The same thing happened to me. I was “abstinent” for 7 years but really I was messing around with the men I was in a relationship with during that time just no intercourse and I was strict on that so technically I had been playing with God anyway. But I met this one and I loved him and thought he was my husband he claimed he saw me as his wife and I had a drink at dinner came home and betrayed God and broke my abstinence. When I tell you God allowed the devil to turn me every way but loose. That man was Haitian and that’s all I’m going to say. I went through 6 months of extreme torture of the mind and spirit. I had to fast, pray all that and actually I’m about to fast again. I learned my lesson though because this time I’m going to do abstinence the right way I don’t care who I lose or what man doesn’t agree I’m not having intercourse or playing around in any way until I am married on the alter, in the court, and before God.
It takes time for the Lord to reveal who you are to your spouse. I knew who my spouse was probably a year and a half before he told my husband. Our obedience to the Lord is what wakes up our spouse.
I appreciate your sharing. I've known for about 4 months. This man is very interested in me. He cares for me but he hasn't proposed YET. I think he's praying about it. God told me that He is telling this brother I am his wife. God says any day now! And yes, it takes obedience to God. That's the key.
Thank you for your transparency. God sees your heart and He forgives you. I’m just as guilty… I messed up also. But I’m starting my celibacy journey again. Our stories are similar. God bless you ❤
How were you able to stop drinking? I've been fasting, praying and seeking God about 100 abstinence. I drink, not heavily but i do drink. I don't get drunk but I want to completely stop and I'm struggling.
You learn as you go on. It took me years to understand what fornication does. It damages the soul. Not worth it. I pray you remain chaste and God brings your spouse.
Listen don't wait get married your authenticity as a true woman is amazing, your super pretty, super smart woman of god, the universe will send you the right man.its not about sex, no sex you just listen to god divine love, it's okay.
The same thing happened to me. I was “abstinent” for 7 years but really I was messing around with the men I was in a relationship with during that time just no intercourse and I was strict on that so technically I had been playing with God anyway. But I met this one and I loved him and thought he was my husband he claimed he saw me as his wife and I had a drink at dinner came home and betrayed God and broke my abstinence. When I tell you God allowed the devil to turn me every way but loose. That man was Haitian and that’s all I’m going to say. I went through 6 months of extreme torture of the mind and spirit. I had to fast, pray all that and actually I’m about to fast again. I learned my lesson though because this time I’m going to do abstinence the right way I don’t care who I lose or what man doesn’t agree I’m not having intercourse or playing around in any way until I am married on the alter, in the court, and before God.
@@Bestchoice2008 🙏🏽🙏🏽
It takes time for the Lord to reveal who you are to your spouse. I knew who my spouse was probably a year and a half before he told my husband. Our obedience to the Lord is what wakes up our spouse.
I appreciate your sharing. I've known for about 4 months. This man is very interested in me. He cares for me but he hasn't proposed YET. I think he's praying about it. God told me that He is telling this brother I am his wife. God says any day now! And yes, it takes obedience to God. That's the key.
Sray Strong Sister. We all are guilty of sin. Do your best, look ahead and put your faith in the ALMIGHTY....
Thank you for your transparency. God sees your heart and He forgives you. I’m just as guilty… I messed up also. But I’m starting my celibacy journey again. Our stories are similar. God bless you ❤
@@Keonahawk24 Amen sis 🙏🏽 thank you
How were you able to stop drinking? I've been fasting, praying and seeking God about 100 abstinence. I drink, not heavily but i do drink. I don't get drunk but I want to completely stop and I'm struggling.
This happened to me I feel bad and see tht man don’t even care about me now I hv to heal again
@@Snatchqueen don’t feel bad. God is with us and will carry us through it all 🙏🏽
You learn as you go on. It took me years to understand what fornication does. It damages the soul. Not worth it. I pray you remain chaste and God brings your spouse.
Listen don't wait get married your authenticity as a true woman is amazing, your super pretty, super smart woman of god, the universe will send you the right man.its not about sex, no sex you just listen to god divine love, it's okay.
The Universe sends nothing to us. God does.
Great testimony. I encourage you not to show so much skin. I say this respectfully.