave, cant help it! Everyone needs to respect one's boundaries! To everyone who take courageous decision to say 'NO' im proud of you. Its a hard thing to do. ❤
The only person who get mad because of you setting a boundary is the person who benefits from it when you don’t
@@Priya.k161 yea that's true!
So true dude
The moment you start saying no for these things, they start targeting you, they call you mean and want you to be the bigger person as always. But I’m glad I’m learning this too, slowly but surely :)
Hats off + standing ovation+huge applause👏👏👏👏
Yes I need that 😅
And last was too relatable 😂
Same here...
@@sujatabiswal3166😅 yaar bf ko buraa bhi bolti h aur chor bhi nhi rhi
Ye tik h par hame matt batao bas 😂
True yarr ....
u r becoming mature 😊😊❤
Standing for ourself is good nothing bad in it ❤❤❤❤
Believe me, guys, it helped me a lot. After saying no, I've had no regrets in the long term.
Last wala line, very good answer
1)learn to say 'NO' filter out faltu people.
2)Save time save money save career.
3)This word is very necessary for girl in today's world.
So proud of the girls who can say no
Ask for the money they gave someone in need
And keep themselves as a priority
U go girl🎉🎉
You know I have always been so proud of myself for saying no on things which I don't want to do. This makes life much easier everyone should learn to say no to things they don't want to do
I got courage to say NO through your videos... Thank you❤
Thats such a correct way to say NO while being polite and standing your ground
Last vala relatable ho gya 😂 kaash mai v apni friend ko aise bol pati 😂
Me too 😅
In sab kaa rona hi nhi khatm hotaa chor bhi nhi rhi 😂
Usko ye video bhej de
Behen , as a friend she needs your attention that time, it is her choice to stay in her bf s life or not, you don't have to feel bad just because they are together again, you have to feel happy if they love each other and they are together, sometime every one needs a friend to listen to them, it shows how selfish you are, when you will be in that situation then you will understand babe
@ankumoni9299 Everybody does not need to do that and everybody does not feel that way. If you bitch about your boyfriend to your friends, obviously your friends will not like your boyfriend. Then if they ever meet your boyfriend in social settings, it will be very awkward for them to pretend to like him. And if you stay with him, then your friends will think why is she with such a bad guy? Is she an idiot? Why am I friends with such an idiot? Does she bitch about me also when we fight to other people? Is she really my friend?
@@AnimeCritical Miss gusshe main log akshaar apne dost ke samne hi kuch v bolte hain, agar ap uske dost hoke uski feelings ko na samajhke usko hi judge krne lg jao aur idiot samjho then how can you call yourself as her friend aur rhi baat apko uncommon feel hone ki then agar apko pta hain hi ki do teen din baad dono fir se thik ho jayege yeh bass gusse main aakr kuch v bematlab ka bol rhi hai then why are judging someone because of her words. No one can force you to tell bad about someone
the last one is so relatable , sometimes friends always talk about their relationship and the pain they go through , for getting your validation and they don't want to hear the turth , like dude can u talk about smth else I am tired of hearing this all day
Radhe Radhe 🙏❤️☘️
Best video hai to say No to people especially those who ask money for no reason
God blessed me with this ability...
Lesson learned, thank you 🫂
Yes yaaar it's the most difficult thing and last one was personal
Oh man, I can't believe so many people can relate to it. It's definitely not good but good to know that I am not all alone and we are learning this💔
I lost all my friends by saying NO..but I am SATISFIED ❤
It is so relieving to say no. I like the responses. Very direct and commands respect.
The last one is so true ❤
This is so needed. Even family's take advantage of simple people. You should learn to say no and create boundaries.
Last point. Perfect 👍
In my 20 years of age, I said "NO" for the first time to my parents about the boy they choose for my marriage......... But I love another boy ........ now my parents are not talking with me that much 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
After some days they will talk to you every parent does the same thing.
@@karunagoswami4828 hope so 🥺
hi, this happened to me also when i turned 20. My dad didnt get upset with me as much as my mom did. She was heartbroken. Our relationship got bitter. But she was my mom, i gave her the time she needed and the assuramce that maybe something better is written for me. After an year, things got much better
@@anoushkachakladar1978 then what you did? You got married with your love or not 😐😣🤔😔
@@pujapal9742 me and my partner we both are young, we want to build a career first, i'm only 21 right now
Perfect content ❤❤❤ need more on this
I started saying things like this and then suddenly they became aggressive, started argument, said mean and rude things to me, criticized my feelings and lastly blocked me everywhere. Now I am afraid to say anything to anyone 🤐
They are not your true friends, it is time to find new friends. As they say, you cannot select your family members but you can select your friends. Selfish friends are not worth the mental stress.
Then you also block them. Show them you have also block button.
Then speak rudely to them as well. You are not there to handle their stupid tantrums. Never be a doormat
That means they are only using you.They are not your real friends
Uff I need this😌😌😌thankyou❤
Well said 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😇😇
So so awesome
Please mam never never stop
U are so so honestly talented 😊
This is one aspect of self love ❤
Satisfaction level 📈
I used to a people pleaser but after I made my new friend, I told her clearly 1. we will ALWAYS do contro neither of us will pay for other person.
2. We will be understanding if any plan is canceled last moment.
3. Family is first priority, friend comes later. This made a lot of things easy for both of us.
4. If we are bitching (mutual) on someone, we will do it together 😂
5. I would never join any plan post 6 pm and there were many times where she helped me out of those moments.
6. We always choose a middle point of the city so other one doesn't have to take extra km.
7. Never keep unreasonable high expectations cuz it will lead to disappointment eventually.
People would say that's not a real friendship why are there boundaries and conditions in it but these boundaries have contributed to smooth sailing in our friendship. Both of us have polar opposite personalities, if not for these boundaries we would had a lot of clashes as I'm an overthinker and have trust issues.
You are absolutely right .... don't worry what other will think and the money thing is absolutely right .
So satisfied feel after watching this video❤❤
True, it was the most difficult thing to learn 😂😂
Saying no has been such a struggle for me. I loved this video. It gives me hope.
When you say NO all will against you, i learn no over sacrifice
What. A message ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Majja ayya video dekhke
Bhot saahi , mujhe bhi motivation aagi😂
The Content i really needed ❤❤
This is Art girl, with so direct and valid points straight to face. And without feeling bad for doing it.
Best thing in the world is saying no. I have lost almost everyone after started saying no 🫶🏻 then i found my soulmate he is my bestie boyfriend husband everything and i can comfortably say no to him.❤️
She is too cute yll 🌹🙈☺️
Much needed video ❤❤
Sahi video hai. Logo ko mana karo to sadd jate h or unko hmare no ka reson smjhna hi nhi hota h bus apni chalani hoti h or fir hume bura bna dete h
Perfect ❤
Hala ki iske baad frieds kaam ho jate he ,but mental peace high ho jaate he😊
Le Boys friendship:
" Bhai ne bola krne ka....Toh krne kaaa..."😂
Yes, but sometimes it's necessary to say "NO"!!
An intelligent Woman after a long time ❤
literally relative
Wow I watched this on repeat just so that can grab the courage
I'm becoming this slowly slowly and i love it like I feel sp much better
More power to you ❤
People do this to sensitive people a lot. Taking them for granted n making them a scapegoat. I feel so seen. Thanks sis. Feel deeply satisfied seeing this. 👌 Well done. 😢
This video healed something in me. ❤️🩹
Relatable
Fantastic ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈❤️❤️❤️🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡.keep it up .stay blessed ❤❤❤
My besharm friend keeps asking me for money even if i say no. He doesn't understand the meaning of no.
😂😂😂😂
So satisfying video ❤
Why's this so satisfying 😭
It's good to say no sometimes for your own sanity , people pleasing ke chakkar Mai we sometimes lose ourselves ,learnt the hard way ❤
सहि है
You have taken a good topic
Will definitely go viral
I thought it was me ... thank you for sharing such relatable short... keep motivating us❤
Most satisfying vedio ❤❤❤❤
The last one was a must do for that type of friends.......
It feels so satisfying watching this
Being assertive and saying NO is absolutely necessary in today's world especially for understanding one's character
Kya badhiya reel banayi h ❤too good👏
Bilkul same .. no kehna ese hi seekha mene ❤
So proud of you girl ❤
That's my girl 💪, proud of you 😊
As i started doing this.. it feels good to say no at times to selfish ppl
Great lesson sis❤❤❤❤❤❤
I have also learnt to say no to people, so I have learnt to recognize real friends and fake ones in my life. And I'm happy now😊
One real friend is better than 10 fake friends
Saying No is one thing and saying it politely and respectfully without hurting anyone’s feelings and being respectful is another , the facial expressions and tone of your voice plays an important role in it .
People who are around you won’t be there always, make every conversation by keeping this in mind that this might be the last talk with them .. 😊
Great satisfaction to see such videos...
Good lesson for all
Wow..I also need to learn that! Thank you for the video ❤
Don't know why mene bar bar ye vdo dekhi or muje bda maza aa rha h dekh k mene b kuch salo pehle na bolna start kr diya tha ab whi dost bache h jo sache h ❤
This is the biggest challenge for me ❤its so satifisfying to see thus video
You started respecting yourself ❤
Absolutely true-if you always remain calm, people start thinking you're crazy. I used to be like that too, always caring about others' feelings. But now, it really bothers me because people start taking advantage. I always supported one of my friends, helped her in every way-studies, clothes, money-I never kept count. But whenever I needed something, she would always run away, and she always looked out for her own benefit. And when I started using her own tactics against her, she would get upset. I’ve realized that such people don’t deserve kindness. Now, I’ve changed too, and it hurts to have people like that around. It's better to be alone than to deal with people like that 💯🫠
i felt sukoon watching this
i love when kind people learn to say no and love how smooth it is 😅😅