I’m so glad I found your channel. We currently conduct a D/s dynamic with a focus on service submission. We are also a DD/lg couple but I have a deep need to explore this too. I’m wondering if they can all mesh well together.
My friend was trained in a formal kajira house and is also a little. She is poly so she has more than one D-types and whether she is little or kajira depends on whether she has goes into her mindset with her collar and chains and who she is with at the time.
i enjoy your use of the third person to refer to yourself. i wish i were controlled by and subject to a similar protocol. It’s very objectifying and makes it very difficult to forget your lowered status, even for a moment. my only difficulty with the Gorean lifestyle is the very heavy focus on Male dominance and Masters. i very much desire to be enslaved by and serve a Dominant Woman, even within a Gorean context. You are a very lucky girl. Good Luck and Best Wishes! 💜
Using third person is not a normal state for a Gorean slave. Virtually every time it occurs in the books, it was ordered or otherwise prompted by a free person. The normal state of speech for the average kajira was normal first person.
I just started reading the saga. There's been two women in my life that lived this way with me, and none of us knew about these writings. I now have a free companion. The parallels between my life and the writings of John Norman have been unnervingly paralleled in many ways.
@@terryobrien9846 I spent about 6 years of my life as a Free Companion. It was a very good and cherished time in my life. One I will never, ever forget.
@@antheakajira6776 Wonderful to hear that. It would describe where I am now. What those incredible women of my past were, I won't write about in a public forum. What the experience told me was that this society is closer to being an aberration than we would like to admit. Once experienced, there's no forgetting it. I'm sure you understand.
Greetings, I just saw your channel. I kept wondering when a Gorean slave would be putting up some videos. I had considered it myself, but was a bit hesitant due to my Masters specific business. One of the things I would like to ask you is if it is your Owners preference that you speak in 3rd person, or is it that you're in some sort of punishment? my Master does not require it of me since I am not under any type of punishment and that was the typical reason for using 3rd person within the books. I've been in the lifestyle and philosophy for 6 years, owned by my Master during that time and read the books 31 years ago when I was 13.
Hi thank you for your question. This girl actually answered this question in her introduction video. No, she is not under discipline. It pleases her Master to have her speak in 3rd person, as it is a constant reminder of her slavery. A secondary reason is that this girl suffers from Bipolar Disorder, with one of the symptoms being racing thoughts.. By using 3rd person speech, it causes this kajira to have to slow down her thinking to speak properly and in a grammatically correct way, thus her thoughts are easier to manage. Hope this helped. :)
Nice job and thank you for sharing again Anthea! How did a kajira end up a slave to someone not interested in Gorean life? Does it create conflict for you or her if your core philosophy differs? How do vacations work for you? Do you get to 'off' days from serving? Is it like a job in that sense?
This girl became Master's slave when her former Master and she realized we could no longer be together. (Live in situation became long distance because life happened) Instead of releasing this girl, he decided to give her a new owner. We approached Master with the idea, and this girl was taken under consideration for 6 months to see if we were a good match. After that time period, it was agreed it was a beneficial situation, and her ownership was transferred and she was put into a new collar. In general, our core philosophies are the same: honesty, loyalty, devotion, respect. Those aren't issues we have. While this girl never gets days off from serving, she is allowed to ask for a day to herself if she feels mentally overwhelmed, however she is still expected to do the basics of service and to remain available to Master, should She require service. (Edited to fix spelling errors)
I was in a Gorean lifestyle back In the 80's.. It was just too much for me... And the fact, that I had to read all of the books on it... I was young& just trying things. Didn't know I was getting involved with that til I was in it.. But, good for you.. Do your thing slavegirl
Yes, this girl is under orders to use 3rd person speech. It's not a general practice in Gorean circles, unless it's being used to remind a kajira of their place. Master however, has this girl use 3rd person to make her think before she speaks.
What are the hard limits to a kajira? Things about kids and marriage. How much of your opinion matters. Also is masochism involved or optional? I hope the lady would answer to my curiosity.
This kajira's limits are her Master's limits. Since our relationship is platonic, kids and marriage are not part of our dynamic. This girl is a masochist, and it does enter our relationship, however that may not be the case for all, or most, of Gorean relationships.
@@MattA-x4q People living in consensual M/s relationships have been around long before the "trad wife" things was popular. People living in consensual Gorean M/s relationships have been around a lot longer than "trad wives" have been a thing. It's not new. It's not a trend.
@antheakajira6776 I understand, I just get mad that people are making what my stay a home mom does into a weird social political thing that dehumanizes the mom. I want this to be safe, it seems like an intimate and deep practice, I just want the dude bros to not get to it
@MattA-x4q It is very deep and intimate for those who do this as a lifestyle. And I hate to tell you, but dudebros and trolls have already been in this lifestyle for about as long as it's been a thing. You can't stop them, but you can call them out and not tolerate them. No attention, no reason to stay.
Very nice, thank you anthea. I do have a small comment. You refer to BDSM as a lifestyle. It's not. BDSM is the sexual practices of the D/s lifestyle. D/s is the lifestyle. BDSM is the sexual aspect of it.
So... I haven't read the books myself, but I have looked at a lot of the quotes from the books, and none of this was in the books. It was, effectively completely, and total submission M/s specifically. That there were smex slaves, and work slaves. Of course mind you all slaves were basically the conquered. But yah, they had slave breakers who's whole job it was completely and totally submit slaves so their eternal pleasure was submission. Edit: missed a few things in the video, so above statement is not applicable.
@@antheakajira6776 Pardon, you're right -- what I said was sort of a blanket over the whole video. And, what I said was not true as a blanket statement. Also something I didn't catch the first time I listened through the video is to say that your 'Master' is actually not living the Gorean life style, therefore... Nothing I said applied to the video, pardon for that as well. Something of particular interest, why call your female 'master' a Master, and not a Mistress?
@@MasterSethern no worries, we all makes mistakes. And you're correct, Master is not Gorean, She is a Leather Woman who owns a kajira. We answer the "Why Master and not Mistress" question in our Q&A video, if you'd like to check that one out.
I always wondered, how do some of those people who are fully in with it afford it, like having an income while living the Gor lifestyle. Is it other goreans supporting them?
Anthea has mentioned that her master's male slave sometimes works 12 hours a day. So, I guess, yes, she is supported by another participant of this relationship.
:) Very good, Gor can be quite complicated when people start digging into the laws, nuances and such.
This was so interesting to learn about, I subscribed immediately! Also your shirt/dress looks so pretty
Thank you so much!
I’m so glad I found your channel. We currently conduct a D/s dynamic with a focus on service submission. We are also a DD/lg couple but I have a deep need to explore this too. I’m wondering if they can all mesh well together.
My friend was trained in a formal kajira house and is also a little. She is poly so she has more than one D-types and whether she is little or kajira depends on whether she has goes into her mindset with her collar and chains and who she is with at the time.
you don't conduct anything until you lose about 120 pounds
i enjoy your use of the third person to refer to yourself. i wish i were controlled by and subject to a similar protocol. It’s very objectifying and makes it very difficult to forget your lowered status, even for a moment. my only difficulty with the Gorean lifestyle is the very heavy focus on Male dominance and Masters. i very much desire to be enslaved by and serve a Dominant Woman, even within a Gorean context. You are a very lucky girl. Good Luck and Best Wishes! 💜
Using third person is not a normal state for a Gorean slave. Virtually every time it occurs in the books, it was ordered or otherwise prompted by a free person. The normal state of speech for the average kajira was normal first person.
wud u like conversation with a man?
I just started reading the saga.
There's been two women in my life that lived this way with me, and none of us knew about these writings.
I now have a free companion.
The parallels between my life and the writings of John Norman have been unnervingly paralleled in many ways.
@@terryobrien9846 I spent about 6 years of my life as a Free Companion.
It was a very good and cherished time in my life. One I will never, ever forget.
@@antheakajira6776 Wonderful to hear that.
It would describe where I am now.
What those incredible women of my past were, I won't write about in a public forum.
What the experience told me was that this society is closer to being an aberration than we would like to admit.
Once experienced, there's no forgetting it.
I'm sure you understand.
@@terryobrien9846 I certainly understand.
And while I will always cherish my time as aFC, I am happiest as a kajira.
Greetings, I just saw your channel. I kept wondering when a Gorean slave would be putting up some videos. I had considered it myself, but was a bit hesitant due to my Masters specific business. One of the things I would like to ask you is if it is your Owners preference that you speak in 3rd person, or is it that you're in some sort of punishment? my Master does not require it of me since I am not under any type of punishment and that was the typical reason for using 3rd person within the books. I've been in the lifestyle and philosophy for 6 years, owned by my Master during that time and read the books 31 years ago when I was 13.
Hi thank you for your question.
This girl actually answered this question in her introduction video.
No, she is not under discipline. It pleases her Master to have her speak in 3rd person, as it is a constant reminder of her slavery.
A secondary reason is that this girl suffers from Bipolar Disorder, with one of the symptoms being racing thoughts.. By using 3rd person speech, it causes this kajira to have to slow down her thinking to speak properly and in a grammatically correct way, thus her thoughts are easier to manage.
Hope this helped. :)
This is an honest and genuine question I am not judging you. At all. Are you safe and happy?
Yes.
Would you ask that if Anthea was male, I wonder?
does this interest you?
Where i can join so one Day i found my Kajira?
This girl met her current Owner at a BDSM munch (an informal get together at a restaurant or coffee shop).
Nice job and thank you for sharing again Anthea!
How did a kajira end up a slave to someone not interested in Gorean life? Does it create conflict for you or her if your core philosophy differs?
How do vacations work for you? Do you get to 'off' days from serving? Is it like a job in that sense?
This girl became Master's slave when her former Master and she realized we could no longer be together. (Live in situation became long distance because life happened)
Instead of releasing this girl, he decided to give her a new owner. We approached Master with the idea, and this girl was taken under consideration for 6 months to see if we were a good match.
After that time period, it was agreed it was a beneficial situation, and her ownership was transferred and she was put into a new collar.
In general, our core philosophies are the same: honesty, loyalty, devotion, respect. Those aren't issues we have.
While this girl never gets days off from serving, she is allowed to ask for a day to herself if she feels mentally overwhelmed, however she is still expected to do the basics of service and to remain available to Master, should She require service.
(Edited to fix spelling errors)
I was in a Gorean lifestyle back In the 80's.. It was just too much for me... And the fact, that I had to read all of the books on it... I was young& just trying things. Didn't know I was getting involved with that til I was in it.. But, good for you.. Do your thing slavegirl
Fascinating.
You seem very contented.
Yes, this girl is very content and happy in her relationship with her Owner. ^_^
no she doesn't lmao
I noticed you refer to yourself in the third person. Is this a common Gorean practice or is this more specific to your dynamic?
Yes, this girl is under orders to use 3rd person speech.
It's not a general practice in Gorean circles, unless it's being used to remind a kajira of their place.
Master however, has this girl use 3rd person to make her think before she speaks.
What are the hard limits to a kajira? Things about kids and marriage. How much of your opinion matters. Also is masochism involved or optional? I hope the lady would answer to my curiosity.
This kajira's limits are her Master's limits. Since our relationship is platonic, kids and marriage are not part of our dynamic.
This girl is a masochist, and it does enter our relationship, however that may not be the case for all, or most, of Gorean relationships.
We have trad wives, i hope this doesn't become trend.
@@MattA-x4q People living in consensual M/s relationships have been around long before the "trad wife" things was popular.
People living in consensual Gorean M/s relationships have been around a lot longer than "trad wives" have been a thing.
It's not new.
It's not a trend.
@antheakajira6776 I understand, I just get mad that people are making what my stay a home mom does into a weird social political thing that dehumanizes the mom. I want this to be safe, it seems like an intimate and deep practice, I just want the dude bros to not get to it
@MattA-x4q It is very deep and intimate for those who do this as a lifestyle.
And I hate to tell you, but dudebros and trolls have already been in this lifestyle for about as long as it's been a thing.
You can't stop them, but you can call them out and not tolerate them.
No attention, no reason to stay.
@antheakajira6776 yay, as a person with curiosity in ki nk makes me happy
Ok I get it now. It is fantasy
@@pablooso1941 No, this is how I live my life.
Every day.
Dear God.
What?
Sheldon Rue
You are so younge
Interesting
Sure
Are you under orders to speak in third person? 🤔
Yes, this girl is under orders to use 3rd person speech.
Very nice, thank you anthea. I do have a small comment. You refer to BDSM as a lifestyle. It's not. BDSM is the sexual practices of the D/s lifestyle. D/s is the lifestyle. BDSM is the sexual aspect of it.
D/s is an aspect of BDSM. BDSM is indeed a lifestyle, D/s being an aspect and lifestyle in it's own right.
So... I haven't read the books myself, but I have looked at a lot of the quotes from the books, and none of this was in the books. It was, effectively completely, and total submission M/s specifically. That there were smex slaves, and work slaves. Of course mind you all slaves were basically the conquered. But yah, they had slave breakers who's whole job it was completely and totally submit slaves so their eternal pleasure was submission.
Edit: missed a few things in the video, so above statement is not applicable.
Sir, she's not quite sure what is the "this" you're referring to.
Perhaps you could give an example and she can explain it further?
@@antheakajira6776 Pardon, you're right -- what I said was sort of a blanket over the whole video. And, what I said was not true as a blanket statement. Also something I didn't catch the first time I listened through the video is to say that your 'Master' is actually not living the Gorean life style, therefore... Nothing I said applied to the video, pardon for that as well. Something of particular interest, why call your female 'master' a Master, and not a Mistress?
@@MasterSethern no worries, we all makes mistakes.
And you're correct, Master is not Gorean, She is a Leather Woman who owns a kajira.
We answer the "Why Master and not Mistress" question in our Q&A video, if you'd like to check that one out.
Doyouwearlatex
No, this girl does not wear latex.
I always wondered, how do some of those people who are fully in with it afford it, like having an income while living the Gor lifestyle. Is it other goreans supporting them?
Anthea has mentioned that her master's male slave sometimes works 12 hours a day. So, I guess, yes, she is supported by another participant of this relationship.
Master works as well as gets rent from her slaves who live with Her.
Why do you speak about yourself as if you aren't there?