This is true, I’m now learning that happiness comes from within and not what someone can provide for me... I have a tendency to expect perfection from my partner which does not exist... this is a hard aspect yet a beautiful one to actually learn and grow from .... not all blessings glitter gold and we can pass on a lot of information to our children by setting the example of where happiness comes from
wow...it’s incredible how validating astrology can be. my mother wasn’t emotionally nurturing, while my father was, however, he’s a narcissist and i just realized i didn’t need to be loyal to him anymore like i was in my childhood.
I had a very codependent relationship with my mother growing up. She's a single mom, and I'm the youngest and only boy. We really struggled financially, and so I became involved with managing finances at a very young age; and was acutely aware of how little money we had. Thankfully, we have always had a very close relationship and have since redefined our boundaries in a healthy way. She is the strongest person I know, and I love her so much. I have a grand trine in water, anchored by my moon in Pisces, so I've always been good at discerning people's intentions; but I do still struggle with always assuming the best in people at first. I also used to think a relationship would fix all of my problems (I'm gay and always thought an older man could save me), but with Venus in Sag I hate being tied down; and now that I've gotten older I realize that I need to just focus on myself, and fix my own problems (and am SO much happier now). I have realized, like you said, that no one will make me happy, so I have to make myself happy. I'm a Scorpio sun, so I'm very stubborn and independent; I love being single now. I also really resonated, though, with the "lack of contentment" part. I've always been extremely restless, but very ambitious (Scorpio).; but I do always find myself pursuing something new that "will make me happy." From learning a new skill, to working out, to a relationship, to anything. Also, "the hunger for what Venus needs" really resonated, as well. My Venus is in Sag, and all I want do in life is travel. All of my career goals are so that I can have enough money to travel. I just want to see the world. So, basically this video super resonated with me. Thank you so much.
Wow. Your interpretations are amazing. I have this aspect and everything rang true so deeply. I just turned 30 last year and this year has been all about uncovering this truth in myself.
I have this aspect and a couple weeks ago I wasn't out yet to some of my friends, not because I was scared rather I was avoiding the situation altogether since I have never been in a relationship "so there is no point." Well... this guy asked to buy me a drink and at first I was oblivious to what he meant because no one's ever flirted with me before in my life and I'm 21 (sad, but true) and then it was the realization that I wasn't being honest with people who've known me for years. I clearly wasn't ready for a relationship, if I accepted the offer I would've been afraid what my friends would've thought and in a way I was scared of adult intimacy since I'm so inexperienced. In hindsight, I wish I said yes, but now I have the confidence in knowing that there's always a possibility of someone wanting to get to know me on a deeper level.
Just Perfect. Fortunately, after a lot of work I was able to overcome this issue with my mom (although it seems to be always there). The same with being unable to reach total happiness in a relationship, I learned that is possible to be happy even when I'm not fully satisfied :) Thank you!
Phenomenal interpretation of this aspect. I have a close family member with this aspect and she exhibits the same characteristics you explain here. Thank you.
I’m just now starting to really understand this side of me and she nailed right on the head. This is why it’s so hard for me to actually allow myself to be in a relationship with anyone. Why it’s so easy for me to discard men when I’m “bored” or when my initial emotions calm and I realize I’m not as interested in this person like I thought I was. It’s the illusion and the incessant need for love that tricks me each time and I’m left feeling bamboozled when the person isn’t who I imagined him to be in my head. Ugh 😢😭
I’ve watched this a few times just to get some of the many points a little clearer in my head! So much of this holds true in my life but I’m so sick of it! Ready to actually DO something about it! Thank you Jewel! 🙏🏼
I almost cried when you said: "You can be happy". Because in my last relationship (with the father of my child), I lost a real real love, I felt really happy and all the sudden it was super uncomfortable because I felt insecure with every little thing that he was doing at the time and begin to feel that "this is not my place, I don't feel valued here" but then again, as my other 2 relationships before I always felt that way, so definitely was my fault this time too. But in this process of knowing myself more, I really want to built something with somebody, so, I need to work this aspect out. Thank You!!
Oh I relate with you so much. Do you usually feed your Venus or moon... I think feeding our moon just gives us deep friendships and no attraction? And going with Venus. Is so scary.. I can so understand because we question if our emotions are valid at every step!!!! You have my deepest sincere compassion for losing the love of your life. But hang in there... It can't get any worse? Can it?!!! 😅🔮
It can't. Hahaha, so, this time foward I'm living just with a good memory of those times and happines that I experienced that love. And definetly I want to really be happy with a partner by my side. And also, how do you feed your Venus?
Absolutely love this. I have this aspect and it has been a really hard one. I am 22 and this has been something I have started to realize in the last 4 months.
It's so weird to see this comment posted 2 years ago, from a random stranger on the internet, describing exactly my life right now. Power to you, sister! It's so hard to deal with this. I hope things are looking better for you.
@@miroslavaivanova6961 same situation here, 4 months after your comment. I'm working on myself to figure this out before I'm 30. I want to feel content and satisfied in a relationship.
thank you for this video, jewel! i have my 4th house virgo moon squaring my 12th house gemini venus and i feel this aspect HARD. expressing my needs to everyone throughout my life has been difficult because, really, half the time i didnt even realize that i HAD needs that needed to be met until it was too late! and having my 2nd house sun almost exactly opposite neptune doesnt help. I have always had self-worth and self-esteem issues. and ive also always had lazy issues. I hope one day i can be self-sufficient in the areas of self-worth and material security. You are an intuitive, astrological, and psychological master and i love the articulate detail you consistently communicate in your videos. and watching your cat tap your shoulder made my heart melt every time.
Well, my ex husband had this square. If the cheat meter was 1-10, he was a full on 10. Decade later still doing this to his now wife. So glad I dumped him.
I have a friend that had an ex boyfriend with this aspect as well and yes he is a cheater. He was with a girl but still tried to get my friend, even tried to manipulate my friend. Well here are his aspects that I've been suspecting on his chart : Moon square Venus, Uranus, Neptune . Venus square Mars, Venus conjunct Uranus and Neptune. Mars conjunct Uranus and Neptune and pretty strong Pluto on his chart.
whoah! ik someone with this aspect as well. my intuition first told me that he just sweet talked to me and did the same with others. 💁also his asteroid (i forgot the name but its the asteroid which indicates cheater), it trines his moon. lmao 😂
i have a t-square (moon in libra, venus in capricorn and saturn in aries), and i'm always unsatisfied with my relationships, i fall in love deeply, but when i got what i want, i just lose my feeling and i feel really bad, i want to love someone, but i just love what i can't reach, if i reach, i lose my feeling, it makes me a sad person, i just want to love someone who loves me, but i think i can't, while the other person's love increases, my love just decreases or suddenly disappears
OMG! This is so on point. My ex even told me that I would never be satisfied in a relationship. We had the same moon (Scorpio) so he was in tune with my emotions. My venus is in Aquarius and his mars was in Aquarius.. My mother is very influential in my life. Shes a double Capricorn, so can imagine...
Sag moon square Pisces Jupiter & Venus. True I did have a habit of "trying people on" so I never invested in my friendships like I should've when I was younger. Interestingly enough, I am good at discerning between good ppl and users but thats thanks to my moon conjunct Pluto. 9/10 I always end up keeping this person around anyway. Whenever I met people who were nice to me/we just clicked I would subconsciously distance myself away from them because the notion of someone being kind to me was so foreign. I fortunately never sold myself short, I actually have a great deal of confidence and entitlement when wanting what I want! This has allowed me to achieve financial independence at a young age.
Yeah, I left a rs to take my own responsibility and happiness, taken alot of time but glad I did it, and getting stronger in finding my actual needs, I found I've repressed so much of my values and put others first, but rather then say no and put my foot down , I became go with the flow and really wasnt sure what my values were.. but I don't need to be defensive or argue, but listen more to myself
I have Moon square Venus, Venus opposition Saturn, Mars opposition Saturn, and Moon square Neptune. All I can say is men fall ecstatically in love with me very quickly, then shortly after a few weeks to a few months they become very uninterested. Unless they are a sociopath or psychopath they will remain interested. My love life can really suck!
My venus in virgo squares almost half of my natal chart and one of those squares is to the moon...those aspects cause massive problems in any kind of relationships...extreme inner nervousness tend to destroy everything..things become better when a person start experience life less seriously.
I surely love that silver loveseat, catches my eye every time.also love the sea colors in your décor. (I'm a Neptune rising with venus in libra= I notice beautiful things.)
I have this aspect and then I have Venus square Pluto. These aspects feel like a double whammy of pain. I have not been in a serious relationship and honestly... I don’t think I will ever.
I have just discovered recently that there is more to astrology than just horoscopes or sun signs and it truly amazed me. I wonder how would this manifest if the moon is in aquarius in 12th house squaring venus in taurus in the 3rd? In my case, I just feel like I do crave stability and consistency when it comes to relationships/intimacy and wants to socialize yet I want freedom/unpredictability and I can't stand being surrounded by people for a long time cause it makes me feel drained. Being a loner is my way of coping with different matters. I wonder if this aspect also makes me drawn to secret relationships because I fear that my mother won't approve the people I date. Or I fear that maybe it's not worth it. Are you going to post a synastry video for this? I have this aspect with a former lover who is a scorpio venus guy so I am also interested. Thank you for your astrology videos. I really like them and I follow you on facebook too.
Hello, I also have moon in aquarius 12th house square venus in taurus although in the 2nd house. I resonate with your way of dealing with it ! Being alone (all one) is as necessary for me as oxygen is. To the point that if I'm not aware, I'm ostracizing myself. On another note I am sensual and pleasure of the senses is my luxury.
I'm aquarius rising and i relate to the part of needing my alone time Because to much socializing drain me soooo much ! I don't have venus square moon tho. But i have mars and saturn square my moon 🥲
My father has this aspect and he has always been unaccessible. Unfortunately I repeated similar relationships with men, falling for unaccessible men cause my daddy has never been there. His moon in piscis had me tricked that he was a good father for a long time. I only realized with 40 after a horrible rs with a psychopath that my dad has never been the man that he appeared- piscis moon, he never spent time with me nor nurtured me- venus sag. He always said he loved me while leaving the house - sag venus superficial parenting. Yet my dad is popular and everyone loves him - sag venus, but not enough good dad for me. He always preferred to be with other people. I loved him due to his piscis moon -sensitivity, that was a promise that never came into fruition. He has a lot of love for other people and the Universe- piscis moon and for small kids- sag moon. I became uninteresting to him as long as I was not little and cute.
I have this aspect along with moon square Jupiter, mercury and opposition mars!! I found out recently I have a mutable grand cross.. honestly don't know where to begin when my natal chart is full of squares and oppositions...
Husband and I both have this aspect. We have been married 21 years. lol Though no relationship is perfect, I would venture to say we both have been largely satisfied. This video is interesting, but I wish it was less fixed and offered more possible interpretations other than people with this placement come from unhealthy, unsatisfied mothers (absolutely not true) and thus are never satisfied nor are their partners; not very encouraging, and certainly does not apply to me at all.
I agree even though I'm currently single at the moment and don't mind. I have a wonderful relationship with my mother. My Venus is in Sagittarius and moon in Pisces both of them being mutable and also having the same ruling planet (Jupiter) traditionally and Neptune ruling Pisces which I personally thinks makes this Square (in any other Square between those two signs or mutables in general) easier to deal with or solve especially compared to fixed signs (no hate).
@@laundrewashington3734 Agreed. I have venus in virgo square moon in gemini and both are mutable and ruled by mercury so I feel like it's easier to overcome the difficulties presented.
This is very true for me, my ♎️ moon is square my ♊️ Venus. I often feel dissatisfied & I have a strained relationship with my mom 😭. She did not provide the nurturing love & encouragement that I needed. Nothing was ever good enough for her & she went through a lot with my father, raising us as a single mom in a new country at 25. I try to be understanding & work towards healing my resentment ❤️🩹
Can you please 🙏🏽 do a video specifically on Pluto semi sextile Venus & Venus square Saturn in the natal chart. I cannot find info anywhere on these placements ❤️
I have the Saturn/Moon/Venus conjunction in the 11th in Aquarius. Venus is the ruler of my chart. This seems to fit me pretty well. Thank you for this insight.
My boyfriend has this. He's always second guessing himself, and had a horrible childhood with a very abusive mother(physically and verbally). She still tries to manipulate him even as an adult. I think part of him being with me is how much older I am than him as well.
Was listening for a friend, but I have the opposition, and it is more accurate for me, personally....but then the moon in my chart(in Scorpio) is also conjunct Neptune..
Looking at all of my hard aspects today. This along with another moon square to chiron and mars square neptune and opposite jupiter. It's depressing to say the least. I understand now why being single is just so much easier for me than a relationship. It's painful but there are just too many pitfalls of all of these aspects for me to even feel it's worth it. I understand intellectually that self love is the answer to all of it and I try so hard to love myself but there's still something missing and not knowing what that is is the worst.
I have the same hard aspects as you. I don't struggle with them as much anymore, so I just wanted to give you some hope. I made some mistakes and learned some hard lessons. What ultimately helped me was learning to completely love and accept myself. You can't ask someone to love you, if you don't love you. Insecurity destroys relationships. Be kind to yourself. The more critical you are of yourself, the more critical you'll be with others. I also used mindfulness, wrote out positive affirmations and goals for myself every day. I looked up CBT techniques and used those too. I have been married for over 10 years now. We have ups and downs like any relationship. But we're faithful to each other, and love each other so much. Infatuation is fleeting. Lasting love isn't just a sensation. It feels less exciting sometimes, but is worth so much more. Put the work in and in the end deep love, trust and enduring attraction develops.
Why does the universe curse us with this aspect??? 😒😭😰💔 it’s sad that my only “real” relationship was back in 2008-2009 and again for 3 months in 2013, been single since then, dated here and there, but nothing every came serious of them, well at least I have my 2 boys and don’t have worry about rushing before my clock runs out on my eggs lol 😂 love your videos.
My mom died when I was 3 & 1/2 and Dad remarried when I was 5. Neither my Dad nor my stepmom were what I consider very nurturing. I’m trying to understand how this aspect fits for me - and I have Moon Square Venus at 0%
Whoa, I don’t have this aspect - I have moon square mars with a bunch of planets in the 4H - but it resonated with me. Venus/Uranus conjunct makes me restless, even afraid to make a commitment for fear I’ll have to ‘deal’ with people’s ‘stuff’ and I don’t want to. I’ve dealt with stuff and I’m done dealing with stuff. Also, moon in libra gives rose colored glasses. What I’ve learned is to allow the glasses to come off, and see the person for who they are. Also, I like a relationship, but I also need a certain amount of freedom to expand. I wonder if the moon square mars plus Venus conj Uranus gives this.
I have this and I also have my Juno and Sagittarius and I also have my Mars Venus so only Capricorn survived this. I’m on my way out of my next situation.
Oh boy.... My sons father has this along with mars square neptune, moon square pluto, venus opposite pluto . 3 years of pure hell but I did love him so much.. Now I understand why he is the way he is.
I have this aspect, my moon is in Scorpio and my venus in Leo however I am not a hoe lol I can not make my relationships last and until a few months ago I did not know why. Lately I do not want anyone close to me, I'm afraid to leave someone in my life again because I really do not know how to determinate if someone is "good" or "bad", all the people I loved were horrible to me and I - unconsciously - liked them bc of that. I'll do my best not to fall into these toxic relationships again. I have accepted that I am going to die young and alone, it seems to me a good thing to believe.
Olivia McDonie you just need to learn to be discriminate more. I have this aspect too and I’ve been in toxic relationships and stayed longer than I should because I desperately wanted to be loved and craved their affection. You need to learn to love yourself. Give the love and affection to yourself. I’m still working on it. Start looking for those red flags and figure out what do you want. You may have to learn through your mistakes to figure out what you really want in a partnership
How would you describe a Moon in Scorpio squaring with Venus in Aquarius... its so confusing and it makes sense WHY Ive been single for 10 years xD, trying to find a best friend in a lover, but also keep that chase going.
My boyfriend has these exact same placements... Moon in scorpio squared with venus in Aquarius. We have had so many problems in love, a lot to do with his cheating... Can you explain this experience, or your experience of what love is like for you
Same here, although it doesnt show up as a square in my natal chart. I have this strong urge to bond and be free. Have a lot of space but also have none? Im rather an evolved Moon in Scorpio so I dont get into relationships when I know I am capable of cheating and now I would definiately not do it but Im still scared and Its hard to find one person to match my relationship needs. I really tend to be happy alone, Just that I feel Id have to have 2 different people for dating and marrying if you know what I mean. Or dating and sleeping with
I have moon conjunct Jupiter (Scorpio) squaring my Venus (Leo). I have had issues with self esteem and wanting to shine but then having to build my confidence up. I think moon conjunct Jupiter adds more optimism for my relationships. Maybe I overindulge into my relationships?
I have the opposition at a 9 degree orb so it's pretty wide, and yet I saw myself in this. I told my last fiance before we broke up "you satisfy my body and soul, but not my mind". I want somebody who satisfies all three.. tall order isn't it?? :/ (and btw, kitty is absolutely adorable! 😍)
Very interesting. My boyfriend of almost 2 years has this aspect (Moon also conjunct Saturn) and I found that he was very quick to commit fully and prove his loyalty to me almost instantly. He's always saying that relationships have good and bad moments but that we love each other at the end of the day. He's a Taurus with Venus in the 8th house. Perhaps this is why?
+thebluesheep2 I have a video on moon conjunct Saturn. That modifies the interpretation. Moon/Saturn people crave commitment. Outer planet aspects to personal planets can often have a greater effect than inner planets to inner planets.
I have libra moon opposite saturn in aries as well as Capricorn venus square moon. I did the exact same thing as your bf. Basically decided I was gonna marry my boyfriend a few months into our relationship. There definitely was a part of me in the beginning that thought that being with him would solve a bunch of my personal issues and really tried to push him away because I didn't feel I was good enough for him, but those feelings have almost completely dissipated since then. I identify with this video, but it definitely seems secondary to saturn-moon issues.
Great video, thanks. In your 30's? I wish!, Im in my early 50's and its been a...struggle bordering on nightmare! Natal Venus square Pluto, Mars and Uranus add to the mix.
And the person with this aspect craves for perfection in their partners, but are way far of being perfect themselves. They get attached to that piece of wonder they find interesting in someone, and then try to build a whole interaction through this, so when they realize the context doesn't fit their expectations- and it never will - they jump into another relationship and so on and so forth...
I don’t have this in my natal chart however I do have this in my Navamsa D9 chart and I have never related to an aspect so much. In every single relationship I have been in this has been me...constantly dissatisfied and it’s now at 30 I am realizing I am the problem. It’s so hard working through this aspect. I have broken many hearts in hopes of finding “the one” that i’m now realizing doesn’t exactly exist. Your videos have changed my life in so many ways thank you for being an amazing astrologer and my personal psychologist 😂 I have also had my birth chart read by you! love you jewel 💎 ♥️
Don't say that :( I have this aspect. It's a tough cookie but I have two best friends whom I blended well with... They meet my needs... They understand me at emotional level... And then my partner who meets my Venus.... I am not sure how it would be like to get everything from one person... But it does not make me a cheater... Communication and compassion is everything with this aspect...my partner is a good man.. We don't always understand each other... But he does treat me with respect...like any other relationship... The key really is to pay attention to your feelings and keep some standards.. And stick to them... It really is possible to be happy...but just not in conventional sense.. you know what ..that's okay...
Moon in pisces square venus And I got 5 planets in libra in the 10th house And jupiter in the 12th. Moon is also in house of pisces since i have sag ascendant. Will all my libra energy that has positive apsects to jupiter etc override this?
I have the trine between Moon-Ven. My current has the Moon/Venus square. And i always thought that this manifested as the inability to accept intimacy. I see that he on one hand craves intimacy. But is extremely uncomfortable with it on the other. And this back/forth confuses me🤷🏿♂️ He has Moon in Aqua and Ven in Sco
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This is true, I’m now learning that happiness comes from within and not what someone can provide for me... I have a tendency to expect perfection from my partner which does not exist... this is a hard aspect yet a beautiful one to actually learn and grow from .... not all blessings glitter gold and we can pass on a lot of information to our children by setting the example of where happiness comes from
Agree. Sometimes i cant accept my partner flaws i ve moon square venus / venus trine uranus / lilith virgo in 7th
Im sick of yall foreal
@@TheVanillaaaSky 😭😭😭😭
You completely nailed it on the head. I’m learning this lesson now!!!!
wow...it’s incredible how validating astrology can be. my mother wasn’t emotionally nurturing, while my father was, however, he’s a narcissist and i just realized i didn’t need to be loyal to him anymore like i was in my childhood.
I had a very codependent relationship with my mother growing up. She's a single mom, and I'm the youngest and only boy. We really struggled financially, and so I became involved with managing finances at a very young age; and was acutely aware of how little money we had. Thankfully, we have always had a very close relationship and have since redefined our boundaries in a healthy way. She is the strongest person I know, and I love her so much. I have a grand trine in water, anchored by my moon in Pisces, so I've always been good at discerning people's intentions; but I do still struggle with always assuming the best in people at first. I also used to think a relationship would fix all of my problems (I'm gay and always thought an older man could save me), but with Venus in Sag I hate being tied down; and now that I've gotten older I realize that I need to just focus on myself, and fix my own problems (and am SO much happier now). I have realized, like you said, that no one will make me happy, so I have to make myself happy. I'm a Scorpio sun, so I'm very stubborn and independent; I love being single now. I also really resonated, though, with the "lack of contentment" part. I've always been extremely restless, but very ambitious (Scorpio).; but I do always find myself pursuing something new that "will make me happy." From learning a new skill, to working out, to a relationship, to anything. Also, "the hunger for what Venus needs" really resonated, as well. My Venus is in Sag, and all I want do in life is travel. All of my career goals are so that I can have enough money to travel. I just want to see the world. So, basically this video super resonated with me. Thank you so much.
this aspect has improved for me so much through learning to be embodied and meet my needs. so amazing.
Im working on the needs bit!
Getting there lol
How did you do this? I'm so stuck
Spot on, your videos are great !
Wonderful explanation. And I love your cat - that gentle little tap of the paw!
Wow. Your interpretations are amazing. I have this aspect and everything rang true so deeply. I just turned 30 last year and this year has been all about uncovering this truth in myself.
I have this aspect and a couple weeks ago I wasn't out yet to some of my friends, not because I was scared rather I was avoiding the situation altogether since I have never been in a relationship "so there is no point." Well... this guy asked to buy me a drink and at first I was oblivious to what he meant because no one's ever flirted with me before in my life and I'm 21 (sad, but true) and then it was the realization that I wasn't being honest with people who've known me for years. I clearly wasn't ready for a relationship, if I accepted the offer I would've been afraid what my friends would've thought and in a way I was scared of adult intimacy since I'm so inexperienced. In hindsight, I wish I said yes, but now I have the confidence in knowing that there's always a possibility of someone wanting to get to know me on a deeper level.
this sounds just like me lol
By "out" do you mean out of the closet as in gay or something else?
@@laundrewashington3734 I think so
Just Perfect. Fortunately, after a lot of work I was able to overcome this issue with my mom (although it seems to be always there). The same with being unable to reach total happiness in a relationship, I learned that is possible to be happy even when I'm not fully satisfied :) Thank you!
100% I needed to hear this finally I get it!!!!
Phenomenal interpretation of this aspect. I have a close family member with this aspect and she exhibits the same characteristics you explain here. Thank you.
You are brilliant! So glad I found your channel, and also loving the kitty cameos! 😻
I’m just now starting to really understand this side of me and she nailed right on the head. This is why it’s so hard for me to actually allow myself to be in a relationship with anyone. Why it’s so easy for me to discard men when I’m “bored” or when my initial emotions calm and I realize I’m not as interested in this person like I thought I was. It’s the illusion and the incessant need for love that tricks me each time and I’m left feeling bamboozled when the person isn’t who I imagined him to be in my head. Ugh 😢😭
Oh the feels. It is such a disgusting feeling.
Don't play the victim! You sound like a narcissist.
I have felt the same with other men too
Great insight 🙌 I can relate.
I’ve watched this a few times just to get some of the many points a little clearer in my head! So much of this holds true in my life but I’m so sick of it! Ready to actually DO something about it! Thank you Jewel! 🙏🏼
I almost cried when you said: "You can be happy". Because in my last relationship (with the father of my child), I lost a real real love, I felt really happy and all the sudden it was super uncomfortable because I felt insecure with every little thing that he was doing at the time and begin to feel that "this is not my place, I don't feel valued here" but then again, as my other 2 relationships before I always felt that way, so definitely was my fault this time too. But in this process of knowing myself more, I really want to built something with somebody, so, I need to work this aspect out. Thank You!!
Oh I relate with you so much. Do you usually feed your Venus or moon... I think feeding our moon just gives us deep friendships and no attraction? And going with Venus. Is so scary.. I can so understand because we question if our emotions are valid at every step!!!! You have my deepest sincere compassion for losing the love of your life. But hang in there... It can't get any worse? Can it?!!! 😅🔮
It can't. Hahaha, so, this time foward I'm living just with a good memory of those times and happines that I experienced that love. And definetly I want to really be happy with a partner by my side. And also, how do you feed your Venus?
Absolutely love this. I have this aspect and it has been a really hard one. I am 22 and this has been something I have started to realize in the last 4 months.
It's so weird to see this comment posted 2 years ago, from a random stranger on the internet, describing exactly my life right now. Power to you, sister! It's so hard to deal with this. I hope things are looking better for you.
@@miroslavaivanova6961 same situation here, 4 months after your comment. I'm working on myself to figure this out before I'm 30. I want to feel content and satisfied in a relationship.
best video on this particular placement
I have this aspect. Painful truths right there. Love is unreachable right now.
thank you for this video, jewel! i have my 4th house virgo moon squaring my 12th house gemini venus and i feel this aspect HARD. expressing my needs to everyone throughout my life has been difficult because, really, half the time i didnt even realize that i HAD needs that needed to be met until it was too late! and having my 2nd house sun almost exactly opposite neptune doesnt help. I have always had self-worth and self-esteem issues. and ive also always had lazy issues. I hope one day i can be self-sufficient in the areas of self-worth and material security. You are an intuitive, astrological, and psychological master and i love the articulate detail you consistently communicate in your videos. and watching your cat tap your shoulder made my heart melt every time.
Aaron Williams virgo moon 2nd house square venus in gemini 11th house.
When she said it’s not comfortable to be comfortable that’s basically how I feel everyday when dealing with Venus like things
God this is so spot on
You're right, no miserable ease for me. Stop complaining (good advise.) Celebrate the flaws of all relationship (even better!) Thank you.
Another awesome video, Jewel. Thank you for all of your insights. You're the best. Peace.
I ve this aspect no wonder all my relationships only last 21 days
Hangga Diputra lmaoo 21 days tho
Same here!🙋🏼♀️ take care❤
Holy shit this is describe my friend SO ACCURATELY. You’re a genius Jewel!
Aww your cat is very handsome^^
I was laughing when he nudged her after she stopped petting him.
omfg i let out an audible "aww babbbyyyyy" every time he did that
I am mommy. And looking over my daughters chart,I am trying to figure out how to help her best.
Same. Me too,i just started im so obsessed with astrology!
He’s so adorable! 😻
Well, my ex husband had this square. If the cheat meter was 1-10, he was a full on 10. Decade later still doing this to his now wife. So glad I dumped him.
urthebest1122 You did great, no use doing away with cheaters.
urthebest1122 what was his Sun sign?
I have a friend that had an ex boyfriend with this aspect as well and yes he is a cheater. He was with a girl but still tried to get my friend, even tried to manipulate my friend. Well here are his aspects that I've been suspecting on his chart : Moon square Venus, Uranus, Neptune . Venus square Mars, Venus conjunct Uranus and Neptune. Mars conjunct Uranus and Neptune and pretty strong Pluto on his chart.
I met someone with this and i think i see that
whoah! ik someone with this aspect as well. my intuition first told me that he just sweet talked to me and did the same with others. 💁also his asteroid (i forgot the name but its the asteroid which indicates cheater), it trines his moon. lmao 😂
this is so real that it's scary.
i have a t-square (moon in libra, venus in capricorn and saturn in aries), and i'm always unsatisfied with my relationships, i fall in love deeply, but when i got what i want, i just lose my feeling and i feel really bad, i want to love someone, but i just love what i can't reach, if i reach, i lose my feeling, it makes me a sad person, i just want to love someone who loves me, but i think i can't, while the other person's love increases, my love just decreases or suddenly disappears
Oh the feels!! Have you found a way to overcome?
same here ! and it makes me guilty
@@nledwards87 unfortunately no
@@meriemz26 ye :(
Ahhh I've been waiting for this one! Have this at 0deg, and all the women in my family also have it tightly.
Thanks Jewel!
Amazing reading ❤❤❤❤
I'm understanding myself in a way I didn't think was possible. Sucks that I'm a late bloomer in every sense. Thank you for your hard work!
OMG! This is so on point. My ex even told me that I would never be satisfied in a relationship. We had the same moon (Scorpio) so he was in tune with my emotions. My venus is in Aquarius and his mars was in Aquarius.. My mother is very influential in my life. Shes a double Capricorn, so can imagine...
Tara Quinch I have almost everything you mentioned. How do you find yourself difficult in relationships though? In which way does it affect you?
Tara Quinch why aré you never satisfied
Please do another video on this as it’s very interesting
But for men.
Wow spot on Jewel, thanks your sharing your gifted insights.
Sag moon square Pisces Jupiter & Venus. True I did have a habit of "trying people on" so I never invested in my friendships like I should've when I was younger. Interestingly enough, I am good at discerning between good ppl and users but thats thanks to my moon conjunct Pluto. 9/10 I always end up keeping this person around anyway.
Whenever I met people who were nice to me/we just clicked I would subconsciously distance myself away from them because the notion of someone being kind to me was so foreign. I fortunately never sold myself short, I actually have a great deal of confidence and entitlement when wanting what I want! This has allowed me to achieve financial independence at a young age.
great video.... so keen to hear about the opposition between those two planets.
+Sophie Reiher I’ll likely get to that one this Saturday.
Yeah, I left a rs to take my own responsibility and happiness, taken alot of time but glad I did it, and getting stronger in finding my actual needs, I found I've repressed so much of my values and put others first, but rather then say no and put my foot down , I became go with the flow and really wasnt sure what my values were.. but I don't need to be defensive or argue, but listen more to myself
I have Moon square Venus, Venus opposition Saturn, Mars opposition Saturn, and Moon square Neptune. All I can say is men fall ecstatically in love with me very quickly, then shortly after a few weeks to a few months they become very uninterested. Unless they are a sociopath or psychopath they will remain interested. My love life can really suck!
My venus in virgo squares almost half of my natal chart and one of those squares is to the moon...those aspects cause massive problems in any kind of relationships...extreme inner nervousness tend to destroy everything..things become better when a person start experience life less seriously.
I surely love that silver loveseat, catches my eye every time.also love the sea colors in your décor. (I'm a Neptune rising with venus in libra= I notice beautiful things.)
I have this aspect and then I have Venus square Pluto. These aspects feel like a double whammy of pain. I have not been in a serious relationship and honestly... I don’t think I will ever.
Bruh same...with Venus opposite pluto
@@plutosprincess what’s wrong with Venus opposition pluto ?
I have just discovered recently that there is more to astrology than just horoscopes or sun signs and it truly amazed me. I wonder how would this manifest if the moon is in aquarius in 12th house squaring venus in taurus in the 3rd?
In my case, I just feel like I do crave stability and consistency when it comes to relationships/intimacy and wants to socialize yet I want freedom/unpredictability and I can't stand being surrounded by people for a long time cause it makes me feel drained. Being a loner is my way of coping with different matters.
I wonder if this aspect also makes me drawn to secret relationships because I fear that my mother won't approve the people I date. Or I fear that maybe it's not worth it.
Are you going to post a synastry video for this? I have this aspect with a former lover who is a scorpio venus guy so I am also interested. Thank you for your astrology videos. I really like them and I follow you on facebook too.
Hello, I also have moon in aquarius 12th house square venus in taurus although in the 2nd house. I resonate with your way of dealing with it ! Being alone (all one) is as necessary for me as oxygen is. To the point that if I'm not aware, I'm ostracizing myself. On another note I am sensual and pleasure of the senses is my luxury.
I'm aquarius rising and i relate to the part of needing my alone time Because to much socializing drain me soooo much !
I don't have venus square moon tho. But i have mars and saturn square my moon 🥲
My father has this aspect and he has always been unaccessible. Unfortunately I repeated similar relationships with men, falling for unaccessible men cause my daddy has never been there. His moon in piscis had me tricked that he was a good father for a long time.
I only realized with 40 after a horrible rs with a psychopath that my dad has never been the man that he appeared- piscis moon, he never spent time with me nor nurtured me- venus sag. He always said he loved me while leaving the house - sag venus superficial parenting. Yet my dad is popular and everyone loves him - sag venus, but not enough good dad for me. He always preferred to be with other people. I loved him due to his piscis moon -sensitivity, that was a promise that never came into fruition. He has a lot of love for other people and the Universe- piscis moon and for small kids- sag moon. I became uninteresting to him as long as I was not little and cute.
13:44 The cat asking politely for cuddling XD
I have this aspect along with moon square Jupiter, mercury and opposition mars!! I found out recently I have a mutable grand cross.. honestly don't know where to begin when my natal chart is full of squares and oppositions...
Thank you, Jewel. I'm having this in my Solar Return and this served. Thanks from Argentina
I have this square. This is a great video, on point. THX
shit.... just read my whole life. brb gonna go cry now.
Thank you so much for your videos Jewel!!
12:11!! little friend didn't want to stop being fussed
Husband and I both have this aspect. We have been married 21 years. lol Though no relationship is perfect, I would venture to say we both have been largely satisfied. This video is interesting, but I wish it was less fixed and offered more possible interpretations other than people with this placement come from unhealthy, unsatisfied mothers (absolutely not true) and thus are never satisfied nor are their partners; not very encouraging, and certainly does not apply to me at all.
I agree even though I'm currently single at the moment and don't mind. I have a wonderful relationship with my mother. My Venus is in Sagittarius and moon in Pisces both of them being mutable and also having the same ruling planet (Jupiter) traditionally and Neptune ruling Pisces which I personally thinks makes this Square (in any other Square between those two signs or mutables in general) easier to deal with or solve especially compared to fixed signs (no hate).
@@laundrewashington3734 Agreed. I have venus in virgo square moon in gemini and both are mutable and ruled by mercury so I feel like it's easier to overcome the difficulties presented.
@@quixotica726 I have the same exact combination venus in virgo, moon in gemini and i feel the same.
This is very true for me, my ♎️ moon is square my ♊️ Venus. I often feel dissatisfied & I have a strained relationship with my mom 😭. She did not provide the nurturing love & encouragement that I needed. Nothing was ever good enough for her & she went through a lot with my father, raising us as a single mom in a new country at 25. I try to be understanding & work towards healing my resentment ❤️🩹
Can you please 🙏🏽 do a video specifically on Pluto semi sextile Venus & Venus square Saturn in the natal chart. I cannot find info anywhere on these placements ❤️
I have the Saturn/Moon/Venus conjunction in the 11th in Aquarius. Venus is the ruler of my chart. This seems to fit me pretty well. Thank you for this insight.
Can you please do a video on natal moon square mars . It's one that's calling to me strongly
My boyfriend has this. He's always second guessing himself, and had a horrible childhood with a very abusive mother(physically and verbally). She still tries to manipulate him even as an adult. I think part of him being with me is how much older I am than him as well.
Brooke Benton whats his sun sign?
Is it good or bad, to have this aspect✔❗
Was listening for a friend, but I have the opposition, and it is more accurate for me, personally....but then the moon in my chart(in Scorpio) is also conjunct Neptune..
Looking at all of my hard aspects today. This along with another moon square to chiron and mars square neptune and opposite jupiter. It's depressing to say the least. I understand now why being single is just so much easier for me than a relationship. It's painful but there are just too many pitfalls of all of these aspects for me to even feel it's worth it. I understand intellectually that self love is the answer to all of it and I try so hard to love myself but there's still something missing and not knowing what that is is the worst.
I have the same hard aspects as you. I don't struggle with them as much anymore, so I just wanted to give you some hope. I made some mistakes and learned some hard lessons. What ultimately helped me was learning to completely love and accept myself. You can't ask someone to love you, if you don't love you. Insecurity destroys relationships. Be kind to yourself. The more critical you are of yourself, the more critical you'll be with others.
I also used mindfulness, wrote out positive affirmations and goals for myself every day. I looked up CBT techniques and used those too.
I have been married for over 10 years now. We have ups and downs like any relationship. But we're faithful to each other, and love each other so much. Infatuation is fleeting. Lasting love isn't just a sensation. It feels less exciting sometimes, but is worth so much more. Put the work in and in the end deep love, trust and enduring attraction develops.
Why does the universe curse us with this aspect??? 😒😭😰💔 it’s sad that my only “real” relationship was back in 2008-2009 and again for 3 months in 2013, been single since then, dated here and there, but nothing every came serious of them, well at least I have my 2 boys and don’t have worry about rushing before my clock runs out on my eggs lol 😂 love your videos.
+Marisa Bond You are lucky not to have to wash some dudes skidmarked underwear. 2 boys are enough to take care of!
You hurt others too. Just try work on things appreciate things etc
thank you for the video Jewel!
This is so accurate
My mom died when I was 3 & 1/2 and Dad remarried when I was 5. Neither my Dad nor my stepmom were what I consider very nurturing. I’m trying to understand how this aspect fits for me - and I have Moon Square Venus at 0%
Strange I was just researching this aspect then I saw this video.
How about moon trine venus?
No nurturing love from mother, since childhood. Toxic environment in home due to lack of mother's love.
Jewel, you did it again
Wow the hairs on my arms are standing up, I have moon in ♎ 8th house square Venus in ♋ 5th house
Whoa, I don’t have this aspect - I have moon square mars with a bunch of planets in the 4H - but it resonated with me. Venus/Uranus conjunct makes me restless, even afraid to make a commitment for fear I’ll have to ‘deal’ with people’s ‘stuff’ and I don’t want to. I’ve dealt with stuff and I’m done dealing with stuff. Also, moon in libra gives rose colored glasses.
What I’ve learned is to allow the glasses to come off, and see the person for who they are. Also, I like a relationship, but I also need a certain amount of freedom to expand.
I wonder if the moon square mars plus Venus conj Uranus gives this.
Would you mind doing a moon square mars video please ?
I love sweets too much.
What about the synastry version
I have this and I also have my Juno and Sagittarius and I also have my Mars Venus so only Capricorn survived this. I’m on my way out of my next situation.
Oh boy....
My sons father has this along with mars square neptune, moon square pluto, venus opposite pluto . 3 years of pure hell but I did love him so much.. Now I understand why he is the way he is.
I have this aspect, my moon is in Scorpio and my venus in Leo however I am not a hoe lol
I can not make my relationships last and until a few months ago I did not know why. Lately I do not want anyone close to me, I'm afraid to leave someone in my life again because I really do not know how to determinate if someone is "good" or "bad", all the people I loved were horrible to me and I - unconsciously - liked them bc of that. I'll do my best not to fall into these toxic relationships again. I have accepted that I am going to die young and alone, it seems to me a good thing to believe.
Olivia McDonie you just need to learn to be discriminate more. I have this aspect too and I’ve been in toxic relationships and stayed longer than I should because I desperately wanted to be loved and craved their affection. You need to learn to love yourself. Give the love and affection to yourself. I’m still working on it. Start looking for those red flags and figure out what do you want. You may have to learn through your mistakes to figure out what you really want in a partnership
How would you describe a Moon in Scorpio squaring with Venus in Aquarius... its so confusing and it makes sense WHY Ive been single for 10 years xD, trying to find a best friend in a lover, but also keep that chase going.
My boyfriend has these exact same placements... Moon in scorpio squared with venus in Aquarius. We have had so many problems in love, a lot to do with his cheating... Can you explain this experience, or your experience of what love is like for you
Same here, although it doesnt show up as a square in my natal chart. I have this strong urge to bond and be free. Have a lot of space but also have none? Im rather an evolved Moon in Scorpio so I dont get into relationships when I know I am capable of cheating and now I would definiately not do it but Im still scared and Its hard to find one person to match my relationship needs. I really tend to be happy alone, Just that I feel Id have to have 2 different people for dating and marrying if you know what I mean. Or dating and sleeping with
Iliana Miranda how would you find out? Also what’s his Sun sign?
Moon in Sagittarius square Venus Virgo at 0.01'.... lol I'm going to be single forever.
The guy i was talking to had your exact placements.. He was just so indecisive lol lol im tired of yall foreal
Venus 9th house Pisces, moon sag 6th house, cancer ascendant. Yea basically everything you’ve explained is something I’ve felt or been through so far
Great interpretation, thank you! Besides, my Venus is retrograde.... ☹
rough!!!! lol
My moon and mars are in leo squaring my Venus and Mercury in Scorpio
Funny. I like the idea of a boyfriend, but I don’t know if I’d want to put up with one irl.
Jealous of how much your cat loves you
Her cat loves me more!
I have moon conjunct Jupiter (Scorpio) squaring my Venus (Leo). I have had issues with self esteem and wanting to shine but then having to build my confidence up. I think moon conjunct Jupiter adds more optimism for my relationships. Maybe I overindulge into my relationships?
I have the opposition at a 9 degree orb so it's pretty wide, and yet I saw myself in this. I told my last fiance before we broke up "you satisfy my body and soul, but not my mind". I want somebody who satisfies all three.. tall order isn't it?? :/ (and btw, kitty is absolutely adorable! 😍)
I date men with this placement and I have venus square mars. Now I know why
Why?
Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Helpful. Thank you thank you.
Very interesting. My boyfriend of almost 2 years has this aspect (Moon also conjunct Saturn) and I found that he was very quick to commit fully and prove his loyalty to me almost instantly. He's always saying that relationships have good and bad moments but that we love each other at the end of the day. He's a Taurus with Venus in the 8th house. Perhaps this is why?
+thebluesheep2 I have a video on moon conjunct Saturn. That modifies the interpretation. Moon/Saturn people crave commitment. Outer planet aspects to personal planets can often have a greater effect than inner planets to inner planets.
Truth In Aspect Astrology/ Jewel Hi Jewel, are you also going to upload a synastry video for this aspect?
I have libra moon opposite saturn in aries as well as Capricorn venus square moon. I did the exact same thing as your bf. Basically decided I was gonna marry my boyfriend a few months into our relationship. There definitely was a part of me in the beginning that thought that being with him would solve a bunch of my personal issues and really tried to push him away because I didn't feel I was good enough for him, but those feelings have almost completely dissipated since then. I identify with this video, but it definitely seems secondary to saturn-moon issues.
Moon conjunct Saturn makes us look HARD at our internal selves so we know how to control it.
@@JewelMayberry And what if Venus is conjunct Saturn (both opposite Moon)?
I have this position in my transit 😢
Great video, thanks. In your 30's? I wish!, Im in my early 50's and its been a...struggle bordering on nightmare! Natal Venus square Pluto, Mars and Uranus add to the mix.
And the person with this aspect craves for perfection in their partners, but are way far of being perfect themselves. They get attached to that piece of wonder they find interesting in someone, and then try to build a whole interaction through this, so when they realize the context doesn't fit their expectations- and it never will - they jump into another relationship and so on and so forth...
That was so good❤
Thank you so much! Its really helpfull for me ♡
I was always insecure about myself
I don’t have this in my natal chart however I do have this in my Navamsa D9 chart and I have never related to an aspect so much. In every single relationship I have been in this has been me...constantly dissatisfied and it’s now at 30 I am realizing I am the problem. It’s so hard working through this aspect. I have broken many hearts in hopes of finding “the one” that i’m now realizing doesn’t exactly exist. Your videos have changed my life in so many ways thank you for being an amazing astrologer and my personal psychologist 😂 I have also had my birth chart read by you! love you jewel 💎 ♥️
What website did you use for your D9
type astro seek navamsa d9 chart in google and it will pop up. ☺️
My venus in libra square moon in capicorn.
How is it for you?
The romantic red flag aspect.
Don't say that :( I have this aspect. It's a tough cookie but I have two best friends whom I blended well with... They meet my needs... They understand me at emotional level... And then my partner who meets my Venus.... I am not sure how it would be like to get everything from one person... But it does not make me a cheater... Communication and compassion is everything with this aspect...my partner is a good man.. We don't always understand each other... But he does treat me with respect...like any other relationship... The key really is to pay attention to your feelings and keep some standards.. And stick to them... It really is possible to be happy...but just not in conventional sense.. you know what ..that's okay...
I have this aspect and I have never cheated on anyone. And I have been married to a good man for 7 years
This is it!!!
Moon in pisces square venus And I got 5 planets in libra in the 10th house And jupiter in the 12th. Moon is also in house of pisces since i have sag ascendant. Will all my libra energy that has positive apsects to jupiter etc override this?
I have the trine between Moon-Ven. My current has the Moon/Venus square. And i always thought that this manifested as the inability to accept intimacy.
I see that he on one hand craves intimacy. But is extremely uncomfortable with it on the other. And this back/forth confuses me🤷🏿♂️
He has Moon in Aqua and Ven in Sco