You shouldn't even have to say that! It should just be a universally accepted FACT. Sad though, and very unfortunate you had to say that. Then get 500 likes.
I DO AGREE WITH YOU Y DID WANT A KIND OF SIMALER HOME FOR ELDER IN MY COUNTRY IN THE CARIBEAN BUT THE GOVERNMENT DID NOT GAVE THE PERMISION . SO THE PROJEKT IS UNHOLD .
@@maudridtwillems827 I have learned that money is the root of all evil. If you ask yourself “why don’t we do this here, it’s better and healthier?” it’s because there’s someone that will be losing money if it’s solved or their quality of life is greatly improved.
My mom has suffered from dementia for the past 12 years. She cannot remember what she ate 5 minutes ago, but her knowledge of languages remains intact. Besides her native Spanish, she can still maintain full conversations and read in French, English and Italian.
yes, she doesn't get to pick or choose what part of her recollection gets affected. I remember where dutch volunteers go work in Australia in elderly homes because some of the expats living there are forgetting english and revert back to dutch which causes a languagebarrier there that upsets them.
@@just1it1moko Omg I forgot I even made this comment! I was talking to our administrator the other day though (still at the same hospital, 18 years now), and brought up this documentary. There's so many amazing ideas, and I wish America would fund shit like this instead of the garbage they do. I'll take all that political campaigning cash right now and open like 10 of these. Its insane what we waste money on in this country 😭 You literally have to give up all your assets just to be taken care of in the most basic way, after working for them your whole life. Sell your house, and you can only have X amount of money in your bank at any given time. And that's after you lose your functions, or your MIND. It's awful.
@@Wouldyoujust_ i really hope it gets better over in America. It's easy to make fun of American health care and funding, and act like we over here in Europe are better, but were privileged over here. It takes effort to care but it's better than not. I really hope someday america truly grows to be a free country, and not parade as one. I wish you the best ❤
The “where are my parents” question made tears fall down my eyes. Shows that No matter how old you are, you need/want/miss them dearly. Loved this so much 💔💗
Natheniel Becken Excellent Video clip! Apologies for butting in, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you thought about - Sayerdsan Suprising Memory Secret (search on google)? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my buddy finally said good bye to the Alzheimer's issue with it.
you should be proud!!! most countries in Europe think outside of the box and make things alot easier for so many people. Unfortunately, in the states no one would do such a caring thing. It's nice to see how some countries like the Netherlands make this possible... that being said I think most countries in Europe are far more understanding and opened to new ideas unlike North America. I have yet to see a country the the US do anything remotely like this. I don't know why, but I have so much respect for the Europeans than I do of the Americans.. they care more, they respect more, more tolerant to new ideas and forward thinking.
This is amazing. It actually got me choked up . I am so happy for them. Here in America we don't appreciate older people and we should. It's not right what we do ..
"We" (our country's "big guys") appreciate nothing but money, manipulation, and control. I thought that was obvious when people were forced to "illegally" mod thier blood insulin pumps in an attempt to not die. How about cancer ally? 80% or more of the people living there WILL die of cancer due to thier toxic enviroment. It's nice to know that I will get punished for actually caring about others here.
I was privileged to be my mother's caregiver the last two years of her life. Dementia Village has to be the most enjoyable way for a person to go on day by day. Mom and I would go out to dinner, get her hair done and visit her sisters, but she was not free to do as she would. I envision the USA having these places instead of the usual Nursing Home. I would definitely donate my time and energy to such a thing.
Ok let's get it done. Start innundating your local legislators. Host seminars where this video is shown and discussed. Man you people caring for parents if we all come together and relentlessly demand something better it can be done. Have to break the nursing home industry that has bribed and kick backed their way into our lives and care only for money. Identify and hold accountable elected and appointed officials getting contributions from those involved in warehousing humans
If you're around someone with dementia long enough to learn the way their brains cannot retain any information, you pretty quickly learn how (and more importantly how NOT) to deal with them. The only reality that matters for them is what they think they know. Some people thought it was cruel to tell my 90 year old grandfather that his parents were on vacation at Niagara Falls, but making him laugh at the ridiculous notion was worth more than arguing with him about the truth. I hope we see more of this notion of helping them enjoy what life remains rather than shuffling those suffering this disease into homes to die. Absolutely wonderful.
I completely agree with you, and I have the experience to back that up, Liz. I have dealt with my mom's dementia for the past 12 years, and I have learned to do those things. They live in a different world with some ties to ours, and the trick is not to make them adjust to our world but, somehow, temporarily live in their world. After all these years, I have come to enjoy those forays into that realm where the past and the present have a completely different meaning. I am absolutely convinced that it is the right thing to do, the one that poses less stress for them.
Bless you. Some people would rather be correct and forceful with cruel reality than to be soothing and supportive and meet people where they are in the present moment
Hi, I've only been working as a dementia carer for five months and am aware of that, but however sometimes I'm not that smooth to always fit into their world. How should I learn about those things?
@@helenprastika8060 oj....you asked HOW to learn such things. My advice would be to observe each client. A lot of people have habits and behaviors that are part of comforting and reassuring themselves. Sort of like self soothing. Everyone has a story. Try to learn about each person or talk to their visitors. Then remind them of their visitors in hard times. Talking to other staff can also help in this area. However the turnover employment rate is pretty high so I would pay attention to the most involved, senior members if they aren't too burnt out.
If I ever win the lottery I will build a city here in San Diego. What a great idea! I've been working with seniors for over 15 years Alzheimer's/Dementia is my specialty I love my seniors!
expenses will eventually catch up without proper funding, its a good idea but again, the amount of care takers out number the patients 2:1 aswell as the constant restock of food, ect to provide for them, such is the truth in our reality.
Stephanie Stephens just make sure that it's available to the poor as well. I used to work as an occupational therapist for six years until I became disabled and abandoned. Now at age 37, and in poverty,, I fear the life in a medicaid nursing home for the poor. I had nightmares for some of the people in my position when I was working.
I thought it was a little wrong when I learned the home my grandmother lived in constructed an elaborate fiction for her; her deceased husband, always at work, her her former caretaker daughter, just down the hall...But honestly the alternate is her resetting mind constantly experiencing the shock of grief and institutionalization, only to forget and ask again in 10 minutes, to go through the shock again. The fantasy was honestly a much better, albeit totally fabricated, narrative for her mental state.
There comes a point in which there is no point in bringing back the grief. I have had to do it many times with my mom. It is particularly difficult when someone close to the person dies. I had to carefully prepare my mom to receive the news of a death, and we did that by putting the deceased person in the hospital (a fabricated hospital) for several months, so she could be given news of the progress and eventually process the fact that the person had indeed died. The alternative would have been to expose my mom to the shock of a very sudden death without the means we have to process such a thing. We do the same thing when someone close to her in the nursing home where she resides passes away.
Being reminded and corrected causes them confusion, anger and a lot of fear. I learned that with my mom. Her brain rewired memories; taking fragments of old memories and creating new ones. The key is acceptance and just agreeing. :)
my grandpa lives with his wife but when I come over and she has errands to run he always sits up and panicks and asks where she is, I used to tell her she went out but then he would ask more about why and when she is coming home, so now I just tell him shes taking a shower, he doesn't question it most of the time so its ok
I've worked with special care residents for four years and this looks like one amazing place for these forgotten elderly. I wish the US had something like this!
Don't be mislead. One of the main austerity points of our current government are the elderly. Most of them, in the government care centres, have to wear diapers and only get a shower once a week. They barely get enough time outside or activities to do. Prisoners have it better than elderly people do. So don't be mislead by this. The grass isn't much greener over here. :( I wish it was though. :)
My father has dementia. I think this is brilliant. My father does not believe anything is wrong with him. Its the disease. From one minute to the next a roller coaster of memory loss and agitation and confusion. He is no longer allowed to drive but doesn't understand why. Cant get to the store on his own or visit anyone. Does not like caregivers in his home. They are strangers that make him feel smothered. He does not want to go to a nursing home or even assisted living because he doesn't feel like anything is wrong with him. This concept is brilliant. Its clear by the responses who has family members with this disease and who doesn't.
Two words: Universal Healthcare. Because some wonderful, friendly, god-faring people cringe and run away in fear with the mention of anything "socialist" or at the word "taxes". As much as they claim to want to help people, their actions towards the rest of us say otherwise.
As a home caregiver and someone who works in the medical field also....when the husband said "they can feel if it's cold or if its warm outside." That hit so hard. It is sadly so true.
As the caregiver of a 90yr old man in the beginning stages of dementia (my grandfather), I wish we had this in my state in the USA. We NEED this. Looking toward the end stages is a very gloomy and depressing future. Having places like this one would be amazing and relieve concerns for loved ones affected by this disease.
This is absolutely wonderful!!!! I have worked in rest homes, agencies, and in the the community. I have also had family members that have suffered from dementia. To me it is THE most heartbreaking thing that can happen to any human being. May God bless this woman and all the employees and volunteers. We need more places like this all over the world.
They're actually building one in BC and should be opened in 2019. Hopefully Ontario will build one soon. calgaryherald.com/news/canada/canadas-first-dementia-village-is-set-to-open-its-doors-in-langley-b-c-next-year/wcm/c71e5990-a961-4ebd-80cd-933de3ec3826
We are indebted to these people for rebuilding the country after the war and make it into one of the most prosperous nations of the world. To dump them in a "normal " home is a true crime
Can you ever imagine a U.S. nursing home with 2 to 1 staffing? This is a beautiful place to go to for those with dementia. Such a common sense solution!
This makes me cry with relief. The thought that there are still people out there who care this much about older people is heartwarming. Yet, I feel sadness for the dementia patients in conventional nursing homes.
My grandpa passed away almost 3 years ago because of dementia. It was so hard working my full time job in a nursing home and then going to his house to help him out after my 12 hour shift was done. It tired me out extremely. A place like this would’ve been great. He was so independent. Not letting him leave his home broke my heart everyday. Round of applause, Netherlands. Round of applause! ♥️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I also work as a healthcare worker and am happy that we only have 8 hour shifts in the Netherlands so that you remain clear. I work at Respectzorg in The Hague and we have care workers (like me) and around us we have many volunteers and activity supervisors, so that people are guided in both care and daily life. Not as nice as the UA-cam video, but many similarities. But in the Netherlands we are lucky that the government reimburses a lot and health insurance.
I have been caring for people with dementia for 24 years and this is like a dream come true. This kind of care facility should be mandatory world wide. The compassion and love for those they care for is almost tangible. Our elderly people are our greatest gift and these people see that, they get it and it warms my heart to see it
I worked in nursing homes for years. This is amazing! This is such a good way for dementia patients to maintain dignity and feel at home. I would love to see this implemented in the United States and elsewhere.
Probably not, that's how they got rich in the first place. As they say in the Netherlands "die gaan over lijken", or "they go over dead bodies" ( they will hurt anyone who get's in the way).
As a social work student, I love how they showed a bit of the social worker's responsibilities. Seeing as though she is probably the only social worker to so many residents, she must have a lot on her plate.
What an amazing story! I hope that it will catch on and happen in other countries. As an Anglican priest, I have taken services and visited people in many nursing homes. These people seem so much happier, so much more alive, than any place I have experienced.
Wish the United States had places like this. I visited so many nursing homes here in the states for my mom that was such a sad environment. Nothing here compares to this.
wow caregivers are 2-1 here they are 1-30 in most cases but i know why we dont do it they wouldnt make money and that is all the big nursing homes are out for is the money got to make a profit
This is wonderful.. My dad is going through mild short term memory loss. I love the grocery store, beauty shop, restaurant, wow, amzing.. They are happy
Imagine having a moment of clarity while Anderson Cooper explains within earshot that you aren't actually shopping, you're in an elaborate rouse designed to make you feel normal.
Yeah, that was bothering me a bit. How did no one react? Or maybe they did. I dunno. Maybe dementia is even worse than I think. That one lady thought she saw her parents yesterday, so maybe they can't even process all this shit. I know I would flip my shit once I realized what was wrong with that supermarket.
I have watched this video couple of times. I love what they are doing! I have been caring for dementia/alz patients for many many yrs. I hate hate hate rest homes, and assisted living facilities, not to mention family care homes. We need more places like this village, we need entire communities and towns.
I actually had the privilige to visit Hogewey myself as a Niagara College student before Covid-19 hit and let me tell you it left quite the impression on me plus everything felt organic and real!
Wonderful story of human love for the vulnerable. Unfortunate that the editors chose to say that the residence could go anywhere "except out into the real world." What is this if not real?
My 84 year old mother has dementia, but she cannot get out of bed, to the bathroom, and back without help to put her into a wheel chair. This would be a wonderful life, IF the U.S. had homes like this for me in the future. It will not be long, and, I am sure that I would not be able to afford this in the U.S. American can only take "good" care of people who have money. It is so sad. This is the difference in a Socialist country and one like ours. And, as long as we have a President, congress, and, Supreme Court as we have, it will stay this way. This was what President Obama and Hillary Clinton who is running for President would do, if Republicans in Congress would allow it.
I'd have a full-time job (36h/week) After work i always went to my parents to help them with householding, shopping, administration etc... The goverment pays me €600,- a month for that, we call it (mantelzorg)...
The Netherlands is not a socialist country, this is paid for by insurance/pensions and taxes and nothing is free. The problem the US has is caused by the idea that cutting costs instead of fixing the root of problems saves money (which it doesn't) Most European countries have profitable care due to them looking at solutions first and money second. Europe probably has less socialism than the US, and by that i mean the US just handing billions of dollars to CEO's and inept people and calling it capitalism. (and then only complain about the tiny amount of welfare/care being spent)
Thanks Kathy. I do not really understand why people do not like Socialist system. We need universal healthcare and places like this. For me, it is government responsibilities to take care of the sickness and the elderly especially Alzheimer elders. We, the people confine government and we, the people need places like this.
@Mark R ... Well said! Government welfare will never solve anything except to line the pockets of greed ... both sides being two wings of the same bird. Looking at solutions that address fixing the root of the problem is a foreign concept in the US. It would be nice if Elon Musk would watch this video...
Here in the Netherlands, you get payed by the goverment (up to €600,- a month) if you help your parents with daily things like (householding, shopping, administration etc)... We call it "mantelzorg" a.k.a. "informal care"
We should trim down on military spending and have the US govt subsidize healthcare, maybe we make these types of villages affordable in the US. Does the military really need 5,000 tanks and bases all over the globe?
This is a wonderful concept! In March 2014, I started a job as an RN at a local nursing home (this was my first) and 8 months later I am ready to quit. It is depressing to see how the residents and staff are treated. It's sad that in the US that the resident to staff (RN, LPN, CENA) ratio is not conducive to the care you know the residents deserve. Here in the US its about profit. The amount of money made vs the least amount of staff used to get the job done. Quantity not Quality! Every staff person in this video seemed happy with their job and enjoyed being there as well as the residents. When you have happy staff you have happy residents. In the video it was said that the ratio for every resident is 2:1 that is great. I fill like all I do at the nursing home I work for is pass medications and paperwork. Very little time to spend with the residents. I will quit my job to take care of my mom no nursing homes for us. I wish there were more communities like this in the world. I would like to visit this community one day. Sorry for the long post just had to voice my opinion.
Yep, rest homes, assisted living places are horrific. The staff is usually back biting, gossipy, cold. The income is way below for what is deserved! The staff is shown little to no respect.
Lailetha Woods I hear you. Hear in Germany (one of the neighboring countries of the Netherlands) it is much like what you experience in the US. Sad is an understatement of what it is.
I so agree with you! As a CNA I have 10 residents on my assignment sometimes 13-14 when we are short. We cannot give the residents what they need. It is heartbreaking!
I think this is a wonderful example of what a country can do when it has the will and commitment to provide decent State services for people. Yes, it's paid for by taxes and national insurance schemes and I imagine some of the residents' pension goes towards it too. People with dementia who are left to cope in the community, without adequate social care, are so vulnerable that they cost more in the long run with frequent hospital admissions. It could be done by any country if they wished.
This is brilliant and can work almost anywhere, if not everywhere in the world. The elderly are largely forgotten and swept under the rug, especially those with memory care issues. It is a disgrace and programs like these enhance quality of life and make everyone feel loved and valued.
It's lovely that a facility like this has been created to help sufferers live a life of some meaning despite being afflicted with Dementia. Kudos to all involved. The statistics however are frightening. Governments around the world need to start addressing this issue and begin taking big steps to either build similiar places like the one seen in this special or work on medical developments to ease the symptoms because no one should have to suffer due to a lack of concern or effort.
Having worked extensively with people who have dementia, this is an absolutely incredible place for a person to live with dignity and less anxiety. Think for a moment how difficult and scared it would be to not understand fully your surroundings or those who you live with. The level of anxiety is very high and anti-anxiety medications are used at a very high rate. This should be the model for all Dementia facilities.
What steps do I need to take to create something similar in my community? I'm sure Occupational Therapists have helped design and are working there too. Length of life is less important for me, than QUALITY of life.
They should be making this all over the world. I think this is a fantastic idea!!! Help the seniors live in a place they can comfortably call home. A new world with new ideas. Let them live with dignity and grace. Beautiful!!!
How can people dislike this, they obviously haven't seen or worked with people who have dementia.. This concept is how we who are working in the industry should all be working towards.
I cannot believe that there is such a place where dementia people can live as they are...All the residents seem calm, happy, and enjoying their remaining life...!
This is a fantastic place to live for people with dementia. I wish you all the best with the work. I would like to come visiting you. Best regards, Bente Olise Hestad, Marte Meo-Therapist, Certified Geriatric Nurse in Norway.
I absolutely love this idea. Our elders deserve to live a normal life. This definitely can help anyone live longer and a happier life. It would be great if this program was implemented in other parts of the world.
The hardest lesson to learn is to treat every single incident, or action, or question, as if it is the "first time". Once you have mastered this, then you, the sane party, will preserve your own sanity rather than to be frustrated and angry all the time at the constant repetition!
I wonder how much it costs to live at a place like that? Must be very expensive with a ratio of 2 staff members for every resident. Overall, amazing way to provide quality of life for those who live with dementia.
I love the idea of allowing people to have dignity in their senior years
Dixie Amerongen many people with dementia are not seniors.
Yes, I do too and right now, the way things are, they don't have anything close to dignity!!
I think it's a good idea
You shouldn't even have to say that! It should just be a universally accepted FACT. Sad though, and very unfortunate you had to say that. Then get 500 likes.
As a PCW who works in a nursing home with a large dementia unit, this type of nursing home would solve 99% of the behaviours and issues we have.
I DO AGREE WITH YOU Y DID WANT A KIND OF SIMALER HOME FOR ELDER IN MY COUNTRY IN THE CARIBEAN BUT THE GOVERNMENT DID NOT GAVE THE PERMISION . SO THE PROJEKT IS UNHOLD .
@@maudridtwillems827 I have learned that money is the root of all evil.
If you ask yourself “why don’t we do this here, it’s better and healthier?” it’s because there’s someone that will be losing money if it’s solved or their quality of life is greatly improved.
The old lady at 17mins may not remember her birthday, her job, or that her parents are dead, but her English is still bloody marvellous.
Language is actually stored in different areas of the brain. That's how people with amnesia can still (usually) talk and name things perfectly.
My mom has suffered from dementia for the past 12 years. She cannot remember what she ate 5 minutes ago, but her knowledge of languages remains intact. Besides her native Spanish, she can still maintain full conversations and read in French, English and Italian.
yes, she doesn't get to pick or choose what part of her recollection gets affected. I remember where dutch volunteers go work in Australia in elderly homes because some of the expats living there are forgetting english and revert back to dutch which causes a languagebarrier there that upsets them.
In Holland children are taught English from grade 1 onward. You will find that most Dutch speak excellent English.
That is true, but not that generation. So it is indeed very special that lady is able to speak English.
I've worked in a nursing home for 11 years.. This. Is. AMAZING!
WouldYouJust _ same here so inspired watching this
I'm Dutch and I've worked in Dutch nursing homes and even to me this is amazing!
@@just1it1moko Omg I forgot I even made this comment! I was talking to our administrator the other day though (still at the same hospital, 18 years now), and brought up this documentary. There's so many amazing ideas, and I wish America would fund shit like this instead of the garbage they do. I'll take all that political campaigning cash right now and open like 10 of these. Its insane what we waste money on in this country 😭 You literally have to give up all your assets just to be taken care of in the most basic way, after working for them your whole life. Sell your house, and you can only have X amount of money in your bank at any given time. And that's after you lose your functions, or your MIND. It's awful.
@@Wouldyoujust_ i really hope it gets better over in America. It's easy to make fun of American health care and funding, and act like we over here in Europe are better, but were privileged over here. It takes effort to care but it's better than not. I really hope someday america truly grows to be a free country, and not parade as one. I wish you the best ❤
Netherlands sets the example of what a first world country should be.
I agree!
Well, except when they parade publicly in black face. Every country has issues.
true, but not about legal drugs.
thanks!
Jae Song legalizing drugs is really smart
The “where are my parents” question made tears fall down my eyes. Shows that No matter how old you are, you need/want/miss them dearly. Loved this so much 💔💗
if anyone thinks this is "creepy" or "wrong" i suggest you go to a conventional nursing home, then tell me what you think.
I'm a social work student and I fucking hate elderly's nursing home. They don't deserve there.
Natheniel Becken
Excellent Video clip! Apologies for butting in, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you thought about - Sayerdsan Suprising Memory Secret (search on google)? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my buddy finally said good bye to the Alzheimer's issue with it.
I think once u think a table is a watermelon it's time to go.
My grandma had Dementia and it's very sad, this is a better way of caring for the elderly.
Corkoth55 if they only knew .
I'm Dutch and it is things like this that make me so proud of my country!!
acrofanatic As you should be!
You are right, on the way how a society deals with the weak, you can recognise the grade of civilisation.
you should be proud!!! most countries in Europe think outside of the box and make things alot easier for so many people. Unfortunately, in the states no one would do such a caring thing. It's nice to see how some countries like the Netherlands make this possible... that being said I think most countries in Europe are far more understanding and opened to new ideas unlike North America. I have yet to see a country the the US do anything remotely like this. I don't know why, but I have so much respect for the Europeans than I do of the Americans.. they care more, they respect more, more tolerant to new ideas and forward thinking.
You are so lucky. As a person from a third world country, I cry because I know we will Never reach here 😥
You should be proud of your country. Other countries should learn from your country. I am proud of your country 👏 ❤
This is amazing. It actually got me choked up . I am so happy for them. Here in America we don't appreciate older people and we should. It's not right what we do ..
Italianita Chick They will age also, and reap what they have sowed. I could never disrespect anyone and especially an elder.
"We" (our country's "big guys") appreciate nothing but money, manipulation, and control.
I thought that was obvious when people were forced to "illegally" mod thier blood insulin pumps in an attempt to not die.
How about cancer ally? 80% or more of the people living there WILL die of cancer due to thier toxic enviroment.
It's nice to know that I will get punished for actually caring about others here.
So true had to move in with daddy to take care of him. I refuse to send him to a nursing home here
Why are you internet people always talking about America? I was raised to love America and I hate all of you for denigrating my country.
Seems like this would be a great idea for all of the empty shopping centers and malls around the U.S.
Yes! it would
That is a wonderful idea
I was thinking the same. yes that would be great..
Nothing in Particular You absolutely should do that.
Great idea, but only the wealthy will be able to afford it.
I was privileged to be my mother's caregiver the last two years of her life. Dementia Village has to be the most enjoyable way for a person to go on day by day. Mom and I would go out to dinner, get her hair done and visit her sisters, but she was not free to do as she would. I envision the USA having these places instead of the usual Nursing Home. I would definitely donate my time and energy to such a thing.
Ok let's get it done. Start innundating your local legislators. Host seminars where this video is shown and discussed. Man you people caring for parents if we all come together and relentlessly demand something better it can be done. Have to break the nursing home industry that has bribed and kick backed their way into our lives and care only for money. Identify and hold accountable elected and appointed officials getting contributions from those involved in warehousing humans
If you're around someone with dementia long enough to learn the way their brains cannot retain any information, you pretty quickly learn how (and more importantly how NOT) to deal with them. The only reality that matters for them is what they think they know. Some people thought it was cruel to tell my 90 year old grandfather that his parents were on vacation at Niagara Falls, but making him laugh at the ridiculous notion was worth more than arguing with him about the truth. I hope we see more of this notion of helping them enjoy what life remains rather than shuffling those suffering this disease into homes to die. Absolutely wonderful.
I completely agree with you, and I have the experience to back that up, Liz. I have dealt with my mom's dementia for the past 12 years, and I have learned to do those things. They live in a different world with some ties to ours, and the trick is not to make them adjust to our world but, somehow, temporarily live in their world. After all these years, I have come to enjoy those forays into that realm where the past and the present have a completely different meaning. I am absolutely convinced that it is the right thing to do, the one that poses less stress for them.
Bless you. Some people would rather be correct and forceful with cruel reality than to be soothing and supportive and meet people where they are in the present moment
Hi, I've only been working as a dementia carer for five months and am aware of that, but however sometimes I'm not that smooth to always fit into their world. How should I learn about those things?
@@helenprastika8060 oj....you asked HOW to learn such things. My advice would be to observe each client. A lot of people have habits and behaviors that are part of comforting and reassuring themselves. Sort of like self soothing. Everyone has a story. Try to learn about each person or talk to their visitors. Then remind them of their visitors in hard times. Talking to other staff can also help in this area. However the turnover employment rate is pretty high so I would pay attention to the most involved, senior members if they aren't too burnt out.
Why is it so shocking to see people helping others in such a huge manner?
If I ever win the lottery I will build a city here in San Diego. What a great idea! I've been working with seniors for over 15 years Alzheimer's/Dementia is my specialty I love my seniors!
I totally support that!
If i win I gotcha
expenses will eventually catch up without proper funding, its a good idea but again, the amount of care takers out number the patients 2:1 aswell as the constant restock of food, ect to provide for them, such is the truth in our reality.
Stephanie Stephens just make sure that it's available to the poor as well. I used to work as an occupational therapist for six years until I became disabled and abandoned. Now at age 37, and in poverty,, I fear the life in a medicaid nursing home for the poor. I had nightmares for some of the people in my position when I was working.
They're making one now!
I thought it was a little wrong when I learned the home my grandmother lived in constructed an elaborate fiction for her; her deceased husband, always at work, her her former caretaker daughter, just down the hall...But honestly the alternate is her resetting mind constantly experiencing the shock of grief and institutionalization, only to forget and ask again in 10 minutes, to go through the shock again. The fantasy was honestly a much better, albeit totally fabricated, narrative for her mental state.
There comes a point in which there is no point in bringing back the grief. I have had to do it many times with my mom. It is particularly difficult when someone close to the person dies. I had to carefully prepare my mom to receive the news of a death, and we did that by putting the deceased person in the hospital (a fabricated hospital) for several months, so she could be given news of the progress and eventually process the fact that the person had indeed died. The alternative would have been to expose my mom to the shock of a very sudden death without the means we have to process such a thing. We do the same thing when someone close to her in the nursing home where she resides passes away.
grubbymanz compassion can be its own truth
Being reminded and corrected causes them confusion, anger and a lot of fear. I learned that with my mom. Her brain rewired memories; taking fragments of old memories and creating new ones. The key is acceptance and just agreeing. :)
@@pragmatic7green profound
my grandpa lives with his wife but when I come over and she has errands to run he always sits up and panicks and asks where she is, I used to tell her she went out but then he would ask more about why and when she is coming home, so now I just tell him shes taking a shower, he doesn't question it most of the time so its ok
I've worked with special care residents for four years and this looks like one amazing place for these forgotten elderly.
I wish the US had something like this!
Fantastic idea, every country should have one.
Every city
I feel so sorry for these old people. I just wish every other country had the same respect for people as the Netherlands.
Don't be mislead. One of the main austerity points of our current government are the elderly. Most of them, in the government care centres, have to wear diapers and only get a shower once a week. They barely get enough time outside or activities to do.
Prisoners have it better than elderly people do. So don't be mislead by this. The grass isn't much greener over here. :( I wish it was though. :)
Yea and you know, a large amount of extra money.
Amen.. I love their idea, its caring to these folks..
@@wesleyg2403 I fully disagree, I don't think that you have been in a Dutch care home for ages.
@@anoancon6345 it is only right to use wealth to care for.those who created a wealthy country
My father has dementia. I think this is brilliant. My father does not believe anything is wrong with him. Its the disease. From one minute to the next a roller coaster of memory loss and agitation and confusion. He is no longer allowed to drive but doesn't understand why. Cant get to the store on his own or visit anyone. Does not like caregivers in his home. They are strangers that make him feel smothered. He does not want to go to a nursing home or even assisted living because he doesn't feel like anything is wrong with him. This concept is brilliant. Its clear by the responses who has family members with this disease and who doesn't.
S. Johnson I understand you. My mother died from Alzheimer's a year and half ago.
Im going through the same thing as you right now...with my father.
Good luck my mother died 3 weex ago after 4 years of Alz.Be brave !!!!!!!@@madelynnazario8361
The comments on this video are ridiculous. Taking care of people with dementia in this way is amazing. The ignorance of some people blows me away.
This system has been replicated in UK at least once and my mother has been a resident for a couple of months. It’s wonderful.
There needs to be a place like this in every Country and State in the world.
Why are we not funding this?
Two words: Universal Healthcare.
Because some wonderful, friendly, god-faring people cringe and run away in fear with the mention of anything "socialist" or at the word "taxes". As much as they claim to want to help people, their actions towards the rest of us say otherwise.
NetBoy2112 thank you, could not have put it better
Duncan Fraser Because it is immoral.
Hay i'm from the UK, healthcare is considered universal but the Dutch are well ahead of us.
THERE IS ALWAYS ROOM FOR IMPROVEMENTS
Love this concept! Who said they don't deserve a normal life? You can see the love there.
As a home caregiver and someone who works in the medical field also....when the husband said "they can feel if it's cold or if its warm outside." That hit so hard. It is sadly so true.
As the caregiver of a 90yr old man in the beginning stages of dementia (my grandfather), I wish we had this in my state in the USA. We NEED this. Looking toward the end stages is a very gloomy and depressing future. Having places like this one would be amazing and relieve concerns for loved ones affected by this disease.
What the mind forgets, the heart remembers.
This is absolutely wonderful!!!! I have worked in rest homes, agencies, and in the the community. I have also had family members that have suffered from dementia. To me it is THE most heartbreaking thing that can happen to any human being. May God bless this woman and all the employees and volunteers. We need more places like this all over the world.
I wish we had this in Ontario..
They're actually building one in BC and should be opened in 2019. Hopefully Ontario will build one soon. calgaryherald.com/news/canada/canadas-first-dementia-village-is-set-to-open-its-doors-in-langley-b-c-next-year/wcm/c71e5990-a961-4ebd-80cd-933de3ec3826
N GP that's a fantastic idea..fingers crossed
Oh me too!
Miranda Baxter i wish we have this in the USA
We are indebted to these people for rebuilding the country after the war and make it into one of the most prosperous nations of the world. To dump them in a "normal " home is a true crime
I absolutely love this concept we need more places like this everywhere
I WANT to pay tax if that funded a house like this
Can you ever imagine a U.S. nursing home with 2 to 1 staffing? This is a beautiful place to go to for those with dementia. Such a common sense solution!
This makes me cry with relief. The thought that there are still people out there who care this much about older people is heartwarming. Yet, I feel sadness for the dementia patients in conventional nursing homes.
My grandpa passed away almost 3 years ago because of dementia. It was so hard working my full time job in a nursing home and then going to his house to help him out after my 12 hour shift was done. It tired me out extremely. A place like this would’ve been great. He was so independent. Not letting him leave his home broke my heart everyday. Round of applause, Netherlands. Round of applause! ♥️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I also work as a healthcare worker and am happy that we only have 8 hour shifts in the Netherlands so that you remain clear.
I work at Respectzorg in The Hague and we have care workers (like me) and around us we have many volunteers and activity supervisors, so that people are guided in both care and daily life. Not as nice as the UA-cam video, but many similarities.
But in the Netherlands we are lucky that the government reimburses a lot and health insurance.
I have been caring for people with dementia for 24 years and this is like a dream come true. This kind of care facility should be mandatory world wide. The compassion and love for those they care for is almost tangible. Our elderly people are our greatest gift and these people see that, they get it and it warms my heart to see it
I worked in nursing homes for years. This is amazing! This is such a good way for dementia patients to maintain dignity and feel at home. I would love to see this implemented in the United States and elsewhere.
I'm 67. If I had dementia, this is the kind of place I would want to be in.
Why don't we have these neighborhoods around the world? Surely someone could start one here in the US, is there a rich hero anywhere?!
Probably not, that's how they got rich in the first place. As they say in the Netherlands "die gaan over lijken", or "they go over dead bodies" ( they will hurt anyone who get's in the way).
@grandmama536 "Elon Musk"
Till this day its still so beautyfull to watch this docu, every nursinghome needs this consept for other illnises too
As a social work student, I love how they showed a bit of the social worker's responsibilities. Seeing as though she is probably the only social worker to so many residents, she must have a lot on her plate.
Goodluck becoming a social worker! :)
Thank you! :)
Luckily she is not the only one.
That is amazing. I have fallen in love with Netherland without actually visiting it just because of this video.
You are always welcome to visit us. 👍
What an amazing story! I hope that it will catch on and happen in other countries. As an Anglican priest, I have taken services and visited people in many nursing homes. These people seem so much happier, so much more alive, than any place I have experienced.
Wish the United States had places like this. I visited so many nursing homes here in the states for my mom that was such a sad environment. Nothing here compares to this.
Amazing!! I hope we do that in every part of the world!
This needs to happen worldwide
wow caregivers are 2-1 here they are 1-30 in most cases but i know why we dont do it they wouldnt make money and that is all the big nursing homes are out for is the money got to make a profit
This is wonderful.. My dad is going through mild short term memory loss. I love the grocery store, beauty shop, restaurant, wow, amzing.. They are happy
Imagine having a moment of clarity while Anderson Cooper explains within earshot that you aren't actually shopping, you're in an elaborate rouse designed to make you feel normal.
I don't think that's Anderson Cooper
Yeah, that was bothering me a bit. How did no one react? Or maybe they did. I dunno. Maybe dementia is even worse than I think. That one lady thought she saw her parents yesterday, so maybe they can't even process all this shit. I know I would flip my shit once I realized what was wrong with that supermarket.
You mean Sanjay Gupta?
The world is an illusion, so it really isn't that much different!
andyj39 thank you, dude who took philosophy 101, for your input
I have watched this video couple of times. I love what they are doing! I have been caring for dementia/alz patients for many many yrs. I hate hate hate rest homes, and assisted living facilities, not to mention family care homes. We need more places like this village, we need entire communities and towns.
I actually had the privilige to visit Hogewey myself as a Niagara College student before Covid-19 hit and let me tell you it left quite the impression on me plus everything felt organic and real!
Wonderful story of human love for the vulnerable. Unfortunate that the editors chose to say that the residence could go anywhere "except out into the real world." What is this if not real?
America need some of these
My 84 year old mother has dementia, but she cannot get out of bed, to the bathroom, and back without help to put her into a wheel chair. This would be a wonderful life, IF the U.S. had homes like this for me in the future. It will not be long, and, I am sure that I would not be able to afford this in the U.S. American can only take "good" care of people who have money. It is so sad. This is the difference in a Socialist country and one like ours. And, as long as we have a President, congress, and, Supreme Court as we have, it will stay this way. This was what President Obama and Hillary Clinton who is running for President would do, if Republicans in Congress would allow it.
I'd have a full-time job (36h/week) After work i always went to my parents to help them with householding, shopping, administration etc... The goverment pays me €600,- a month for that, we call it (mantelzorg)...
The Netherlands is not a socialist country, this is paid for by insurance/pensions and taxes and nothing is free.
The problem the US has is caused by the idea that cutting costs instead of fixing the root of problems saves money (which it doesn't)
Most European countries have profitable care due to them looking at solutions first and money second.
Europe probably has less socialism than the US, and by that i mean the US just handing billions of dollars to CEO's and inept people and calling it capitalism. (and then only complain about the tiny amount of welfare/care being spent)
Thanks Kathy. I do not really understand why people do not like Socialist system. We need universal healthcare and places like this. For me, it is government responsibilities to take care of the sickness and the elderly especially Alzheimer elders. We, the people confine government and we, the people need places like this.
@Mark R ... Well said! Government welfare will never solve anything except to line the pockets of greed ... both sides being two wings of the same bird. Looking at solutions that address fixing the root of the problem is a foreign concept in the US. It would be nice if Elon Musk would watch this video...
Here in the Netherlands, you get payed by the goverment (up to €600,- a month) if you help your parents with daily things like (householding, shopping, administration etc)... We call it "mantelzorg" a.k.a. "informal care"
Kaiserlichehoheit Leo von Preußen not really Europe it's more just the Netherlands
Awesome! Go Netherlands! You're becoming the coolest country ever!
We allready now we are the greatest country in the world and want to stay so. 😁
They've been the coolest country for a very long time.
We should trim down on military spending and have the US govt subsidize healthcare, maybe we make these types of villages affordable in the US. Does the military really need 5,000 tanks and bases all over the globe?
This is a wonderful concept! In March 2014, I started a job as an RN at a local nursing home (this was my first) and 8 months later I am ready to quit. It is depressing to see how the residents and staff are treated. It's sad that in the US that the resident to staff (RN, LPN, CENA) ratio is not conducive to the care you know the residents deserve. Here in the US its about profit. The amount of money made vs the least amount of staff used to get the job done. Quantity not Quality! Every staff person in this video seemed happy with their job and enjoyed being there as well as the residents. When you have happy staff you have happy residents. In the video it was said that the ratio for every resident is 2:1 that is great. I fill like all I do at the nursing home I work for is pass medications and paperwork. Very little time to spend with the residents. I will quit my job to take care of my mom no nursing homes for us. I wish there were more communities like this in the world. I would like to visit this community one day. Sorry for the long post just had to voice my opinion.
Yep, rest homes, assisted living places are horrific. The staff is usually back biting, gossipy, cold. The income is way below for what is deserved! The staff is shown little to no respect.
Lailetha Woods I hear you. Hear in Germany (one of the neighboring countries of the Netherlands) it is much like what you experience in the US. Sad is an understatement of what it is.
Weidenkätzchen I read Being Mortal, everyone could benefit from it! A great.required reading book, 11/12 the grade, unsure age
appropriate
I so agree with you! As a CNA I have 10 residents on my assignment sometimes 13-14 when we are short. We cannot give the residents what they need. It is heartbreaking!
Warehousing the elderly, the sick, is inhumane
That got me when she said she saw her parents “yesterday” 😢
This is wonderful, I wish that we had this in the US, Dementia is so heartbreaking. Wish this was available for my mom♥️
Super Uplifting.
Desmondo i0
I’m reading Dr. Gupta’s book, “Keep Sharp” now and he mentioned this. I didn’t even realize it was him who was in the video! Awesome
I think this is a wonderful example of what a country can do when it has the will and commitment to provide decent State services for people. Yes, it's paid for by taxes and national insurance schemes and I imagine some of the residents' pension goes towards it too. People with dementia who are left to cope in the community, without adequate social care, are so vulnerable that they cost more in the long run with frequent hospital admissions. It could be done by any country if they wished.
If
Couldn’t be done by the US without it costing a billion dollars
Is there a reason this hasn't come to the U.S. yet? This is truly amazing. Someone needs to bring this here.
And people call 'big' government evil, look at this place and tell me that? This place would not exist in the private sector.
***** It's happening in that country and not the US OR UK, kiddo.
This is in a private sector lol
It's not private. It's government funded.
It could happen for the rich in a capitalist country
This is brilliant and can work almost anywhere, if not everywhere in the world. The elderly are largely forgotten and swept under the rug, especially those with memory care issues. It is a disgrace and programs like these enhance quality of life and make everyone feel loved and valued.
It's lovely that a facility like this has been created to help sufferers live a life of some meaning despite being afflicted with Dementia. Kudos to all involved.
The statistics however are frightening. Governments around the world need to start addressing this issue and begin taking big steps to either build similiar places like the one seen in this special or work on medical developments to ease the symptoms because no one should have to suffer due to a lack of concern or effort.
I look forward to this in my golden years
Golden years, gold whop whop whop.... ( Bowie) lyrics take on a whole different meaning.....you should read them.
What an excellent idea.
I love this type of nursing home. They are so advanced.
Having worked extensively with people who have dementia, this is an absolutely incredible place for a person to live with dignity and less anxiety. Think for a moment how difficult and scared it would be to not understand fully your surroundings or those who you live with. The level of anxiety is very high and anti-anxiety medications are used at a very high rate. This should be the model for all Dementia facilities.
What steps do I need to take to create something similar in my community? I'm sure Occupational Therapists have helped design and are working there too. Length of life is less important for me, than QUALITY of life.
i'm so glad these people are being given proper environments to support them and make them feel safe.
you ask "Could this work in another country. Absolutely.
Thank you, Dr Sanjay. 🙏🏼 from MA.
this is beautiful, it actually made me teary eyed. wish this was a thing everywhere in the world
as an interior designer this is what we’ve been demanding in north america, it’s such a better way of building for our seniors
They should be making this all over the world. I think this is a fantastic idea!!! Help the seniors live in a place they can comfortably call home. A new world with new ideas. Let them live with dignity and grace. Beautiful!!!
this is how life should be for all people who are hidden away in care an nursing homes.
How can people dislike this, they obviously haven't seen or worked with people who have dementia.. This concept is how we who are working in the industry should all be working towards.
I cannot believe that there is such a place where dementia people can live as they are...All the residents seem calm, happy, and enjoying their remaining life...!
Great idea. It is refreshing to see that these patients or residence are living longer happier lives.
If only we did it like this in the UK.
Definitely won't happen in America our healthcare system is trash
This is a fantastic place to live for people with dementia. I wish you all the best with the work. I would like to come visiting you.
Best regards, Bente Olise Hestad, Marte Meo-Therapist, Certified Geriatric Nurse in Norway.
Wow. I am completely blown away. All nursing homes there are given the same allotment? This should be the only model for nursing homes everywhere!
I absolutely love this idea. Our elders deserve to live a normal life. This definitely can help anyone live longer and a happier life. It would be great if this program was implemented in other parts of the world.
Simplisticy is a sign of maturity
I wish every country had one village dedicated to people with dementia and Alzheimer's. maybe one day..
The hardest lesson to learn is to treat every single incident, or action, or question, as if it is the "first time". Once you have mastered this, then you, the sane party, will preserve your own sanity rather than to be frustrated and angry all the time at the constant repetition!
lie down -> try not to cry -> cry a lot
The love of the wife at 10:44 for her husband is making me so emotional right now. It's just beautiful.
Awesome! I hope they do this in the USA.
My grandma has had thus muldly for a long time now, but she recently got really bad, and this makes me feel a bit better about it.
please fund this
When news stations were not full of propaganda. I miss these days. Great clip!
I wonder how much it costs to live at a place like that? Must be very expensive with a ratio of 2 staff members for every resident. Overall, amazing way to provide quality of life for those who live with dementia.
It covered by the state they don't pay anything out of pocket. They universal health care. Puts America to shame.
The government helps out.
This is brilliant!
these people are the lucky ones
We need this in Ottawa, Ontario, Canada