Loker chinta eto nogra amake ar amar ex ke niye ei montobbo shune I feel disgusted.

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  • @arpitabanerjee9278
    @arpitabanerjee9278 4 місяці тому +6

    Rumela....jibon ta tomar r tomar poribar ke niye. Tumi jemon chokhe jibon ke dekhbe.. jibon seirokom aina e tomar samne dhorbe
    Tumi tomar meyeder kachhe ekta jibonto example ..life ekta meye hoye ki bhabe handle korte hoy.. har na mene. Ar mayera to aro storng hoy. I feel proud of u. Bhalo e bhai. Sobaike niye hasimukhe thako. God bless you always ❤

  • @aparnadas7574
    @aparnadas7574 4 місяці тому +21

    Tomake akta majar khabor dichhi. Amar maa (76) tomar khub baro fan. Kintu maaer smart ph nei. Ami jakhoni maaer kachhe ashi, tomar vlog dyakhate hoy. Tomar struggle ke maa khub respect kare. Tomar meyeder, Richard keo khub bhalobase. Ajke tumi Lawra bolchho aar maa sesh hobar pore bolchhe," jah, Lawra ke dekhte pelam na". Aami ashole jamai shosthhi kortei eshechhi, tomar mukhe jamaishosthhi sune to chokhh ta chokchok kore uthhechhe😂😂

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  4 місяці тому

      Aww how sweet ❤❤

    • @imranrab9860
      @imranrab9860 4 місяці тому +1

      Aparna dd aunty ke ekta normal smart ph kine diya just youtube ta set kore diben ar sikhai diben.
      Only Rumela dd er vlog gula ar ono vlogs gula dekben aunty.

  • @madhushreetanden2039
    @madhushreetanden2039 4 місяці тому

    Didi tumi sotti Ekta inspiring personality
    It’s really so amazing to see u manage so many things so nicely. With no frustration or irritation on your face. Tomar theke Amar onek kichu Sekhar ache ❤. Love for all the babies ❤️

  • @malobikaray7924
    @malobikaray7924 4 місяці тому

    You are bringing up the girls so well..each one is so caring and loveable..❤ they will all grow up to be great human beings. .

  • @tapotimukherji4608
    @tapotimukherji4608 4 місяці тому +4

    Anaira is not only brave but most caring and a lovely human being. Get well soon girl...

  • @SushmitaMukerji
    @SushmitaMukerji 4 місяці тому

    Hi you are absolutely right. What people think or say is their problem not yours. Society plays a very strong role in abuse & influencing us. Especially at a young age. As I had shared with you my story partly when I was recovering from therapy the first thing I did was to stay away from socialising. And taking time off for myself & not seeking validation. Earlier I always felt I owed an explanation though that's so cruel to oneself. Later after a long time I got back to minimal socialising on my own terms. Any lack in life makes one very social. I have noticed in a lot of people including myself. You want to recover list time participate enjoy & one sees social interaction as part of that. That's not always true. Anything done as rebound or in overdose backfires. I never knew about boundary setting at all. I discovered it very late. You are doing perfectly fine. More independence & power T to you❤

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  4 місяці тому

      That’s the best thing one can do . I did the same I took 2 years off I cut off so many people, stopped vlogging , socializing, it was the best decision ever as I was able to make the best choices and take rhe right decisions for myself and the kids without worrying about the society. Honestly even now I don’t get bothered by people and what they think as it’s my life but sometimes such mindset just blows my mind I am like they can read a book or two to understand the concept of co parenting before coming and leaving such dumb comments. And her justification is she is feeling bad for Richard as he is innocent I mean Richard has seen more world than her and she is worried about him 😂

    • @SushmitaMukerji
      @SushmitaMukerji 4 місяці тому

      Very good decision. The best one. Most people who give unsolicited advise always show they are well-wishers. Like sympathy for Richard. 😅 In Mumbai we have a very small Bengali community & it's very hard to be socially selective. People would tell me "oh you only mix with rich & famous people these days not us like before" my parents too were not my best friends so its been a touch balance. Later I just focused on my duty & being non-toxic. That's my mantra❤ love with expectations even with family can become heavy. Today my tribe has only 1-3 people rest all I gratefully accept them how they are & keep a safe distance. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sushmitabhaskar1864
    @sushmitabhaskar1864 4 місяці тому +2

    Do not bother ABT negative comments....those who r toxic they wl always say n think negatively....u r such a positive lady , multitasking which is not at all easy in such a young age....hats off to u....so just ignore these comments n enjoy ur life.... U r an inspiration to others....God Bless You.

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  4 місяці тому

      Yup definitely toxic people but do need to address sometimes.

  • @simamitra9724
    @simamitra9724 4 місяці тому

    Tomar vlog sudhu valo lage bole dekhi ta noy, tomake dekhe ami moner jor pai r kaje energy pai. Sotti tomar jaygay ami hole j ki kortam k jane😮 kante bostam 😢 hoyto. Khub valo lage tomay dekhte ❤❤❤❤❤ khub valo thako tomra sobai.

  • @narayani2357
    @narayani2357 4 місяці тому

    Ur such a good mom,Richard is so sweet,I love anaira the most,extremely sweet child,I always see her playing and taking care of her siblings as an elder sister,sending much love for her and a speedy recovery, God bless🎉

  • @priyakanjilal7748
    @priyakanjilal7748 4 місяці тому

    Glad you took up the point. Amaro cousin deyor used to tell me ki "bhabhi aapko job ki kya zaroorat hai, Bhai earns good". 😂😂😂 Glad i didnt listen to that nonsense. Today that dude is married with a kid n his wife studied nursing but now it's a forgotten story. All she does is to look pretty, take care of the kids n household chores. While all of this is great but it doesn't require a degree. She wasted a seat n also a chance of someone else to become a deserving nurse.

  • @shipradatta3806
    @shipradatta3806 4 місяці тому +2

    Rumela ..Tomake joto dekhi totoi valobashte ichhe kore...God bless you ❤❤

  • @rupabhowmick8322
    @rupabhowmick8322 4 місяці тому

    Anaira get well soon beta...❤ human beings nejer reflection e dekhe shobar modhhe...tai eshob comments ignore is a best policy..

  • @GouriRadhakrishnan-c8x
    @GouriRadhakrishnan-c8x 4 місяці тому

    You have worked hard I am happiest person to see you

  • @AnkitaKundu-g2r
    @AnkitaKundu-g2r 4 місяці тому

    So true....she is the most caring and kind child....lots of love to anaira also lots of love to the bestest sister's Samaira, Amora &Azara❤❤❤❤

  • @shuklamajumder7232
    @shuklamajumder7232 4 місяці тому

    Always listen to your heart. Be proud of yourself. U are an amazing person

  • @soniyamoirangcha787
    @soniyamoirangcha787 4 місяці тому

    Dear sis,
    You are really lucky to live the life you deserve. Who cares about who is talking what shit!!! None of our bussiness to bark back to them.
    I truly believe that each one of us has a single ticket of one life. Let's just live with no regrets... lets shine bright with our loved ones. Rest will just remain where they belong.
    Cheers Gurl.❤

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks. Don’t care but just amazed at people’s thought 😊

  • @Germandream3
    @Germandream3 4 місяці тому +1

    Valo থেকো দিদি❤❤❤

  • @daliahalder619
    @daliahalder619 4 місяці тому

    Anira is simply Amazing, so brave at such a young age❤

  • @chandralekhaghosh6719
    @chandralekhaghosh6719 4 місяці тому

    Love for all ur cuties...But Anaira is my favourite ❤..get well soon baby 😘😘

  • @angelicdeblina1969
    @angelicdeblina1969 4 місяці тому

    Chi chi keu ki kore erom chinta seriously korte pare..erom eto valo ekta mishti sister amar, tar opor eto boro fighter tumi, je ja bolche bolte dao.. actually jara orom comments gulo kore, Tara character wise orokom e.....
    Tumi ekjon fighter, darun vabe shob dik ke maintain kore cholcho, God bless you as always my dear❤❤❤ I love you so much❤❤❤
    Ei shono na tumi Amora ke orom vabe bolbena, shona tar mukh ta chotto hoye gechilo, mone hocchilo giye kole tule ador kore di shona ta ke .. darun vlog .....❤❤❤
    Anairar jonyo amio khub e proud, khub khub brave girl amar 🥰🥰🥰🥰 darun amazing vlog as usual..shobai ke amar anek anek valobashaaaaa❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @chumkibasuroy817
    @chumkibasuroy817 4 місяці тому

    Anaira is the epitome of calmness and maturity

  • @saptadeepabiswas8503
    @saptadeepabiswas8503 4 місяці тому

    Get well soon sona..pray kori..log gulo ke ignore koro didi

  • @imranrab9860
    @imranrab9860 4 місяці тому

    DD
    Anayra ke vat er sathee lemon & achar diben khate or khaowaben din a ek bar.
    Tok fruits ja ache khate diben ar juices khawaben ar ghumate jabar age age jodi paren milk khawaben jehetu antibiotics khache..tahole operation er jaiga ta taratari recovery hobe.
    May Allah Bless her & recovery her...❤

  • @debashree4866
    @debashree4866 4 місяці тому

    I respect you a lot I am doing same struggle in India.

  • @debosmitabir5075
    @debosmitabir5075 4 місяці тому

    U r so inspiring with a golden heart rumela ❤❤ u keep going ahead nd keep growing 😊😊
    I keep waiting for ur vlogs ❤

  • @suzziroy5058
    @suzziroy5058 4 місяці тому

    sucha a beautiful family may god bless you Radha Rdaha

  • @madhuchhandasarkar2792
    @madhuchhandasarkar2792 2 місяці тому

    Doshovuja ma ! Beauty brain brawn all three in one!

  • @ritagupta8597
    @ritagupta8597 4 місяці тому

    Sotti o khub valo baccha khubi brave ❤️❤️❤️ or kano surgery hoyeche go o ekhon valo ache to

  • @aparnadas7574
    @aparnadas7574 4 місяці тому

    Get well soon, Anaira❤❤❤❤

  • @MadhurjoUSA
    @MadhurjoUSA 4 місяці тому +1

    Lok ar ga jolbe & tatei tomar cholbe😊. Love you divai🫂😘

  • @sanchariparia3938
    @sanchariparia3938 4 місяці тому

    Living your life on your own terms without abusing others is not wrong.... 😊

  • @anishamajumder9324
    @anishamajumder9324 4 місяці тому

    Where is sam, rumela di? Havent seen her for long..You are strong… u making u daughters stronger aswell❤ khub valo theko!

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  3 місяці тому

      Thank you. She’s been busy with her job, school and volleyball 😊

  • @soumimukherjee5941
    @soumimukherjee5941 4 місяці тому +4

    All your girls are very nice but Anaira is the best ❤

    • @narayani2357
      @narayani2357 4 місяці тому

      Yes,I too said the same,sweetest child

  • @junfoodntravel
    @junfoodntravel 4 місяці тому

    Tomar vlog dekhte besh valo lage..❤❤

  • @hriddhidas4823
    @hriddhidas4823 4 місяці тому

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
    Joy guru
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🥰❤❤❤❤

  • @somaghosh-j4u
    @somaghosh-j4u 4 місяці тому

    Get well soon Anaira.❤

  • @snehamoyghosh8504
    @snehamoyghosh8504 4 місяці тому

    Very nice God bless you and your family

  • @lailysengupta9670
    @lailysengupta9670 4 місяці тому

    Get well soon dear baby 💕

  • @theincredibleworld8287
    @theincredibleworld8287 4 місяці тому

    Cute and adorable family....

  • @supritadutta5179
    @supritadutta5179 4 місяці тому

    You are outstanding❤😊

  • @ManjariBhaduri
    @ManjariBhaduri 4 місяці тому

    Get well soon sweetu anaira😊

  • @sujitbanerjee7989
    @sujitbanerjee7989 4 місяці тому

    Just ignore that ignorant person, I love your personality! Thankful that you met Richard and his family, you are a strong person and God is kind!

  • @my_pocketworld
    @my_pocketworld 4 місяці тому

    Prayer and love for Anaira.

  • @Sassy_9760
    @Sassy_9760 4 місяці тому

    Anira shouldn't pick anything heavy for somedays . Please restrain her from picking azara 😢

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  4 місяці тому

      Thanks for your concern but she has recovered fine and the doctor never put her on any restriction other than medication and eye patch although we kept urging her to relax.

  • @daliahalder619
    @daliahalder619 4 місяці тому

    Rumela exactly where do you stay in America ?

  • @saibalganguly8154
    @saibalganguly8154 4 місяці тому

    খুব ভালো লাগলো 🎉🎉🎉

  • @susmitasjourney
    @susmitasjourney 4 місяці тому +5

    Loker chinta nogra noi।tumi e to esab public korecho।ex ke niye video kora bondho koro।aro anek vhall topic ache।loke anondo pete chai।

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  4 місяці тому +7

      Of course nongra. It’s important to share about domestic violence, trauma and my journey. Ami eishob public korechi bole oneke toxic and abusive relationship theke beriye aste pereche. And a lot of women reach out to me and I have helped many of them who aren’t able to leave due to toxic people like you who make up the society.

    • @susmitasjourney
      @susmitasjourney 4 місяці тому +2

      @@rumelasworld hahaha 🤣...I can paste my comment again... anyway...I'm glad that you got scared..

    • @sanjuktapalchakraborty3017
      @sanjuktapalchakraborty3017 4 місяці тому

      of-course its need to share,so that we can realise the person"s originality behind the gentle mask and many women can understand what is called abuse..

    • @susmitasjourney
      @susmitasjourney 4 місяці тому +1

      @@sanjuktapalchakraborty3017 yes it should be...but when people share it repeatedly then it becomes irritating...and people now recognise her because of her past trauma...how many times you share your personal issues with anyone when people already knows it..and don't worry she knows what I wanted to tell..she got my point.. otherwise she won't delete my comment where I explained my point of view.

  • @jayatichatterjee-sv6ic
    @jayatichatterjee-sv6ic 4 місяці тому

    Keep going and let go the negative, nasty thought process.

  • @amritasamanta6733
    @amritasamanta6733 4 місяці тому +4

    How u r doing so many things...cooking, taking so good care of kids, dancing, managing this channel....very much appreciable....

    • @paromitabasu9292
      @paromitabasu9292 4 місяці тому +1

      Koto mon er jor thakle eta Kora Jai . God bless .

    • @amritasamanta6733
      @amritasamanta6733 4 місяці тому

      @@paromitabasu9292 sotti....

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  4 місяці тому

      Thank you so much. I just don’t like sitting idle also can’t be at peace if things are not done 😁

  • @shahidaahmed7634
    @shahidaahmed7634 4 місяці тому

    What happened to her eye

  • @sayantanimandal8216
    @sayantanimandal8216 4 місяці тому

    Dear
    I really respect you, you are the motivation for too many women
    But what about your course and college , that you dreamt of and enrolled......
    Please reply
    With love 4m Kolkata ❤

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  4 місяці тому +1

      What about my studies? I am on summer break now classes resumes in fall and I have 2 more semesters till I graduate.

    • @sayantanimandal8216
      @sayantanimandal8216 4 місяці тому

      ❤ lots of love and congratulations

  • @sanandasingha-du4yu
    @sanandasingha-du4yu 4 місяці тому

    Satti di tomake dekhle khub abak laghe ....saradin ato kaj kormo...chokher tola kali pore gache ....aktu rest kroo tumi...tumi asustho hoye gele ader k dekbe bolo to...tokhon dadar opor khub chap porbe ..tai tomake sustho thakte hobe .....❤❤❤❤❤

  • @emafarjana4279
    @emafarjana4279 4 місяці тому

    Nice

  • @AditiNath1234
    @AditiNath1234 4 місяці тому

    Nice 👍 0:34

  • @sahanabanerjee9234
    @sahanabanerjee9234 4 місяці тому

    Ekdom tai . Bapre eto dik ki kore samlao go ? R amra ektu korei mone kori kotooo kore fellam

  • @Sahena1234
    @Sahena1234 4 місяці тому

    Di vai tomar kintu drak cercle poreche please take care of yourself

  • @pamelimitra6771
    @pamelimitra6771 4 місяці тому

    Nijer kichu craving k thakte dao.. Amio sokal a ada elach die dudh cha er craving charte pari na🤩..

  • @muktirammitra4248
    @muktirammitra4248 4 місяці тому

    Love to Anaira!

  • @piyagupta-tj4yk
    @piyagupta-tj4yk 4 місяці тому

    Ebaba sona ma tar chokhe ki hoyeche goh

  • @shilpa_khurrana
    @shilpa_khurrana 4 місяці тому +12

    Don't you have anything else to talk about?? Only one issue " amar ex husband amar ex husband" close that chapter now

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  4 місяці тому +11

      Of course I have a lot and I do cover those topics too like education, job, dance, our beautiful culture, vacation vlogs, birthday vlogs, holiday vlogs, cooking, fashion, shopping, kids extra curricular activity just a few to name . But at the same time being a domestic violence survivor it’s important to share about journey , about domestic violence, trauma and my journey includes my ex so I will have to and will be sharing it in hopes of bringing awareness. And a lot of women actually reach out to me and I have helped many of them so yes I won’t be closing this chapter any time soon. Not your place to ask a domestic violence victim to not talk about their experiences or feelings. If you don’t like this topic just skip this videos.

    • @shilpa_khurrana
      @shilpa_khurrana 4 місяці тому +6

      @@rumelasworld What do you mean not your place to ask a domestic violence blah blah blah....seems your entire channel is dedicated for screaming that you are a victim, you have put enough videos crying about it, well continue to do so 😂😂 I am anyway going to skip your videos

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  4 місяці тому +12

      @@shilpa_khurrana fortunately victims don’t have to scream to sensible people but to people like you who have low IQ sure it may look like that and clearly DV is a matter of joke to you so says volume about you. Also I am glad the trash took itself out thank you for skipping my videos I really don’t want viewers like you on my channel 🙏

    • @shilpa_khurrana
      @shilpa_khurrana 4 місяці тому +2

      @@rumelasworld You and your channel itself is a trash, gaining sympathy out of domestic abuse lol people like you put your life in social media and then cry about everything

    • @Butterflyandflowers
      @Butterflyandflowers 4 місяці тому +2

      @@shilpa_khurrana you know when someone has a traumatic experience after some times they need to talk about it and when they see they are helping others by sharing their experiences they should continue to do so…. And that’s what she is doing… maybe it’s just a content for you but actually she is talking about her life that she single-handedly turned around and you really don’t have any right to tell her to not talk about it 😊

  • @adrikadhar2915
    @adrikadhar2915 4 місяці тому

    Tomar kasuri methi dekhe mone porlo kal rajma baniyechilam kasuri methi dite bhule gachi 😂 ato maintain koro tumi bari onek strong tumi,samayera ki job kore?

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  3 місяці тому

      Thank you. Samayera r job er bepare latest vlog e share korechi 😊

  • @shampachatterjee09
    @shampachatterjee09 4 місяці тому

    Ki hoyeche anayra?

  • @pritilatamitra600
    @pritilatamitra600 4 місяці тому

    speedy recovery to Anaira!!🙏🏼

  • @redriding3562
    @redriding3562 4 місяці тому

    Wishing a speedy recovery for dear Anaira… bless her

  • @NibeditaB-n4q
    @NibeditaB-n4q 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tapasbanerjee6091
    @tapasbanerjee6091 4 місяці тому

    আমার মনে হয় লোকজনের কমেন্ট পড়বে। যদি দেখ তার মন্তব্য তোমার সাথে ফিট করছেনা তখন সেটার গুরুত্ব না দিলেই হলো।

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  4 місяці тому

      Ignorance is not always bliss 😊

  • @srijitakhushi
    @srijitakhushi 4 місяці тому +4

    U don't say the whole cmnt nd simply say one commented that U r enjoying wid 2 ppl. Bro, I see lots of ppl who r single Mother or father. I think Richard is so innocent really loves u more than anything so ig he's tolerating happily everything. Manush njr ex bf er sathe obdhi kotha bole na njr self respect e, r njr present bf er jonno...I literally watch ur every video n love it u're so stronge but I commentend that bcs I thought once of ur husband, if I would in his place I'll feel so bad so low...even also u went through a difficult time wid ur ex, what's the major need to contact properly wid him?? Obviously ur 2 girls should visit their papa n need to spend time wid him that I said in previous video also but u didn't maintioned it. Whtever It's ur life n u r almost now American wife...it's very normal there u'll say.

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  4 місяці тому +9

      Thank you for thinking about my innocent husband. He has seen more world than you and way smarter than you so he is fine. He belongs from a country where people don’t get butt hurt because of practical thing like co parenting. Instead of spending time in watching all my videos pick a book or two and actually learn the meaning of co parenting. I am glad you got butt hurt and left such a big response. Next time before you go on a public platform and leave stupid disgusting comment think twice about your own self respect than thinking about others or specially other’s husbands. My and Richard’s bond is strong he will never feel insecure coz I co parent with my ex in fact he helps me navigate my feelings and co parent when my emotions take over about the abuse and trauma I experienced but I am sure saying all these is a waste of my time as you have zero brain cells to understand any of this. And you sound really stupid for my kids to go spend time with their dad I need to co parent or else who will plan the logistics? You? It’s not the kids job to mediate but again you don’t have the brain cells to understand that.

    • @RDS2908
      @RDS2908 4 місяці тому +3

      Nijer stupidity aar ignorance ke justify korben na. Disgusting mind set er kotha toh cherei dilam. Why don't you read what co-parenting after divorce actually means. How child custody and visitation actually works from a legal perspective before spewing nonsense and filth?

    • @srijitakhushi
      @srijitakhushi 4 місяці тому +1

      @@rumelasworld oh I see u've so many brain cells so only u chose to wed a uncle at 18 years old😆😆I'm so happy that I've less cells that I'm 19 nd never think now to wed someone. Really feeling so SHAME that I was watching ur video n liked those n share ur videos n evn love how u manage everything 🤮🤢also very PROUD that I'm a genuine Fan of Mahua aunty I mean Probashe Ghorkonna💞

    • @srijitakhushi
      @srijitakhushi 4 місяці тому

      @@rumelasworld why u deleted the logical comments?? Scared abt it??/

    • @srijitakhushi
      @srijitakhushi 4 місяці тому +1

      @@rumelasworld oh I see u've so many brain cells so only u chose to wed a uncle at 18 years old I'm so happy that I've less cells that I'm 19 nd never think now to wed someone. Really feeling so SHAME that I was watching ur videos n liked those n share ur videos n evn love how u manage everything also very PROUD that I'm a genuine Fan of Mahua aunty I mean Probashe Ghorkonna

  • @jayitabanerjibose5137
    @jayitabanerjibose5137 4 місяці тому +1

    Tomra anekeri inspiration

  • @monirai8303
    @monirai8303 4 місяці тому

    Valo tako sob somi kay ki bolo kan dabay na

  • @muktirammitra4248
    @muktirammitra4248 4 місяці тому

    Where is Samaira?

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  4 місяці тому +1

      She was at her work and was there for a little bit in the vlog

  • @kakalichakraborty837
    @kakalichakraborty837 4 місяці тому

    Tomar ex husband ki kono kharach dai na Samaira ar Anaira r janye? Eta to must deoa. Ar uni ki abar bie karechhen? Anaira taratari sustha hae uthuk etai pray kari

    • @rumelasworld
      @rumelasworld  4 місяці тому +1

      I have shared about that in one of my vlogs. And uni biye korechen ki koren ni ota onar private matter.

  • @sudiptasaha1440
    @sudiptasaha1440 4 місяці тому

    Aanayrar chokhe ki hoyechilo?

  • @bijolisaha5337
    @bijolisaha5337 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤