00:01 NLP is a way to reprogram your nervous system through language. 02:27 NLP helps improve communication, learning speed, and influence 06:59 We construct a map of the outside world based on limited data and our own perceptions. 09:11 The meaning we assign to our experiences is dependent on our internal representations and past collages. 13:46 Our brains focus on and find evidence for what we choose to believe. 15:53 Our perception is influenced by what we are tuned into. 19:38 The importance of paying attention to safety 21:30 We respond to our map of reality, not reality itself. 25:28 Discovering new ways to learn and acquire skills can expand your possibilities.
This is a great introductory video. I've taken an interest in NLP because it's something I learned to do intuitively and only recently learned it was called this. NLP is amazingly powerful. I'm in an organization where there are some who learned it intuitively and some who actively studied it. One of the constant attributes in this organization is that everyone is financially successful, emotional well, spiritually attuned, and physically near their maximum. Such is the outcome of practicing NLP; your words turn into reality.
"Just because I feel a certain way about something doesn't mean it's true. So what if all those little stories I told myself over the years about what I can and can't do weren't true? What would that mean to you now? What would you do with that? Where would you go with that in the future?" Powerful, profound and inspiring words.
As a linguist I congratulate you for a very clear introduction to NLP. Now we all have to realize that reprogramming our map takes time, effort, determination and courage but the final result is extremely worthy. If you dedicate an hour of your day, imagine the benefits... that hour that you are chatting, watching a movie, or playing a game... sure we can find the time. Thank you and cheers from Brainstrains.
This was an excellent, generalized and gentle introduction to NLP that I can show other people to spare myself the effort of explaining it. Well done, good job.
This is the most objective nlp presentation on youtube by far, all the others seems like mumbo jumbo book selling crap from guys that look smart but teach you shit.
The most helpful lessons I have learned in my 45 years is that I have a constructed system of beliefs and it is made up of the emotions I experienced over the course of growing up in a PISS POOR environment. What I know to be "real" about me is nothing more than what I was TOLD was real...turns out, I'm NOT worthless or annoying...the desire to be loved is NOT offensive to those who care to give it. Those are the things my biefs had me thinking...when I woke up to them I changed them
I’m new to NLP so I don’t know much about it but I wonder if some of it could turn into wrongful thinking. For example, you said you learned the desire to be loved is not offensive and I agree with that. The desire to be loved is one of the most natural and basic human needs. However, that desire could turn dysfunctional in the way it is expressed. Such as if the need went from normal to out of balance where the person has a need to be loved but is blind to reciprocating the love. So they become a cup that can never be filled or poured into another person. They can only drain other people’s love from them. Or if the need for love is manifested in neediness, smothering, obsession, toxic jealousy, or clinginess. If it is unhealthy but one uses NLP to convince oneself it is good, then maybe NLP turns out to do more harm than good. I wonder if NLP has any safeguards to prevent people from making unhealthy decisions or convincing themselves that something dysfunctional is good? Does it have a mechanism for making one aware and creating a healthy balance? Of course I was using your example but it could be applied to anything. Such as it’s good to want to be successful but not at the expense of trampling on others to get to the top. Or it’s good to desire go be a good parent but it becomes unhealthy when that causes one to turn into the overly involved helicopter parent. And so on with the examples.
Funny enough, it was Anthony Robbin's book "Unlimited Power" that truly gave me an awakening. Knowing that someone else had the same experience is amazing. It also made me become interested about NLP. I am still in the process of using it to my advantage but so far it was great. This video was great though, explanation was engaging and fun to watch.
a long detailed explanation of the science behind why you find the answers your looking for. you give yourself an image and you maintain it, to do things you didnt think you could you must change your self image and research the reasons why you CAN do something, not why you cant. Good video
Hearing for the first time in my life about NLP; Got the same feeling when I watched "The Matrix" movie. Conceptual essence looks a bit similar to it yet am able to make out the difference :)
Very useful and productive, positive and life changing materials. I wish I had learnt these in school instead of all the rubbish we were forced to learn.
"Physical sensations in a situation are not scary in themselves. What makes them scary is the meaning we give to them." Switch the meaning you are giving to them, and your behaviour will automatically get fixed.
The point of that is that it’s the meaning that makes it scarier not not necessarily what you’re physically feeling. The physical sensations of getting excited are very similar to the physical sensations of getting anxious or scared. Yet, it’s the meaning that we make about the experience that leaves us feeling euphoric or traumatized in the end. Think of the difference between driving your car off a cliff and going down the first hill of your favorite roller coaster. They’ll probably feel the same in the beginning but be two very different experiences.
I want to take the awareness test! I'm from the Santa Cruz mountains, summit road, and love Anthony Robbins and never knew NLP was basically from my home ground. I'm determined to master this now! God Bless and So Mote It Be!
The slide show flows real nice. 7+/- 2 is way easier than two hundred billion, eighty five million, nine hundred twenty thousand, seven hundred and twelve. Meta shoosh. If you put the projection on the white board that's behind the a/v screen, you can write on it with oratory and them dry write pens on the left. Rapopart’s Rules for critical commentary: 1. Attempt to re-express your target’s position so clearly, vividly and fairly that your target says: “Thanks, I wish I’d thought of putting it that way.” 2. List any points of agreement (especially if they are not matters of general or widespread agreement). 3. Mention anything you have learned from your target. 4. Only then are you permitted to say so much as a word of rebuttal or criticism. Anatol Rapoport was a Russian-born American mathematical psychologist (1911-2007). .
"If you don't like the way you feel about something you can change it." There in lies the truth of living life with ones's sub-conscious thinking with conscious understandings now.
NLP Is Awesome., It's like Reprogramming people's mind, with their help of course. It's fun, not easy to learn, takes time, effort and work... but it's worth it over time! Enjoy!
I stumbled on to this from recommended videos for the first time and it was fascinating to me. NLP sounds a lot like a spiritual awakening or a positive psychedelic experience that broadens awareness. Incredibly interesting stuff!
Great presentation! I've been reading NLP in education from a book and could not get it, but now not only have i got it, but also i've realised that i could have actually learned it from that book.
Best NLP explanation ever! Thanks for providing a clear theoretical foundation before jumping into techniques. Today I will begin to rewrite my story. I hope yours is a good one.
Plato started positivism officially, and of course it's throughout the Bible New Testament as well. But I have no doubt humankind saw the link in positivity and good luck since the dawn of time.
At 5:40 into your video you got me with the Panic Attack example and the strong internal skills that are needed (intense mental imaging, clear internal dialogue, etc).. I’ve never heard anyone explain my “adaptive behaviors/survival techniques” as Strengths if they were only replaced with better content. Wow. I’m both emotional, relieved and inspired to hear this and to learn more. Thank you 🙏🏼
Thanks for sharing your knowledge been fighting PTSD felt like this helps a lot. People form traumatic beliefs around what they experienced but they can be changed.
Great video. Very insightful as well. When I was younger, I studied NLP for a bit. I was very impressed, and it formed a lot of what I am today. At that time, I thought it was more about how to control people. I never realized that you could use it on yourself so effectively. I am ADHD withdraw depression. I tale drugs for these and deal with a very obsessive mind. I also identity myself as an INFJ. My life has been Very confusing and difficult, but I feel like I’m on the right direction to more understanding and enlightenment. It is embarrassing and frustrating to realize that I’ve been this way all my life and I just turned 50 years old in December. In the last five years, I have been sober as I am a recovering alcoholic. And I have lost over 200 pounds overweight and reversed my diabetes. I feel better than I have ever before. But my mind is a person. I am just trying to connect all the dots to figure out cause-and-effect and to cross off a few things that are missed diagnosed as a disorder but can be now understood as a byproduct of one’s conditioning and thinking. And very much controllable through changing your believe system or more importantly, to not have such a strong believes system but to make decisions and observations based on something more than a pre-perceived idea of what you were going to classify it as. You can put away all the wires and all The ego-based emotions and be open to a new understanding that you never had that can make you succeed in ways that other people just can’t comprehend. I realize that myself and I am very excited. But, I can’t break through and launch my eight years. I don’t know what it is. I now believe that NLP will lead me to be more cognizant of my thoughts and steer them more constructively. Thank you very much. Sorry for the ramble. I would love it if you could respond of this or get in touch with me somehow. I will value your insight and would love to learn more. Could you put me in the right direction please? Thank you again.
Eddy Sparks Great story, vulnerability is powerful. What do you mean by you can’t break through eight years? It sounds like you’re on the right path, you’ve completely had a life change. So what is making you feel held back still?
I relate to so much you shared. Have you ever tried meditation as a way to control your thoughts? I'm just beginning to dip my toes into it. There's a book you might find interesting. It's called The Surrender Experiment.
Excellent NLP I remember Anthony Robbins book, back in the 90s my wife gave it to me for my birthday and I started reading it I couldn’t really understand it, but I kept reading it along with the Bible. I overcame my 32+ year gambling habit I’m overcoming fears of different kinds and becoming more confident and I’ve even written a couple books. #Thankful
SoldiersofSelfMastery Your story is awesome! It’s beautiful when you said you couldn’t understand the book, but kept reading it and as a matter of fact it changed your life for the better!
I really enjoyed this video as an intro to NLP. Precise and to the point explanations with great examples to tie it all together! I learned a couple great things about myself from this video!
Integrating NLP as a core competency developing Business Intelligence User Interface (BI-UI) is pivotal not just for the data and users behavioral function, but more so in predictive analytics strategic, technical and tactical approach.
18:00 the 8 cognitive functions fit so well here. The Freedom type can be similar to being dominant in SE, your main cognitive state is bring in tune with the sensational experience of reality.
I love the way you teach honestly . You are very thoroughly descriptive and kind in understanding how someone feels and perceives life situations. Great teaching! I took a lot from this!! Thank you!!
Too bad Vince make life good is an account that was created solely to make that comment lol. The account was created at the same time as this upload was posted. And its the only thing that the account has ever commented. Very deceitful practice by this guy.
NLP seems to correlate well with occult teachings. Transmutation of consciousness via alchemy. Meaning and purpose being highly subjective, the goal being to merge with objective reality via expanded awareness. Recognizing that our internal state dictates how we perceive the external world. Consumed by thoughts we further fraction reality and confine ourselves to labels and 'generalizations.' Syntactical tiling (language) which traps one in a dual state of constant upheaval.
"Syntactical tiling (language) which traps one in a dual state of constant upheaval." That's quite an assessment. The definiting of 'Occult' is supernatural, mystical, or magical beliefs. Yet, NLP at the core is about the 'structure' of subjective thinking. It's void of 'magical' thinking. Instead, it's about noticing patterns, without judgement or prejudice, and noticing what's useful or not. I'm open to coherent and productive conversation. If you really think and feel that way please say more?
Occult means “hidden, kept secret” not supernatural. All of my research tells me that this information that is being kept secret is knowledge of self, ones mind and how to control it(wether it’s your own mind or someone else’s). The information is kept secret because the people in control can control us but if we learn this information and learn of ourselves no one can control you.
Darren Cooke Um....no actually the definition of 'occult' *is* "supernatural, mystical, or magical beliefs, practices, or phenomena." A simple google search will tell you that. However, occult as a verb can also mean, "cut off from view by interposing something." An example sentence could be "The light of a star that was about to be occulted … by Uranus itself." And the word 'occult' comes from the Latin word occultus meaning 'hidden, secret.' So, technically you are both correct. I personally do not believe that NLP has anything to do with the occult, I just thought I'd point out that the word can mean both depending on how it is used in a sentence.
From Wikipedia: The term occult (from the Latin word occultus "clandestine, hidden, secret") is "knowledge of the hidden". The knowledge that is being hidden is knowledge of self.
This reminds me of the quote from The Incredibles movie "Luck favors the prepared." This is not a slam against NLP. Rather, if you are self-aware, you know your deficiencies . Very Sun Tzu-like. This means you can do it, but it also creates a path on how you can get it done. Now . . . tell me how to do it.
Is there the complete course available anywhere? Thank you UA-cam algorithm! From Tony Robbins to Damien Cart to this video ... I think I am embarking on a journey, no less. This was the best explanation I have received, period, on this subject? Can you guide me to where to start learning this, for the absolute beginners? I am in Pakistan, so can't do the expensive trainings. Perhaps some book and some freely available material. I will seek out the two Tony Robbins books you suggested, as well. Appreciate your help. Yet to explore your channel also, Let me. Incredible upload. Thank you!
as an advanced neuroscientist, I can tell you a lot of things you are mentioning are extremely basic, however not to people uneducated in science, that's probably why this NLP is so famous, its a combination of basics of science and therapy combined.
A lot of talk to simply say that we don't react directly to events but to our interpretations of those events; if we change how we frame "what is going on" and we'll change how we feel about "what is going on". The same idea has been a lot more eloquently and more fully explained, notably by Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT): [...] A fundamental premise of REBT is humans do not get emotionally disturbed by unfortunate circumstances, but by how they construct their views of these circumstances through their language, evaluative beliefs, meanings and philosophies about the world, themselves and others. This concept has been attributed as far back as the Roman philosopher Epictetus, who is often cited as utilizing similar ideas in antiquity. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rational_emotive_behavior_therapy#Theoretical_assumptions
Thanks Alain, A friend recommended the topic to me and I wanted to research that a bit. For me NLP is just a bunch of bullshit. Now your explanation is very helpful. It is a bunch of bullshit and it was created from commercializing REBT that is actual science.
@@Adme09 I agree that a lot of people who call themselves NLPers are spouting a lot of nonsense. However I have found that the basic metamodel questions can be a good way to start challenging unuseful self talk. Plus B &G drew attention to the idea it was not only internal dialogue, but also inner pictures that could drive emotional states.
Very good explanation. Thank you. I study NLP and it opens a new world because you see and feel everything in another perspective. Thank you. Sincerely, Lutje. Belgium
Great presentation; it was clear, concise and entertaining. What I wonder about is how it can be applied to/by a person who has issues with emotional trauma. No matter what spin a person puts on things in a conscious way; aren't the deeper un/sub conscious mechanisms really what drives the motivation to change or not? And since those abreactions/triggers aren't conscious due to suppression/repression...how does NLP help to bring them out of the shadows into the light for transformation? I'd appreciate any resources you might offer on this topic. Thanks.
Jo McKernan the more I listen to it. The more I am confused or some secrets programs they have to use that is not out yet. Because they didn't get what they want from me. Still in curiosity mood.
Deep hypnotic states can influence the subconscious. Deep meditative states can also influence the subconscious. Repetition and patterning as well. It’s not always a single session that creates change. It’s may be something that requires consistent practice, repetition and reframing.
Hi Robert. Nice NLP and communications model overview (sans personality profiles). We'll be featuring this on it's own page in NLP Magazine (links included of course :-) )
Gregory Bateson actually wrote the book that exposed NLP to professionals and TOTES was a main thrust in the book for psychologists Test Operate Test Exit!
@Steve Kelsey Well it was marketed to the general public as a way to become a therapist with minimal training. It flew in the face of years of clinical psychiatric wisdom and practice IE LEaving catatonics alone in bed where Bandler says yell at them shock them surprise them. The books are entertaining but the one real professional book I read on Topic I have seen in therapists offices if they admit it or not. I dfestroyed the book in a fit of rage a few years back I wish I hadn't just to be able to give info on it! Bateson's name was on it. Red leather cover Gold NLP on binding
@Steve Kelsey No argument from me...I have gleaned good info from the books, but it is purely anecdotal and general folk wisdom that has been purported for millennium. Bandlers books are testimonials. funny stuff!
when you have a panic attack you don't have skills. what you have is thinking errors among other things that led you to have a panic attack to begin with. a skill is a set of knowledge, abilities and expertise which when put together will help a person to combat if you will, those errors and make you successful with the situation that caused you to feel the panic.
If you are truly interested in "game changers", you need to check whether NLP actually maps reality or is only a seductive idea, in other words, an easy mistake because it seems wonderful. rationalwiki.org/wiki/Neurolinguistic_programming Neurolinguistic programming has become a subject of discussion in university courses on science and pseudoscience as a prime example of pseudoscience. Evidence-based scientists such as Professor Scott Lilienfeld are concerned about the spread of pseudoscientific ideas and misconceptions about the brain by developments such as NLP. Neurolinguistic programming has now been identified as one of a top 10 most discredited interventions according to a published research survey by Norcross et al. (2006).
That's called RAC or Reticular Activating System. Reticular means “net or web-like.” The RAS is a net-like formation of nerve cells and their connections lying deep within the brainstem, between the brain and the spinal cord. Thus when you have something you start to notice it everywhere. Same with people when they have a baby how they start to notice babies everywhere.
An article in The Economist years ago reported women's neurology even this century still remembers where important food stuffs are. Like they'll remember the layout of a Supermarket better than men. And maybe women still liking the colour pink is from historically when food turned ripe? 🤔
@@rollogic2988 AWWWWW I never thought of it like that!!! You're right!!! Lately I have noticed that (almost) all commercials have the color GREEN as they're dominate color... The reason I'm so fixated on this at this time, is I am refinishing a vintage travel trailer for sale... and truthfully I don't want avocado green, although when I was younger in the 70s I loved it, (Green Shag Carpet, anyone?) LOL But I have noticed how many commercials and weekly TV shows have the dominate colors of Green... like NCIS New Orleans. (You'd would think using a Green-Screen all the time, they'd be tired of the color Green). Thank you for sharing your thoughts... I have learned something new.
Is Robert in the video the same person as the profile picture of this UA-cam channel ? It help me a lot in the video of the short hair Robert. I want to listen more from him.
Great presentation! I'm new to this subject and am glad to have started with videos like this. How could I change a problem I've got using NLP: I repeat the same mistakes, although they used to lead to bad or very bad consequences in the past? My brain doesn't seem to learn well from these mistakes. Thank you for any advice!
The speaker was a great teacher/communicator giving me a much greater understanding about how different our individual perspectives can be (I always think about the blind men all touching different parts of an elephant, coming up with totally different descriptions of an elephant) and subjective verses objective reasoning. We often respond/react not to what reality is, what is truly being said in a conversation and concrete/objective fact. Instead our reaction comes from what is going on in our head...factual reality filtered through the emotions attached to our past experiences, differences in word meanings, our values, etc. We can often come to some pretty erroneous conclusions/interpretations that guide our feelings and behavior. I am sure you have at sometime said something totally benign, with absolutely no intention to hurt or insult someone in a casual conversation and the other person goes ballistic, screaming, yelling obscenities, etc. and you're wondering what just happened! They are responding to something else going on in their head! We can sometimes learn to dissect situations that occur to understand where we have gone awry, in thought or deed, so we can avoid the same pot holes, sometimes we need a good therapist/counselor, who knows the right questions to ask, can spot patterns we fall into and is emotionally outside of the situation to help guide our self discovery... Blessings on your journey!
Thanks for your great answer! Since I had experienced some almost disastrous events which changed my life to subjectively worse and more difficult than before, I've also changed my perspective of the reality and of myself. It helped me to identify my weaknesses (which were not apparent in the past). Also I've started to observe my thoughts, words and deeds "from outside". Basically I'm trying to be my own therapist. My journey is hard and often painful but once I've reached my goal - it will be a tremendous victory over myself! Blessings for your life as well!
Great question...but waaaay to general to be answered. There are a lot of great NLP techniques that all work great for certain things in certain circumstances. Depending on the 'problem' one technique might work great or be totally in-effective. Give more specific info on the 'problem' you want to change and let's continue the discussion.
Great video, would however also view your library as a mixture of past experiences in the form of those mental image pictures that get stored, including emotional and physical pain, that will then have an impact and influence your personality. These traumatic life events, are mostly stored in the limbic system, and form part of the fight or flight mechanism. Your personality is then the observer of these events.
00:01 NLP is a way to reprogram your nervous system through language.
02:27 NLP helps improve communication, learning speed, and influence
06:59 We construct a map of the outside world based on limited data and our own perceptions.
09:11 The meaning we assign to our experiences is dependent on our internal representations and past collages.
13:46 Our brains focus on and find evidence for what we choose to believe.
15:53 Our perception is influenced by what we are tuned into.
19:38 The importance of paying attention to safety
21:30 We respond to our map of reality, not reality itself.
25:28 Discovering new ways to learn and acquire skills can expand your possibilities.
I appreciate you adding this.
This is a great introductory video. I've taken an interest in NLP because it's something I learned to do intuitively and only recently learned it was called this. NLP is amazingly powerful. I'm in an organization where there are some who learned it intuitively and some who actively studied it. One of the constant attributes in this organization is that everyone is financially successful, emotional well, spiritually attuned, and physically near their maximum. Such is the outcome of practicing NLP; your words turn into reality.
This was an incredible upload!
Isn't intuition awesome!! I too had nlp come to me this way. Didn't even know what it stood for when I bought the course.
Is there any other videos or readings to learn more?
Lol and everyone worships Satan too
Intuitively😂
"Just because I feel a certain way about something doesn't mean it's true. So what if all those little stories I told myself over the years about what I can and can't do weren't true? What would that mean to you now? What would you do with that? Where would you go with that in the future?" Powerful, profound and inspiring words.
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As a linguist I congratulate you for a very clear introduction to NLP. Now we all have to realize that reprogramming our map takes time, effort, determination and courage but the final result is extremely worthy. If you dedicate an hour of your day, imagine the benefits... that hour that you are chatting, watching a movie, or playing a game... sure we can find the time. Thank you and cheers from Brainstrains.
I want to listen again 🙏
As someone who's done a few different practitioner courses, this is the best intro to NLP, and explanation of NLP I've ever seen
This is the best presentation on NLP I have ever seen. Concepts explained simply & clearly. His voice is clear and calming. Excellent thank you.
This was an excellent, generalized and gentle introduction to NLP that I can show other people to spare myself the effort of explaining it. Well done, good job.
Thank you. Glad you enjoyed it.
This is the most objective nlp presentation on youtube by far, all the others seems like mumbo jumbo book selling crap from guys that look smart but teach you shit.
"Wow, the NLP class was super informative and so motivational! The concepts were explained in such a simple but powerful way. Really loved it!"
Regretfully discovering this channel now, but it's never too late to learn about NLP.
Why are you regretfully discovering this NOW?
What does that mean?
A bit slow at first but really becomes brilliant. Well worth the time
The most helpful lessons I have learned in my 45 years is that I have a constructed system of beliefs and it is made up of the emotions I experienced over the course of growing up in a PISS POOR environment. What I know to be "real" about me is nothing more than what I was TOLD was real...turns out, I'm NOT worthless or annoying...the desire to be loved is NOT offensive to those who care to give it. Those are the things my biefs had me thinking...when I woke up to them I changed them
I’m new to NLP so I don’t know much about it but I wonder if some of it could turn into wrongful thinking. For example, you said you learned the desire to be loved is not offensive and I agree with that. The desire to be loved is one of the most natural and basic human needs. However, that desire could turn dysfunctional in the way it is expressed. Such as if the need went from normal to out of balance where the person has a need to be loved but is blind to reciprocating the love. So they become a cup that can never be filled or poured into another person. They can only drain other people’s love from them.
Or if the need for love is manifested in neediness, smothering, obsession, toxic jealousy, or clinginess.
If it is unhealthy but one uses NLP to convince oneself it is good, then maybe NLP turns out to do more harm than good.
I wonder if NLP has any safeguards to prevent people from making unhealthy decisions or convincing themselves that something dysfunctional is good? Does it have a mechanism for making one aware and creating a healthy balance?
Of course I was using your example but it could be applied to anything. Such as it’s good to want to be successful but not at the expense of trampling on others to get to the top. Or it’s good to desire go be a good parent but it becomes unhealthy when that causes one to turn into the overly involved helicopter parent. And so on with the examples.
Outstanding explanation. Perhaps the clearest explanation of NLP I’ve ever heard (and seen). Well done! 👊🏻💢
Funny enough, it was Anthony Robbin's book "Unlimited Power" that truly gave me an awakening. Knowing that someone else had the same experience is amazing. It also made me become interested about NLP. I am still in the process of using it to my advantage but so far it was great.
This video was great though, explanation was engaging and fun to watch.
a long detailed explanation of the science behind why you find the answers your looking for. you give yourself an image and you maintain it, to do things you didnt think you could you must change your self image and research the reasons why you CAN do something, not why you cant. Good video
Excellent presentation! Very straight forward and to the point without overlooking the important information.
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Hearing for the first time in my life about NLP; Got the same feeling when I watched "The Matrix" movie. Conceptual essence looks a bit similar to it yet am able to make out the difference :)
Very useful and productive, positive and life changing materials. I wish I had learnt these in school instead of all the rubbish we were forced to learn.
"Physical sensations in a situation are not scary in themselves. What makes them scary is the meaning we give to them."
Switch the meaning you are giving to them, and your behaviour will automatically get fixed.
The point of that is that it’s the meaning that makes it scarier not not necessarily what you’re physically feeling. The physical sensations of getting excited are very similar to the physical sensations of getting anxious or scared. Yet, it’s the meaning that we make about the experience that leaves us feeling euphoric or traumatized in the end. Think of the difference between driving your car off a cliff and going down the first hill of your favorite roller coaster. They’ll probably feel the same in the beginning but be two very different experiences.
@@NLPandHypnosis can NLP be effective for health anxiety or somatic symptom disorder?
Yeah, right. Haha
I want to take the awareness test! I'm from the Santa Cruz mountains, summit road, and love Anthony Robbins and never knew NLP was basically from my home ground. I'm determined to master this now! God Bless and So Mote It Be!
The slide show flows real nice. 7+/- 2 is way easier than two hundred billion, eighty five million, nine hundred twenty thousand, seven hundred and twelve. Meta shoosh. If you put the projection on the white board that's behind the a/v screen, you can write on it with oratory and them dry write pens on the left.
Rapopart’s Rules for critical commentary:
1. Attempt to re-express your target’s position so clearly, vividly and fairly that your target says: “Thanks, I wish I’d thought of putting it that way.”
2. List any points of agreement (especially if they are not matters of general or widespread agreement).
3. Mention anything you have learned from your target.
4. Only then are you permitted to say so much as a word of rebuttal or criticism.
Anatol Rapoport was a Russian-born American mathematical psychologist (1911-2007).
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"If you don't like the way you feel about something you can change it."
There in lies the truth of living life with ones's sub-conscious thinking with conscious understandings now.
Just imagine if all you had learned this as a child. How amazing would that be😀 thanks Robert for your outstanding teacher.
NLP Is Awesome.,
It's like Reprogramming people's mind, with their help of course.
It's fun, not easy to learn, takes time, effort and work... but it's worth it over time!
Enjoy!
Amazing! You have simplified NLP in a way any person can understand. Thank you.
I stumbled on to this from recommended videos for the first time and it was fascinating to me. NLP sounds a lot like a spiritual awakening or a positive psychedelic experience that broadens awareness. Incredibly interesting stuff!
Well said, Mate. You should post a Post COVID-19 Pandemic update for us Young Entrepreneurs to form new networks. Thanks so much for sharing this.
NLP helps in teaching. We tried out Circle of Excellence in small school. We applied. the technique on skills. It works.
Thank you for your comments. NLP definitely works and like any tool - you want to know where and how to use it.
Great presentation! I've been reading NLP in education from a book and could not get it, but now not only have i got it, but also i've realised that i could have actually learned it from that book.
If u can reply? What book???? Name?
Best NLP explanation ever! Thanks for providing a clear theoretical foundation before jumping into techniques. Today I will begin to rewrite my story. I hope yours is a good one.
Plato started positivism officially, and of course it's throughout the Bible New Testament as well. But I have no doubt humankind saw the link in positivity and good luck since the dawn of time.
At 5:40 into your video you got me with the Panic Attack example and the strong internal skills that are needed (intense mental imaging, clear internal dialogue, etc).. I’ve never heard anyone explain my “adaptive behaviors/survival techniques” as Strengths if they were only replaced with better content. Wow. I’m both emotional, relieved and inspired to hear this and to learn more. Thank you 🙏🏼
Thanks for sharing your knowledge been fighting PTSD felt like this helps a lot. People form traumatic beliefs around what they experienced but they can be changed.
They definitely can.
Find a NLP practitioner who is skilled at specific trauma related anchor collapse.. And you will find your PTSD will be gone
22:40 - Great summary of attitudes and perspectives here.
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very well-articulated, you've must have mastered NLP
My first nlp class, i start to listen seriously at 17.13 😀 thank you for the video,
Great video. Very insightful as well. When I was younger, I studied NLP for a bit. I was very impressed, and it formed a lot of what I am today. At that time, I thought it was more about how to control people. I never realized that you could use it on yourself so effectively. I am ADHD withdraw depression. I tale drugs for these and deal with a very obsessive mind. I also identity myself as an INFJ. My life has been Very confusing and difficult, but I feel like I’m on the right direction to more understanding and enlightenment. It is embarrassing and frustrating to realize that I’ve been this way all my life and I just turned 50 years old in December. In the last five years, I have been sober as I am a recovering alcoholic. And I have lost over 200 pounds overweight and reversed my diabetes. I feel better than I have ever before. But my mind is a person. I am just trying to connect all the dots to figure out cause-and-effect and to cross off a few things that are missed diagnosed as a disorder but can be now understood as a byproduct of one’s conditioning and thinking. And very much controllable through changing your believe system or more importantly, to not have such a strong believes system but to make decisions and observations based on something more than a pre-perceived idea of what you were going to classify it as. You can put away all the wires and all The ego-based emotions and be open to a new understanding that you never had that can make you succeed in ways that other people just can’t comprehend. I realize that myself and I am very excited. But, I can’t break through and launch my eight years. I don’t know what it is. I now believe that NLP will lead me to be more cognizant of my thoughts and steer them more constructively. Thank you very much. Sorry for the ramble. I would love it if you could respond of this or get in touch with me somehow. I will value your insight and would love to learn more. Could you put me in the right direction please? Thank you again.
Eddy Sparks Great story, vulnerability is powerful. What do you mean by you can’t break through eight years? It sounds like you’re on the right path, you’ve completely had a life change. So what is making you feel held back still?
I relate to so much you shared. Have you ever tried meditation as a way to control your thoughts? I'm just beginning to dip my toes into it. There's a book you might find interesting. It's called The Surrender Experiment.
Excellent presentation- clear-logical-articulate
Excellent NLP I remember Anthony Robbins book, back in the 90s my wife gave it to me for my birthday and I started reading it I couldn’t really understand it, but I kept reading it along with the Bible. I overcame my 32+ year gambling habit I’m overcoming fears of different kinds and becoming more confident and I’ve even written a couple books. #Thankful
SoldiersofSelfMastery Your story is awesome! It’s beautiful when you said you couldn’t understand the book, but kept reading it and as a matter of fact it changed your life for the better!
Juwels Lee 😊 Thank you, yes it has played a big part in my Self Mastery.
Sarah Plummer Thank you for taking time out. 🙏 Energy Wisdom & Greater Strength 4/U.
The Best Explanation on NLP I have ever seen-Kudos brother! Thanks...
Thanks Emilio.
I really enjoyed this video as an intro to NLP. Precise and to the point explanations with great examples to tie it all together! I learned a couple great things about myself from this video!
Awesome, thank you!
Integrating NLP as a core competency developing Business Intelligence User Interface (BI-UI) is pivotal not just for the data and users behavioral function, but more so in predictive analytics strategic, technical and tactical approach.
18:00 the 8 cognitive functions fit so well here. The Freedom type can be similar to being dominant in SE, your main cognitive state is bring in tune with the sensational experience of reality.
I love the way you teach honestly . You are very thoroughly descriptive and kind in understanding how someone feels and perceives life situations. Great teaching! I took a lot from this!! Thank you!!
You are so welcome!
It feels good to finally get to a video that actually adds value 🙏
this is one of the best explanations of NLP that I have come across
that's a good and short introduction to the basics
Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us in such an eloquent way.
Great job. Your presentation was easy to understand. I want to see how you continue.
Too bad I read this comment at the end of the video, wish I could've noticed the 'calm' in his voice sooner. T_T
I have explained about what is basic of NLP
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Too bad Vince make life good is an account that was created solely to make that comment lol. The account was created at the same time as this upload was posted. And its the only thing that the account has ever commented. Very deceitful practice by this guy.
NLP seems to correlate well with occult teachings. Transmutation of consciousness via alchemy. Meaning and purpose being highly subjective, the goal being to merge with objective reality via expanded awareness. Recognizing that our internal state dictates how we perceive the external world. Consumed by thoughts we further fraction reality and confine ourselves to labels and 'generalizations.' Syntactical tiling (language) which traps one in a dual state of constant upheaval.
"Syntactical tiling (language) which traps one in a dual state of constant upheaval." That's quite an assessment. The definiting of 'Occult' is supernatural, mystical, or magical beliefs. Yet, NLP at the core is about the 'structure' of subjective thinking. It's void of 'magical' thinking. Instead, it's about noticing patterns, without judgement or prejudice, and noticing what's useful or not. I'm open to coherent and productive conversation. If you really think and feel that way please say more?
Actually, at the heart of NLP is the 'Meta Model' which was designed to recover lost information from things like Generalizations.
Occult means “hidden, kept secret” not supernatural. All of my research tells me that this information that is being kept secret is knowledge of self, ones mind and how to control it(wether it’s your own mind or someone else’s). The information is kept secret because the people in control can control us but if we learn this information and learn of ourselves no one can control you.
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Um....no actually the definition of 'occult' *is* "supernatural, mystical, or magical beliefs, practices, or phenomena." A simple google search will tell you that. However, occult as a verb can also mean, "cut off from view by interposing something." An example sentence could be "The light of a star that was about to be occulted … by Uranus itself." And the word 'occult' comes from the Latin word occultus meaning 'hidden, secret.' So, technically you are both correct. I personally do not believe that NLP has anything to do with the occult, I just thought I'd point out that the word can mean both depending on how it is used in a sentence.
From Wikipedia:
The term occult (from the Latin word occultus "clandestine, hidden, secret") is "knowledge of the hidden".
The knowledge that is being hidden is knowledge of self.
Very well explained, and the motivated perception makes such sense. Thanks.
Being an 18 years old guy it feels great that this guy started at the age of 18.
Being a 35 year old it feels depressing.
This reminds me of the quote from The Incredibles movie "Luck favors the prepared." This is not a slam against NLP. Rather, if you are self-aware, you know your deficiencies . Very Sun Tzu-like. This means you can do it, but it also creates a path on how you can get it done.
Now . . . tell me how to do it.
I was going through the comments to see if anyone noticed... speaking of The Incredibles, his son is named Dashiel.. 15:25 😀
Ohh... great qoute.. never notice that from The Incredibles 😊😄
Is there the complete course available anywhere?
Thank you UA-cam algorithm!
From Tony Robbins to Damien Cart to this video ... I think I am embarking on a journey, no less.
This was the best explanation I have received, period, on this subject?
Can you guide me to where to start learning this, for the absolute beginners? I am in Pakistan, so can't do the expensive trainings. Perhaps some book and some freely available material.
I will seek out the two Tony Robbins books you suggested, as well.
Appreciate your help.
Yet to explore your channel also,
Let me.
Incredible upload.
Thank you!
Did you get it
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@@taariqq how your nlo study going on
@@abhinavkrishna7649 Away from it nowadays.
This is a great resource as I will encourage my employees to watch this, thank you so much. Cindy, Piercing Instincts
as an advanced neuroscientist, I can tell you a lot of things you are mentioning are extremely basic, however not to people uneducated in science, that's probably why this NLP is so famous, its a combination of basics of science and therapy combined.
10/10 Astrocytes agree
Turn up the listening speed to 1.5, much more time-efficient.
How do you even do that ? Real question
@@georgia7043 bottom right corner "setting" icon then go to "playback speed"
2x, much better!
I watch everything at 2.3x speed, I'm a little better than everyone else...
Awot Mengesha that’s a crazy speed.. he sounds nerdy with that speed.. at least 1.25
Amazing lecture. Love your stories and brilliants. Bless you ♥️
Love it. This is definitely helpful to living life. Wayyy clearer than other explanations. thank you
A lot of talk to simply say that we don't react directly to events but to our interpretations of those events; if we change how we frame "what is going on" and we'll change how we feel about "what is going on".
The same idea has been a lot more eloquently and more fully explained, notably by Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT):
[...] A fundamental premise of REBT is humans do not get emotionally disturbed by unfortunate circumstances, but by how they construct their views of these circumstances through their language, evaluative beliefs, meanings and philosophies about the world, themselves and others. This concept has been attributed as far back as the Roman philosopher Epictetus, who is often cited as utilizing similar ideas in antiquity. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rational_emotive_behavior_therapy#Theoretical_assumptions
Thanks Alain, A friend recommended the topic to me and I wanted to research that a bit. For me NLP is just a bunch of bullshit. Now your explanation is very helpful. It is a bunch of bullshit and it was created from commercializing REBT that is actual science.
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NLP is NOT Bullshit...
@@Adme09 I agree that a lot of people who call themselves NLPers are spouting a lot of nonsense. However I have found that the basic metamodel questions can be a good way to start challenging unuseful self talk. Plus B &G drew attention to the idea it was not only internal dialogue, but also inner pictures that could drive emotional states.
Very good explanation. Thank you. I study NLP and it opens a new world because you see and feel everything in another perspective. Thank you. Sincerely, Lutje. Belgium
I'm glad you enjoyed it.
Great presentation; it was clear, concise and entertaining. What I wonder about is how it can be applied to/by a person who has issues with emotional trauma. No matter what spin a person puts on things in a conscious way; aren't the deeper un/sub conscious mechanisms really what drives the motivation to change or not? And since those abreactions/triggers aren't conscious due to suppression/repression...how does NLP help to bring them out of the shadows into the light for transformation? I'd appreciate any resources you might offer on this topic. Thanks.
Jo McKernan the more I listen to it. The more I am confused or some secrets programs they have to use that is not out yet. Because they didn't get what they want from me. Still in curiosity mood.
My thoughts and questions exactly.
Deep hypnotic states can influence the subconscious. Deep meditative states can also influence the subconscious. Repetition and patterning as well. It’s not always a single session that creates change. It’s may be something that requires consistent practice, repetition and reframing.
Hi Robert. Nice NLP and communications model overview (sans personality profiles). We'll be featuring this on it's own page in NLP Magazine (links included of course :-) )
Hi NLP Magazine... send me the links please if you used this.
lol you sent that 1 year 8 months too late :p
Very nice experience. Thank you.
Thank you sir I will used it on my new business and I excited to learn new ideas to be an pro. Interpreneur someday
The whole concept is beautifully explained
Just found your channel, best Nlp information on the net👍
Great presentation! Definitely worth my time! Thanks.
Gregory Bateson actually wrote the book that exposed NLP to professionals and TOTES was a main thrust in the book for psychologists Test Operate Test Exit!
@Steve Kelsey Well it was marketed to the general public as a way to become a therapist with minimal training. It flew in the face of years of clinical psychiatric wisdom and practice IE LEaving catatonics alone in bed where Bandler says yell at them shock them surprise them. The books are entertaining but the one real professional book I read on Topic I have seen in therapists offices if they admit it or not. I dfestroyed the book in a fit of rage a few years back I wish I hadn't just to be able to give info on it! Bateson's name was on it. Red leather cover Gold NLP on binding
@Steve Kelsey No argument from me...I have gleaned good info from the books, but it is purely anecdotal and general folk wisdom that has been purported for millennium. Bandlers books are testimonials. funny stuff!
You are great! Please develop an online program> Thank you for your teachings!
We have one! Learn.nlpca.com
when you have a panic attack you don't have skills. what you have is thinking errors among other things that led you to have a panic attack to begin with. a skill is a set of knowledge, abilities and expertise which when put together will help a person to combat if you will, those errors and make you successful with the situation that caused you to feel the panic.
Than you for keeping this video online. It’s immensely helpful🙏
Absolutely wonderful description.
Very good job on incrementally making explanations. Thanks, a lot.
Very professional presentation!
Thank you for a clear explanation of Nlp
Good vid, very thought provoking on a lot of levels for me. Thank you.
Now you're 20 you old stupid bitch
If you are truly interested in "game changers", you need to check whether NLP actually maps reality or is only a seductive idea, in other words, an easy mistake because it seems wonderful.
rationalwiki.org/wiki/Neurolinguistic_programming
Neurolinguistic programming has become a subject of discussion in university courses on science and pseudoscience as a prime example of pseudoscience. Evidence-based scientists such as Professor Scott Lilienfeld are concerned about the spread of pseudoscientific ideas and misconceptions about the brain by developments such as NLP. Neurolinguistic programming has now been identified as one of a top 10 most discredited interventions according to a published research survey by Norcross et al. (2006).
This was an awesome presentation. Had never heard of NLP before.
I'm glad you enjoyed it.
Excellent explication. Clear examples. Thanks
"WOW"
I LOVE THIS VIDEO....
Thank you for sharing this.
I watched it, and I want to congratulate you for your explanation, it was very clear and meaningful. Thank you so much indeed.
Glad you enjoyed it.
Very concise and well presented. Great job
Samething goes when your looking in to buying a certain car, it looks like they start popping out every where...
That's called RAC or Reticular Activating System. Reticular means “net or web-like.” The RAS is a net-like formation of nerve cells and their connections lying deep within the brainstem, between the brain and the spinal cord. Thus when you have something you start to notice it everywhere. Same with people when they have a baby how they start to notice babies everywhere.
An article in The Economist years ago reported women's neurology even this century still remembers where important food stuffs are. Like they'll remember the layout of a Supermarket better than men. And maybe women still liking the colour pink is from historically when food turned ripe? 🤔
I bought a car then saw the same all over the place. Lol
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AWWWWW I never thought of it like that!!! You're right!!!
Lately I have noticed that (almost) all commercials have the color GREEN as they're dominate color...
The reason I'm so fixated on this at this time, is I am refinishing a vintage travel trailer for sale... and truthfully I don't want avocado green, although when I was younger in the 70s I loved it, (Green Shag Carpet, anyone?) LOL
But I have noticed how many commercials and weekly TV shows have the dominate colors of Green... like NCIS New Orleans.
(You'd would think using a Green-Screen all the time, they'd be tired of the color Green).
Thank you for sharing your thoughts... I have learned something new.
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Nice introduction to NLP.
I'm glad you enjoyed it.
I really appreciate this talk.
I took him 27 minutes to just percent A complicated way of just Saying change a perspective and you can do Anything you put your mind to.
It's About Time Some people can’t understand it as simply stated. Tell anyone that and see if they know how to do it effectively.
Only person to make me feel good about myself for having panic attacks
That’s cool- had a friend in high school who had panic attacks
Me also suffered from panic attack but after hard core calisthenics i recovered fully now
Hi Robert! Great job, very nice intro!
Great presentation sir, very helpful.
Is Robert in the video the same person as the profile picture of this UA-cam channel ? It help me a lot in the video of the short hair Robert. I want to listen more from him.
Yes, same.
Great teaching! Very well spoken and easy to understand. Thank you so very much for sharing.
Great explanation, you are very well spoken
great job with the presentation brother
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I'm glad you enjoyed it.
Best explanation I could find
Great presentation! I'm new to this subject and am glad to have started with videos like this.
How could I change a problem I've got using NLP: I repeat the same mistakes, although they used to lead to bad or very bad consequences in the past? My brain doesn't seem to learn well from these mistakes. Thank you for any advice!
The speaker was a great teacher/communicator giving me a much greater understanding about how different our individual perspectives can be (I always think about the blind men all touching different parts of an elephant, coming up with totally different descriptions of an elephant) and subjective verses objective reasoning. We often respond/react not to what reality is, what is truly being said in a conversation and concrete/objective fact. Instead our reaction comes from what is going on in our head...factual reality filtered through the emotions attached to our past experiences, differences in word meanings, our values, etc. We can often come to some pretty erroneous conclusions/interpretations that guide our feelings and behavior. I am sure you have at sometime said something totally benign, with absolutely no intention to hurt or insult someone in a casual conversation and the other person goes ballistic, screaming, yelling obscenities, etc. and you're wondering what just happened! They are responding to something else going on in their head! We can sometimes learn to dissect situations that occur to understand where we have gone awry, in thought or deed, so we can avoid the same pot holes, sometimes we need a good therapist/counselor, who knows the right questions to ask, can spot patterns we fall into and is emotionally outside of the situation to help guide our self discovery... Blessings on your journey!
Thanks for your great answer! Since I had experienced some almost disastrous events which changed my life to subjectively worse and more difficult than before, I've also changed my perspective of the reality and of myself. It helped me to identify my weaknesses (which were not apparent in the past). Also I've started to observe my thoughts, words and deeds "from outside". Basically I'm trying to be my own therapist. My journey is hard and often painful but once I've reached my goal - it will be a tremendous victory over myself! Blessings for your life as well!
Great question...but waaaay to general to be answered. There are a lot of great NLP techniques that all work great for certain things in certain circumstances. Depending on the 'problem' one technique might work great or be totally in-effective. Give more specific info on the 'problem' you want to change and let's continue the discussion.
So good 😂... “I ended up back in the hospital.”
Great video, would however also view your library as a mixture of past experiences in the form of those mental image pictures that get stored, including emotional and physical pain, that will then have an impact and influence your personality. These traumatic life events, are mostly stored in the limbic system, and form part of the fight or flight mechanism. Your personality is then the observer of these events.
Im trying to start my own cult. This is great information. Thank you so much!
Great and inspiring Ideas!
Excellent Lecture,Thank you.
Brilliant video. Thank you for sharing.