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  • @nataliewright2938
    @nataliewright2938 Рік тому +41878

    My mum pretends like she didn't hear properly so I have to repeat it, this gives her enough time to get the slipper...

  • @Riddlexxx
    @Riddlexxx Рік тому +15871

    Once you look back... You won't be able to look

    • @rhenzjohnantolin1130
      @rhenzjohnantolin1130 Рік тому +337

      True because after you look back there is a 50 50 percent chance you could go to heaven or the hospital or the cementary

    • @user-zi5fh7mz1l
      @user-zi5fh7mz1l Рік тому +27

      😂😂

    • @KING.G
      @KING.G Рік тому +27

      This is a good comment

    • @galaxybacontheboi
      @galaxybacontheboi Рік тому +39

      @@rhenzjohnantolin1130 or hell…

    • @MyDarling572
      @MyDarling572 Рік тому +6

      Woahahahahahahahahaha !!

  • @josie3956
    @josie3956 Рік тому +6527

    if you look back w asian, blk, or mexican parents chasing you it’s like a horror movie; you suddenly trip on something the second you look back and it’s all game over 😭

    • @RealengoPrimordialDemon
      @RealengoPrimordialDemon Рік тому

      Just not only Mexican but pretty much any latina mom, Cuban, Dominicans, Puertoricans, Colombian, Honduran, Nicaraguan and Bolivian moms are as deadly or far more than any Mexican mom.

    • @kankynza
      @kankynza Рік тому +260

      How the heck are you guys running? One roar from my parents would make me freeze dead in my tracks skdjsjskkdjs

    • @lili3265
      @lili3265 Рік тому +36

      ​@@kankynza omg same 😂😂😂

    • @kankynza
      @kankynza Рік тому +90

      @@lili3265 we don't have fight or flight, we freeze and look back slowly while resigning to our fates 🤣

    • @lili3265
      @lili3265 Рік тому +16

      @@kankynza loool true 😭😭

  • @probablyverina
    @probablyverina Рік тому +897

    My advice: never run because they'll get even madder and it will hurt twice as much.

    • @tamyahgalentine9734
      @tamyahgalentine9734 Рік тому +30

      True I never run

    • @_Beautiflies123_
      @_Beautiflies123_ Рік тому +20

      True I too stay rooted to the ground get my beatings and then leave silently 😢

    • @tamyahgalentine9734
      @tamyahgalentine9734 Рік тому +8

      @@_Beautiflies123_ it is what it is

    • @kaylaroo710
      @kaylaroo710 11 місяців тому +13

      And don't try and use your hands to shield yourself from the wooden spoon. It hurts even more when it hits your knuckles.

    • @ahhwe-any7434
      @ahhwe-any7434 9 місяців тому +3

      when they tell u to take off ur extra layers of clothes. they say the teen yrs r the worst. and ... no, but i guess yes. but also kids: ok then how about try me now bc ur fed up w/ me? take a wild guess on how i feel then... i try to keep my crazy...under control

  • @2stars783
    @2stars783 Рік тому +8630

    "How to break bad news to Asian Parents"
    You simply *_C A N ' T_*

    • @Ava.life.Forever
      @Ava.life.Forever Рік тому +163

      You can but it won’t end well

    • @I_LoveWaffles5
      @I_LoveWaffles5 Рік тому +38

      @@Ava.life.Forever yes 😂

    • @stqr.c
      @stqr.c Рік тому +17

      ​@@Ava.life.Forever yup

    • @gabrielabatista6016
      @gabrielabatista6016 Рік тому +53

      I have a Latina mom, not the same but she's just as strict so close enough.
      My advice is: just tell what you can't possibly hide, like failing a class, getting pregnant, STDs, broken stuff that can't be easily replaced and will be noticed if it's missing, etc. If it can be hidden, don't tell until you're able to move out and live by yourself, because that way if anything goes wrong you have a safe place you can run to.

    • @nataliewright2938
      @nataliewright2938 Рік тому +2

      @@Ava.life.Forevermhm

  • @yogurt0g
    @yogurt0g Рік тому +3933

    *she's a runner she's a track star🏃‍♀️*

  • @Komaldhabu
    @Komaldhabu Рік тому +3021

    Results according to Asian Parents:
    A+: Acceptable
    A: Average
    B: Beating with broom
    C:Count your days
    D: Death
    F: Funeral..

  • @draggar4176
    @draggar4176 Рік тому +306

    Dawg, I walk in the room and am already asked what I did💀

  • @ChyChy0526
    @ChyChy0526 Рік тому +5622

    The last one😆💀 "Step four-wheel RUN and DON'T LOOK BACK" 😆💀😆💀🔫

  • @lindelwamazibuko8704
    @lindelwamazibuko8704 Рік тому +2057

    "Run and don't look back" story of my life 😂

  • @Catskaities
    @Catskaities 11 місяців тому +51

    I like how she always enter with a giant step 😂😂

  • @swathik7653
    @swathik7653 Рік тому +111

    wake your mom up when shes sleeping and say it..shell be too drowsy to even comprehend

    • @Naae_111
      @Naae_111 11 місяців тому +19

      Or she'll be even angrier and will accuse you of ruining her night (at least my mom, she has very light sleep so not only will she comprehend, she will also not be able to sleep again) 😂
      Actually she knows I do my best for school so if I have bad grades she'll just say it's not her problem, but if I told her I had a bf/gf or I got a tattoo I'd die on the spot lfmao (my mom's not asian btw)

    • @Namatamahur_ot4lf
      @Namatamahur_ot4lf 11 місяців тому +8

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 but when she remembers😂😂😂😂🔥💀

    • @MahiMahi-yu5jo
      @MahiMahi-yu5jo 9 місяців тому +5

      No, that's just the easiest way for mom to go decaf. That stunt wakes them up faster than a shot of toxic caffeine sludge

  • @kimpopo7817
    @kimpopo7817 Рік тому +2364

    as a 16 yrs old asian , i have a tip
    TRY TO SAY IT WHEN SHE'S ON CALL W/ HER FRIEND

    • @Julia-lk8jn
      @Julia-lk8jn Рік тому +272

      because the "sorry, I'll call you back" gives you 2 seconds head start?

    • @rituseth5287
      @rituseth5287 Рік тому +96

      Nah... She be like first u disgraced me and on top of it u insulted me in front of my friend cuz her friend might have heard ... So double beating

    • @jeonmicha486
      @jeonmicha486 Рік тому +43

      That's right! It always works for me! When she's on a call w her friend she doesn't pay much attention and afterwards she either forgets or just doesn't do much about it 😂

    • @youtubelover7231
      @youtubelover7231 Рік тому +17

      Frrr it works! I do this all the time 😂😂

    • @iqraafiasayeedi
      @iqraafiasayeedi Рік тому +13

      exactly!! thats what i do whenever i fail a grade, it works

  • @sanjanajanardhanan3010
    @sanjanajanardhanan3010 Рік тому +2139

    The starting with accomplishments never work since all she will remember is the bad news part😂

    • @sidra8804
      @sidra8804 Рік тому +16

      Exactly 😂it’ll be better if you add those accomplishments afterward right after you say the bad news

    • @doomwow-tz3mm
      @doomwow-tz3mm Рік тому +13

      But sometimes we can get exception from the dialogue "you don't even do some freakin' chores in home... I don't even know why you are home.." 🤣🤣😅

    • @niamcuteplays6879
      @niamcuteplays6879 Рік тому +2

      FRRRR

    • @surprises2232
      @surprises2232 Рік тому

      Yeah

    • @saharalirezaei9663
      @saharalirezaei9663 Рік тому +2

      You should give them the news while you're doing the accomplishment while you know your mom is checking on you... Because in the middle of the accomplished they will reconsider and you can have a chance to run in the middle of everything... because they're mostly so OCD they won't waste time on following you and they will do the accomplishment themselves understanding if they attack you one more time they have to do the job 🙊🙉🙈

  • @windshieldw1p3r
    @windshieldw1p3r Рік тому +62

    Her big step to her mom is everything😂😂

  • @seanfan1500
    @seanfan1500 Рік тому +28

    Even if you don't have bad news still start with all the accomplishments.

  • @silkflower6959
    @silkflower6959 Рік тому +1962

    😂😂😂 way to relatable especially the “ok” from the mom when you did the chores

  • @chocopup9394
    @chocopup9394 Рік тому +2905

    “dO NoT eXpeCt A pRaiSe” 💀
    way too relatable

  • @gourikrishna3059
    @gourikrishna3059 Рік тому +9

    I'm dying of laughter 😂😂😂😂😂. The 4th one had me laughing on the floor

  • @jeannettemagin1500
    @jeannettemagin1500 Рік тому +6

    I honestly thought Asian kids had it easy!! I've learned so much from your content!!!

  • @davidkingblanco7851
    @davidkingblanco7851 Рік тому +423

    “let it go like a silent fart” 💀

  • @koalaeditssYT
    @koalaeditssYT Рік тому +873

    That slipper/sliders intro never gets old ☺🤭

  • @p.harris3005
    @p.harris3005 Рік тому +2

    The lifted foot and how she slides in..😂😂😂😂😂…her skits are the best!

  • @bebacaribena
    @bebacaribena Рік тому +7

    Yes indeed! Run for your life!!!🤣🤣🤣

  • @Mochi-xv3gd
    @Mochi-xv3gd Рік тому +1267

    Everyone: Saying how relatable it is
    Me:"PERFECT LOOP"

  • @PrithilaDeviMou
    @PrithilaDeviMou Рік тому +741

    *Let it go like a silent fart* 💀💀

  • @mynkusakabe5323
    @mynkusakabe5323 Рік тому +16

    personnally, I say it when she is happy or when I just get back, with a sweet voice, and am answered with silent...
    but i succeeded in that reaction after 6 years of arguing 😂😅

  • @weakfrontkick
    @weakfrontkick Рік тому +3

    This girl needs a hug!

  • @urfavsh1teditor
    @urfavsh1teditor Рік тому +87

    Step 5: *But I'm studying to be a doctor!*

    • @namedrop721
      @namedrop721 Рік тому +11

      Mom comeback: ‘you’ll never get there and I regret having such a failure’ 😂
      Can’t win

    • @heathermiller5765
      @heathermiller5765 Рік тому +5

      ​@@namedrop721 Lol sounds like Steven He: "Axe body spray...smells like failure"

    • @strawbxrrymochi8178
      @strawbxrrymochi8178 Рік тому

      OUUUU....INTERESTING...

  • @staritrix
    @staritrix Рік тому +365

    Me wondering if you're flexible or not cause I always find it impressive how high you can put your leg up 😂

  • @laylabintisurkinah3003
    @laylabintisurkinah3003 Рік тому +17

    Step 5 : You tired and feel hungry, and want to go back at your home, but your ASIAN parents still angry on you and never give you foods anymore 😂😂😂

    • @daisyspanhakbon1364
      @daisyspanhakbon1364 9 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂...thats what I think too!!! Don't tell nothing!!!!🤫🤫🤫

  • @imperfectlynormalipromise3340
    @imperfectlynormalipromise3340 Рік тому +37

    My mom is not even Asian but I can relate to this

    • @Naae_111
      @Naae_111 11 місяців тому +3

      Same, especially when she said "i got a tattoo", I would be dead if I got one and she knew

    • @tinawedlakejohnnysangel
      @tinawedlakejohnnysangel 11 місяців тому +2

      ikr !?!

  • @MeiR2008
    @MeiR2008 Рік тому +490

    I’ve tried all this and even though I’m faster than my mom, I can’t stay away from her forever 😅 She and the rice paddle are just waiting.

  • @ThatOnePolidhMapper
    @ThatOnePolidhMapper Рік тому +235

    I love how nice the voice is for the steps even though she gonna get spanked 😂💀

  • @nazninsultana5627
    @nazninsultana5627 Рік тому +4

    "Run and don't look back"🙂
    She a runner She a trackstar

  • @NM-oh7zx
    @NM-oh7zx Рік тому +4

    that leg went higher than my grades😱

  • @kyu7200
    @kyu7200 Рік тому +533

    Ooooh this is interesting, can we have a tutorial on how to survive? I'm under the bed right now so I need it immedi

  • @unknowngaming7073
    @unknowngaming7073 Рік тому +85

    Once my mom gets a hanger, a Subway Surfer theme song will start playing...

  • @blocked9936
    @blocked9936 Рік тому +3

    At least she's honest… thats what every mom understand

  • @jasbirkaur5683
    @jasbirkaur5683 Рік тому +8

    As an Aisan I really appreciate these techniques this is soo relateable😂😂

  • @Tangsarekool
    @Tangsarekool Рік тому +4

    She said how to break bad news to Asian parents, but she never said you wouldn’t get slapped with a slipper

  • @miabrue5359
    @miabrue5359 Рік тому +110

    “What u say?” I’m dying 😂

  • @tokirindo.8216
    @tokirindo.8216 Рік тому +1

    I love aunty kea's accent👏👏👍😁😁😄😄.

  • @stalisthebest9951
    @stalisthebest9951 Рік тому +6

    the most relatable loop doesn't exi -

  • @doneown503
    @doneown503 Рік тому +51

    her special way of entering never gets old!🥰

  • @haileyiackson
    @haileyiackson Рік тому +27

    the iconic foot stretch at the start of every video 😂

  • @all1j
    @all1j Рік тому +1

    The "Wat u say" made me DIE laughing 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @dlong20315
    @dlong20315 Рік тому +4

    This woman is amazing

  • @juzzbee929
    @juzzbee929 Рік тому +15

    "I didn't put the rice on". I felt that cuz my dad asked me to cook rice and I forgot. This only happened once.

  • @glitzyglam7827
    @glitzyglam7827 Рік тому +4

    Lmaoooo I was gonna say that next step better be RUN !! 😂

  • @Julia-lk8jn
    @Julia-lk8jn Рік тому +4

    Love the 'enter stage' step!
    And I can't help feeling that your mom would already notice what's up when you starting a conversation with a list of accomplishments and that desperately-hopeful smile.
    Kind of like
    *husband* here's some beautiful flowers for you just because I'm so happy to have you in my life!!!
    `*wife* so what did you do?

  • @Engel-ish
    @Engel-ish Рік тому +4

    Thank you. This is also “how to break bad news to Hispanic mothers.”

  • @merrychristmas2473
    @merrychristmas2473 Рік тому +59

    I like how she always kicks her foot out before sliding in in front of her scary mom 😂

  • @yukibackrooms
    @yukibackrooms Рік тому +8

    I now know that this is the reason why my parents wear slippers in the house. i also start to shake before I even get to say what I did bc I know that the second the bad news leaves my mouth, she’ll already have the slipper in her hand 💀💀💀💀

  • @shiniegu144
    @shiniegu144 Рік тому +2

    i really want to meet her actual mom

  • @manamano6991
    @manamano6991 Рік тому +36

    Same goes for my Jamaican parents. Only difference is, the belt already gets to you before you can turn

  • @samanakhowaja1236
    @samanakhowaja1236 Рік тому +167

    That's me straight up running to my room and locking it this gives my mom enough time to cool down.
    P.s now she don't even try to run after me just throw her slipper at the back of my head. 🤣🤣

    • @blessingkumah3436
      @blessingkumah3436 Рік тому +7

      This is so relatable here

    • @THEVOCALOIDTWINS
      @THEVOCALOIDTWINS Рік тому +11

      youre allowed to lock your door?

    • @Mystrohan
      @Mystrohan Рік тому +7

      Your door has a lock?

    • @Thunor93
      @Thunor93 Рік тому

      Least she hasn't leveled up to flying cast iron frying pan to your skull.... My mom did when I was 16....

  • @juliaehab7203
    @juliaehab7203 Рік тому +2

    The way that it said “just run and don’t look back” my mom would pinch my ear so hard I would feel like crying and sometimes she would just not talk to me until I learn my lesson 💀💀

  • @SimplyEdits.
    @SimplyEdits. 6 місяців тому +1

    Not turning on the rice was the worst one for Asian parents 😂

  • @Lilmushro0m
    @Lilmushro0m Рік тому +162

    My parents are very supportive and they won’t be angry if I fail a test instead they will help me learn to correct it. I guess I am really lucky with them as my parents ❤

    • @Daisyinaesthetic298
      @Daisyinaesthetic298 Рік тому +12

      Wish I was lucky as u😒

    • @Neasyorc
      @Neasyorc Рік тому +32

      That's fantastic. Glad to hear you have sane normal parents that aren't going to be abusive and controlling.

    • @ddbb3195
      @ddbb3195 Рік тому +5

      i'm sure you're spoiled.

    • @michaelirish1445
      @michaelirish1445 Рік тому +26

      @@ddbb3195 I’m sure you make simplistic assumptions often…Now why would anyone say that about you. Why be so harsh?

    • @CyaViaTheFirst
      @CyaViaTheFirst Рік тому +11

      bruh, I was used to getting A's and B's in tests, that when I got my first C, my parents got so mad and told me I won't ever graduate from high school or go to college...
      funny enough, I'm in Loyola now, so :|
      Point is, at least yours didn't overreact to your test...so yea, lucky

  • @ruby7077
    @ruby7077 Рік тому +28

    Lol "I didn't put dA rIcE oN"

    • @Nessalol19
      @Nessalol19 Рік тому

      What?

    • @ruby7077
      @ruby7077 Рік тому

      @@Nessalol19 one of the things she said was I dint put the rice on

  • @evesouricemansion9716
    @evesouricemansion9716 Рік тому +1

    The beginning with the leg always kills me 😂

  • @fredkaufka
    @fredkaufka Рік тому +1

    I love you and your mom!! Great content and thanks for the laughs!!

  • @alyxleaf
    @alyxleaf Рік тому +29

    This is the most relatable thing I've watched today.

  • @miriancudjoe
    @miriancudjoe Рік тому +4

    You did your chores ,you say.... BUT THE DISHES ARE STILL IN THE SINK

  • @wendyjones1422
    @wendyjones1422 Рік тому +2

    These two just make me laugh even if I don't want to they cheer me up when I'm having a bad day thanks

    • @anadd6195
      @anadd6195 7 місяців тому +1

      Both characters are played by her

  • @cinnamoroll.bunny22
    @cinnamoroll.bunny22 Рік тому +1

    i love how her foot always just comes in like that

  • @summer_raincloud
    @summer_raincloud Рік тому +46

    Nah mate you can never outrun them, they always catch up eventually. That’s when they start bringing up every little mistake you’ve ever made and that honestly sucks way more than being whacked with a slipper :D

  • @chocodust6342
    @chocodust6342 Рік тому +210

    No, you need to get a doctor degree, get two jobs, half doctor and half lawyer, cook a 5 star meal with rice, do all the chores, pay off all family debts and get three handfuls of skills and then tell your mom the bad news, then tell everything I just said and for the final part, whisper loudly so she can barely hear “I lied” and get a new life somewhere that is free of everything.

    • @YouTubemakesthingsdiffucult
      @YouTubemakesthingsdiffucult Рік тому +1

      PERIOD FR

    • @saharalirezaei9663
      @saharalirezaei9663 Рік тому +6

      To be frankly even all of that doesn't help...the more you do they want more...if you're a doctor and have money you must bring at least 8 babies by the age of 30 ... Nothing changes...except you're dead inside all the time!!! And if you go even to another country they will find you...i tried everything... Funny thing is after a while you repeat them in your mind...

    • @arcyine
      @arcyine Рік тому

      ​@@saharalirezaei9663 what the hell, just cut them off dude. Grown adults can have all the independence.

  • @lulualkhor7382
    @lulualkhor7382 Рік тому +1

    The way she puts her legs up Lol 😂🤣

  • @user-ke7fx5rv6h
    @user-ke7fx5rv6h Рік тому +1

    She has really made me believe that the mom isn't her but another person😂

  • @paigeluvzu.
    @paigeluvzu. Рік тому +13

    The fact that people are brave enough to do this still stuns me to this day.

  • @Jasmine._xx
    @Jasmine._xx Рік тому +10

    It gets even more funny every time she sticks her foot out before entering- 😂

  • @Tab_S
    @Tab_S Рік тому +2

    This isn’t just with Asian parents. This is pretty much with any parents.

  • @laylacats9385
    @laylacats9385 Рік тому +1

    *step 4 run and don't look back*🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @elizabethbrookestovall-gro5818
    @elizabethbrookestovall-gro5818 Рік тому +17

    "step 4:run and don't look back"got me on the floor

  • @azinana6459
    @azinana6459 Рік тому +17

    “What you say!” 🫣🫡
    🏃🏻‍♀️

  • @TheCuriousSoul-be3rd
    @TheCuriousSoul-be3rd Рік тому +1

    *Instructions unclear, I was caught and am now preparing to be a doctor by next month.*

  • @believeingod6951
    @believeingod6951 Рік тому +2

    Yeah i suggest you don’t do that lol 😂😂😂 they’re gonna catch you at some point 😂😂😂

  • @espresso_depresso_cat
    @espresso_depresso_cat Рік тому +3

    I thought you were gonna say you're pregnant, like a bait and switch lmao

  • @raniasaad4210
    @raniasaad4210 Рік тому +18

    That isn't only for Asian parents that's for everyone, but the running away part makes it worse so you better face it all from the beginning

  • @EGH181
    @EGH181 Рік тому +1

    Dude this is funny. Took me a minute to realize the mom and the daughter are the same

  • @donpietruk1517
    @donpietruk1517 11 місяців тому +1

    That whispered "and I got a new tattoo" had me rolling. That's exactly how my sister broke bad news to our parents. She'd slip it in half whispered among a bunch of other stuff in the vain hope it wouldn't be noticed. Me, I just blurted it out. I already knew doom was coming so I was fatalistic about it. 😂😂

  • @I_LoveWaffles5
    @I_LoveWaffles5 Рік тому +3

    “Run and don’t look back”
    Me: nope I’d start crying before I’d even get beat 😭

  • @_river_2633
    @_river_2633 Рік тому +98

    As another Asian, despite being of different ethnicity and born from a different country, I can say with utmost certainty that this is how it goes every time to me as well 😂.

  • @naishabhatiaxx
    @naishabhatiaxx 6 місяців тому +1

    The classic giant step 😂❤

  • @M4captain16
    @M4captain16 6 місяців тому +1

    istg LMAOOOO the run is so true

  • @amoongus689
    @amoongus689 Рік тому +6

    That's entrance never fails to make me laugh😂

  • @ilovejpop.
    @ilovejpop. Рік тому +29

    “Run and don’t look back” If I do that she will break my bones and slap me in the face so I’d rather cry it off💀

  • @MoonStar_MoonFrost
    @MoonStar_MoonFrost Рік тому +1

    How to NOT break bad news to your Asian parents! 😂

  • @MNICLGD
    @MNICLGD Рік тому +1

    "You dont" -Me

  • @rashmikarnani4854
    @rashmikarnani4854 Рік тому +2310

    Asian parents are actually angry about the math test more than the other three together can make . JUST FACTS
    This is highest number of like I have ever got.....THANK YOU!!♡♡

    • @ifykyk679
      @ifykyk679 Рік тому +41

      Nahh they'll get more angry for u having a bf.

    • @rashmikarnani4854
      @rashmikarnani4854 Рік тому +16

      @@ifykyk679 that's just cherry on top 🙂

    • @littlemom2070
      @littlemom2070 Рік тому +20

      I distinctly remember being scolded for forgetting to cook the rice! But you’re right the test and boyfriend are much bigger infractions.

    • @bingyunqian1599
      @bingyunqian1599 Рік тому +6

      Math test and new tattoo is what they care about most

    • @gkedits_456
      @gkedits_456 Рік тому +1

      meh language and math are most important

  • @Hannie1201
    @Hannie1201 Рік тому +6

    “Step one start with some accomplishments”
    Her:”I did chores”
    Me:”I got a question right about a year ago”

  • @Bryanlovessharks
    @Bryanlovessharks 11 місяців тому

    The mom “ WHAT U SAY “
    And when Lyanna said “ IM SORRY x3 “
    Got me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Ms.Marshmallow.
    @Ms.Marshmallow. 6 місяців тому +1

    I completely understand;
    A Horror movie with friends is comedy, and a Romantic movie with parents is Horror 😁

  • @Hi-sb5pt
    @Hi-sb5pt Рік тому +8

    i love how she gets more flexible everytime she does this

  • @Mayaaanam
    @Mayaaanam Рік тому +5

    “How to bre-“
    Sorry hun it’s not *possible* 😔

  • @BERRYTAR1
    @BERRYTAR1 Рік тому +1

    Step 5: try to dodge the slipper 🗿

  • @kianithemermaid
    @kianithemermaid 11 місяців тому +1

    I thought she was gonna say "u don't"

  • @notsomortal4972
    @notsomortal4972 Рік тому +3

    Wow. This is a healthy parent relationship that won't backfire at all once the kid gets older!