Husband Helps You Sleep - Relaxing Male ASMR

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  • Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
  • 😈🌶️ Content Here: / relaxingmaleasmr
    Its been a long day at work and its finally time to relax with you. It's always nice to have a quiet little conversation to catch up before going to sleep.
    Oh and I actually did change my oil in my car today which is why my hands were all dirty. I tried to think of an excuse during the video but I couldn't 😂😂
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    Oh and I actually did change my oil in my car today which is why my hands were all dirty. I tried to think of an excuse during the video but I couldn't 😂😂
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  • @RelaxingMaleASMR
    @RelaxingMaleASMR  5 років тому +7361

    I've always had two fears with making this type of video.
    1.) Being too cringey and awkward, instead of respectfully intimate.
    2.) Having the comments filled with hate or inappropriate things that make me feel awkward.
    From the comments so far, neither of those seem to be an issue and for that I'm super happy and grateful. Thank you all so much :)

    • @JoseMorales-bg6cc
      @JoseMorales-bg6cc 5 років тому +94

      We will always love you and support you as well ❤️

    • @crybabyblackcat6659
      @crybabyblackcat6659 5 років тому +140

      Who on earth would hate you? You're so lovely 💙

    • @Jinxs_taxes
      @Jinxs_taxes 5 років тому +35

      I love you too, lol, I saw this pop up and u was like"Yes!" I had to enlarge my screen for pillow talk! Luvit!

    • @MsJoiwind
      @MsJoiwind 5 років тому +60

      Please...it blows my mind you would be the slightest bit apprehensive ever in life. You are the epitome of charismatic. Every man, woman, child, animal, rock, vegetable, mineral should be a huge Tom fan. Thank you for the warmth of your rapport.

    • @auberrydarren32
      @auberrydarren32 5 років тому +12

      I have to agree with all of these replies.

  • @asmarioo
    @asmarioo 5 років тому +17517

    Woke up single - going to bed married. Life's crazy man.

  • @himasf
    @himasf 5 років тому +3787

    "HUSBAND"!? */deletes Tinder*

  • @lissergul3563
    @lissergul3563 5 років тому +4983

    UA-cam was like “girl you need this”

  • @TheGlowingstar123
    @TheGlowingstar123 5 років тому +1282

    Me: turns and looks at husband
    Husband: snores like a dying animal

    • @mariecooper4883
      @mariecooper4883 4 роки тому +18

      😭😭😭

    • @LVela
      @LVela 4 роки тому +7

      Yup

    • @rongrong573
      @rongrong573 4 роки тому +8

      Exactly 😭😭

    • @factsoverfiction7826
      @factsoverfiction7826 4 роки тому +4

      You're a saint, Oppsie.

    • @Yaya.89
      @Yaya.89 4 роки тому +12

      Hahahahahahaha accurate AF. I even woke up telling my husband I want to go to the Grand Canyon haha

  • @jjqq9456
    @jjqq9456 5 років тому +3947

    Husband: How was your day?
    Me: I ate a whole cake
    Husband: Im so proud of you
    Me:😫🥳

    • @zett4251
      @zett4251 5 років тому +33

      🤭🤣🤣

    • @mmssb7
      @mmssb7 5 років тому +39

      OHMYGAHD!!!! LMFAOOOOOO this was too much 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Sumerr22
      @Sumerr22 5 років тому +11

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @fullmentaljacket3375
      @fullmentaljacket3375 5 років тому +6

      Alec Jan 💀

    • @hafsashair2387
      @hafsashair2387 5 років тому +22

      I DEADASS JUST BUSTED OUT LAUGHING 😂😂😂 I FUCKING LOVE YOU

  • @kpickxx1
    @kpickxx1 5 років тому +4667

    I’m officially THIS single...

    • @moonluart1583
      @moonluart1583 5 років тому +61

      Same bruh

    • @sweeetzz
      @sweeetzz 5 років тому +73

      kyle pickle this is not funny but omg this made bust out laughing you made my night

    • @09estalex
      @09estalex 5 років тому +10

      HAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHHHAAHAHAHAHAH

    • @missangelica90
      @missangelica90 5 років тому +7

      Me too! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Itstravbitch
      @Itstravbitch 5 років тому +6

      I’m dead Hahahah

  • @Laney12405
    @Laney12405 5 років тому +229

    I’m not lonely, but I was just having a rough night. This was comforting without being creepy and I appreciate that. 👏🏼

  • @Adrian1111
    @Adrian1111 5 років тому +1642

    My mom: gO WaSh tHe dIsHes!
    Me: Im a married man now you can’t talk to me like that

  • @iMurakami
    @iMurakami 5 років тому +1354

    Went to bed a man claiming to be my husband showed up in my bed. I’m not even complaining.

    • @gmehaywood4010
      @gmehaywood4010 5 років тому +5

      me XD

    • @biscoffology
      @biscoffology 5 років тому +4

      Dr.Marcus Mundy youre everywhere

    • @iMurakami
      @iMurakami 5 років тому +2

      BLUETIERS I am.

    • @itsokaybuttercup5882
      @itsokaybuttercup5882 5 років тому +5

      Change your pic plz it makes you look like youre a flamboyant gay pufferfish.

    • @biscoffology
      @biscoffology 5 років тому +5

      Its Okay Buttercup don’t listen to buttercup 😡 ur pfp is iconic

  • @MonaLisa-tp5nn
    @MonaLisa-tp5nn 5 років тому +4254

    Husband guy: how was your day?
    *Me: stares blankly at screen*
    Husband guy: im proud of you

  • @emilys.2615
    @emilys.2615 4 роки тому +260

    Me: checks how much time is left. Oh no I’m only married for 6 more minutes 🥺😭🤣

  • @Isa-tb5xl
    @Isa-tb5xl 5 років тому +1334

    Him.: how was your day today?
    Me.: *starts crying* so,,,it all started when I was born

    • @Ahornaiya
      @Ahornaiya 5 років тому +18

      Katsuki Chan LMAO

    • @SacredDreamer
      @SacredDreamer 5 років тому +10

      Katsuki Chan -😂 - so REAL !

    • @minadia7855
      @minadia7855 5 років тому +22

      Idk whether to laugh or cry this comment is so relatable 😂😂😂😂😢😢😢

    • @cmcfaddin
      @cmcfaddin 5 років тому +4

      I cried too

    • @ashleyraley8124
      @ashleyraley8124 5 років тому +2

      Awe😆

  • @letsgetthatbread8376
    @letsgetthatbread8376 5 років тому +1671

    Me; “I’ll never get married”
    Him; “hi honey”
    Me shaking; “i.. i do!”

  • @kkkkjjjj3547
    @kkkkjjjj3547 5 років тому +1493

    Husband: how was ur day ?
    Me : I slept all day
    Husband: I just want u to know how proud of u I am .. and how everything is not done until its perfect
    Me: yeah I slept perfectly
    Hhhh so this got 1k ok hhhhhh

  • @amanda5443
    @amanda5443 5 років тому +116

    My fiance passed away a year and a half ago. I'm a single mama, so it was so nice to hear this. You kinda look like him too, so this gave me a whole mixture of emotions, mostly comfort. Thank you for this. You made my broken heart happy for a brief moment ❤

  • @liltortor18
    @liltortor18 5 років тому +1256

    Being a single mother and not hearing these nice things in a while this has made me cry but I needed it.

  • @tashmercer1397
    @tashmercer1397 5 років тому +1347

    When you're too scared to let anyone in again but still want to feel loved. Thank you for this.

  • @makdahm7014
    @makdahm7014 5 років тому +985

    I felt extremely stupid and also content at how often I caught myself smiling at the screen throughout this

    • @GermanPrincess-pe8rl
      @GermanPrincess-pe8rl 5 років тому +1

      🤣

    • @Misslyssaleigh
      @Misslyssaleigh 5 років тому +12

      Girl me too

    • @christinnordberg
      @christinnordberg 5 років тому +1

      SAMEEEE

    • @colinejayne
      @colinejayne 5 років тому +10

      mak dahm It’s like you get into it and sometimes you have flashes of consciousness being « wtf am i doing right now », but you still end up listening and watching anyway

    • @KathrynB621
      @KathrynB621 4 роки тому +1

      Yeah, wishing this was real!

  • @debbieparkerthomas
    @debbieparkerthomas 4 роки тому +51

    I want you to know, I am a 59 year old woman who has been happily married for 40 years and just discovered ASMR. You have an innate sense of what a human being needs to feel heard and valued. Then the gift of instinctively pacing your craft to draw me into a relaxed state while enjoying the ride has been such a gift for me personally. Thank you. Just thank you! I am resting so much better. Hormonal changes at my age causes such insomnia! Thrilled to find you!

  • @paulovillarreal1184
    @paulovillarreal1184 5 років тому +2245

    *cries in single*

  • @brookiedaboss5434
    @brookiedaboss5434 5 років тому +935

    This is not weird there are lots of lonely men and women out here who need this soothing to sleep I think its beautiful.

    • @RelaxingMaleASMR
      @RelaxingMaleASMR  5 років тому +44

      🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • @TheAbdullah1986
      @TheAbdullah1986 5 років тому +3

      Man don't need that to sleep actually we go to the bed to straight sleep ,but females have different desires in this life and this on of it .

    • @emilieveronneau6836
      @emilieveronneau6836 5 років тому +27

      @@TheAbdullah1986 that's not true! My boyfriend loves and desires this as much as I do. Don't put every men on the same boat based on what you do in your own private couple. I know so much guys who, despite who they are outside of their relationship, totally LOVE these types of moments.

    • @TheAbdullah1986
      @TheAbdullah1986 5 років тому

      @@emilieveronneau6836 i mean even for me i like it but not every day cause i believe bad for sex and sleep

    • @فًن-ث5و
      @فًن-ث5و 5 років тому +1

      @@emilieveronneau6836 your boyfriend's gay sis

  • @paulenya9199
    @paulenya9199 5 років тому +4070

    Why was this on my recommend . Even UA-cam knows I am lonely and single. 😂

  • @freezinsjj
    @freezinsjj 4 роки тому +300

    My mom shouting in front of my room door
    “Who’s in the room!!!”

  • @queeneva3
    @queeneva3 5 років тому +3726

    Excuse me but I came here to fall asleep not to fall in love, how dare you

    • @mickacoba9598
      @mickacoba9598 5 років тому +36

      And don't forget, know we are married people xF

    • @mala9060
      @mala9060 5 років тому +3

      Lol 😁

    • @sofi_things
      @sofi_things 5 років тому +2

      Hahaha same 🤣🤣

    • @Yordoh181094
      @Yordoh181094 5 років тому

      Hahahhahah

    • @Marisela285
      @Marisela285 5 років тому +5

      queeneva3 Frs the disrespect lol

  • @jayay2195
    @jayay2195 5 років тому +1295

    You're literally husband material

    • @biscoffology
      @biscoffology 5 років тому +7

      jayay I LOVE YOUR PFP SO MUCH OMFJSJAGAHAHAHAAHAHHAAH

    • @dearmadeline
      @dearmadeline 5 років тому +26

      he’s literally married

    • @pinkpink7219
      @pinkpink7219 5 років тому +5

      He is 😩

    • @missk3214
      @missk3214 5 років тому +2

      Madeline to whom?

    • @dearmadeline
      @dearmadeline 5 років тому +3

      Miss Keyy i don’t know he won’t talk about it, but he has a wedding ring

  • @marmoilep.6143
    @marmoilep.6143 5 років тому +1937

    Husband: what’s your plan for tomorrow
    Me: “breathing “
    Husband: doesn’t sound too bad

  • @FairyCharASMR
    @FairyCharASMR 4 роки тому +292

    You’re demeanor is perfect! Great job on the povs 😊

    • @RelaxingMaleASMR
      @RelaxingMaleASMR  4 роки тому +43

      Huge compliment coming from one of the OGs of ASMR!! 🙏🏻 I was like holy crap Fairy Char!? Thank you ☺️

  • @livliv2719
    @livliv2719 5 років тому +378

    Can’t believe UA-cam recommendations got me married. Finally

  • @kevinpineda3081
    @kevinpineda3081 5 років тому +1028

    I actually felt appreciated by a human being ONCE.
    Loneliness is so destructive

    • @Yourhighnessnona
      @Yourhighnessnona 5 років тому +35

      Nobody deserves to feel lonely. If you'd like to to talk to someone, you are always welcome to send me a message on Instagram. My account is @yourhighnessdonna. You don't have to follow me in order to message me. Just say who you are and I'll remember. My name is Donna X

    • @ksantos0511
      @ksantos0511 5 років тому +15

      Lady Donna You’re so nice Donna, thanks for willingly being an ear to somebody out there🌹

    • @colinejayne
      @colinejayne 5 років тому +6

      Lady Donna You are too precious.

    • @sososo5913
      @sososo5913 5 років тому +4

      @Kevin Pineda You’re not alone! Sending you love!

    • @solitairedoll
      @solitairedoll 5 років тому +2

      Lady Donna you will be blessed for your kindness, Donna.

  • @elliebarness
    @elliebarness 5 років тому +567

    He made me feel like I had somebody to talk to. I'd give you an award if I could.

    • @0S9M
      @0S9M 5 років тому +21

      Same, trust me tho you probably are wanted by someone

    • @user-qw5ip5er5x
      @user-qw5ip5er5x 5 років тому +2

      @@0S9M dont fvck XD

    • @0S9M
      @0S9M 5 років тому +17

      ‡ I’m being honest, someone out there hast to want you. You’re special in your own way and I mean that. You are beautiful unique and wanted

    • @silverlining7298
      @silverlining7298 5 років тому +3

      Same it was emotional as newly single. Just makes me want this one day with someone who loves me x

    • @elliebarness
      @elliebarness 5 років тому +3

      Natalie Kelly you'll find what u deserve one day 🙏🏼

  • @loveyourcreations
    @loveyourcreations 4 роки тому +39

    As someone who was experiencing a panic attack, listening to this while focusing on my breathing was really helpful. To have someone just talk to you about normal things can really help take your mind away from those racing anxiety thoughts... so thank you for this! Super helpful

  • @souphater6428
    @souphater6428 5 років тому +503

    Him: How was your day today?
    Me: Well, I've been playing Sims 4 the whole day, and ate a bunch of cookies...
    Him:.......I just want to say, that I am SO proud of you..
    Me: 😃

    • @RelaxingMaleASMR
      @RelaxingMaleASMR  5 років тому +86

      Nobody plays sims and eats cookies as well as you do. Nobody!

    • @natalieg3872
      @natalieg3872 5 років тому +6

      Well I highly disagree Sir! I could easily play the Sims 4 all day too! & eat cookies too of course...😏😂

    • @J1234J
      @J1234J 5 років тому +7

      soup hater omg I laughed so much at this comment hahahaa ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @CoolMintMC
      @CoolMintMC 5 років тому +3

      Relatable.
      Like, playing The Sims 4 always takes hour of my day away to the point that it's unhealthy. Oof.

    • @Struenda
      @Struenda 5 років тому +1

      Lol 🤣

  • @Toshkii
    @Toshkii 5 років тому +663

    Now when my family ask how my marital status is I can just show them this

  • @nadinehernandez320
    @nadinehernandez320 5 років тому +716

    My boyfriend goes “who are you talking to?” Lmao!

    • @RawrKannibal
      @RawrKannibal 5 років тому +125

      😂 "MY HUSBAND"

    • @parisdupree8940
      @parisdupree8940 5 років тому +14

      My new husband!🤣🤣🤣

    • @Sunflower-sn9ij
      @Sunflower-sn9ij 5 років тому +14

      Lol you should have said it like "Ugh will you shut up! Im just taking to my husband geez"

    • @iloveu1592
      @iloveu1592 5 років тому +5

      Hahah reading this almost made me spit my food out lol. (FaceTime new bf)

    • @alexmedina7266
      @alexmedina7266 5 років тому

      LOL!

  • @k-t2498
    @k-t2498 4 роки тому +31

    After a really rough divorce and after many abusive relationships.Thank you for making sweet moments like this for people who need them..Sometimes its all they have..You never know whos life you save because of these..

  • @rosealarcon4649
    @rosealarcon4649 5 років тому +364

    “ *I am so proud of you* ”
    Thank you husband whom I’ve never met in my life

    • @pamlamcramtam4405
      @pamlamcramtam4405 4 роки тому +14

      Who hurt you?

    • @oliviawilson6213
      @oliviawilson6213 3 роки тому +8

      @@skooma4BabyGhoul you realize that these are real people with emotions? Have some humility. Plus, they’re probably gorgeous because they have a cool sense of humour.

    • @archiesparrow3969
      @archiesparrow3969 3 роки тому +2

      @@skooma4BabyGhoul says you who don't even use your own pic as a profile picture

  • @Sophiave
    @Sophiave 5 років тому +3659

    It's sad, really, when you're feeling so lonely you actually seek comfort from a dude on youtube pretending to be your husband - and it works

    • @colinejayne
      @colinejayne 5 років тому +190

      Sophia I feel attacked

    • @xju1ia
      @xju1ia 5 років тому +58

      Stop ✋

    • @captaincool6268
      @captaincool6268 5 років тому +48

      shhh

    • @stephaniebanda5219
      @stephaniebanda5219 5 років тому +131

      I think it’s great that thousands of people can find comfort in a strangers work via the magic of the internet

    • @ruok-l5t
      @ruok-l5t 5 років тому +1

      Stephanie Spice can you make one pls

  • @gerardoa5496
    @gerardoa5496 5 років тому +1510

    This made me realize how single I really am

    • @samwalker3165
      @samwalker3165 5 років тому +20

      I'm so single I sold my love life on eBay as "brand new". I'm 28. The buyer gave me a top review.

    • @radik_kinay
      @radik_kinay 5 років тому

      Me too

    • @allyc9606
      @allyc9606 5 років тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Elysekiera
      @Elysekiera 5 років тому

      Haha sammmeee

    • @carmelacalogero9227
      @carmelacalogero9227 5 років тому

      Same

  • @jayaag
    @jayaag 2 роки тому +15

    I can't believe how much I appreciate such a respectful soothing conversation without any creepiness! I wish all the guys can learn from you. You know what a woman wants to hear after a tiring day. I smiled and felt comforted while watching you. I can hear you talking for millions of years ...I want to say for you anything, with you anywhere! Thank you for making me believe that good guys still exist!

  • @ITS_CXNNXR
    @ITS_CXNNXR 5 років тому +719

    Now I’m ready for PT 2 HUSBAND WAKES YOU UP IN THE MORNING 🤗🥰

    • @thefightforlife8868
      @thefightforlife8868 5 років тому +9

      Yes we need this

    • @RelaxingMaleASMR
      @RelaxingMaleASMR  5 років тому +54

      Not a bad idea!

    • @chrisdamian9917
      @chrisdamian9917 5 років тому +3

      Please do this !

    • @dylanmiller3785
      @dylanmiller3785 5 років тому

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    • @sara-dr4dv
      @sara-dr4dv 5 років тому +3

      Yes! OMG please

  • @alinagonzalez7050
    @alinagonzalez7050 5 років тому +389

    What am I gonna tell my parents. I’m 13 and fell asleep married. Life’s crazy man

    • @RelaxingMaleASMR
      @RelaxingMaleASMR  5 років тому +103

      *gets text from FBI*
      😅

    • @chezza2116
      @chezza2116 5 років тому

      Hahaha!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @alinagonzalez7050
      @alinagonzalez7050 5 років тому

      Iwillpoundyourbooty Andlynchyou uh no wtf

    • @codyscreams9667
      @codyscreams9667 5 років тому

      @Iwillpoundyourbooty Andlynchyou I think she understood.

    • @twdjt6245
      @twdjt6245 5 років тому

      You just made this man a criminal 😂

  • @dreamscape405
    @dreamscape405 5 років тому +177

    This made me cry. I've never had this type of person in my life. This made me relax and feel connected.

    • @AnnaRita84
      @AnnaRita84 4 роки тому +1

      Dore ́ Love same for me.

    • @katarinabruso9852
      @katarinabruso9852 2 роки тому +3

      I am also crying this is all I ever wanted which is sad.

    • @h8h8z
      @h8h8z Рік тому

      Same.

  • @JeonJungkook-to2nl
    @JeonJungkook-to2nl 4 роки тому +172

    him taking off his tie:
    me:🤰🤰🤰🤰🤰

  • @lunaForever2020
    @lunaForever2020 5 років тому +2903

    How many wifes laying next to their husband's watching this tho lol 😂

    • @justbeingdaisy
      @justbeingdaisy 5 років тому +146

      I'm engaged & I feel a little guilty watching this hehe 🤭

    • @ridakhan4068
      @ridakhan4068 5 років тому +10

      Lol mee

    • @dinahnicole2240
      @dinahnicole2240 5 років тому +11

      ......

    • @TheAbdullah1986
      @TheAbdullah1986 5 років тому +23

      😄 they said females never cheating but i guess every one have different way!

    • @nicolecoldren5573
      @nicolecoldren5573 5 років тому +129

      🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️ I told my husband.... "look what my husband's doing... he says I'm awesome!!" He told me to give him a kiss for him too lol

  • @kaitiekee4444
    @kaitiekee4444 5 років тому +570

    Husband: “You going to watch that ASMR stuff again before bed?”
    Me: “Bruh, you gotta go to the couch. My other husband is coming home at any minute.”
    Husband: “?????”
    Me: “I said what I said.”

  • @TamiiMarie
    @TamiiMarie 5 років тому +207

    I literally had a conversation with him the whole time. Would kill to have somebody like him to love and fall asleep next to everyday.
    He is a gorgeous person.

  • @lust_for_life_17
    @lust_for_life_17 3 роки тому +11

    The inclusivity speaks volumes. Thanks so much for remaining open to all viewers when it comes to asmr like this 🙌🏼✨

  • @1Aneesa.Zahra1
    @1Aneesa.Zahra1 5 років тому +392

    I actually fixed my hair up a little until I realised he can't see me through the camera 😂

  • @falonmoira7251
    @falonmoira7251 5 років тому +657

    All jokes set aside. I hope our husband knows how healing something like this is to men and women who have been victims of physical and Mental abuse. I haven’t dated many people at all in my life because of one bad relationship And a whole lot of daddy issues. I’ve done a lot of inner healing and am holding out for the right partner. So hearing a male speak such love and positivity in such a way that feels so natural and normal was super healing and comforting for me. You helped give me a real life visual on what it feels and looks like to be with a partner who loves and cares for you and genuinely loves being by your side. Thank you!!

    • @isabelx8191
      @isabelx8191 5 років тому +13

      I WAS JUST THINKING THE SAME THING 🥰😭

    • @dropharuspici8181
      @dropharuspici8181 5 років тому +12

      You know it may be a bit different in real (even better🙃) but you have a clear point, this guy just reduced my social anxiety to ash. Yea I get it what it feels to live with mental scarification of abusive relationship, wish you all the best and find that one eventually, girl!
      🤗🌹

    • @rhiannamae6075
      @rhiannamae6075 5 років тому +13

      I hope you find the love that you deserve 💖

    • @edithmalilwe1070
      @edithmalilwe1070 4 роки тому +5

      true

    • @ellashealthnhappiness5040
      @ellashealthnhappiness5040 4 роки тому +6

      Falon Moira
      You are a warrior. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ying-shijie
    @ying-shijie 5 років тому +294

    I nearly cried with relief watching this. It's been such a painful, exhausting week and my insomnia has been so terrible. This popped up in the recommendations and I clicked it expecting to cringe and quit about a minute in but this felt so safe and cosy for awhile. Thanks for letting me play pretend with you for awhile in the most innocent way possible you lovely man

    • @RelaxingMaleASMR
      @RelaxingMaleASMR  5 років тому +37

      Awh I’m glad you liked it. Sorry you had such a bad week 😔

    • @cleopatramoonsong3919
      @cleopatramoonsong3919 5 років тому +14

      Thats a cute comment

    • @ying-shijie
      @ying-shijie 5 років тому +3

      @@cleopatramoonsong3919 thank you I'd like to think it reflects the commenter. Unless you meant him then yeah it definitely reflects the commenter, he's very good looking isn't he? All around pleasant wholesome vibes, bless him

    • @carinagadaleta5822
      @carinagadaleta5822 5 років тому +1

      @@ying-shijie I feel you sister with the insomnia it has been horrible for me as well

  • @lisasollenberger4387
    @lisasollenberger4387 4 роки тому +7

    I'm in the middle of beating my depression and anxiety and the moment he said I'm proud of you I just started crying.first positive thing I've heard all month
    Thank you

  • @AlilBitAlexxis
    @AlilBitAlexxis 5 років тому +1298

    Does your wife know that you have 13,000 new spouses, cuz you do

    • @RelaxingMaleASMR
      @RelaxingMaleASMR  5 років тому +107

      hahahaha

    • @missk3214
      @missk3214 5 років тому +14

      I don’t think he has a wife but a husband

    • @hinasofy229
      @hinasofy229 5 років тому +3

      @@missk3214 is he gay?

    • @shabua8458
      @shabua8458 5 років тому

      Alexis V taken WeirdChamp go back to your daddy

    • @advt7524
      @advt7524 5 років тому +5

      @@hinasofy229 i hope so 😍😍

  • @mackenziesherry4894
    @mackenziesherry4894 5 років тому +681

    My sister suddenly barged into my room..
    She was so shocked n asked me "Whom the guy you're video calling with?!"
    And I was speechless for some seconds before answering.."ummm.. my husband?"
    😂😂😂

    • @josetheboss913
      @josetheboss913 4 роки тому +11

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @k-t2498
      @k-t2498 4 роки тому +2

      Nice

    • @saraalsowaid9428
      @saraalsowaid9428 4 роки тому +3

      Noo waayyyy😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @lisagentel9109
      @lisagentel9109 4 роки тому +1

      😂

    • @graceibarra5224
      @graceibarra5224 4 роки тому

      😂😂

  • @shaniasorbit
    @shaniasorbit 5 років тому +912

    Me: “i should go to sleep it’s 12am”
    *scrolls down*
    UA-cam: “husband asmr”

  • @doolallyshake64
    @doolallyshake64 4 роки тому +68

    This was COMPLETELY unrealistic. There's no way this good looking guy would want to be my husband. Lol.

  • @jockmaraisasmr5700
    @jockmaraisasmr5700 5 років тому +1339

    This is not helping me cope with my excessive desire to be in a relationship.

  • @ScootDoot1977
    @ScootDoot1977 5 років тому +1712

    I’m Already married but this is a better husband than my current one
    *its now May 2020 and I still stand by this statement

    • @Gulya1012
      @Gulya1012 5 років тому +34

      😂

    • @chezza2116
      @chezza2116 5 років тому +41

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Gce880809
      @Gce880809 5 років тому +66

      Well shet 😂

    • @beasmarty
      @beasmarty 5 років тому +9

      He-man is a traveling man

    • @RawrKannibal
      @RawrKannibal 5 років тому +5

      Mood 😂

  • @twdjt6245
    @twdjt6245 5 років тому +610

    My first thought after starting this video is: “wtf is this?”.
    By the time I’m 3 minutes in, I’m ashamed to like it
    By the end I’m crying because at this point in my life, I sometimes feel like this is the closest I’ll probably ever get to to feeling actual companionship/love.
    FML.

    • @RelaxingMaleASMR
      @RelaxingMaleASMR  5 років тому +74

      Awh I hope you find someone 🙏🏻☺️

    • @JessLaFesse82
      @JessLaFesse82 5 років тому +4

      Why wouldnt you find someone? I know all type of special people that are in couple

    • @edithmalilwe1070
      @edithmalilwe1070 4 роки тому +7

      this is so sad. ..and so me

    • @guendymora9164
      @guendymora9164 4 роки тому

      Same💔😞

    • @hannariosleal435
      @hannariosleal435 4 роки тому +1

      Dude I feel so. Lonely that im conscient that im looking this kind of stuff online, and I was okay with that but then I saw the comments and feel kind of ashamed that Im laughing at myself and crying at the same time

  • @monakabbani8181
    @monakabbani8181 4 роки тому +5

    You’ve managed to pull off an intimate asmr video in the most natural way possible. this is pure gold and you’re voice is AMAZING!!!! thank you for this and now i’ve subscribed !

  • @abdance2010
    @abdance2010 5 років тому +79

    Y’all. If you’re new here, this video and channel is so important. Most ASMR is relaxing, soothing, borderline tickle tingly. Great for relaxing the mind.
    But this.... this and a few other vids like the hug video legit heal the soul. In a non perverse way, I feel connected, understood, loved and accepted. This is where you set the bar for friendships and relationships.

    • @RelaxingMaleASMR
      @RelaxingMaleASMR  5 років тому +13

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate this for real. Made me feel very proud of my channel!

    • @bbyd0ll1
      @bbyd0ll1 5 років тому +1

      Aaron Bishop I’m not big into ASMR and kept seeing this in my recommended so I clicked on it, after 10 minutes i felt like I needed someone who would appreciate me as much as this guy. So when you said “this is where you set the bar for friendship and relationships” I FELT THAT!

  • @mrryan70
    @mrryan70 5 років тому +520

    This is a marriage 1st year in.
    Second year: Husband walks in, blows fart, says to wife 'did you take the garbage out?'

    • @TheMelissapalidisa
      @TheMelissapalidisa 5 років тому +19

      mrdrew73 well this happens even 1 Day after the marriage! I can tell xD

    • @alyahamzah1952
      @alyahamzah1952 5 років тому +3

      😂😂😂😙😂😂

    • @jeannej1153
      @jeannej1153 5 років тому +13

      LMFAOOO the farrrrt

    • @Pathrissia
      @Pathrissia 5 років тому

      Haahahaha

    • @aaliyahc.10
      @aaliyahc.10 5 років тому +34

      Ah so the romance never stops?

  • @howverydeadly23
    @howverydeadly23 5 років тому +242

    We are all so affection starved that we watch husband ASMR, but hey I’m not complaining lol

    • @beruze5342
      @beruze5342 4 роки тому +5

      This hit hard :( "affection starved" I- I am

  • @babygirl279
    @babygirl279 4 роки тому +176

    As responsible wife I felt bad that you haven’t eaten anything through out the whole video, I swear I wanted to make you something 😂😂

    • @noname-tq5bz
      @noname-tq5bz 4 роки тому +2

      Omg🤣

    • @skooma4BabyGhoul
      @skooma4BabyGhoul 4 роки тому +1

      😶😕

    • @kinuit
      @kinuit 4 роки тому +1

      🤐🤐

    • @deliaveromendez
      @deliaveromendez 4 роки тому +6

      That´s what I thought! This man is such loving and kind that I would make dinner for him, in fact, when he said "I can bring you something like tea" it felt so nice... I would do it with love

    • @Elogleking
      @Elogleking 3 роки тому

      😆

  • @organizajoan257
    @organizajoan257 5 років тому +192

    I've never had this experience in my life.

    • @lavendergilly5843
      @lavendergilly5843 5 років тому +1

      Try having it and losing it. Count your blessings

  • @howverydeadly23
    @howverydeadly23 5 років тому +1256

    Y’all ever realize how lonely we are? We are literally watching a guy pretending to be our husband on UA-cam lmao (I’m not complaining though)

    • @AS-xj2rs
      @AS-xj2rs 5 років тому +46

      HowVeryDeadly your pic makes ur comment so much better

    • @HorseshitDetectionAgency
      @HorseshitDetectionAgency 4 роки тому +12

      you have a pretty smile I'm proud of you

    • @hannariosleal435
      @hannariosleal435 4 роки тому +26

      Im crying and laughing of myself at same time

    • @marilynclark7298
      @marilynclark7298 4 роки тому +2

      Wait...what? Who said that? Hey...who else are you talking to? Lmao.

    • @Misendei
      @Misendei 4 роки тому +11

      Hey guys r we all Capricorns? XD

  • @pitypirate
    @pitypirate 5 років тому +1370

    i'm a lesbian i don't know what i'm doing here but i had fun

  • @janica.4688
    @janica.4688 4 роки тому +27

    Everyone needs a husband like that who is really care about your day, your thoughts and your feelings.
    I don’t know what to think about the whole ASMR hype but I am sure we are lonely on a planet full of people.
    Hope for everyone of you who is reading this that you will find your husband or wife that is love you and appreciate you. All the lonely hearts out there: you are loved.

    • @carolyningalls4580
      @carolyningalls4580 4 роки тому +2

      Ive been married over 16 years .I am so sad and feel so lonely.
      What I would give for a husband to love me .
      Im so weary.
      And Chronically ill .

  • @Sausagesmomma
    @Sausagesmomma 5 років тому +313

    I came for the comments 😂😂😂😂 now I’m crying laughing in bed but wishing this dude were in it with me

    • @odu6918
      @odu6918 4 роки тому +1

      @@r8219l HAHAHAHAHHHAHHAH

    • @kristenm8221
      @kristenm8221 4 роки тому +1

      Corinne Linnea omg me too my bf thinks I’m nuts

    • @janiecampeauroasting619
      @janiecampeauroasting619 4 роки тому

      My ol man thought I was talking to someone on the phone through Bluetooth speaker, and said "hang up already", then I told it was UA-cam, wishing he'd be this way, now I made him feel like a little boy,again, that's why I love him because of the ways I could fool him and tell him nothing but the truth!!!it's all about the way a person could make you feel, I'm kinda teaching him in a way!!lol

    • @janiecampeauroasting619
      @janiecampeauroasting619 4 роки тому

      Lmao

  • @escarletelumiere
    @escarletelumiere 5 років тому +236

    Ladies and gentlemen, a tutorial on "how to be a good husband" 😊

    • @dymekradek
      @dymekradek 5 років тому +1

      Maybe it is a tutorial on "how to be a good nanny for a horribly lonely female living her life with no chance to fuck"?

  • @titleAzure
    @titleAzure 5 років тому +449

    If I had a husband like this I wouldn’t want to sleep 😍

  • @schnioula
    @schnioula 4 роки тому +89

    I turned my back on him and let him talk, feels like a real marriage already.. 😁

  • @ToshaMarie_01
    @ToshaMarie_01 5 років тому +775

    I'm new here and I'm already married? You work fast Jesus, very fast 😊😊🤧

  • @taykhamilton
    @taykhamilton 5 років тому +179

    Me: purposely clicks on this video
    Also me: husband can you hush I’m trying to sleep

  • @pauladomene7623
    @pauladomene7623 5 років тому +42

    This made me definetely NOT want to sleep, I just wanted to listen and have an actual conversation. I’ve never felt so loved in my life. This is actually beautiful.

  • @manakatt
    @manakatt 2 роки тому +3

    Oh my God, this kind of simple closeness and sweet gentle talking is so needed & beautiful. 🥺😭 I miss this irl. Thank you!

  • @athena9276
    @athena9276 5 років тому +411

    I’m in a relationship of 4 years & this just made me realize how single I am

  • @angelinaaragon9940
    @angelinaaragon9940 5 років тому +276

    I couldn’t stop smiling, and than I found myself answering back to him 🙈

  • @erihess2936
    @erihess2936 5 років тому +705

    More husband or boyfriend Videos pls and tell me that i am beautiful etc.

  • @mushipoo
    @mushipoo 4 роки тому +4

    Honestly this was a lot less weird than I thought! Perfect mix of intimate yet respectful. I didn't need something that would leave me with weird feelings of desire, but it wasn't like that at all. It was 100% clean and just really sweet and comforting, and truly helped. Thank you!

  • @sofi_things
    @sofi_things 5 років тому +373

    I didn’t fall asleep, I fell in love 😂😂❤️😄😊

  • @rebecabautista4174
    @rebecabautista4174 5 років тому +223

    Him: “I haven’t eaten anything either”
    Me: *Eyes fly open* WHAT?! Let me make you something! Oh wait... 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @pitachipspm
    @pitachipspm 5 років тому +175

    There’s something about the way you look at the camera. It feels so intimate 😩 and the way you smile Jesus 🥴

    • @nenilove5100
      @nenilove5100 5 років тому +1

      Pita Mendez I know right, I love this dude

    • @glacessadry9988
      @glacessadry9988 5 років тому

      Exactly omggg it felt soo realll

  • @kookktaee9959
    @kookktaee9959 4 роки тому +40

    “Are you lost babygOrl”

  • @JoseMorales-bg6cc
    @JoseMorales-bg6cc 5 років тому +112

    I need a boyfriend/husband like you! You're so relaxing to me

  • @Mischeyy
    @Mischeyy 5 років тому +432

    Husband: how was your day.
    Me: constipated
    Husband: I'm so proud of you.

  • @johncharnock6872
    @johncharnock6872 5 років тому +110

    I love it when he comes into the bedroom removing his tie...

  • @ASMRMissMi
    @ASMRMissMi 4 роки тому +21

    THATS AWESOME ☺️ found you and subbed 🤩

  • @sincerely106
    @sincerely106 5 років тому +69

    WHEN HE SMILED OMFG 😭🖤

  • @crystalcc8833
    @crystalcc8833 5 років тому +168

    Lord Help me, THIS is what a husband should say and do with their wife. How do you talk into that camera like you’re talking to my soul!

  • @fatimanicolehadjirul7564
    @fatimanicolehadjirul7564 5 років тому +342

    I think I'm gonna be pregnant after watching this.
    Edit : Thanks for the likes
    Please visit my channel, thank you!!

  • @ashleykirkland6382
    @ashleykirkland6382 6 місяців тому +1

    Seeking to fill an authentic void of what it is that is missing. Thank you for truly helping and providing an example of what a loving husband would care about. Well done.

  • @matthansen1561
    @matthansen1561 5 років тому +83

    Hey, as long as you don’t mind probably about half your audience (including me) being men, make as many of these as you want. You have a fantastic way of broadcasting empathy and intimacy. This was an absolute pleasure to watch. It’s been a while since my last relationship, it reminded me of and made me miss the human connection that comes with it.

    • @mizzfamouz1
      @mizzfamouz1 5 років тому +5

      I agree. We crave this simple connection. Society makes relationships so complicated and have people wanting the wrong things to look for in a person. Its all so simple. Love the person. Give and take. Its a friendship partnership of two beings living together. Put the ego and pride down. Enjoy each company. Ends in happiness.

    • @storm6245
      @storm6245 5 років тому

      I'm just curious, do you feel giddy watching this?

  • @milanahoward4736
    @milanahoward4736 5 років тому +114

    Whoa, a Chris Evans and Adam Levine hybrid. I know you'll be helping lots of people relax and fall asleep easier

    • @wandawest243
      @wandawest243 5 років тому +2

      Milana Howard omg yes lol. He does look like a Chris Evans and Adam Levine hybrid

  • @katiejoe1844
    @katiejoe1844 5 років тому +29

    I haven't even been a relationship before but I feel like I've been loved for an eternity. Thank you

  • @oceancitywrestling
    @oceancitywrestling 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks!

  • @vee5079
    @vee5079 5 років тому +80

    And my friends thought I'd never get married

  • @ESEBEI53
    @ESEBEI53 5 років тому +375

    20 minutes later
    me; I don’t even know your name but i’m ok that we’re married

  • @eniosoares6667
    @eniosoares6667 5 років тому +222

    I feel so old single lady with seven cats watching this

    • @iamnatalieanne
      @iamnatalieanne 4 роки тому +6

      Single, 27, almost 28, 2 rats. I feel you.

    • @iamnatalieanne
      @iamnatalieanne 4 роки тому +2

      @You'll never know me because this is the internet that's good, trust me, it's better that way. I've been celibate for 7 years and nothing shows you more what people's true intentions are than taking sex off the table. I wish I'd waited like I wanted to when I was younger. That being said, yes, single at 28 is rough when you're celibate and want a commitment and living in a sea of men (and women) who want sex and no commitment. I think the people who are vocal about being single are just venting about not finding others with similar values. At least that's the case for me.

    • @iamnatalieanne
      @iamnatalieanne 4 роки тому +1

      @You'll never know me because this is the internet also, not assuming that you're waiting purposefully. But if it makes you feel better, 3 of my closest friends are all virgins and all over 27. 👍😅

    • @iamnatalieanne
      @iamnatalieanne 4 роки тому +2

      @You'll never know me because this is the internet Don't let anyone tell you that you're sad for not wanting certain things. If you're happy, then that's all that should matter. :) If you're asexual and not interested in anyone romantically, trust me, it just helps with not having as much drama in your life. However, most people aren't like that, which is why you get people like me that comment because they want a relationship with a foundation of friendship and a partner, but the majority of the available people my age only want sex. Live your life the way YOU want it, because you're the one that has to live it and be happy with it. :)

    • @gertiegert3910
      @gertiegert3910 4 роки тому +1

      @You'll never know me because this is the internetthis is the best husband. He doesn't lie , cheat, have stinky feet, he's loyal. Just enjoy him

  • @Flicka1April2
    @Flicka1April2 3 роки тому +4

    This is such a great example of healthy love, thank you!