Welcome to the dating scene | BeerSos #59

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  • Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
  • Hey guys, Nico & Derek here! On today's episode of BeerSos, Nico takes on the role of dating coach as a rusty Derek re-enters the dating scene.
    We hope you enjoy it!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 138

  • @charlotteileana
    @charlotteileana 9 місяців тому +304

    all i’m taking from this episode is that derek has a touch of the tism

    • @katyelda
      @katyelda 9 місяців тому +39

      as someone who is autistic and has the autism version of gaydar i agree

    • @reneko.
      @reneko. Місяць тому +1

      yk some ppl are just like that and don’t have autism..

  • @Renaissance_Guy
    @Renaissance_Guy 9 місяців тому +269

    One day they'll realize they are each other's soulmates.

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому +34

      One day 🙏🙏

    • @dbradford259
      @dbradford259 8 місяців тому +7

      Dudes can be best friends and love each other and not be gay...

    • @olliemann7074
      @olliemann7074 Місяць тому +2

      @@dbradford259soulmates dont gotta be gay yktv

    • @dbradford259
      @dbradford259 Місяць тому

      @@olliemann7074 That's what I just said.

    • @olliemann7074
      @olliemann7074 Місяць тому

      @@dbradford259 i wasnt saying it in a correcting way, more just like an agreement way

  • @Swrtheart
    @Swrtheart 9 місяців тому +244

    Nico lowkey ate down with being a dating coach

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому +31

      Coaches don’t play u feel me 😩

  • @ON-zr9rn
    @ON-zr9rn 3 місяці тому +29

    this conversation was not as dumb as i thought it would be and i mean it as a compliment

  • @bloodevoir4575
    @bloodevoir4575 9 місяців тому +187

    You guys are my new unhealthy obsession and I don't know how to stop binge watching all of your content

  • @janinek5258
    @janinek5258 9 місяців тому +38

    I like how honest Nico was about the dating scene. He didnt paint it as all positive or negative. Not everyone is the same, so it's hard to give general advice! He did a great job of explaining that concept throughout. Thanks dude

  • @miskeenamina
    @miskeenamina 9 місяців тому +83

    dereks thing about hating texting is my same exact issue. the issue is people start to believe that you feel some type of way bout them when you aren't responding or keeping a convo open over text when i just genuinely hate it.

  • @giraffecakepop
    @giraffecakepop 9 місяців тому +32

    the laughing cutting in and out is so funny

  • @zoepark3163
    @zoepark3163 5 місяців тому +15

    nico would make a great therapist i think!! and watching this from the future where derek has a gf makes this episode even better

  • @craigtrish2011
    @craigtrish2011 9 місяців тому +48

    I'm newly obsessed with you guys and I can't believe there are only 9 episodes! can't wait to see more, you've become my comfort podcast. As a gay guy, it's insanely refreshing to see 2 straight guys be so open, transparent and safe.

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому +6

      Yoooo that’s so great to hear thank you!!! Very glad you are enjoying the episodes and thank you for watching 🙏🙌

  • @junkaeuru
    @junkaeuru 9 місяців тому +23

    Nico actually ate so much with his dating advice. Derek rlly needs that help😭

  • @asalane20
    @asalane20 2 місяці тому +4

    I love how much Nico talks with this hands. Also, he is really insightful.

  • @julianatsai1295
    @julianatsai1295 9 місяців тому +40

    It’s been a long time since I haven’t seen good content on UA-cam, glad I found these silly boys

  • @coffeegq2527
    @coffeegq2527 9 місяців тому +24

    I couldn't stop laughing during the roleplay lmao, loved this episode

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому +2

      Roleplay went to some insane places LOOOL

  • @yifei2619
    @yifei2619 9 місяців тому +29

    listening to this while i’m taking my morning poopoo

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому +11

      Responding to this while I’m taking my morning poopoo

  • @macgarcia01
    @macgarcia01 9 місяців тому +18

    i’m gay but idk why i think i would have the literal best conversations with ya’ll. literally spent abt 10 hours listening to straight boys talk wtf

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому +4

      10 hours is a crazy beersos Marathon respect 🫡🫡

    • @runningdude212
      @runningdude212 8 місяців тому +2

      They're so real and chill and don't get weirded out by any topic. They're definitely real allies!!

  • @Itskenny-
    @Itskenny- 9 місяців тому +14

    This is my favorite podcast. The room gives such chill vibes and you two really just vibing is awesome. I feel like I’m hanging with best friends and you guys are so funny

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому

      Thank you so much!!!! Super glad you enjoying the podcast thank you for watching 🙏🙏

  • @JessLavoie
    @JessLavoie 7 місяців тому +4

    I’m binge watching because I love how relatable y’all are. I’m convinced I will be single forever. I’m wouldn’t say I’m even in the dating scene but I honestly thought a good date was sitting in a park, somewhere quiet and talking. Now I find out you can’t even have normal out of pocket conversations. How are other girls even getting dates😭

  • @evmmorales4764
    @evmmorales4764 8 місяців тому +6

    All I’m taking from this is that Nico is such dating material, he’s a complete green flag

  • @Picklelauren123
    @Picklelauren123 9 місяців тому +13

    This podcast is genuinely the most accurate representation of the inside of my brain

  • @shaumyamaurya4766
    @shaumyamaurya4766 9 місяців тому +10

    nico COOKED in this episode .

  • @Orangesauce3874
    @Orangesauce3874 9 місяців тому +8

    Y’all give comforting older cousin vibes

  • @markivedits
    @markivedits 6 місяців тому +4

    this is so introspective on how guys think about dating LMAO

  • @Nikirose7
    @Nikirose7 9 місяців тому +8

    The repeated sniffing of the salts omg-

  • @ihmc_4067
    @ihmc_4067 9 місяців тому +7

    I’ve never been so exited to see a new podcast episode before , y’all making my 2:30 am the best after a long day thx🫡🫶🏽🌹

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому +1

      LOOLL YAYYY very happy we were able to clutch for you

  • @katyelda
    @katyelda 9 місяців тому +8

    literally the only podcast i will watch/listen to

  • @jacob-cj7kw
    @jacob-cj7kw 6 місяців тому +5

    “but if i got asked that, it’d just be my dad for three seasons” felt that 😭😭😭

  • @mooraga4314
    @mooraga4314 9 місяців тому +7

    as a girl who is not on the dating scene this was an interesting listen
    trust me though derek, I relate to your texting thing, and I'm sure there are girls out there who will be understanding
    and girls who don't care about height/looks
    y'alls personalities are fun and definitely very silly a girl who appreciates that is the only girl you'd want to be around
    I think my advice would be a quote from marcus aurelius ;) “Whenever you are about to find fault with someone, ask yourself the following question: What fault of mine most nearly resembles the one I am about to criticize?”
    meaning sometunes there are things about others that bother us but when you think about your "undesirable" traits you realize some things are worth looking past and taking a chance

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому +2

      JEEEEEZ You just cooked so hard W ADVICE

  • @OkRico
    @OkRico 9 місяців тому +8

    Derek has a new addiction (smelling salts) other than Fortnite 😂

  • @mya6506
    @mya6506 7 місяців тому +2

    we need a part two dating advice from nico

  • @klairodactyl
    @klairodactyl 12 днів тому

    they should do this again but derek is the dating coach for nico lol

  • @dween3359
    @dween3359 7 місяців тому +1

    I feel Derek on so many levels. You guys are so lucky you have each other, this is really wholesome. Sending virtual hugs 🫂

  • @cammstuhl
    @cammstuhl 9 місяців тому +5

    24:22 not neither of u noticing that he skipped October💀

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому +2

      This is why u don’t drop out of school 😭

  • @maria_isabella
    @maria_isabella 8 місяців тому +2

    nico ate with his advice

  • @izzyyy4513
    @izzyyy4513 9 місяців тому +3

    Had to pause my other video for thissss, I love these podcasts

  • @audreybrown5536
    @audreybrown5536 4 місяці тому

    I love going on dates and am finding it really funny that Derek and I have so many similar values/boundaries 💀

  • @camillehopkins8260
    @camillehopkins8260 8 місяців тому +3

    Nico you did so good in coaching how are you single 😭

  • @soek4263
    @soek4263 9 місяців тому +6

    I can't believe I finished an hour-long vid on youtube, I haven't done that since 2015

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому

      THE STREAK HAS ENDED

    • @soek4263
      @soek4263 9 місяців тому

      @@beersospodcast freeing experience rlly

  • @madamegorgonzola
    @madamegorgonzola 9 місяців тому +6

    yo ive never wanted to be friends with 2 straight guys more than now

  • @hailey3088
    @hailey3088 9 місяців тому +3

    i havent enjoyed watching long utube videos in this long 😭

  • @MarteMalm
    @MarteMalm 8 місяців тому +2

    I wasn't even aware Toys'R us still existed in other countries like itvwas taken from mine abt 10 years ago

  • @gingiepop
    @gingiepop 9 місяців тому +3

    I was cracking up so hard during Amelia spread on a flight 😭 people were staring at me

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому

      LOOOO people on the flight thought u were weird 😭😭

    • @7sahez
      @7sahez 9 місяців тому

      SAME WTF 😭😭😭

  • @OkRico
    @OkRico 9 місяців тому +3

    Amelia open / spread is crazy😂

  • @Swrtheart
    @Swrtheart 9 місяців тому +7

    Burger King foot lettuce

  • @autumn79156
    @autumn79156 9 місяців тому

    “I uh ran into traffic” “OH-“ 😀😭

  • @aacruz73728
    @aacruz73728 9 місяців тому +3

    ok new favorite podcast

  • @Swrtheart
    @Swrtheart 9 місяців тому +3

    I literally woke up to watch this 😭

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому

      BeerSos equivalent to that morning coffee

  • @girlzmenu
    @girlzmenu 9 місяців тому +3

    i wanna hang out with yall so bad LMFAO i'd probably get a mild headache but it'd be fun

  • @llamapoopy
    @llamapoopy Місяць тому +2

    Not the “Allah-mas” bro I’m dying 😭😭💀💀💀 Arab Christians exist but the celebrations are kinda different, and Islam has Jesus (he was a prophet)

  • @icra1544
    @icra1544 5 місяців тому

    First time watching a full podcast from these guys and I liked it. (Nico I really like the way you think)

  • @metamorph2_09
    @metamorph2_09 7 місяців тому

    I've been binge watching your podcast lately and u guys reminds me so much of a male version of my closest friend and I it's crazy

  • @sandyonpape
    @sandyonpape 7 місяців тому +3

    On the 1st date: I think if the guy asks her out and choses the place to eat then he should pay. If the girl choses/suggests a place then it should be dutch #datingetiquette

  • @Swrtheart
    @Swrtheart 9 місяців тому +3

    YAYYYYY NEW PODCAST 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @kencroissantt
    @kencroissantt 9 місяців тому +5

    40:16 y’all should do a mukbang vid!

  • @SCAAARRYYYY
    @SCAAARRYYYY 9 місяців тому +3

    bath salts on the youtube vid is crazy…especially after the last vids comments were turned off 😭

  • @SCAAARRYYYY
    @SCAAARRYYYY 9 місяців тому +4

    seeing the tiktok post and running to youtube

  • @itsloki9426
    @itsloki9426 9 місяців тому +1

    my new favourite podcast, love your content : )

  • @chloecatz
    @chloecatz 9 місяців тому

    omg i’m the same as derek… nico ate with the dating advice
    new fan!!

  • @izzyyy4513
    @izzyyy4513 9 місяців тому +1

    Amelia spread is crazy-

  • @TimDFSmart
    @TimDFSmart 9 місяців тому +10

    Oh so its basically poppers but for straight people. 😅

  • @supernowna5451
    @supernowna5451 9 місяців тому

    Istg it's sooo difficult to find someone with the same values. Dating is ROUGH fr, it's only fun when you get to tell the awful stories to your friends lmao

  • @restkitty
    @restkitty 9 місяців тому +1

    I LOVE YOU GUYSS!!

  • @jackie-dn1dj
    @jackie-dn1dj 9 місяців тому +1

    we need to find the metrotown winners cashier asap

  • @torwerner
    @torwerner 19 днів тому

    28:35 yo derek chill👀

  • @roblatham6265
    @roblatham6265 7 місяців тому

    57:19 to 58:30 makes me fall down laughing every time.

  • @m.clara__17
    @m.clara__17 8 місяців тому +1

    i just feel im in a conversation with my friends

  • @seungminisamaterialgirl1420
    @seungminisamaterialgirl1420 9 місяців тому

    This whole episode was just TMI

  • @faby8763
    @faby8763 9 місяців тому

    wow this made me realize I’m not the one for the dating life 😐🙌

  • @Swrtheart
    @Swrtheart 9 місяців тому +4

    False alarm guys Derek isn’t gay😛

  • @Sky.26
    @Sky.26 5 місяців тому

    57:57 Ahhhhh beer sos is my FAVORITE podcast

    • @maellevlt1437
      @maellevlt1437 4 місяці тому +1

      Some people don't feel the need to go on date and that's totally okay ! going on date is only a way to provoke your chances to find someone but I think that going with the flow is good too, just do what's natural for you !

  • @derekzhu7116
    @derekzhu7116 9 місяців тому +1

    U guys are the best

  • @lumii3252
    @lumii3252 6 місяців тому

    well it seems as the advice worked! sending my best wishes to derek and his new girlfriend

    • @zaboselma8826
      @zaboselma8826 5 місяців тому

      idk i feel like nico is just more selective

  • @capyparis
    @capyparis 9 місяців тому

    just randomly came across this video and it was surprisingly entertaining looking forward to more videos 😭😭

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому

      Thank youuuu so much!!!! 🙏🙏🫶

  • @bookzt
    @bookzt 9 місяців тому

    for chrizmas i got tofu

  • @amariclarke5541
    @amariclarke5541 9 місяців тому

    did anyone else notice that nico forgot to count october?

  • @3.1444
    @3.1444 9 місяців тому +1

    Aww how long have you two been married?

  • @mksuzanne98
    @mksuzanne98 Місяць тому

    bro 7 months at 22 isnt shit, enjoy your life!

  • @ribbon508
    @ribbon508 9 місяців тому

    ASIDE FROM BEERSOS A PODCAST UH ER

  • @elianna114
    @elianna114 9 місяців тому

    BEERSOS!!!

  • @kaislay
    @kaislay 9 місяців тому

    No but your guys chemistry is alpha ultimate rizz level 10 gyat alphagen gen z kai cenat only in ohio and I LOVE IT❗️❗️

  • @myramakaripe
    @myramakaripe Місяць тому

    Nico just confess atp

  • @ribbon508
    @ribbon508 9 місяців тому

    Hahahahaha it’s funny and oh so confusing when either of yu spell things

  • @bookzt
    @bookzt 9 місяців тому

    derek need not rizz me up for us to be wedded.

  • @colleenmaclauchlan3651
    @colleenmaclauchlan3651 6 місяців тому +1

    No offense but I think Pete Davison is packing 😅❤

  • @Mikazuki_augus544
    @Mikazuki_augus544 7 місяців тому

    A question....why does the intro have (I'm PRESUMING) thai subs?

  • @heynostop689
    @heynostop689 9 місяців тому +3

    future me is it good?

    • @heynostop689
      @heynostop689 9 місяців тому +3

      yeah its fire 🤑🤑⁉️⁉️⁉️🗣🗣🔥🔥😵‍💫😵‍💫🤑🤑

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому +1

      Yooooo lets gooooo

  • @betasail3183
    @betasail3183 6 місяців тому

    I’m listening to y’all while playing Fortnite 😭 what’s wrong with it??!

  • @ribbon508
    @ribbon508 9 місяців тому

    Hahahhahaha awe hell

  • @zoegomez5326
    @zoegomez5326 9 місяців тому

    Wtf I thought those were poppers 😔😔

  • @elianna114
    @elianna114 9 місяців тому

    do u play fortnite

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  9 місяців тому +2

      nahhhhhhhhh fortnite is bad...... we dont play it......... (we do)

  • @Mikazuki_augus544
    @Mikazuki_augus544 7 місяців тому

    why ya'll gatekeeping this Toy R us story!!🥲Legit edging!

  • @fvckoff04
    @fvckoff04 9 місяців тому +8

    this episode was so funny and also very teaching to someone getting back in the dating scene