@@behindhim the good part is you know that what are you doing. Just improve yourself by controlling yourself and make little little changes. Getout or move from there. As you know where the issue is going to start.
let me remind u that every man or boy arent the same thats it for someone marriage is a beautiful journey too everyone s experiences are different so we should not create a general picture of something in our head
I'm not saying this with any intent against arranged marriages or love marriages. My only suggestion to you is "Know Your Partner". Take time to get to know how they are and how they handle different emotions and situations. Don't rush it. Because you might regret your decisions in the future and it's not something people should go through. Even if your parents decided your partner, take your time to get to know him. A month, a year or more. Just take your time till you know you both will have a stable and happy future together.
Same here....I'm also 25,I'm also scared about marriage.....if I'll get bad husband in future then what will I do?,where I will go? ,who will help me? ,I also scared about these things too...
I've seen both Married and unmarried women in my life. And all those unmarried women look half their age and i can clearly see how bright their smiles are. I've had two aunties who are unmarried and employed, always going for trips, shower us with love,look as young as us GenZ and on top of that they're healthy and really happy. Their parents were disappointed at first but when their married daughters are crying, they're now thanking God for their unmarried ones.
but still marriage has it's own importance in life . but it should be in right time after getting independent. financial independence is very important.
@@cauhanronakfor this, first go back to history and read why "Alimony"word was even put in the law. And how and why did the word "Dowry" came into play. Then come here and argue. NOT before that. Go and have education that iss word ki zarurat hi kyu pdi?? Ye word society me hmesha se nai tha, jab females apne decisions khud leti thi. Read that how CONTROL and DOMINATION on this gender, considering it weaker, took over and this word came into play. But in sab k liye "padhai" ki zarurat hoti hai...roots tak jaa k pta krne ki, to know the WHY, n HOW.
@@Blessing0704_ You know there is no problem in doing all this but after that you will find another excuse to hide fact that you women only care for money in relationship, you be in relationship because of money, stay because of money and leave for money. And, each and every time you will try to divert topic to another to another direction. Women have problem with doing house chores and call themselves as maid but have no problem in understand husband as ATM even after divorce.
"Ek or promotion ¿ ¡! I hope you boss isn't getting lucky " These lines might truly hurt her What if you get a promotion and she says the same thing to you 🙂
Don't get me wrong but single women gets into relationship with managers in order to get financially secured and promotion, I've seen this in front of my eyes, they won't fall in love with entry level positioned guys they catch the big fish
@@punitasinghal801 सेल्फ रिस्पेक्ट यानी आत्म सम्मान,इसका सीधा सा अर्थ है अपनी गरिमा को बचाना ,किसी भी अन्य इंसान को आपकी गरिमा भंग होने के प्रयास में महत्वपूर्ण कदम उठाना
So true n in fact this was my mantra for the large part of my life phir pata nhi kaunse pagal kutte ne kaata ki shaadi kar li. Seriously girls just be financially independent n emotionally strong. I am taking the nonsense cos of my 2 toddlers but I know that I will come out of this sham eventually. Der hee sahi par pucca se hoga zaroor.
@@jyotikasingh5934 Zyada padh likh gayi hogi na, isiliya ab pati ki izzati nahi hoti aapse madam.. I read somewhere, better marry a maid than these modern independent feminists. So true it was.
@@anishtripathi3800yes you better marry a maid. She can serve you for free. Women have suffered since ages but only now feminism became a problem for men. Don't worship Kaali and Durga who have killed demons and dominated men if you can't even handle a female living socially equal to you.
@@anonymousforu yah that's the problem with the society They don't understand that Marriage is not compulsory marriage is just an option in case If u want to marry U can marry otherwise u can live your life as an unmarried person
@@beastgarenaffboys236 yes , u're absolutely true...I'm from Nepal ..and ..as now I'm unmarried. I'm a std...23 age... I want to be independent one...so that I can do anything to take any decisions...I don't want to take help of others....I'm afraid of getting married....I m afraid of boys...to be beaten.....and many more....
@@beastgarenaffboys236 Why would you like to die alone? Genuine Question. I don't really understand why women are abandoning men, especially as a guy who can't even afford therapy and had to cope with loneliness due to toxic women. No hate.
@I'm The Feminist Distroyer( SIGMA MALE)ye reality only tumhare life ki hai ,kam se kam unka interest khatam to hota hai tmhara to shadi ke baad bhi khatm nhi hota
Yes. According to my Mom she has been treated better than her own home for more than 20 years. Please dont spread negativity. Just because you have bat experience doesn't mean everyone are same !
Raise your damn voice... Just once for God sake... Otherwise this will be transferred to your children as well... Stand up for yourself.. be responsible for your inner peace and happiness... Be a fighter
@@kavitaabhijeet9046😂😂😂 court me jane bol usko divorce lene ki bhi salah de 😂😂 uske baad uski life sudhar jaegi bolna success uske kadm chumega bol usko😂😂😂😂😂
@@rpdclownyt9114 lagta hai tujhe English padhni nahi aati... Voice raise karne ko bola hai jhagda karne ya kisiko maar waar dalne ko nahi bola samjha... Tere hisab se to ab aurat sare taunt aur disrespectful baatein sunti rahe kyuki issi se to tujh jese logo ki male ego satisfy hogi na..
Why r u takin these abuses then, have self respect and move out of such relation. Yes if u don't have family support tgen it will initially be very difficult specially emotionally but your future self will thank u many fold for being so brave and preserving ur self respect Hope u get ur happiness and respect back.
it’s sad how they see a daughter in-law sister in law as a threat instead as a blessing . when you have good intentions then it’s their loss if they didn’t respect you. at the end of everything it’s you’re husband who should be you’re strength and confidant most times they are not they never seem to break free from their extended families. it’s as if they are married to sisters mothers brothers fathers not their wives and imagine asian men can’t take on divorced women with children yet the woman has to accept she married his whole bloody family! what a joke! that’s cos they need support to make fun
@@uditirawat7760 uk actually ur right if she leaves this bloody family and focus on carrier she can do many wonders and can gain much support by people around her
@@uditirawat7760 shall I divorce my husband if he wants to keep my atm with him and letting me to ask him for money and gets Verbally agreesive in arguments??????
Well you are so lucky but everyone isn't lucky like you my father isn't a good husband and that truth is hurting and disappointed at Same time because of that i I don't celebrate fathers day 😔💔
Girls be financially independent kal ko kisi pe depend na rehna pade apna kamao lekin attitude nhi ....but keep positive attitude towards your goal Never marry before u become financially independent Same statement applies for me
Sochta to mai bhi yahi hun magar budhape ka dar lagta hai ek meri nani. Nana ji pehle hi chal base. Meri nani roj roti hai. Unko nana ji ke saath sone ki aadat thi ab so nahi paati. Mujhe kaha tha insaan ko insaan hi pura kar sakta hai. Pta nahi kaise bitegi life.।।।
I know such females who decided not to get married just to avoid such nonsense. I feel, they are wise. Their decision is absolutely right. They have saved their self respect and freedom.
@@cosmic_aurora-t4kafter 70 most people are sick and it’s usually the adult children that take care of them. No marriage and no children is a recipe for loneliness in old age . Such people finally depend on their siblings and nieces/ nephews.
@@wowser2153 children don't gaurantee you a secure old age time. Apne budhape ki chinta h to riteirement plan bnao pese save kro 🙄. Bacha peda krke uske upr apna boj mt dalo bacho ki b life hoti h wo tumhara boj uthaege ya khudki life jiyege??
I can so relate to this because I was 5 when I used to stay with my cousin for 4 to 5 years because my mom dad were mostly out on business trips . my cousins dad always used to beat my cousins mother and she used to say nothing and just keep quite and do all the house works and she wasn't allowed to wear even a kurti she was only allowed to wear saree that also without showing one bit of her skin at that time I was very small and I didn't understand anything but now I am 13 and now I understand everything and even I told all this to my mother and she filed a case against my cousins father and now he is in the present for more 1 year and my cousins mother is doing a lot better she is having a job and I'm so happy for her but I have experienced this and I know how terrible it is !!!!
I too hv undergone such disaster but nobody helped me n still iam facing worse situation..with my husband n inlaws as they r suppressing me 7nder the 8nflunence of political party ..n snatching money,,food n peace of livelihood hope god provide me some help as iam all alone facing fed up of police bribed by them..i pray to god everyday let some angel come into my life n i get freedom ..god bless youll
@@chhayachabukswar1748 i will pray for u and don't worry God will send some help for u and if possible I will try to help u too by tell this to my mother keep hope on God 💜💜
I was just 12 when my parents divorced that's because my dad he was really abusive yeah he never physically abuse her but mentally and emotionally!! My dad he was against my mom for doing job she said that she wanna earn but dad he never agreed to it . He also cheated on my mom by dating someone else (not lying tho) he even sell my mom's gold earrings worth 8k it was really special for her coz my Nani gifted her before she passed away Relatives and dadi everyone was pressuring her not to divorce my dad she said that it's okay you're women you have tolerate this now get used to it already but yeah she didn't care about the society and divorce my dad !!! Now i(20) live with my mom and my younger sister (18) and we are happy yeah my dad he often call me and my sister but he never talk to my mom !!
@@punitasinghal801 yea its just reminding women what they face which they already know that's just makes them feel more and more hate for men that we are the reason they face this and all
अपना घर तो बसा नहीं और महिला सशक्तिकरण के नाम पर दूसरों का घर जलाने आ गई. ये एक सुशांत सिंह की हत्या की आरोपी है. इसे follow करने से पहले इस बात का ध्यान रखे. बाकी आपकी इच्छा.
This is exactly how my dad started behaving when I started earning salary and respect. I would just go about my day and he would be like she thinks we are her servants and how is she getting paid so much as a beginner for just 6-7 hrs work and I am running around whole month and get paid nothing. He even started character shaming out of spite and spoiled good matches when guys liked me n didn’t want dowry and he challenged me he will see that I don’t get married till 30 and see how any guy will even be interested in me. I went in to severe anxiety, social awkwardness, gut issues, bedridden etc. Now I am 30 no job, health is getting better but all my zeal to pursue higher studies is no more, my self confidence is literally gone negative. He even beat me a month go for getting up from all the trauma and wanting to study again. I called cops n apparently he is a nice gentleman n I should have done something to make him angry. Society loves to support him though I shout on top of voice that all he had done is out of jealousy and he simply dismisses and says he is angry because my character is not good and society loves such stories.
Oh my God, so sorry you have to go through this bullshit This is the reality of south asia honestly, girls and women have no actual freedom here or any support from legal system, police like to protect the predators..
Oh my god... This is such a terrifying situation.... please be strong physically and mentally and stand still infront of your bloody father and make him more jealous.... achieve big in life dear everything is possible 👍
Only you are responsible for yourself. Pick up the pieces and move on. If you let yourself drown in despair, you will regret it later. Eat well, sleep well, pray well, work harder than you have ever done before. You will be better. Love and prayers for you.
Leave that house. That should be your priority as to keep your mental health good it is necessary and the rest you ever wanted out of your life career love life etc will come by themselves. Trust me...
I am so sorry to hear that you had go through that.. unfortunately even if men are the ones abusing others they can get away with it easily. They get support from family, friends and society because they put on a mask that usually shows how good and righteous they are and everybody believes them. I feel for you girl, but don't lose hope.
Person ko jaan kr kuch nahi hona h qki sari zindagi khatam ho jati ek dusre ko samjhte hue or compromise thoda ho ya jyada hr relationship me hota h kuch chizen match kr sakti pr chiz match kare that's never gonna happen
Yeah... Mother comparison ND body shape... Nd almost all you said is true.... Custom that a girl leave her home must change... Boys should also leave though they may understand the feeling
Boys : Not only I I leaved my home at the age of 6 and started living at the hostel alone and after 10th joined allen and started living in kota after neet started living in AIIMS jodhpur hostel and after placement can't even sleep Just to pay a bill for a women's candle light dinner
@@yangyang020bas bhaiya...woh apne paise se dinner kar legi...tumko paida hote hi uske parents uski responsibility dekar nahi Gaye the...tum hostel m ho apne parents k liye
These words are usually said by men around us, they don't know that words not only impact on his partner but also scary every female member to get married
but if u r so concerned abt Gender Equality & Right,then why u r still in Islamic fold that legalize ultra misogynistic practices like- Triple Talaq,Halala,Polygamy etc....
Self respect is most important.girls have to understand first.then no body can hurt you.be strong emotionally and physically and also financially....❤️❤️❤️
Stop pointing out that feminists are liars or logic less ....a feminist will never say something that's a lie because they will know the mere difference between being a pseudo feminist and a real one.
@@Iamridhimanegi i dont think so. Yes you may say that not everyone is logic less. But not everyone has. Now a days there are lots of feminists (specially western) who try to encourage the females to disrespect the other genders specially men. And sadly we are blindly following !
Actually privileged females only talk about feminism...like the lady in the video...if they are Powerful and can talk then they should help females who really need it... everybody needs respect irrespective of the gender
@@soumyachakrabarty7827 you see we find exceptions everywhere ....but you can't judge an entire community on the basis of that ...if feminism would have been something involving logic less people than I don't think so people would have accepted it worldwide ...I mean c'mon..
Have seen this in my family..but even after trying to make them understand she says this is what happens..a GOOD woman needs to adjust and ignore all this. Wish i could make them understand that this is not normal.
It's very true. If they are earning more than ghr to unke paise se chl rha h. Ghr ka kaam to tm kr hi skti ho. If we are earning more than they think we are taking them as servant.
Yes you need to change the way you think about yourself. ASAP. Don't insult yourself. There are enough people out there to do it for you. But you're the only person to defend yourself. Fight others not yourself
I am a 33 yrs young man. I have been fighting for women empowerment and gender equality long time, with society and people. For a man: Always try that the life of your woman before and after marriage differs minimal if not same. Make her feel comfortable the same as she was at home. But these words dont hear good from characters like Pannu and Ranaut. Their words change situationally and for money. Believe an average man is better than them.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 i swear i really wanted to believe in love. But definitely im not compromising on love i deserve. If he cannot love me i will never be in toxic relationship.
Look for a good man who respects people. If he is kind to others then you have nothing to worry about. I don't think you fall in love before marriage, I think its all infatuation and attraction, which is fine. But for marriage, look only at his manners towards all. And you'll be fine 🙂
@@netforce13 nope . There's no need to tell women to compromise more then they already do . She can find one with both looks and manners . No more compromise.
Yes. ...my mother today taught me being In sasural don't say much in high tone ,have patience ..... I replied if anyone will be treated in wrong way i will be bad for them ... I am not going to be suppressed by them ...i can sustain my self my own why the hell i should be like that typically bechari .....i love to be culture but not blindly ... their should be proper science
Unki baat sunlo....behan ji ..Puri jindgi de ke jo sikha hai wahi bata rahe hai tumhare parents....inn chutiya Bollywood valo ka kya bharosa jo har dusare din shadi karate hai...agar tum bhi wo kar sakati ho to phir sunlo ....aur ha wo sab karke bhi khush nai reh payoge
@@avinashkashid9176tumahri behen ko kehna chup rehne ko sehen krne ko, har tarah ko wildness bear krne ko, sasural valo ki or unki family ki maar sehen krne ko emotional mental pressure ko sehne karne ko kehan thik h.. 🙃
@TYCOON Relationships only works if two people's understand, respect and support, each others. If she thinks you love her she will bear anything for you. And both partner should think by putting themselves on others situation, and most importantly they shouldn't allowed any third person come between them, no matter if it's boots mother or girls sister or friends
@@avinashkashid9176 kyu ladke treat nhi kr skte ache se? wow mtlb apne aap ka stand lene se ladke divorce bhi de dete hai? ssly grow up, you'll raise children someday and no one wants their child to be mistreated and remain silent just to save their "rishta"
@@divyangimishra2612 har koe ladka waisa nai hota...so stop blaming stupid things on partner always ..if you are loyal and respectful then no one rejected you....
U should watch more of this channel then the videos was pretty senseable i mean almost cuz some are just hating on men but still pretty strong thoughts
@@learnenglish6786 bhai ghusa karke kisi ko kuch bhi bolega to ye koi nhi sunta hai yar to kabhi thik se bolke hi dekhlo itne din se ghusse se hi to bol rhe the ki ye videos faltu man hating ki hai but koi mana kya nhi na to ab thik se hi baat kar lete hai
Han itni si baat ko itna bda bna rhi ho til ka tad bna rhi ho aise sabd istemal kiye jate hai jab aurte apni paresaniya batati hai.. aur bhi bahut se bato me gendar inequality hoti hai gharo me ...sabhi ke ghar me nhi but most of the Indian family aurto k sath alag aur purusho k sath alag vyvhar krna sikhati hai gharo me example- kabhi bhi maine kisi pati ko patni ki thali uthate ya khana paroste nhi dekha aur na hi suna hai jabki aurte to har Roj ye kaam krti hai bina kisi sikayat ke jaise bhagwan ne isi kaam k liye use dhrti me bheja hai
Every time I saw this and this kind of I lost interest in marriage gradually. May be I am getting trust issue on men. Once upon a time I actually dreaming about getting settled (With Farhan Akhtar from Dil dharakne do, Dhruv from little things with this kind of men ) we will do all household work together, going to office, after back to home we share our work too. With whom I can chitchat about any subject. Now when I write this comment I am smiling on "my expectation of a sensible, progressive and mentally healthy man " may be my expectation is wrong out of the world. 🙁🙁
Well that's a great thought Girls should develop these types of thoughts about marriage and never get married it will help men because men never want to get married and it will be great if women start to think the same way 😀 Please take it as a funny way 😀
Well that right even I lost interest in marriage and that not what people say or show but because my father is a men like this because of that I am losing trust in men
Happens at every house,at some point of time I had behaved like this though I loved her madly but I love my daughter more. Hope for the best.. Love you Mera bacha Anika
I hope people understand that marriage is not necessary,,,,,😢 It's just part of a life... If you found a right person then get married Dose not matter in which age you get married but tight person is matter who respect you You fall in love with someone You have crush on someone Everything Just a fillings and everything is end if there is no any respect for each other Marriage is a responsibility a priority for whole life So be careful (man and woman both) And i hope being self sufficient til 28 and marrying a good person being together for whole life is thousands times better than getting married at 16 and getting divorce at 28 🙂 ❤
Luckily aaj kl le ladke bohot understanding hote h but kuchh ab bhi bohot toxic hote h. Comments mein dikh gye mujhe. Seriously it's scary even imagining what if I get someone like these guys who treat women with no respect
Agar ladke Toxic na bane to ladkiya Jyoti Maurya ki tarah chuna laga ke chali jati hain. Aurat ko thodi dheel dete hi sar pe naachne lagti hai. Society me yahi ho raha hai aaj kal. That's why men better be toxic than cheated. In case I ever marry, I will prefer to be a stereotypical husband, not one of wife's pet who gets treated like a doormat in the end.
Society already change if you talk about metropolitan city Moreover alot of different between female who have no kids(responsibility) and who having kids 🙂
Most of the statement is true in some scenarios….. however don’t apply for majority …. Women stay away from Toxic Feminism….. your man will treat you as queen….. just treat him as King ❤
Human beings keep on changing in their behaviour, and man is a perfect example of this, as a lover he is different and as a husband he will be different, may be good or bad, but one thing is sure for him love is a part of life, for a girl to woman love is life, very few men can love like a woman. And all women are not lucky to have a man out of few.
Don't blame me if I get into another affairs Pressure nhi le sakte ho to job chhod do na.. I earn enough for both of us.. Tab aapko bolna chahiye tha isiliye job nhi chhodungi kyun ki affairs karoge to g mein do laat deke chalijaungi.. Q ki meri job hogi 😊 tum karte rehna apne affairs.. Gf k pichhe paisa udate rehna
@@abdulmoid267 haan exta marital affairs kyun karte hain log? Aur jo insaan bol rha hai.. He has job with which they both can manage.. Woh job wali gf aur nhi dhundega
@@ipsitarout8568 shaadi k pehle sex kisi aur se aur shaadi k baad kisi aur se??? Jisse shaadi k pehle krtiii hooo ussi se shadi k baad v krooo......jb ek pati ko maalum chlta h na ki uski biwi kisi aur k sath so k aayi h......usko v bura lgta h
Marriage cannot happen without adjustments and understanding from both sides guys... Don't think motivation from internet is real motivation...That's not the real world...
Women should respect and appreciate each other!! If every women starts to support another women insted of taunting her about gol roti or short clothes, then this situation will get so much better
didi u need to support right things not women, in ur statement u r assuming women to be right all the time, u should choose ur words carefully...........and start living like human first.
@@kshitiz1107 Kiddo don't mind but I really insist you to attain a level of maturity after a certain age ! And then try to interprete the depth of the statements & sayings of people before reaching to a naive conclusion ...! Bcz your interpretation of her statement is totally opposite & of a naive genre ...so yes .
Tolerating toxic words and negative criticism from anyone can break your spirit and harm your mental and physical health. So, stand up for yourself. Don't take shit from anyone.
Whenever anyone says"ise to kabhi na kbhi apne ghar jaana hai" i think mera is dharti par koi ghar nhi hai , kyuki jis ghar me mai janam li hu log us ghar ko mera paraya ghar smjhte hai . I didn't cry in front of everyone but I really cried too much in my heart 😭😭😭
I am lucky that my husband doesn't say all these to me... He appreciates all the things which I do..But still I can understand the pain of those women who listen to all these. I feel sorry for them.😢😢😢
Nah it's just that if a woman earns good enough, her parents won't force her to marry against her will and will be more likely to wait until she is ready for marriage
That right ✅ woman don't need a men in her life to depend on him and even if he treats her good we have life we need freedom to do what we want and we don't need someone permission
@@kalolikadey lekin parents nahi chodenge na🤭🤭😂😂.......Anyways I pray u will hit those success standards in a great way Dear 🤗🤗.....keep smile😁.Be happy😊 Never give up on u r goals #Nomatterwhat🎉
अगर आप mercedes चलना चाहते है तो maruti driver से advice मत लो । उसी प्रकार मैं लड़कियों से कहूंगा कि अगर आप चाहती है कि आपकी शादी जीवन भर चले तो इन जैसी लड़कियों से advice ना ले जिनका तो पहले कई लड़के से पहले अफ़ेयर चलता है फिर 3 से 4 शादी करती है,ये खुद ही रिलेशनशिप के मामले में failure होती है तो इनके advice से आपका relationship सफल होगा ?🙄🙄 इनके पास बहुत पैसा है इनका पैसा देख कर कोई दुबारा शादी कर लेगा ।
Ladko ko kya h tum log apne Ghar m rahte ho kic dusre k ghr m jak adjust karna or usko apna bnana adjust hona time lgta h gairo k bich apna bnana un sbko time lgta h
Some moms are also hearing these types of words from their son.
True.. I too have seen
Yes i have also seen girl betting her mom on balkqne in news
Not only sons but their daughters too 😔
I admit I am one of them
A monster inside me always wins
@@behindhim the good part is you know that what are you doing. Just improve yourself by controlling yourself and make little little changes. Getout or move from there. As you know where the issue is going to start.
This shit is so true...🥺
Sometimes even i get furious and say a few things which i regret instantly
Now that I'm 25, I realise how scary these statements are. I'm really scared of marriage.
let me remind u that every man or boy arent the same thats it
for someone marriage is a beautiful journey too
everyone s experiences are different so we should not create a general picture of something in our head
I'm not saying this with any intent against arranged marriages or love marriages. My only suggestion to you is "Know Your Partner". Take time to get to know how they are and how they handle different emotions and situations. Don't rush it. Because you might regret your decisions in the future and it's not something people should go through. Even if your parents decided your partner, take your time to get to know him. A month, a year or more. Just take your time till you know you both will have a stable and happy future together.
Me too #Misty but I'm elder than you even though
Same here😠sis
Same here....I'm also 25,I'm also scared about marriage.....if I'll get bad husband in future then what will I do?,where I will go? ,who will help me? ,I also scared about these things too...
I've seen both Married and unmarried women in my life. And all those unmarried women look half their age and i can clearly see how bright their smiles are. I've had two aunties who are unmarried and employed, always going for trips, shower us with love,look as young as us GenZ and on top of that they're healthy and really happy. Their parents were disappointed at first but when their married daughters are crying, they're now thanking God for their unmarried ones.
but still marriage has it's own importance in life . but it should be in right time after getting independent. financial independence is very important.
@@munazzazahid8402 financial independence is important but it doesn't save you from such emotional slaps from your marital home
Slap is not only on the face, every attack on self respect is a slap too 🔥🔥
Edit after 6 months: Cold violence is also a form of domestic violence
Where self respect goes when you ask for alimony.
alimony ki baat hi nhi aayegi bhaiya hame to shaadi hi nhi karni fir aapko tension kyu ye to ladko ke liye aachi baat hai fir to@@cauhanronak
@@cauhanronakfor this, first go back to history and read why "Alimony"word was even put in the law. And how and why did the word "Dowry" came into play. Then come here and argue. NOT before that. Go and have education that iss word ki zarurat hi kyu pdi??
Ye word society me hmesha se nai tha, jab females apne decisions khud leti thi. Read that how CONTROL and DOMINATION on this gender, considering it weaker, took over and this word came into play.
But in sab k liye "padhai" ki zarurat hoti hai...roots tak jaa k pta krne ki, to know the WHY, n HOW.
@@Blessing0704_ You know there is no problem in doing all this but after that you will find another excuse to hide fact that you women only care for money in relationship, you be in relationship because of money, stay because of money and leave for money. And, each and every time you will try to divert topic to another to another direction. Women have problem with doing house chores and call themselves as maid but have no problem in understand husband as ATM even after divorce.
admiyon par oraten bhi is Tarah to zada thappar Marti hoti
"Ek or promotion ¿ ¡!
I hope you boss isn't getting lucky "
These lines might truly hurt her
What if you get a promotion and she says the same thing to you 🙂
We not gae. Surry 🌗
@@halfstackpgrhalfstackpgr4925 to matlab agar boss woman hoti to ye Baat sach ho jaati?
What if the boss is truely getting lucky aye?
@@rishi2791 and how do you know that? Telepathy? You're just assuming. And assuming the worst consequences without actual evidence is delusional
Don't get me wrong but single women gets into relationship with managers in order to get financially secured and promotion, I've seen this in front of my eyes, they won't fall in love with entry level positioned guys they catch the big fish
Nothing is more than self respect ❤️self respect always 1st 🔥
What is self respect according to u
@@punitasinghal801 well, good question....
Untill it's not ego
@@shigano5660 right 🔥
@@punitasinghal801 सेल्फ रिस्पेक्ट यानी आत्म सम्मान,इसका सीधा सा अर्थ है अपनी गरिमा को बचाना ,किसी भी अन्य इंसान को आपकी गरिमा भंग होने के प्रयास में महत्वपूर्ण कदम उठाना
"थप्पड़ वो नहीं जो सिर्फ चहरे पर आके लगता है, थप्पड़ है हर वो शब्द जो आत्मसम्मान पर लगता है।"
Mera apna experience hai thappad bhula ja sakta hai. Par baate nahi
❤
Don't get married.focus on yourself enjoy your life, ADOPT A CHILD.BE STRONG.NOBODY NEEDS MARRIAGE.MARRIAGE IS NOT COMPULSORY 😡😡😡
So true n in fact this was my mantra for the large part of my life phir pata nhi kaunse pagal kutte ne kaata ki shaadi kar li. Seriously girls just be financially independent n emotionally strong. I am taking the nonsense cos of my 2 toddlers but I know that I will come out of this sham eventually. Der hee sahi par pucca se hoga zaroor.
Agree mam
@@jyotikasingh5934 Zyada padh likh gayi hogi na, isiliya ab pati ki izzati nahi hoti aapse madam..
I read somewhere, better marry a maid than these modern independent feminists. So true it was.
@@anishtripathi3800 I wish no women should meet you
@@anishtripathi3800yes you better marry a maid. She can serve you for free. Women have suffered since ages but only now feminism became a problem for men. Don't worship Kaali and Durga who have killed demons and dominated men if you can't even handle a female living socially equal to you.
MARRIAGE IS AN OPTION
NOT A necessity
UNDERSTAND THAT
Exactly 💯
I hope everyone who r there in India understand this fact
In India u r born to get married someday...specially in case of girls
@@anonymousforu yah that's the problem with the society
They don't understand that Marriage is not compulsory marriage is just an option in case If u want to marry
U can marry otherwise u can live your life as an unmarried person
@@beastgarenaffboys236 yes , u're absolutely true...I'm from Nepal ..and ..as now I'm unmarried. I'm a std...23 age... I want to be independent one...so that I can do anything to take any decisions...I don't want to take help of others....I'm afraid of getting married....I m afraid of boys...to be beaten.....and many more....
@@beastgarenaffboys236 Why would you like to die alone? Genuine Question. I don't really understand why women are abandoning men, especially as a guy who can't even afford therapy and had to cope with loneliness due to toxic women. No hate.
I truly feel for every women. I feel sorry for many things they have to go through
Bhot bdi problem h jisse girls kbh ni chahti shadi krna
U won my ❤
@I'm The Feminist Distroyer( SIGMA MALE) shut your guttery mouth you stupid sabhi ek jaise nahi hote
@I'm The Feminist Distroyer( SIGMA MALE)ye reality only tumhare life ki hai ,kam se kam unka interest khatam to hota hai tmhara to shadi ke baad bhi khatm nhi hota
@@worldofflowers870 true
“Accept your sasural now" Have you have ever treated like she think her sasural “HOME" As her home? 🙄😤
Nice ..true
Saas jo hai maa k tarah treat kare aur hm use apna ghar nahi manenge 🤣🤣🤣
Never
Yes. According to my Mom she has been treated better than her own home for more than 20 years. Please dont spread negativity. Just because you have bat experience doesn't mean everyone are same !
@BLIИK ♡ then why we are generalising ?
I agree with you completely. This story still persists in my house..
All these taunts are killing 😢 and demoralise a woman..
Raise your damn voice... Just once for God sake... Otherwise this will be transferred to your children as well... Stand up for yourself.. be responsible for your inner peace and happiness... Be a fighter
@@kavitaabhijeet9046😂😂😂 court me jane bol usko divorce lene ki bhi salah de 😂😂 uske baad uski life sudhar jaegi bolna success uske kadm chumega bol usko😂😂😂😂😂
@@rpdclownyt9114 lagta hai tujhe English padhni nahi aati... Voice raise karne ko bola hai jhagda karne ya kisiko maar waar dalne ko nahi bola samjha... Tere hisab se to ab aurat sare taunt aur disrespectful baatein sunti rahe kyuki issi se to tujh jese logo ki male ego satisfy hogi na..
These are the exact lines I hear from my entire sasuraal. All these things bring down my self confidence and hit on my self respect
Why r u takin these abuses then, have self respect and move out of such relation. Yes if u don't have family support tgen it will initially be very difficult specially emotionally but your future self will thank u many fold for being so brave and preserving ur self respect Hope u get ur happiness and respect back.
it’s sad how they see a daughter in-law sister in law as a threat instead as a blessing . when you have good intentions then it’s their loss if they didn’t respect you. at the end of everything it’s you’re husband who should be you’re strength and confidant most times they are not they never seem to break free from their extended families. it’s as if they are married to sisters mothers brothers fathers not their wives and imagine asian men can’t take on divorced women with children yet the woman has to accept she married his whole bloody family! what a joke! that’s cos they need support to make fun
@@uditirawat7760 uk actually ur right if she leaves this bloody family and focus on carrier she can do many wonders and can gain much support by people around her
@@uditirawat7760 shall I divorce my husband if he wants to keep my atm with him and letting me to ask him for money and gets Verbally agreesive in arguments??????
@@uditirawat7760 kya chahti ho didi divorce ho jaaye uska
*Self respect must be the first priority* ♥♥
Yes
Absolutely, keep it this way in case of divorce too and don’t beg for alimony
After seeing this I became more proud of my father
Today I realised how lucky I'm to get a father like him .
Same here
Touch wood.
@@sakshishivani2915 Touch wood.
Many indian males are good . Don't fall trap of fake femminists.
Gaddari khoon mai hai inke.
They divide everything from family till nation.
Well you are so lucky but everyone isn't lucky like you my father isn't a good husband and that truth is hurting and disappointed at Same time because of that i I don't celebrate fathers day 😔💔
Girls be financially independent kal ko kisi pe depend na rehna pade apna kamao lekin attitude nhi ....but keep positive attitude towards your goal
Never marry before u become financially independent
Same statement applies for me
U r right girls need to step up all the world focus on women body ,her decisions why scrutiny of every decision
Don't marry , don't have kids... Love urself and be free
Right. But not all men are same or I may have not been here. Just some of us spoil the image of other gentlemans
ok then go and increase vesyavrati.....
@@rummygenuineinfo why are you even alive
@@Heisthebestplanner for doing marriage and keep save varnashram dharma....
Sochta to mai bhi yahi hun magar budhape ka dar lagta hai ek meri nani. Nana ji pehle hi chal base. Meri nani roj roti hai. Unko nana ji ke saath sone ki aadat thi ab so nahi paati. Mujhe kaha tha insaan ko insaan hi pura kar sakta hai. Pta nahi kaise bitegi life.।।।
Where u born :- Ye to kisi aur ke ghar chali jayegi .
Sasural :- Ye to kisi aur ke ghar se aayi h .
sad reality 🤕
Baap k ghr koi apna samjhta nhi h
@@piyavishwas4972 not all have same thought as you
Who knows?
Reality 💔
"ab salary mujh se jyada ho gyi to naukar samjhogi kya?"
"Tu b to vhi samajhta tha mujhe itne salo se"
Tbhi shaadi kri thi pagal 🥲
@@stutikhanna987 vhi to kuchh log bina paise diye naukar chahte h, isiliye shadi krte h
Sad truth of society
😤😤😤
Salary dekh ke hi na shadi kiya tha😂😂
Men mentality
We women's r used to this tappad from centuries we try to forget the pain for sake of kids future 😭
So true
Very true
I know such females who decided not to get married just to avoid such nonsense. I feel, they are wise. Their decision is absolutely right. They have saved their self respect and freedom.
And what? In the end none to look after 😂
@@MJ98.Why would we need someone to look after us.
@@cosmic_aurora-t4kafter 70 most people are sick and it’s usually the adult children that take care of them. No marriage and no children is a recipe for loneliness in old age . Such people finally depend on their siblings and nieces/ nephews.
@@wowser2153 I will donate my body after 60.
But for me,marriage life is hell😂
@@wowser2153 children don't gaurantee you a secure old age time. Apne budhape ki chinta h to riteirement plan bnao pese save kro 🙄. Bacha peda krke uske upr apna boj mt dalo bacho ki b life hoti h wo tumhara boj uthaege ya khudki life jiyege??
I can so relate to this because I was 5 when I used to stay with my cousin for 4 to 5 years because my mom dad were mostly out on business trips . my cousins dad always used to beat my cousins mother and she used to say nothing and just keep quite and do all the house works and she wasn't allowed to wear even a kurti she was only allowed to wear saree that also without showing one bit of her skin at that time I was very small and I didn't understand anything but now I am 13 and now I understand everything and even I told all this to my mother and she filed a case against my cousins father and now he is in the present for more 1 year and my cousins mother is doing a lot better she is having a job and I'm so happy for her but I have experienced this and I know how terrible it is !!!!
I too hv undergone such disaster but nobody helped me n still iam facing worse situation..with my husband n inlaws as they r suppressing me 7nder the 8nflunence of political party ..n snatching money,,food n peace of livelihood hope god provide me some help as iam all alone facing fed up of police bribed by them..i pray to god everyday let some angel come into my life n i get freedom ..god bless youll
@@chhayachabukswar1748 i will pray for u and don't worry God will send some help for u and if possible I will try to help u too by tell this to my mother keep hope on God 💜💜
@@namratachakroborty8437
Thank u Namrata ..so kind of u to reply ..hope i receive this god's greates gift iam immensely..in lots of trouble..
@@chhayachabukswar1748 of course u will 💜💜🤗
You did the right thing!!
👍👍 हमारे समाज के लोग कितना भी बदलाव की बात कर ले समाज के लोगों की सच्चाई यही है।
I'm really scared of the marriages because jo chij muje meri freedom nahi de sakti vo me kabhi nahi karungi
You are never free.....whatever you do, you are in an invisible prison...
Stop taking advice from a movie actress these are the last people you should take advice from, take advice from father or mother
@@itsjustbusinessbrokie right....
We shouldn't follow these cheap women....
@@itsjustbusinessbrokie whatever she's saying is true...do you think a woman should listen to all this gibberish?
@@Shad-u8y why? Oh,your male ego got hurt
most of the time all these comments come from another woman. we women need to fix our mentality first.
True.
Disagree. My ex-boyfriend did the salary thing pretty often...and then other snarky comments started coming in. Dumped him.
Disagreed
Most of time this happens sad truth about our society 😐😐
Disagree
I was crying...but these lines made me feel lucky.... i hhave not gone through all this
Because it's an exception. Demonizing men is common
@@abhyudaysingh1866exactly its all theirs agendas. It all needs to reset.
I was just 12 when my parents divorced that's because my dad he was really abusive yeah he never physically abuse her but mentally and emotionally!! My dad he was against my mom for doing job she said that she wanna earn but dad he never agreed to it . He also cheated on my mom by dating someone else (not lying tho) he even sell my mom's gold earrings worth 8k it was really special for her coz my Nani gifted her before she passed away
Relatives and dadi everyone was pressuring her not to divorce my dad she said that it's okay you're women you have tolerate this now get used to it already but yeah she didn't care about the society and divorce my dad !!!
Now i(20) live with my mom and my younger sister (18) and we are happy yeah my dad he often call me and my sister but he never talk to my mom !!
so sad 💔 💔
Your dad is a superhero!
@@dafunk99 🙄
....
@@dafunk99 Um, if you want I can drive you to a psychiatric facility, won’t take too long.
Self respect is everything!!😊
I love the way you say about girls womens thanks to motivate every women
Well their is nothing motivation in it
It just felt misandry
yaa, like all this judgements were not passed by mans
@@punitasinghal801 yea its just reminding women what they face which they already know that's just makes them feel more and more hate for men that we are the reason they face this and all
अपना घर तो बसा नहीं और महिला सशक्तिकरण के नाम पर दूसरों का घर जलाने आ गई. ये एक सुशांत सिंह की हत्या की आरोपी है. इसे follow करने से पहले इस बात का ध्यान रखे. बाकी आपकी इच्छा.
@@punitasinghal801 what the fuck? Are you the one who says it these to women? I'm sure u r a male using any female's id
My husband never said anything like it's ... We are together from 10 years..
Madam ji,
tapsi Pannu apne film ke promotion ke liye over acting kar rahi hai, jis ka real life say door door tak kuch Lena dena nahi hai
She is talking about manipulation’s and abusive relationships, not all marriage relationships
I hope you can spot the difference 🙏
@@NomadicLifeHunter aisa hota hai asli zindagi mein
What's your religion?
She's not talking about men in general, she is talking about toxic comments that are hurtful to most women and their self esteem.
I really find it funny.
"Ye tumhara ghr nhi h wo h"
"Wo hi tha tumhara ghr ye mera ghr h"
🤩 Talk about struggle. And RESPECT
That is why it is important for girls to work, earn and buy their own home.
Each and every line is TRUE....
Dealing with all this toxic behaviour daily..
With God's blessing, my husband is the best and so respectful!
nobody cares
Mom inlaw nahi hogi apki
Or sister in laws !
They kill you
So sweet 💖 MashaAllah
@@sundusshah9467 now someone do
@@lokisapiens5320 lol looks like you really do care cz you are replying non stop.. stop replying if you really don't care ...
This is exactly how my dad started behaving when I started earning salary and respect. I would just go about my day and he would be like she thinks we are her servants and how is she getting paid so much as a beginner for just 6-7 hrs work and I am running around whole month and get paid nothing. He even started character shaming out of spite and spoiled good matches when guys liked me n didn’t want dowry and he challenged me he will see that I don’t get married till 30 and see how any guy will even be interested in me. I went in to severe anxiety, social awkwardness, gut issues, bedridden etc. Now I am 30 no job, health is getting better but all my zeal to pursue higher studies is no more, my self confidence is literally gone negative. He even beat me a month go for getting up from all the trauma and wanting to study again. I called cops n apparently he is a nice gentleman n I should have done something to make him angry. Society loves to support him though I shout on top of voice that all he had done is out of jealousy and he simply dismisses and says he is angry because my character is not good and society loves such stories.
Oh my God, so sorry you have to go through this bullshit
This is the reality of south asia honestly, girls and women have no actual freedom here or any support from legal system, police like to protect the predators..
Oh my god... This is such a terrifying situation.... please be strong physically and mentally and stand still infront of your bloody father and make him more jealous.... achieve big in life dear everything is possible 👍
Only you are responsible for yourself. Pick up the pieces and move on.
If you let yourself drown in despair, you will regret it later. Eat well, sleep well, pray well, work harder than you have ever done before. You will be better. Love and prayers for you.
Leave that house. That should be your priority as to keep your mental health good it is necessary and the rest you ever wanted out of your life career love life etc will come by themselves. Trust me...
I am so sorry to hear that you had go through that.. unfortunately even if men are the ones abusing others they can get away with it easily. They get support from family, friends and society because they put on a mask that usually shows how good and righteous they are and everybody believes them. I feel for you girl, but don't lose hope.
My mom was abused in her marriage and that scared me off. 40 years old but this is exactly why I don’t want to get married without knowing the person
Good
Jaan ke bhi kuch nai Hota, more often than not things r different after marriage
Person ko jaan kr kuch nahi hona h qki sari zindagi khatam ho jati ek dusre ko samjhte hue or compromise thoda ho ya jyada hr relationship me hota h kuch chizen match kr sakti pr chiz match kare that's never gonna happen
Say no marriage
Ab kar ke bhi kuch nhi hoga 😂😂😂
Seeing this video everytime with heavy heart. Sometimes we are not able to cry loud too..
Yeah... Mother comparison ND body shape... Nd almost all you said is true.... Custom that a girl leave her home must change... Boys should also leave though they may understand the feeling
Thats must be a quite understandable. Boys Also emphathise that feelings soon as possible
Girls parents won’t like having a ghar jamai and whole daily to take care of
Boys :
Not only I
I leaved my home at the age of 6 and started living at the hostel alone and after 10th joined allen and started living in kota after neet started living in AIIMS jodhpur hostel and after placement can't even sleep
Just to pay a bill for a women's candle light dinner
@@yangyang020bas bhaiya...woh apne paise se dinner kar legi...tumko paida hote hi uske parents uski responsibility dekar nahi Gaye the...tum hostel m ho apne parents k liye
It is soo true............. every girl is facing these ............
who don't marry?
Yes...such men don't deserve wives...
Well 21st century women just want special treatment
Very few face this even they do selfless service
@@punitasinghal801 well 21 st century u ppl still trying to degrade us ,which is of ,no use.
@@punitasinghal801 we are talking about self respect and equality not about special treatment
@@punitasinghal801 what is wrong with you? If a man was being disrespected like this would you say he wanted special treatment if he wants out?
@@sandhya7502 explain the meaning of those word which you have used without being biased
These words are usually said by men around us, they don't know that words not only impact on his partner but also scary every female member to get married
These are the words that make one afraid of being happy in life. 😔
CORRECTION~ *happy in a married life :)
but if u r so concerned abt Gender Equality & Right,then why u r still in Islamic fold that legalize ultra misogynistic practices like-
Triple Talaq,Halala,Polygamy etc....
Self respect is most important.girls have to understand first.then no body can hurt you.be strong emotionally and physically and also financially....❤️❤️❤️
The first time I got logic in the every point and every words of feminism. Yes....first time. Respect
Stop pointing out that feminists are liars or logic less ....a feminist will never say something that's a lie because they will know the mere difference between being a pseudo feminist and a real one.
@@Iamridhimanegi i dont think so. Yes you may say that not everyone is logic less. But not everyone has. Now a days there are lots of feminists (specially western) who try to encourage the females to disrespect the other genders specially men. And sadly we are blindly following !
Actually privileged females only talk about feminism...like the lady in the video...if they are Powerful and can talk then they should help females who really need it... everybody needs respect irrespective of the gender
Yes
@@soumyachakrabarty7827 you see we find exceptions everywhere ....but you can't judge an entire community on the basis of that ...if feminism would have been something involving logic less people than I don't think so people would have accepted it worldwide ...I mean c'mon..
She is the most divine woman I have ever seen
200% true .....the reality of women's life....whether a housemaker or a employed one
Have seen this in my family..but even after trying to make them understand she says this is what happens..a GOOD woman needs to adjust and ignore all this.
Wish i could make them understand that this is not normal.
True that :(
The most sane comment I have found in this section up until now.
You are the son who noticed it and atleast you are trying to make the understand. Proud of you
It's very true. If they are earning more than ghr to unke paise se chl rha h. Ghr ka kaam to tm kr hi skti ho. If we are earning more than they think we are taking them as servant.
because somewhere in their mind they think & treat homemakers like servant.
Then don't ask him
He is not your money producing machine , he is a human
@@punitasinghal801 koi sense banta h iss baat ka ?? dimag bech aaye kya tm dono ,dumb
@@punitasinghal801 we earn for ourselves
@@somyashrivastava2056 who u ...... Just shut up
Earning ok ....... How much is your savings
This brings tears in my eyes ,as a child had seen so many times ,this same things happened to my mother 😢
The sad part is some of these things no one says to me I say it to myself. I just need to change myself.
You don't need to change yourself, find your voice and speak for it. I know it'll be hard but once you take a stand, you'll never be in the fear
Pls support guys🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙇🏻
Yes you need to change the way you think about yourself. ASAP. Don't insult yourself. There are enough people out there to do it for you. But you're the only person to defend yourself. Fight others not yourself
I am a 33 yrs young man. I have been fighting for women empowerment and gender equality long time, with society and people.
For a man: Always try that the life of your woman before and after marriage differs minimal if not same. Make her feel comfortable the same as she was at home.
But these words dont hear good from characters like Pannu and Ranaut. Their words change situationally and for money. Believe an average man is better than them.
Hare Krishna 🕉️😇🙏🏻
Don't lose hope foght until u achieve your goal
Beta simp
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 i swear i really wanted to believe in love. But definitely im not compromising on love i deserve. If he cannot love me i will never be in toxic relationship.
Look for a good man who respects people. If he is kind to others then you have nothing to worry about. I don't think you fall in love before marriage, I think its all infatuation and attraction, which is fine. But for marriage, look only at his manners towards all. And you'll be fine 🙂
@@netforce13 nope . There's no need to tell women to compromise more then they already do . She can find one with both looks and manners . No more compromise.
Slap is not only on the face, slap is every attack that’s made on your self esteem !
Wow - such powerful and true words
Yes. ...my mother today taught me being In sasural don't say much in high tone ,have patience .....
I replied if anyone will be treated in wrong way i will be bad for them ...
I am not going to be suppressed by them ...i can sustain my self my own why the hell i should be like that typically bechari .....i love to be culture but not blindly ... their should be proper science
Unki baat sunlo....behan ji ..Puri jindgi de ke jo sikha hai wahi bata rahe hai tumhare parents....inn chutiya Bollywood valo ka kya bharosa jo har dusare din shadi karate hai...agar tum bhi wo kar sakati ho to phir sunlo ....aur ha wo sab karke bhi khush nai reh payoge
@@avinashkashid9176tumahri behen ko kehna chup rehne ko sehen krne ko, har tarah ko wildness bear krne ko, sasural valo ki or unki family ki maar sehen krne ko emotional mental pressure ko sehne karne ko kehan thik h.. 🙃
@TYCOON Relationships only works if two people's understand, respect and support, each others. If she thinks you love her she will bear anything for you. And both partner should think by putting themselves on others situation, and most importantly they shouldn't allowed any third person come between them, no matter if it's boots mother or girls sister or friends
@@avinashkashid9176 kyu ladke treat nhi kr skte ache se? wow mtlb apne aap ka stand lene se ladke divorce bhi de dete hai? ssly grow up, you'll raise children someday and no one wants their child to be mistreated and remain silent just to save their "rishta"
@@divyangimishra2612 har koe ladka waisa nai hota...so stop blaming stupid things on partner always ..if you are loyal and respectful then no one rejected you....
This was the best video I have ever seen
🙌🏻
That's reallllyyyyy a nicest video ❤️
U should watch more of this channel then the videos was pretty senseable i mean almost cuz some are just hating on men but still pretty strong thoughts
Wtfffff,,, itna masoum q bana ke bata rahe ho ladki ko
@@learnenglish6786 bhai ghusa karke kisi ko kuch bhi bolega to ye koi nhi sunta hai yar to kabhi thik se bolke hi dekhlo itne din se ghusse se hi to bol rhe the ki ye videos faltu man hating ki hai but koi mana kya nhi na to ab thik se hi baat kar lete hai
True.....every line, sub face kiya h but inn batoon ko choti choti bate Khh krr ignore krr diya jata h... But yeah sbse Jada effect Krti h
Han itni si baat ko itna bda bna rhi ho til ka tad bna rhi ho aise sabd istemal kiye jate hai jab aurte apni paresaniya batati hai.. aur bhi bahut se bato me gendar inequality hoti hai gharo me ...sabhi ke ghar me nhi but most of the Indian family aurto k sath alag aur purusho k sath alag vyvhar krna sikhati hai gharo me example- kabhi bhi maine kisi pati ko patni ki thali uthate ya khana paroste nhi dekha aur na hi suna hai jabki aurte to har Roj ye kaam krti hai bina kisi sikayat ke jaise bhagwan ne isi kaam k liye use dhrti me bheja hai
100% true... As a married woman, I agree to each one of statements
Every time I saw this and this kind of
I lost interest in marriage gradually. May be I am getting trust issue on men. Once upon a time I actually dreaming about getting settled (With Farhan Akhtar from Dil dharakne do, Dhruv from little things with this kind of men ) we will do all household work together, going to office, after back to home we share our work too. With whom I can chitchat about any subject.
Now when I write this comment I am smiling on "my expectation of a sensible, progressive and mentally healthy man " may be my expectation is wrong out of the world. 🙁🙁
Well that's a great thought Girls should develop these types of thoughts about marriage and never get married it will help men because men never want to get married and it will be great if women start to think the same way 😀
Please take it as a funny way 😀
It's your choice 🥰 there will always be men who treat girls right but you just have to find them. They're rare in India anyways
Real men are always insulted due to some of those dirty minded people .
Well that right even I lost interest in marriage and that not what people say or show but because my father is a men like this because of that I am losing trust in men
So true. I'm losing my trust on guys too. I hate arrange marriages....what if ...what if ....he is an ignorant and toxic man.
Universal Truth 🙂🙂....
That's why Don't want to get Married 🥱🥱🥱
Happens at every house,at some point of time I had behaved like this though I loved her madly but I love my daughter more. Hope for the best..
Love you Mera bacha Anika
Nothing is more important than Self respect for both men and women
Loved the way you communicated all what it is
Slaps include rude words.. True..
I hope people understand that marriage is not necessary,,,,,😢
It's just part of a life...
If you found a right person then get married
Dose not matter in which age you get married but tight person is matter who respect you
You fall in love with someone
You have crush on someone
Everything Just a fillings and everything is end if there is no any respect for each other
Marriage is a responsibility a priority for whole life
So be careful (man and woman both)
And i hope being self sufficient til 28 and marrying a good person being together for whole life is thousands times better than getting married at 16 and getting divorce at 28 🙂 ❤
Oh my dear Lord, this is so upsetting, heartbreaking and really triggering 🥺💔
Luckily aaj kl le ladke bohot understanding hote h but kuchh ab bhi bohot toxic hote h. Comments mein dikh gye mujhe. Seriously it's scary even imagining what if I get someone like these guys who treat women with no respect
Toxic ones are more than understanding ones
Yes u r right mujhe bhi comment me aise hi log dikh rhe h
@@nehabarnwal3952kyo ki log aye se hi hote.
Agar ladke Toxic na bane to ladkiya Jyoti Maurya ki tarah chuna laga ke chali jati hain.
Aurat ko thodi dheel dete hi sar pe naachne lagti hai. Society me yahi ho raha hai aaj kal. That's why men better be toxic than cheated.
In case I ever marry, I will prefer to be a stereotypical husband, not one of wife's pet who gets treated like a doormat in the end.
yahan bhi ek toxic aa gaya. soch samajh ke shaadi karo. shaadi zaroori nahi hai
This is sad reality 💔
Kisi ki zindgi easy nhi hoti it's all karma
😢
Reality of some people's mentality.
@@sarithajagajith6568 yeahhh
थप्पड़ केवल वो शब्द नहीं जो गाल पर आकर लगता है थप्पड़ वो है जो आत्मसम्मान पर आकर लगता है What's a line that's true 😊
When I saw the comment section some weeks ago it was really toxic 😅 now it's better
coz they have deleted the comments🙂
Yaha sare ek se ek gyani baithe hai
Truth.. hope these things bring some changes in the society!!
Well society is better
Old society was peaceful and happy
Give girls power, and they will run the world like a red light district
Give men power, they will run the world like well oiled machine
Hope so... I think we should be the change. Drive your own life and make ur own choices and decisions. Things will change automatically.
Society already change if you talk about metropolitan city
Moreover alot of different between female who have no kids(responsibility) and who having kids 🙂
@@punitasinghal801 aye shut up
Ri8.. self-respect is very important n I m fighting for that.
Most of the statement is true in some scenarios….. however don’t apply for majority …. Women stay away from Toxic Feminism….. your man will treat you as queen….. just treat him as King ❤
"Mera ghar bolna chhor do". Daily I am listening this sentence 😔
Heyy are u ok now??
Take care Dear.. ❤
Don't listen to such nonsense...
Listening this line from 3yrs😅and for some reason I laugh at it..
The bgm with words hit my heart deeply❤️
It completely resonates... They don't say directly bt mean the same
Human beings keep on changing in their behaviour, and man is a perfect example of this, as a lover he is different and as a husband he will be different, may be good or bad, but one thing is sure for him love is a part of life, for a girl to woman love is life, very few men can love like a woman. And all women are not lucky to have a man out of few.
If they treat us as a daughter at sasural...we will treat its our home....so many heart break words and things will happen always....
Yeah obviously true many women suffer,, just not 'every' women...
Don't blame me if I get into another affairs
Pressure nhi le sakte ho to job chhod do na.. I earn enough for both of us..
Tab aapko bolna chahiye tha isiliye job nhi chhodungi kyun ki affairs karoge to g mein do laat deke chalijaungi.. Q ki meri job hogi 😊 tum karte rehna apne affairs.. Gf k pichhe paisa udate rehna
😂👌
Zaroori thodi hai ki husband gf ke uper paise uda rha hoga, ho skta hai gf ki bhi job ho
@@abdulmoid267 haan exta marital affairs kyun karte hain log? Aur jo insaan bol rha hai.. He has job with which they both can manage.. Woh job wali gf aur nhi dhundega
Just say it's my choice and move on..or say "my career is none of your business", u r not here to control my career.."u can also leave your job"
@@ipsitarout8568 shaadi k pehle sex kisi aur se aur shaadi k baad kisi aur se??? Jisse shaadi k pehle krtiii hooo ussi se shadi k baad v krooo......jb ek pati ko maalum chlta h na ki uski biwi kisi aur k sath so k aayi h......usko v bura lgta h
Marriage cannot happen without adjustments and understanding from both sides guys... Don't think motivation from internet is real motivation...That's not the real world...
Women should respect and appreciate each other!! If every women starts to support another women insted of taunting her about gol roti or short clothes, then this situation will get so much better
Totally agree !!
didi u need to support right things not women, in ur statement u r assuming women to be right all the time, u should choose ur words carefully...........and start living like human first.
@@kshitiz1107 Kiddo don't mind but I really insist you to attain a level of maturity after a certain age ! And then try to interprete the depth of the statements & sayings of people before reaching to a naive conclusion ...! Bcz your interpretation of her statement is totally opposite & of a naive genre ...so yes .
@@poorviasthana1587 i dont like being emotional.what ever i have said is all right.
Tolerating toxic words and negative criticism from anyone can break your spirit and harm your mental and physical health. So, stand up for yourself. Don't take shit from anyone.
Whenever anyone says"ise to kabhi na kbhi apne ghar jaana hai" i think mera is dharti par koi ghar nhi hai , kyuki jis ghar me mai janam li hu log us ghar ko mera paraya ghar smjhte hai . I didn't cry in front of everyone but I really cried too much in my heart 😭😭😭
Buy your own home. Power move 😎
I am lucky that my husband doesn't say all these to me... He appreciates all the things which I do..But still I can understand the pain of those women who listen to all these. I feel sorry for them.😢😢😢
When men earns he thinks he need more. But when women earns, she thinks she doesn't need men.
Makes sense now.
What do you mean to say?
This is confusing
Nah it's just that if a woman earns good enough, her parents won't force her to marry against her will and will be more likely to wait until she is ready for marriage
That right ✅ woman don't need a men in her life to depend on him and even if he treats her good we have life we need freedom to do what we want and we don't need someone permission
That's true I agree with it if a men has enough money and is taking care of his family than their is no need for a women to work
I could not stop my tears. It happened yesterday to me.
Don't take it. Please speak up
I salute to u to show this social and patriarchal prejudice for women's
STOPPED to inferiorize us!!
Sad truth that most women endure even now 😢
"You are mother of a single child"
Me-Wait wait I am not even a teenager🙂
But the video was really true...
Watch this after marriage dear🤭🤭....just kidding yarr😁😁
@@praveen129 😂but I am never gonna marry😂
@@kalolikadey Hey yee ladki jut bol raha hai 😅😅
@@praveen129 Nhii sach much main😅✨. I really don't wanna marry😌. My dream is that I wanna be successful in my life & then just live alone😌
@@kalolikadey lekin parents nahi chodenge na🤭🤭😂😂.......Anyways I pray u will hit those success standards in a great way Dear 🤗🤗.....keep smile😁.Be happy😊 Never give up on u r goals #Nomatterwhat🎉
True🙏🙏🙏aatmsamman par laga thappad bina aawaj kiye bahut jor se lagta hai
Truth fully all this problem came form the education of men.
Exactly thapar sirf chahry par parny Wala hi nhi hota self respect ko hurt krny waly tamam sentences thapar hi hoty hn
Mujhe shadi se darr lgne lgaa... Hai🥲
Really i love Thappa movie but not know why it didn't get recognition in Hindi cinema
People don't deserve good movie 🎥
Uff the words were so powerful
This video deserves million likes... ❤
अगर आप mercedes चलना चाहते है
तो maruti driver से advice मत लो ।
उसी प्रकार
मैं लड़कियों से कहूंगा कि अगर आप चाहती है कि आपकी शादी जीवन भर चले तो
इन जैसी लड़कियों से advice ना ले जिनका तो पहले कई लड़के से पहले अफ़ेयर चलता है फिर 3 से 4 शादी करती है,ये खुद ही रिलेशनशिप के मामले में failure होती है तो इनके advice से आपका relationship सफल होगा ?🙄🙄
इनके पास बहुत पैसा है इनका पैसा देख कर कोई दुबारा शादी कर लेगा ।
Tum Bina dahej k shadi kar lo
Ladko ko kya h tum log apne Ghar m rahte ho kic dusre k ghr m jak adjust karna or usko apna bnana adjust hona time lgta h gairo k bich apna bnana un sbko time lgta h
@@Karma-qc5xo मेरे personal matter में क्यों घुस रही हो,मैने कहा कुछ दहेज के बारे में ?
Oh god, these lines really hurts
So true yr.. physical injure can be cure completely but dil pe lage chot ko zindagi par Bhol nai sakte
💯
It heart so much there no words to say as a single mother people only jaj u😢😢😢😢
I would say women pls don't marry a man like this
If you have then pls divorce