i definitely agree with all your points about having queer korean spaces FOR koreans!! i think it is really interesting how some homophobic korean people think its ok for foreigners to gay but not koreans. its like they think being queer is something for foreigners idk. i also hope things can improve soon
Yeah, to your point, (I remember) some 5-6 years ago, I was watching a gay pride celebration in Sydney (right here, on UA-cam), and, at one point, a (seemingly) more seasoned cop in attendance asked a group of Korean girls nearby if they were enjoying themselves, and they were very excited, indeed; then, he asked them something to the effect if they have (or would like to have) something like this in Korea; their answer, (a firm) "absolutely not" (I'll never forget that)!
It is really saddening when those in the LGBT+ community get such hate, especially from christians. For a religion that says "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" (aka, the "don't be a dick" rule), they constantly seem to forget that it applies to everyone :/ I myself follow the Catholic faith as the core tenants I believe and are good and positive, it's just the holier than thou people that give it a negative light constantly @-@
Oh exactly! I'm so happy to meet someone with the same point of view, I'm queer and christian and I definitely see many of us constantly forgetting what it actually means, love one another, do not hate.
i'm not christian, but i have a couple friends that are, they're the best people ik, it's exactly as you said it's always the people with a "holier than thou" mindset, where in reality they're just stupid as fuck
There are no laws in Korea that protect or support gay people, but there are also no laws that arrest someone for being gay. It's also rare to see people showing affection in public, but even if they do, while it's not 100% guaranteed, it's highly unlikely that anyone would attack them.
Girl, you hiding in the closet.... like a disco ball and glitter; I can not picture you as being hidden. All your videos give a perspective of what one can experience outside the bubble of Seoul, and they have been helpful on understanding a little more on expectations with EPIK. You certainly owe nothing to anyone to come out with this video, but I for one thank you all the same. It answers a couple of questions that I have. I was considering it may be easier to go to Korea where every eccentricity can be simply chalked up to being a foreigner rather than attempting to move within my own country's boundaries. The United States thinks of itself as homogeneous, yet my region shares more in common with other nations; plus, I blend like a flamingo in a flock of penguins. Hearing another person say out loud that their flamboyancy and personality was just attributed to being western gives a little more confidence and reassurance towards a possible move. Thank you for also sharing your experiences with pride, gathering places, and K Christians. I am always dubious of religious fanatics who outwardly force their will on others rather than focusing on self-introspect and personal improvement. It seems like the opposite of faith.
Hey! I'm sorry about the late reply however what a lovely comment! I'm glad that the videos/my experiences have helped you in some way! That's so great to hear! Best of luck with your journey to Korea and with life in the future :)
From personal observations, homosexuality, and religion (especially Christianity, and Islam) have never coexisted (and, as far as I'm concerned, will never coexist) harmoniously; personally, I'm staying as far away from religion as possible!
About public displays of affection, people most definitely would say something if you were to kiss someone in public. It's not about sexuality, that - it would be the case if it were male-female too. And, yes, people would talk about it, especially if you were to do it somewhere where Koreans behave even more conservatively. You probably wouldn't know they're talking about you. I'm in Korea too (Busan) and from Manchester also by the way, hi.
Most people know immediately, for example how do you know you like the preferences you do? Some people for example love brown eyes over other eye colors it’s just something you feel. So it’s the same about sexuality.
Maybe you just never found the “right” person who’s the same sex as you? Sounds ridiculous from that perspective, doesn’t it? Be a bit more introspective. Next time you want to ask a question, ask yourself the same question first to get a feel for how it comes off.
i definitely agree with all your points about having queer korean spaces FOR koreans!! i think it is really interesting how some homophobic korean people think its ok for foreigners to gay but not koreans. its like they think being queer is something for foreigners idk. i also hope things can improve soon
I'm glad you found the video insightful!
Yeah, to your point, (I remember) some 5-6 years ago, I was watching a gay pride celebration in Sydney (right here, on UA-cam), and, at one point, a (seemingly) more seasoned cop in attendance asked a group of Korean girls nearby if they were enjoying themselves, and they were very excited, indeed; then, he asked them something to the effect if they have (or would like to have) something like this in Korea; their answer, (a firm) "absolutely not" (I'll never forget that)!
Good stuff. Keep this coming. Such an interesting country.
Thx for the detailed information :)
It is really saddening when those in the LGBT+ community get such hate, especially from christians. For a religion that says "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" (aka, the "don't be a dick" rule), they constantly seem to forget that it applies to everyone :/ I myself follow the Catholic faith as the core tenants I believe and are good and positive, it's just the holier than thou people that give it a negative light constantly @-@
Oh exactly! I'm so happy to meet someone with the same point of view, I'm queer and christian and I definitely see many of us constantly forgetting what it actually means, love one another, do not hate.
i'm not christian, but i have a couple friends that are, they're the best people ik, it's exactly as you said it's always the people with a "holier than thou" mindset, where in reality they're just stupid as fuck
Great video. Thank you for sharing.
There are no laws in Korea that protect or support gay people, but there are also no laws that arrest someone for being gay. It's also rare to see people showing affection in public, but even if they do, while it's not 100% guaranteed, it's highly unlikely that anyone would attack them.
17:20 i like drake
how’d i respond : so we heard of girls generation right?
Hahhaha icon girlies
Girl, you hiding in the closet.... like a disco ball and glitter; I can not picture you as being hidden. All your videos give a perspective of what one can experience outside the bubble of Seoul, and they have been helpful on understanding a little more on expectations with EPIK.
You certainly owe nothing to anyone to come out with this video, but I for one thank you all the same. It answers a couple of questions that I have. I was considering it may be easier to go to Korea where every eccentricity can be simply chalked up to being a foreigner rather than attempting to move within my own country's boundaries. The United States thinks of itself as homogeneous, yet my region shares more in common with other nations; plus, I blend like a flamingo in a flock of penguins. Hearing another person say out loud that their flamboyancy and personality was just attributed to being western gives a little more confidence and reassurance towards a possible move.
Thank you for also sharing your experiences with pride, gathering places, and K Christians. I am always dubious of religious fanatics who outwardly force their will on others rather than focusing on self-introspect and personal improvement. It seems like the opposite of faith.
Hey! I'm sorry about the late reply however what a lovely comment! I'm glad that the videos/my experiences have helped you in some way! That's so great to hear! Best of luck with your journey to Korea and with life in the future :)
From personal observations, homosexuality, and religion (especially Christianity, and Islam) have never coexisted (and, as far as I'm concerned, will never coexist) harmoniously; personally, I'm staying as far away from religion as possible!
Hi Alex I'm new and I like your videos👏
I’m glad you enjoy the videos❤️
“I love Drake too” 🤣 i’m sorry but blesssss you hahaha. Meanwhile your kpop girly algorithms 🐰👖
About public displays of affection, people most definitely would say something if you were to kiss someone in public. It's not about sexuality, that - it would be the case if it were male-female too. And, yes, people would talk about it, especially if you were to do it somewhere where Koreans behave even more conservatively. You probably wouldn't know they're talking about you.
I'm in Korea too (Busan) and from Manchester also by the way, hi.
Do you struggle with the language barrier?
I think you're adorable. 😍
Oof
See you around in homo hill😊
teaching in two elementary schools, i could die
Sis, you took the first 3 mins to repeat the same thing over and over again lol.
How do you know you're gay, though? Maybe you just haven't met the right girl.
Maybe you just haven’t been educated enough to understand that this really isn’t the way it works.
Most people know immediately, for example how do you know you like the preferences you do? Some people for example love brown eyes over other eye colors it’s just something you feel. So it’s the same about sexuality.
@reisele1980 Maybe you are a gay?! You just have not found the right guy to realize that! Sounds about right.
how do you know you're not gay
Maybe you just never found the “right” person who’s the same sex as you? Sounds ridiculous from that perspective, doesn’t it? Be a bit more introspective. Next time you want to ask a question, ask yourself the same question first to get a feel for how it comes off.