INFP asking INTJ for advice
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"Do you ever feel like everyone is being nice but they don't really mean it?" Absolutely, all the time. People can fake being nice to get what they want.
- INTJ
Yeah I think it's not accurate that INTJ would simply say no
@@nitefriteThat's very stereotypical and wrong:
INTJs have Fi in tertiary slot and can be heavy feelers even if the preference will go for Te.
Ni-Fi especially when sufficiently developed, can intuitively "feel" when someone is being fake.
Also it's quite evident from context that the INFP isn't meaning *literally* everyone, but rather that they'd been facing fake people more frequently at the time of the question.
Being pedantic like Sheldon from Big Bang theory (Si) isn't an INTJ trait.
This question is particularly relevant because INTJs usually have a hard time socializing in the early life phase, mainly due to Polr Fe function.
Social situations can require you to wear masks and be "nice"; most INTJs are generally too honest for their own good and tend to express their Fi. INTJs tend to be very blunt and direct.
Most INTJs notice early on that other people aren't necessarily expressing their honest feelings, and that they tend to wear social masks more skilfully. Therefore, the sentiment that people aren't being "genuinely nice" isn't lost on an INTJ.
@@nitefrite INTJs actually feel a lot, they just don't allow themselves to be vulnerable about
Everyday
@@chingchingbling2145 what she meant is that INTJs "don't feel" because they'd rather think, which doesn't mean they don't have feelings or emotions, they just keep those on a deeper layer and rely more on logic and thinking over emotion and feeling.
INFP normally don't speak so much abut themselves. She must have a crush on INTJ.
We only speak much about ourselves to people we're close with, but it doesn't need to be romantic tendency. In fact, I don't think we would be this open to a crush cuz by definition they're not as close as we want to be yet.
@@letsreadtextbook1687 Having a crush on a friend is a thing, specially if you are a prospective introvert...
@@ardidsonriente2223 yes but the main point there was they could just be really close. INFPs can still share their problems, they just tend to process it themselves first before doing so. It's a similar vein with my sister and I.
Nah I do really talk about myself because I don't know what else to talk about 💀
I do speak a lot about myself with close friends even if we just have a platonic dynamic.
Ironically, I'm INFP and my bf is INTJ and this hits home a bit 💀
Awww! He means well... trust me xD
Wait what... what did you do to him... 👀
@@aryowincaster2775 That's not what I meant!
SAME
May God have mercy on his soul
"Nobody hates you but yourself" best line ever
Also sadly accurate I have a infp friend and I don't think she ever really forgives her self for anything even if it's something small that probably didn't cause any hurt feeling in the first place. Aslo kinda sad to me that she rarely talks about it at all
lol sometimes I think people don't understand INTJ humor and just get offended.
I've noticed that INFPs are inside their head all the time and usually to the detriment of themselves. They are such amazing people, and I hope those who are struggling can become stronger when it comes to protecting themselves because we need them in our lives!
I'm an INFP and this hits a bit too close to home. However, this is completely true, sadly.
@@umaizasfunactivities7478 We all love you no matter what!
I tested as an INFP. I used to dwell specifically on a few things I did to other people in the past. I essentially did an "apology tour" as I called it. Most of the people I apologized to said "I dont remember and I probably forgave you a long time ago." But it massively helped me, I never thought about those things again. I did only focus on what I considered bigger things. I also spent some time specifically crafting the apology, which helped me process it better.
INFP with an INTJ sibling, this is a pretty accurate representation of how I get advice from her.
Oof
I CAN'T 😭
As an ENFP, I wiuld like to henceforth declare that INFPs are the SWEETEST people I know. You all are angels absolutely nobody can hate. You all are so precious and pure. We could never come to hate you!
I'm an INFP and I have a slight fascination towards INTJs. Simply because they are so enigmatic it's adorable.
If an INTJ cares for an INFP, he/she would listen and give advices. Practical advices. Well, maybe forcing INFP to sum it up a bit and to not derail into a mess of unrelated topics. I'm an INTJ who has been very well trained about this: my mother, husband and best friend are ALL INFPs!
That's awesome to have so many INFPs in your life!
@@cryshulvo Its quite strange as an INFP..
so many people seem to enjoy your company - while you would rather keep your distance to yourself instead beeing forced to listen to your own thoughts 24/7
@@Zuiken2160 It's strange even as an INTJ, but yeah that seems accurate most of the time.
Bro lives in mine of infps💀
INTJ later “did I say something wrong? They seem upset 🤔”
Lol yes
Dont worry dear INFPs, WE LOVE YOU :D - ENFP
I have an ENFP crush and he don't like me like I wanted 😭
Anyways we're good friends but still 😔
@@joanaborrellsanchez9225 well he still loves you.... As a friend
@@loveablestranger Yeah well he never said "I love you" specifically, he says "you're the best" and things like that. Thanks for your comment. I still love him a lot (as a friend also). I love ENFPs ❤️❤️❤️
YES, AND ITS THE TRUTH
i love enfps
I'm an INTJ with an INFP girlfriend. This is us every day.
an INTJ would never be this patient and listen to someone talk for 30 min .
-INTJ
I've listened to both close friends and strangers talk for hours on end. It just depends.
i am an intj and i'll be like come to the point and then maybe i can help you . if it's someone close then maybe i won't say it to their face but am definitely thinking inside.
true! it depends. maybe i am mean
😶🌫🤐
@@akankshaverma8863 No, you're not mean! I love that fact about you :) I can appreciate and respect you wanting people to get to the point and not waste your time talking nonsense hahaha
I would, if they keep being interesting.
-INTJ
got the point already in the very first beginning of this conversation, then pretend listening while thinking my own things in the rest of time of this conversation.
I love the INTJ vibes, so funny 😂
- A random INFP
I agree, INTJs are HILARIOUS!! My mom is an INTJ 😂 I'm an INFP 😂 She says I taught her a lot of patience 😂😂😂 I say she taught me how to actually use my logic brain 😮😮😮
What I hear is:
You are such a great listener.
Hi, INTJ with an INFP best friend, here. I clicked this faster than my INFP bestie starts complaining about how she never gets things done, etc. I need to send this to her, asap. She will feel a bit offended but whatever xD
Beomgyu would send it and laugh in their face :]
@@cryshulvo AAAAAA you said it, bro 💀👊🏻
And yes, actually, YES HE WOULD, this mf-
Hope you're having a nice day :> !~
@@minsungderstandings hahaha! I love him. Hope you are too!
Enfp here. We don’t know ourselves, if it is a crush. With everyone. Cheers.
As an INFP, I can 100% relate to INFP in video lol
I'm...
sorry...
jk INFPs are awesome! Glad that it's accurate :)
This is very true
Except I don't express my emotions to others
As INTJ, I see the misunderstanding at the end, we just mean it in a practical way, like a final conclusion that supposed to help INFP and tell them they're drawning in illusions and every thing is fine, but instead INFPs take it as offense
my crush is intj and i can confirm our conversation is all like that T-T
~ infp
More!! Some random suggestions I have - the personality types as supervillains, how certain types express anger, the types and how they approach friendships 🌼
Ooh! Okay, those would be interesting!
Everybody has problems and most want to talk about them. INTJ's are pretty much over that. Recommending a psychologist eventually comes up at the end of the monologue.
I think everyone should see a therapist, but I wish they have better luck finding one they jive with than I did. I'm an INTJ and the experience I had was largely not impactful because they wanted to focus too much on how I felt and less about how I think. Feeling arises from thinking, if I feel bad it's because my thinking is off, and that's largely what cognitive behavioral therapy is about... Another issue I had was that they felt the need to water their explanations down. I'm intelligent enough to discuss different tests and studies and if I don't understand something I'll ask for clarification.
i recommend it to everybody who comes and talks with me about their life, problems, thoughts🥴 idk is everybody sick or incapable of locigal and fair solutions....
The girl who always feel sad when she doesn't know something and she need to know the answer, she's nice. she need to feel better, she need some responses, answers for some of her questions and someones who listen to her, but they should be someones who make her feel like she can become better, then you see that guy who tells her she just hate herself, even though he's listen to her for 30 minutes, it's unmatched it's almost there but it's still unmatched for her 😆 🤣🤣😹 That guy just have/need time only just for himself. While that girl, she's more likely to have depression when she couldn't find someone that's matched. 🤣🤣🤣☺️
And thank you for video it's short, but easy to comprehend, I can really feel like I can know something more. ☺️💖🧡
Yeah haha! I feel like that happens a lot to INFP. INTJ cares, but he's just too harsh sometimes haha.
Thanks for the comment! Glad you liked it!
@@cryshulvo ☺️💖 aw, good luck for your journey. ☺️💙💖✨
I switch between INTJ & INFJ depending on my mood… this definitely hit my INTJ.
INTJ here. Before I broke up with my INFP girlfriend, I re, re, re made it clear how I felt about us. It wasn't that she spoke about herself a lot, her ideals or her problems, it was that she used her past issues to supplant our situation. In every case I showed her how much I could open up to her but I could not get that back in return. Even after, I hear her tell me that she "planned" out our future. This is not against INFPs, even after communication. It is just hard to express intense love from my lens.
Same. INTJ female with an INFP partner here. Even though I made everything clear 7 years ago at the beginning of our relationship, I'am now facing cold behaviour for the same ideals after we got engaged.
It went to the point where he just disrespects me now, and I'am reconsidering the entire relationship with him.
Not like you need to read this, but yeah, that's a major flaw with INFPs, we can get stuck in past issues and bring them to the present moment which can only cause turmoil, so can't blame you for breaking up, specially if you were crystal clear to her.
@@jessielou9138 Thank you. I appreciate it anyway. I think the main issue with miscommunication was when she used intuition to decipher what was wrong with me (which I don't mind), she changed it into how it related to her worst fears, or things felt like they weren't working out and she thought or blamed herself because of her mental health. She never understood that my emotions are sometimes a plethora of jargon in my head and hard to decipher even to myself. So when I seemed upset, or uneasy to her, she put it on herself even after explaining it. I told her, those moments I have to handle alone but she would know when it is too rough. She never gave herself the chance to distinguish that.
@@tile-maker4962 Sorry to hear that. I hope whatever happens it works out positively for both of you!
Sounds like ENFP
I'm an infp and i talk to my intj friend just like this 😂
That's so cute! I hope they are friendlier to you than in this though haha
Yeah me too🤣
This was pretty funny, well done!
Thanks!
As an INTJ, I am telling you we have an Fe trickster function so we are highly suspicious of other people, too. This is a common problem of INTJs because an Fe blindspot literally makes us unaware of the consequences of our words and actions to other people's feelings which causes us to unintentionally hurt others. And because we learn that we can unintentionally hurt other people, it makes us more "careful" in both group and one-on-one interactions.
Most INTJs, like me, literally cut off people who break our trust. Trust is something that we give rarely like a limited edition, lmao. So once you break it, it's over, no second chances. So yeah, in this kind of conversation with an INFP, I would be able to relate to them and even give them a practical advice or something.
Wow, voice acting and sound quality is great. Keep it up!
Wow, that conversation would be a bit upsetting for me. I would just shut it down. That would seriously put me off if someone said I had already bothered them. I would not likely converse with them again. Oh yeah, forgot to unnecessarily add that I am an INFP.
Good for you! Our INFPs are special and deserve the best!
plot twist
the infp isnt your stock infp 9 but the infp 5w4 and the logic battle goes on for hours
Omg its the first time i saw someone in the mbti comment section abt infp 5w4 :D-infp 5w4
Do you ever feel like everyone is pretending being nice ? The quick answer is probably "I'm also doing it too" but rather saying the act itself i would like to focus on "what intent are they being nice ? (It's gonna be a whole paragraph if im gonna continue)
As an INTJ this is probably what I'm gonna say, well assuming i care enough to hear what you said and someone that is on a certain level of friendship with me.
Yeah! This is a great observation. Please continue to explain it in more detail! I think people would love to hear you expound upon it.
Very on point script/interactions. The convos between my INTJ and me usually go like this 👌🏽
not me, an INFP thinking literally the same thing with my friend.. who happens to be an ENFP
Hey infp! Be less emotionally driven - intp
Gonna go punch some children to vent my frustrations now. I promise, this is a totally rational decision! I am absolutely not being controlled by my emotions, this is a mathematical choice, I can guarantee!
😂
I have come here as an infp ( i think I am, I'm not sure. I got 50/50 on S and N on truity test, but intj friend thinks I'm more infp ) to talk good about my intj friend :D This video does remind me of some of our conversations lol, but the sweetest thing happened a little while ago
We were talking on discord, and then I realized I lost my matching bracelet. I tore my whole room apart looking for it. Whole time, INTJ was comforting me and telling me places it could possibly be. At this point, I was hyperventilating and sobbing, but I eventually found it :D After I told him I found it, he comforted me even more, and made sure I didnt feel the least bit embarrassed about crying. ( since I do find it rather embarrassing lol ) He also seemed almost as relieved as me :D He is my most logical friend, and also gets uncomfortable with people crying ( which is why I felt so bad lol ), yet he was so nice to me when I was crying over a silly reason. Thank you, friend :D
I'm glad you found it! And he sounds like an amazing friend!
Why am i lit both of these personalities at different times
well as infp I’m just afraid of everyone at this moment 😂
"do you ever feel like everyone is just being nice to you, but they don't mean it?"
"no"
chad intj response
Woah, amazing voices and script!
Thank you! I have 4 more videos ready to come out soon!
As an infp, this is exactly my thought process
This is my Infp headcanon voice now
Aw, thank you! 😄 In these MBTI videos, I'm literally just playing myself, haha. I relate to the content a lot 🤧
Thanks for responding! :)
I also relate to infp skits/memes as well
I'm an INFP and have a crush on my ENFP friend but he's really nice with everyone...
He's probably oblivious to it all. If you're good friends talking about stuff could be good :)
BRUH im infp and this is basically me and my intj friend. ill reply to her every message and send long paragraphs. she will reply with short, open-ended responses. she'll rant about everything in essays 💀 and ill respond with the same emotion, but won't receive the same back. the tone of her texting is blunt so I sometimes think that I've done something wrong. but in rl we're fine. interestingly we actually had a brief conversation about it when she sent me her personality test... she assured me that she just likes to say things how it is and doesn't mean to come off judgemental. lol
I'm glad you guys were able to talk about it and you can understand where she's coming from.
Things I’ve told my teenager - don’t need a history lesson. Just get to the point. I think she may be an INFP.
@@Kokopilau77 lol definitely sounds like an infp, we tend to get detailed when it's something we’re passionate about. however, we’re also overthinkers and often hesitate
@@kkewsuk that’s definitely her.
“I’m going for a walk.”
“Ok.”
“But it’s cold out.”
“So take a jacket.”
“But I might too warm.”
“So wear long sleeved shirt.”
“But I might get too cold.”
“FML”
I score fairly even on F-T and P-J. I've been bouncing back and forth between INFP and INTJ for a long time now. Though I tested more to INFP recently, I do very much relate to INTJ here. All of this is the kind of stuff I'd say.
Me too, how is this happening to us lol
The sounds are great.. Keep going.
Thank you!
For me its yes i dont know if i have trust issues but when someone do something good at me i cant stop thinking on what theyre really intention is "maybe their trying to improve their image using me" .,"Maybe their want you to do a favor for them",there is so many ideas coming up in my mind until i realized what really it is i think it is also the reason why i am so rebel on my own family because even them i cant trust and i really hate those stupid people who think they can get a favor from me just because i accept something from them that i didnt even requested
-INTJ
That's such a good observation. So many people operate that way and I don't like it. If you do something for me, don't expect me to do something for you unless we discuss a mutual exchange prior.
How did MBT came in my life? I had a beautiful INFP blond girlfriend who had me pass the test. I am an INTJ. lol This match can work! ;-)
I also got into MBTI thanks to a beautiful blonde girl xD
@@cryshulvo 😅Isn't it beautiful?
That's sounds like my INFP bestie
I'm an INTJ and one of my best friends is an INFP, this is actually us...
“nah that's when I start clearing up some confusion because I'm scared of getting lost in translation” - an ENFP
Literally me and my infp toxic "friend" in the past
Me as INTj would never say “I am scening you have more to say”, if you want to say you don’t need me to ask. This is boundary to me.
Actually that was nice... It's true, I sometimes feel like I'm annoying everyone then I start feeling uncomfortable with my body... Soul... environment....
But since I'm a 4 Ennegram, I know damn well that I'm just being dramatic and I need to stop over thinking 🐸 there are many annoying people in the world who doesn't even think they're annoying others, so why should i always think about every little detail?
I just hide in my comfortable zone reading funny stories until I no longer have that feeling ( so in the end i wouldn't bother anyone nor myself)
Yes! I love this insight. I think that's such a good approach of thinking about it. Keep being awesome!
This is fantastic advice, and I relate to this a lot. I'm an overthinker and I got into the pattern of analyzing conversations way too much 😤 even after they've ended! Sometimes we need to take the pressure off of ourselves.
@@Charaito and sometimes we have to smack our brains so that they stop being dramatic 😭😂👌
Omg, I'm soo surprised that this is so similar to what i'd say this morning when a coworker talks to me about her problem 😂😂😂 i'm the INTJ btw
Thats literally me and my bestfriend lol - INTJ
This is accurate
This is literally me and my mom
Enfp can be toxic in competent environment ~fellow enfp
Hi im a Enfp , yeah i usaully be nice to people , inless they not nice ,
I'm autistic and kinda new to MBTI. I definitively compared myself to INTJ with personality traits that I thought came from autism, but maybe are not as linked to the condition as I thought.
My reaction to this information (INFP):
*YOU CANNOT KILL ME, I AM OMEGA*
now she thinks INTJ hates her
I'm an INTJ female and why people think that they can tell thier scerets to me???
Everyone comes to me and explain their difficult feelings scerets but honestly I just don't care and I'm not dealing with feelings so I can't share empath with those people who wants to share their scerets or feelings with me ppl thinks I'm a great and honest person to share their sceret , feelings with but honestly I'm not, and I'm not interested in ppls feelings or secrets and I don't want to hear it either 😐😑
You could turn this into a business somehow and get something you want out of it at least lol xD
@@cryshulvo yeh , eventually I'm gonna make my own career for this😂
Ah...you have discovered the 'good listener' trick. Most conversations are just occasions for ppl to take turns running their own monolgues. A person who isn't just waiting for their turn to speak is rare. In fact, most ppl are never really listened to. So when you say nowt, they get to ramble on.
Welcome to the world of the psychologist. For $100 an hour they will listen and affirm, but never interrupt. INTJ's do this for free.
@@imho2278 true
I’m an INTJ with an INFP husband ❤
As an ENFP, I found it hilarious at first but when she mentioned ENFP, I was like: Wait, no, this is not happening again! We are nice to almost everyone! But we might have a crush on you but if we had then we will most probably avoid you or be really, really awkward in front you-
so true for intj....
Yes
My best friend is an infp and I am an intj and this conversation is very accurate… she asks me questions just like these
"I don't want to bother you."
"It's already too late for that."
Hahahaha.
(Edited because too has two o's and I forgot to put the two of them together to... I forgot where I was going with this.)
Very troo
We don't ask for advice.
I also do wonder if people are nice to me genuinely or not. 💀
صديقتي infp 💜
I wanna know the relationship of these two whether they're close or not cuz that INTJ is rude. 😅 he straight up said "No." There must be atleast a reason for that, INTJ. Besides she asks you for an advice.
-INTJ
The point is many times INTJ is perceived as rude-both to friends and strangers-when they aren't necessarily trying to be rude.
INFP here and I don't think he's being rude. Perhaps the years I have spent with an INTJ have made me change my mind lol
As an INFX, I have the biggest crush on INTJ’s.
me to my younger brother
This was literally a friend of mine 😂
Well yeah, how you treat yourself could be related to how you treat others, which is in my case a truth, so I think not everybody could be me, therefore, their truths are not mine
I think I'm different kind of Infp
I'm mean and not a lovable kind in a bit 😭
i miss my friend
to anyone who sees this comment, hey what mbti type are you?
Samsung
@@triangleswith3angles one of my favorites
INFP.
😂💚
I'd give this video a like, but it's at 665, and I don't want to be that guy.
hahahahahahaha amazing video
Thank you!
"do you ever feel like everyone is being nice to you they don't really mean it?"
yes, no one is Trustworthy or real. They butter you up and talk shit about you and spread rumors. Piece of advice, don't trust anyone except for money and a gun. Money won't betray you, but humans will, this is also one of the reasons why money is better than humans.
😌🤧🤧🤧
Sell her
=?.?=
@@cryshulvo sorry it was a joke
I didn't expect you to read the comments xD
@@triangleswith3angles Haha no you're fine. I know it was a joke. I liked it xD
I see everything...
Bruh
lmfao
this isnt acurated
it's so accurate that ENFPs are so friendly but just friendly🥹