I Want More Out of Life… Am I Selfish? | Grocery Haul & Kitchen Reset |

Today, I’m sharing a simple part of my day,
which is resetting the kitchen after a grocery haul, making lunch for my kids, and organizing our space. But beneath these everyday tasks, I’m wrestling with deeper questions: Am I selfish for wanting more out of life?
In this video, I reflect on my evolving dreams, the pressure to fit in, and the tension between contentment and ambition. As a working mom, wife, and woman with big aspirations, I’m learning to navigate these feelings while trusting God’s purpose for my life.
Let’s chat in the comments:
Have you ever felt torn between gratitude for what you have and the desire for more?
Connect with me:
Instagram: @simplytumi
Scriptures Mentioned:
Proverbs 19:21 - “Many are the plans in a man’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.”
Psalm 32:8 - “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.”
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[@wandilehlabangane3484]

Oh Tumi!!!! You literally made me cry because… I am where you were when you answered your colleague in 2016, that’s literally what I want right now in my life.
Praying for you to be seen as you evolve in alignment to God’s will and purpose for your life 💛🌻🍃

[@simplytumi]

I pray that God gives all the desires of your heart Wandile. Thank you so much for your prayers🤗🤗🤗

[@nomaswazigloriadlamini9064]

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[@kholo-g5n]

Thank you for this…true, you are not the only one.

[@simplytumi]

Thanks Kholo. I’m glad I’m not. And I believe God will guide us in the right and more peace path.

[@mahlogonolomolaba8365]

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[@simplytumi]

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[@LizekaMM]

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[@simplytumi]

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[@wandilehlabangane3484]

A wise woman once said: “You can have it all, just not at once.” I have met soooo many women who do not believe this is the case and so they go after all it. It’s possible sis, just remember to never forget God in your pursuits 💛🌻🍃

[@simplytumi]

So true Sis. Getting the timing right in God’s calendar for our lives is so significant.🌻

[@tselanemoloke2743]

Wanting more out of life is not selfishness, it is a sign that you are not stagnant, that you are not where you used to be and that you are evolving… Every season comes with its own desires and that is Ok as long as we keep God at the Centre of it all… Beautiful Video🫶🏾❤️

[@simplytumi]

So true sis. Thank you so much for your wisdom and perspective.🤗