I met my husband when I was 16. We dated for 2 years and got married when I was 19 and my husband was 24. We have 4 children, 2 grandchildren, and 2 great children. We have been married 45 years. He is my first love and my only love. Stay healthy, happy and safe.
@Miguelle Landry is a perfect 10 yes I was 16, I went to school full time and worked full time. I graduated with honors, went on to college and received my degree in business. All the while my future husband supported my dreams and never tried to change my direction. I was also an emancipated young adult. So I was on my own. We dated for three years, got married 2 years before I received my degree. Oh and by the way, the first time we were intimate was on our wedding night. So he was able to wait till I was ready, Great huh? There are different stories for different people, next time maybe ask before you pass judgement on a situation. Just so you know me a little better, I'm 65 years old, I'm a mother of 4, grandmother of 2, great grandmother of 2. I'm still married to my husband who is now 71. I believe I made the correct call. Stay happy healthy and safe. Blessed be
@@waterwitch8902 you're Lucky to have him. Age is just a number. And about waiting marriage to get intimate is good👍. I dated my husband for more than 4years and we waited too... Well continue till a week after married because I was nervous and afraid.
@@waterwitch8902 maam reading your story was the best thing ive done today. your husband is no doubt a gentleman and a legend. i hope to find someone like that 😔 stay safe and live your life without regrets maam!!!
@@waterwitch8902 I think I was born about 2 years after you got married, so I don't know what it was like growing up in the 60s-70s. I think your own story was terrific. From a romantic perspective, it is hard to imagine myself as a 21-year old guy holding back for 3 years. :P I know I did and said some stupid things just to even spend time with girls I found attractive, never mind if any of them had chosen to actually date me. At the same time, I know I also have been able to mooostly prioritize my and my various partners' well-being, happiness, values, and longer-term goals over my more ... transient desires. I feel like I can see it from both good and bad/unhealthy sides. Possible but unlikely, and thus easily rejected by cynical or ideologically rigid people. [edit: sorry for the statistics and stream of consciousness dump; I was curious and thinking out loud. You can disregard if you don't want to engage.] What was roughly "typical" for things like marriage age for men and women, considered "too large" of an age gap, etc. in public perception? Also, college education back then was less than half of today's demographics (about 20% back then and about 40-50% today, depending on ethnicity/gender/age etc), and I remember reading that women lagged behind men by not quite 10% in college degrees. So you were definitely meaningfully advancing that demographic and your husband was progressive for supporting you -- but I know only the bare statistics, not the human experience or public perception of the time. Was it rare/uphill for someone who married as early as you to finish college? Again, I only know the stats, not the human experience: avg age to get married was 22/25 for women/men in 1980, and today is 26/28 for women/men. So by only the mere stats, it seems like a 16/19 (also probably applies Romeo and Juliet law, if sex were to be involved) or 18/21 relationship would have been typical -- but that may not be what the public's perception was. I grew up in the 80s sometimes reading old books, stories, and history from the 1800s through 1970s. People today pretty widely hold that something like 16/21 years old is wrong either just b/c you were under 18 and/or also b/c the 21 year old "MUST" be grooming/taking advantage of the younger partner. Historically, undoubtedly a lot more of this happened than has been documented, and often sanitized and glossed over with dry academic descriptions. Young age is a possible indicator of risk or trouble but I don't think a guaranteed problem. As you said though, you were already working and emancipated, which today would probably be considered a huge challenge/problem for most 16 year olds. Not many people today can fathom the impact of that kind of growth experience on a teenager -- the workplace environments, challenges, and problems you had to face on your own b/c that was where the buck stopped. In our news and media today, we rarely encounter stories about 16 year olds working and living entirely on their own. Partly, this has been driven by economic changes. In today's dollars, median personal income in 1975 was $23,000, versus 2020 $30,000. That's a 30% increase, but houses have also increased 30%, cars have increased 100%, college education has increased 150%, and healthcare cost per capita has increased 400% in the same time (all in adjusted dollars). Most people today don't know these numbers off the cuff, but at a gut level and month-to-month they know these disparities shape their budgetary choices, so they're choosing to stay at home longer and get married later b/c they have a feeling (rightfully) that everything is more expensive proportionally now. This is definitely not your case, but to address your detractor's out-of-hand dismissal of your marriage: At ANY age, I do think it IS wrong when any partner male or female grooms or exploits a less-experienced partner, entrapping/exploiting the junior partner and denying choices to them (like I said, not you!). Doesn't matter even if the junior partner were to be 22 (but lived a sheltered life at home, never worked even a part-time job) and the abusive, more experienced partner were to also be 22. So I guess I feel that large but only potential warning bells would go off when I hear about a 16/21 age difference today (assuming no sex until 18), based on overall statistics.And even with a younger partner aged 18, the warnings would exponentially get more strident as the age gap increases to an older partner aged 25, 30, 40, etc. At the same time, there's always a non-zero chance with some rare happy stories that end beautifully, so it's not my place to invalidate someone else's real and meaningful love when it does happen (so long as they're over 18). Not by design, at this point I've personally dated a pretty wide age range in both directions, and I don't think any of my partners or I felt that we were being taken advantage of by the senior partner in each instance. Typical relationship problems (some from the obvious being in different points in life), yes, but not exploitation.
They're really so cute. And I wish God shower you with blessing and He guide each of you decisions, talking you exactly to the place you want to reach. 🙏🏻
You guys are lucky to have each other! Imagine having someone who's not fooling around and wants to be with you and only you. Thats super rare nowadays!
@@matthewcentonze3660 omg! Thank you! I've lost trust in love after every failed relationship caused by cheating and it fucked up my mind and heart and its really hard for me to trust again ive built this wall in my heart so much that i cant let anyone in anymore because i feel like its all going to be the same. But i know thats there's still people out there that take love really seriously and im hoping il meet one someday.
Это так мило, первые друг у друга, чистая и крепкая любовь! Такие браки часто бывают очень крепкие, потому что это действительно судьба. Это благословение после трудностей, дальше всё будет отлично!
Guys, it’s not all about destiny and luck in their story. They met by luck on a app, but they both work hard to talk everyday and save money to meet each other and cultivate the relationship despite the distance. Love doesnt fall on your lap, they both put in time and hard work to reach where they are now at today.
I believe in destiny and luck. I'm also practiced English in middle school. I talked with different people all around the world in different app. Our communication lasted only a couple of months, but I did not find a friend, let alone a boyfriend. I believe it is fate that she found her love on the other side of the earth💔
Ребята,специально для вас я написала русские субтитры) Включите их в настройках под видео! Извиняюсь за огромное количество ошибок и опечаток(( Я не почти не пользуюсь русским языком и забываю его( Надеюсь на ваше понимание )
Это так мило.Живёшь себе спокойно,а потом встречаешь человека с которым хочешь прожить всю жизнь.От такой истории даже мечтать хочется в три раза сильнее.
Jay's family must be pretty stable to send him studying overseas in China and UK ALL BY HIMSELF. I'd have so much anxiety going out into the world by myself like him lol. Respect.
His parents only did that cuz they felt guilty that they favored his brother over him. He explained it in a video where he ended up saying they cut off all ties with his parents cuz they treated her like crap. Her, on the other hand, was able to go to Korea because her mom wanted her to be happy and worked extra jobs in order to do so.
LOL it's actually normal for Koreans who have a parent with a corporate job, they pay like 50% tuition for the kids. So why not send them overseas? 😂🤣 If his parents shunned her, then they're ultra conservative and refusing to accept her for their son. Usually, Koreans who study overseas are more likely to open to marrying a non-Korean person. I'm Viet in the US and my husband is Korean, who studied here. We met while volunteering at an after-school tutoring program. At first, his grandmother didn't accept me, since there were a lot of Viet girls being married off to Korean men at that time and the news covered it. She thought I was uneducated, poor family, etc. So it took a bit of time convincing her of background and family, and that I wasn'ta gold digger. LOL 😆 His parents were accepting the idea of us since they're pretty open-minded and traveled globally often, so they're used to foreigners. 😂 I hope this couple make up with his parents eventually, maybe after she has a kid. 😌 Grandkids usually turns conservative grandparents around...good luck with everything! 👍
Jay is so handsome. Can’t help but stare at him. Hahaha Sasha is so pretty as well. They look very good together. For sure they’ll produce beautiful children.
Sweet story guys! It was fate to bring you together. I met my husband when I was 10 years old and we met again 6 years later. Got married at 19 years, too. My was first boyfriend and only one. On September 7, we know each other for 38 years and married for 29 years. I got married on the same day we met, started dating, and got married. 💕
@ Natalie Pet Actually, we met at friend’s house of my parents in Florida in 1982. Another friend brought his new girlfriend that had met and had 2 kids and the youngest was my husband. He told me that he fell in love at first sight, but I didn’t feel the same way. After that I moved away to N.J. for five years and returned back in 1988. My aunt took me and my sister out on the weekend after getting here and I ran into him and friends. He told me that he had heard that I was back in town and started to pursue me. He waited five years for me and didn’t want to date no one and wouldn’t let any guys talk to me.
@@user-pl9yq3fc8u russian and bellarussian are very similar. And i don´t know for sure, but most of us in Europe learned english in school. So thats probably why she learned that "easyly".
Смотрю на вас и понимаю, что сила первой любви действительно сильная. Два-три года общаться по интернету, встретиться на два месяца и затем снова эти мучительные 2 года. Вы хорошо постарались и я очень-очень рада за вас :3
I was 19 and my husband 21 when we got married and it’s been 36 years of happy ever after! He was my first boyfriend and I was his second girlfriend! I never once have regretted it! We have four children and we could not be happier! Good for you two!!!!
Ваау, какая красивая пара, чтоб не сглазить, муж молодец, и окончил учебу, и служил в армии, и Саша тоже, выучила 2 ин.яз. прям полюбуюсь ими, несмотря на все преграды, они вместе😍😍желаю счастья благополучия и много-много саранхулек🥰🥰🥰🥰
Congratulations... I get married at the age of 17 ,his my first boyfriend and first relationship now we are 25yrears of marriage and counting...it doesn't matter what age to get married it's just a piece of paper...most important is the MARRIAGE...(TRUST,RESPECT AND LOVE)
М О Л О Д Ц Ы ! ! ! Не каждый выдержит испытание- расстоянием и временем. А Вы выдержали. Очень приятно было слушать Ваш рассказ. Вы такие милые дети. Удалось , просматривая интернет , узнать , ч то Вы счастливы Будьте счастливы и здоровенькие . Привет из Беларуси.
да на самом деле отношения на расстоянии это удача, если бы в реальной жизни у Саши появился рядом хоть мало-мальский парень, она бы быстро забила на всю эту любовь онлайн, как и он, как показала жизнь дальше они просто не особо контактны с внешним миром.
I don't think it would be different.. because if Jay already written for Sasha, I mean, her destiny and soul mate. Absolutely they would meet whatever happened it is. It's just the way they met would be different ☺️
Саша, ты реально героиня! Просто бросить всё, и уехать в другую страну за любимым, столько его ждать... И Джей, такой молодец, сделал всё, чтоб вы смогли встретиться и быть вместе! Невероятная история! Искреннего вам счастья!
Ребята, посмотрела ваше видео, прослезилась, узнав вашу историю. Тяжело в столь раннем возрасте остаться без родителей. Но какое счастье, что вы есть друг у друга, будьте счастливы вместе, проживите долгую и счастливую жизнь в окружении детей и внуков 😍😍
Wimpy Kid I said: “An incredible story, like the plot of a melodrama :) I just can’t believe, that such things happens in real life.. All the best to you)”
Hehe i'm sorry it's just that i can't understand your language. ✌️ Me too! 😊 Hehe i can't believe it,but that's the power of true love 😍. What a great couple. Huhu wish i had too ☹️
You guys look great together. There’s nothing wrong getting married young as long both of you known each other for a long time & mature enough to decide to start a family.
She is very beautiful and he is very handsome and your story assured me that the Korean drama that I am in love with is not lying. I'm glad I knew you , and if Sasha's beauty can't be compared, but I have to have hope😂😂greeting you from Egypt.
Вы такая красивая и романтичная пара. Столько лет пронести испытание любовью и дождаться долгожданной встречи.. Просто завидую вам. Мне кажется что корейские парни самые умные, воспитанные, сдержанные, , красивые и уважают женщин. .. Даже не представляю какие красивые детки у вас родятся... Дай бог вашей семье счастья и здоровья. Повезло тебе девочка. с мужем.
Maybe lucky or unlucky we don't know. Marriages involving asian men and white women are at high risk for divorce. But it all depends on personality of the couple.
This reminds me of my parents marriage. Married young and it lasted 63 years. May you always be together in love, honor and respect. Bless you both. ❤🇨🇦
Какие вы оба красивые, и такие сильные духом, с таким железным стержнем. Вы сделали немало того, на что ни одни мои знакомые не решатся никогда. Удачи и Счастья вам! Долгих лет жизни , обязательно только вместе!
Здравствуйте. Про такие истории говорят:" как в кино". Пусть вся ваша жизнь будет для вас прекрасной сказкой любви, верности и взаимопонимания. У вас будут очень красивые и счастливые детки.
Ваша история любви действительно необычна. Скорее всего вы однолюбы, и как хорошо, что вы встретили друг друга. Вы единственная корейская пара, за которой мне интересно наблюдать в разных соц сетях. Может это потому, что Саша, как и я, из Беларуси... Желаю, чтобы все несчастья в вашей жизни остались позади, а впереди только счастливое будущее ❤
Признаюсь, я не поклонница азиатской мужской красоты, но вы оба очень красивые .здорово, что вы нашли друг друга берегите себя и свою семью.вы молодцы.такие маленькие были и сохранили свои отношения.
Вы очень красивая, харизматичная, сильная, перспективная пара. Давно смотрю и импонирую вам. Хорошо что есть русские субтитры. Желаю бесконечного числа ваших поклонников.
I got married at 22 and have been married for 20 years 🤭. Also started as a long distance relationship. My very best wishes for you both and a lifetime of happiness and love!
i loved the simplicity on how they talk and act as young couple.. they are matutred enough to handle long distance relationship. its only means that if two people are meant to be destiny will brought them together..
They are a beautiful couple, I wish them all the luck and blessings. May your love continue to mature through time and achieve your goals. Congratulations!!!
Это таааак милоо...☺☺😫 я тоже из Беларуси. Вы таааак хорошо вместе смотритесь...😱😱😻 такая красивая история любви. Желаю вам счастья, любви, и вечного союза!💖💗💖💗☺☺🤗😻
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정말 두분 천생연분 같아요.. 너무 정말 소설? 드라마속에서 있을것같은 두분의 이야기 너무 아름답고 부럽고 존경합니다. 항상 행복하셨으면 좋겠어요.
핫 하트가 사라졌다... 수정하면 사라지는 구나..
헐 유튜브 댓글 고정된거 인생에서 처음이에요 대박! 감사합니다. Thank you for your love 💕
와 한글이다아! 맞아요 사샤,제이님 진짜 딱 맞는 퍼즐같아요! 항상 응원합니다아!
@@러에-s6w 네. 내 댓글 수정하면 사라져요.
맞아요. 저런일은 보통 보기 힘들죠.
I met my husband when I was 16. We dated for 2 years and got married when I was 19 and my husband was 24. We have 4 children, 2 grandchildren, and 2 great children. We have been married 45 years. He is my first love and my only love. Stay healthy, happy and safe.
@Miguelle Landry is a perfect 10 yes I was 16, I went to school full time and worked full time. I graduated with honors, went on to college and received my degree in business. All the while my future husband supported my dreams and never tried to change my direction. I was also an emancipated young adult. So I was on my own. We dated for three years, got married 2 years before I received my degree. Oh and by the way, the first time we were intimate was on our wedding night. So he was able to wait till I was ready, Great huh? There are different stories for different people, next time maybe ask before you pass judgement on a situation. Just so you know me a little better, I'm 65 years old, I'm a mother of 4, grandmother of 2, great grandmother of 2. I'm still married to my husband who is now 71. I believe I made the correct call. Stay happy healthy and safe. Blessed be
@@waterwitch8902 you're Lucky to have him. Age is just a number. And about waiting marriage to get intimate is good👍. I dated my husband for more than 4years and we waited too... Well continue till a week after married because I was nervous and afraid.
This is really a love story
@@waterwitch8902 maam reading your story was the best thing ive done today. your husband is no doubt a gentleman and a legend. i hope to find someone like that 😔 stay safe and live your life without regrets maam!!!
@@waterwitch8902 I think I was born about 2 years after you got married, so I don't know what it was like growing up in the 60s-70s. I think your own story was terrific. From a romantic perspective, it is hard to imagine myself as a 21-year old guy holding back for 3 years. :P I know I did and said some stupid things just to even spend time with girls I found attractive, never mind if any of them had chosen to actually date me. At the same time, I know I also have been able to mooostly prioritize my and my various partners' well-being, happiness, values, and longer-term goals over my more ... transient desires. I feel like I can see it from both good and bad/unhealthy sides. Possible but unlikely, and thus easily rejected by cynical or ideologically rigid people.
[edit: sorry for the statistics and stream of consciousness dump; I was curious and thinking out loud. You can disregard if you don't want to engage.]
What was roughly "typical" for things like marriage age for men and women, considered "too large" of an age gap, etc. in public perception? Also, college education back then was less than half of today's demographics (about 20% back then and about 40-50% today, depending on ethnicity/gender/age etc), and I remember reading that women lagged behind men by not quite 10% in college degrees. So you were definitely meaningfully advancing that demographic and your husband was progressive for supporting you -- but I know only the bare statistics, not the human experience or public perception of the time. Was it rare/uphill for someone who married as early as you to finish college? Again, I only know the stats, not the human experience: avg age to get married was 22/25 for women/men in 1980, and today is 26/28 for women/men. So by only the mere stats, it seems like a 16/19 (also probably applies Romeo and Juliet law, if sex were to be involved) or 18/21 relationship would have been typical -- but that may not be what the public's perception was.
I grew up in the 80s sometimes reading old books, stories, and history from the 1800s through 1970s. People today pretty widely hold that something like 16/21 years old is wrong either just b/c you were under 18 and/or also b/c the 21 year old "MUST" be grooming/taking advantage of the younger partner. Historically, undoubtedly a lot more of this happened than has been documented, and often sanitized and glossed over with dry academic descriptions. Young age is a possible indicator of risk or trouble but I don't think a guaranteed problem. As you said though, you were already working and emancipated, which today would probably be considered a huge challenge/problem for most 16 year olds. Not many people today can fathom the impact of that kind of growth experience on a teenager -- the workplace environments, challenges, and problems you had to face on your own b/c that was where the buck stopped. In our news and media today, we rarely encounter stories about 16 year olds working and living entirely on their own. Partly, this has been driven by economic changes. In today's dollars, median personal income in 1975 was $23,000, versus 2020 $30,000. That's a 30% increase, but houses have also increased 30%, cars have increased 100%, college education has increased 150%, and healthcare cost per capita has increased 400% in the same time (all in adjusted dollars). Most people today don't know these numbers off the cuff, but at a gut level and month-to-month they know these disparities shape their budgetary choices, so they're choosing to stay at home longer and get married later b/c they have a feeling (rightfully) that everything is more expensive proportionally now.
This is definitely not your case, but to address your detractor's out-of-hand dismissal of your marriage: At ANY age, I do think it IS wrong when any partner male or female grooms or exploits a less-experienced partner, entrapping/exploiting the junior partner and denying choices to them (like I said, not you!). Doesn't matter even if the junior partner were to be 22 (but lived a sheltered life at home, never worked even a part-time job) and the abusive, more experienced partner were to also be 22. So I guess I feel that large but only potential warning bells would go off when I hear about a 16/21 age difference today (assuming no sex until 18), based on overall statistics.And even with a younger partner aged 18, the warnings would exponentially get more strident as the age gap increases to an older partner aged 25, 30, 40, etc. At the same time, there's always a non-zero chance with some rare happy stories that end beautifully, so it's not my place to invalidate someone else's real and meaningful love when it does happen (so long as they're over 18). Not by design, at this point I've personally dated a pretty wide age range in both directions, and I don't think any of my partners or I felt that we were being taken advantage of by the senior partner in each instance. Typical relationship problems (some from the obvious being in different points in life), yes, but not exploitation.
I'm the only one who think they look like a webtoon cuple? They're so cuteee♡
Ur not alone 😀
he have so much wide forehead lmao..
and generally webtoon couple in korea is linked to "xxx" bad words bro
can't agree more.
They are just like Manhwa couple.
They're really so cute. And I wish God shower you with blessing and He guide each of you decisions, talking you exactly to the place you want to reach. 🙏🏻
Ur not alone bro
Какая красавица, как ангел!
Какой искренний парень, как чистая вода!
Какая чистая любовь, солнце!
Вы созданы друг для друга!
Будьте счастливыми!
Так мудро и красиво написали 👍Аминь🙏
You guys are lucky to have each other! Imagine having someone who's not fooling around and wants to be with you and only you. Thats super rare nowadays!
It's not that rare, but I can understand how someone might feel that way! You will meet the right one, I'm praying for you on that :)
@@matthewcentonze3660 omg! Thank you! I've lost trust in love after every failed relationship caused by cheating and it fucked up my mind and heart and its really hard for me to trust again ive built this wall in my heart so much that i cant let anyone in anymore because i feel like its all going to be the same. But i know thats there's still people out there that take love really seriously and im hoping il meet one someday.
@@pncvsx9888 you will find your special one and they will melt away that wall! Don't give up!
@@matthewcentonze3660 thank you for your kind words and positivity. It means a lot! I hope you're doing good.. Stay happy always. God bless you ♥️
yeah pretty cringe right?
And that's why we all should believe true love still exist
Hi , ARMY 💜 !
True love 😰😰😰😰
Itz super rare
💜💜💜💜
But only for true people
Это так мило, первые друг у друга, чистая и крепкая любовь! Такие браки часто бывают очень крепкие, потому что это действительно судьба. Это благословение после трудностей, дальше всё будет отлично!
That's what we call destiny.... You guys are meant to be together and live happily😊 Bless you both
Perseverance and actually love each other, not a lot of people can stand the distance.
Guys, it’s not all about destiny and luck in their story.
They met by luck on a app, but they both work hard to talk everyday and save money to meet each other and cultivate the relationship despite the distance.
Love doesnt fall on your lap, they both put in time and hard work to reach where they are now at today.
I believe in destiny and luck.
I'm also practiced English in middle school. I talked with different people all around the world in different app. Our communication lasted only a couple of months, but I did not find a friend, let alone a boyfriend.
I believe it is fate that she found her love on the other side of the earth💔
Ребята,специально для вас я написала русские субтитры) Включите их в настройках под видео! Извиняюсь за огромное количество ошибок и опечаток(( Я не почти не пользуюсь русским языком и забываю его( Надеюсь на ваше понимание )
외국에대한거랑 뷰티같은것도 올려주세용!!잘보고있어요!!샤샤님 캐릭터 너무 잘어울려요!
Спасибо за субтитры😙 Всё нормально у тебя с русским😙А будешь писать субтитры - вот и будет тебе практика🤗😍🌹⚘
So glad that you made your own channel!!! Cheers up!! BIG KISSES from International Family!!!! Love you so much!!! 국제커플 화이팅!!! BIG LOVE!!!❤️❤️❤️
Would you ever do a vlog in Belarus?
Я одна не нашла ни одной ошибки?
Как хорошо, что есть на свете такая любовь!
Это так мило.Живёшь себе спокойно,а потом встречаешь человека с которым хочешь прожить всю жизнь.От такой истории даже мечтать хочется в три раза сильнее.
Дааа 😖🤗
Да очень красивая пара
И не говорите)))
Jay's family must be pretty stable to send him studying overseas in China and UK ALL BY HIMSELF. I'd have so much anxiety going out into the world by myself like him lol. Respect.
also sasha's family sending her to korea by herself
My parents won’t even send me on a trip with my friends to another country on my own😫😕
His parents only did that cuz they felt guilty that they favored his brother over him. He explained it in a video where he ended up saying they cut off all ties with his parents cuz they treated her like crap. Her, on the other hand, was able to go to Korea because her mom wanted her to be happy and worked extra jobs in order to do so.
@NeonEyes It depends on who the foreigner is. If the foreigner is an American they sure will want it, especially for their daughters
LOL it's actually normal for Koreans who have a parent with a corporate job, they pay like 50% tuition for the kids. So why not send them overseas? 😂🤣
If his parents shunned her, then they're ultra conservative and refusing to accept her for their son. Usually, Koreans who study overseas are more likely to open to marrying a non-Korean person.
I'm Viet in the US and my husband is Korean, who studied here. We met while volunteering at an after-school tutoring program. At first, his grandmother didn't accept me, since there were a lot of Viet girls being married off to Korean men at that time and the news covered it. She thought I was uneducated, poor family, etc.
So it took a bit of time convincing her of background and family, and that I wasn'ta gold digger. LOL 😆 His parents were accepting the idea of us since they're pretty open-minded and traveled globally often, so they're used to foreigners. 😂
I hope this couple make up with his parents eventually, maybe after she has a kid. 😌 Grandkids usually turns conservative grandparents around...good luck with everything! 👍
Так хорошо смотритесь вместе, шанс, что вы встретитесь был не велик, но вот вы уже женаты, восхищаюсь такой целеустремленностью
The relationship is too perfect to be real 🥲 They are so beautiful together ❤️
They told all good sides. They didn't told difficulties they had but they still succeed
They are made for each other 😇
100%
Jay : Handsome
Sasha : Beautiful
Dog : Extremely Cute
Hotel : Trivago
Wt-
😂😂😂 Trivago
😅😅
🤣🤣🤣
They have a cat named Alice too
Jay is so handsome. Can’t help but stare at him. Hahaha
Sasha is so pretty as well. They look very good together. For sure they’ll produce beautiful children.
WTF
Sorry the last sentence kinda creepy ngl 😭
@@ihssansej i was like "wtffff-" LOL
@@ihssansej OMG😭😭😭
Gay
Sweet story guys! It was fate to bring you together. I met my husband when I was 10 years old and we met again 6 years later. Got married at 19 years, too. My was first boyfriend and only one. On September 7, we know each other for 38 years and married for 29 years. I got married on the same day we met, started dating, and got married. 💕
i am going to cry reading this
That's really a beautiful story 😌🤧 happy for you 💞
Wait but can I hear more of this story it’s just too beautiful.How did you met and where🥰🥰🥰
So sweet 🥰🥰
@ Natalie Pet Actually, we met at friend’s house of my parents in Florida in 1982. Another friend brought his new girlfriend that had met and had 2 kids and the youngest was my husband. He told me that he fell in love at first sight, but I didn’t feel the same way. After that I moved away to N.J. for five years and returned back in 1988. My aunt took me and my sister out on the weekend after getting here and I ran into him and friends. He told me that he had heard that I was back in town and started to pursue me. He waited five years for me and didn’t want to date no one and wouldn’t let any guys talk to me.
Ребята, дай Бог вам огромного семейного счастья, любви, взаимопонимания и уважения. Живите долго и счастливо.
Очень понравилась история вашего знакомства, это судьба быть вам вместе.Вы замечательные ,берегите друг друга.Счастья вам Сашуля и Джей.
sasha you're so smart , can't imagine you learn English and Korean language easily and fluently 😍😍😍
🤦🏻♂️😑
@@luisluisxavier3737 what , he has a point, she also knows Russian , Bellarussian and I believe German too
@@user-pl9yq3fc8u lol...legend she is
@@user-pl9yq3fc8u russian and bellarussian are very similar. And i don´t know for sure, but most of us in Europe learned english in school. So thats probably why she learned that "easyly".
@@JenViva288 well i learn english from elementary until now but i don't think learning english is that easy.
Смотрю на вас и понимаю, что сила первой любви действительно сильная. Два-три года общаться по интернету, встретиться на два месяца и затем снова эти мучительные 2 года. Вы хорошо постарались и я очень-очень рада за вас :3
Their story literally came out from a webtoon! 😭 So unbelievable and romantic ❤️
Wow, he's handsome, and she's an elf in a fairy tale.
Their love story is kinda crazy.. it teach me that if he/she is your destiny, then they would be together whatever situation and problem they have 🥺🥰🥰
I am from Turkey married American was the correct term.. but just 1/ 2 way to world .
They work really hard together to meet and talk everyday, it’s not all destiny.
Possession ofJealousy and envy
Is not what you want to be found guilty of by jesus....
Hi beautiful am search truth love and good relationship with someone
Yes
I was 19 and my husband 21 when we got married and it’s been 36 years of happy ever after! He was my first boyfriend and I was his second girlfriend! I never once have regretted it! We have four children and we could not be happier! Good for you two!!!!
Ваау, какая красивая пара, чтоб не сглазить, муж молодец, и окончил учебу, и служил в армии, и Саша тоже, выучила 2 ин.яз. прям полюбуюсь ими, несмотря на все преграды, они вместе😍😍желаю счастья благополучия и много-много саранхулек🥰🥰🥰🥰
Congratulations...
I get married at the age of 17 ,his my first boyfriend and first relationship now we are 25yrears of marriage and counting...it doesn't matter what age to get married it's just a piece of paper...most important is the MARRIAGE...(TRUST,RESPECT AND LOVE)
69 likes, I'll keep it that way, also you got married at 17? Isn't that illegal?
@@user-pl9yq3fc8u no its not
You make me believe in true love
М О Л О Д Ц Ы ! ! ! Не каждый выдержит испытание- расстоянием и временем. А Вы выдержали. Очень приятно было слушать Ваш рассказ. Вы такие милые дети. Удалось , просматривая интернет , узнать , ч то Вы счастливы Будьте счастливы и здоровенькие . Привет из Беларуси.
да, так же передаю им привет из РБ
да на самом деле отношения на расстоянии это удача, если бы в реальной жизни у Саши появился рядом хоть мало-мальский парень, она бы быстро забила на всю эту любовь онлайн, как и он, как показала жизнь дальше они просто не особо контактны с внешним миром.
Imagine if she never downloaded talk her future would be so different
“Talk” == KakaoTalk?
msc tv i never believe in coincidence love but your story sounds amazing. True love still exists ❤️
@@ronc9413 yes kakaotalk
I don't think it would be different.. because if Jay already written for Sasha, I mean, her destiny and soul mate. Absolutely they would meet whatever happened it is. It's just the way they met would be different ☺️
@@RQC7RU wahhhhh😲
So happy for you 💗😊
"If there's a will, there's a way"
"Love moves in a mysterious way"
yup ☺️
bro, I don't believe that.... Girlfriend does not exist in my world...
U2 fan!
Yup very mysterious. It always remain a mystery! 😋😋
u are amazing bro! :)
wow! I'm so surprised both of you speak English and Korean so fluently... just wow, and btw you are such a beautiful (married) couple
Ребята, вы - удивительные. Могу представить, сколько трудностей вам пришлось преодолеть. От всей души желаю вам счастья :3
Саша, ты реально героиня!
Просто бросить всё, и уехать в другую страну за любимым, столько его ждать...
И Джей, такой молодец, сделал всё, чтоб вы смогли встретиться и быть вместе! Невероятная история! Искреннего вам счастья!
Ребята, посмотрела ваше видео, прослезилась, узнав вашу историю. Тяжело в столь раннем возрасте остаться без родителей. Но какое счастье, что вы есть друг у друга, будьте счастливы вместе, проживите долгую и счастливую жизнь в окружении детей и внуков 😍😍
А что случилось с родителями?
Лень искать видео
@@wooshendoo4495 у Саши только мама была, умерла, у Джея родители есть, оказывается, я сначала не поняла, думала, что он тоже потерял их
Сколько им лет?
@@wooshendoo4495, с родителями Джея ничего не случилось, они были против их отношений и в результате Джей перестал с ними контактировать.
А что случилось с мамой? Это так ужасно потерять столь близкого человека в столь юном возрасте.
Невероятная история, будто бы сюжет мелодрамы :) Удивительно, что такое случается в реальной жизни.. Счастья вам)
Do you speak English ? 😅
Wimpy Kid I said: “An incredible story, like the plot of a melodrama :) I just can’t believe, that such things happens in real life.. All the best to you)”
Hehe i'm sorry it's just that i can't understand your language. ✌️
Me too! 😊 Hehe i can't believe it,but that's the power of true love 😍. What a great couple.
Huhu wish i had too ☹️
두분 모두 동화속에서나 나올 것 같은 스토리의 주인공이네요
아름다운 모습이 너무 보기 좋아요/ 두분의 사랑 영원하시기를 바랄꼐요.❤️❤️❤️
Ребята, счастья вам огромного. Вы такие классные 😘😘😘😘😘
Вы такие молодые и красивые! Вся жизнь у вас впереди! Сохраните эту любовь и доверие друг к другу!💞
한국인이 별로 없어서 댓글을 안 달려고 했는데 너무 예쁜 모습이라 댓글남겨요ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 둘다 너무 사랑하고 아끼는게 눈에 보여서 행복해염,,,
Congratulations and wishing both of you for a happy marriage 😃
О Боже! Какая красивая пара😍 Желаю вам крепкой и вечной любви🥰🥰🥰
You guys look great together. There’s nothing wrong getting married young as long both of you known each other for a long time & mature enough to decide to start a family.
Their life story is like in a fairy tale 😍❤️
Обожаю вас 💖 прекрасная пара, счастья вам и долгих лет совместной жизни!
She is very beautiful and he is very handsome and your story assured me that the Korean drama that I am in love with is not lying. I'm glad I knew you , and if Sasha's beauty can't be compared, but I have to have hope😂😂greeting you from Egypt.
Watchu watching?
He looks handsome 😂😂😂🤣🚬 nice joke
@@theKingaurav youre just jealous bc u cant have her 😴🚬
@@kelssssk 🤣🤣😂😂😂 ohhh my god I don't want a girl in my peaceful life
I was just saying there are still many persons more handsome than this boy 😀
He is a very smart guy. Bu we dont know other guy. Every person has his own fate
Какая романтичная подростковая любовь!Желаю вам счастливой, долгой совместной жизни и хороших детей!!
Done say like that you don't have any family
we are your family and we love both of you ❤️❤️❤️💖
Вы такая красивая и романтичная пара. Столько лет пронести испытание любовью и дождаться долгожданной встречи.. Просто завидую вам. Мне кажется что корейские парни самые умные, воспитанные, сдержанные, , красивые и уважают женщин. .. Даже не представляю какие красивые детки у вас родятся... Дай бог вашей семье счастья и здоровья. Повезло тебе девочка. с мужем.
Будьте счастливы, живите дружно, любите и поддерживайте друг друга! Вы очень красивая пара!
The Korean guy is VERY LUCKY.
The girl is absolutely stunningly GORGEOUS😍 OMG
The korean guy is stunningly HANDSOME!
The girl is VERY LUCKY!!!
OMG!!!
Maybe both of them are lucky to have each other and find their true love at a very young age! 💗
Maybe lucky or unlucky we don't know. Marriages involving asian men and white women are at high risk for divorce. But it all depends on personality of the couple.
He’s a looker himself!
Jake himself is handsome. And do you know how difficult it is to see a guy who is so understanding and kind and loving as Jake ? She is lucky.
Про эту историю нужно снять дораму👀💖
다시 들어도 드라마틱한 이야기여서 뭉클합니다.
항상 사랑으로 함께 헤쳐나가는 세상이 되기를 항상 응원합니다.
기분좋은 , 사랑스러운 영상들 잘 보고 있어요. ^^
가족 얘기가 담긴 영상을 미리 봐서인지, 두 분을 더욱 응원하게 됩니다. 하늘이 맺어준 인연입니다. 천생연분이란 말에 제일 잘 어울리는 커플! 사샤 많이 사랑하고 아껴 주시리라 믿어요 핸썸 보이!
So touching, it was a fruitful friendship to couple ŕelationship.
Ok you guys will make the most beautiful babies!
блин я вас так уважаю:))) вы невероятны с этой историей) закончить любовь на расстоянии успехом это реально результат:)
Вы молодцы! Ваша любовь преодолела все преграды,ведь отношения на расстоянии не каждый выдержит.Горжусь вами!❤
You are a beautiful couple. Thanks for sharing you lovely story.
Рада за девушку, думаю , что всё у них будет хорошо, что и делаю от всего сердца, трогательно , романтично и на всегда
God met you up when both of you show the effort. It was a blessing. You're destined to be together ❤️
This reminds me of my parents marriage. Married young and it lasted 63 years.
May you always be together in love, honor and respect. Bless you both. ❤🇨🇦
Good to hear! My Dad was 20 and married my Mom when she was 16 and still happily marriage after 64yrs.
Какие вы оба красивые, и такие сильные духом, с таким железным стержнем. Вы сделали немало того, на что ни одни мои знакомые не решатся никогда. Удачи и Счастья вам! Долгих лет жизни , обязательно только вместе!
Ребята,Вы очень красивая пара,вы молодцы,любите друг друга и дорожите каждым днём проведенным вместе!!!
Детки, а как вы без семей - то остались😮
Пусть все у вас в жизни будет хорошо 🎉
Здравствуйте. Про такие истории говорят:" как в кино". Пусть вся ваша жизнь будет для вас прекрасной сказкой любви, верности и взаимопонимания. У вас будут очень красивые и счастливые детки.
젊은 커플들 너무 예쁘고 귀어워요~
행복하게 잘 살고 양국가의 우정으로
모든 가정과 이웃에게 평화의 선물을
늘~ 주는 가정이 되길 진심으로 바라고
젊은 친구들 가정의 탄생을 추카드려요~
Потрясающая истрия! Очень трогательно и волшебно. Вы прекрасная,гармоничная пара!
Очень красивая пара! Саша просто как из сказки. Надо же родиться такой красивой.
А мальчик для корейца очень хорош, прямо айдол. Очень славная пара. Удачи и счастья им!
Согласна. Очень красивая,приятная девушка.
@@ЛюдмилаКомаревцева-о1ы Парень необыкновенно хорош!
Оба красавцы. Саша фарфоровая куколка, нежная, тоненькая, изящная и очень умненькая. Счастья вам ребята
@@ЛюдмилаКомаревцева-о1ы всм для корейца? А для русского не очень?
여자분 너무 이쁘고 남자분 정말 인상 좋으면서 정용화 닮았어요. 잘 어울려요. 두분다 좋은 사람처럼 보이는데 영원히 행복하시길
Пройти такое испытание может только искренне любящие друг друга люди ,дай Аллах вам счастье .
선남선녀 ^^
영상보는 내내 눈이 즐거윘어요.
힘든 일을 겪다 보니 서로 더 의지하게 되었다니 두사람 오래오래 행복하삼.
Вы замечательная пара, спасибо за вашу историю и русские субтитры)))
Как в сказке, даже не верится, молодцы так и должно быть, не испорченные очень светлые, правильные люди, будьте счастливы, очень красивые!!!!
Ваша история любви действительно необычна. Скорее всего вы однолюбы, и как хорошо, что вы встретили друг друга. Вы единственная корейская пара, за которой мне интересно наблюдать в разных соц сетях. Может это потому, что Саша, как и я, из Беларуси... Желаю, чтобы все несчастья в вашей жизни остались позади, а впереди только счастливое будущее ❤
Спасибо большое 😍🥰❤️
어리신 나이에도 멋지게 살아가고 계시네요
언제나 행복하시길 끝까지 응원합니다^^*
The international couple sounds great👍
Смотрю и радуюсь, что ваша любовь была предрешена небесами, живите долго и счастливо. Любви, продолжения рода и гармонии😊
Посмотрела вас ещё раз, какие же вы славные! Будьте счастливы и цените и любите друг друга!
Вы такие красивые ребята, это еще раз доказывает, что для любви нет никаких преград, счастья вам и детишек побольше
Какие хорошенькие))) Желаю вам счастья!!!
Признаюсь, я не поклонница азиатской мужской красоты, но вы оба очень красивые .здорово, что вы нашли друг друга берегите себя и свою семью.вы молодцы.такие маленькие были и сохранили свои отношения.
Счастья вам и любви на долгие годы!💕💕💕💕💕
와아............ 진짜 애틋하고 애절하고 운명적인 만남이네요 앞으로도 축복하고 기도합니다
Красивые , милые - счастья, здоровья , Любви
Sweet story. I was married at 19 and we have now been married for 14 years. If it works, it doesn't matter how young you were.
Вы очень красивая, харизматичная, сильная, перспективная пара. Давно смотрю и импонирую вам. Хорошо что есть русские субтитры. Желаю бесконечного числа ваших поклонников.
Ребятки,какие вы молодцы!!! Желаем вам счастья!!! Берегите друг друга!!! Очень рада за вас!!!!🤗😘😘😘
Вау, классная история)), очень рада за вас что жизнь вас так свила 😊 желаю всем счастья ❤️
История похожая на сказку 🙏☺️💛 вы оба такие молодые и красивые! 😍 пусть все в вашей жизни будет хорошо 🙏😘 привет из Беларуси 🇧🇾🤗
I got married at 22 and have been married for 20 years 🤭. Also started as a long distance relationship. My very best wishes for you both and a lifetime of happiness and love!
i loved the simplicity on how they talk and act as young couple.. they are matutred enough to handle long distance relationship. its only means that if two people are meant to be destiny will brought them together..
They are a beautiful couple, I wish them all the luck and blessings. May your love continue to mature through time and achieve your goals. Congratulations!!!
Смотрю вас в течении года как на своих внуков.можете представить сколько мне лет 71.Спасибо за русские субтитры а то смотрела как немое кино
Классно что ты сразу познакомилась с культурным образованным парням и тебя ни кто не испортил. Ты такой осталась какой была. Счастье у тебя много.
Getting married young is a blessing. You are able to do so much as a young person. I pray your marriage stays strong and blessed with many children.
It's good that you got married immediately, not to mention you're each other's firsts. I want like that too for myself 😂
Это таааак милоо...☺☺😫 я тоже из Беларуси. Вы таааак хорошо вместе смотритесь...😱😱😻 такая красивая история любви. Желаю вам счастья, любви, и вечного союза!💖💗💖💗☺☺🤗😻
Ребята, на вас приятно смотреть)). Будьте счастливы!!
Потрясающе красивая пара, будьте счастливы и неразлучны🥰
우와 남자분 정말 훤칠하니 부티나게 잘 생겼네요, 수영선수 박태환 생각나요! 이야 진짜 준수한 분이네~