‘Our house in Nyeri was auctioned because of a loan that Kiama and I never borrowed.’

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  • ‘Every time I felt like am becoming bitter because of all the hardships that were in my marriage, I would then hear a voice..so clear…so calm…yet so powerful. The voice would always tell me: It is well❤️❤️❤️’
    Today on #TheMarriageCoach, Wa Kiama is back. One of the hard questions we are asking her is whether she would consider trying to find love…or even remarry. 💍 👰👰💍💍
    Her answer will break your ribs!🤣🤣🤣🤣

КОМЕНТАРІ • 358

  • @carolinekiama3149
    @carolinekiama3149 10 місяців тому +86

    My darling mother...only God can pay you for the good job you have done by holding our family together even through dads sickness.Asante

    • @jecintawanjiku9735
      @jecintawanjiku9735 10 місяців тому +1

      you're lucky to have her as a parent

    • @lydiahmacharia4183
      @lydiahmacharia4183 10 місяців тому +2

      Carolinekiama,you are blessed to have her as a mother,I love her and her teachings

    • @trizahmacharia2939
      @trizahmacharia2939 10 місяців тому +2

      she's such a darling

    • @mainakabogo315
      @mainakabogo315 10 місяців тому +1

      Carol you have a wonderful mother

    • @lucywachira8175
      @lucywachira8175 10 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for encouraging me I now strong 💪 🙏

  • @joystemmukuhi2842
    @joystemmukuhi2842 10 місяців тому +12

    At some point, I found my tears dropping, replaying twice then smiling and thinking through life issues. Wakiama is virtuous woman.

    • @janegachari6374
      @janegachari6374 10 місяців тому

      For sure you're,imagine I listen to you n Monica na siwesi chokak

  • @johnrerai6134
    @johnrerai6134 10 місяців тому +10

    This is a very touching testimony from Mrs Kiama. Very few ladies would persevere through what she underwent. Mrs Kiama, may our good Lord bless you abundantly. We have learnt so much from you. Monica, hata wewe barikiwa. Amen.

    • @trizahmacharia2939
      @trizahmacharia2939 10 місяців тому

      ​@@teresanduta3456achana na affairs za watu not all 1st wives are gd

  • @annkibuka5120
    @annkibuka5120 10 місяців тому +33

    I can listen to her the whole day without getting bored..she's such a vibe

    • @lucykairu5372
      @lucykairu5372 10 місяців тому +2

      I wish you would know her in person she's 🔥 and fun to be around her.

    • @RELAXATION_1122
      @RELAXATION_1122 10 місяців тому +1

      Me too..i love her teachings soo much

    • @ADFCouple
      @ADFCouple 10 місяців тому

      Me too 😊

    • @jenifferwamuyu7713
      @jenifferwamuyu7713 10 місяців тому

      Niuhega hinya, Ngai akurathime wakiama.

    • @jenifferwamuyu7713
      @jenifferwamuyu7713 10 місяців тому

      😄😄ati kigurumuki uui musamehe

  • @NaomiNyaruiru
    @NaomiNyaruiru 10 місяців тому +7

    Im here watching at 1:00am.kagoni and wakiama please address celebrity marriages.the divorces are very high.

  • @pollycate5189
    @pollycate5189 10 місяців тому +23

    From the same village and my swahili teacher, she is not adding any salt, this was the exact situation. Rejection was high when she needed a shoulder to lean on. The funny thing with her, she never seemed worried with all the mucene and drama in the village. An iron lady indeed.
    She helped me get an admission to join my former high school and i used to be positive that she is a woman with a golden heart. Blessings teacher.

  • @anniekamau1537
    @anniekamau1537 10 місяців тому +4

    Wa Kiama is full of wisdom and humour!
    I love her talks!

  • @patriciawangui8307
    @patriciawangui8307 10 місяців тому +5

    She's such a vibe, loaded with wisdom & understanding. She delivers her narrative with such humility and humour, I have laughed at some point. Thank you and continue doing your work as always. Stay blessed Mama.

  • @lucyw.wambui1678
    @lucyw.wambui1678 10 місяців тому +12

    Monica, you look relaxed.Wakiama lives by miracles as her name suggests. Mûtí ûtarí matunda ndûikagírio mahiga.
    I admire the strength,humor and courage in her.

  • @lilliangithui
    @lilliangithui 10 місяців тому +14

    I really love listening to Wakiama. Her story of patience and perseverance is one to admire. However, a woman who was abandoned or chased away by the husband may not be able to honour her vows however much she wishes to, and it would be unfair to expect her to turn down a viable relationship while waiting indefinitely for the errant husband to change. Also, a woman who experiences any kind of obvious abuse and betrayal should not be burdened by society to keep attending family meetings to work on their marriage. She should be allowed and even advised to move on especially if the abuse is recurrent. The same for a man in an abusive relationship. Family meetings never solve the problem that the two adults could not solve on their own. Meetings only perpetuate the problems. Let the couple go for therapy, if that fails let them inform the larger family that they have failed and wish to exit the failed relationship.

  • @dorcasthindigua
    @dorcasthindigua 10 місяців тому +26

    This woman is extraordinary ❤I need the grace she have…..Because weeh I don’t think I can handle what she have handled.

  • @esthermurugi915
    @esthermurugi915 10 місяців тому +5

    Esther you did what God wanted you to do.people will always talk.but the best part is you are healed and your convenience is clear.enjoy yourself sweetie

  • @jemimahmaina7644
    @jemimahmaina7644 10 місяців тому +4

    I just love her , happy to see her strong here

  • @elizabethwachira7884
    @elizabethwachira7884 10 місяців тому +14

    Watu ni funny,always judging women ati oooh its early sijui what.this woman has held on to her sick husband for over sixteen years,in short its like she was single.she doesn't have young kids.listen to the video first and let her be

    • @bingimwenyewe5416
      @bingimwenyewe5416 10 місяців тому +4

      You're very right

    • @CWM-1606
      @CWM-1606 10 місяців тому +1

      Imagine... shame on them. Nobody knows the pain like the wearer of the shoe. My siz Wa Kiama ...do you.❤️

  • @sophiamugo6849
    @sophiamugo6849 10 місяців тому +2

    You're such a dear mum. Preach kabisa. You can't touch God's apple and remain the same. There's is pay back

  • @elizabethk8500
    @elizabethk8500 9 місяців тому

    Nii Ndiohau ha nyumba kwendio, i hihi kugiaikarire atia koruo ni ninii,I’ve really learnt a lot ,God bless you people.

  • @RELAXATION_1122
    @RELAXATION_1122 10 місяців тому +1

    Love mrs kiama....a woman of virtue...❤A choosen ..voice innour generation 💞🙏

  • @rosewamboi3235
    @rosewamboi3235 10 місяців тому +1

    Amazing testimony Wa Kiama may the lord's favor overflow in your life and family. Wa Kagoni blessings to you too darling. This is an amazing journey.

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi2779 10 місяців тому +1

    Wanjiru Maitu onake niari twins atuite achiari ake Baba wao okaga kumurehere ushuru ni kumaciara mena wife wake Wanjiru are blessed souls even my Mum passed alot like wa kiama we thank God for her wa Kiama God got you be strong in the lord 🙏🙏

  • @limitlesswoman1540
    @limitlesswoman1540 10 місяців тому +76

    She was my Swahili teacher in high sch en not a day did she look like she was going through anything. She was our best teacher, full of grace, en joy. she just gave us endless stories in class😂😂. We loved her❤. Lucky to have had her as my teacher

    • @gracegicheha9803
      @gracegicheha9803 10 місяців тому +5

      I too she was my favorite teacher

    • @wanjaueverlyne7265
      @wanjaueverlyne7265 10 місяців тому +3

      I salute this lady

    • @teresahmunyiri4389
      @teresahmunyiri4389 10 місяців тому +7

      She was my Swahili teacher also at Muruguru girls. My favorite.

    • @marychochutv
      @marychochutv 10 місяців тому

      ​@@gracegicheha9803t😮😮😢😢😢😢😢😢😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮254206266163😮😮😮😢😮😮😢😮😢😢😢😮😮ؤؤؤ. ر عن

    • @carolinewairimu514
      @carolinewairimu514 10 місяців тому +1

      She was the best,ever smart lady

  • @gracemwangi6987
    @gracemwangi6987 10 місяців тому +7

    Wa Kiama mataro maku ni ma hinya muno. Wi na matu ni aigue. Mwathani akurathime na akuongerere matuku maingi ututare o nginya tuigue na tunyite

  • @njokikaruga1364
    @njokikaruga1364 10 місяців тому +1

    i lost my husband and people have been telling me i can get married but they dont respect my stand i dont want thanks to you wanjiru i have the answer and i will comfortably stand my stand

  • @MiriamGachaga-qv8cd
    @MiriamGachaga-qv8cd 10 місяців тому +2

    This madam should have this title " HSC "

  • @judwmbiyu
    @judwmbiyu 10 місяців тому +1

    God sustain this beautiful lady
    Her good job love towards family 🎉

  • @marynjeri3689
    @marynjeri3689 10 місяців тому +2

    The kind of grace that you have, aki I don't have such

  • @stephennjuguna220
    @stephennjuguna220 10 місяців тому +3

    One would think she is serializing a fictitious book or a horror movie .this is what being made of steel is all about .she is the real definition of a virtuous wife.

  • @emillykariuki6849
    @emillykariuki6849 10 місяців тому +11

    Wa Kiama you are sincerely unique. Thank you for allowing God to use you to minister to many. God bless you abundantly.

  • @josephgichohi1847
    @josephgichohi1847 10 місяців тому +2

    this madam is vibe i like her

  • @franciscakanini1859
    @franciscakanini1859 10 місяців тому

    Wow, I love this lovely lady aky she is God given to our generation be blessed wakiama

  • @wanjikumuthoni5280
    @wanjikumuthoni5280 10 місяців тому

    I love this Show.hata Ni Jana nilikuwa nasema wakiama amekaa bila kuja.but we understand.Welcome Mum.May God continue blessing you

  • @justinanthenge619
    @justinanthenge619 10 місяців тому +3

    We love wakiama as most of us met her here! I am happy to see her glow! Be strong!

  • @karehat5241
    @karehat5241 10 місяців тому +1

    Truly u r our queen. Now i ve understood the meaning of kiheti😂😂,

  • @jambikoech622
    @jambikoech622 10 місяців тому +8

    My late dad had dementia, and i can attest, that its wansn't easy. Thanks Wakiama am understanding everything. With lots of negative talks from people. But Kiama and my dad are now finally free, dancing with angels. 🙏🙏

  • @annieannie9444
    @annieannie9444 10 місяців тому

    Monica, aki hiyo story ya nyumba ya wa kiama......oooh i feel encouraged. God bless you people.

  • @rosewangui9669
    @rosewangui9669 10 місяців тому +50

    WaKiama deserves a Doctorate!

  • @marywaweru743
    @marywaweru743 10 місяців тому

    Wao! Kagoni n wakiama you have really encouraged me this morning. Wakiama is a very strong woman. Mutumia ngatha. May God bless you so much.❤

  • @juliawangari1998
    @juliawangari1998 9 місяців тому

    Adhering to the command of God, no matter how painful, now that is powerful

  • @wainainakamenya3731
    @wainainakamenya3731 9 місяців тому

    Exactly monic she is so beautiful than before,God bless u.

  • @nancymwaura3608
    @nancymwaura3608 10 місяців тому +10

    Wakiama karibu Kwa club ya God's own. You will never lack

  • @marthakihuni9923
    @marthakihuni9923 10 місяців тому +1

    Good teaching n inspiring to us young women, nawapenda sana ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ceciliagits4486
    @ceciliagits4486 10 місяців тому +6

    Nima wakiama winaglory ya Ngai

  • @wambuievelynwaithira
    @wambuievelynwaithira 10 місяців тому +5

    Wa kiama is a noble woman.she has a golden and a big heart.may God bless her for taking care of her husband till end ❤❤

  • @raelnzilani4574
    @raelnzilani4574 10 місяців тому +2

    Mum tumikia mungu ,wacha waongee,watanyamaza tu

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 10 місяців тому +6

    Wakiama you amaze me😮the grace you have of forgiveness, surpressing pain is beyond ju wee ! People have thrown shades at you without mercy 😂but God have been faithful to you

  • @estherwangari131
    @estherwangari131 10 місяців тому +12

    Our amazing mum deserves the best..Wacha God acheze kiyeye na yeye❤

  • @Philis2020
    @Philis2020 9 місяців тому

    I love wa Kiama sana, may God bless you mum

  • @lucynjogu-sf1ms
    @lucynjogu-sf1ms 10 місяців тому +2

    And God surely pays l m witness for that

  • @WakarimaWaKariri
    @WakarimaWaKariri 10 місяців тому +8

    You're beautiful both inside and out WaKiama. You're full of grace. Thank you Monica for continuing to advise and inspire us with this great programme. ❤

  • @ianjoseph5325
    @ianjoseph5325 9 місяців тому

    Mrs kiama is from same village with mum kiruri village they are childhood friends

  • @peternjoroge9209
    @peternjoroge9209 10 місяців тому +4

    U are a wonderful mother
    Continue to Inspire many families.
    May almighty God bless you abundantly.

  • @MyJOSE2013
    @MyJOSE2013 10 місяців тому +6

    Those gossips make me know you were both in love and happy hence those talks; some very bitter wemen who were unhappy themselves. Plus I wonder how ignorant they are about mental health issues 🤨

    • @MyJOSE2013
      @MyJOSE2013 10 місяців тому +2

      They must also be jealous she was a teacher who chose happiness whereas they expected her to be miserable wife. My mother was a nursery teacher and those kind of women were always on her case akifanya kitu dogo. But God. Saa ako yuwes

  • @puritywakabamosi5800
    @puritywakabamosi5800 10 місяців тому +3

    Thanks for the beautiful words of wisdom my husband has been blind for 15 years but I've stood for him and my children I've never questioned God and this Dec anapeleka ruracio kwetu

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 10 місяців тому +8

    Monicah you glowing &wakiama looks soo pretty especially with the wig😊

  • @lucymaina9236
    @lucymaina9236 10 місяців тому +7

    I can feel you Mrs. Kiama, hiyo story is the same as mine niliambiwa niliroga bwana yangu ndiyo nifanye umalaya .He developed mental illness coz he was a Kenyan boxer in lare 70s...may God bless you!

    • @carolegitahi
      @carolegitahi 10 місяців тому +3

      I guess it happens a lot with boxers! Pole sana.

  • @carolinemukundi4918
    @carolinemukundi4918 10 місяців тому +3

    😂😂😂😂😂Wakiama loved Kiama.Why did she stand in the courtroom...

  • @intyrystyn
    @intyrystyn 10 місяців тому +3

    Hawa side chicks ndio waliroga Kiama...nyinyi sidechicks!

  • @jeankimani2170
    @jeankimani2170 10 місяців тому

    Wakiama aki I can listen to her all day.

  • @elizabethmwaura3863
    @elizabethmwaura3863 10 місяців тому +2

    Wa kiama ni wangenia na ndathoma maundu maingi kuma he rugano rwa muturire waku wa kihiko

  • @puritythuku3793
    @puritythuku3793 10 місяців тому +5

    Monica ndukanehere hari wakiama niukuhiga muno,Wakiama ni muicho

  • @mercyk2672
    @mercyk2672 10 місяців тому +4

    I really enjoy watching your shoes with wa Kiama. I left Kenya right after high school, I've lived in two different countries, with different cultures, so I didn't learn how to be a Kikuyu woman. Wa Kiama has become my mentor and I'm growing into the woman God created me to be. God bless you immensely 🙏

  • @gideonchrismaina1773
    @gideonchrismaina1773 10 місяців тому +4

    Mrs Kiama, Thankyou for "forgiving the villagers who mocked and chastised you"!! A heart full of "Christ the Saviour"!!! Keep it up.

  • @sarahkibe7513
    @sarahkibe7513 10 місяців тому +2

    Ni Neema tu ❤

  • @dhiambiokuom2159
    @dhiambiokuom2159 10 місяців тому +4

    Ghai Wakiama.....these are life lessons that only a wife can understand.....we surely deal with human beings thodo' weuh!!!!

  • @hellennjihia9299
    @hellennjihia9299 10 місяців тому +1

    Wa kiama you are an amazing woman...may God keep you shining everyday...your teaching's are very good and also very funny...keep on Mamaa...❤❤❤

  • @ruththumbi3207
    @ruththumbi3207 10 місяців тому +2

    Wa Kiama and Monica, you are hilarious. 😅 Atī waguthītwo iromo ikahana cia nguruwe.😂

  • @joycechege428
    @joycechege428 10 місяців тому +4

    I have no words to describe this good mama....You can't understand what you do to our hearts....Only God knows...You give some of us a reason to face another day and keep fighting on.Thanks mama GBU

  • @nicholasmburu1198
    @nicholasmburu1198 10 місяців тому +9

    I Love Love Love this dynamic duo! More power to you both. Thank you for being real. Thank you for keeping it real. Welcome to Diaspora any time.

    • @AliceWaithera-s9b
      @AliceWaithera-s9b 10 місяців тому

      Hii ni Kali so mtu akiwa less than60 anaeza olewa?? Na Kama amerasherio

  • @NjundiBrig
    @NjundiBrig 10 місяців тому +9

    Wakiama is a woman of God I enjoy listening to her.

  • @angelamacharia3133
    @angelamacharia3133 10 місяців тому

    I love Wakagoni n Wakiama so much 💓

  • @serahkimani2280
    @serahkimani2280 10 місяців тому +7

    I love this lady she is so beautiful in and out.

  • @annmuthemba8875
    @annmuthemba8875 10 місяців тому +5

    Monica umuthi ukurara ugituurwo ni mbaru niguthekio niwa kiama

  • @nelsonmwaura1264
    @nelsonmwaura1264 9 місяців тому +1

    Hi the two of you, thanks wa kiama you have taught even Monica not to be shy and now she can speak up strong words fearlessly,heko mamiii...

  • @VelmaShoes-qn9pj
    @VelmaShoes-qn9pj 10 місяців тому +8

    I first met her at larchic saloon in Nyeri I really enjoyed her listening to her stories she is a vibe.

    • @mach-betty
      @mach-betty 10 місяців тому +1

      I also met her at lachic. She was a customer there.i used to admire her coz she has bn very smart Al thru.

  • @agneskawaler2547
    @agneskawaler2547 10 місяців тому +3

    Hallo Mrs. Kiama. The stories you give, tally so much with my stories in nyeri also. Times i thought you are talking about me. How come i never met you in nyeri leave alone about nyeri primary? God bless you much. One day i will meet you and we praise God together.

  • @aminakuria8186
    @aminakuria8186 10 місяців тому +2

    Kagoni iam relating this story to my mum's .she's now 87 she took care of our dad who was crippled due to an accident

  • @jackiekanyingi2898
    @jackiekanyingi2898 10 місяців тому

    My high school teacher God bless you

  • @bingimwenyewe5416
    @bingimwenyewe5416 10 місяців тому +9

    Metha ya kagoni youre the best. I appreciate you wachana na hawa ma negative sayers.

  • @WanjiruShii-jq1vl
    @WanjiruShii-jq1vl 10 місяців тому +2

    But men for sure they should behave now that finally the husband died bila ata kuomba msamaha where is the justice of this woman feelings when it comes to love wanaume mnatupitishianga uchungu Sana

  • @whatscookingwithRegina
    @whatscookingwithRegina 10 місяців тому +10

    Wakiama is a full dose ❤

  • @wambuimuchai4230
    @wambuimuchai4230 10 місяців тому +3

    For a metal to become gold, it has to go through fiery fire. Your wisdom Wakiama comes from fiery fire.
    I'm so happy to see you back. It takes the grace of God. Love the show. Thank you, Monica.

  • @teresawachira629
    @teresawachira629 10 місяців тому +1

    Madam wakagoni, invite senator and tell her it is wrong being a second wife. Somebody is crying out there.

  • @wilsonmuriuki3292
    @wilsonmuriuki3292 10 місяців тому +5

    She looks very young and beautiful mum all the best as you continue

  • @irenemuya7305
    @irenemuya7305 10 місяців тому +5

    Surely there is a God in heaven 🙏

  • @juliahkimari8083
    @juliahkimari8083 10 місяців тому +1

    Great advice

  • @NjundiBrig
    @NjundiBrig 10 місяців тому +4

    Turi na uria JJ show riu turenda uria wa Kiama show

  • @faithmwenda1504
    @faithmwenda1504 10 місяців тому +4

    Monica you're right wakiama looks younger today❤

  • @susanngugi3176
    @susanngugi3176 10 місяців тому +3

    Nitaka mtu mimi on a serious note .you have encouraged me iam
    a victim like wakiama I have gone through hell what is remaining is seeing heaven.

  • @nectarblue
    @nectarblue 10 місяців тому +1

    So, your to sum up the biggest lesson is pick a verse in the Bible. Allow your spouse to use and abuse you as much as he can and ss ling as possible. Then wait for him to get a strong or some other debilitating disease for you to Nurse him till death so that you can go to heaven? That's how it appears and l hope the youngsters in marriage are wise enough to get out of an abusive marriage when love is gone and find another verse in the good book that says immorality,abandonment and sexual immorality are reasons why you ought to. You stayed for your own gratification. By the way women too get strokes and it's not because they have abused their partners. It's because the body has malfunctioned.

  • @catherinewaithira9161
    @catherinewaithira9161 10 місяців тому +10

    Kagoni n wakiama I love this you've made my night stay blessed ❤

  • @carolinewairima583
    @carolinewairima583 10 місяців тому +3

    God's grace has really been sufficient for you Esther, you are blessed ❣️

  • @terrymuchiri7429
    @terrymuchiri7429 10 місяців тому +5

    It is very unfortunate that people always blame the wife if the husband gets sick or dies. I pray that one day, they will realise the pain they cause the wives. I can identify with my fellow counselor Wakiama. The merciful God will one day reveal every thing to those relatives.

  • @nimohwanjeri
    @nimohwanjeri 10 місяців тому +2

    Godly wisdom noted, very formative Conversation.
    Learning as they break my ribs❤💜💚

  • @gracekamauthequeen6862
    @gracekamauthequeen6862 10 місяців тому +2

    Wee.... soo kuguraririo means you are permanently, handworing huko like a muramba... No going... Mamayuuuuu

  • @jacintanduta3849
    @jacintanduta3849 10 місяців тому +3

    I need a God of wakiama..love you so much mamaaa

  • @margaretwanjiru6435
    @margaretwanjiru6435 10 місяців тому +3

    God continue blessing you for your kind and wise lessons 🙏❤️

  • @esthermusembi2632
    @esthermusembi2632 10 місяців тому +15

    This woman is super authentic. I love how she doesn't pretend to please anyone!!

  • @Nanheiss1
    @Nanheiss1 10 місяців тому +4

    Mrs Kiama pole we love you

  • @marieheiss6560
    @marieheiss6560 10 місяців тому +3

    Monica Kagoni and wa Kiama nawapenda❤❤, be blessed🙏🏾🙏🏾 Wakiama wellcome back i missed you 🤗

  • @florenceirungu7125
    @florenceirungu7125 9 місяців тому

    I love you mum

  • @irenekiburu1903
    @irenekiburu1903 10 місяців тому +2

    Naokotwa chini ya kiti aki