SURRENDERED LIFE (Do you know what it means?) Here is my story - Dr. John W. Mulinde

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  • @mulindeangelmusoke
    @mulindeangelmusoke 3 роки тому +240

    I remember how it felt that day in this Africamp when Dad shared this. I remember feeling the pain in his voice as he spoke. I remember crying so heavily at the back. At the time, it was about finally feeling like I understood my father, our childhood, and what was to come. It was heavy, so heavy.
    Today years later, I watch this, my heart burst out in pain, this time, I look at my life, my relationship with God, and what it would mean to surrender everything... My life, my name, my new family.. Am in tears.. help me surrender Lord

    • @andrewlubaale1214
      @andrewlubaale1214 3 роки тому +11

      U r so blessed lady.....to have been born carried kissed loved and nurtured under a man who is a career of Godz glory....i envy u😉

    • @carriechen2004
      @carriechen2004 3 роки тому +3

      Our God has blessed us so much through you dad and you and your family.

    • @nakanwagiphiona3171
      @nakanwagiphiona3171 3 роки тому +4

      Just known apostle mulinde and family recently but this story oh my God, give me the heart of knowing you like this family, oh lord

    • @thendospengane1936
      @thendospengane1936 2 роки тому +4

      I'm a pastor's kid myself I completely understand what you are saying.

    • @doloresglass8881
      @doloresglass8881 Рік тому +10

      Only the LIVING feel pain. Be happy! Your sorrow is part of walking a Spiritual Path! You are aware of :
      your need for God and
      Your sin and
      To grow in Holiness
      This is a life-long Christians Daily Self Examination of the days sins and response to Gods grace.
      I know this because I am 66 years old. Such is a Christians life. A Daily Self-Examination is often not taught and/or forgotten. But it is needed each day. So we do not wander away from our God and Savior, Jesus Christ.
      So pray each day. THANK Jesus for His Choosing Suffering - for our Salvation !!!!
      PRAISE God for His perfect wisdom to Plan for our Salvation.
      WORSHIP God for His Great Kindness to bring us back to Him after our ancestors sinned so very much.
      PETITION (ask and pray) Christ to help you to love and follow Him each day.
      This is called a Spiritual Walk with Christ. This is how Christians are to live each day.
      May you be blessed ❤

  • @holynationglobal9062
    @holynationglobal9062 Рік тому +375

    Who is here because of pastor James kawalyas testimony and Erika Mukisa's testimony....

    • @MRINDA1
      @MRINDA1 Рік тому +1

      Me

    • @kirabojosephine3250
      @kirabojosephine3250 Рік тому +1

      meeree

    • @ellessnyama6789
      @ellessnyama6789 Рік тому +1

      Me

    • @beautymulikita7118
      @beautymulikita7118 Рік тому +13

      Me. From SA 🇿🇦. I am now watch Apostle Mulinde and Pst James everyday. God is using them to minister to me at this time. Wht a blessing they are

    • @onnyz
      @onnyz Рік тому +15

      Came across Pastor James’ testimony on tick tock now I’m going through the teachings of Dr John & I must say I’m learning a new thing with every one of them. God is here family 🔥🔥🔥👏🙌😭❤️ sending love from Botswana 🇧🇼 Fam🙏

  • @anatelmakololo6712
    @anatelmakololo6712 9 місяців тому +12

    I'm here because of pastor James testimony too Jesus is sweet 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @waynemayama8005
    @waynemayama8005 Рік тому +36

    Everytime I listen to his teachings.. I literally feel like I immediately need to get into repentance and I feel so... sooo... indescribably beneath the standard.. of the relationship that God would like me to have with Him... I don't even know how to explain it.. just imagining how faithful this man is yet God still wants him to surrender ALL.... OOOOOOOH.... HOW MUCH MORE... should I.... a nobody😭😭😭😭.. who has fallen soo.. sooo sooo many times...!!!!... ohw.... truly there's nothing I can boast of myself

  • @andrewlubaale1214
    @andrewlubaale1214 3 роки тому +84

    He makes me feel like my relationship with God is a joke....and in his stories....i c the scary God of the bible...yet again a loving God.

  • @denysia8183
    @denysia8183 Рік тому +37

    Yes, James kawalya got my curiosity. I will be binge watching Mulinde’s sermons.

  • @NonkululekoSisoka
    @NonkululekoSisoka Рік тому +21

    I am here because of what Pastor James said.

  • @tumusiimegetridah735
    @tumusiimegetridah735 9 місяців тому +3

    An encounter with Jesus is the best thing ever

  • @tembotasila3919
    @tembotasila3919 11 місяців тому +12

    You guys in Uganda are so blessed,you love God and God loves you so much,i wish this anointing can be extended to our nation. God visit my nation Zambia in the same way😢

  • @gracea.elizabeth1244
    @gracea.elizabeth1244 Рік тому +5

    I am here because of Pst James Kawalya

  • @toshianitah3882
    @toshianitah3882 11 місяців тому +8

    This is 2024/1 and this is powerful, I can feel His presence,,...oooh my God 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @KayimaProssy
      @KayimaProssy 6 місяців тому

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭how do I surrender

  • @cassie-rin
    @cassie-rin 4 місяці тому +2

    watching this and halfway thru this i realized how much of the things i'm not letting go to God 😭

  • @proscoviaisiko3050
    @proscoviaisiko3050 10 місяців тому +2

    Buli kyenesigaliza,omulabe kyakozesa okunkuba. Thanks Papa. God bless.

  • @mzukisidlambewu-kc6dv
    @mzukisidlambewu-kc6dv Рік тому +17

    Every time I listen to Dr Mulinde, I break down in tears, his love and fear for the Lord shakes my soul to the core. Can you please pray for me Man of God that God's work will prevail in my life😭😭😭

  • @palmarinewilliams1469
    @palmarinewilliams1469 Рік тому +11

    I would like Jamaica to call a fast like this so many church yet we r having so much increase of all type of evil facing our country we the body of christ need to really surrender that when we pray he Jesus can deliver bless pastor praying God grace may continue to use you sir

  • @eleinaphiona1348
    @eleinaphiona1348 25 днів тому

    Its because of such men of God that our country is getting revival, they stood strong, i got to know about him through apostle James Kawalya and Erica Mukisa's testimonies.

  • @mihlalivokwana4731
    @mihlalivokwana4731 11 місяців тому +5

    Erica and pastor James have open my spiritual eyes

  • @genevebvuma7742
    @genevebvuma7742 Рік тому +12

    My powerful man of God, yes l searched for him after pastor James Testimony praise God He gave me big. Courage

  • @LindiweMtimkulu-v5p
    @LindiweMtimkulu-v5p 8 місяців тому +2

    Praying that God gives us the man who will talk and listen to God s voice and do His will so as to lead His people in God s ways

  • @kingdomdreams4
    @kingdomdreams4 Рік тому +7

    The power of God is evidently upon his ministry insomuch that it takes hold of ppl watching the videos years later. I feel this same power while listening. It(the power of God) goes over & is above the power of darkness & chains down the listeners so that they listen attentively and is operational upon the heart of anyone with a willing spirit in the day of His power.
    this man has the Spirit of Elijah upon him to prepare the way, prepare the heart, prepare the people for that Day spoken of in Malachi Chapters 3 & 4. The mountains must be broken down and laid low, the way made straight for the way of the Lord to come into the temples(hearts) of men.

  • @Zachary12232
    @Zachary12232 3 роки тому +19

    i love this man of God....His relationship with our Father gets me jealous.

    • @blessedchosen1582
      @blessedchosen1582 2 роки тому +2

      I would write the same 👌

    • @ronkealonge8378
      @ronkealonge8378 Рік тому

      @@blessedchosen1582 Becareful, that is not the spirit.

    • @blessedchosen1582
      @blessedchosen1582 Рік тому

      @@ronkealonge8378what do you mean?

    • @ronkealonge8378
      @ronkealonge8378 Рік тому

      @@blessedchosen1582 That is competitive spirit which is not good. Why not complement the person that is sharing first, then when you share your own testimony we will praise God for you too

    • @blessedchosen1582
      @blessedchosen1582 Рік тому

      @@ronkealonge8378 sorry, but it seems am not getting your point? Where is the problem? Me typing that I would write the same or ?? The message that was preached

  • @nanonogloshgloria
    @nanonogloshgloria 2 місяці тому

    Lord i pray that you give me this kind of love to love you with all of me Lord 🙏🙏🙏

  • @mauramar4407
    @mauramar4407 Рік тому +16

    Few days ago I found this message and I cried out to God because as I listened to it God was speaking to me. I repent and I cried..I cried for forgiveness and I searched my heart help me O Father. Michigan 🙏🇺🇸

  • @funnyazele4924
    @funnyazele4924 8 місяців тому +2

    This is the third time am listening to this powerful sermon..... i won't lie Apostle John Mulinde is one of the Apostles God is using mightily! Ever since i started watching his sermons my prayer life is not the same.

  • @shenmanuel
    @shenmanuel 3 роки тому +26

    I listened to this this morning and the presence was so tangible
    Lord help us to surrender

    • @kingdomdreams4
      @kingdomdreams4 Рік тому +1

      The power of God is evidently upon his ministry insomuch that it takes hold of ppl watching the videos years later. I feel this same power while listening. It(the power of God) goes over & is above the power of darkness & chains down the listeners so that they listen attentively and is operational upon the heart of anyone with a willing spirit in the day of His power.

    • @shenmanuel
      @shenmanuel Рік тому

      @@kingdomdreams4 Amen, very true. Thanks for leaving this comment

  • @eunicenakhayali8659
    @eunicenakhayali8659 11 місяців тому +2

    A word on time
    May God remember KENYA

  • @vincentchoongo2498
    @vincentchoongo2498 Рік тому +10

    God is indeed using his servant. This man is truly God's vessel. I pray that the anointing of God locate me from this true servant of God.

  • @WINSTONGITONGA
    @WINSTONGITONGA Рік тому +6

    You don't know me but you are one man who has changed my life.

  • @NATOTELABAGS
    @NATOTELABAGS 6 місяців тому +1

    Lord , i want total surrender and it starts now 🙏 Amen

  • @jescaimalingat5885
    @jescaimalingat5885 Рік тому +5

    Lord give me the grace to surrender everything to you.😭

  • @eunicenakhayali8659
    @eunicenakhayali8659 11 місяців тому +1

    May GOD through this teaching Give me the strength to return to my call of absolute surrender and NEVER look back..Oh Lord Help me

  • @blessedchosen1582
    @blessedchosen1582 2 роки тому +16

    Lord Teach me please how to surrender all! 🙏 Thank you Dr. John Mulinde God’s friend )

  • @hajjatolivia
    @hajjatolivia 4 місяці тому

    Because am still a youth but whenever I listen to Apostle John Mulindes sermons I feel like there is still a big gap in my inner man that must be filled in Jesus's name

  • @mynorrequeno6136
    @mynorrequeno6136 3 роки тому +20

    Words do not suffice how powerful and impactful Dr. John’s life through God is to me. I listen to this message a few times a year because it puts me back in perspective. I don’t know how to surrender my life. I pray in Jesus name Lord help me to surrender my life! Not for selfish or ambitious gain, (before God I lie not God knows my heart) but rather for His will be done! Not my will but Your will Father!

    • @Octavia-yc7lw
      @Octavia-yc7lw 11 місяців тому

      May yo say that again now that you you know he is of GOD!❤

  • @nankyastellahstar296
    @nankyastellahstar296 3 роки тому +11

    Oooh God am sooo touched.. God bless you Apostle doctor John Mulinde.. Help me surrender oh my God

    • @ivanelijahkitaka8186
      @ivanelijahkitaka8186 3 роки тому

      Powerful, touching, deep message by Dr. Apostle John Mulinde on total surrender to our Heavenly Father, Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit. May the Lord grant us the Grace and Humility to do His perfect will for our lives in Christ Jesus’s name. Amen

  • @mobalance4736
    @mobalance4736 3 місяці тому +1

    Watching from South Africa..after a pastors testimony I overheard n I still don't know who he was who went to Italy as a boy n he mentioned this pastor's name so I searched.Amen.God bless the minister.We must go back to God in this manner.

    • @MaureenCharingwa
      @MaureenCharingwa 3 місяці тому

      It was Apostle James Kawalya

    • @YongamaLove
      @YongamaLove 2 місяці тому

      ​@@MaureenCharingwaWhat did that Pastor say?

    • @YongamaLove
      @YongamaLove 2 місяці тому

      ​@@MaureenCharingwaWhat did James say about him?

  • @nabwirewawabukoya3624
    @nabwirewawabukoya3624 2 місяці тому

    Hallelujah Hallelujah thank you Jesus for this testmony

  • @SarahAdongo-et8pf
    @SarahAdongo-et8pf 10 місяців тому

    Lord have mercy on me...its all about you Jesus😭😭

  • @tendaimupondi3064
    @tendaimupondi3064 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Beautiful Holy Spirit, I surrender all in the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen

  • @laguairenelax9312
    @laguairenelax9312 Рік тому +3

    I remembered you through the testimony of james kawalya and erica may God empower his servants from Uganda 🇺🇬 to the whole world 🌎 🙏 🙌may Almighty God use you to minister to the world 🌎 🙏

    • @tuhaisedaphine1118
      @tuhaisedaphine1118 Рік тому

      It's Umar Mulinde's in Erica's testimony not Dr John Mulinde

  • @micdass4671
    @micdass4671 3 роки тому +9

    Lord Jesus Christ 🙏 Teach me and guide me to surrender all of my life to You,

  • @TryphineNatukwasa
    @TryphineNatukwasa 2 місяці тому

    The holy spirit led me here

  • @hajjatolivia
    @hajjatolivia 4 місяці тому

    May God give to us we young ministers of God genuine spiritual fathers because this error of ours things are not understandable

  • @Marge38
    @Marge38 Рік тому +4

    Indeed one of his kids was taken away, after a short illness.

  • @colleenmillwood1989
    @colleenmillwood1989 Рік тому +2

    Help Holy Spirit to surrender all to Jesus Christ. My heart is calling me greatly to the work of Jesus Christ here on earth please help me Holy Spirit

  • @hajjatolivia
    @hajjatolivia 4 місяці тому

    Glory and Honor be to God our Father in Heaven for His loving kindness

  • @namussprossy6977
    @namussprossy6977 3 роки тому +5

    I should surrender everything indeed help me God

  • @ninsiimajanet1411
    @ninsiimajanet1411 11 місяців тому

    "Every level of surrender builds a new platform of authority "

  • @Siphokazi_Siphokazi.
    @Siphokazi_Siphokazi. 5 місяців тому

    Me two I'm here because pastor James testimony, but I saw him before on UA-cam but I didn't know that I t was the same person pastor James was talking about.iAm so blessed again, praise God

  • @kisakyejoweria4923
    @kisakyejoweria4923 3 роки тому +3

    Jesus ohhhh noooo
    God have Mercy on me
    The exact words the voice have been telling me
    And this message is old now God as used this to prove me wright

  • @SeanPriest-el1yw
    @SeanPriest-el1yw 11 місяців тому +1

    I'm here because of Pastor James

  • @MaureenCharingwa
    @MaureenCharingwa 3 місяці тому

    I thank God for Apostle John Mulinde

  • @hajjatolivia
    @hajjatolivia 4 місяці тому

    May God help me to be like His Son Jesus Christ by the help of the Holy Spirit

  • @bibjoymugaga3683
    @bibjoymugaga3683 3 роки тому +3

    Wawuuu...6:44___am glad my muddu Senfuma was among this congregation...rest on Bishop

  • @lianhailey
    @lianhailey 7 місяців тому

    Oh God i surrender my life to you

  • @godslove1847
    @godslove1847 2 роки тому +5

    God I want to know you and am willing to surrender everything to you my God

  • @prossieprossie7420
    @prossieprossie7420 2 роки тому +3

    LORD,I want total surrender and it starts now

  • @zoliswapatriciangcala7412
    @zoliswapatriciangcala7412 Рік тому +2

    Wow the last week i listen this sermon i was criying now its second time its not easy to walk in an narrow road the scripture says many are called and few are chosen the Holy Spirit is helping me otherwise i was chocked when i listen to this sermon is the most powerful one i ever heard in my life

  • @mukisagodfrey1168
    @mukisagodfrey1168 3 роки тому +21

    I feel deeply touched with apostle Mulinde's sermons, may God help me know Him deeply.

  • @appangella2294
    @appangella2294 2 роки тому +5

    God bless you man of God. We need people like you apostle.

  • @luciakangaonde
    @luciakangaonde 3 роки тому +5

    Amen 🙏 oh Lord give us grace to surrender .perfect us so that we can be able to do your will and your purpose we can not be able to do it ourselves we need your help Lord have mercy on us Amen

  • @mosibudihulela4448
    @mosibudihulela4448 3 місяці тому

    M here because of James ❤❤God is good

  • @senorasalazar1462
    @senorasalazar1462 Рік тому +1

    True man of God. May he be blessed with the blood of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. He is not afraid to preach repentance.

  • @timmattner7107
    @timmattner7107 Рік тому +5

    I am here in America, Houston, Texas. I have heard but only 2 messages and I am devastated. Torn apart at the mere thought of how filthy and selfish and pathetic I am in the sight of GOD. This man, a man of GOD that loves so much, to be told by GOD that if HE were to come today that this man of GOD would not go with HIM. Because he was an adulterer, liar, fornicator and covetous and he lived in his sinful ways. If this pastor had no hope of salvation, how can I even stand in the same line, a billion miles apart from this pastor, and still think to have any hope of salvation. GOD can do it, that's not the question or issue, the question and issue is; how is it possible that I can die to every human desire and be filled with only love. Not human love but a love that can only be put inside me by GOD HIMSELF! So that every thought, every immagination, every physical deed is only done through faith and prayer, not moving until I hear the Voice of GOD? I believe that this is the only fruit GOD will ACCEPT (fruit the HE alone produces inside a man) and by that fruit of GOD, can any man believe that he has any hope of salvation. All of my believing, faith, and hope is humanistic and not of GOD!! All of my understanding is human understanding and these traits are only in fragments. I have zero fruit. Not one person has ever been set on fire by the Presence or Power of GOD through my speaking of scriptures. Therefore, I must be spiritually DEAD inside. All of my fruit as rotten!! Someone please respond to me. I beg you!!!!

    • @leilaali4950
      @leilaali4950 11 місяців тому

      Take heart Luke 12:48 "to whom much is given much will be expected" our God is a merciful and loving God. I leave you Prov. 3:5-6 27:48

    • @katherineosere6597
      @katherineosere6597 11 місяців тому

      Your humility draws the Lord to you. His grace is what started this work and will be what finishes it, not our works, so no man can boast.
      Matthew says, "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God. Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be filled."

    • @republicanrule
      @republicanrule 8 місяців тому

      I can relate. I just listened to this and my works before the Lord stink. I thought the same, how can I make it if even this servant of God is in error. I don't even fast and I pray, but not like this man and his partners. God help us all! Give us understanding! Lord deal with us until we get it right! I know you are coming soon!

    • @josephinenantongokaggwa9940
      @josephinenantongokaggwa9940 6 місяців тому +2

      The fact you feel so convicted means the holy spirit is working in you. Just seek & remain in God's presence and he will perfect.

    • @SsemakulaRonald-ri1xb
      @SsemakulaRonald-ri1xb 6 місяців тому

      Thanks for God work

  • @lydiaolajumoke
    @lydiaolajumoke Рік тому +1

    Oh Lord God I believe you in this ur servant, please lord let me be saved and delivered by ur word in Jesus name from you thru him amen.

  • @VuyisileLunga
    @VuyisileLunga 3 місяці тому

    Lord l want totally surrender and it starts now 😭🙇‍♀️

  • @palmarinewilliams1469
    @palmarinewilliams1469 Рік тому +5

    So bless listening your testimony of the mighty work God has laid on you and listen how we r to be so humble and obedience to him if we r not obedience we cannot be use by God's speaking to us love you and thank for those word of strength to look in my heart

  • @GraceFatu-nt3oi
    @GraceFatu-nt3oi 6 місяців тому

    Im here bcz of James Kawala testmony

  • @jackiemahovo3741
    @jackiemahovo3741 Рік тому +6

    Oh Lord, I cry for my beloved country Zimbabwe🇿🇼

  • @onnyz
    @onnyz Рік тому +4

    God is here family🙏🔥❤️📌

  • @starorakpo7255
    @starorakpo7255 11 місяців тому

    Our God is a fearsome God!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @vicentmubangizi3847
    @vicentmubangizi3847 Рік тому +2

    Hallelujah my life is for you Lord #samecalling

  • @henriettananyonjo3455
    @henriettananyonjo3455 2 роки тому +2

    TOTAL surrender. Holy Spirit help me

  • @perpetuachinweudo9089
    @perpetuachinweudo9089 10 місяців тому

    Oh Lord I cry for my Country Nigeria 🇳🇬

  • @evelynpeters3384
    @evelynpeters3384 3 роки тому +2

    Father pls help me...I still love You

  • @ceciliahayden5715
    @ceciliahayden5715 3 роки тому +1

    Oh my God when will hear You speak to me 😭😭

  • @HelenKodi
    @HelenKodi Рік тому +1

    Salvation is not easy God help us

  • @blessedness3405
    @blessedness3405 8 місяців тому

    Oh lord jesus I wanna know you 😢😢

  • @kyarimpaadellah8809
    @kyarimpaadellah8809 2 роки тому +2

    God bless you and your family 👪

  • @paiteaudiobible23
    @paiteaudiobible23 Рік тому +1

    Praise God. Pastor, your message touched me so deeply.

  • @mercyb5540
    @mercyb5540 3 роки тому +2

    Lord i want to total surrender

  • @ntalejoseph716
    @ntalejoseph716 Рік тому +1

    The power of intercessors

  • @womanoffaith1806
    @womanoffaith1806 2 роки тому +2

    God's love

  • @GamenaChannel
    @GamenaChannel Рік тому

    A call to Repentance, oh Lord have mercy upon me.. may your grace bound me that i repent of all my sin and walk a righteous path 🙏🙏🙏

  • @kanyanadebby9357
    @kanyanadebby9357 Рік тому +1

    I want God's love..!

  • @namussprossy6977
    @namussprossy6977 3 роки тому +2

    Lord have mercy on me

  • @mercyb5540
    @mercyb5540 3 роки тому +2

    May God bless you papa🙏🙏$ May He give me the grace to surrender

    • @mubangyiziaaron3476
      @mubangyiziaaron3476 3 роки тому +1

      I have taken time and listed to this sermon and it's very prophetic, my heart, soul, life have totally changed. Otherwise I encourage people to take their time and listed to it, I promises there life won't remain the same. Am a born again Anglican God bless you Pastors Mulinde you are a true man of God.

  • @miemie4523
    @miemie4523 2 роки тому +1

    Am inspired

  • @Zachary12232
    @Zachary12232 3 роки тому +6

    this is so hard to do....but the Lord is the great reward totally surrendering to Him is far more valuable.

    • @shenmanuel
      @shenmanuel 3 роки тому

      Amen

    • @lilianosoro6399
      @lilianosoro6399 11 місяців тому +1

      It's hard. It's scary, but that's what truly surrendering is 😢

  • @hildahkatumba
    @hildahkatumba Рік тому

    Lord, I want total surrender , help me, dear Holy Spirit

  • @fusingwinelizabeth5646
    @fusingwinelizabeth5646 Рік тому +1

    Hallelujah!

  • @christine6946
    @christine6946 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤ praise the lord hallelujah hallelujah

  • @asiimwepeter1316
    @asiimwepeter1316 2 роки тому +3

    AMEN AMEN AMEN 🙇‍♂️🙌💥

  • @deborahnansubuga6452
    @deborahnansubuga6452 4 місяці тому

    God.

  • @mauramar4407
    @mauramar4407 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Pastor 🙏🇺🇸

  • @adongo8605
    @adongo8605 11 місяців тому +1

    Yes James kawalya

  • @jemsonapatan4858
    @jemsonapatan4858 Рік тому

    Wow! Let go everything.

  • @SarahAdongo-q5f
    @SarahAdongo-q5f 11 місяців тому

    OMG😢😢😢lead me Lord

  • @patriciastuckey5060
    @patriciastuckey5060 Рік тому

    Outstanding

  • @solomonkatamba7530
    @solomonkatamba7530 Рік тому

    I seen it. God have mercy on me. They preach to me 😢😢😢