arya kangod, yeah it makes me want to puke. everyone seems to argue the same things: "what about men, they can wear what they want!", "women wear short skirts because they LIKE it or because they WANT to", "they're not hurting anyone, so what's the problem?"... the dishonesty from the progressives is insane. they seem to be arguing that the sexualisation of women is a societal thing and not innate in us humans. the fact is, women have a duty to cloth themselves in a smart manner, and men have a duty to keep that rule, otherwise the moral fabric of society falls flat; you have no order or structure.
To anyone who says that wearing short dresses is the cause of rape, know that you're putting the blame on a woman. Why can't you ask, why would a man look at a woman the wrong way.
@Diwakar Reddy Seduction implies that she is consenting to sex. Not rape. And how come all men think everything is for them. A girl applying make-up? She is doing it for attention. Wearing heels, she is doing it for attention. Girls apparently can't enjoy things because they like those activities. Everything must be done to please men. That's our only aim in life. We do nothing but think what men want. We have no rich internal lives with interests or hobbies or even opinions. No siree our lives must revolve around men. And if your bullshit excuse was true then women in burkhas, sarees, old women and young girls would not get raped. Rape is the fault of the men who do it. Clothes don't have anything to do with it. This kind of thinking is why women don't come forward with their allegations. Because you people always blame clothes, timings, maryada, sanskar and phones and all kinds of bullshit. You never blame the men who rape.
It's obvious you're saying that you will wear naked dress because it's your choice so similarly it's the choice of men whom to they will respect like sisters and whom to like them. Whom you are to decide then? If you're showing your private parts by dressing in an extremely lusty way then don't deserve respect from a person. You will be seen also as a lust product only and this is the result why rapes are increasing.
If yo have read biology you will know why men is attracted to women at first place and there is not wrong in watching a girl girls also watches boys whom they are attracted to
How to change a narrow minded person into open minded person. Why is it that someone is narrow minded and someone is open minded??? And why the person is narrow minded??? If you can not answer these questions, then you are narrow minded too.
Try to understand his teaching he says that wearing clothes for any purpose is fine ,if you are comfortable then good ,if you are you feel confident then good ,if you like it to wearing then its good , but if you are wearing to provoke someone or just for getting attention then at that time please do not relate it with freedom or women empowerment because at that time you dont wear that for your satisfaction but for intensifying someone or for getiing attention and this is not spiritual and remember he is saying this for MEN AND WOMEN BOTH.
I don't understand the meaning of wearing thigh length skirts and showing thighs while sitting as confident or comfortable with it ... I might as well drive a big hole in my pants to keep my groins airy . Come on , I feel comfortable , right ? Women empowerment does not equate to wearing short clothes . Certainly if they spend more time on enhancing their beauty which is only on the outside, there is very less chance of them doing something actually useful for the world ... Yes , no one is forcing them to cover their entire body but there is a red line to be followed to avoid the rise of feminist bullies and more and more females getting inspired . And women who are aware their attractive body should make a conscious effort not to show it too much for the sake of feeling "confident" .. If you feel confident by showing your body , what type of confidence is that anyways ...? Some women earn a decent salary and are confident because of that ...this is women empowerment and not the former one .
@@mb59621 But who are you to decide which way a women should feel comfortable? You judging here saying that a woman who earns can feel confident because of her salary but a woman wearing a short skirt cannot ? Why ? And who are you to decide the so called "red line" anyway ? Let's say a woman is in entertainment industry she sings and she is making a music video and she wears some short clothes and she is upright confident in that and she earns more than enough money from that, now what would you say ? This all comes from the fucking mentality that men or society have a right to decide the line for women or that a woman's exposed body is equivalent to a bad character, please get over it and let us women live the way we want to🙏
When a man wearing short pant walks through the streets.. Is he being Teased or Harrased?????? If short clothes would have been the reason of teasing, he would have been teased for sure....
Women are beautiful, more than men physically at least Beauty is intimidating Women showing skin are intimidating and uncomforting to people around, The same is not with men
Why do people have to justify with comfort or weather conditions what they want to wear? If the said lady wants to wear skimpy clothes to satisfy her own need for attention isn’t that her prerogative? Why can’t we wear what we want and the other wear what they want and everyone carry on with their business? She’s not hurting anyone so why the need to hurt her?
Exactly. The true lesson to learn is how to mind your own business. If doing something is making someone happy without hurting somebody else, why shouldn't they do it?
I agree with you. But what if she decides to wear nothing at all in front of public and the young and old men start gawking. Do you still think that is her perogative. Would you be okay if your daughter or mother or sister one decide to not wear anything when they are outside? Would you want men to gawk at them. Would you want your father, brother, husband to stare at them? Because men have an inborn animal nature we should never forget.
I was totally into ypur reply until that own need of attention part. When you wear skimpy clothes its not always to get attention. I personally love these clothes but I hate people staring. If someone thinks she wears for attention, then it kinda justifies eve teasing.
@@bahaar2825 what do you mean by men have an inborn animal nature. Both men and women are same species of homo sapiens and technically animals. The fact is, even women wear short dress because of this animal instinct of attracting mates and that is also why men bulk up. As a human being with this huge cerebral cortex, we are different than other animals and can't use our animal instinct to harm other humans. When women wear nothing because of animal instinct, they are not harming somebody and neither do men when they oogle at them due to animal instinct. But if they let their animal instinct to overcome them and harm that women, it's wrong. While it's liberating for women to do what they want, whether it is healthy or not, or how much of it is healthy is debatable. Just like our animal instinct to eat sweet things (sugar) might be both healthy and non healthy depending upon conditions but nobody has a right to stop me from eating sugar. Its an another matter that our society does not function like that. Somebody or else will come to you and say that don't eat sugar. Now while this is anti liberating, it may be a good advice.
Being a woman, I completely agree with his points. Freedom is wearing what you like and not prove someone something. Women wearing skimpy outfit in cold whether definitely try making some point irrespective how uncomfortable she is in that outfit. Basically she is not liberated which she think she is, she is doing for others attention. And even such kind of women who think wearing skimpy outfit is sign of modern women often bully women who wear decent clothes. “ behenji, nerd” They are no different.
You're so so true .... I'm a woman too...see I know we have the rights to dress but in today's generation girls do it to prove their Liberation.. moreover they seek attention they do say that they dress for themselves but they are actually not comfortable in it still they do it.... Wearing skirts till knee level is alright.. wearing tops is alright but why do they even reveal their cleavage... Does it looks beautiful? Sexualizing things are never beautiful
@@saraswatighosh5880 the intimate stuff should be respected I mean to both who is looking at and revealing at you are right men's also wear half sleeve tops and half pants so why not women there legs are also a leg like men there hands are also a hands like men but so the chest no right so covered it like a men if you are believe in equality I swear here in this point celebrities are failed mostly it's always women who wears a revealing clothes some time too much where the hell is the equality gone now I mean just because women have that body means they have to show off there body the complainant should be for fashion designer's they failed to bring the equality 🙄
@BipashaWho are you to decide of what topics videos are to be made? This is a mere academic-philosophical discussion and besides you can make one video from your point of view. Everyone has the freedom of speech, discussion , voicing their opinions and you can't dictate your thoughts by illogical and fallacious one-liner statements.
You are in a state of denial and cant even hear a good argument ...... so yeah for people like you its always the end of discussion....as soon as someone tells you something other than your opinion......may God bless you...god Allah jesus what ever sails your boat
Well, It's a very tricky question to ask to a woman. I was in love with someone and at some point of time he was my fiance. But just because I always dress simple, he use to adore other women in shorts, and use to say how hot and sexy they are, and why can't I dress like them. At some point of time it was very hurtful, and I tried to go out of my way to get his attention because he was important to me. I tried and I failed because I just can't be comfortable in really short clothes. And always listening him praising other women was heartbreaking as well. Long story short, maybe to keep man around and not having them looking at other women... many women just do it once and then over and over again. Otherwise there will be fights, insecurities, cheating, resentment and what not. Otherwise breakup..just like it happened in my case. So, it's not even a matter of discussion. It's a matter of shame that no matter what we do, people and society just have negative remarks. Wearing full, then simple, boring, behnji and no sense of fashion If wearing less then .. inappropriate, too fasionable etc. As per my understanding "JUST BE YOURSELF"
Your man is toxic, if that man truly loves you whether you put make up in your face or not, and if you dress in a modest way you will still be the most beautiful woman in his eyes, but if he keeps complementing other girls in front of you (in my opinion) that guy doesn't really love you the way you are and what you truly are... Observe him imagine if you're going to marry a man like that you will live your entire life with sadness and regrets. Always remember the you are beautiful just the way you are and you deserved a man that will love you just the way you are.
That stupid man doesn't deserve you. He was attracted to other girls becoz they wore short clothes? Wat the... That means he never fell for personality. He just wanted bodies and sex. Good that you left him. And good lover will love you based on ur character, talent, personality..... Irrespective of the length of ur skirt. Long, short, or super short. Clothes dont reveal personality.
What kind of man was (maybe still is) he? If he cherished you truly, he wouldn't have any problem with how you dress and your aesthetic as a person. Good thing he's your ex now. You deserve better than this Queen!
Being a guy i can tell you, your fiance was a jerk. He was objectifying you. There are 7 billion people, not all boys are same. I hope you find a right person :)
That looking down on your character and looking up because of your qualities is very true. I noticed it several times in my life. It applies to both men and women but women are judged more harshly.
Yeah no sh!t sherlock ..... If a key opens all locks it's called master key But if a lock opens with every key it's a loose lock Men are judged harshly in every thing except maybe sèxu@lîty (depending on other person)
@@timserious7678 ohh ...I didn't know that ..tbh life is hard for everyone ....when you are a kid everything is fine ...but when you grow up ...u realize life sucks ..n u kn what sucks more .. before even doing anything women are judged ...that they can't do anything ..cant drive ..cant talk professionally . . Not smart enough....and u kn ...how the life of women is fabricated ..they have to look pretty ...their entire lives ...maybe in some good home NT by their parents ..but their friends relative ...even strangers ...if men aren't good looking they can have a job and get a eye candy wife ..but if women aren't pretty there lives are doomed . ..Good nothing ....so just fuck off ... everyone faces problems in their life .. and more problems are created for women ...by men ,society. We have more problems that were created just to tear us apart .
I would only speak for myself. wearing dresses and pants (short or long) I feel beautiful when I look at myself wearing them in the mirror. I know my beauty comes from within. but that doesn't mean that I don't want to look good for myself. I also feel confident and firm. wearing clothes that I like are one way of expressing myself and feeling all those things. one may say that there are others ways to feel so and express myself. but I say that here lies my freedom of choosing when I am choosing at what moment I'll choose which source or form to feel beautiful and confident.
If clothing was the cause.... little children. ....both boys and girls and even tiny babies are in the news as victims of rape and sexual molestation! Easiest to ignore facts!
It is also the freedom of men to look at you when you're looking beautiful is it not? As long as you're not being physically molested or even publicly humiliated, you should understand that men like seeing sexy women and we don't need to be fucked up in our head to feel that way. It's basic biology. I never complain about women wearing sexy clothes. It's only a delight to my eyes. But I just don't get it when women complain about men looking at them when they're looking sexy. But I think there is a fine decency line for both genders. I try not to make the woman know I'm looking at her and I make sure she doesn't feel uncomfortable. And women should know for themselves when they're crossing a line with how short they can dress in a conservative country. A balance is ideal.
@@zerotactix5739 try to control yourself rather than screaming on women for wearing short dress ... It would be more delightful and comfortable for uss!!! Thank you
Yeah. Also ask why do women who wear traditional clothes and are called "behenji" and told as "repressed". Qualities inside the women matter.... Not her Saree.
@@shoaibhaq8680 you who calls women gold diggers shouldn't even try to speak their narrow mind thinking....and yes! Its almost men who try to change women's appearance by either covering them up or revealing them
Lmao what era are you from cuz I've literally not seen anyone calling a girl or a woman bhenji for wearing ethnic or traditional lmao . Might be in 90s or something but idk About now
Uh huh not true. I have seen girls proudly wearing traditional clothes and they look beautiful. Never ever I heard one girl calling another bhenji for wearing traditional clothes.
It's all in the way we are raised up... actually it is always put in our minds right from the day we are born that females body is a sexualizing thing , but men can reveal their body whenever and wherever... so we grow up with this thought right from the start... even though with all our six senses we know both are the same skin and flesh. That has to be changed. If u think women's chest are something that distracts u , u r wrong and the way u think about it is wrong. It has it's shape and mens chest doesn't bcos it functions as a mammary gland in a female.. that is all .. u get ur strong enough from mother's milk to judge back the same .. u r not even fit to do that after u can still live strongly. Just think about some tribal people who are always nakef. Those sexualizing thoughts are not put into their minds. They are using their six senses properly than educated illiterates we see here
comparing tribes to us is very stupid of you, Archana. Morden human civilisation has grown very much differently, if you get a group of tribe to start living in Morden civilisation system, they will become like us too, it is what nature is.
Totally agreed. But wouldn't I be called a pervert for looking at the mammary gland of a women?, it's still just skin and flesh tho. But I'm sure you yourself will know women can do it to men and get away with it. It's not about the tribal women being half naked, it's about the women here who would feel uncomfortable when men look at their cleavage but still wants to reveal it because they look good wearing something which does that. Looking good is going to get the attention, so trying to look attractive and expecting people to treat you ugly is totally bullshit.
Hey everything is valid u r giving examples of tribals being naked then see one thing.......in tribals a girl and a boy are all virgins till the time they are married....that's the first point.......strange thing na..?? Even naked everytime also......ya beacuse that's the part of their culture and heritage so their character is quite robost due to their culture and heritage .......their culture and heritage is respected most by the either man or woman u know.... Secondly in tribals their is no porn no seductive ads no seductive things via Bollywood or any other means which can arouse them......... The main thing from these 2 points is that they have a dignified character and cultural values(all man and woman).......that's why even a naked woman is not a issues there.........and see here these are the 2 points which is stated above which are heavily violet in our society (nowadays) and secondly when anyone says to preserve culture and to sustain a dignified character .(man or woman..majorly man are not dignified character in today's but like mads woman are also catching up taking inspiration from bollywood so cheap) so plzzz the two words which today's so called "modern" generations don't like and that is high valued character and secondly following culture and ya most important baning porn and other bollywodiya type stuff which materialises a female body....these are the things which led to a open society if followed these things correctly than theres no need on debating that what a woman wear or not wear at all..... as in tribal society they don't have these problems which I stated just above so there no question arises their that what to wear and what not................ But in our society porn is common seductive things are common in very media no cultural values given to our children and with all this cocktail of problems....it's a very very meaningless thing that u give examples of woman being roaming naked in tribals or that they don't have any restrictions of what to wear................ And see the irony same people like u will oppose us when we talk about giving cultural education to childs banning porn and banning the seductive content in any kinda media....by saying "o you r a person of old thoughts".......I don't know how people understand............believe me character building in both girls and boys with cultural values is must if u wanna see a better society......otherwise no permanent solution is their.......
Well men don't go outside wearing bikini right. You can wear whatever u want but plz have some decency to wear civilised dresses. If u read biology then u know why men are attracted to a women in the first place.
I am sorry it's part of creation, it's the men's nature you are playing with here. And "women" don't wear body revealing clothes. People who wear revealing clothes are not "women", they are something else
I can only speak for myself. I don't just dress for myself. Of course, I take care of my comfort but I always consider how other people will perceive me. If I would have just cared about my comfort I would go out in my boxer and vest. I don't look at myself in the mirror before going to the bathroom, but I look at myself in the mirror before going out. Because there are people when I go outside and I don't want to look bad. Moreover, the basic function of a mirror is to let us know how we are looked at by others. If comfort was the only criteria, people would go to a marriage in lungi and vest. Secondly, When people say, we dress to feel confident. We have to look deeper and see how a piece of fabric can enhance our confidence. The only probable reason is that we look good in the dress. But to whom? As far as I have seen people around me in society, they don't go around looking at themselves on the road or at a party. It is other people that we look at. And it is other people that look at us. Hence this confidence is derived from looking good in the eyes of others. Hence, these two arguments that we dress just for comfort and confidence are the purest of pure bullshit arguments in my opinion. My advice would be to run as fast as you can when you hear these two arguments because they will bring you down to their level of stupidity and defeat you with their expertise in stupidity.
This is true! How you dress says a lot about you! It's not only a matter of comfort. Ur dressing sense represents your class in society. It's about how others perceive you. If u wear something for attention it's not only opposite gender women can wear to gather attention from women too,the jealousy the gossips,etc,etc. HUMANS dress not just only for comfort but for attention too. Everyone likes to be praised for their dressing sense not just women.
Makes sense.... But what do you think makes her comfortable in a public setting, How she wants to be perceived in a public setting. Conditioning is something that you can question but why don't you understand a simple thing, clothing is to enhance how you look and at the end of the day, it is about exercising over your control.
Women in non revealing clothes are also harassed by men; just as a man can go out without his shirt so can women in less Strickt clothing especially during hot season; it just shows men’s lack of self control when assaulting a woman, and it’s easier for them to later on blame the woman for His actions using a pathetic excuse “oh she wore revealing clothes it must be her fault!” When it’s not it’s his fault. It’s simple as that.
I absolutely agree with the fact that its pathetic to lose control on being aroused or something. Not being able to control yourself is a sign of mental weakness. However, i am against this mentality that women can indulge in sexual signalling and shrug off any responsibility that comes with the same.
What does that mean? Aren't there biological reasons why men and women find certain thing attractive, are you implying what we find attractive is a social construct
@@erica8332 To an extent, yes. In times where food is scarce, people with more fat were seen as more attractieve, because it was a symbol of prosperity. Which is based on the biological desire to find a succesful mate. What is deemed a sign of prosperity changes with the times and culture.
@@erica8332 This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear. Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty. Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
Life is not just about comfort. We are social beings and attraction is the very part of the human nature. We humans are known to do things beyond anyone's imagination. We need frequent changes in our lifestyle to keep our mind psychology balanced. Fashion is all about changes. We can't just wear uniform like dresses in our entire life. We want to try new clothes that are different every time. These clothes might reveal some parts or might cover the parts completely. It depends on the latest fashion trend. Only thing we must aware of the laws and need not violate it.
Okay so attract afterall it's your life you can do whatever you want right 🙃 and when they gets attracted to you please do not complaint about it after that 🙄
Yep that would be called perversion like the men are doing it to show themselves but the women are like :no its my body i can do whatever with my body"then why the fuck are ya judging men for revealing their body?
@Munish dhaini it is your own problem for sexualizing women. Who are u to tell women to cover up. In ancient India, do u know that women in some states didn't cover up? Even in many tribal communities women don't cover up even today. Clothes are a human invention, and the concept of women should cover up was invented by men. As a man u don't have a right to say that. If u are saying that, u should also cover up from head to toe. Cover up your eyes and nose also, as some people may find it very provocative.
@Munish dhaini tits are secondary sexual area, penis and vagina are primary sexual area. Tits gives woman curves which is feminine and hence why women show curves to look more feminine.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear. Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty. Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
@@snehabhat4876 do you know that we jave good relations with britain even when we know they tortured us. Why? It has been 70 yrs people changed place changed context changed government changed. Similarly you cannot compare ancient india. Time factor changes every scenario
Mihika because the problem lies in us man, some of us need ethics more than education. I am into combat sports, there is nothing more Arousing then a beautiful mind.
Because he has a right to his opinion? He has intellectual capacity? He is part of humanity? You cannot guarantee there won't be bias in his opinions, but that is true for women as well. Yes if he was judging women, or rather anyone, that would be wrong. He was just giving an opinion and some advice, the way I see it. Whether one takes up his advice or not his his/her own choice. But everyone has a right to his own opinion, even if the opinion is downright trashy and makes no sense.
Okay I have just started watching this, but I'm reminded of something that I want to get off of my chest... So one day I was hanging out with my male best friend, and all of a sudden he told me that I should know the usage of dupattas(because I was not wearing one). Although I was wearing a full length kurti, that covered my whole body, revealing only my hands, feet, neck and my face... Somehow it offended or provoked him??! I was speechless... And still am... Since then he's only my male friend... And may be male but not a friend for being such stereotypes 🙏😑
I can't feel comfortable when I wear very tight clothes. That's why I wear loose clothes. Loose t-shirts with shorts n skirts. I wear clothes bcz I feel comfortable in that. That's it. No one has any rights or permission to say me anything about my comfort n personal choice.
Wat he says is gold...I don't have words. Thank you Acharya Ji. Yes flesh is flesh, blood is blood. It all about what provokes YOU!. So true that if legs provoke em today...then fingers and nose will provoke em tomorrow. Great respect for him. 🙏
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear. Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty. Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
In order to change something we should first bring changes in ourselves that's what I learnt from this video. Thank you Acharyaji 🙏I will try to implement upon these😊
I think it's more about the mentality rather than the material. Saying that a particular dress is provocative just corroborates the fact that every man is capable of becoming a rapist or sex offender if he is exposed.to the right provocative clothing. And that is a lot of rubbish. Truth is.that people are not taught patience, inhibition and accepting a refusal properly. And this goes for both men and women, neither are too good at accepting refusal. This all just comes down to poor self knowledge and self esteem. We need more education that helps us understand ourselves rather than discuss which clothes are right and which aren't.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear. Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty. Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place. Be honest. It's hard but their is no option. The trade is between a better life and the futile life.
Wearing short and revealing clothes has always been fashion for women. Fashion that men created when women weren’t allowed to design or work. When women did design fashion, they tried to make men’s clothing into women’s clothing. If you see a girl wearing shorts in the winter, it’s because the shop only has shorts for girls in the summer, because pants that stop at the knees are not fashionable at all. So the girls don’t care and just wear them. It has nothing to do with men, it has everything to do with looking nice and staying cool for the summer.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear. Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty. Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
@@chandrachudmishra2671 don't make our dharm like any other mazhab in our dharm their is never written in any texts that a woman should only wear a saree and our dharm is the most open dharm in the entire universe , we have the temples of khajurao an Kamasutra in which they include 63 types of sexualities , 8 types of marriages and 3 types of genders ,we have kamakhya Devi's temple and in ancient times Bengali women used to reveal their breasts because it is seem to be a sing of motherhood and feminity and not used to wear blouse and everyone used to accept that ....... We have accepted everything even sex too . And a person should only wear something in which he or she is comfortable , but not to please someone ........
Instead of sharing tiktok videos and other such app videos, if people start sharing these type of videos atleast some people can change their perspective, because look at the views of video
First of all this question will have relative answers, there is nothing absolute about the answers. It completely depends on the controlability of the person. Theoretically, what Acharya ji is saying is correct, but it is not the solution of the problem. No body can take guarantee about the safety of the women even if she clads fully. The nonsense part is we live in India and claim ourself of a culture where women should should wear full clothes. However, the movies and all sorts of recreations shows women to be attractive in short dresses, repeating this right from the childhood makes kind of an image where trade off between the Indian traditional culture and modern dressing seems to disturb. Also, women are insensible in a way that they try to generalise all mob of one kind, and expect same from all.
Is there any way to eliminate Indian cinemas(Big and Small screen) from the life of our kids. Most of the Indian creations are always been body-show up centric.
So I went to this temple recently and I saw sculptures of women scantily dressed in it. The temple Is 1000 Yr old and ur quote about Indian women dressed fully contradicts that. Rape and eve teasing r completely mens fault doesn't matter whether the girl was fully clothed r buck naked.
@@gyanroutray yes there is, i have not bought cable / dish service since 5 years ..... Only use internet on your tv with softwares to restrict access to inappropriate content for kids There is infinite amount of informational as well as time pass content on internet far better than cable service provides.
"nonsense part is we live in India" 😑😑 Do you even know the r@pè rate of developed countries compared to India ? R@pē rate = number of r@pës per 100,000 w0men India is at 1.25 while sweden is at 40 No developed country has lower r@pê rate than India. India is more safe than developed country on this earth. India has harshest laws for hàr@ssmènt of women so much it takes away rights of men.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear. Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty. Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
What he says is correct that we men have been conditioning ourselves and have perverted thought processing when it comes to womens body. For men who objectify women, women are nothing but objects of desire and the desires are different in different men and they tend to find the things in women which satisfies their pervy desires. And this kind of conditioning of the mind is not completely by birth, the society adds to it an insatiable thirst by making available lots of inputs through making certain aspects of women sexy, hot and certain things not. And it doesn't matter women is wearing short clothes, saaree, choodidaar etc, each man has a different conditioning of mind as to what is provocative and what is not. In the end what I want to say is this kind of conditioning of mind needs to stop and we need more ethics in our life than mindless entertainment. The schools and parents both need to instill morality in the children at a young age so that they don't see women just as an object rather as a person. If this happens every woman can wear whatever she wants to or is comfortable with. If this perverted conditioning of the mind isn't stopped then women will assaulted and raped by men who have succumbed to their desires no matter what women wear, fully covered, not covered doesn't matter.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear. Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty. Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
With due respect ,,yes Sadhus are nanga that's why we call them Sadhu with renunciation,,, question is are we on same thought when we are also trying to be less dressed...hope I have clarified..no judgement...there are Sadhis also who are nanga due to their spiritual journey,,my English may not be correct ,pls try to absorb the msg.
Madam they are shadhus who don't have connected with world .but we Madam are society living people we have shy fear too .they left every thing sanghaparithagye. This is reason.
@@FMCariappa u r mad. So according to you any woman who wears short dresses is begging for attention? You are same as the people who blame women for getting raped. When you were born u were also born naked, clothes are just human invention. Open your eyes and have a broad mind.
Women can wear what they want. Men who can't control themselves around women should stay inside. The simple fact that this needs to be explained is another reason why religion makes the world a worse place to live in.
Acceptance automatically comes to many after several years of normalizing indecency. However, I do believe that the purpose of wearing clothes is to cover our bodies as we are civilized beings. Wearing short clothes for both men and women is regressive of our evolution from primates and I guess that we, in terms of choices and logic, are heading towards becoming narcissistic and ignorant humans! Why do everyone say - It's his choice, her choice to do what pleases him/her? Why no one cares that how such decisions can affect society as a whole? Constitution grants us right to freedom of expression and liberty so that no section of this society or an individual is oppressed from expressing their healthy feelings or ideas. It's not about expressing whatever filth comes to their mind. Now due to this Western culture of wearing semi-naked attire (originated there after sexual revolution of 1960s before which Western culture was also very decent and sober), India has lost its cultural heritage and it's traditional values are rotten. Anyways, I don't condemn any individual for his/her choices because they are themselves pressurized to either become advanced and modern (or retarded in real terms?) or remain 'Behenji' kind of women. Now changes have already taken place in this society and holding such ideas can sabotage us from being a healthy party of this developed society (or stunted one?). Thus, it's alright for anyone to do anything unless it severely impedes any other individual's freedom ✓
Western people already accepted these shits.they make everything cool and people here's blindly follow.fact is nudity is offensive no matter who are doing it men or women
No need to decide what's right or what's wrong coz it truly depends on people's perspective and how they see it especially in this case. So, it's better to let them be as they are and not hurt and criticise them for what they wear(full or half, fancy or simple) even when it's not likable coz that particular person must be seeing it differently or in a optimistic manner. 💓✨🌟☘️❄️🍂☄️🍃💫
But what actually titilated the rapist? Was it the saree of a 35 yr old mother or the clothes of a 2-yr old baby girl? I think you should sit and talk about: HOW TO RAISE OUR BOYS BETTER!!!!!!!!!!
Please don't persuade Acharya Prashant's message as some kind of enforcement, it's for your own good, (for both genders). Are you not materializing yourself when you say "I want to wear this because it looks great on me" or, "I want to date her because she is the hottest one in our school". The whole point of this debate is to make both (men and women) understand that if you want to live a happy and contented life you should look beyond your body. Great people are known for their works, for their devotion, for their thoughts. Because they understood that they can enjoy that limitlessly.
Just like new rule at schools in Japan that girls aren't allowed to do ponytail hairstyle cz according to people exposing the back of your neck by doing ponytail hairstyle is a sexual attraction point lol
Definitely liberation..!!! She's got the right to wear what she wants... And if people think "titillation" then they've gotta change there mindset! -_-
In this age of nudity, the more you reveal the cheaper you are regarded, even if the world makes you feel you are liberated. Modest dress plays a key role in purification of the soul & deep inner contentment.
This shouldn't even be a question asked from a acharya. This shouldn't even be a question asked from a man. Women should ask themselves what she want to wear and what makes her comfortable and go wear that. Asking such kind of questions and getting in such kind of debates would prevent normalisation of personal choice. To make wearing any kind of clothes a choice stop discussing 'is it okay to wear short clothes in public' kind of debates and just let them wear people what they want.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear. Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty. Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
If you see a woman short dressed and a woman in fully covered (I don't know what to say that 😅) man will always pay attention to the woman in short dress And that attention woman want ... That's what it is all about,to be honest I have seen many girl feeling uncomfortable in short dresses but they just keep wearing them and you know for what ... Freedom freedom is just a bluff 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Those who texting that why a man telling about woman's dress are not they are the same counterpart of those who tells that women should not wear shorts? Both are primery concerned about just gender but they have no headache about truth isn't it?
You have no right to say anything about what a woman can and cannot wear. We have minds of our own and are perfectly capable of deciding these things for ourself.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear. Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty. Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
I have been listening to Prashant ji since 2-3 months, and i am already seeing the reason why certain men speak so bitterly about him..even making videos on youtube to render their point, in this regard. They are not able to stand , their male chauvinism being hurt. Also they are getting extremely insecure. I find all Prashant ji's videos till now quite logical, practical and unbiased ,regarding gender, caste, creed, religion, race, country , nature etc etc ..name anything.
We wear kind of dresses because those girls are wearing look so cool and also because of actresses do that so we feel by bearing that now I am modern and free, no one call bahanji type or underconfident girl that's the reason
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear. Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty. Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
I just have few questions- Before i want to specify Rape is purely and entirely the fault of the man,his family,his teacher and his culture nothing else. now, Women wearing short or sexy dress for showing her sexuality (isnt wrong) but IT IS A DISTRACTION..and if i somehow stare its not entirely my fault..i have been made biologically like this ..
I am a girl and a feminist one too. I absolutely think you are correct. Getting attracted is natural obviously. But the topic here is different. It's about judging a woman's character on the basis of how she dresses. It need not even go till rape . Oggling can be highly uncomfortable too. That must be stopped.
You are right. If a woman is immensely sexy then a guy can want to stare and that's biological. However as long as your stare is not perverted and you are not attacking her, it's fine.
@@Anushka-hn5uk but for men, we r taught not to look at women, and when they wear provocative clothing, to seek attention then if I look at them, I undergo a lot of mental agony, I'm a practicing celibate, and such provocative clothing calls for too much attention
I think its connected to Cultural values. In India there is a common trend to touch feet of respectful person/s. Can a woman with short clothing do it? Its not in the mind of men only, women also uncomfortable to follow her cultural values. Cultural values are identity of any society and human also, as people from other culture treat you according to your culture. In India there is a misconception that being moderate or progressive or democratic or giving respect to other cultures means to defame your own cultural values.
Oh, you want to talk about cultural values? Most boys from my college have left this "culture" to be part of of some other country's culture. Men have no problem following this culture right? Women can't wear shorts clothes and follow this culture but men can so why are they leaving? Go ahead and stop them. Can you?
Why don't we take clothes as for the purpose they meant for Today's society has joined the clothes with culture, dignity and all but i personally think that wear clothes according to season . Its for protection may be not from society but from weather and climate .
Dressing sense is the mirror of our personality, trends sign up where & how much body parts have shown or covered looking stylish or attractive, we ladies should take our charge to safety when we go outside. But rape is a mental disorder sometimes it occurs through circumstances.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear. Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty. Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place. Be honest. It's hard but their is no option. The trade is between a better life and the futile life.
आप बिल्कुल सही हैं। नकारात्मकता किसी के शरीर में नहीं है, लेकिन यह व्यक्ति के दिमाग में है। शिक्षक और माता-पिता द्वारा स्कूल और घर में इन आध्यात्मिक शिक्षाओं की आवश्यकता होती है।
I agree with what accharya jii said but being a fashion enthusiast I like to experiment with my clothing, it is my hobby I would say and in that process sometimes I might reveal few parts of my body. I don't wear it to attract men or to get attention from men. I wear it because I look good in that and I love myself in them.
That's not personal freedom. You know what personal freedom truly is? It's letting yourself go. It's not caring about what other people think and doing what you want, dressing how you want. Have you ever felt so happy that you wanted to sing or dance out in public? Did you do it? Letting yourself be who you truly are is personal freedom.
Ya and if I make myself nude in front of a girls group anywhere and starting mastrubating..then if anyone stops me by doing this then by your logic "problem exists in their mind not mine and teach them and make them aware not the other way round" wtf
These videos should be spread as much as possible because there will be numerous people who just need little bit clarity... even a single video or advice may save soneone from doing big mistake or help someone to put a right step...
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Men can wear whatever they want either it is revealing or not
But no one questions him
I've figured out the reason. Women who wear short dresses, wear it because
THEY *LIKE* TO WEAR IT.
So what
Not true
Finally, someone gets it.
Why they to wear it?
THANK YOU!!
Damn the comment section is progressive af. Are these really my county men?
Even I am shocked !
Nah most of them are oppressed women getting a window to speak/type there mind out
no they seem educated now.. u still seem to be a judgemenal jerk... :) demeaning your "own countrymen" is the the new trend...
Lol
I was think the same
arya kangod, yeah it makes me want to puke. everyone seems to argue the same things: "what about men, they can wear what they want!", "women wear short skirts because they LIKE it or because they WANT to", "they're not hurting anyone, so what's the problem?"... the dishonesty from the progressives is insane. they seem to be arguing that the sexualisation of women is a societal thing and not innate in us humans. the fact is, women have a duty to cloth themselves in a smart manner, and men have a duty to keep that rule, otherwise the moral fabric of society falls flat; you have no order or structure.
To anyone who says that wearing short dresses is the cause of rape, know that you're putting the blame on a woman. Why can't you ask, why would a man look at a woman the wrong way.
@Diwakar Reddy Seduction implies that she is consenting to sex. Not rape. And how come all men think everything is for them. A girl applying make-up? She is doing it for attention. Wearing heels, she is doing it for attention. Girls apparently can't enjoy things because they like those activities. Everything must be done to please men. That's our only aim in life. We do nothing but think what men want. We have no rich internal lives with interests or hobbies or even opinions. No siree our lives must revolve around men.
And if your bullshit excuse was true then women in burkhas, sarees, old women and young girls would not get raped. Rape is the fault of the men who do it. Clothes don't have anything to do with it. This kind of thinking is why women don't come forward with their allegations. Because you people always blame clothes, timings, maryada, sanskar and phones and all kinds of bullshit. You never blame the men who rape.
It's obvious you're saying that you will wear naked dress because it's your choice so similarly it's the choice of men whom to they will respect like sisters and whom to like them.
Whom you are to decide then?
If you're showing your private parts by dressing in an extremely lusty way then don't deserve respect from a person. You will be seen also as a lust product only and this is the result why rapes are increasing.
If yo have read biology you will know why men is attracted to women at first place and there is not wrong in watching a girl girls also watches boys whom they are attracted to
no but her body will attract me ill play with her and then leave
Strong dresses are cause of rapes but not short dress girls are victims.Only innocent and weak women are victim.Most of the time .
*Warning* :
These videos are not for narrow minded people.
How to change a narrow minded person into open minded person. Why is it that someone is narrow minded and someone is open minded??? And why the person is narrow minded??? If you can not answer these questions, then you are narrow minded too.
There's already some of them in the comments.... the so called "Feminazis"
Did you watch the entire video?
Try to understand his teaching he says that wearing clothes for any purpose is fine ,if you are comfortable then good ,if you are you feel confident then good ,if you like it to wearing then its good , but if you are wearing to provoke someone or just for getting attention then at that time please do not relate it with freedom or women empowerment because at that time you dont wear that for your satisfaction but for intensifying someone or for getiing attention and this is not spiritual and remember he is saying this for MEN AND WOMEN BOTH.
This makes sense
I don't understand the meaning of wearing thigh length skirts and showing thighs while sitting as confident or comfortable with it ... I might as well drive a big hole in my pants to keep my groins airy . Come on , I feel comfortable , right ?
Women empowerment does not equate to wearing short clothes . Certainly if they spend more time on enhancing their beauty which is only on the outside, there is very less chance of them doing something actually useful for the world ...
Yes , no one is forcing them to cover their entire body but there is a red line to be followed to avoid the rise of feminist bullies and more and more females getting inspired . And women who are aware their attractive body should make a conscious effort not to show it too much for the sake of feeling "confident" ..
If you feel confident by showing your body , what type of confidence is that anyways ...? Some women earn a decent salary and are confident because of that ...this is women empowerment and not the former one .
@@nirajpathak99 sahi kaha niraj bhai
@@mb59621 well said
@@mb59621 But who are you to decide which way a women should feel comfortable? You judging here saying that a woman who earns can feel confident because of her salary but a woman wearing a short skirt cannot ? Why ? And who are you to decide the so called "red line" anyway ? Let's say a woman is in entertainment industry she sings and she is making a music video and she wears some short clothes and she is upright confident in that and she earns more than enough money from that, now what would you say ? This all comes from the fucking mentality that men or society have a right to decide the line for women or that a woman's exposed body is equivalent to a bad character, please get over it and let us women live the way we want to🙏
When a man wearing short pant walks through the streets..
Is he being Teased or Harrased??????
If short clothes would have been the reason of teasing, he would have been teased for sure....
Nobody is teasing hairy legs Harry man
So true
Women are beautiful, more than men physically at least
Beauty is intimidating
Women showing skin are intimidating and uncomforting to people around,
The same is not with men
@@aniruddhadatta8098 😂
Yup... It's all in the mindset!
Why do people have to justify with comfort or weather conditions what they want to wear? If the said lady wants to wear skimpy clothes to satisfy her own need for attention isn’t that her prerogative? Why can’t we wear what we want and the other wear what they want and everyone carry on with their business? She’s not hurting anyone so why the need to hurt her?
Exactly. The true lesson to learn is how to mind your own business. If doing something is making someone happy without hurting somebody else, why shouldn't they do it?
I agree with you. But what if she decides to wear nothing at all in front of public and the young and old men start gawking. Do you still think that is her perogative. Would you be okay if your daughter or mother or sister one decide to not wear anything when they are outside? Would you want men to gawk at them. Would you want your father, brother, husband to stare at them? Because men have an inborn animal nature we should never forget.
"She's not hurting anyone so why the need to hurt her"
Wow
I was totally into ypur reply until that own need of attention part. When you wear skimpy clothes its not always to get attention. I personally love these clothes but I hate people staring. If someone thinks she wears for attention, then it kinda justifies eve teasing.
@@bahaar2825 what do you mean by men have an inborn animal nature. Both men and women are same species of homo sapiens and technically animals.
The fact is, even women wear short dress because of this animal instinct of attracting mates and that is also why men bulk up.
As a human being with this huge cerebral cortex, we are different than other animals and can't use our animal instinct to harm other humans. When women wear nothing because of animal instinct, they are not harming somebody and neither do men when they oogle at them due to animal instinct. But if they let their animal instinct to overcome them and harm that women, it's wrong.
While it's liberating for women to do what they want, whether it is healthy or not, or how much of it is healthy is debatable.
Just like our animal instinct to eat sweet things (sugar) might be both healthy and non healthy depending upon conditions but nobody has a right to stop me from eating sugar. Its an another matter that our society does not function like that. Somebody or else will come to you and say that don't eat sugar. Now while this is anti liberating, it may be a good advice.
Being a woman, I completely agree with his points. Freedom is wearing what you like and not prove someone something. Women wearing skimpy outfit in cold whether definitely try making some point irrespective how uncomfortable she is in that outfit. Basically she is not liberated which she think she is, she is doing for others attention.
And even such kind of women who think wearing skimpy outfit is sign of modern women often bully women who wear decent clothes. “ behenji, nerd”
They are no different.
You're so so true .... I'm a woman too...see I know we have the rights to dress but in today's generation girls do it to prove their Liberation.. moreover they seek attention they do say that they dress for themselves but they are actually not comfortable in it still they do it.... Wearing skirts till knee level is alright.. wearing tops is alright but why do they even reveal their cleavage... Does it looks beautiful? Sexualizing things are never beautiful
True
@@saraswatighosh5880 the intimate stuff should be respected I mean to both who is looking at and revealing at you are right men's also wear half sleeve tops and half pants so why not women there legs are also a leg like men there hands are also a hands like men but so the chest no right so covered it like a men if you are believe in equality I swear here in this point celebrities are failed mostly it's always women who wears a revealing clothes some time too much where the hell is the equality gone now I mean just because women have that body means they have to show off there body the complainant should be for fashion designer's they failed to bring the equality 🙄
A woman knows what she should wear, end of discussion.
You don't need to make a video on woman's clothing in 2020.
You go girl
Plausible deniability.
@BipashaWho are you to decide of what topics videos are to be made?
This is a mere academic-philosophical discussion and besides you can make one video from your point of view. Everyone has the freedom of speech, discussion , voicing their opinions and you can't dictate your thoughts by illogical and fallacious one-liner statements.
You are in a state of denial and cant even hear a good argument ...... so yeah for people like you its always the end of discussion....as soon as someone tells you something other than your opinion......may God bless you...god Allah jesus what ever sails your boat
Who are you to decide on what topic Guru ji should make video.
Its abt women and not men. So yes its liberation.
It's not about anyone.
Are you being sarcastic
She reacted even before listening.. duh
Learn evolutionary Biology GAYATRI. Have some patience for listening the video. Be mature girl.
Well,
It's a very tricky question to ask to a woman.
I was in love with someone and at some point of time he was my fiance.
But just because I always dress simple, he use to adore other women in shorts, and use to say how hot and sexy they are, and why can't I dress like them.
At some point of time it was very hurtful, and I tried to go out of my way to get his attention because he was important to me.
I tried and I failed because I just can't be comfortable in really short clothes.
And always listening him praising other women was heartbreaking as well.
Long story short, maybe to keep man around and not having them looking at other women... many women just do it once and then over and over again.
Otherwise there will be fights, insecurities, cheating, resentment and what not.
Otherwise breakup..just like it happened in my case.
So, it's not even a matter of discussion.
It's a matter of shame that no matter what we do, people and society just have negative remarks.
Wearing full, then simple, boring, behnji and no sense of fashion
If wearing less then .. inappropriate, too fasionable etc.
As per my understanding "JUST BE YOURSELF"
Your man is toxic, if that man truly loves you whether you put make up in your face or not, and if you dress in a modest way you will still be the most beautiful woman in his eyes, but if he keeps complementing other girls in front of you (in my opinion) that guy doesn't really love you the way you are and what you truly are... Observe him imagine if you're going to marry a man like that you will live your entire life with sadness and regrets. Always remember the you are beautiful just the way you are and you deserved a man that will love you just the way you are.
That stupid man doesn't deserve you. He was attracted to other girls becoz they wore short clothes? Wat the... That means he never fell for personality. He just wanted bodies and sex. Good that you left him.
And good lover will love you based on ur character, talent, personality..... Irrespective of the length of ur skirt. Long, short, or super short. Clothes dont reveal personality.
What kind of man was (maybe still is) he? If he cherished you truly, he wouldn't have any problem with how you dress and your aesthetic as a person. Good thing he's your ex now. You deserve better than this Queen!
What kind of man he was😂😂
Being a guy i can tell you, your fiance was a jerk. He was objectifying you.
There are 7 billion people, not all boys are same.
I hope you find a right person :)
That looking down on your character and looking up because of your qualities is very true. I noticed it several times in my life. It applies to both men and women but women are judged more harshly.
Yeah no sh!t sherlock .....
If a key opens all locks it's called master key
But if a lock opens with every key it's a loose lock
Men are judged harshly in every thing except maybe sèxu@lîty (depending on other person)
@@timserious7678 Exactly
@@timserious7678 true.
@@timserious7678 ohh ...I didn't know that ..tbh life is hard for everyone ....when you are a kid everything is fine ...but when you grow up ...u realize life sucks ..n u kn what sucks more .. before even doing anything women are judged ...that they can't do anything ..cant drive ..cant talk professionally . . Not smart enough....and u kn ...how the life of women is fabricated ..they have to look pretty ...their entire lives ...maybe in some good home NT by their parents ..but their friends relative ...even strangers ...if men aren't good looking they can have a job and get a eye candy wife ..but if women aren't pretty there lives are doomed . ..Good nothing ....so just fuck off ... everyone faces problems in their life .. and more problems are created for women ...by men ,society. We have more problems that were created just to tear us apart .
@@timserious7678 hmm ever heard women discussing men clothes
I would only speak for myself. wearing dresses and pants (short or long) I feel beautiful when I look at myself wearing them in the mirror. I know my beauty comes from within. but that doesn't mean that I don't want to look good for myself. I also feel confident and firm. wearing clothes that I like are one way of expressing myself and feeling all those things. one may say that there are others ways to feel so and express myself. but I say that here lies my freedom of choosing when I am choosing at what moment I'll choose which source or form to feel beautiful and confident.
If clothing was the cause.... little children. ....both boys and girls and even tiny babies are in the news as victims of rape and sexual molestation! Easiest to ignore facts!
My thoughts exactly
It is also the freedom of men to look at you when you're looking beautiful is it not? As long as you're not being physically molested or even publicly humiliated, you should understand that men like seeing sexy women and we don't need to be fucked up in our head to feel that way. It's basic biology.
I never complain about women wearing sexy clothes. It's only a delight to my eyes. But I just don't get it when women complain about men looking at them when they're looking sexy.
But I think there is a fine decency line for both genders. I try not to make the woman know I'm looking at her and I make sure she doesn't feel uncomfortable. And women should know for themselves when they're crossing a line with how short they can dress in a conservative country. A balance is ideal.
Absolutely.. I agree with you
@@zerotactix5739 try to control yourself rather than screaming on women for wearing short dress ... It would be more delightful and comfortable for uss!!! Thank you
Women in revealing dress is NONE OF ANYONE ELSE’S BUSINESS periodt
Yeah. Also ask why do women who wear traditional clothes and are called "behenji" and told as "repressed". Qualities inside the women matter.... Not her Saree.
Exactly
It's mostly other women calling those women behen ji so not only men but women too need to change their outlook
@@shoaibhaq8680 you who calls women gold diggers shouldn't even try to speak their narrow mind thinking....and yes! Its almost men who try to change women's appearance by either covering them up or revealing them
Lmao what era are you from cuz I've literally not seen anyone calling a girl or a woman bhenji for wearing ethnic or traditional lmao . Might be in 90s or something but idk About now
Uh huh not true. I have seen girls proudly wearing traditional clothes and they look beautiful. Never ever I heard one girl calling another bhenji for wearing traditional clothes.
It's all in the way we are raised up... actually it is always put in our minds right from the day we are born that females body is a sexualizing thing , but men can reveal their body whenever and wherever... so we grow up with this thought right from the start... even though with all our six senses we know both are the same skin and flesh. That has to be changed. If u think women's chest are something that distracts u , u r wrong and the way u think about it is wrong. It has it's shape and mens chest doesn't bcos it functions as a mammary gland in a female.. that is all .. u get ur strong enough from mother's milk to judge back the same .. u r not even fit to do that after u can still live strongly. Just think about some tribal people who are always nakef. Those sexualizing thoughts are not put into their minds. They are using their six senses properly than educated illiterates we see here
comparing tribes to us is very stupid of you, Archana. Morden human civilisation has grown very much differently, if you get a group of tribe to start living in Morden civilisation system, they will become like us too, it is what nature is.
Well said👏 very true
Totally agreed. But wouldn't I be called a pervert for looking at the mammary gland of a women?, it's still just skin and flesh tho. But I'm sure you yourself will know women can do it to men and get away with it. It's not about the tribal women being half naked, it's about the women here who would feel uncomfortable when men look at their cleavage but still wants to reveal it because they look good wearing something which does that. Looking good is going to get the attention, so trying to look attractive and expecting people to treat you ugly is totally bullshit.
Hey everything is valid u r giving examples of tribals being naked then see one thing.......in tribals a girl and a boy are all virgins till the time they are married....that's the first point.......strange thing na..?? Even naked everytime also......ya beacuse that's the part of their culture and heritage so their character is quite robost due to their culture and heritage .......their culture and heritage is respected most by the either man or woman u know....
Secondly in tribals their is no porn no seductive ads no seductive things via Bollywood or any other means which can arouse them.........
The main thing from these 2 points is that they have a dignified character and cultural values(all man and woman).......that's why even a naked woman is not a issues there.........and see here these are the 2 points which is stated above which are heavily violet in our society (nowadays) and secondly when anyone says to preserve culture and to sustain a dignified character .(man or woman..majorly man are not dignified character in today's but like mads woman are also catching up taking inspiration from bollywood so cheap)
so plzzz the two words which today's so called "modern" generations don't like and that is high valued character and secondly following culture and ya most important baning porn and other bollywodiya type stuff which materialises a female body....these are the things which led to a open society if followed these things correctly than theres no need on debating that what a woman wear or not wear at all.....
as in tribal society they don't have these problems which I stated just above so there no question arises their that what to wear and what not................
But in our society porn is common seductive things are common in very media no cultural values given to our children and with all this cocktail of problems....it's a very very meaningless thing that u give examples of woman being roaming naked in tribals or that they don't have any restrictions of what to wear................
And see the irony same people like u will oppose us when we talk about giving cultural education to childs banning porn and banning the seductive content in any kinda media....by saying "o you r a person of old thoughts".......I don't know how people understand............believe me character building in both girls and boys with cultural values is must if u wanna see a better society......otherwise no permanent solution is their.......
Well men don't go outside wearing bikini right. You can wear whatever u want but plz have some decency to wear civilised dresses. If u read biology then u know why men are attracted to a women in the first place.
Nothing is provocative. Men just can't keep it in your pants.
So then girl must also keep their cleavage and thighs under their clothes......showing none of them makes them more attractive...as simple as that....
Exactly
I am sorry it's part of creation, it's the men's nature you are playing with here. And "women" don't wear body revealing clothes. People who wear revealing clothes are not "women", they are something else
I can only speak for myself. I don't just dress for myself. Of course, I take care of my comfort but I always consider how other people will perceive me. If I would have just cared about my comfort I would go out in my boxer and vest. I don't look at myself in the mirror before going to the bathroom, but I look at myself in the mirror before going out. Because there are people when I go outside and I don't want to look bad. Moreover, the basic function of a mirror is to let us know how we are looked at by others. If comfort was the only criteria, people would go to a marriage in lungi and vest. Secondly, When people say, we dress to feel confident. We have to look deeper and see how a piece of fabric can enhance our confidence. The only probable reason is that we look good in the dress. But to whom? As far as I have seen people around me in society, they don't go around looking at themselves on the road or at a party. It is other people that we look at. And it is other people that look at us. Hence this confidence is derived from looking good in the eyes of others. Hence, these two arguments that we dress just for comfort and confidence are the purest of pure bullshit arguments in my opinion. My advice would be to run as fast as you can when you hear these two arguments because they will bring you down to their level of stupidity and defeat you with their expertise in stupidity.
This is true! How you dress says a lot about you! It's not only a matter of comfort. Ur dressing sense represents your class in society. It's about how others perceive you. If u wear something for attention it's not only opposite gender women can wear to gather attention from women too,the jealousy the gossips,etc,etc. HUMANS dress not just only for comfort but for attention too. Everyone likes to be praised for their dressing sense not just women.
Makes sense....
But what do you think makes her comfortable in a public setting,
How she wants to be perceived in a public setting.
Conditioning is something that you can question but why don't you understand a simple thing, clothing is to enhance how you look and at the end of the day, it is about exercising over your control.
Bro you’re so damn right 👏
It's for women to decide what she wants to wear, end of debate.
thank you!
Well you can't wear bikini inside a temple, or strippers cloth inside a temple, or school... it's quite questionable...
Hmmm a bikini for your sis......hey hey now plzzzz don't get offended ...I'm just saying in case she wanna bikini.....
Exactly...
Exactly. Thanks to people like u that the world still has a balance. ❤
Such answers only come from a place of deepest understanding... 🙏🏽
This answers from him just left me speechless thankyou sir for clarity
Women in non revealing clothes are also harassed by men; just as a man can go out without his shirt so can women in less Strickt clothing especially during hot season; it just shows men’s lack of self control when assaulting a woman, and it’s easier for them to later on blame the woman for His actions using a pathetic excuse “oh she wore revealing clothes it must be her fault!” When it’s not it’s his fault. It’s simple as that.
I absolutely agree with the fact that its pathetic to lose control on being aroused or something. Not being able to control yourself is a sign of mental weakness. However, i am against this mentality that women can indulge in sexual signalling and shrug off any responsibility that comes with the same.
There's nothing alluring in the human body other than what our conditioning dictates to us.
What does that mean? Aren't there biological reasons why men and women find certain thing attractive, are you implying what we find attractive is a social construct
@@erica8332 To an extent, yes. In times where food is scarce, people with more fat were seen as more attractieve, because it was a symbol of prosperity. Which is based on the biological desire to find a succesful mate. What is deemed a sign of prosperity changes with the times and culture.
@@erica8332 This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear.
Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty.
Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
It's not a societal construct, it's common sense. People will even decline science as an excuse to continue their crooked and stupid nature.
Life is not just about comfort. We are social beings and attraction is the very part of the human nature. We humans are known to do things beyond anyone's imagination. We need frequent changes in our lifestyle to keep our mind psychology balanced.
Fashion is all about changes. We can't just wear uniform like dresses in our entire life. We want to try new clothes that are different every time. These clothes might reveal some parts or might cover the parts completely. It depends on the latest fashion trend. Only thing we must aware of the laws and need not violate it.
men have been wearing the same type of cloths for decades.
@@Thepankaz1 I know right 😂
Okay so attract afterall it's your life you can do whatever you want right 🙃 and when they gets attracted to you please do not complaint about it after that 🙄
It’s surprising that in this day and age, fashion choices of women are still being questioned in such manner.
Thank you for your answers.
Yep that would be called perversion like the men are doing it to show themselves but the women are like :no its my body i can do whatever with my body"then why the fuck are ya judging men for revealing their body?
@Munish dhaini it is your own problem for sexualizing women. Who are u to tell women to cover up. In ancient India, do u know that women in some states didn't cover up? Even in many tribal communities women don't cover up even today. Clothes are a human invention, and the concept of women should cover up was invented by men. As a man u don't have a right to say that. If u are saying that, u should also cover up from head to toe. Cover up your eyes and nose also, as some people may find it very provocative.
@Munish dhaini tits are secondary sexual area, penis and vagina are primary sexual area. Tits gives woman curves which is feminine and hence why women show curves to look more feminine.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear.
Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty.
Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
@@snehabhat4876 do you know that we jave good relations with britain even when we know they tortured us. Why?
It has been 70 yrs people changed place changed context changed government changed.
Similarly you cannot compare ancient india. Time factor changes every scenario
Can someone please tell me why a man is talking about women's attires?
Why do women talk about men and how they should behave then?
Mihika because the problem lies in us man, some of us need ethics more than education.
I am into combat sports, there is nothing more Arousing then a beautiful mind.
I can tell you but, first I need to know if it is ok for you, if a human talks about a woman (female-human).
Because he has a right to his opinion? He has intellectual capacity? He is part of humanity?
You cannot guarantee there won't be bias in his opinions, but that is true for women as well. Yes if he was judging women, or rather anyone, that would be wrong. He was just giving an opinion and some advice, the way I see it. Whether one takes up his advice or not his his/her own choice. But everyone has a right to his own opinion, even if the opinion is downright trashy and makes no sense.
Mihika Deo because men think they should decide for women, because women don’t know anything 🤣
Okay I have just started watching this, but I'm reminded of something that I want to get off of my chest... So one day I was hanging out with my male best friend, and all of a sudden he told me that I should know the usage of dupattas(because I was not wearing one). Although I was wearing a full length kurti, that covered my whole body, revealing only my hands, feet, neck and my face... Somehow it offended or provoked him??! I was speechless... And still am... Since then he's only my male friend... And may be male but not a friend for being such stereotypes 🙏😑
Wow. Did you set him straight?
Hey. Maybe he wanted you to be safe from other predatory guys!
Tf 😑
So..... Wishing for your friends best is oppressive now? I feel bad for him... 😞
@@pinetree9030 I think It was his predatory eyes he wanted her to be safe from, first, by suggesting her a dupatta..
In short our intention is what matters 💕
💯
Then what's the need to cover our body.
I can't feel comfortable when I wear very tight clothes. That's why I wear loose clothes. Loose t-shirts with shorts n skirts. I wear clothes bcz I feel comfortable in that. That's it. No one has any rights or permission to say me anything about my comfort n personal choice.
Yes, it's a healthy choice what you are wearing. But there are women who wear mindlessly, on those girls, questions will be asked.
Dear girl's don't listen to anyone...wear whatever you find comfortable (and which you thinks beautiful)...
Wat he says is gold...I don't have words. Thank you Acharya Ji. Yes flesh is flesh, blood is blood. It all about what provokes YOU!. So true that if legs provoke em today...then fingers and nose will provoke em tomorrow.
Great respect for him. 🙏
Then you don't know how biology works I feel pity for you.
@@sampatkalyan3103Bro that is only the biology, biology is a gender will get any how attracted by another gender, no matter what they wear
It’s 2020 my brother. Women can wear whatever they want to wear.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear.
Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty.
Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
Loved the video. Feminists and liberals got triggered.
Why should men decide what women shouod wear in the first place?
In order to change something we should first bring changes in ourselves that's what I learnt from this video. Thank you Acharyaji 🙏I will try to implement upon these😊
Yo.. the woman's style of speaking is similar to Acharya.
I think it's more about the mentality rather than the material. Saying that a particular dress is provocative just corroborates the fact that every man is capable of becoming a rapist or sex offender if he is exposed.to the right provocative clothing. And that is a lot of rubbish. Truth is.that people are not taught patience, inhibition and accepting a refusal properly. And this goes for both men and women, neither are too good at accepting refusal. This all just comes down to poor self knowledge and self esteem. We need more education that helps us understand ourselves rather than discuss which clothes are right and which aren't.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear.
Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty.
Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place. Be honest. It's hard but their is no option. The trade is between a better life and the futile life.
Please,
Beauty and titillation both lie in the eye of the beholder.
So stop debating and let everyone wear whatever they want.
Wearing short and revealing clothes has always been fashion for women. Fashion that men created when women weren’t allowed to design or work. When women did design fashion, they tried to make men’s clothing into women’s clothing. If you see a girl wearing shorts in the winter, it’s because the shop only has shorts for girls in the summer, because pants that stop at the knees are not fashionable at all. So the girls don’t care and just wear them. It has nothing to do with men, it has everything to do with looking nice and staying cool for the summer.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear.
Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty.
Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
Say in clear words instead of beating around the bush : Girls like the attention they get , so hot pants are the only type of fashion that sells .
@@chandrachudmishra2671 for themselves
@@chandrachudmishra2671 don't make our dharm like any other mazhab in our dharm their is never written in any texts that a woman should only wear a saree and our dharm is the most open dharm in the entire universe , we have the temples of khajurao an Kamasutra in which they include 63 types of sexualities , 8 types of marriages and 3 types of genders ,we have kamakhya Devi's temple and in ancient times Bengali women used to reveal their breasts because it is seem to be a sing of motherhood and feminity and not used to wear blouse and everyone used to accept that ....... We have accepted everything even sex too . And a person should only wear something in which he or she is comfortable , but not to please someone ........
He got us in the first half not gonna lie... Phr waqt palat dia jazbaat palat dia Zindagi palat di oh bhaii 😭
Daymn so true
Instead of sharing tiktok videos and other such app videos, if people start sharing these type of videos atleast some people can change their perspective, because look at the views of video
Yeah🙏
Yeah so people can see how narrow minded the people are in India ?
First of all this question will have relative answers, there is nothing absolute about the answers. It completely depends on the controlability of the person. Theoretically, what Acharya ji is saying is correct, but it is not the solution of the problem. No body can take guarantee about the safety of the women even if she clads fully. The nonsense part is we live in India and claim ourself of a culture where women should should wear full clothes. However, the movies and all sorts of recreations shows women to be attractive in short dresses, repeating this right from the childhood makes kind of an image where trade off between the Indian traditional culture and modern dressing seems to disturb. Also, women are insensible in a way that they try to generalise all mob of one kind, and expect same from all.
Is there any way to eliminate Indian cinemas(Big and Small screen) from the life of our kids. Most of the Indian creations are always been body-show up centric.
So I went to this temple recently and I saw sculptures of women scantily dressed in it. The temple Is 1000 Yr old and ur quote about Indian women dressed fully contradicts that. Rape and eve teasing r completely mens fault doesn't matter whether the girl was fully clothed r buck naked.
@@gyanroutray Brilliant suggestion👏👏👏👏
@@gyanroutray yes there is, i have not bought cable / dish service since 5 years ..... Only use internet on your tv with softwares to restrict access to inappropriate content for kids
There is infinite amount of informational as well as time pass content on internet far better than cable service provides.
"nonsense part is we live in India" 😑😑
Do you even know the r@pè rate of developed countries compared to India ?
R@pē rate = number of r@pës per 100,000 w0men
India is at 1.25 while sweden is at 40
No developed country has lower r@pê rate than India.
India is more safe than developed country on this earth.
India has harshest laws for hàr@ssmènt of women so much it takes away rights of men.
One thing
Let women wear whatever they want. Traditional or western her body her choice
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear.
Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty.
Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
Acharya ji would be very proud to see how his followers here are positively influenced by his words🙂.
A flower no matter how beautiful it looks, no matter how many thorns it has it should not be plucked by anyone
There is little no reason for this to be in my recommended yet i still like it
What he says is correct that we men have been conditioning ourselves and have perverted thought processing when it comes to womens body. For men who objectify women, women are nothing but objects of desire and the desires are different in different men and they tend to find the things in women which satisfies their pervy desires. And this kind of conditioning of the mind is not completely by birth, the society adds to it an insatiable thirst by making available lots of inputs through making certain aspects of women sexy, hot and certain things not. And it doesn't matter women is wearing short clothes, saaree, choodidaar etc, each man has a different conditioning of mind as to what is provocative and what is not. In the end what I want to say is this kind of conditioning of mind needs to stop and we need more ethics in our life than mindless entertainment. The schools and parents both need to instill morality in the children at a young age so that they don't see women just as an object rather as a person. If this happens every woman can wear whatever she wants to or is comfortable with. If this perverted conditioning of the mind isn't stopped then women will assaulted and raped by men who have succumbed to their desires no matter what women wear, fully covered, not covered doesn't matter.
So called insta celebs need to watch this
I'm a girl n I wear shorts acc to my comfort n my needs.I never wear clothes to attract men's attention.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear.
Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty.
Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
I wish every men's thought wud hv same like u
When sadhus can be nanga, what's problem with women?
With due respect ,,yes Sadhus are nanga that's why we call them Sadhu with renunciation,,, question is are we on same thought when we are also trying to be less dressed...hope I have clarified..no judgement...there are Sadhis also who are nanga due to their spiritual journey,,my English may not be correct ,pls try to absorb the msg.
Madam they are shadhus who don't have connected with world .but we Madam are society living people we have shy fear too .they left every thing sanghaparithagye. This is reason.
Madam A men can go nanga but not women . women can't this world known Truth but u doesn't known it is funny madam.
We respect women madam .thank u madam. We don't want to see women in nanga.
@@FMCariappa u r mad. So according to you any woman who wears short dresses is begging for attention? You are same as the people who blame women for getting raped. When you were born u were also born naked, clothes are just human invention. Open your eyes and have a broad mind.
Things become more and more clear with every video I watch. Thanks a lot Acharya Ji.
Women can wear what they want. Men who can't control themselves around women should stay inside.
The simple fact that this needs to be explained is another reason why religion makes the world a worse place to live in.
Lack of spiritual knowledge makes you think too much about body.
I feel pretty wearing such clothes and so are the other women. Neither of us needs to explain why and the discussion ends here.
Acceptance automatically comes to many after several years of normalizing indecency.
However, I do believe that the purpose of wearing clothes is to cover our bodies as we are civilized beings.
Wearing short clothes for both men and women is regressive of our evolution from primates and I guess that we, in terms of choices and logic, are heading towards becoming narcissistic and ignorant humans!
Why do everyone say - It's his choice, her choice to do what pleases him/her?
Why no one cares that how such decisions can affect society as a whole?
Constitution grants us right to freedom of expression and liberty so that no section of this society or an individual is oppressed from expressing their healthy feelings or ideas. It's not about expressing whatever filth comes to their mind.
Now due to this Western culture of wearing semi-naked attire (originated there after sexual revolution of 1960s before which Western culture was also very decent and sober), India has lost its cultural heritage and it's traditional values are rotten.
Anyways, I don't condemn any individual for his/her choices because they are themselves pressurized to either become advanced and modern (or retarded in real terms?) or remain 'Behenji' kind of women.
Now changes have already taken place in this society and holding such ideas can sabotage us from being a healthy party of this developed society (or stunted one?).
Thus, it's alright for anyone to do anything unless it severely impedes any other individual's freedom ✓
Western people already accepted these shits.they make everything cool and people here's blindly follow.fact is nudity is offensive no matter who are doing it men or women
Harsh reality
They want personal choice but don't want responsibility of how to behave publicly.
Again an animal tendency that has become so normal.
Best described in least words.👍
True! People have stopped caring about the way to express them properly.
Vibha Verma or maybe you just won’t understand them with the new trend?
That is your perspective not others....in this kaliyug season, people are judged and criticized anyways whatever they wear.
No need to decide what's right or what's wrong coz it truly depends on people's perspective and how they see it especially in this case. So, it's better to let them be as they are and not hurt and criticise them for what they wear(full or half, fancy or simple) even when it's not likable coz that particular person must be seeing it differently or in a optimistic manner. 💓✨🌟☘️❄️🍂☄️🍃💫
Best answer is be like human not like animal 😉
WOMEN CAN WEAR WHATEVER THEY WANT.
AND PEOPLE CAN SAY WHATEVER THEY WANT(criticism included)
But what actually titilated the rapist? Was it the saree of a 35 yr old mother or the clothes of a 2-yr old baby girl? I think you should sit and talk about: HOW TO RAISE OUR BOYS BETTER!!!!!!!!!!
Please don't persuade Acharya Prashant's message as some kind of enforcement, it's for your own good, (for both genders). Are you not materializing yourself when you say "I want to wear this because it looks great on me" or, "I want to date her because she is the hottest one in our school". The whole point of this debate is to make both (men and women) understand that if you want to live a happy and contented life you should look beyond your body. Great people are known for their works, for their devotion, for their thoughts. Because they understood that they can enjoy that limitlessly.
I wear the clothes I want just because I love to see myself the way I want to.😊😊
Quite insightful answers.. Blessed to listen to a living guru in this era.
Just like new rule at schools in Japan that girls aren't allowed to do ponytail hairstyle cz according to people exposing the back of your neck by doing ponytail hairstyle is a sexual attraction point lol
Definitely liberation..!!! She's got the right to wear what she wants... And if people think "titillation" then they've gotta change there mindset! -_-
woman can wear whatever they want. period.
Dono taraf ki logo ki band baja dia...!!!
In this age of nudity, the more you reveal the cheaper you are regarded, even if the world makes you feel you are liberated.
Modest dress plays a key role in purification of the soul & deep inner contentment.
Yes Intention of Clothes matters most.
Bollywood actresses should watch this👆👌👌👍👍Love you Acharyaji
This shouldn't even be a question asked from a acharya. This shouldn't even be a question asked from a man. Women should ask themselves what she want to wear and what makes her comfortable and go wear that. Asking such kind of questions and getting in such kind of debates would prevent normalisation of personal choice. To make wearing any kind of clothes a choice stop discussing 'is it okay to wear short clothes in public' kind of debates and just let them wear people what they want.
Follow modesty and dress modestly whatever may be your intention . respect your body be it a man or a woman .
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear.
Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty.
Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
Let people wear whatever the feel like. If people look at them with disgusting or hateful thoughts then the problem lies with them. Simple
Its becoming light and light with every video I am watching. The knowledge of the right thing is so relieving in this hypocritical world.
If you see a woman short dressed and a woman in fully covered (I don't know what to say that 😅) man will always pay attention to the woman in short dress
And that attention woman want ...
That's what it is all about,to be honest I have seen many girl feeling uncomfortable in short dresses but they just keep wearing them and you know for what ...
Freedom freedom is just a bluff 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🙇🙇....Acharya ji, I have no word to express my immense gratitude towards you....
Those who texting that why a man telling about woman's dress are not they are the same counterpart of those who tells that women should not wear shorts? Both are primery concerned about just gender but they have no headache about truth isn't it?
For real there is so much wrong with this world, EVERYONE CAN WEAR WHATEVER THEY WANT, no man is better than any women and vice versa
Wear whatever you want to..but avoid it if you think that's weird or creates problem for you...
You have no right to say anything about what a woman can and cannot wear. We have minds of our own and are perfectly capable of deciding these things for ourself.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear.
Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty.
Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
Then y r u even here
I have been listening to Prashant ji since 2-3 months, and i am already seeing the reason why certain men speak so bitterly about him..even making videos on youtube to render their point, in this regard.
They are not able to stand , their male chauvinism being hurt. Also they are getting extremely insecure.
I find all Prashant ji's videos till now quite logical, practical and unbiased ,regarding gender, caste, creed, religion, race, country , nature etc etc ..name anything.
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Beautiful words. Trying to make women think about their actions too. 🙏
And you specifically chose to listen to that instead of listening to the whole thing. 😊.nice.
@@Balli942 he didn't say that
Absolutely insightful.
*ThankYou Acharya Ji* 🌻🙏
Just because you can do something, doesn't mean you should. It applies to everyone
What about the pleasure of one's own eye at the sight of the self?Should it not matter as well?
We wear kind of dresses because those girls are wearing look so cool and also because of actresses do that so we feel by bearing that now I am modern and free, no one call bahanji type or underconfident girl that's the reason
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear.
Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty.
Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place.
One should not be bothered by what others say. Otherwise a day will come when the things your wearing now will also be judged.
I just have few questions-
Before i want to specify Rape is purely and entirely the fault of the man,his family,his teacher and his culture nothing else.
now,
Women wearing short or sexy dress for showing her sexuality (isnt wrong) but IT IS A DISTRACTION..and if i somehow stare its not entirely my fault..i have been made biologically like this ..
I am a girl and a feminist one too. I absolutely think you are correct. Getting attracted is natural obviously. But the topic here is different. It's about judging a woman's character on the basis of how she dresses. It need not even go till rape . Oggling can be highly uncomfortable too. That must be stopped.
Don't call it a distraction. It's perfectly natural. Using the word distraction makes women an object.
That doesn't give one the right to harass
You are right. If a woman is immensely sexy then a guy can want to stare and that's biological. However as long as your stare is not perverted and you are not attacking her, it's fine.
@@Anushka-hn5uk but for men, we r taught not to look at women, and when they wear provocative clothing, to seek attention then if I look at them, I undergo a lot of mental agony, I'm a practicing celibate, and such provocative clothing calls for too much attention
I think its connected to Cultural values. In India there is a common trend to touch feet of respectful person/s. Can a woman with short clothing do it?
Its not in the mind of men only, women also uncomfortable to follow her cultural values.
Cultural values are identity of any society and human also, as people from other culture treat you according to your culture.
In India there is a misconception that being moderate or progressive or democratic or giving respect to other cultures means to defame your own cultural values.
True
Oh, you want to talk about cultural values?
Most boys from my college have left this "culture" to be part of of some other country's culture. Men have no problem following this culture right? Women can't wear shorts clothes and follow this culture but men can so why are they leaving? Go ahead and stop them. Can you?
Everyone should dress modestly...be a man or a woman...this is called civilised society
Animals live naked
Why don't we take clothes as for the purpose they meant for
Today's society has joined the clothes with culture, dignity and all but i personally think that wear clothes according to season . Its for protection may be not from society but from weather and climate .
Delight to watch the interview!
Rational remedies to all contemporary problems.
Every young man/woman must watch it.
Dressing sense is the mirror of our personality, trends sign up where & how much body parts have shown or covered looking stylish or attractive, we ladies should take our charge to safety when we go outside. But rape is a mental disorder sometimes it occurs through circumstances.
Mam, you might disagree but adult films do most of the part, influencing teenagers and changing there innocent mind into a misguided one.
Sometimes? Every fucking time, girl.
Rape happens because some people can't keep it in their pants.
You are absolutely right. Dressing is the reflection of our minds. Any beautiful thing need not be showcased.
This video then obviously is not for you my friend. It's for those who are seeking something more from life than just attracting opposite sex, attention, fame and what not. It's for those who want to rise above such superficiality. For understanding this video there is a prerequisite of being utmost honest with oneself. The scenario Acharya ji is describing applies for both sexes. It's just that females are more active than men in doing so. Look at the what we have done to this planet. It's cannot bear a single more child. Still people are so badly and seriously concerned about their futile lives that they don't really care about the coming baby. Where is he going to live, eat, drink? Will peace be available the way it was earlier before industrial development? Don't mind but you are being dishonest with yourself. That's all I can see. If you are not bored with these things of gaining attention and gossips and makeup and what not, then this video is not for you. This man won't care for how you feel. The basic requirement of utmost honesty has to be there to understand him. Else you are free. He is not criticizing women for wearing what they wear.
Also ask the question everytime you wear something that are you wearing it for physical comfort or for....you better what I mean. That's what you know seems normal because everyone around does the same. But if everyone around is drunkards doesn't mean you too should be. Use your discretion. That too requires honesty.
Final conclusion: This video is only for those who dare to be honest with the self. Who dare to question their way of living such depressed and fearful life of dependency. Who dare to transcend these superficialities for something really beautiful and satisfying. At last, nobody can run from themselves. You better know what your intentions are. If you are happy in them, be happy. If not, then you are at the right place. Be honest. It's hard but their is no option. The trade is between a better life and the futile life.
आप बिल्कुल सही हैं। नकारात्मकता किसी के शरीर में नहीं है, लेकिन यह व्यक्ति के दिमाग में है। शिक्षक और माता-पिता द्वारा स्कूल और घर में इन आध्यात्मिक शिक्षाओं की आवश्यकता होती है।
I agree with what accharya jii said but being a fashion enthusiast I like to experiment with my clothing, it is my hobby I would say and in that process sometimes I might reveal few parts of my body. I don't wear it to attract men or to get attention from men. I wear it because I look good in that and I love myself in them.
Your dress reveals your personality.... liberty has got higher meanings... exposing body is not personal freedom..
Thoughtful interview..
Exactly
Even men should cover up from head to toe if they ask women to do the same.
Can you please go and take a look at those convicted rapists?
What do their clothes say about their personality?
That's not personal freedom. You know what personal freedom truly is? It's letting yourself go. It's not caring about what other people think and doing what you want, dressing how you want.
Have you ever felt so happy that you wanted to sing or dance out in public? Did you do it? Letting yourself be who you truly are is personal freedom.
You're smart! 👍👍👍🙂
End of the story : Problems exist in MEN teach them and make them aware not the other way round!😉
Ya and if I make myself nude in front of a girls group anywhere and starting mastrubating..then if anyone stops me by doing this then by your logic "problem exists in their mind not mine and teach them and make them aware not the other way round" wtf
These videos should be spread as much as possible because there will be numerous people who just need little bit clarity... even a single video or advice may save soneone from doing big mistake or help someone to put a right step...
We all have responsibility to spread them. Share them as far as possible.
#absolute clarity!!!
I also have same Logics for this kind of humaby behavior...
Now I came to know that I am on right Track of life..!!!🙄🙄