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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2021
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Love seeing your face but didn’t understand a word you spoke. Please can you speak English! Love you
I know this vlog is in urdu and few of my UA-cam family don’t understand but I am sorry sometimes it’s hard for me to make vlog with Nafia because she work full time but in sha Allah I try my best to make vlog with Nafia so she can translate in English 😘
@@mamakamasala your English is amazing MashaAllah. We can understand you I promise. Or maybe if you speak in Pushto as most followers are Pashtoon! 😍😘 May Allah keep you smiling forever 😍
But Mama , you speak very good English, just a few sentences in your vlogs would help us English speakers feel included, we not asking for the whole vlog.
Glad you appear to be recovering from covid.x
@@angelajohnson226 aunty basically said try to keep the peace between family members by ignoring the bad/irritating/bickering behaviour and if that's not possible then to distance yourself from them. Keep your hello and goodbyes to a minimum so at least you have that contact but stay away if its affecting your mental health/well being when ever you do interact with toxic family members.
@@selinakiran6905 thanks so much🤲🏽
Assalam allaikum I am 100% with you on this. Removing toxic people from my life made my life so much lighter and happier. I felt I was drowing and could not breath and then I decided to remove toxic people. Did not fight, argue or exchanged any words, all I did was went silent and cut off, blocked their numbers, stopped taking their calls etc. Did whatever I could to stay away and trust me in the past 12 years or so I have been so much happy, healthy and life has been a blessing with my children. And these toxic people were very close family members who had nothing but bad intentions. It was not hard or difficult at all. All I had to do was make a decision and stick by it.
Mama, the way you have described how serious and dangerous depression is for someone is amazing. It is so rare to have members of the South Asian community to bring light to this huge problem, in our culture no one ever accepts how serious depression is. I have to thank you for pointing this out. Really, so so so important to remind everyone the truth about how deadly depression is.
You seem to hv lost weight Mama Sabiha! Stay healthy & strong ! The antidote to all evil is to stay away from extended family problems! Best advise ever. All evil emanates from insecurity, envious ness& jealousy ! Sensibility demands to maintain equilibrium in life
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Good advice mama. Teaching children to recognise jealousy from a young age is extremely important. So many do not even recognise it in themselves let alone their children. Advise children to quash it with ‘MashA. Or BarakA., and duas like ‘Almighty give you more and me too.’ Jealousy can ruin lives in more ways than we realise.
This really hit home for me thank you so much for sharing and talking to us about this. May Allah always keep you happy x
I really enjoy listening to you!!
Love how u share everything with so much honesty.
As always you spoke with so much wisdom may Allah give u a speedy recovery wishing u recover soonest inshAllah lots of love 💘
Jazakallah 😘
Mashallah very informative vlog thanks for sharing your wonderful experiences with us ❤️👍
U doing good masaallah keep it nafia is my favourite give my salaam to her x
Very helpful talk 100% agree with you. My duaas are always for every single muslim
Good to see u recovered.Stay blessed Mama!
well said mama ! rishte badalte rehte hain, spot on!
Excellent advice. I am so touched . 🙏
MashAllah what amazing advice you give... bless you- may Allah reward you for helping people with this advice xxx
Love you so much.Everything you say is so real and so revelant to what I've been living all these years.Im grateful for this video alhamdoullilah made me feel more at ease after listenning to you.Jazakallah for the video 🙏🏽
Good you are eating eggs they are really good for covid recovery!! I hope you are feeling better MashAllah you look great ❤️❤️❤️
Mama aapne apne mum and dad ko proud kiya
Look at how beautifully you raised your family. This is what your parents taught you and they bought you up MashaAllah perfectly 💞
You inspire me x
I understand the depression I am fighting it everyday and umeed hai one day it will leave me alone inshaAllah. I have 5 kids under age 12 so I understand what you mean
Millions of illnesses mai se depression is a silent killer and painful from the inside
ALLAH SHIFA DAI Aameen
Welcome back dear really good to see you Alhamdulilah may your health recover more soon. in sha Allah. ❤️💕❤️
Jazakallah meree jan
Thank you for another sit down talk vlog. I love these ❤️ hope you are feeling better Mama
Jazakallah ma jan
You are an amazing person😊 masha allah. May Allah give you good health and happiness.
Such a strong lady Masha'Allah ❤
Thankuuuuu mama u help us alot very nice conversation 👏very wisely u make us understand
Asalamualaikum I’m glad you and family are recovering may Allah bless you with shifa. Thank you for your wise words and being so honest in your talks, I really enjoy listening to you. It’s really sad that your sons had to go through a horrible experience in America, that was shocking but I’m glad they were okay.
Allah apko sehath aur emaan wali lambi zindagi de ameen
Beautiful Advice May Allah swt reward your efforts Ameen ❤
I always hate that seriously Sister will always take Brother side but not a Sister side it should must be equal, your story is a heart ❤️ touching! It’s everywhere situation like this outside of the Uk and 🇺🇸, 100% agree with you, this is why we need to appreciate Allah , just for land she will get no matter what but nephew love And nieces love never came back,Allah may give ever parents long and healthy life for themselves and for the kids
Stay happy and healthy mam ❤️
No one inthis whole whole world could have explained so well.... So dignified way.. So graceful way about... Siblings and Khandaan people n toxity.. Within them... No words.. Absolutely incredible said vedio ... No words..... I dint miss a second of this vedio.. That you so very much mamma.....get well soon mamma.. Our prayers always with you... Ur looking fresh in this vedio.. Get well soon... Mamma.. We love u very much.... How can we contact or write to u.. To discuss about our problems in daily life.... ....
Aslamo alykum mama jaan ap ko suna he 😊ap ki baaten mere dill me uttr gai he me kr ri thi struggle is topic k baare me .himmat mili he bht dill smaj a gai he Shukriya bht bht ye ap ka Ahsaan he muj pe mje direction mili he Jzaaak allah khair allah paak ap ko shifaa kaamila ajilaa ata kre ameen sumah ameen 🤲❤️
Ma Sha Allah nice video
Nice talking MashaAllah!👍
enjoyed listening every second of this video mashaALLAH wise words
Love you 😘
@@mamakamasala love u dear mama jaan
You are right love u so much♡🥰🥰and plz give us nafia house tour or atleast kitchen tour
Thank you Mam. You made me emotional but my head feels light now. I don't feel that much stress. Thank you for this vlog. Can you make more vlogs. Peace&Salam and much much love from Holland
Mama ap bhott samjdaar lady hi 🥰
Thank you must talking about this topic xx
Mama jaan❤️ you smashed it again! You are so well composed and I just love listening to your experiences in life, you are an amazing sister! Love you my jaan 😘❤️💕🧿
I’m your biggest fan mama! I wish you fulfill your dreams and have full happiness inshallah!♥️I love you mama🤍
Thank you for this video.
I do exactly like you do aunty and stay away from negative people do dua for them but keep distance
Saw happy to see you i thankgod that you ok God bless you and your family and keep well and Happy also bless you children and grandchildren Ameen
Mama Jan missed you love to see you back masha Allah ❤️ loads of love and duas 😊❤️
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@@mamakamasala ❤️❤️❤️
Lot's of dua for your family and you same problems we larn from you 💕🤲💕
Mama Jaan thank you for sharing your experience I have gone through this kind of problem. But listening to u make me fell so much better thank you 💕 May Allah SWT bless you and your family always Ameen stay safe.
As I am listening to you I must say you are spot on.
Ma sha Allah
Salaam Aunty jee! love you so much😘your a true diamond! now i’m going to continue to watch the full vlog 😘😘
WalykoMasalam awww 🥰 so sweet of you
She is so right misunderstanding coming from different family for example brother-in-law and sister-in-law it could be from any site then jealousy becomes no one see them self making mistakes!100/all right !Distin is the best solution
I do the same few toxic people in my life which i deleted completely from my life and trust me your heart is in peace than you sleep better you do better!! their lies are hurtful. May Allah keep us all safe from such people Ameen!!
Ma sha allah
U r great
I agree with you
Slms mama, I wish you spoke English too, I don't understand anything. I watch your channels because you remind me of my mother and grandmother good memories.:)
Aslm.... Alhamdulillah u r fine.... Stay blessed
True mamma
Ur smile is beautiful 🤩
Salam mama very beautiful topic thank you for sharing your experience love you mama 😘😘🤲🤲🤲
Thank you so much for the very very nice talking and you're very smart I want to listen to you every time because you talking very good
Very good video bless u always ameen
Sallam Ameen to all duas i was like this.. same as you very breathless but my 1st covid vaccination helped with my breathing and second i felt much better ive still not got my taste and smell since january but still not 100% but my duas for you always get well sweetheart love you all loads and loads xx
Mama nice to see you I was no idea what happened to u cuz I was nt well myself but I’m praying for u
Mama has just recovered from covid
Mamma please speak english or put subtitles. I really want to learn about this topic and others that you speak about as well
JazakAllah
Love you 💖💖💖
Nice kitchen you got
Can u plz translate we love watching ur vlogs but i have no idea whay ut taking about
I am sorry jan next vlog is in English and Urdu
nice topic
You are right Mama Jaan
I'm always isolated from my siblings and cousins, from them i have never felt the sensation of true family, only my friends treat me like family more than my own family
Very well said 😢
Allah sab maa baap ko lambi zindagi dein ameen r jinke naye unko jannat al fridus mein uncha makan dein ameen🇵🇰❤🇬🇧
Love you so mama its a pity there isn't subtitles in English. May Allah grant you Shifaa Inshallah. 🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽❤️
I am sorry jan 😘
@@mamakamasala it's okay mama shukran for reply
Aunty I didn't really understand
But Alhamdulilah i am so happy u look really well mashala much better
Came back from work and got so happy that you posted a long video !
Very good topic
Can’t wait for more advice videos mama love you 😍❤️
Mama ap ny to apni life khol k samny rakh de soch rhi hu yay na ho bad mai ap kyly vo logh msayle khary kr dy.....Best wishes ❤
Thats such a heart breaking thing to do, having fasted for a nephew and then having not let het nephews when the visited two extremes. I dont think I wouldve had any respect left if my aunt did that to us. But clearly you are all clean hearted people. Allah bless you and keep you safe.
Asalamoalykom hw r u mama u lost so much weight may Allah give u a quick recovery inshallah
Main Apne bachpan mein Dadi ke munh se suna tha lanjy di lanjy di lanjy di aur aaj aapke mo suna bahut achcha Laga bahut jyada achcha Laga
stay happy mama jaan hum h ap k sath. her bath share kiya karay love you. ........,💞
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Asalaamulakum Rahmatullia Barakatuhu
So so nice listening to you.stay blessed 🙌. Please remember me in your duas.x
💯 right 👍😊👍
💯 Mama ❤
I like yr vlog🇬🇧❤🇵🇰
Mama im currently going thru the same with my sister...wish i could speak with u
Love you mama ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Please take mutton yakhni it will help you with good recovery you are love mama jaan! ❤️
Food give you good health and energy
G jan but not feeling hungry 😪
No you want for a few days
Because your boady not use to it
True sad over little things happens and really hurts
True
❤❤❤❤❤ u momma
I think most of the viewers are Students like me, wishing them all the best with their exams ❤️❤️
Good luck with your exams too!!
That’s really sad mama your story make me cry now days everywhere same people got samll heart no love and respect for each others
Ma jan xx 😘
Good 🥰😘👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Salam mum Gee nice msg
Mama im confused, you said you were only daugther now you have a small sister xx
Mama Jaan my beautiful Jaan🥰🥰🥰
Qurban 😘
Slm Mama are you no longer posting any vlogs in English.
Momma plz don't 🙏apologise for ur short breathing as we thank you for making us videos while u still unwell so take as long as you like momma ❤💕💗
Mama app same marii dadii amma ki tarah hoo
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Mama jan i love u
I love you more
Salam sister ap ki sayat abi theek ny hoyi ap milk boil kar k thori haldi dall kar piya inshAllah ap theek ho gy gi
Paused at 35:48 to say that Allah swt works in mysterious ways this video was meant for me to watch thank you aunty I didn't know siblings can be hurtful because they are jealous. May Allah swt guide us all ameen
True that