When I was younger, I couldn't understand how a woman wouldn't just leave her abusive partner. I would get upset even more when kids were involved. However, as time went by i began to understand that unfortunately sometimes it gets to the point where they have been so broken and beaten down that they have resigned themselves to this way of living. I saw it even more clearly with the situation my own family member went through, which was what this lady went through. The emotional and physical abuse broke them down, made them feel it was all their fault, and that they deserved it. They would smile in front of others and say only good things about They their spouse to avoid conflict, so because of this it was hard for others to see them an abuser when everything came out. They were made to feel that if they left the kids would be taken away and that no one else would be there for them. Fortunately they got out of that situation but it took a mental toll them and the kids. It's been 5 years and they are still healing. We will always be there for them.
❤️🩹thank you for recognizing that. I never blamed my mom for not leaving sooner. We tried to hard to leave so many times and always went back. Thankfully when I was 17 we got out for good. My mom was abused her entire life and we often joke that I’m HER mother because I’ve always been her protector. People have no idea what abuse does to the brain. None of us remember most of our childhood and my mom doesn’t remember most things from our childhood either because it was just survival mode. He had everyone fooled too, so when we left my younger brothers were just old enough to tell the court they never wanted to see him again. If we left earlier and he would’ve gotten partial custody we would’ve been fked. Sadly we went to my grandmas and she was just as verbally abusive and now I’m extremely messed up from her abuse. Like you mentioned, after someone telling you horrible lies about yourself every single day you start to believe it. I haven’t dated in 5 years because I believe her that I’m not worthy of love or friendship. I know that’s wrong and that I’m not a bad person but still feel that way. My grandma just passed and now it’s time for healing. I’m 30 now and I know I need therapy for life. It’s caused complex ptsd, severely disabled from genetic illnesses that came out at 19 years old bc of trauma, ocd, etc. I talk about it in case others who go through the same thing.
When I was younger, I couldn't understand how a woman wouldn't just leave her abusive partner. I would get upset even more when kids were involved. However, as time went by i began to understand that unfortunately sometimes it gets to the point where they have been so broken and beaten down that they have resigned themselves to this way of living. I saw it even more clearly with the situation my own family member went through, which was what this lady went through. The emotional and physical abuse broke them down, made them feel it was all their fault, and that they deserved it. They would smile in front of others and say only good things about They their spouse to avoid conflict, so because of this it was hard for others to see them an abuser when everything came out. They were made to feel that if they left the kids would be taken away and that no one else would be there for them. Fortunately they got out of that situation but it took a mental toll them and the kids. It's been 5 years and they are still healing. We will always be there for them.
Wow that's really understandable and glad that things are getting better for them and that they have ppl like you in their corner truly blessed ❤️
❤️🩹thank you for recognizing that. I never blamed my mom for not leaving sooner. We tried to hard to leave so many times and always went back. Thankfully when I was 17 we got out for good. My mom was abused her entire life and we often joke that I’m HER mother because I’ve always been her protector. People have no idea what abuse does to the brain. None of us remember most of our childhood and my mom doesn’t remember most things from our childhood either because it was just survival mode. He had everyone fooled too, so when we left my younger brothers were just old enough to tell the court they never wanted to see him again. If we left earlier and he would’ve gotten partial custody we would’ve been fked. Sadly we went to my grandmas and she was just as verbally abusive and now I’m extremely messed up from her abuse. Like you mentioned, after someone telling you horrible lies about yourself every single day you start to believe it. I haven’t dated in 5 years because I believe her that I’m not worthy of love or friendship. I know that’s wrong and that I’m not a bad person but still feel that way. My grandma just passed and now it’s time for healing. I’m 30 now and I know I need therapy for life. It’s caused complex ptsd, severely disabled from genetic illnesses that came out at 19 years old bc of trauma, ocd, etc. I talk about it in case others who go through the same thing.
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