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  • @BudgetTreasures
    @BudgetTreasures  2 місяці тому +349

    If I am being honest...This upload gives me high anxiety...Whew...It reminds me that my new normal is real and this is causing me to have a great deal of vulnerability! Thank you for this safe space 💜🩷

    • @barbaratate5831
      @barbaratate5831 2 місяці тому +7

      Hi, bestie, so sorry to hear your bad news. Keep your head up and believe in yourself and let go and let God. You are good enough! It's time for something better because you've served your purpose for the time that you were needed there. Continue to be great and keep these helpful videos coming. Thank you for being you!

    • @sharonc3439
      @sharonc3439 2 місяці тому +4

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @AligningHer
      @AligningHer 2 місяці тому +4

      Prayers and blessings. Thankfully you listened to Gods instructions a year ago! He’s able! He’s Jehovah Jireh!! Standing with you in prayer.
      Consider getting your PMP!

    • @lin90210
      @lin90210 2 місяці тому +4

      Awww sorry to hear that. I know its easier said than done but please don't worry. One door closes another opens up. Things happen for a reason xx

    • @niashap
      @niashap 2 місяці тому +3

      God will provide and guide!!! May his peace guard your heart and mind!

  • @rdking0889
    @rdking0889 2 місяці тому +473

    I went through this last year. I was told in February that I would be unemployed effective 10/31. I showed up everyday, trained my replacement in the country they were moving too without withholding information, encouraged others who was taking it hard and most importantly stayed in my word. I was offered a job 3 weeks before my end date and started that job 2 weeks after 10/31. What most would have thought was a horrible transition turned out to be my biggest blessing. I was able to get my Severance, roll my 401K and get paid out on all my unusued PTO. When I say it was my biggest blessing. I thank God to this day for it all.

    • @akatsthought
      @akatsthought 2 місяці тому +11

      But God!!! ↪️🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @MayaONeil23
      @MayaONeil23 2 місяці тому +6

      That is truly faith.

    • @fdoctor79
      @fdoctor79 2 місяці тому +10

      Wow, sometimes the pink slip can be a blessing! 🙌🏽

    • @littlebear3879
      @littlebear3879 2 місяці тому +1

      I’m U.K. based in London, I love getting redundancy money. I normally go out temping after until I find a new permanent job. I focus on getting my new temp job as soon as I find out I’m being made redundant and absolutely would not train anyone up. No company deserves my time if being made redundant. Perhaps that’s a U.K. grace, but as soon as we know we get to pack up my stuff and leave the same day.

    • @BB-gd7ez
      @BB-gd7ez 2 місяці тому +1

  • @TimaYT362
    @TimaYT362 2 місяці тому +219

    I’ve been a silent viewer but I have to say your strength and resilience shines through!! Your faith is so amazing 🙏🏼

  • @allisonrodriguez13
    @allisonrodriguez13 2 місяці тому +180

    I went through a layoff several years ago. I was devastated. But one week later, I was hired by a different company, doing practically the same work, making $6 more. Things happen for a reason. Keep positive ❤️

    • @BudgetTreasures
      @BudgetTreasures  2 місяці тому +3

      They sure do! Thank you for your encouragement 🩷

  • @bribre085
    @bribre085 2 місяці тому +62

    I got laid off in May and my husband lost his job in June. When I tell you I felt all that you are feeling but I will tell you this. God will make a way out of no way! I made a choice to give my life to Him. He’s our provider and He provides the resources. Our jobs were just that…resources. He knows what we need and He will provide it. He has blown my mind and I can say that I’m fully reliant on Him. I was mentally stressed at work and He gave me time to rest. I’m not sure where I will end up but His plans are far better than mine. Trust in Him and tell Him you’re weary. He will step in! I’m a witness! ❤

    • @BudgetTreasures
      @BudgetTreasures  2 місяці тому +5

      Wow Bestie!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!! Your testimony is helping me so much! I totally agree that our jobs are just that and that our resource is from Jesus Christ. We are His children. We are His workmanship and He said that He will never leave us and He will never forsake us and I believe Him. I am praying for you and your family, that He will give you just what you want and need. I also thank Him for giving you rest and peace in this season. There's nothing like peace and rest!

  • @amyfletcher4749
    @amyfletcher4749 2 місяці тому +122

    When one door closes another one opens. Find that door girl!! You got this.🎉

  • @frankie9202
    @frankie9202 2 місяці тому +111

    You were here for me when I was laid off in February, so just know that I’m here for you girl! You got this. God never puts you in situations you can’t handle.

    • @cbstore6779
      @cbstore6779 2 місяці тому +7

      Amen 🙏

    • @BudgetTreasures
      @BudgetTreasures  2 місяці тому

      Awee. Thank you so much! Let goooo

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 Місяць тому +1

      Amen . Faith is definitely needed when being laid off in this economy .

  • @nextlevelsuki
    @nextlevelsuki 2 місяці тому +116

    I'm only a minute in Jazmine and my immediate reaction was sadness but in a split second I felt excitement. This is God!! I truly believe he is propelling you into full time entrepreneurship! You already have the platform and have been doing the work, maybe it's time!!

    • @elizabethgunning6364
      @elizabethgunning6364 2 місяці тому +10

      yes ma'am

    • @kimberlyalexander7905
      @kimberlyalexander7905 2 місяці тому +14

      I felt that way, too! That this is going to lead her into something really great!! He sees her work. No way this is bad news. This is PROSPERING news!

    • @maryellengutierrez2140
      @maryellengutierrez2140 2 місяці тому +7

      I agree!

    • @nextlevelsuki
      @nextlevelsuki 2 місяці тому +11

      @kimberlyalexander7905 absolutely!!! A lot of times God will force us out of a situation into greater, because like she said we are comfortable and wouldn't leave on our own! I was laid off b4 and it turned out to be a blessing in disguise!

    • @nextlevelsuki
      @nextlevelsuki 2 місяці тому

      @@maryellengutierrez2140 yessss!🙌🏽

  • @monicamoss375
    @monicamoss375 2 місяці тому +41

    I was moved to comment. So, I am a single mom of two little girls, just became a home owner of a new build just over a year ago and just (last week) went through my lay-off ass well. This is the first one for me and I can say it has been a roller coaster of emotions. I’ve been up and down and realized that though I am staying strong and happy for my kids I am also not “okay”. I will say we got about 9 weeks heads up but still, interviewing and all that while knowing you’re leaving and these bills still have to be paid has been rough. Idk why I wrote but I wanted to let you know we can encourage one another. Thank you so much for sharing. We will get through this together.

    • @BudgetTreasures
      @BudgetTreasures  2 місяці тому +1

      Aweeee man! I am so sorry to hear this has happened to you as well. I will definitely be here to encourage you. God has something greater for us. He did not bless you with your house just to leave you now. I had your same emotions but then I had to remind myself that God is my source. He will never leave me nor will he forsake me. Andddd He is a God who cannot lie. I pray that you get the right job, paying you more money! I believe that He is going to do that for you. In Jesus Name. Amen. 🙏🏾 Be encouraged

  • @marivelfelan2470
    @marivelfelan2470 2 місяці тому +38

    I unexpectedly lost my job in May & freaked out! I took a few days to just cry & be depressed then I took advantage of my resources & then found another job after letting myself be off for about 2 months! I just want you to know you are not alone & you will get through this! You are so strong & im excited to see what your future has in store for you ❤ sending lots of love & prayers

  • @Sjohnson324
    @Sjohnson324 2 місяці тому +52

    I am one of the silent viewers. You are a woman of strength and resilience. You've got faith. So you've got this. Tell yourself the same thing you tell us "Go be great."❤

  • @papyrojae8033
    @papyrojae8033 2 місяці тому +45

    Any company, organization, employer would be happy to have you. You got this girly ❤❤❤

  • @MaryLinton-j3s
    @MaryLinton-j3s 2 місяці тому +28

    Man closes, God opens a better, joyful door 🙏🙏🙏
    It is hard yet God has it. Crying is a release!!! Let it happen. Tears brings strength ❤❤❤

  • @Latty_J
    @Latty_J 2 місяці тому +36

    He got you! Keep trusting him, when I was unemployed I saved every penny budgeted every dollar! I did the exact same thing and cutting the extra debt payments. Update the resume and plan your days to apply and get a routine to take care of your mental health as well

    • @johnkelly9451
      @johnkelly9451 2 місяці тому +1

      Appreciated comment. We did the same when we were layed off in 2009. We all need to reset and reasses.
      God will see you and all of us through anything we face. We must lean on him.
      Even $1 extra dollar a month above the minimum payment, helps reduce the balance and made us feel like we were still moving forward reducing our debts. Same with savings, to put back $2.00 minumum is a positive psychological boost.
      Seek his will in all we do. Community prayers for all in each need to bless everyone and their families. -John's wife

  • @SpeakSteph
    @SpeakSteph 2 місяці тому +10

    Six months of severance pay is a good deal. Even though I’m sure it’s still painful to process, you’re blessed and better off than most who get laid off. Dry your eyes, lift your head and straighten your crown, Queen! Something better is on the horizon. The Most High has a plan, He just hasn’t revealed it to you yet. Remain faithful! 🙌🏼🙏🏼

  • @beckyhauk5248
    @beckyhauk5248 2 місяці тому +16

    God never takes us to deep waters to drown us but to cleanse us. You got this and God’s got you.

  • @oliviayvette
    @oliviayvette 2 місяці тому +1

    You are amazing for being so vulnerable. Keep going girl. You got this ❤

  • @TheBradpitt1004
    @TheBradpitt1004 2 місяці тому +30

    You are going to be fine. There is a reason you were let go. We never know why but you are suppose to be somewhere else. Give yourself a few days to think. You are greater then the job! You have to redesign your budget. God won’t let you down.

    • @BudgetTreasures
      @BudgetTreasures  2 місяці тому +7

      🫶🏾🩷 Thank you for your words of encouragement 🙏🏽

  • @nairobikenya_
    @nairobikenya_ 2 місяці тому +22

    When one door closes another one opens. Continue doing youtube as your now fulltime job. 5 videos a week. You got this!

  • @AshleyHarris-cq4dd
    @AshleyHarris-cq4dd 2 місяці тому +15

    Wow crazy I was just laid off today 😮 girl we got this everything is for a season and for a reason God got us. I'm here for you queen

  • @lindajohnson.
    @lindajohnson. 2 місяці тому +12

    My husband went through a layoff. He had been with the company over 20 years. They stripped him of so many benefits and they were not truthful. He was 55. We learned a valuable lesson, these companies don’t care about their employees. It is the share holders, the bottom line and the CEO’s big salary. Now with our economy , there are so many companies closing and layoffs. Hopefully we will have a positive change in Jan. To get our country turned around.😮😮😮😮😮. Good luck on yours journey.😮😮😮

    • @BudgetTreasures
      @BudgetTreasures  2 місяці тому +1

      You are right. They don’t care.

    • @apriljoy425
      @apriljoy425 Місяць тому

      These big companies and the wealthy owners got massive tax breaks with Trump. They are brutal now.We are feeling the aftermath of his Term. Definitely looking for a positive change in January.

  • @Sassy_PiscesSaves
    @Sassy_PiscesSaves 2 місяці тому +17

    I definitely feel and understand. I too was at a company that promised one thing and did another. I was laid off on the 2nd of this month. Luckily i was saving from the start of getting paid. But i was hoping that i wouldnt have to use the money but luckily i have it. It was a lady that when we found out they were doing another layoff she told me not to worry but God has a plan and you have a degree and this is possibly your reason to go back in your field. And that made me feel much better. So i have applied and i have claimed that position. God got you!

  • @shelleygardner2750
    @shelleygardner2750 2 місяці тому +23

    I’m really not one that leaves comments. However, your faith is so beautiful. It’s not easy to encourage yourself in the midst of a crisis and you’ve done it with grace. Stay lifting and trusting God and keep on encouraging others to trust Him too.

  • @BeingJordean
    @BeingJordean 2 місяці тому +1

    You've got this and better is on the way! Im going to binge watch all your videos to see if i can help the algorithm put you in front of more people! You've motivated me to stop procrastinating and get to posting!

  • @dorisward2629
    @dorisward2629 2 місяці тому +1

    Many blessing to you moving forward. You will be fine. God's blessing you seem to be a smart woman.🙏❤️👍

  • @monicapalacios2801
    @monicapalacios2801 2 місяці тому +8

    God is good! I ran across your video on getting a month ahead on bills and enjoyed it, so I ended up clicking to see your most recent video. I am so sorry you are going through this but your faith in God is truly inspiring. My husband and I are restarting our debt payoff journey and it has been ROUGH. Add to it our 3 month old baby and my husband’s work stress and it can feel overwhelming at times. Thank you for this video. You have reminded me that God has our back. I will be praying for you. I know we will see God’s love throughout your journey. I can’t wait to see what he has in store for you. ❤

  • @naomiwilliams7316
    @naomiwilliams7316 2 місяці тому +8

    I was laid off a few years ago, and I was walking down the steps of the company on my phone, applying for jobs😂. I had 2 interviews the next day and was hired before a week was up. I had no savings, no money set aside. And God did it. Our God reigns. I'm expecting it to happen again. God will do it.❤

    • @BudgetTreasures
      @BudgetTreasures  2 місяці тому

      You was right on it!!! I’m glad that you were able to find your replacement quick!

  • @KJ-he6hf
    @KJ-he6hf 2 місяці тому +2

    You'll be fine mama stay focused. It was just time for you to move in a different direction sometimes it's not always in our control because we all would be stuck. I walked away from my corporate job last year voluntarily and it has been my best decision ever. It took me being sick to make that decision but I made it with no regret. Granted when I got better fear came but God walked me through all that and I'm now in a much happier place. So stay strong you got this ❤❤❤❤

    • @BudgetTreasures
      @BudgetTreasures  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much ☺️ and I am
      Happy to hear that you are in a happy place. That is a blessing!

  • @courtney3540
    @courtney3540 2 місяці тому +5

    Sorry to hear. I was laid off (team was downsized in one and then company closed in other) twice last year and it was rough mentally. Give yourself some grace and don't push yourself to bounce back immediately. It effing sucks, I don't care what anyone says.

    • @BudgetTreasures
      @BudgetTreasures  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much 🩷🙏🏾 I am so sorry to hear that happened to you...I hope that you have been able to find something else that you love since then...Yes, this is not fun and I am excited to see where the future takes us...

  • @kemi1486
    @kemi1486 2 місяці тому +16

    I’m so sorry to hear this. I know this development is fresh. The fact that you have taken control of your financial situation and have a growing channel tells me that God was preparing you for this change. Keep trusting God to provide 🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @vivianmorgan2770
    @vivianmorgan2770 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for being transparent…stay positive beautiful! God’s got you😇

  • @krissygs8308
    @krissygs8308 2 місяці тому +2

    Walk in faith. You have put in the work. I used to get upset when I saved some money and things happened and I then had to use it. One day I said to myself I am going to be grateful that I had that money as how would I have taken care of that expence.You have a little saved and I am so happy for you. Regroup and go again. You got this and God has got you. Remain blessed and I am praying for you.

    • @VivaciousOM
      @VivaciousOM Місяць тому

      I loved reading this. Two months after our house was paid off (I was elated) we had to replace our heat pump (for HVAC) and had to spend a year’s worth of mortgage payments. Grateful to be able to pay.

  • @LindaKangwa-mq5qb
    @LindaKangwa-mq5qb 2 місяці тому +3

    Sending you hugs Jasmine ❤. I love you. Your biggest fan from Zambia Africa. You go Girl! 💪 U gonna make it. God is great always.

  • @msbarnes3
    @msbarnes3 2 місяці тому +1

    Praying for a smooth transition into your next great opportunity. Thank you for your transparency.

  • @VikkiB1
    @VikkiB1 2 місяці тому +19

    I’m not religious or spiritual, but I just wanted to say that I believe in you! I’m so, so sorry, J, but you’ve come SO FAR with your finances. Think of how hard you worked to build up a month ahead, just in time, too! I can’t help with the pain and self-doubt that comes from feeling like you’re not enough - and I’m so sorry your company has made you feel this way - but I’m certain you are moving on to bigger and better things. ❤

  • @vmckinney4833
    @vmckinney4833 2 місяці тому +1

    Praying for you! I've been through this a couple of times and it's never easy. It hits you on so many levels. God will provide and give you even more.

  • @skylarparsons6957
    @skylarparsons6957 2 місяці тому +2

    I appreciate you sharing your situation as vulnerable as it is. God is NOT going to leave you there!!! Continue to keep your faith and understand I know how difficult it is while you’re going through this transition. You will get through!!!!

  • @SimplyShaunteRenee
    @SimplyShaunteRenee 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. I pray that God blesses you to find an even better job and that he covers you and all your needs are met during the wait!

  • @ms.ashley7643
    @ms.ashley7643 2 місяці тому +2

    I’m so glad that you had the one month ahead fund.This is exactly what it’s for.

  • @superlamb6395
    @superlamb6395 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm very sorry this happened to you. I experienced it about 15/16 years ago and it was horrible! I'm sending you prayers of support right now! You will find an amazing new position!

  • @roseg2516
    @roseg2516 2 місяці тому +4

    Sending prayers your way. I can't wait to watch the video where you tell us the best news ever where something great has came your way.

  • @JudithRangel-jh3lm
    @JudithRangel-jh3lm 2 місяці тому +1

    I just subcribed to your channel not that long and am trying to budget...I was just laid off in May this year immediately after being with them for years. I do understand your emotions. God does have something better for you. This was just for a while and will lead you somewhere better. Many blessings to you and your family.

    • @BudgetTreasures
      @BudgetTreasures  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much for supporting and sharing 🫶🏾. I hope that you’ve been able to find another job already. God will sustain us all.

  • @rozettajefferson367
    @rozettajefferson367 2 місяці тому +1

    Praying for you!!! With your positive attitude, you’ll get through this in no time. Remember this too shall pass!! ❤ Not only will you get through this, you’ll look back at this moment and remember how necessary it was for your new chapter! #GodsGotThis

  • @JenH39
    @JenH39 2 місяці тому +1

    Jasmine, you are amazing and I truly believe this is a setup for a better opportunity for you. You are inspirational and I can’t wait to watch your journey. ❤

  • @sharlitagiles2337
    @sharlitagiles2337 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this. Your honesty, vulnerability and bravery is helping so many people! 💖

  • @lionessrising
    @lionessrising 2 місяці тому +13

    Sometimes, others are cheaper to keep but I totally get the "I'm not good enough" self talk because I do that. Your faith is so inspiring to me. I also am happy for you that you were killing it on debt! So now you dont have so much left. Now it's to pivot and job hunt. You have side hustle so that helps. I'll be praying for you and your journey.

  • @bobbis.172
    @bobbis.172 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm so very sorry. Big changes like that are so stressful and scary, but you got this! Sending all the good vibes that you find a new job very soon at or more than your previous position.

  • @DimplesLovesToTeach
    @DimplesLovesToTeach 2 місяці тому +2

    I’m so sorry to hear about this. I have faith that God will open more doors for you. Thank you for reminding us that we cannot have doubt if we trust God. I needed that reminder.

  • @jessicashih8755
    @jessicashih8755 2 місяці тому +1

    Praying for you and your family in this trying time. 🙏🏾

  • @Angelwings917
    @Angelwings917 2 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for being so transparent. Greater is in store 🙏🏽

  • @Marialovely-ty4ce
    @Marialovely-ty4ce 2 місяці тому +1

    Bestie I have faith all will work out for you l am praying for you. Thank you for having the strength and transparency to share with the channel. You got this darling 💕🙏🏾

  • @rebeccahubbard3817
    @rebeccahubbard3817 2 місяці тому +19

    Friend I'm so sorry to hear this. This is no surprise to God...He is already way ahead of it!! I hope this process will ignite your faith like never before!! I will be praying along with you for His guidance and that He will direct every step you take.🙏 He's got you in the palm of His hand and He will NEVER let go!!❤❤

    • @OnyxKat12
      @OnyxKat12 2 місяці тому +4

      @rebeccahubbard3817 - Beautifully written ❤

  • @claricewalker5173
    @claricewalker5173 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks!

    • @BudgetTreasures
      @BudgetTreasures  Місяць тому

      Thank you so much 🙏🏽 I appreciate this and pray that you are blessed a double portion for sowing into my life

  • @courajessmoney
    @courajessmoney 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for your constant awe-inspiring vulnerability with us bestie! You’re completely right, this is God working and opening new doors for you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @ladydee56
    @ladydee56 2 місяці тому +6

    My prayers for you 🙏🏾. I am blessed to be retired for 2 yrs now working a government job for 30 yrs. While working that job, I did go 8 yrs without a raise, and I was a single mom of 2 at the time, but I trusted God and he worked it out. I had a mortgage, car note, etc. and didn't see it, but God. I thank him every day for everything. Just trust, things will work itself out. As I say, let go and let God 🙏🏾

  • @iracelisbraxton8329
    @iracelisbraxton8329 2 місяці тому +1

    AMEN! all is well nothing missing nothing broken, this is pushing you to your new journey, we do not and can not grow in comfort....Greater is coming girl im excited for you and what God is going to finalize for you.

  • @andreajanelle2043
    @andreajanelle2043 2 місяці тому +1

    Take some time for yourself and take your time, if you can looking for a new job role. I have been through it, the key word "through". Good vibes to you!

  • @melissaperry4854
    @melissaperry4854 2 місяці тому +3

    I am going through the same thing. Even though this has happened before, I did not prepare for this one. And, this happened on my anniversary. I had been a little depressed because this is not what I figured for my life at this point. I am 57 years old. But through it all, I know that God has me, and I just need to trust in him and his plan for me. I got my book and I am looking forward to Wednesday night book club.

  • @Alexisbivens0424
    @Alexisbivens0424 2 місяці тому +3

    I was an operations manager in ambulatory clinics for years! (Managing clinical and non-clinical). I have my bachelors in Health Science if that helps. I’ll tell you, that babysitter energy is still the same girl! Ugh! lol I work in healthcare IT now which is chefs kiss. Wherever you end up next, you got this!

  • @edithsantiago2537
    @edithsantiago2537 2 місяці тому +1

    You are a great woman and like you mention GOD will always be on our side. ❤

  • @lornadejesus9777
    @lornadejesus9777 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey bestie!!! I’m sorry you are going through this, but I KNOW you got this!!!! This just means bigger and better things are coming…sending love 💕

  • @tommiesmith8925
    @tommiesmith8925 2 місяці тому +1

    I’ve been watching your videos, and they are good and informative. You have a positive attitude and you are encouraging yourself. Keep looking up to where your help comes from and He will see you through everything that you encounter. God’s blessings be with you. 👍💞🙏🏽

  • @charmaineriley9079
    @charmaineriley9079 2 місяці тому +2

    You have a strong testimony and trust God for the journey. I was laid off from a major insurance company, and I prayed for doors to open. God is good.🥰

  • @ARoyalBudget
    @ARoyalBudget 2 місяці тому +2

    You'll be fine. You have the right mindset and God will work it out as you navigate your way

  • @patriciaonyemena5183
    @patriciaonyemena5183 2 місяці тому +3

    So sorry this happened to you! We are here to support you anyway possible!

  • @justninia6122
    @justninia6122 2 місяці тому +6

    unemployed for a year :( hustling small time side lines :) Praying for you!

  • @sparrow120music
    @sparrow120music 2 місяці тому +2

    I just went through the same. No notice and I am the breadwinner for me and my daughter. Take your time to process but girl…you are shining! This is such a great opportunity for the next step. You will be okay. Send you all good energy and will pray for you.

  • @littlebug1026
    @littlebug1026 2 місяці тому +1

    i was a single mom since my son was 7 months old. it is not easy and we most definitely work harder. GOSH bless your heart.

  • @paulahawkins3786
    @paulahawkins3786 2 місяці тому +1

    Praying for you for finding a wonderful new job and a safe landing!

  • @MistakesWereMade-MWM
    @MistakesWereMade-MWM 2 місяці тому +2

    I'm sorry that you are having to go through this, it isn't easy being advised that your job is going away - especially if you've been there for many years. It sounds like you are being offered an amazing severance which is such a life saver (plus unemployment) and hopefully that'll give you the breathing room needed to pursue a new direction like HR! I'll be in your shoes at some point myself (I know I'm being laid off, just.. not when. It's been a year so far and we're essentially working month to month) so I look forward to seeing how you approach this new chapter.

  • @venitacary6903
    @venitacary6903 2 місяці тому +1

    You are so right bestie - just keep your hands in the masters hand… keep your head up high - God will not leave you nor forsake you- he will take care of his children- God bless you

  • @4getnot
    @4getnot 2 місяці тому +7

    I can relate with you. I went through it. The more I tried to be uplifting the less I was feeling it. Finally I prayed and I let it go. I was in the same place as you but two daughters and a granddaughter. When God bring you to it He will bring you through it. I searched for the first two months for a job but it was not my time to go back to work. God took care of me and my family. There was so much He took care of for me. I didn’t work for a full year. God paid my mortgage for 2 years. I still was able to support my daughter 1st year of college and I regained my health from years of stress. God got you if you trust Him and don’t take it back from Him. Give God a praise about the future that is to come 🎉🎉🎉

  • @Genie519
    @Genie519 2 місяці тому +1

    Your honesty and vulnerability will help so many. I’ve been through this during 2020 and it is hard but all of your financial steps will help you so much. You are a strong woman and thank you for sharing your REAL life. God bless and help you through this hard time❤️

  • @reneebarnes7225
    @reneebarnes7225 2 місяці тому +4

    Baby look at the timing you're one month ahead in your finances you dont need to stress about the bills bae, take a few days to figure out what you going to do. Dream big and reach for the stars. Those emotions will pass just like this moment, don't stop running speed up its time to fly ❤❤❤❤

  • @jessicapaul5884
    @jessicapaul5884 2 місяці тому +8

    Bestie, god always has a plan!! You got this! It will all work out for your good!!. I will be praying for you.

  • @RippedupRefuge
    @RippedupRefuge 2 місяці тому +7

    Oh sweetheart I've been there myself. My first "big girl" job I was laid off from and it was so unexpected. I was crushed and ran through all the emotions you described. I had a young daughter who was only a year old and was stressing about providing. However much like you said our heavenly Father knows the plan and he has never left me yes we walk through the valley of the shadow of death he will not falter us! His wisdom and bigger picture for our lives is beyond our minds compare. Sending you comfort and peace as God works in your life on the next chapter

  • @dpaulson512
    @dpaulson512 2 місяці тому +1

    First time watching (UA-cam recommended), and my heart breaks for you! You are on the right path! Trust and believe that you will get through this!!! We are all behind you! I am grateful that you have been doing your channel and working the program of budgeting!!!! Maybe this will open a new door for you! I was in this position back in 2011; and I had been doing my profession for 32 years at that time (I was 51 at the time). I gave myself some grace and then asked God for guidance and you wouldn’t believe I went from an office environment to creating my own business of creating memory quilts for a living!!!

  • @diannmcleod8642
    @diannmcleod8642 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm learning to trust Gid with ALL aspects of my life. Im also learning that sometimes the bad things that happen to us turn out to be the most beautiful thing. I just embarked on a new journey and trying to get accustomed to my "new normal" YOU GOT THIS!!!!

  • @River475
    @River475 2 місяці тому +1

    Best of luck!

  • @michellesteele8649
    @michellesteele8649 2 місяці тому +3

    DO IT!!! I want to go from a massage therapist to HR. An agent told me because of my medical background I should do Medical Management. I’m so excited for you.

  • @lynnbanks3
    @lynnbanks3 2 місяці тому +1

    It's a test of your faith, sista. Keep pressing forward.💪🏼 God has you!!🙌🏽🙏🫶🏽

  • @alemaldonado1868
    @alemaldonado1868 2 місяці тому +2

    Hi bestie, thank you so much for being so transparent with us. Second, we will be here for you to vent because we all need that space. Third, as a mom who still helps out her daughter, two kids and one on the way while paying my own debt and trying to save, understand what you are going through. We love you. Stay strong.

  • @laurenrobbins5369
    @laurenrobbins5369 2 місяці тому +1

    You got this bestie! ❤ this whole community that you created is here to support you! ❤

  • @lad5329
    @lad5329 2 місяці тому +3

    That company doesn’t deserve you! You will find something better! My prayers are with you🙏🏻. You’re going to be fine!

  • @TheMskblue
    @TheMskblue 2 місяці тому +1

    Jasmine, I’ve commented a time or two but always watch. You were a part of my budgeting journey and being able to save enough money to go on a sabbatical. I ordered envelopes from you. Your advice has been instrumental and encouraging while I’ve walked through and stand in being underemployed. I teared up watching this because the market is tough and we know these companies bottoms line is securing the 💰. Your disciplined already established will help you stretch the severance and unemployment. Don’t rush into another job like I did 🥴 if you don’t NEED to. And lastly, thank you for your transparency that is speaking to my faith. It’s been low. God is with you and you won’t fail.

  • @keishadouglas9261
    @keishadouglas9261 2 місяці тому +4

    God will see you through this time in your life 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 when one door closes, a window open ❤

  • @mariaquintino1670
    @mariaquintino1670 2 місяці тому +3

    I have faith that you will find a new job soon. You are a very intelligent woman and you seem to be a planner and a doer. Once you get through this phase of disbelief, fear and doubt. You are going to do what you do best… and that’s getting yourself back on track. You got this. Sending you hugs 🤗

  • @CC-zi5fb
    @CC-zi5fb 2 місяці тому +2

    Head high sis! 6 months severance is good!

  • @imhisapple1105
    @imhisapple1105 2 місяці тому +1

    I just went through this on Thursday. On my way home from working all day, I got a call that my contract had ended. It was hard, I didn't do anything wrong, I just did not fit in there with the people. We have to learn to accept that writing and keep it moving. I'm doing side gigs, along with trying to study to get my license reinstated. It is difficult. I had a lot going on and they knew it but didn't care. That's a business. I'm not mad and wish them all well. On to the next thing. Sometimes we don't even have the time to sulk like we want because of all the things we have going on and need. We're going to make it though. Be encouraged! Praying for you! You got this!

  • @NappturallyTrendy
    @NappturallyTrendy 2 місяці тому +3

    Hey Bestie, I've been watching you for 1 yr now. You've helped me get my debt under control & I can't thank you enough! I'm currently battling breast cancer, so I haven't always been able to watch as much but I'm glad I was able to watch this! Sometimes God moves us out the way to prepare us for something greater. I'm going to continue praying for you 🙏🏽 I know there's something better for you 🎉

  • @patmoore1667
    @patmoore1667 2 місяці тому +1

    Jazmine, I am so sorry to hear this but I know you’ve got this! I found your channel last year and began my budget journey because of you. I even bought the same happy planner you had-Enjoy the Journey, and purchased the digital version of the budget mom’s budget as you suggested. And now budgeting is a positive way of life for me-being in control of my finances is so freeing! The savings I have built and the amount of debt I have paid off-girl you’re such an inspiration! I admire your transparency and your courage so much. And please know that you never need to apologize for being emotional about what you’re going through because it’s healthy to get it out. Keep moving forward and continue to stand strong in your faith my sister. You’re always enough 🙏🏾💜

  • @toyalevy7211
    @toyalevy7211 2 місяці тому +8

    Hi am praying for you and I know that God have you. It’s a big blessing coming your way and God will show up and show out for you. Keep the faith and just know that we all are here for you!!! ❤🙏🏾

  • @larkiameade9251
    @larkiameade9251 2 місяці тому +4

    This is just a testament in the making. You will be better than before and another bigger and better job is coming your way. May God continue to bless you and your family.

  • @Mature1958
    @Mature1958 2 місяці тому +9

    I was laid off 3 times and each time I had takeaway from each one. Always cut your expenses and save. Get your emergency fund of at least 9 months to a year. One time it took me 9 months bc I couldn’t find a job paying me the salary I was making. I had to work 2 jobs to keep myself on track. It is devastating but you always need to be mindful of how much money you have saved. No matter what anyone says you need to get out of debt. Cut up those cc and don’t live above your means. Today, I am debt free.

  • @michellesteele8649
    @michellesteele8649 2 місяці тому +1

    I’ve learned and still have to remind myself that in order to get more, you have to let go of what you have. GOD GOT YOU.❤

  • @raquelgourdine-neal847
    @raquelgourdine-neal847 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for your faith in the Lord and your transparency. I will be watching to see what God will bless you with in this next chapter🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @myrnaj4502
    @myrnaj4502 2 місяці тому +9

    Sending you love, peace, and blessings. ❤❤

  • @jackieconnie8809
    @jackieconnie8809 2 місяці тому +1

    I’ve been following you for a while now but rarely comment. I believe God has a greater plan for you and that’s why you’ve been on this budgeting journey/debt payoff. You’ve gone through other challenges this year that you’ve shared and yet you have been faithful. These have been tests of your faith and you haven’t failed. So, I’m really excited to see what God truly has for you because your biggest blessing is coming. Some things have to end before new things begin. I’m speaking for myself as well. Keep trusting Him. You got this. ❤

  • @shrtblondie1
    @shrtblondie1 2 місяці тому +1

    Keep your chin up. God will protect you girl. I know it is cliche but when one door closes another opens. This is going to be a positive opportunity in your journey.

  • @sonyabowen598
    @sonyabowen598 2 місяці тому +2

    Sending prayers, hugs, and positive vibes! God's got your back Bestie. ❤