Agree. Much more normal than the awful sister stories we hear. I'd do anything to help and protect my sister. I know there are terrible siblings out there. My brother is one of them. He treated mum and nan so badly. He put his hands on mum. He has always hated me. Or at least acts like it.
Yes they do that now and it is annoying... I guess it help having a longer video.... 1+ hour was already too long so I speed it up and did some fast-forward because of the blabbering...
Go to the bank with the Estate Lawyer, put a freeze on all transactions of the account. Get a new account and transfer all funds to the new account. Inheritance is NOT touchable by spouses. It is protected by law even if you're married.
I think it is touchable if you're stupid and put it in a joint bank account, though? At least this is in accordance to what I just found out on a whole bunch of law firms websites in both Canada and the United States.
@@kalinaphillips9779 It said that they were paid back. This is an interesting discussion, because it’s different from country to country. But in these cases of fraud it’s often difficult to get the money back no matter where you lives. The fact that the husband had access to the bankbook (imo an old concept) or the bank information makes it much harder. The person in charge of the accounts and bank information is responsible to keep it safe. Not even my husband has any access to my bank accounts or is able to use it . I could provide my PIN to my bankcard, but that’s easy changed in my internet bank. I never got to understand the joint account thing either, but I guess if one spouse is a housewife/husband, and doesn’t have their own income, it might be something. In my country I don’t think it exists at all with joint accounts. If it does, you can’t just take out without the other person. It’s very strictly connected only to one person and the CPR, or social security number in US. The only joint accounts in my country is deposit accounts. If you rent an apartment or a house, you make a joint account with the owner, or landlord. This account is not accessible without both parties permission. These joint accounts are only a security for the landlord, as, if you don’t pay rent, they can demand it paid from the deposit account. Or if you have ruined something in the apartment/house you have to replace, but not before you move out. Normally you get the full amount back from the deposit account, as long as you clean everything thoroughly. At least I always have gotten it all back.
At the first sign of the book gone missing, she should have gone to the bank immediately. And him asking about her signature should have been suspicious enough to figure he was up to something.
@@susanhansen1290 And illegal in whatever country you live. But. IMO if a bank takes just a signature as good enough to take out a lot of money, they should upgrade their security. Most banks today need at least a personal password and a code. Story is interesting anyway. The husband could have access to his wife’s bank information. I would never give that to anyone.
If it were me, I would have suspected him immediately and demand to know what he did with it. If he would keep putting me off, I would tell him he could talk to the police if he doesn't answer my questions!
If she put it into a joint account, it now becomes marital property. In the real world or the text world, he would have just as much right to the account as she does. That being said, did she really think he wasn't going to lay a finger on money that he had access to?
I bet the arranged marriage was for the money all along. While her parents wanted her to be cared for and looked after, thus trusting these people they knew. His family was just seeing dollar signs from the beginning.
I kind of blame OP on this. Her husband committed so many untrustworthy actions BEFORE this yet she didn’t divorce him or put safeguards in place to prevent THIS from happening.
I agree that some of this on OP. I’m starting to see this in a lot of the Apple stories too is that OP is putting up with their spouse’s crap long before the actual problem that ends their relationship occurs. I feel like a lot of them don’t want to feel like they wasted their time and want to make sure that their relationship actually turns out well. I want the writers though to create an OP that is also not always naive because a lot of their naivety along with their insecurities seems to be the root of them staying in these bad relationships
55:43 "What you did was robbery." That's not true. Robbery involves stealing something using threats or force. Since there was no force or threats used, what he did was theft.
why isn't he in jail? a sum large enough to buy a house is surely enough to be a felony...don't try to be inspector gadget, call the popo and use the fast track.
Good story but…… some of this sounded like the person who wrote it was trying out their creative writing. People don’t talk like this in conversation and it made it longer than necessary.
The bank wouldn’t have ever given the money to her spouse! Was she stupid enough to put the money in a joint account with her husband? There’s no way she would have done that!! He would have needed her presence to take anything out of the account. These stories are so unrealistic! Her husband is a pos! Sue the hell out of him after his prison sentence for stealing money that had nothing to do with him! Unbelievable 🙄
Btw.....put the important land and bank books in a Safety Deposit Box in a bank. A person must have signature and ID with the key to access the box at the bank.
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She could have put it in an account with her and her sister as a joint account where any money taken out must be signed by both people on the account in front of a teller or bank official.
If she didn't know you took it, you didn't ask her for permission... it's called STEALING sir... otherwise why would you need to sneak around to do it?
I would have responded to the husband asking about the signature thing (two different signatures, really!?!?! Is that a normal thing?) with the whole 'Sorry, I don't know where you got those signatures from but they don't even look like mine'. You bet that I'd be demanding to know why he wants to know which signature of mine I use. The main character is so dumb. Also... Misunderstandings and unfair treatment? What misunderstandings are there when you check your account and find out that somebody has been dipping into your funds without your knowledge or consent? I'd be fuming angry!
Uhh I don't think that there is even one state that says inheritance by either party is the property of both. Inheritance is never considered in a Divorce.
So what happened after?? Did he go to jail for premeditated Inheritance theft? Did he have to sell the new house that was paid for with stolen money? Did his mother get charged with complicity to Grand Theft? Com'on inquiring minds NEED to know.
Story is ridiculous.... he stole money.... bought a house... sell the stupid house and recoup the money!!!! Why you holding a conversation with this idiotic husband
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36:34 Also, if your name isn’t on the bank account (ie the moms) doesn’t that mean only the mother and authorized party (ie daughters) are the only ones that can access it? And you’d have to have photo id. So how did he get the money? Or is that only a US thing? 37:49 “he lives in this out together with me”. 🤨
So many red flags and stop signs here. Nobody, I mean nobody's that stupid! The squeaky voice sister has all the sense in this one. Call the law and press charges. Get an attorney! This story is way too long!
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Matthew dude you STOLE your wife's inheritance to buy YOUR mommy a house when that money didn't belong to you. NEVER EVER have a joint account and NEVER EVER let anybody have your account information, not even family. I would have pressed charges on this dirt bag for theft. It sound's like Matthew's mom had this in mind for a long time, she wanted that money.
I love these stories, but I tend to skip when you repeat the plot at the end. I see it unnecessary filler, we literally just listened to the plot, to repeating it more condensed at the end seems kinda time wastey.
What the h*** did I just listen to? Thank goodness I was gardening and too busy to change the channel. A load of tosh and rubbish. Waaaay too wordy. So, he stole, STOLE ALL her inheritence, and there's NO police involvement? No legal repercussions like jail time for theft and fraud? How did he legally obtain ANY access to HER mother's bank account? Is this part of the 'cultural' aspect of the story? Like the arranged marriage? And he bought HIS mother a house? Where in the world is this possible???? Apple text really reached for it today and failed, FAILED, miserably. As for the recap.....
Why is she telling him her family business and doesn't realize he must've stolen the book why didn't she put the nank on a safe place stupid I can't stand when they call the idiot honey after shouting at her plus lnowing the inheritance was for her sister and herself these stories are always the woman paying for the man and his family
Inheritance is not community property he could not remove the money from your mother's account without producing identification that showed him as a cosigner on the account The entire storyline is stupid it doesn't work
This story doesn't have a conclusion. It is too long (1 hour), then recap everything again. It became very boring. As one commentator said someone needed to fill the word count in the essay. SHAME.
The bank book does you absolutely know I good unless you can produce ID that matches the bank book no bank is going to hand over money just because somebody hands them a book All that book does is record how much money's in the bank in the United States we can't even deposit money into our own account without producing ID
Finally, sisters who get along and support each other
Agree. Much more normal than the awful sister stories we hear. I'd do anything to help and protect my sister.
I know there are terrible siblings out there. My brother is one of them. He treated mum and nan so badly. He put his hands on mum. He has always hated me. Or at least acts like it.
The 'After That' portion doesn't need to recap the story we just heard. Just tell us what happened afterward.
Yes they do that now and it is annoying... I guess it help having a longer video.... 1+ hour was already too long so I speed it up and did some fast-forward because of the blabbering...
Go to the bank with the Estate Lawyer, put a freeze on all transactions of the account.
Get a new account and transfer all funds to the new account.
Inheritance is NOT touchable by spouses. It is protected by law even if you're married.
I think it is touchable if you're stupid and put it in a joint bank account, though? At least this is in accordance to what I just found out on a whole bunch of law firms websites in both Canada and the United States.
this atory has 2 stupid women instead of just 1
Why wasn't husband and MIL thrown in jail? Would have made the divorce quicker as well.
I said this story doesn't have a conclusion. There is no mention how they retrieve the money or what consequences husband and MIL had.
@@kalinaphillips9779 At the end they the money was returned but since the husband was begging for reconciliation he was clearly not put in jail.
@@kalinaphillips9779 It said that they were paid back. This is an interesting discussion, because it’s different from country to country. But in these cases of fraud it’s often difficult to get the money back no matter where you lives. The fact that the husband had access to the bankbook (imo an old concept) or the bank information makes it much harder. The person in charge of the accounts and bank information is responsible to keep it safe. Not even my husband has any access to my bank accounts or is able to use it . I could provide my PIN to my bankcard, but that’s easy changed in my internet bank. I never got to understand the joint account thing either, but I guess if one spouse is a housewife/husband, and doesn’t have their own income, it might be something. In my country I don’t think it exists at all with joint accounts. If it does, you can’t just take out without the other person. It’s very strictly connected only to one person and the CPR, or social security number in US.
The only joint accounts in my country is deposit accounts. If you rent an apartment or a house, you make a joint account with the owner, or landlord. This account is not accessible without both parties permission. These joint accounts are only a security for the landlord, as, if you don’t pay rent, they can demand it paid from the deposit account. Or if you have ruined something in the apartment/house you have to replace, but not before you move out. Normally you get the full amount back from the deposit account, as long as you clean everything thoroughly. At least I always have gotten it all back.
@@kalinaphillips9779 Yeah, VERY disappointing end
Matthew is lucky he’s not in jail over what he did and only has to pay back what he stole. At least he can still keep his job.
I can’t believe you’d let him have access to YOUR INHERITANCE FFS
At the first sign of the book gone missing, she should have gone to the bank immediately. And him asking about her signature should have been suspicious enough to figure he was up to something.
I heritance isnt spousal property. And half of it was her sisters.
Matthew was throwing red flags like crazy
When you married me you should have expected this??
A shameless thief
Never put an inheritance in a joint account.
It wasn’t a joint account. He faked her signature.
@@akehapkap6143 that's forged....
@@susanhansen1290 And illegal in whatever country you live. But. IMO if a bank takes just a signature as good enough to take out a lot of money, they should upgrade their security. Most banks today need at least a personal password and a code. Story is interesting anyway. The husband could have access to his wife’s bank information. I would never give that to anyone.
Yes, it's not spousal community property otherwise
It wasn’t put in a joint account
“You should be proud of me!” Is he really that delusional? 😂
If it were me, I would have suspected him immediately and demand to know what he did with it. If he would keep putting me off, I would tell him he could talk to the police if he doesn't answer my questions!
You knew he was a gambler, she have stored it all in a safety deposit box in the bank.
How could he do anything to his moth-in-law's account? Even if he has the bank book, the bank won't just give him access to it.
In the real world, he wouldn't be able to access her account unless he is an enduring power of attorney.
Because it's text world
If she put it into a joint account, it now becomes marital property. In the real world or the text world, he would have just as much right to the account as she does. That being said, did she really think he wasn't going to lay a finger on money that he had access to?
There is a lot lines that is repeated. It was like writing an last minute essay to fill the word count 😂
Also the after that portion recaps everything the story just said 😂😂
I bet the arranged marriage was for the money all along. While her parents wanted her to be cared for and looked after, thus trusting these people they knew. His family was just seeing dollar signs from the beginning.
The oblivious nature of the wife is disturbing.
I kind of blame OP on this. Her husband committed so many untrustworthy actions BEFORE this yet she didn’t divorce him or put safeguards in place to prevent THIS from happening.
I agree that some of this on OP. I’m starting to see this in a lot of the Apple stories too is that OP is putting up with their spouse’s crap long before the actual problem that ends their relationship occurs. I feel like a lot of them don’t want to feel like they wasted their time and want to make sure that their relationship actually turns out well. I want the writers though to create an OP that is also not always naive because a lot of their naivety along with their insecurities seems to be the root of them staying in these bad relationships
It seems the OPs in these stories are desperate to stay married and so they overlook the crap their spouse and/or MIL does.
55:43 "What you did was robbery." That's not true. Robbery involves stealing something using threats or force. Since there was no force or threats used, what he did was theft.
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Asking for what is your signature when a bankbook is missing. Call the police.
Matthew, borrowing means asking for something and giving it back to the person later. What you and your mom did was and is stealing, plain and simple.
Being a paralegal, this one was hilarious! How many ways can you be stupid? THANK YOU! It was fun!
why isn't he in jail? a sum large enough to buy a house is surely enough to be a felony...don't try to be inspector gadget, call the popo and use the fast track.
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Good story but…… some of this sounded like the person who wrote it was trying out their creative writing. People don’t talk like this in conversation and it made it longer than necessary.
That's basically this channel in a nutshell, I've heard properly used more in a single video on this channel than I have in literal years for one 😅
It's AI written
@@TheShadesofValkyrie 99% of them are 100% I think like 1 out of every 30 or so has at least some human interaction with it's creation
The bank wouldn’t have ever given the money to her spouse! Was she stupid enough to put the money in a joint account with her husband? There’s no way she would have done that!! He would have needed her presence to take anything out of the account. These stories are so unrealistic! Her husband is a pos! Sue the hell out of him after his prison sentence for stealing money that had nothing to do with him! Unbelievable 🙄
Btw.....put the important land and bank books in a Safety Deposit Box in a bank. A person must have signature and ID with the key to access the box at the bank.
If you feel the story is taking too long just jump to the end. It annoyingly recaps the entire story
Yep last 10 minutes and you understand everything. Plus they claim these are "real" stories too
What a jerk he is insulting a judicial assistant. Attorneys are extremely intelligent and have do a lot of reading and studying just to prepare for a case. My cousin graduated from Duke University with her JD, she practiced law for many years prior to becoming an elected judge. We live in different parts of the country but she has a reputation as being an outstanding Judge 👩🏽⚖️💋
She could have put it in an account with her and her sister as a joint account where any money taken out must be signed by both people on the account in front of a teller or bank official.
Scooby and Scrappy Doo could have figured this out sooner.
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Why can't people just keep these things safely...
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If she didn't know you took it, you didn't ask her for permission... it's called STEALING sir... otherwise why would you need to sneak around to do it?
I would have responded to the husband asking about the signature thing (two different signatures, really!?!?! Is that a normal thing?) with the whole 'Sorry, I don't know where you got those signatures from but they don't even look like mine'. You bet that I'd be demanding to know why he wants to know which signature of mine I use. The main character is so dumb.
Also... Misunderstandings and unfair treatment? What misunderstandings are there when you check your account and find out that somebody has been dipping into your funds without your knowledge or consent? I'd be fuming angry!
0:54 “try looking for it harder”…who wrote this?! 😅 how does one look “harder”?
By looking for a longer period and in more places. My dad used to say this to me all the time when I was a kid.
Why didn't she just go to the bank instead of searching for the bank book for days and days????
Uhh I don't think that there is even one state that says inheritance by either party is the property of both. Inheritance is never considered in a Divorce.
So she knew he gambled his moms money away, and yet she still trusted him. She is an idiot!
This woman is so dense
A arranged marriage, did not work well eh.
So what happened after?? Did he go to jail for premeditated Inheritance theft? Did he have to sell the new house that was paid for with stolen money? Did his mother get charged with complicity to Grand Theft? Com'on inquiring minds NEED to know.
Story is ridiculous.... he stole money.... bought a house... sell the stupid house and recoup the money!!!! Why you holding a conversation with this idiotic husband
Express with your own money. Take him to court
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Why didn’t he go to mail?
The money was in its own account
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Sounds like the younger sister should have been in charge of the bank book. What a ding bat the older sister is!
This story is going on way to long.. it's making my head hurt.
Suspicions raised when hubby keeps delaying looking for documents he had no right to. Cover up much?
36:34 Also, if your name isn’t on the bank account (ie the moms) doesn’t that mean only the mother and authorized party (ie daughters) are the only ones that can access it? And you’d have to have photo id. So how did he get the money? Or is that only a US thing?
37:49 “he lives in this out together with me”. 🤨
So many red flags and stop signs here. Nobody, I mean nobody's that stupid! The squeaky voice sister has all the sense in this one. Call the law and press charges. Get an attorney! This story is way too long!
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Look for it now don't listen to him
so.... He's been angry and a jerk but she still wants to have a kid with him?? Gross
Then you called the bank and report it stolen You don't spend 6 months looking for it
I'm not at the end of this yet but hopefully they make his mom sell the house and give the money back
No conclusion?? COME ON!!!
There was no catharsis in this story
Matthew dude you STOLE your wife's inheritance to buy YOUR mommy a house when that money didn't belong to you. NEVER EVER have a joint account and NEVER EVER let anybody have your account information, not even family. I would have pressed charges on this dirt bag for theft. It sound's like Matthew's mom had this in mind for a long time, she wanted that money.
I love these stories, but I tend to skip when you repeat the plot at the end. I see it unnecessary filler, we literally just listened to the plot, to repeating it more condensed at the end seems kinda time wastey.
One major reason to have a pre nup! If for no reason other to create legal borders. 😊
U made us listen to all this crap to not find out what happened to him or the mother . What a waste !
Sell the house
To long and useless
Background should be covered at the beginning of the video and don't summarize the story at the end
So why didn’t you report him to the cops for theft & forgery??? This story left out the most base premise when something like this happens…🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
What the h*** did I just listen to? Thank goodness I was gardening and too busy to change the channel.
A load of tosh and rubbish. Waaaay too wordy. So, he stole, STOLE ALL her inheritence, and there's NO police involvement? No legal repercussions like jail time for theft and fraud? How did he legally obtain ANY access to HER mother's bank account? Is this part of the 'cultural' aspect of the story? Like the arranged marriage? And he bought HIS mother a house? Where in the world is this possible???? Apple text really reached for it today and failed, FAILED, miserably. As for the recap.....
This conflict went on way too long I mean way too long. Actions to the storyline are just so unrealistic.
Why is she telling him her family business and doesn't realize he must've stolen the book why didn't she put the nank on a safe place stupid I can't stand when they call the idiot honey after shouting at her plus lnowing the inheritance was for her sister and herself these stories are always the woman paying for the man and his family
OH !! THOSE " TEENY TINY VOICES ARE SOOO
IRRATATING !!!!!!!
Why does this start off with both of them speaking like AI? Way too formal and weird.
VERY disappointing end. Nothing on what happened to MIL and husband legally
1 story over an hour long?
Skipped
Seriously, who writes this?
Inheritance is not community property he could not remove the money from your mother's account without producing identification that showed him as a cosigner on the account The entire storyline is stupid it doesn't work
This story doesn't have a conclusion. It is too long (1 hour), then recap everything again. It became very boring.
As one commentator said someone needed to fill the word count in the essay.
SHAME.
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The bank book does you absolutely know I good unless you can produce ID that matches the bank book no bank is going to hand over money just because somebody hands them a book All that book does is record how much money's in the bank in the United States we can't even deposit money into our own account without producing ID
This content was of so much unnecessary dialog
JEEZ this is long winded and boring.
Yea n then she retells it at the end like we dumb !!
Why do u think we're dumb?? ... u play out the story then u retell it @ the end ... nah !! no use listening to your stories going forward
What bank still uses bank books?
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First never never put your inheritance in any ones account but your own. Divorce this greedy boy and sue him for everything he stole from you