@@brucesmith9144I wish someone had told me 40 years ago that you have spend time with a woman’s parents, especially her mother, to see what she will become in the future.
Spot on. It happened to me. She even brought the guy she ran off with to rub my nose in it. She wasn't content in destroying the family. She is a sick and twisted woman, thank god she's out of my life.
I have been divorced twice... My second ex told every lie in the book to try to ruin my life. She even got her dad to lie against me about something that he wasn't even there to see. I was accused of abuse other things and, because of it, I have not seen my daughter in 16 years.
Yup, divorced men are 9x higher suicide rate than general public. Another thing I wouldn't do, besides marriage, is ride a motorcycle, where you die 26x more than normal passenger vehicles.
In states that acknowledge NF divorce, a prenup is necessary, and you better make sure it's validated by the court, that it's legally enforceable before you sign on the marriage certificate.
I figured that out when my wife, whom I loved dearly, had been cheating on me for months and when caught looked at me like I was nuts and then left, ending our marriage. That taught me two things (at least): 1) a man’s love has no value to a woman, and 2) a woman’s wedding vows become null and void the second she is unhappy for any reason.
A similar situation happened to me. Lived with a woman for a couple years, she pressured me to marry her. The usual crying emotional manipulation and withholding sex type behavior. Then within the first 6 months I caught her cheating on me purely by accident. I was walking by her computer and noticed it hadn't been fully shut down, it had an error and kinda froze. I noticed the lights on with a blank screen, so upon further investigation and to my complete surprise, her last message hadn't been sent and was still displayed on the screen. I was very damning, and totally blindsided me.... I played it cool at first and asked the preliminary questions, she had all the excuses ready to go. Then I showed her the message of her bragging to her girl friends about how good the sex was with the other guy while simultaneously mocking me. She was the victim right up until I shoved the evidence in her face. Then I saw her true face..... I realized I never even knew her.
@@prototype9904I am sorry that happened to you bro. In the world we live in you can not fully trust anyone and that goes more so for them. Many of them have no honor or integrity. Also, never fall in love with them. Care about them but never fall for them. You have to assume they are possibly cheating and be ready to drop them at any time. You may even have to occasionally remind yourself of these things. Also, you might have to see a few women to make sure you don't develop too many feelings for just one. Maybe after years if one proves herself you can just see her but make sure you never get too comfortable where she thinks she fully has you. Lastly, never forgive betrayal and never marry them. You can seriously be with them but never marry. At least until the laws are fair. You don't have to tell her any of this of course. Just some random thoughts.
I caught my ex girlfriend red handed cheating on me after being together for 5 years and been single ever since been 14 years now being single 💔😭 I have major trust issues now with women
After 28 years she filed for divorce turn my kids against me and wants more than half of everything. This is my first thanksgiving alone still moving forward.
I'm in the medical field and interact with females of all types. Quite a few females have told me that they felt like the house that their husband is working long hours to pay for actually feel like he has NO AUTHORITY, APPRECIATION, OR RESPECT IN HIS THERE. HE IS SIMPLY THE GUY WHO PAYS FOR EVERYTHING AND ANNOYS THEM OCCASIONALLY. They really feel like that. She and sometimes at least one kid will openly disrespect the man taking care of them and feeds them. It was sadly enlightening and disappointing.
Listening to women in a group is educational. The disrespect for men in general is astounding. Men are nothing but walking ATMs to them. They give each other hints and advice on how to make men's lives difficult, who the best divorce lawyers are and how hide money from them, among other things. Amazingly, any man listening nearby is invisible to them. They teach each other how to disrespect. Guys, Only fools marry. Walk away.
It's been forty years now but it still bugs me. I never completed my college degree because I was too busy making sure she could get her Masters degree. Once she had that she told me she "changed her mind" and didn't want to be married anymore. Fortunately there were no kids and no substantial property involved so we could go through a dissolution. My youngest sister ran into her a few years ago and she said that leaving me was her greatest regret. Oh well…
"And the tyrant, in the first place, is a creature of a despot, and what is more, in his time women have a good time." -Socrates (Plato's Republic. In Book 8)
I'm 50 years and have never have been married and no children. I dodged a bullet. I think I can really understand how the men feel. I would never want to go through this. Be banging my head against the wall or completely lose it. Getting married and marrying the wrong women and then having to go through a divorce and dealing with the courts and the attorneys, this is simply not worth it by getting married at all. Paying child support or alimony. Men are simply better off just dating or being alone.
Like you said, "TicTok is where women journal their THOTs." There is a movement (or more like a philosophy/ideology and just a reaction to current environments) called - MGTOW and more and more men each day are embracing it.
The court video hits hard on Thanksgiving. Broke my back and the wife is divorcing me. In a contested divorce to get as much as she can. She was a wonderful wife for 17 yrs.
@@FarfromEden So what is the end goal of all this? To tell men we should just be alone forever? I mean I guess I could survive it. It is better than dealing with a narcissistic psycho in your home that spends every waking moment siphoning up your energy and love until she drains you and leaves you high and dry(just went through this) but I mean...Is this really where we are? I don't want to just give up, even with all the pain I've endured.
Got married at 31. Her parents were in the classic "wife wants divorce after husband retires and is in her house " scenario. Mom miscalculated. I watched my father in law endure the family he provided for switching sides to who they thought was going to come out better. Should have learned then.
In caring about others, we find purpose. It's called "love". Some people have bought into lies, instead. The mask of true exploitation: Feminism told women that the career (consumerism and the production/extraction of monetary value) was the true meaning of life. A husband?! A family?! All of that is a detriment! That stuff is about them; not you! Even your children are ruining your life, just by existing! They're costing you what really matters! Now get out there! Go to your dumb job, to make stupid money, so you can pay ridiculous bills! That's what living is all about! Be miserable and pretend you're not!
Eight years ago she walked out and blew up everything I’d spent 39 years building. Thanksgiving used to be a joyous time for me. Nowadays, it’s a hard time of year. Thankfully my parents are still around
I personally advocate for men not dealing with women at all, for example, if a woman calls a plumber, don't even talk to her except to tell her to have her husband call. If women find that they can't get any services, NONE at all, then they will find out that they do need men.
As long as no fault divorce exists, alimony and child support are not regulated to reasonable levels then marriage simply isn’t an option for men. Marriage isn’t possible because of feminism.
My ex-wife fell victim to FACEBOOK FOMO AND JONES ' SYNDROME. I made mistakes but I overlooked some character flaws that I GAVE A PASS for loving an imperfect person. CLASSIC turn 40 and not happy anymore. Then spread lies to save face and cosign leaving. Shoulda known better...
As long as no-fault divorce exists, men should not get married EVER. A woman can divorce you just because she's unhappy and then take you to the cleaners. A woman that leaves just because she's unhappy should get NOTHING in the divorce.
Before concluding that men are "just not smart" about their women, it is critical to acknowledge that society beats men over the head for years NEFORE marriage, with the idea that if he just "steps up to the plate" and handles responsibility "like a real man," that women will _naturally fall into place in their proper roles._ TONS of men who BELIEVED that skipped past the idea of GUARDING against their wives for *THAT* reason!
Happy Thanksgiving! My mom just checked in with one of her childhood best friends. I asked how her kids were doing since they are around my age. She had 3 kids (2 girl 1 boy). They all got married and all got divorced. 1 boy and 1 girl had multiple kids. I would be so sad to be a parent and have all my kids end up in failed marriages. I'm glad they had some kids, but the poor kids won't have stable childhoods. Be sure to stay thankful for what you have while you have it. There's a lot of change coming next year, so keep in touch with all of your connections. Keep your network strong and add to it as you can. Stay together and stay warm everyone!
Erin, another good video Lola, conspicuous by her absence - did you leave her to do all the cleaning up after Thanksgiving Dinner??? I grew up in the late '70s/early '80s and saw the Communist version of Feminism emerge. The writing was on the wall even then, and - you are correct - it will take other women to roll back the excesses of dysfunctional women. Previously, one of the roles of women was to police the behaviour of other women. However, like many other things, women abdicated that role. Men were never equipped to police female bad behaviour - they were far more skilled in policing male behaviour. Hence, there are very few limits for female dysfunction. I see that Alexander Grace has decided to stop Simping in his latest offering. He's a clever guy, and, sometimes, he has something interesting to say - but, he has never really called out women on their ish! Keep up the good work, Erin!!
“Receptionist: How do you write women so well? Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.” ― Melvin Udall played by Jack Nicholson in AS GOOD AS IT GETS.
Hi Erin, hope ya had a great Thanksgiving too. I did. My daughter and I enjoyed the day at my son's home this year. Men have no safety net and have no choice but to be good just to get along in this world to stay off the streets. The women, well they play the victim card and the SA card........
5:15 the reason she has formed this opinion is because she repeatedly keeps picking the same chadthunderstroke types that have tons of options and dude's like that of course are going to pound cake and bounce, if she would stop looking for the guy who looks like he just stepped off the page of GQ magazine front page and look for something closer to Dad bod/ blue collar worker she would find a good guy! But she's never going to for that because she dated Mr GQ off the cover once and she is now convinced that's all she deserves 🤦 never gonna get wifed up doing the same thing over and over expecting different results.
Great Video !!! Love your shirt!!! I am beyond repair... Men need to have the scales fall from their eyes and deal with reality instead of fantasy. Find out what the really wealthy do to protect their assets, before, you make a stupid commitment.. If the relationship eventually ends ,you may be able to tell her : Sorry Honey... You married a pauper.. All the assets I have access to, are owned by third parties, I have nothing. If this is done right by good lawyers, before hand it's pretty effective..
Hello far from eden lady, Erin I believe, greetings from south Africa, it's 12 o clock at night here, always happy to hear from you quality content as always. Hope Lola is doing well Thank you ❤😎👍👍👍
Intimacy robbers are everywhere too. To men it's likened to grape as a feeling to men who are faithful to their woman even if they haven't met her yet (i will only do this if she is my wife or going to be my wife). They try to open him up emotionally and try to get him interested physically by playing with his confidence that it's all going to be okay. Even if there is no train ride, it's a very painful experience and it paints an image in his mind that women cannot be trusted. The woman will do everything to get his intimacy but it's not real, but she took that from him and it wasn't hers. It's a game.
What disgusts me in the dating scene is that it's considered an "ick" for a man to be distrustful of women. Yet the same women are encouraged to be distrustful of men AND EXPECT MEN TO BE OK WITH BEING TREATED WITH DISTRUST, even though she would never do the same for him.
She'll treat you like her mom treats her dad. Do your research. If your living with an 'unstable' woman like I am, keep yourself protected. Record when you can. Leave her alone and treat her like a 14 year old and you'll make it.
Something that's been on my mind lately is that I think the gender problems in our culture begin during childhood. The battle of the sexes is as old as elementary school, where its normal for boys and girls to divide, call each other names, and insist that their gender is superior. Can you recall engaging in girls-vs-boys competitions growing up? Those weren't exactly "tolerant" events, just a lot of bullying from both sides with pride on the line. As we get older we grow attraction for one another, but I think many of these toxic sentiments continue to exist because our culture never chose to condemn it. Many women still see themselves as superior, as do many men. However, I think when a boy grows up with women he respects, he becomes someone that generally loves and respects women; same goes for a girl who grows up with men she respects, she becomes someone who generally loves and respects men. I always hated the gender war nonsense even as a small child, many of my closest friends were girls, many of my closest relatives are girls, I had a stronger bond with my mom and than with my dad (and I still do), so I never understood why other boys acted the way they did when girls were around, excluding them from our spaces, and treating them as lesser and dumber, it felt wrong to me back then and what I feel today is simply an exaggerated version of that. I had the same feelings when girls did the same to boys, I even lost some of my friends because I was the wrong gender and not allowed to hang out anymore. Because of this, I've been a huge advocate for the respect and care of both genders my entire life, our gender should never have mattered in the first place. I understand we are very different physically, hormonally, mentally, emotionally, etc, and that God made us different for a reason, but God also made us to be united, and that's the way things should have been from the beginning. Different, but together. So I think if we want to see culture change, it needs to start with our kids.
After any negative experience is hide a positive part. Thanks to Internet we men are learning the real truth. We grew up to serve and not talk about our emotions because that was always a source for the next fight. So my conclusion is that the worth of lot of women is almost nothing. Their strategy is all the same , open your legs and be sweet to get the order, after signing the order everything stops and when you like to go she gets here money. This was here goal.
My first thanksgiving after divorce is final, second after she kicked my out..3rd after she called it quits...i am at work on thanksgiving. I have no savings anymore, starting over from scratch. But I am thankfull for my kids.
Thank you Ms. Eden. Please give the podcast Disaffected with Josh Slocum a listen. He presents examples of the cluster b mass psychosis we seem to be living in and he’s funny and smart. I truly believe you’ll find his insight refreshing as well as earth shattering
Erin, you' got to do something on hand gestures, even when you're upset you're inclusive and taking account, vs. crazy ladies on tik-tok, finger snapping, clapping and clawing. It might take some editing to put it together but I think you'd crush it and it's a message that needs to get out there.
7 and 25 years and both cheated & used me like an ATM. 6ft 1 and a solid 8. Non violent, good Dad, husband provider. Why? Both so sorry and wanted me back after they got caught. Don't cheat. Talk it out, get counseling, separate, or divorce but don't cheat.
"How irreparably changed my life has become. It's always the last day of summer and I've been left out in the cold with no door to get back in. I'll grant you I've had more than my share of poignant moments. Life passes most people by while they're making grand plans for it. Throughout my lifetime, I've left pieces of my heart here and there. And now, there's almost not enough to stay alive. But I force a smile, knowing that my ambition far exceeded my talent. There are no more white horses or pretty ladies at my door." ~ George (Blow)
Rich women, of course, don't need a man. In the real world, you need to divide the labor to raise a family and doing that alone is beyond the capability of a single person.
When they talk about male self deletion, the only solution they ever come up with is removing the stigma so that men feel comfortable talking about feelings more. That wouldn't reduce the problem much. Men need to solve their actual problems to reduce that. That strategy would only help women. Women need a space to talk about their feelings. Men don't. What we need is to solve our problems. What are the two biggest reasons for male self deletion? Poverty and problems with women. Solving these problems is the only thing that will work for men. That's exactly why male podcasts like Fresh & Fit, Whatever, and Andrew Tate draws men in. They focus on helping men with earning money and getting advice about women, love them or hate them.
2:08 / 51:01 "Men are done because they KNOW women do not care about them" Possibly the greatest and truest headline in history. WELL, almost...Men are done with WESTERN Women. Great insights, I appreciate you. You're a rarity. You have a clue.
I am a 60 year old man and see myself too old for dating and that todays Women are too high maintenance and demanding .Plus it is so easy for them to accuse me of S/A .these days, Also keep saying they do not need a Man and I giggle and think what makes them think Man needs a Woman LOL.
I am traumatized because of my ex, and since then, it has been impossible for me to trust any woman. I also have an older sister, and I saw early on how manipulative and cruel women can be. For a long time, I didn’t want to believe it, so I spent my life searching for a wife-to have kids, marriage, and so on. But after experiencing the harsh reality, I’m done. I will never trust any woman again. In my view, 99.99% of them are mentally messed up-just like all these narcissistic men. One problem, in my opinion, is that many women use dating apps and end up matching with narcissistic guys. Each time they meet one of these men, they become more frustrated and, in turn, start adopting the same toxic behavior. This is what we see nowadays. From a natural perspective, women shouldn’t even be narcissistic. And in today’s safer societies, I don’t understand why they still fall for those types of men. I guess they’ve manipulated themselves into miserable lives and then try to do the same to good guys.
The millennial lady judge makes me feel there are more peers of my generation that are down to earth, and keep it real. What society needs is the old school grim tales, but a sassy African American lady laying on thick the overall message of the story.
My ex-girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me because she asked why I don't talk badly about Trump, and all I said was "I just think differently". That was enough for her to scream and yell at me, I never raised my voice once, I tried speaking as calmly as I could, but then she was she's breaking up with me and to leave her place. I've given her so much of my time and love, I've done so many things for her, I cared about her deeply, yet it only took a disagreement on politics to lash out at me
Prenup is a document which makes the marriage vow legally enforceable, if a woman refuse to sign a prenup, it means she doesn't mean it when she says the vow.
I got divorced after she left me for my friend, my son was 4 months old, 1. No one cares, u gotta care for yourself and 2. Never buy roses, its emotional abuse to spoil your wife as per why she did it. 10 years single and not looking back
17:00 Yep, even 10 years later I still can’t believe how evil this one particular woman was. I just can’t fully wrap my head around it. But everything is a double-edged sword.
This goes way back i encountered wimmin like this is the ‘s and 80’s not just in Canada but when I went to Australia. I was cautious and that proved worthwhile as in a couple of cases I found they had set me up with their husband or another boyfriend because they wanted to see us fight over hrr. I avoided that sometimes narrowly. After a few of those I left the English speaking world over 35 years ago. As well in Europe and Asia I encountered American female tourists and just a few minutes with them learned to avoid them completely. Loud, obnoxious and just ready to scream r*pe when they asked me for directions. I have not been anywhere near a white wummin on the street or anywhere else in at least six years. Who me? I no speaka da English.
Wife of 25 years. Found proof she cheated w/her college boy friend for 7 yrs. May have been our whole marriage, for all I know. I was a good husband, good provider, good Dad. She was soooo sorry and wanted to stay together after caught. Sweet lady, sneaky flip side.
You never met your wife until you’ve met her in court.
Or her mother. If she’s crazy, that’s what you’re getting with her daughter.
I'm about to find out.
@@brucesmith9144I wish someone had told me 40 years ago that you have spend time with a woman’s parents, especially her mother, to see what she will become in the future.
Spot on. It happened to me.
She even brought the guy she ran off with to rub my nose in it.
She wasn't content in destroying the family. She is a sick and twisted woman, thank god she's out of my life.
@@kylecurryyt i should have seen that too
I have been divorced twice... My second ex told every lie in the book to try to ruin my life. She even got her dad to lie against me about something that he wasn't even there to see. I was accused of abuse other things and, because of it, I have not seen my daughter in 16 years.
It’s the modern women’s play book
That's the norm.
Just don’t get married again.
Stay strong Bro
Didn't you learn from the first time. There is a reason the Bible states you can't marry a second time until that partner has passed on.
"Family" court and no-fault divorce is why marriage rates are at historic lows. There is nothing but stress and loss for men in most divorces.
Yup, divorced men are 9x higher suicide rate than general public. Another thing I wouldn't do, besides marriage, is ride a motorcycle, where you die 26x more than normal passenger vehicles.
Absolutely Spot On!!
You think with a name like "No fault divorce", there would be no faults. Seems to be a play on words.
Men aren't freaking out over getting rid of no fault divorce.
Because divorce isn't part of their marriage plans.
In states that acknowledge NF divorce, a prenup is necessary, and you better make sure it's validated by the court, that it's legally enforceable before you sign on the marriage certificate.
I figured that out when my wife, whom I loved dearly, had been cheating on me for months and when caught looked at me like I was nuts and then left, ending our marriage. That taught me two things (at least): 1) a man’s love has no value to a woman, and 2) a woman’s wedding vows become null and void the second she is unhappy for any reason.
A similar situation happened to me. Lived with a woman for a couple years, she pressured me to marry her. The usual crying emotional manipulation and withholding sex type behavior. Then within the first 6 months I caught her cheating on me purely by accident. I was walking by her computer and noticed it hadn't been fully shut down, it had an error and kinda froze. I noticed the lights on with a blank screen, so upon further investigation and to my complete surprise, her last message hadn't been sent and was still displayed on the screen. I was very damning, and totally blindsided me.... I played it cool at first and asked the preliminary questions, she had all the excuses ready to go. Then I showed her the message of her bragging to her girl friends about how good the sex was with the other guy while simultaneously mocking me. She was the victim right up until I shoved the evidence in her face. Then I saw her true face..... I realized I never even knew her.
@@prototype9904I am sorry that happened to you bro. In the world we live in you can not fully trust anyone and that goes more so for them. Many of them have no honor or integrity. Also, never fall in love with them. Care about them but never fall for them. You have to assume they are possibly cheating and be ready to drop them at any time. You may even have to occasionally remind yourself of these things. Also, you might have to see a few women to make sure you don't develop too many feelings for just one. Maybe after years if one proves herself you can just see her but make sure you never get too comfortable where she thinks she fully has you. Lastly, never forgive betrayal and never marry them. You can seriously be with them but never marry. At least until the laws are fair. You don't have to tell her any of this of course. Just some random thoughts.
@@dantestanley4927 Thanks for the reply m8, definitely some good points to consider
Who. Is used when the relative pronoun refers to the subject of the sentence.
The vows are just words she uses to get you to sign a contract that she profits from.
I caught my ex girlfriend red handed cheating on me after being together for 5 years and been single ever since been 14 years now being single 💔😭 I have major trust issues now with women
Same here my ex take off 2 deeds without me knowing about it
Youre ahead of me then. Close to my 11th year being single, but at least I have some peace. The risk is not worth the potential benefit.
Dont we all.. she was the love of my life, and she threw it all away on our anniversary. Never again.
Alot of women cheat its disgusting as fuck
@victorramsey5575 same here it's not worth it anymore
Beware of mother-in-laws with tentacles equipped with hooks, claws, and beaks; for that matter anyone…
Erin you look lovely today.I hope all is well.Happy Thanksgiving to you and lola🦃🎉👋🤗
Ain't THAT the truth!
After 28 years she filed for divorce turn my kids against me and wants more than half of everything. This is my first thanksgiving alone still moving forward.
Stay strong bro….it does get easier….I know, I’ve been there…..it is so peaceful now
I'm in the medical field and interact with females of all types. Quite a few females have told me that they felt like the house that their husband is working long hours to pay for actually feel like he has NO AUTHORITY, APPRECIATION, OR RESPECT IN HIS THERE. HE IS SIMPLY THE GUY WHO PAYS FOR EVERYTHING AND ANNOYS THEM OCCASIONALLY. They really feel like that. She and sometimes at least one kid will openly disrespect the man taking care of them and feeds them. It was sadly enlightening and disappointing.
Listening to women in a group is educational. The disrespect for men in general is astounding. Men are nothing but walking ATMs to them. They give each other hints and advice on how to make men's lives difficult, who the best divorce lawyers are and how hide money from them, among other things. Amazingly, any man listening nearby is invisible to them. They teach each other how to disrespect. Guys, Only fools marry. Walk away.
First Thanksgiving in my life when I spent it alone... even when I was in the Army deployed during holidays I wasn't alone...
It is what it is.
Thanksgiving 1992, right after desert storm. My now ex asked for a divorce, leaving me a single parent. Good times!
It's been forty years now but it still bugs me.
I never completed my college degree because I was too busy making sure she could get her Masters degree. Once she had that she told me she "changed her mind" and didn't want to be married anymore.
Fortunately there were no kids and no substantial property involved so we could go through a dissolution.
My youngest sister ran into her a few years ago and she said that leaving me was her greatest regret. Oh well…
I hope everyone is doing well and had a happy Thanksgiving. Take care
The holidays are a sensitive time of year. Especially, when you work hard and not much fruit is born, and no one seems to care. It's rough.
Andrew, you matter, you have a value many won’t ever understand. I’m someone who cares about you, praying for you now
@Steve-iq2ux Thank You.
👍🏽🙏🏾💪🏾🫡
"And the tyrant, in the first place, is a creature of a despot, and what is more, in his time women have a good time."
-Socrates (Plato's Republic. In Book 8)
I'm 50 years and have never have been married and no children. I dodged a bullet. I think I can really understand how the men feel. I would never want to go through this. Be banging my head against the wall or completely lose it. Getting married and marrying the wrong women and then having to go through a divorce and dealing with the courts and the attorneys, this is simply not worth it by getting married at all. Paying child support or alimony. Men are simply better off just dating or being alone.
There is no right woman.
Like you said, "TicTok is where women journal their THOTs."
There is a movement (or more like a philosophy/ideology and just a reaction to current environments) called -
MGTOW and more and more men each day are embracing it.
The court video hits hard on Thanksgiving. Broke my back and the wife is divorcing me. In a contested divorce to get as much as she can.
She was a wonderful wife for 17 yrs.
I’m sorry to hear that. 🙏
I’m so sorry!!
@@FarfromEden So what is the end goal of all this? To tell men we should just be alone forever? I mean I guess I could survive it. It is better than dealing with a narcissistic psycho in your home that spends every waking moment siphoning up your energy and love until she drains you and leaves you high and dry(just went through this) but I mean...Is this really where we are? I don't want to just give up, even with all the pain I've endured.
@@unafflictedgamingin one word, change. She recognizes that the present situation is not stable and seeks to balance it before society collapses.
I'm by myself today on Thanksgiving.
But I was never more alone than when I was married.
Got married at 31. Her parents were in the classic "wife wants divorce after husband retires and is in her house " scenario. Mom miscalculated. I watched my father in law endure the family he provided for switching sides to who they thought was going to come out better. Should have learned then.
In caring about others, we find purpose. It's called "love".
Some people have bought into lies, instead.
The mask of true exploitation: Feminism told women that the career (consumerism and the production/extraction of monetary value) was the true meaning of life.
A husband?! A family?! All of that is a detriment! That stuff is about them; not you! Even your children are ruining your life, just by existing! They're costing you what really matters!
Now get out there! Go to your dumb job, to make stupid money, so you can pay ridiculous bills! That's what living is all about!
Be miserable and pretend you're not!
Eight years ago she walked out and blew up everything I’d spent 39 years building. Thanksgiving used to be a joyous time for me. Nowadays, it’s a hard time of year. Thankfully my parents are still around
I knew it. The writter of the article is a communnist. Everything they wrote was complete and utter bs.
I don't think most men care about holidays. I didn't know it was Thanksgiving until I tried to go to the store at 8:00 p.m. tonight
I personally advocate for men not dealing with women at all, for example, if a woman calls a plumber, don't even talk to her except to tell her to have her husband call.
If women find that they can't get any services, NONE at all, then they will find out that they do need men.
in the old days it was "you break it you bought it" for men but for women it went on either their father's or husband's tab.
As long as no fault divorce exists, alimony and child support are not regulated to reasonable levels then marriage simply isn’t an option for men. Marriage isn’t possible because of feminism.
To win is to lose. This is beyond debate. Any man with eyes to see and ears to hear knows this.
Woe unto the man who doesn't look before he leaps.
My ex-wife fell victim to FACEBOOK FOMO AND JONES ' SYNDROME. I made mistakes but I overlooked some character flaws that I GAVE A PASS for loving an imperfect person. CLASSIC turn 40 and not happy anymore. Then spread lies to save face and cosign leaving. Shoulda known better...
As long as no-fault divorce exists, men should not get married EVER.
A woman can divorce you just because she's unhappy and then take you to the cleaners.
A woman that leaves just because she's unhappy should get NOTHING in the divorce.
Before concluding that men are "just not smart" about their women, it is critical to acknowledge that society beats men over the head for years NEFORE marriage, with the idea that if he just "steps up to the plate" and handles responsibility "like a real man," that women will _naturally fall into place in their proper roles._ TONS of men who BELIEVED that skipped past the idea of GUARDING against their wives for *THAT* reason!
Happy Thanksgiving!
My mom just checked in with one of her childhood best friends. I asked how her kids were doing since they are around my age. She had 3 kids (2 girl 1 boy). They all got married and all got divorced. 1 boy and 1 girl had multiple kids. I would be so sad to be a parent and have all my kids end up in failed marriages. I'm glad they had some kids, but the poor kids won't have stable childhoods. Be sure to stay thankful for what you have while you have it. There's a lot of change coming next year, so keep in touch with all of your connections. Keep your network strong and add to it as you can. Stay together and stay warm everyone!
Erin, another good video
Lola, conspicuous by her absence - did you leave her to do all the cleaning up after Thanksgiving Dinner???
I grew up in the late '70s/early '80s and saw the Communist version of Feminism emerge. The writing was on the wall even then, and -
you are correct - it will take other women to roll back the excesses of dysfunctional women. Previously, one of the roles of women
was to police the behaviour of other women. However, like many other things, women abdicated that role. Men were never equipped
to police female bad behaviour - they were far more skilled in policing male behaviour. Hence, there are very few limits for female dysfunction.
I see that Alexander Grace has decided to stop Simping in his latest offering. He's a clever guy, and, sometimes, he has something interesting to say - but, he has never really called out women on their ish!
Keep up the good work, Erin!!
“Receptionist: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.”
― Melvin Udall played by Jack Nicholson in AS GOOD AS IT GETS.
Thank you, Erin. For taking some of your time today to look out for all of us who ate missing our kid's.
These women do realize their pride and arrogance in being cruel to men will be their greatest downfall right? Or am I wrong here?
nah they don't "feel" that haha
This why I spend my time with "Providers" .
Hi Erin, hope ya had a great Thanksgiving too. I did. My daughter and I enjoyed the day at my son's home this year. Men have no safety net and have no choice but to be good just to get along in this world to stay off the streets. The women, well they play the victim card and the SA card........
Look nice today Erin, hope you're feeling better! 👋 From L.A.
God Bless You and family and Lola. Good show Erin. 30,000 and growing.
Wow!
The story about the stallion resonated SO much.
And I'm not even religious as a 'retired' catholic.
Hope you have a great day!
Thank you Erin, and Lola too ofcourse ❤😎😎👍👍 happy thanksgiving ❤😎👍🐶
5:15 the reason she has formed this opinion is because she repeatedly keeps picking the same chadthunderstroke types that have tons of options and dude's like that of course are going to pound cake and bounce, if she would stop looking for the guy who looks like he just stepped off the page of GQ magazine front page and look for something closer to Dad bod/ blue collar worker she would find a good guy! But she's never going to for that because she dated Mr GQ off the cover once and she is now convinced that's all she deserves 🤦 never gonna get wifed up doing the same thing over and over expecting different results.
Great Video !!! Love your shirt!!! I am beyond repair... Men need to have the scales fall from their eyes and deal with reality instead of fantasy. Find out what the really wealthy do to protect their assets, before, you make a stupid commitment.. If the relationship eventually ends ,you may be able to tell her : Sorry Honey... You married a pauper.. All the assets I have access to, are owned by third parties, I have nothing. If this is done right by good lawyers, before hand it's pretty effective..
Hello far from eden lady, Erin I believe, greetings from south Africa, it's 12 o clock at night here, always happy to hear from you quality content as always. Hope Lola is doing well Thank you ❤😎👍👍👍
Play Big love and respect for our friends in South Africa that work hard to care for their families. Especially the farmers
Intimacy robbers are everywhere too. To men it's likened to grape as a feeling to men who are faithful to their woman even if they haven't met her yet (i will only do this if she is my wife or going to be my wife). They try to open him up emotionally and try to get him interested physically by playing with his confidence that it's all going to be okay. Even if there is no train ride, it's a very painful experience and it paints an image in his mind that women cannot be trusted. The woman will do everything to get his intimacy but it's not real, but she took that from him and it wasn't hers. It's a game.
What disgusts me in the dating scene is that it's considered an "ick" for a man to be distrustful of women. Yet the same women are encouraged to be distrustful of men AND EXPECT MEN TO BE OK WITH BEING TREATED WITH DISTRUST, even though she would never do the same for him.
She'll treat you like her mom treats her dad. Do your research. If your living with an 'unstable' woman like I am, keep yourself protected. Record when you can. Leave her alone and treat her like a 14 year old and you'll make it.
Thanks for the words of encouragement
Evil judges.
Something that's been on my mind lately is that I think the gender problems in our culture begin during childhood. The battle of the sexes is as old as elementary school, where its normal for boys and girls to divide, call each other names, and insist that their gender is superior. Can you recall engaging in girls-vs-boys competitions growing up? Those weren't exactly "tolerant" events, just a lot of bullying from both sides with pride on the line. As we get older we grow attraction for one another, but I think many of these toxic sentiments continue to exist because our culture never chose to condemn it. Many women still see themselves as superior, as do many men. However, I think when a boy grows up with women he respects, he becomes someone that generally loves and respects women; same goes for a girl who grows up with men she respects, she becomes someone who generally loves and respects men.
I always hated the gender war nonsense even as a small child, many of my closest friends were girls, many of my closest relatives are girls, I had a stronger bond with my mom and than with my dad (and I still do), so I never understood why other boys acted the way they did when girls were around, excluding them from our spaces, and treating them as lesser and dumber, it felt wrong to me back then and what I feel today is simply an exaggerated version of that. I had the same feelings when girls did the same to boys, I even lost some of my friends because I was the wrong gender and not allowed to hang out anymore. Because of this, I've been a huge advocate for the respect and care of both genders my entire life, our gender should never have mattered in the first place. I understand we are very different physically, hormonally, mentally, emotionally, etc, and that God made us different for a reason, but God also made us to be united, and that's the way things should have been from the beginning. Different, but together.
So I think if we want to see culture change, it needs to start with our kids.
After any negative experience is hide a positive part. Thanks to Internet we men are learning the real truth. We grew up to serve and not talk about our emotions because that was always a source for the next fight. So my conclusion is that the worth of lot of women is almost nothing. Their strategy is all the same , open your legs and be sweet to get the order, after signing the order everything stops and when you like to go she gets here money. This was here goal.
The draft used to be televised.,I remember watching in 1968 looking for my uncle's number to come up. That's stress
Legit just got out of one of those relationships.
Didn't care about me.
Nice to see a decent woman out there,pleasure to see you ma'am keep it up,respect to you
Happy thanksgiving to you as well. You are truly a treasure.
My first thanksgiving after divorce is final, second after she kicked my out..3rd after she called it quits...i am at work on thanksgiving. I have no savings anymore, starting over from scratch. But I am thankfull for my kids.
Where do down-to-earth women like you hangout?
There's not enough of them to constitute a hangout.
Good one Garrett.
She is great.
Zinger…
God bless erin. U r one decent human being. Thanks
Thank you Ms. Eden. Please give the podcast Disaffected with Josh Slocum a listen. He presents examples of the cluster b mass psychosis we seem to be living in and he’s funny and smart.
I truly believe you’ll find his insight refreshing as well as earth shattering
Erin, you' got to do something on hand gestures, even when you're upset you're inclusive and taking account, vs. crazy ladies on tik-tok, finger snapping, clapping and clawing. It might take some editing to put it together but I think you'd crush it and it's a message that needs to get out there.
Thank you, Erin. Happy Thanksgiving. God bless 🙏
7 and 25 years and both cheated & used me like an ATM. 6ft 1 and a solid 8. Non violent, good Dad, husband provider. Why? Both so sorry and wanted me back after they got caught. Don't cheat. Talk it out, get counseling, separate, or divorce but don't cheat.
Hope you had an excellent and blessed Thanksgiving sis. You are a Gem! God Bless and Keep you safe.
Happy Thanksgiving Erin! 🥧
"How irreparably changed my life has become. It's always the last day of summer and I've been left out in the cold with no door to get back in. I'll grant you I've had more than my share of poignant moments. Life passes most people by while they're making grand plans for it. Throughout my lifetime, I've left pieces of my heart here and there. And now, there's almost not enough to stay alive. But I force a smile, knowing that my ambition far exceeded my talent. There are no more white horses or pretty ladies at my door." ~ George (Blow)
Rich women, of course, don't need a man. In the real world, you need to divide the labor to raise a family and doing that alone is beyond the capability of a single person.
When they talk about male self deletion, the only solution they ever come up with is removing the stigma so that men feel comfortable talking about feelings more. That wouldn't reduce the problem much. Men need to solve their actual problems to reduce that. That strategy would only help women. Women need a space to talk about their feelings. Men don't. What we need is to solve our problems. What are the two biggest reasons for male self deletion? Poverty and problems with women. Solving these problems is the only thing that will work for men. That's exactly why male podcasts like Fresh & Fit, Whatever, and Andrew Tate draws men in. They focus on helping men with earning money and getting advice about women, love them or hate them.
2:08 / 51:01
"Men are done because they KNOW women do not care about them" Possibly the greatest and truest headline in history. WELL, almost...Men are done with WESTERN Women. Great insights, I appreciate you. You're a rarity. You have a clue.
I am the stallion that died...sadly, but proudly.
Yeah, she tore the family apart. She died in June 😢
If a man never marries then he will never have to be divorced.
I am a 60 year old man and see myself too old for dating and that todays Women are too high maintenance and demanding .Plus it is so easy for them to accuse me of S/A .these days, Also keep saying they do not need a Man and I giggle and think what makes them think Man needs a Woman LOL.
I AINT GONE FRONT.....I WAS WAITING FOR YO CONTENT MA KEEP GOIN
Hello everyone. Stopping in for some reality from a woke place called Washington state.
I am traumatized because of my ex, and since then, it has been impossible for me to trust any woman. I also have an older sister, and I saw early on how manipulative and cruel women can be. For a long time, I didn’t want to believe it, so I spent my life searching for a wife-to have kids, marriage, and so on. But after experiencing the harsh reality, I’m done. I will never trust any woman again. In my view, 99.99% of them are mentally messed up-just like all these narcissistic men.
One problem, in my opinion, is that many women use dating apps and end up matching with narcissistic guys. Each time they meet one of these men, they become more frustrated and, in turn, start adopting the same toxic behavior.
This is what we see nowadays. From a natural perspective, women shouldn’t even be narcissistic. And in today’s safer societies, I don’t understand why they still fall for those types of men.
I guess they’ve manipulated themselves into miserable lives and then try to do the same to good guys.
The millennial lady judge makes me feel there are more peers of my generation that are down to earth, and keep it real. What society needs is the old school grim tales, but a sassy African American lady laying on thick the overall message of the story.
My ex-girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me because she asked why I don't talk badly about Trump, and all I said was "I just think differently". That was enough for her to scream and yell at me, I never raised my voice once, I tried speaking as calmly as I could, but then she was she's breaking up with me and to leave her place. I've given her so much of my time and love, I've done so many things for her, I cared about her deeply, yet it only took a disagreement on politics to lash out at me
They all forgot their soul. Crazy and sad.
I've been a feminist since I got into college. Empathy, because I'm in for equal access and opportunity, consideration and pay.
Prenup is a document which makes the marriage vow legally enforceable, if a woman refuse to sign a prenup, it means she doesn't mean it when she says the vow.
Hey Erin.You look lovely today.Happy Thanksgiving.I hope you and lola are having a great day.God bless you.🌹👋🎉🦃🤗👍🏻
Happy Thanksgiving to you as well. I hope your day was full of love and comfort. God Bless You.
I appreciate you.
The song is titled "YOU'LL NEVER WALK ALONE'--
I got divorced after she left me for my friend, my son was 4 months old, 1. No one cares, u gotta care for yourself and 2. Never buy roses, its emotional abuse to spoil your wife as per why she did it. 10 years single and not looking back
17:00 Yep, even 10 years later I still can’t believe how evil this one particular woman was. I just can’t fully wrap my head around it. But everything is a double-edged sword.
If she wants to date, forget it. Save your money. If it's not enough to spend time together and talk, it won't work.
Great commentary
Yes.
Then why take the risk? Why seek someone who very likely loaths and despises you? For this reward? How about NO?
This goes way back i encountered wimmin like this is the ‘s and 80’s not just in Canada but when I went to Australia. I was cautious and that proved worthwhile as in a couple of cases I found they had set me up with their husband or another boyfriend because they wanted to see us fight over hrr. I avoided that sometimes narrowly. After a few of those I left the English speaking world over 35 years ago. As well in Europe and Asia I encountered American female tourists and just a few minutes with them learned to avoid them completely. Loud, obnoxious and just ready to scream r*pe when they asked me for directions. I have not been anywhere near a white wummin on the street or anywhere else in at least six years. Who me? I no speaka da English.
Single, never married, very happy average man :-) Hope you all ate too much and enjoy life. Happy Thanksgiving!
Biff Tannen hates manure.
Divorced 5 years and my 7th thanksgiving alone
4:15 The projection is strong with this one.
Wife of 25 years. Found proof she cheated w/her college boy friend for 7 yrs. May have been our whole marriage, for all I know. I was a good husband, good provider, good Dad. She was soooo sorry and wanted to stay together after caught. Sweet lady, sneaky flip side.
"always recon the mother" Terrence Popp
Always have
Your goal in life is to survive and thrive not just to be happy.
How did it end..for the guy in court..I missed it