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  • After moving into her new apartment, Lindsay and her entourage begin the arduous task of moving her mountain of possessions into her new home. The tension between Lindsay and her assistant, Matt, is palpable. Despite his attempts to communicate his concerns, Lindsay hasn't allowed Matt the five minutes he's requesting to clear the air. Lindsay accuses him of dropping the ball. Watch as the conversation gets heated. For more on #Lindsay, visit Oprah.com.
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  • @RIO0207
    @RIO0207 7 років тому +1616

    how did I get here?

    • @menikmati789
      @menikmati789 7 років тому +17

      You may find yourself, behind the wheel of a large automobile

    • @acepc2
      @acepc2 7 років тому

      menikmati789 all I would seriously hope not lol that's dangerous!

    • @SaucySoviet
      @SaucySoviet 7 років тому +2

      why is this related to hobbit clips?

    • @ohwhatworld5851
      @ohwhatworld5851 7 років тому +13

      Same. The video I was watching before this was the Queens's Diamond Jubilee....

    • @brimyu3443
      @brimyu3443 7 років тому +10

      wondering the same. it started with me watching a music video

  • @emmetLshavinski
    @emmetLshavinski 7 років тому +663

    Watch they both storm off to different rooms, open a fortune cookie and switch bodies.

    • @johnsmi213
      @johnsmi213 4 роки тому +8

      Hilarious.

    • @emmetLshavinski
      @emmetLshavinski 4 роки тому +5

      @@johnsmi213 I don't remember this video or writing this but thanks for reminding me haha

    • @johnsmi213
      @johnsmi213 4 роки тому

      @@emmetLshavinski I knew that would be weird a notification to appear on a 3 year old comment but it was really clever.

    • @emmetLshavinski
      @emmetLshavinski 4 роки тому

      @@johnsmi213 It's awesome when that happens and I appreciate it

    • @blessedplace9257
      @blessedplace9257 3 роки тому +1

      😂

  • @lorir5728
    @lorir5728 2 роки тому +203

    She is actually very patient, kind and tolerant. Having that stuff all over would drive me nuts. I agree with her. He's giving attitude

  • @Derhek
    @Derhek 7 років тому +1304

    I've been an assistant for a super rich person. I would never have let this happen, and my boss would never have allowed me to argue. This guy is a bad assistant.

    • @theninjacat7200
      @theninjacat7200 5 років тому +44

      bad assistant or someone who is gifted at covering up things and doesn't want it played out on camera? he's holding back.

    • @ivideszatigny4163
      @ivideszatigny4163 5 років тому +8

      you are a lick shoes

    • @annabanabanana
      @annabanabanana 5 років тому +17

      Well your boss was probably not doing a reality television show where everything is pretty much made to be dramatic and entertaining. This stuff is not real 😂.

    • @johnsmi213
      @johnsmi213 4 роки тому +6

      @@johnivi6480 This was a documentary series funded by Oprah. Some reality shows are scripted and they list the writers during the credits. Not every single one is though. I'm sure having the cameras around incentivized people to be more aggressive than they normally would be so they could be seen as stern on the show though.

    • @ia7212
      @ia7212 4 роки тому +2

      Kagan Roy Not everything is staged.

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets 10 років тому +156

    I agree with her whole heartedly. She is trying to communicate. Regardless of what you think about her, she is trying to improve the communication between them so that such issues don't come up again in future.

  • @butterandtoast3
    @butterandtoast3 7 років тому +1866

    Why is he even trying to argue with her ! She's paying you!!!

    • @aldobalderas1452
      @aldobalderas1452 7 років тому +82

      This is the most stupid argument ive ever heard of

    • @IrfanKhan-resistance
      @IrfanKhan-resistance 7 років тому +60

      alicia wilson sometimes it's about self respect not just money or materialistic things..

    • @ashleyvalley3946
      @ashleyvalley3946 6 років тому +47

      hes arguing because she is allowing it, I would have fired him the first time he started getting fresh.

    • @stephonmills3948
      @stephonmills3948 6 років тому +17

      alicia wilson i would of just walked out he’s a person do not speak to him like that employee or not

    • @RonaldWeasleysWife
      @RonaldWeasleysWife 6 років тому +2

      Abadazad420 Weedmaster can you chill with your hateful crack comments? Go away 😒

  • @moonstruck1022
    @moonstruck1022 9 років тому +533

    He was not a good assistant at all. I'm sure she probably needs someone to be firm with her once in a while, but he's just dismissive and kinda rude to her.

    • @JohnKooz
      @JohnKooz 8 років тому +4

      +Melissa Margis Yeah i agree.

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 8 років тому +10

      +Melissa Margis - He took the blame for her wanting specialty keys to be delivered in 10 minutes. He wasn't dismissive. She was just angry for something he had no way of solving.

    • @ericmacleod8605
      @ericmacleod8605 8 років тому +5

      +Thing Thang it takes 15 minns to get keys cut. maybe he should of just explained they were special keys, it would take longer etc.

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 8 років тому

      Eric MacLeod
      I'm not sure what your point is.

    • @bubblegumbxtchh
      @bubblegumbxtchh 3 роки тому +3

      @@thingthang2904 10 minutes? She said it’s been a week since she has asked him and there have been multiple times of her giving him the keys only for him to not deal with it in a timely manner causing her to constantly get locked out. If he actually had them ordered, why didn’t he just say that?

  • @josephsimiele107
    @josephsimiele107 9 років тому +2161

    I'm actually impressed with her management capabilities. She handled that situation very professionally given the circumstances. She broke down why this was important, explained the opportunities that were available to avoid the incident from happening, and offered a solution. When she felt she was being disrespected, she explained how she felt, explained why, and explained a means to communicate with her allowing what he defined to be his problem to have a solution.
    Many people in management could take a lesson here. Even if this situation was about clothes, it applies to a wide range of problems that may arise.
    I'll probably catch slack for this, but that's okay.

    • @tacomistress
      @tacomistress 8 років тому +82

      I absolutely agree with you completely! No matter if it was about clothes-- it was his job and she explained it in a very professional manner.

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 8 років тому +37

      +Joseph Simiele - It's easy to be right when you're the only person talking. Like with the keys for example. She seemed to be absolutely right about wanting more keys and that it takes 10 minutes. He only spoke for a few seconds in the confessional later and his reason was perfectly justified. It's not 10 minutes of making copies, these keys had to be ordered.

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 8 років тому +21

      Luisa Peraza
      The fact that time is linear is "just" an excuse? You do know that once you order something it won't magically appear next to you right?

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 8 років тому +28

      Luisa Peraza
      She asked for more keys. She said she asked Friday. Even if it's Thursday, many deliveries take more than a week. Doesn't matter how much time he has. If he placed the order and it's on its way, there's nothing else he can (or should) do.

    • @XavierGMusic
      @XavierGMusic 8 років тому +21

      +Thing Thang But the driver ended up getting the keys in a matter of minutes because Matt didn't get them.

  • @CarolsVideos
    @CarolsVideos 7 років тому +248

    If I paid someone to fix my car and I brought them my car and left it at the shop and came back the next day and my car wasn't fixed, I'd be upset. If I paid a mover to move my furniture and i said I needed it done by a certain day, and they didn't do it, I'd be upset. She's in the right here.

    • @mygmailpersonalchoices2827
      @mygmailpersonalchoices2827 7 років тому +7

      CarolsVideos did u hear thr assistants explanation at the end? Even though the driver probably got keys the assistant was told needed special ordering. Been there. It shouldnt have been so easy to get copies of a High End place's keys

    • @miggidymark
      @miggidymark 7 років тому +11

      +My Gmail Personal Choices Why does he need 5 minutes to say "hey, got the keys. ..but it'll take a few days because they're specialty ordered"??

    • @watchingsince92
      @watchingsince92 7 років тому +1

      Well that's crazy a car doesn't take one day to be fixed just like her keys needed to take a certain period of time be made and arrive once ordered.

    • @BrightS0l
      @BrightS0l 6 років тому +5

      ^^^He didn't tell her that

    • @mistymitchell2790
      @mistymitchell2790 2 роки тому

      @@watchingsince92 a car can take a week or more depending on what's wrong with it

  • @nzscruffy7171
    @nzscruffy7171 7 років тому +130

    In Lidsays defense, the assistant really isn't doing his job. It literally takes 10s to explain the keys are ordered... why does he need 5mins of her undivided attention to explain something so simple? He needs to find another line of work, obviously he's not cut out for the job.

    • @OMGPWNTATOECHIPZ
      @OMGPWNTATOECHIPZ 7 років тому +7

      The issue is that he can say they're ordered, but she'll still have a fit and say, "Why didn't you just go to the store?" She'll keep finding reasons to get mad and he'll need to explain it all.

    • @user-mi6xo8ke2n
      @user-mi6xo8ke2n Рік тому +1

      @@OMGPWNTATOECHIPZ you sound pretty confident you know her personality type. Is that you, Lindsay's family member?

    • @realfan375
      @realfan375 Рік тому +1

      @@user-mi6xo8ke2n if you watch the whole docuseries she is very shifty with her blame and always comes up with excuses. Still love her though

  • @miickeyzreal
    @miickeyzreal 5 років тому +71

    None of them disrespected each other. This is probably the best argument I’ve seen in reality tv!

    • @JenniferBrigitteOpticalVortex
      @JenniferBrigitteOpticalVortex 2 роки тому +5

      She even complied and told him to email her what she needed to do as his boss. It was mature as hell.

  • @mixedlove1234
    @mixedlove1234 5 років тому +312

    She needs to write a book about her life... she's been through so much. It's a miracle she's still functioning.

    • @nryanmusic
      @nryanmusic 2 роки тому +9

      you do realize there are thousands of people dealing with the same issues.. that don't have millions of dollars and personal assistants at their disposal? this toxic of culture for feeling bad for celebrities who have 99.9% of the world's wealth when people are on the street is disgusting.

    • @megandunklin6147
      @megandunklin6147 2 роки тому +3

      It's a miracle she's alive!

    • @jen1748
      @jen1748 2 роки тому +1

      Look up the video of her getting punched in the face trying to grab the kids from a Syrian family she was really hoping child traffickers based on nothing. Not dysfunctional at all.

    • @mixedlove1234
      @mixedlove1234 2 роки тому +3

      @@nryanmusic whats ur point? I'm specifically talking about her. Shes been raped, drugged, trafficked, abused, addicted to drugs and alcohol, publicly humiliated to the point where she moved out of the country, her dad told the tabloids she had Aids, grew up in an abusive home with coke addicted parents, her parents didn't raise her, friends sold her out to tabloids....the list goes on and on. This all happened when she was in her late teens early twenties. The fact that she is still alive is a miracle. Not taking away from other people's struggles. Just acknowledging hers.

    • @nryanmusic
      @nryanmusic 2 роки тому +1

      @@mixedlove1234 my point is exactly what I said. Do u know how people grow up in the same environments or worse? And they don't have millions of dollars at their disposal they usually end up dead, on the streets or in jail. So let oprah pay for her 14000 a month apt and let her hire whoever's she needs because she can afford anything (hello private club in greece) and let's focus on the rest of the world who is dying because they have no resources.

  • @boxboxboxtriangles3332
    @boxboxboxtriangles3332 9 років тому +1567

    She's actually right, and she took care of that professionally.

    • @tdk7388ify
      @tdk7388ify 5 років тому +3

      Actually?

    • @whatsittoyaa
      @whatsittoyaa 3 роки тому +10

      Teresa Keplinger this is late but yea i mean he’s her assistant it’s his job

    • @MegaNicolemarie
      @MegaNicolemarie 3 роки тому +7

      Umm
      This is absolutely spoiled brat mentality

    • @bubblegumbxtchh
      @bubblegumbxtchh 3 роки тому +10

      @@MegaNicolemarie and on top of that, his attitude definitely wasn’t doing him any favours either. I would never talk to my boss like that. I don’t know who he thinks he is.

    • @oasispeace2722
      @oasispeace2722 3 роки тому

      @@MegaNicolemarie stfu

  • @kreep182
    @kreep182 6 років тому +35

    I think she handled it perfectly. She didnt raise her voice too much, and clearly explained why she was dissapointed. Thats how a decent employer should act.

  • @7saany
    @7saany 7 років тому +670

    hes being rude. he was hired for something and he didnt.

    • @7saany
      @7saany 7 років тому +11

      i agree with her

    • @nikkid4890
      @nikkid4890 7 років тому

      7saany I do too!

    • @Nicole-em7iv
      @Nicole-em7iv 7 років тому +28

      then he should have made that clear from the beginning, he had the opportunity to speak but he keeps saying nonsense. there is obviously a communication issue here

    • @elizabeth5614
      @elizabeth5614 5 років тому +1

      You need to watch it properly!

  • @goldengungirlz
    @goldengungirlz 7 років тому +55

    Well, She's speaking to him like a boss speaks to an employee who messed up..
    Oh wait..
    I saw nothing wrong with this really.

    • @goldengungirlz
      @goldengungirlz 7 років тому +2

      Closet Organizer.
      Copy of the Keys.
      Lack of communication between him and the rest of her team.
      I didn't say she was a good boss, but she is his boss.
      She's paying extremely good money to be on top of all this and (unfortunately) deal with her diva attitude.
      He knew what the job entailed, and if it's to much for him then he should move to less high maintenance.

    • @EGarrett01
      @EGarrett01 7 років тому +1

      Vault Tec
      He sent the keys to be copied, but they couldn't be done immediately. You can tell from what she says that she doesn't know that, she doesn't give him a chance to tell her these things, AND obviously she has an attitude that makes him reluctant to be honest with her. Those are all her problem.

    • @goldengungirlz
      @goldengungirlz 7 років тому +2

      Yes. He did send them off the second time he was asked too. It's also mentioned that she made another assistant get the keys because like you said, she didn't know he sent it off to get copied.
      Now she's going to have to pay for extra keys, because of the miscommunication that she's unaware of at the time in this video.
      Again, I'll reiterate.
      He's getting paid A LOT of money to be on top of this stuff and get communication across.
      If he's afraid to communicate (Whether she's the problem or not), he needs a new job.
      He's not performing the job she hired him for.

    • @goldengungirlz
      @goldengungirlz 7 років тому +1

      I'm not defending her actions.
      I'm a team leader and would never talk to my coworkers that way.
      But I didn't privately hire them to handle the stress of my personal life...
      She was born with this diva like life style, born into a rich family. It's her personality type unfortunately, and he should have known that upon being hired.

    • @EGarrett01
      @EGarrett01 7 років тому +2

      Vault Tec
      I don't know what he's getting paid, but in my time working in LA, most assistants weren't getting paid much at all.

  • @direfranchement
    @direfranchement 9 років тому +496

    I could never be anyone's personal assistant. Forget that.

    • @beginninglettersincaps.8784
      @beginninglettersincaps.8784 8 років тому +7

      i'm a caretaker for free. I would take the job.. money's money lol

    • @insaneone4369
      @insaneone4369 8 років тому +21

      +direfranchement
      Personal assistants are the equivalent to a toilet.

    • @SunFlower-vg7et
      @SunFlower-vg7et 7 років тому +3

      They get paid a lot..if I got paid good money, I would do it

    • @EmmaAmandaMilli
      @EmmaAmandaMilli 6 років тому +1

      Tried it and it sucked balls so i ran away :D

    • @HovaNirvana
      @HovaNirvana 4 роки тому

      For the most part.

  • @OFFICIALDJFLASHBACK
    @OFFICIALDJFLASHBACK 6 років тому +554

    She's employing him, she's paying him. The way she is talking to him is actually nicer than some employers speak to their employees. She is actually taking the time to explain to him the situation and why she is frustrated with him. She could've fired him on the spot with no explanation and she still would be in the right.

    • @jacobmassey3897
      @jacobmassey3897 2 роки тому +9

      I'm pretty sure he is already fully aware of why she's pissed with him and this conversation wouldn't have been so specific and calm if the cameras weren't there.

    • @willthompson6193
      @willthompson6193 Рік тому +3

      This is the softest "talking to" I've ever seen. I got yelled at by my old boss worse than this for arriving 29 minutes early instead of 30.

    • @deannamarin318
      @deannamarin318 9 місяців тому

      ​@@willthompson6193" Have you seen the movie Willard??? Talk about over the top being yelled at!"

  • @DunhillX1
    @DunhillX1 6 років тому +76

    She's a fabulous manager. My manager used to SCREAM [and I mean scream] at me in-front of everyone if something didn't work for her. Lindsay's tone was irritated yet professional and that's what makes her a good manger. It's all in the communication.

  • @jazzhill
    @jazzhill 7 років тому +50

    Come on Matt you had one job

  • @sagelovescoffee
    @sagelovescoffee 10 років тому +1327

    He WORKS for her. He's not a friend doing a favor. So if she wants him to make the damn keys then he needs to make the damn keys. If she wants him to flush her toilet then he better flush the damn toilet for her. Lol he is getting paid to be her assistant. The end.

    • @dania2369
      @dania2369 7 років тому +32

      sage eridani i think if somone work as an assistant doesnt mean they r slaves they deserve respect . and nooo flushing toilet is not theire job . it s so mean to ask somone that .for Lindsey i think she didnt do any think wrong with him she didnt even yall or call him names it was just a boss talking to an employee .

    • @brendakeith5079
      @brendakeith5079 7 років тому +4

      sage eridani Amen

    • @blackiecat4984
      @blackiecat4984 7 років тому +3

      Well said! DO IT MATT

    • @ohwow4377
      @ohwow4377 7 років тому +1

      sage eridani I couldn't agree more.

    • @jetnight88
      @jetnight88 6 років тому +5

      sage eridani you show them respect and they will respect you back

  • @EpoH811
    @EpoH811 10 років тому +151

    I like the fact that she is using "I feel" sentences! and not just flipping out! That shows she has learned something in her therapy sessions!

  • @ladyghille
    @ladyghille 7 років тому +205

    I actually agree with Lindsay . She pay him to Do a job he doesnt Do . And if he cant take that job he Should quit . Thats the life of a personal assistent

  • @XxMyLameUserNamexX
    @XxMyLameUserNamexX 7 років тому +17

    As an executive assistant, I'm shocked he isn't immediately apologetic. I would have been fired so fast.

  • @cheery-hex
    @cheery-hex 9 років тому +1104

    he is being disrespectful in both tone and action though. I wouldn't stand for someone who works for me talking to me like that

    • @Lizestechreviews
      @Lizestechreviews 6 років тому +18

      theAbeElement especially since getting payed $75,000 a year from her.

    • @AandP4dummieslikeme
      @AandP4dummieslikeme 6 років тому +20

      $75K? Did she fire him? Is the position open now? LOL

    • @passionskayandmiguel
      @passionskayandmiguel 6 років тому +12

      He wasn’t being disrespectful or rude in my opinion. In fact it felt like he was holding a lot back that he could’ve said since she was blaming him for something that wasn’t his fault. However it was hella annoying that he didn’t convey that to her. Like did he think taking the blame would make the situation better for her? No.

    • @angelmax404
      @angelmax404 5 років тому +2

      justcallme... Inquire within!

    • @luizadmochowska3600
      @luizadmochowska3600 5 років тому

      Mabye she likes it?

  • @jfour2zero
    @jfour2zero 7 років тому +334

    I mean if she's paying people to do certain things for her they should get done point blank period. Like she said she's there boss. I get things done for my boss, and get paid for it. Simple. The money isn't coming out of anyone else's bank account but hers so when the jobs aren't getting done the boss gets mad right ? Simple. People expect too much in this era. Do your job and shut up don't like it change it

    • @iamhere0101
      @iamhere0101 7 років тому +3

      as far as I know, these were particular keys. I worked in a locksmith's shop and I know that it takes some time to make those keys for sure. So if you want a copy, you definitely need to be patient. Hence, it is not his fault but at least he could have explained himself.

    • @jfour2zero
      @jfour2zero 7 років тому +10

      little sunshine idk. It seemed easy enough for her driver to go get copy's than her own assistant which was asked of him 5 days ago and he's too concerned with having his 5 minutes

    • @iamhere0101
      @iamhere0101 7 років тому +2

      Jfour2zero sometimes there are companies who are solely repsonsible to make copies, so it does take longer... maybe it applies to this case, too? All I want to say is that since I've worked there I can understand where the assistant is coming from.

    • @jfour2zero
      @jfour2zero 7 років тому +9

      little sunshine I understand the assistant too I get that he ordered them and it can take a few days. But then she said her driver went and got them no problem

    • @charlescooperderose8872
      @charlescooperderose8872 6 років тому

      JFour2zero it’s their not there.

  • @jadebruce4091
    @jadebruce4091 8 років тому +29

    All of you people saying she os self absorbed or selfish. This is HIS JOB that's what He's getting paid for... Yes she can fold her own clothes , but she didn't want to , so she hired someone to do the job, and he didn't do it. On top of not doing his job he is giving disrespect! That's like having. Plumber come to your house to fix a leak, and he doesn't do what you asked/ paid him to do... You could do it yourself, but you hired someone to do which means you're taking money out of your pocket for someone to do something for you, and then they don't do it, and on top give you attitude...🤔

  • @dongjohnson3336
    @dongjohnson3336 7 років тому +38

    If they were specialty keys how was the driver able to go down and make copies so fast without ordering them?

    • @viceb7
      @viceb7 4 роки тому +4

      Exactly. How did noone notice that? What the hell is specialty keys?

  • @estheryema
    @estheryema 10 років тому +763

    He is RUDE! WHOA! If he knew he ordered it, why not say it then, instead of keeping that info to himself. Smh nd Lindsay's right, the way he's talking to her, uh uh! i'd fire him!

    • @moonunit1980
      @moonunit1980 10 років тому +43

      Wah poor little rich girl can't fold her own clothes.

    • @beautybynajah
      @beautybynajah 10 років тому +40

      THANK YOU ESSIE! Lindsay is too nice! He doesn't respect her! I'd fire him too for the simple reason that you're too close to me to be causing that type of tension and emotional strain! You hire a personal assistant to make your life easier NOT HARDER! I can do bad all by myself smh!

    • @ja3724
      @ja3724 6 років тому +2

      He's one of the best Celeb PA's in the world he gets paid $20,000 per month and works for Ariana Grande. She was being rude, how can he do his job if she won't speak to him... DIVA

    • @Apryll.
      @Apryll. 6 років тому +14

      The best PA in the world cant mange a simple move in

    • @ASmith-jn7kf
      @ASmith-jn7kf 6 років тому +4

      She needs a female assistant.

  • @danielclarke5743
    @danielclarke5743 7 років тому +155

    the only thing that goes through my mind now is how much pepsi paid to be in this video

  • @bilalahmed2123
    @bilalahmed2123 7 років тому +31

    When you pay someone to do a job and they don't do it and then show attitude. I would fire them, right at the spot. Lindsay is actually being quite professional about it and going out of control like some celebrities would !

  • @marthasuper1801
    @marthasuper1801 6 років тому +48

    if i were her, i fired him right away. she is patient enough 😂

  • @joshuamegill646
    @joshuamegill646 10 років тому +98

    She wasn't being rude or nasty to him. He continued to talk back to her when he could have just said "Yes, mam." and the conversation couldn't have over a lot sooner.

    • @Townie7177
      @Townie7177 5 років тому +1

      Maam?maam is said usually to someone you dont know and am trying to be nice. I'm aware that this comment is 4 years old as well

    • @disneydarling
      @disneydarling 3 роки тому +6

      @@Townie7177 it's actually a short for "Madame" which was the proper way to address your employer in a home/service setting. Saying "yes, mam," is a shortened version of this and sign of respect. The tradition is still very prevalent in the south.

  • @1990iRock
    @1990iRock 8 років тому +55

    How can you have an argument with your assistant? Fire him and take one that can communicate normally, no matter how difficult the boss is.

    • @EGarrett01
      @EGarrett01 7 років тому +2

      No assistant you hire will be perfect when you are a bad boss. That's why she's having an argument. I guarantee it's the same with whoever she hires.

  • @spicyspaghetti5627
    @spicyspaghetti5627 7 років тому +145

    Why did Oprah post this

    • @MINDxWORM
      @MINDxWORM 7 років тому +4

      Urmum adrum for UA-cam money... oh wait..

    • @boxybrown5300
      @boxybrown5300 5 років тому +7

      Being messy AF

  • @GFINHK
    @GFINHK 8 років тому +565

    He needs to be fired. With that attitude & disrespect, he needs to find another line of work. If you're working for me, you do as I say. If you're not comfortable, quit. Simple as that. I pay you to work, not to talk.

    • @609InYourCoffeeMaker
      @609InYourCoffeeMaker 8 років тому +8

      GFINHK As edgy as they come, I see.

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 8 років тому +18

      +GFINHK - "Do as I say"? What if what you are saying is to travel through time to make a delivery go faster. She got upset without letting him talk and then insulted him by saying he is taking his own personal issues and projecting them on her.

    • @Diana-mo6mg
      @Diana-mo6mg 8 років тому +28

      +Thing Thang Yea she's getting annoyed because he didn't get the keys, but in actual fact he had ordered them and they were on the way. Except she wouldn't let him get a word in edgeways to say that. Her whole mental breakdown could have been avoided if she had just asked where the keys were and let him answer.

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 8 років тому +2

      Diana Winslow
      exactly

    • @RBrown-xd9nc
      @RBrown-xd9nc 8 років тому +18

      +Thing Thang He looked like he was going to cry. I felt bad for him. He is a human being, not a slave.

  • @woodczarful
    @woodczarful 7 років тому +29

    Bottom line, he didn't show results.

  • @SamSharma
    @SamSharma 10 років тому +36

    I'm on her side.... He is incompetent.

  • @Woeismyhoe
    @Woeismyhoe 8 років тому +54

    It's funny how people are saying she needs to wear a bra... When they don't even wear one at home lol she's in her own house, so why does she need to wear them? Same reason as you all girls who don't

    • @miidysama9908
      @miidysama9908 8 років тому +8

      Well, I would definitely wear a bra if someone were to hold a camera at me.

    • @jamescutter212
      @jamescutter212 8 років тому +6

      she's just at home? lol and in front of the world at the same time huh

    • @miidysama9908
      @miidysama9908 8 років тому +2

      Blahblah Blah Honestly, I didn't even realize she wasn't wearing a bra so there's that.
      I wish she wasn't broke and drug addicted now (or is she clean again?), I really loved her movies.

    • @lionredoux7231
      @lionredoux7231 7 років тому +2

      I don't think this video would have nearly as many views if it wasn't for the fact that she wasn't wearing a bra.

    • @mykioto
      @mykioto 7 років тому

      They all uncomfortable with someone else's beauty.

  • @nxtdoorx
    @nxtdoorx 7 років тому +18

    ohmygod he talks back to everything, dude she's your boss just do what she wants

  • @lourie966
    @lourie966 9 років тому +41

    Wow he is so disrespectful. You work FOR her, you are getting paid to work for her.

  • @stephaniejones6341
    @stephaniejones6341 10 років тому +39

    I am an assistant too. If my boss sends me a list of stuff to do then I likely need time to ask a lot of questions because it seems easy for the boss to fire off a bunch of nonsensical information in an email. The problem is that leads to questions. Intelligent questions that need to be answered by the boss person. When you go to the boss person they think it is a real imposition that you are there, but truth is you are there to solve all their problems but you need clarification. 5 min. in the morning and 5 min. in the evening is brilliant!! Bosses take note!!! 5 min. 5 minutes. You cannot give 5 minutes to your support staff so they get clarification!!!??? That is like shooting yourself in the foot.

  • @_Mr.D
    @_Mr.D 8 років тому +36

    Despite the stuff that may have been out of his control, the actual blow up was totally on HIM. She was understanding that things happen, BUT then he goes on to say :55 and that's when it went south! If he had just said a :55 "I am sorry Lindsay I will get it all taken care of" then stop talking

    • @brainwashed2390
      @brainwashed2390 6 років тому

      0:55

    • @barritoothy
      @barritoothy 4 роки тому

      Dan Farrar nope. The keys were on the way. Can you see. Or you saw the comments

  • @personoutsidemywindow6417
    @personoutsidemywindow6417 8 років тому +22

    If she's his boss, he doesnt need 5 morning in the minutes and 5 at night. An emailed list of things needed should be done annnnd accomplished. I've worked and managed several crews, I couldnt imagine dealing with this in the hollywood world, even if he were only a minimum wage worker. crazy.

    • @KayKay114
      @KayKay114 7 років тому +6

      He actually told her this before she hired him. This is what I need to do my job, 10 minutes to talk to you, 5 in the morning and 5 in the evening. She agreed and hired him. That was the deal when he was hired and once again Lindsay is not coming through on her part.

  • @sophiesgem
    @sophiesgem 10 років тому +17

    What she got to worry about..having a breakdown,staying off drugs, not going to the latest club/party.....Badgering...Get a grip...

  • @angelmax404
    @angelmax404 7 років тому +54

    I could have folded the clothes for them (for free) in the time it took them to argue over it. 😒

  • @darrianowens4579
    @darrianowens4579 3 роки тому +37

    I love that she tells him “ let me get angry for a second” yes GIRL BOSS!!

  • @markwheeler8041
    @markwheeler8041 9 років тому +114

    Celebrities are high maintenance...this guy is not suited to be working for her!

    • @ford2219
      @ford2219 8 років тому

      Loved your comment dude haha

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 8 років тому +1

      +Mark Wheeler - Why? What did he do wrong?

    • @GodsDe
      @GodsDe 7 років тому +3

      * Thing Thang --He didn't really do anything wrong, he's just not willing to take her crap!

    • @barritoothy
      @barritoothy 4 роки тому

      Inspiration Station cuz there are no copies of a key

  • @mlady6564
    @mlady6564 4 роки тому +3

    I mean, he's not asking for something ridiculous. Just 10 minutes worth of pow wows every day.

  • @optimisticgrl
    @optimisticgrl 9 років тому +10

    I know non-famous people who would have exploded and fired that assistant. I did not expect Lindsay to be this nice.

  • @user-lq9es6wm9s
    @user-lq9es6wm9s Рік тому +9

    I cannot get over how rude and disrespectful her assistant is. He’s trying to make her look bad😢

  • @charlottefisher2150
    @charlottefisher2150 8 років тому +56

    I love Lindsay in freaky Friday:)

  • @Giggidygiggidy12
    @Giggidygiggidy12 7 років тому +9

    Kids the lesson here is organize your own life, put your own things away and you won't have to rely on anyone else to do your tasks. If you can't do it yourself why should someone else

  • @Eeeeeeelllll
    @Eeeeeeelllll 3 роки тому +6

    As someone who works for a ridiculously busy boss whose attention I can't get to ask him things and clarify things, I do understand where he's coming from.

  • @newfoundlandjb35
    @newfoundlandjb35 8 років тому +20

    she being kind.she not rude.man rude need be fired

    • @6969Nicole
      @6969Nicole 7 років тому +2

      Jonathan Jesso I make fire.. You sit

    • @nikkid4890
      @nikkid4890 7 років тому

      Jonathan Jesso Amen!

  • @priscillanottelling9698
    @priscillanottelling9698 8 років тому +10

    She was very professional about this and he should feel lucky she didn't fire him on the spot.

  • @james5460
    @james5460 9 років тому +6

    She's not communicating, she's ranting. She's not trying to understand, she's convicting and berating him.
    If you think this is cute, you never worked for someone like that.

  • @bryonyhigginson7247
    @bryonyhigginson7247 9 років тому +95

    Can someone please tell me how I watch the whole of the documentary of her???? Thankyou

    • @bryonyhigginson7247
      @bryonyhigginson7247 9 років тому +2

      ***** wow thank you very much ! :)

    • @raselapotae7810
      @raselapotae7810 9 років тому

      True

    • @hmk5936
      @hmk5936 9 років тому +17

      ***** your website navigation makes no sense. I tried to watch and it just sent me to all the videos from the own network.

    • @TheMeh2011
      @TheMeh2011 8 років тому +9

      +OWN Literally no way to watch the show in full at all is there - so why didnt you just say that.

    • @NiGHTMAREiN3D
      @NiGHTMAREiN3D 8 років тому +1

      +GR Burke Sorry Lindsay...We'll Take The Hit... Anything Else We Can't Do For You??

  • @LolaClo
    @LolaClo 7 років тому +10

    I hope the assistant got another job. What an abusive work relationship!

  • @mearip6116
    @mearip6116 7 років тому +14

    Lol. ..over a key

  • @informationyes
    @informationyes 9 років тому +197

    This is not something that need to be recorded nor anything to do with a person trying to get better.

  • @hertin57
    @hertin57 10 років тому +12

    Its understandable that she act this way, she pays these guys with her own money.

  • @candicemcneil5854
    @candicemcneil5854 5 років тому +6

    God I wish I could yell at someone else for MY mess

    • @Parisroam
      @Parisroam 5 років тому +1

      It's different if you pay somebody to take care of it for you and they dont do it. Im sure you'd be upset as well

    • @MegaNicolemarie
      @MegaNicolemarie 3 роки тому

      @@Parisroam hahahah
      Really?
      She's acting like a tyrant

    • @mxhsvn_b7866
      @mxhsvn_b7866 2 роки тому +1

      @@MegaNicolemarie tyrant? Do you live in the sky or sumn

  • @MsMeowBaby
    @MsMeowBaby Рік тому +27

    She handled that very well. She is a great comminicator and, she looks really good now. She's come a long way. She shares Zendaya's stylist now, so her comeback is gonna be wonderful. She married now and seems like she's in a very good place. I'm happy for her.

  • @emilymccormack4
    @emilymccormack4 10 років тому +5

    Instead of wasting her damn time arguing she could go organize the clothes herself.

    • @chugcee
      @chugcee 10 років тому +1

      Why should she have to? she is paying them

    • @MegaNicolemarie
      @MegaNicolemarie 3 роки тому

      @@chugcee it's disgustingly privileged

  • @Ultradude604
    @Ultradude604 7 років тому +70

    She gets an incompetent assistant because she doesn't have the money to pay a good one nowadays.

    • @diamond852
      @diamond852 7 років тому +11

      You sound like world peace.

    • @tapmyass7694
      @tapmyass7694 7 років тому +3

      Ultradude
      your a genius

  • @deaditeera
    @deaditeera 6 років тому +5

    She seems really calm and professional here I did not expect that 👏

  • @Onmysheet
    @Onmysheet 9 років тому +33

    Sponsored by Evian and Pespi.

    • @allenreibabadilla9526
      @allenreibabadilla9526 8 років тому

      lol whahahaha

    • @Aqua.man045
      @Aqua.man045 8 років тому

      +Onmysheet Buy a pepsi if you are for Lindsay. Evian if you're for the guy.

    • @Theblunt99
      @Theblunt99 3 місяці тому +1

      I immediately thought the same
      Thing

  • @Caroljq410
    @Caroljq410 10 років тому +13

    If he was my assistant he would've been long gone.

    • @TimelineProvision
      @TimelineProvision 10 років тому +1

      it's not easy to just get rid of an assistant. the person has to be somebody you can trust. there are so many wierdo assistants out there. some are undercover who work for the media and before you know it. your exposed as hell.

  • @MoshPitKiss
    @MoshPitKiss 10 років тому +7

    With all those clothes, you'd think she could afford A DAMN BRA.

  • @sadiecherish9509
    @sadiecherish9509 7 років тому +9

    It seems like they have crappy communication with each other in general. Her saying she doesn't have time for him doesn't make sense. How is he supposed to do all of these things FOR HER without HER input? It just doesn't make sense. He should have also interjected that the keys were something that required a special order. Also, her calling someone out like that in front of other people, much less cameras, is not going to help him be more productive. There are different ways to get through to someone.

    • @hot4fi
      @hot4fi 3 роки тому

      THIS. All of it.

  • @josephstoney5735
    @josephstoney5735 7 років тому +7

    I'll never get my 5 minutes back. Awful.

    • @mikejones2405
      @mikejones2405 7 років тому +2

      you could have stopped watching at literally any moment

  • @NisaLavigne93
    @NisaLavigne93 10 років тому +13

    I really respect Lindsay for her confidence. I think she is right because the guy supposed to make things easy for her and she is the one who give the paycheck. So the guy must do his job, whatever reason he has!!! If I'm a celebrity who has money and hire people to organize, I would definitely do that too! That's what closet stylist, organizer for!

    • @barbaracaroll
      @barbaracaroll Рік тому

      Right he's employed by her and boy does this girl have a chest whew

  • @dani-nl4wz
    @dani-nl4wz 9 років тому +221

    I'm sure that if this were a man talking to his assistant like this, majority of the comments would've been different.

    • @DuVonne
      @DuVonne 9 років тому +21

      Wrong

    • @Halleyscomet55
      @Halleyscomet55 9 років тому +6

      dani merp She needs to fire this idiot! He needs to understand that without her, he is nothing.

    • @dani-nl4wz
      @dani-nl4wz 9 років тому +5

      Halleyscomet55 he doesnt work for her anymore

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 8 років тому +6

      +dani merp - Are people watching different videos? She did not let him talk and wanted him to solve something that cannot be solved unless you use a time machine. She thought he didn't make copies when in fact the keys had to be delivered. At the very least blame the post, not the assistant

    • @armeenashahzad4042
      @armeenashahzad4042 6 років тому +9

      Can you not turn everything sexist

  • @Kiiddy
    @Kiiddy 4 роки тому

    Where can I watch the entire full series? I can't find it anywhere and it doesn't let you watch it on Oprah's site in the UK. If anyone knows a place to watch it, please let me know!

  • @EvieMatavelli
    @EvieMatavelli 7 років тому +9

    Assistant is lying he didn't get the keys. During the conversation he said give me time and then during his face to face interview he said he had done and he needed to get them picked up. If that was the case why he didn't bring up during the conversation. I don't like how he talks back. He acts like he is the boss.

    • @WintersArcher
      @WintersArcher 7 років тому +4

      He did not get the keys because they were not ready. Special made keys are ordered. She needs to listen and she doesnt. He is standing his ground and letting her know to give him at least 10 minutes in 24 hours for her to shut up.

  • @anjih5297
    @anjih5297 2 роки тому +3

    Poor Matt. He's literally begging for 5 minutes in the morning for LINDSAY'S benefit, so that she knows things are getting done and doesn't need to stress about it.

  • @MikhailKalashnikovMiG
    @MikhailKalashnikovMiG 8 років тому +5

    I don't think Lindsay was unreasonable at all. But being a personal assistant, you need to get your attitude in check. Talking back and being dismissive of what your boss is saying is completely unprofessional and you should quit if you're not happy with your job. You may be equals as humans but never forget that you're still the employee and ranked below your boss. I would've fired the man on the spot.

  • @acepc2
    @acepc2 7 років тому +4

    Lol why was this recommended? Idk but it was still hilarious

  • @annielove8603
    @annielove8603 Рік тому +4

    Fire him

  • @msyasmine25
    @msyasmine25 10 років тому +9

    Lindsey is right though! He works for Lindsey not the other way around. He should have told her about having to get special keys made when she first brought it up. He sitting there with an attitude the whole time while she is speaking. He was wrong. As an assistant you are to do whatever she wants you to do. If you don't want to do it then quit.

  • @emmanuelmunoz1700
    @emmanuelmunoz1700 9 років тому +106

    This guy needs to show some respect to Lindsay, She's very Nice ,Love how she has Feminine Virtues... Keep being a kind hearted heart Lindsay.. This Guy needs to treat her More Ladylike, She's still very Feminine which is a big time Virtue for Women... Gorgeous Women she is!!!!!! LL

    • @fhmasjjahhddga
      @fhmasjjahhddga 9 років тому +11

      Yea but she still needs to show him some respect. Just because she is his boss does not mean she should treat him like trash, he made a mistake, but also she would not let him explain, and she needs to give him that 5 minutes otherwise its her fault.

    • @emmanuelmunoz1700
      @emmanuelmunoz1700 9 років тому

      He should just advice her and listen, Treat her more Ladylike she's a very nice girl...

    • @emmanuelmunoz1700
      @emmanuelmunoz1700 9 років тому

      She just needs support someone who is willing to help out fhmasjjahhddga​

    • @fhmasjjahhddga
      @fhmasjjahhddga 9 років тому +1

      Yea i agree he should give her some advice and he was trying to treat her ladylike, but I know he was getting angry because she would not listen. I know she has been through a lot, but still

    • @emmanuelmunoz1700
      @emmanuelmunoz1700 9 років тому +1

      fhmasjjahhddga​ We need more girls like Lindsay , she has been through alot and has managed to not become bitter about Men... Sometimes us Men can be cruel to women... This guy needs to check himself on how to treat a Lady

  • @MalaYLoca
    @MalaYLoca 5 років тому +1

    I loved watching this when this was on tv,I definitely remember this episode

  • @CharleneNicole
    @CharleneNicole 2 роки тому +1

    These aren't arguments you should be having with someone that you're paying to be your ASSISTANT!!!

  • @ava2099
    @ava2099 7 років тому +4

    he just had to listen and recognize his fails thats it...

  • @fian1286
    @fian1286 10 років тому +6

    That conversation shouldn't have happened with an audience

    • @Roosierose1
      @Roosierose1 10 років тому

      It's a show, think about it.

  • @gibbygoober2864
    @gibbygoober2864 3 місяці тому +3

    To be fair she’s not really going crazy she’s trying her best to be articulate and mature and it looks hard for her. I relate

  • @TheTruthiest
    @TheTruthiest 7 років тому +5

    Sounds like someone who's done too much therapy without learning anything and is now trying to therapize the people in her life.

  • @riskdanny3710
    @riskdanny3710 10 років тому +15

    He should get fired

    • @eugt378
      @eugt378 9 років тому +2

      agreed, shes the boss.
      he shld get the facts right

    • @anwarrazali2832
      @anwarrazali2832 5 років тому

      He just made the list

  • @qwertyu147
    @qwertyu147 7 років тому +5

    the guy has no idea to be a personal assistant, his job is to be there so she doesnt have to think. He needs to be spoon fed every time something needs doing

    • @chrisfi3d
      @chrisfi3d 7 років тому +1

      But at the same time, he's not a mind reader.

    • @qwertyu147
      @qwertyu147 7 років тому

      true

  • @PenguinsGalore55d1
    @PenguinsGalore55d1 8 років тому +3

    how many times is the word "keys" repeated

  • @edpantous
    @edpantous 7 років тому +6

    Communication is the problem. He gave a solution. She just wanted to talk and talk and talk. People! Look for the solution right away don't spend time cycling on the problem.

  • @dannilevil
    @dannilevil 5 років тому +8

    I absolutely get that he needs time with his boss to know what is expected, if I don’t get directions of what my boss wants then I can’t do my job. She has no ownership of anything, yes! She’s paying him, Yes! She’s his boss but she doesn’t seem to communicate with her assistant and when that happens then he can’t do his job

    • @pg-jq7ws
      @pg-jq7ws 5 років тому +1

      Yup! This.

    • @AW-rv8nm
      @AW-rv8nm Рік тому

      But also like… I feel a personal assistant should have the skill of anticipating needs? He can see all of her clothes out in disarray. Making sure she lives in a clean and organized space seems like a basic expectation that doesn’t really need explanation. Whether he outsources that task or does it himself, that’s his job to handle it. She’s got other, bigger things to worry about, such as her projects and ventures that keep her team paid. I would’ve found a new assistant personally.

  • @johnyvanrhedcastro2203
    @johnyvanrhedcastro2203 7 років тому +3

    "but this way friday matt! this was friday!"
    freaky friiiidayyyy!!!

  • @StrawberryJam806
    @StrawberryJam806 6 років тому +5

    Lindsay is honestly such a talented actress. I mean, seriously, she is. I wish she would get her life together or fix whatever has been going wrong and get back into the acting scene.

  • @CalThePlantWitch92
    @CalThePlantWitch92 2 роки тому +1

    She HAAAAATES confrontation, the shake, the fast speaking.

  • @Vdosids
    @Vdosids 10 років тому +4

    This is why she's unemployable. Fold your own clothes, you don't have an actual job. If you don't like an assistant, fire them instead of going back and forth.

  • @YooooAdrian
    @YooooAdrian 7 років тому +7

    Arguing about keys and folding clothes. Sigh

    • @biscuiteater5611
      @biscuiteater5611 7 років тому +1

      Adrian Salazar that's within the scope of an assistant's job. It's not like he's her accountant or brother...

  • @jamesdolan4042
    @jamesdolan4042 8 місяців тому +2

    How is this private discourse being recorded for our public consumption?

  • @BeatGoat
    @BeatGoat 8 років тому +52

    She might be approaching 30, but mentally she's still very much a child.

    • @amandalewis1095
      @amandalewis1095 8 років тому +11

      She has just been through so much it's sad

    • @picksixtodahouse
      @picksixtodahouse 7 років тому +1

      her assistant seems just as incompetent as she is.

    • @barritoothy
      @barritoothy 4 роки тому

      Pistol Panda nah. He knew that the keys were on the way. Pistol panda your probably unbearable to work around a persons house.if you were a assistant