ENNEAGRAM TYPE 3 SUBTYPES | Are you a SP, SO or SX?
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- Do you ever wonder why an Enneagram type 3 can look different from another Enneagram 3? Subtypes play a big part in this. Each Enneagram Type has three major instinctual drives. These are called the self preservation, social, or one to one instincts. We use all three of these instincts for the activities of daily life. However, one of these instincts is more dominant and influences how we express our personality type. This primary instinct interacts with our Enneagram type to create a "Subtype."
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0:59 - Type 3 wings
1:16 - What is a Subtype?
3:40 - Self Preservation Type 7
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7:31 - One-to-One Type 7
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I'm definitely a type 3 SX/SP. I always wondered why I didnt look like a "typical" SO type3 and when you explained the subtype SX I was just like yup. yup. me. 😂 Altho I'm a SX and still very much love the spotlight :/
I think this confirmed that I am a 3w4 SO/SX, very interesting! Thank you for these videos, really helpful for someone who is just getting into Enneagram typing.
Awesome! You’re so welcome! This is my goal, to teach an easy way to understand the Enneagram. It’s can get so confusing.
Yep. Definitely a 3w2 sx lol. Reading about the sx 3 actually helped me figure out my type when I was struggling between 2 and 3. Throw in being a mbti ESFJ and I was super confused until I read about subtypes
Thanks for sharing!!
omg that is so cool, im an esfj sx dom too!! only difference is im 3w4 and definitely sx/so
Yep, 100% sure I'm a 3w4 SP/SO lol! I've noticed in certain situations that I toggle between the SP and SO instincts but I always come back to the SP instinct; I honestly can't get away from it if I tried lol.
My mom is a 3w2, at this point I'm pretty sure her subtypes are SX/SO. I always wondered why we looked so differently as 3s and now it makes sense. 😊
Great video, it was so easy to follow along and gave great highlights to each instinct, thanks!
LOL! Oh yes, the 3w4 sp/so and 3w2 sx/so would look soooo different 😂 Loved that this video was easy to follow! Thanks for the feedback 🙌🏼
I'm definitely a 3w2 SO/SX... I found myself giggling as you did descriptions because they were so incredibly spot on!
thank you. i’m a 3w4 sp/so and this video has helped me make confirmations for that
Yay! Love this!
@@enneagramandcoaching update, i’ve actually retyped as 3w2 so/sp since now. the core motivations of 2 i feel are more alligned with me than the core motivations of 4
Good point, “since childhood.”
Interesting video and description. I'm a 3w2. I'm pretty sure I'm an SO/SP because I'm really only SP at work. Brands and expensive things used to matter to me, now, not so much. The leader thing, totally accurate. Criticism really hits me hard, even minor criticism. And I'm definitely not an SX, even though I tried when I was younger and just wasn't as "successful" at it. LOL.
Great video, thank you! You're one of my new favorite go to's for enneagram information. I just discovered that I'm a 3 W 4 sp/SX and I mistyped myself as a self pres 1 for the past 2 and some odd years.
Awwww thank you!!!!!!!!! ❤️
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It's funny, I have this idea of what a 9 looks like in my head and I was like, you're way too up beat and energetic for a 9. But the 9 goes to 3 in health which is what you look more like. Just like my 8 girlfriend who always looks like a 2.
@@MrSergzilla my husband is an 8 and he often resembles a 2 😅 also!
@@enneagramandcoaching that's awesome, you healthy bastards!!!
Woahhhhhhhh~!!! Thank you for this! Now I get why I look like a two 😂😂😂 It is because I am a type 3w2 with the subtypes Sx/So! Huhu~! Thank you for this ^^
I can get to know myself more and have a foundation for seeing who I am!
Woot! Woot! Yes! Love it!
So...this video made me realize I'm probably a type 3 SP, and have been confusing it with type 1. I relate to a lot of stuff with the type 1, and I don't look like the typical type 3, but when you described the SP, I was like "yep, that sounds like me." 🤷🏽♀️
Thank you for sharing! This is a common issue for SP 3s...but I’m so glad you landed on your type!
@@enneagramandcoaching Do you think you'll ever do an interview video with people who have the different subtypes? I like watching your interview videos, but I'd love to see one with a self-preservation type 3.
That is such a fabulous idea! Truth be told I hadn’t even thought of that. But I definitely am going to look into doing this. Thank you for the amazing idea!
@@enneagramandcoaching You're welcome! I can't wait to see those interviews! 💕
Heyyy ! Tysm for helping me figuring out my subtype ! Im clearly a 3w2 so/sx ! 😌
You are so welcome!
Another fantastic video! Thanks!
Thank you Francesca! ❤️
I’m most relating to SX.. be my best is my everything, and SO my second as a 3w4.. it’s so confusing because I have this unrealistic view of my self and play chameleon games so I struggle with who I really am.. I thought I was a 8, but that’s probably wishful thinking because I like their confidence or something. I do struggle with a achievement based system to earn love , which became very real when I have exposed my self lately and it haven’t gone as I planed.. but I maybe got the best insight of life instead
Crazy thing!! So I’ve been doing a deep dive into studying the Enneagram and at various points mistyped myself BECAUSE I’m a Self Pres 3 which I now know is the countertype!!!!!🤦🏼♀️
omg this video confirmed that i'm a 3w2 SX/SO -- i was mistyped as a 2w3 for the longest time lmao
Yay!!!
ooh! I’m definitely a 3w2 SX.. and then the other two sound equally like me and not like me haha
Thank you!! This was super helpful and easy to understand :)
Every test I take puts me with a clear type three but I always kept thinking maybe I am a one but now I’m thinking I am a type 3SP. That really resonates with me
Ooh, stacking too! Awesome!
I definitely am an ENFP type 3w2 So/Sx
Woot! Woot!
Self preservation 3!
Woot! Woot!
I am honestly confused... I am definitely a type 3, 3w2, but of these three, none of them really resonate with me completely. I can identify with them all to a certain extent (would probably say I'm SO/SX), but even then, there are aspects you mention that just don't feel right. Is that normal?
Thank you for this video! Is it also common for an SP 3 to mistype as a 6 because of the security aspect?
I have heard that said before.
I think I'm a type 3w4 SP/SX. Is the format correct? Lol
Perfect!!!!
I'm not really sure, but I think I'm 3w4 sx/so
Awesome!
Okay so I’ve been going back and forth for a while now, but I’m pretty sure I’m a 3w2 SX/SP
I think this conformed that I am a 3w2 SO! The good and the "bad" of it! LOL!
Hahaha! Yes! We know your subtype now 🙌🏼
And thank you for making the 2 or 3 video. Sooo honest. 💖💖💖
@@milaalaniva775 I was and I am still so impressed with Hillary’s coaching on the enneagram! I truly was taken aback during that recorded session! She has such wisdom and insight. I am so glad it has been helpful to others!
@@intuitiveeatingmama and it was so visible on your face 😊. It must be the gift of 9, holding all truths at the same time. We really are blessed 🤩🤩.
Thanks for the video. Just FYI, the link to the 1hour coaching session is broken. It still leads to the website but it’s got a URL alert instead of the page.
Omg! Your so right! I changed that link name and forgot to update it. Thank you so much for letting me know!
3w4 Sp/Sx
Thanks!
ah yes, i therefore conclude that i am an ENTP 3w4 sx/so
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I think my best friend is a sexual 3. She's the only one of my friends who insists on the title of 'best friend', when in reality, I love all my friends just as much.
I'm an INFP 3w4 SP/SX
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What if your spouse is 3 (maybe wing 4) but none of the instincts seem to fit? SP is the closest, but there’s no preoccupation with security, etc, but definitely strives to be diligent in work, and is natural at leading but doesn’t want to be the focus of attention, yet commands the room with charisma and wisdom. No regard for keeping up appearances… Does that sound like SP?
I really thought I was a 4 self-pres, but I took a test which has 135 questions and the result was 3w2. How can I find out which of the 2 types I really am? When I was younger, in fact, I was more about number 4, but after 30, I relate more with type 3 self-pres.
I’m married to a 1, and we have SO much in common- to the point that sometimes I question if I’m a 1. I’m definitely a 3, SP. How does integration play into this? It seems like SP’s already have a lot in common with 6, too.
Got So=Sx from the Enneagram Institute; anyone who had a Tiger Mom would get the same lol
If I am in fact a 3, I identify most as a SX 3.
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hi hillary! This is Jenny--u typed me as 3w4 sp. When I'm stressed & move towards 9, do I maintain my self preservation instinct?
Hi Jenny! Yes your Sp will stay dominant.
Hi, Hillary! I thought of a question after we finished our call the other day. What are the differences between a 3w4 sp and an 8w9 so (what we typed me as)? For me, the confusion comes from 4s being the artist/lovers of beauty and 3s the winners so what happens when an 8 loves beautiful things, art and wants to win? Are they not really an 8?
An 8 can totally love beautiful things, art and want to win. Those things aren't fully exclusive to a type. An 8w9 so will just have different motives and reasons for this as opposed to the 3w4 sp.
@@enneagramandcoaching That's what I was thinking but it's very confusing to read all the enneagram stuff and people keep saying 4s are the artistic type and 3s are the efficient type. I know I like both those things but it's not art-for-arts-sake or efficiency-for-goal-crushing. It's more a "let's make things pretty but preferably useful or exactly the way I want it" and "get the thing done so people will leave me alone and I can do what I want" (I see the need for control there)
Okay sx 3 is too much me its scary 0_0 and this is coming from an infp....
Is it possible for a sp/sx 3 to get mistyped as a 8w9?
Is type 7 your favorite type? Cause your timestamps in the description say type 7 😆
🙈🙈🙈 I must have copied and pasted! Thanks for letting me know!
Can I be a 3w4 SX/So?
Yes 😃
3w4 sx/so smh 💀