@XIPM3 I don't think that you should do anything that you don't feel comfortable doing. If you think it will put you in an awkward position, there is no reason for you to approach the coffin (unless it is someone close to you & you would like to pay last respects). I've served & sang at plenty funerals, and some people just pass by & look for a few seconds (possibly mentally saying goodbye) or maybe touch the hand. If you are not uncomfortable, you can kiss the hand.
@XIPM3 I don't think that you should do anything that you don't feel comfortable doing. If you think it will put you in an awkward position, there is no reason for you to approach the coffin (unless it is someone close to you & you would like to pay last respects). I've served & sang at plenty funerals, and some people just pass by & look for a few seconds (possibly mentally saying goodbye) or maybe touch the hand. If you are not uncomfortable, you can kiss the hand.
I d not think you should have recorded it, it is disrespectful to the departed person!!!