KwentoJuan - Napagod Na | The Juans
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- Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
- Love is patient, pero paano kung ikaw naman ang inaabuso? Join the conversation as we manage the tension between forgiving and drawing boundaries in this episode of KwentoJuan!
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Aside from SB19 ito talaga ang next na grupo na want ko my substance mga sinasabi .
Ben and Ben
"Okay ng wala, kaysa mali"- thank you, The Juans for always letting us know our worth!
Carl always amazed me that's why I stan this group with SB19. They are full of wisdom and talent.
“nauto noon natuto ngayon " ❤
Tama ka jan chael nakakadrain nakakapagod talaga mag isip 😅 lalo na sa school
Noong lumabas ang kantang "Different Time" ay iba ang pain sa akin. Hehe I've been in 6yrs relationship before, first bf ko 'yon. I gave my all to him. Dumating pa ang time na naging pasaway ako sa parents ko and kahit bawal mag bf/gf sa church ay nagawa ko kasi love ko siya, maybe hindi lang talaga kami will ni Lord for each other kasi naging pasaway din kami sa parents ko. first 3yrs was smooth kasi always kami magkasama but no'ng nag-college na kami ay nag-iba ang ihip ng hangin. natural ang misunderstanding but lumala na siya hanggang sa nagkahiwalay but nagkabalikan pero sa pagbabalikan na 'yon almost one sided love na, ako na ang naging lalaki sa relation namin na which is ako dapat ang nakakaranas ng princess treatment. From good mornings, punta sa bahay nila and good nights e ako na ang lahat nagawa and siya, nag rereceive na lang palagi ng love na ginagawa ko. last last yr I can say that me, "Napagod na" me na always begging for dapat ganito or ganiyan ang dapat treatment mo sa akin, ako dapat ang sinusuyo and pina-eeffortan but wala. noong una ayoko pakinggan ang kanta na "napagod na" ng The Juans kasi nabalik lahat ng pain hehe pero siguro kasi walang closeure na maayos and ayaw niya rin naman na mag usap pa kaya nagiging sariwa ang scars dito sa puso ko. Then nagiging okay naman na ako by this time, someone else treating me right na, like as in yung hinahanap kong love and attention nuon ay ginagawa ng manliligaw ko tapos biglang nagmessage Ex ko na gusto niya makipag-usap sa akin. hhuhuuhuhuh may part na gusto ko siya makausap but may part na ayoko na rin. Baka nga kasi ayon 'yong sinasabi nila na "Napagod na" ako.
I love you The Juans and sa whole team niyooo. Sana mabasa niyo ito hehe lovelots and sending hugs sa ating mga napagod na.
Grabe ang babait nila sa personal ❤❤❤
I'm going through smth now abt my relationship with him and I don't know whom I'm going to talk about this pains and unnecessary overthinkings. I wanted to cry but tears won't show up. I am so drained and my insecurities hits diff now compared to my insecurities back then, it made worst. I can't feel him in my heart. I don't feel his affection towards me. I don't feel him anymore compared to when we're not in a relationship. Medyo nasasakal na ako the way he treats me. I never heard him say sorry, instead he manipulated the situation to make me feel bad about myself and blame me for being so weak. I see him that he's not aware of his actions. He has anger issues also I tend to understand his situations but it made me felt alone in this relationship.
This episode made me atleast felt heard and seen. It somehow validates my emotions. Thank you, The Juans!
i realized while watching this ep na i'm thinking about a certain friend na nagdidrain sakin these past few days for some reason and yung advices ng dawans doesn't just apply for relationships na magjowa but relationships in general (even your relationship to urself). mas naappreciate and mas naging deep yung message ng Napagod Na for me after watching this. the best talaga, The Juans ❤🩹
Just a reminder that know your worth at all times. Lagi nating piliin na mahalin ang sarili at mahalin ang Panginoon sa kabila ng mga struggles that we are facing in life. Thank you, The Juans!!! Peroooo parang totoo ata yung sinabi ni Kuya Carl na, next episode ay sa America/Canada ang setting char hahahaha.
"Mas okay nang wala kesa mali." - Chael ❤
Nauto noon, natuto na ngayon.
agreeing with Carl -"its possible to forgive someone, without giving them access to hurt you the same way". May mga taong pinapatawad lang pero hindi na dapat tinatanggap
We need this every week kwentojuan 😭
True, sana nakilala ko na agad si Carl... when I was still married... I focused so much on my husband that I forgot to take care of myself, I thought I was doing the right thing, I never nagged (and I seldom speak too), I looked like a "hukluban na Lola" na pala over a span of 8 married years we were together pala (according to my kumare, who opened my eyes for me) hanggang sa naka hanap na si husband (ex na ngayon) sa office nila ng 7 years younger than me. I am annulled now; I need not tell anything anymore. But I'm ok na rin kahit single again. Thank you for this vid. Labyu, guys! Napagod na pero nag move on ng bongga... Mas maganda ako ngayon! 🙂 #napagodna
The KwentoJuan with SB19 brought me here. Aside from having 'Binibini sa MRT' and 'Gupit' on loop for days now. I very much enjoy listening to them talk about the relevant stuff. Sobrang lalim nila and eloquent. Sobrang genuine din. Now I'm a Juanista and an A'tin too. 🎉
Like Bible said “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.” lahat ng mga bagay na gusto natin. mangyayari yun sa tamang panahon at oras kung hindi siya yung tamang tao para sayo darating yung season at time na ibibigay yung tamang relationships for you
Buti may kwentojuan na ulit
NAGPODCAST NA ULIT THE JUANSSSSSS 😫🥰🥰🥰🥰
I've been waiting for this KwentoJuan ❤. More to come please, na miss ko to! Ang sarap talagang makinig sa podcast nyo, full of substance ❤️.
yay kwentojuan is back!
Live audience? why not? I'd love that 🧡
So much to learn, so much to reflect on. Thank you the juans! 🧡
Wow, meron na ulit. Sana interview ulit with SB19. Sarap makinig talaga sa kwento juan.
I can listen to them forever ❤❤❤ Inaabangan ko talaga ang #KwentoJuan
Si chael lang talaga nakakapag pangiti sakin ng sobra iba ka talaga chael 🥺
Ako din, Iba din kasi ung mga banat niya 😅
U know The Juan's are not just good singers but also mentally capacitated halata mu they talk with sense!
Thankyou for the reminders❤
I hate asking for help but it's also something that I needed during those difficult times. It's beautiful that I get to know God because I have a shoulder to cry and lean on during that time. Kasi I don't know how to express my emotions and how to deal with the situations. I knew that God is also teaching me about my character and my relationships with the people around me. I've learned a lot and improve myself more. I thank God now because I've experienced that so that it will become my testimony of how great He is, how God comforted me, how God changed me and humbled me everytime I would remember that season of my life.
Thank you for this the Juans! More deep interesting topics like this ♥️ God bless you
More of this, pleaseeee! ❤️
yung nakakapagod yung araw araw kang umiintindi at umuunawa kahit umiiyak ka na kahit sigawan ka murahin ka parang nakakapagod yung puro sya na lang ung iisipin mo bago sarili mo but not giving the same as what you are doing. always taking.
And you did guys 😢 di niyo alam kung gaano naka help yung mga advices niyo in this episode 😔 you're helping a lot 🫶 sobrang bigat na talaga, i was litening to music and while i was scrolling sa youtube and lumabas yung song niyo, sobrang nakakagaan ng feeling. Ang galing nito guys 👍
The much awaited comeback of the #KwentoJuan. I’m an avid listener since S1E1 🫶🥹
Your song hit really hard it goes to my heart's and soul.The more I see you "Then Juan's" and hear your thoughts about anything is really refreshing and it's really hit hard.I like listening to you, and the more i see the more I hear about you,my respect grow more..
“The level you can give love is the level you are loving yourself”
We heard that loud and clear! Thank you Carl, that was simple yet meaningful reminder to us 🤍
We need this kwentojuan everyweek🎉❤
Thank you for validating my feelings with your songs and this episode of KwentoJuan. As someone na naunang makarating sa "Dulo" dahil "Napagod na", I will no longer feel guilty for choosing myself.
More like this please
Blessed on stanning this band🥺its just been months but here I am learning to know myself worth and what side of me should I keep and which should be let go. And this kwentujuan ep right now is what I prayed for, an answer to my never ending question running inside my head of should I let go on my work in the next few month or should I stay for 1 more year even when its was also the place that's triggering my anxiety back. Should I keep being here, letting myself drown or should I let go and find peace somewhere else.
Thank you for being blessing to us that's always giving us the reminder that despite storms in life there is hope and their is tomorrow waiting ahead❤
This made my day already😢💌
The best apology is a change ❤
Super nice!!! Ayiee kwento Juan is very refreshing and worth listening. Love you guys ❤❤❤❤
KwentoJuan ❤❤
Problems in Work, relationship, family.. these are all draining and keep us tired
Love you four 🫶🫶🫶🫶
i hope kahit weekly yung ganitong segment nyo. this really helps us realize things.
napagod nang mag patawad at the same time napagod nang mag bigay ng chance.
Im 45 years old but gustong gusto ko makinig s the Juans.Im also learning...
More kwentojuan pleaseee❤
Itong grupo na to inaanu ba kau😢 anlalalim nmn ng words💔💔
It's been 2 weeks since this ep was out and wala talaga akong balak panoorin ito since the title itself i know i can't relate, but then i try to listen this ep.
'Napagod na' is not all about relationship with someone but it talks generally, pwedeng friendships, family and even yourself. And this past few weeks and days I've been struggling emotionally, and i know it's not all because of me it's also because sa mga taong naka surround sa akin. You need to learn to get out in that situation without seeking their attentions, you need to learn valuing yourself because you are worthy. In this ep i learned na kung pagod na bitaw na din para makita yung mga totoong tao sa paligid mo.
MOREEEE!!!!
They're backk
Idol ko talaga kayo.❤
Sana all pareho ni Carl magmahal na mabilis magpatawad at magmove on...😢😢
All I can say is thank you. I needed this today.
You got this!
@@TheJuans 💪
What you said it is true. You can forgive them , but you won’t forget. I can be nice to forget the hurt but I refuse to let them in my life! You pick up the pieces and go on with life. I’m happy being single not answering to anyone. I do anything I please and spend time with my family and friends!
I want to share this story of mine when I was 19, I prayed to the Lord that I want someone who will inspire and motivate me to keep moving forward. I prayed really hard that time, then someone came, I really thought he's the one that God sent for me. But later on, he will demand me to do things that I am not ready for, or I am not generally. It was so hard to let him go because I prayed for him. But little did I know, he's not bc it was affecting me mentally, emotionally, and spiritually already.
relate ako SA part na Yan,
Buti nman bumalik n ang kwento juan. At least nakikita ung otherside nyo.
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'When Love turned into hate'
Wala eh, NAPAGOD na
one day the lord will give us the right person, who will give us peace of mind and treat us right.
"Tsaka mas okay nang wala kesa mali." -Chael. ♡
more content like this please🥹
Respeto. Oo nga tama, kapag nawala ito. At May nasasabi ng masakit sa isa't isa. Parang wala na :(
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Nakakapagod na rin magstay sa relasyon na nandyan naman sya pero parang mag-isa ka yung pag mag oopen up ako na ganito nararamdaman ko parang wala lang sa kanya. Minsan di ko na rin sya maramdaman sa sobrang cold nya pati sa reply. Di ko na rin alam kung worth it pa bang magstay ako. This is actually my 1st relationship and natatakot akong bumitaw kase palagi kong ginagas light sarili ko to the point na minsan sinisisi ko sarili ko na baka nga kasalanan ko or baka pagsisihan ko sa huli.
Okay. Di ko na ulet hahayaan na ganon ang mangyare. Promise.
i need dis ryt now😢
Thank you THEJUANS 💛 Heres to growth!
Di KO na sya tatanggapin,sasabihin KO nlng na ipagpatuloy LNG nay ang pagbabago nay pra SA sarili nay not for other person..
Crush ko si chael ❤
Helloo Juanistas! Bakit naman ba ako nakakarelate! Hahahaha
Pinagpray ko ih! Shocksssss hahahahaha
Pero, wala napagod na, we need to let go of he/she not sure of what he/she did.
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What a truth reminder! Thank you sa life you to keep knowing our worth and value ourselves.
Request naman po sa next podcast niyo... "How do you process pain?" 😑
Oh yes, forgiveness does not equate to reconciliation. But like what Dr. Ramani said, you can move on and do well with your life without needing to forgive. Forgiveness is in fact not a requirement, not mandatory. I've missed kwentojuans.
Pinaka nakakapagod, "Siguro Magisip" - Kael HAHAHAHAHAHAH
naalala ko 'yung movie na "Starting Over Again" ni toni at piolo😢
Sana tuloy na tuloy na to 😊😍
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Kwentong Napagod na: Dumating ako sa point na talagang sabi ko isa nalang, may isa lang ulit tong gawin na mag tritrigger ng button ko talagang aalis na ako. Tas ayun may nangyari ulit which is expected ko na naman at sa kauna-unahang pag kakataon sabi ko “break na tayo” at yun na nga ngayon nandito na ko sa ibang bansa. Lumayo ako ng sobra kasi feeling ko isa yun sa tutulong sakin para makamove on ako. Masasabi kong masaya ako sa naging desisyon ko 😇
P.S Nandito parin ako sa ibang bansa at mas nakikita ko na, na ang laki laki ng mundo at maraming dahilan para maging masaya ❤
We’re proud of you Rhea! 🙌🏻
@@TheJuans 🫶🏻😇
I hope to see Atty. Leni Robredo sa mga susunod na episodes hehe. Thank you po
compromise and comprehend is a way to work on every situation in a relationship that can be a strong foundation. but the hard thing about compromise and comprehend is, it's seems the easiest way to do however it's also the hard thing to receive nor get to someone we truly love or adore^______________^
Yung umay is after upaw before uman 😊
healthy relationship = you both bloom and gets nourished.
a healthy plant grows and blooms, an unhealthy one eventually dies.
.kayo talaga.. pinapaalala niyong na stock ako.. 😭
anyways, super correct naman na communication is the key to this kind of issues
pero mas bet kong isuli siya sa nanay niya 🤫😅😁
Para skin ang nakakdrain or nkakapagod skin is Yong nagmamahal Ka Ng paulit2x tpos paulit2x Ka ding masasaktan at naluluko..😢😢
its hard kz ehh.. ung binigay mona lhat taz at the end iiwan ka rin lang...
thnx
Lt ka talaga kuya Chael 😅.
KwentoJuan with Hannah Pangilinan
Kwentojuan with Moira again please
Seryosong seryoso yung tao tapos babanat si chael 🫠
Relationship should add value to your life and not to take away from it. - Atty. Oliver Moeller
Mag pagod sa mental health and breakdown 😅
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Can I just ask what's your take on sa nalilito ka na, if you would still pursue or not. Like you don't know what to do anymore parang mixed signals.
pagod na din po ako sa school works 😢
I resonate with the part of RJ sharing his friend’s story about difficulty letting go because “pinagpray ko sya, and all the signs where there.” Currently, I went through that too. This guy in my church “ticked all the boxes in my prayer list for future spouse”, pero now, hes with somebody else. Nothing was really established between us, we were never personally close either, though we serve in the same ministry.
I later realized, sometimes we fall inlove with the idea and not the actual person. Minsan naiinvest natin self natin sa mga “ideas and plots” in our head about someone, but in reality, they are all just ideas and not the actual person. 🥹 It was a tough lesson to learn but needed to learn. It’s not always ideal but its necessary. 🩵
Stuck in the situation where i dont know how to get out 🥹
Lagi kong advise sa mga friends ko na If they are tired, rest but do not quit pero in a romantic relationship, sometimes it is not applicable lalo na if it is one sided love. Imagine, isa lang ang nageeffort para magpatuloy yung relationship, pilit sinasalba pero yung kabilang side walang ginagawa para hindi lumubog. Nakakapagod din pala, kaya sa dulo pinili mo na lang bumitaw kasi pagod ka na. Sa pagod mo hindi mo namamalayan na nasaktan at nasugatan and it takes time para gumaling. So when I heard Toni Gonzaga said in one of the episodes in Tonitalks that "The deeper the hurt, the longer the process of healing" but at the same time, the bigger the pain, if you let it go, the bigger the reward as Maxina Magalona added. Dahil hindi ibig sabihin na pagod ka na eh sumuko ka na agad, maaaring pagod ka na magpapahinga at muling babangon para magumpisa ulit, it is the best reward.
It’s not giving up but it’s freeing yourself and protecting your peace.
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