I’m twelve years old. To the people at school, I’m the smart one. I have a weird laugh. I’m quiet. I don’t really fit in anywhere. The people at school..they don’t see underneath. They see me for who they think I am, and then they don’t take the time to get to know me. The real me. I sing when I’m home alone. I cry at sad songs and sad movies. I have a crazy imagination I’m a picky eater The books in my room are color coordinated and my phone wallpaper is a quote from my favorite musical. I’m a great listener. I love love stories, because I long for one myself. I give my whole heart to every person I meet because I can’t find love for myself. To all the people at school: to Riley, to Alexis, to Maddy, to Nick, to Raionna, even to Natalie; please try, so that I can take a break from doing so. edit: For several months now I've been monitoring the replies to this post. Hearing that there are so many people that can relate to my story and are going through the same thing is very reassuring, and I smile every time I see a new reply. In case anyone was curious, here's an update: I'm thirteen now, and I'll be fourteen soon. I've been diagnosed with depression and I see a therapist regularly. I have gotten "worse" since this original post, but I'm happy to say that, in a lot of other ways, I've gotten better. I have great friends, a loving family, and as of last month, a parakeet!! (whom I love very much). I want anyone reading this to know that IT DOES GET BETTER. I haven't gotten there completely yet, but every day I try my best to improve. Even if it seems like it'll be this way forever, it won't, I promise. And to anyone struggling with self-love specifically: I'll bet you are beautiful, inside and out. That pimple on your nose isn't actually that big. Your hair looked cute today, even though you thought it was messy. Maybe you weren't as kind as you could've been today, but that's okay. You always have the chance to start over tomorrow, so take it. If there's one thing I've learned, it's that. ~ Kylie
I somewhat understand your pain I'm always happy to others and can't bring myself to hurt others. Recently I have been having mental breakdowns,as soon as I leave my room I act happy, like I'm putting a mask on.It got so bad I did something pretty bad. I always seem like a positive, attention seeking, person when really I'm a ball of self-doubt and hate. Stay positive, don't do anything harsh like I did.
I hate when people judge for no reason. This is a good song for Bullying. I have gone through bullying my whole life, and its still hard to get over it. It is very damaging, but I always give and give. I get up everyday faking my anxiety and depression all thanks to the bullying, and family issues I have.. please keep my family in prayers.. going strong still, but we still got issues.
Stay strong! I believe you can be who you are, without being bullied for it! Eventually you'll show all of them and prove them wrong :3 You're so much better than the people who insult you to feel good about themselves.
every time someone says something mean to me, I just say, "sorry, I have this hearing problem, I can't hear when people say mean stuff about me... " then laugh and walk away. it shows them that you don't care and that you never will care, so they eventually stop.
+Fluffycat156 you have to show them that you don't care. I was bullied for years and years, and I learned that if you laugh it off and walk away, they'll stop. the reason that bullies bully is because they feel bad about themselves, so they bring others down to make them stronger. if you show them that they can't bring you down, they stop.
“Your skin is not paper, don't cut it. Your face is not a mask, don't hide it. Your size is not a book, don't judge it. Your life is not a film, don't end it.”
Edme and Faulon The Gaming Gnaw Wolves Y-yes... we are all beautiful,wonderful,fantastic..and nothing can change that. It's better to be you,than be a fake.. I'm n-not crying..the ninjas are back at it again cutting onions with the sharp blades of feels ;~;
My grandmother was diagnosed with brain cancer a little bit ago and she suffers from depression and thinks she's ugly and worth anything but the truth is my grandma my hero and perfect the way she is❤
Your skin is not paper....don't cut it......your face isn't a mask.....don't hide it......your size isn't a book......don't judge it......your life isn't a film.....don't end it 💜
🙁that has been me all my life. When I read something like that it makes me feel confident. U are true size doesn’t matter. I hope you have a really good day 😔🙃
I am 10 and when I was younger, i wanted yo make a girl I didn't like and everyone else liked like me, so I faked about liking cats, now I like cats because I faked it for so long I regret doing that every day. I also have friends who are so skinny, their hair is like silk, they wear 'cool' outfits. Everyone always says they are so cool and compliments them. I feel too big, then I feel to skinny, mom says my hair is terrible then I want to scresm, my hair is ugly. I also always doubt I'm smart. I take tests and pass but always am last or first to finish, "how us everyone else done and I'm not?, I just speed through I messed up didn't I" I always freak out. My friends cry or say they arnt popular and are very quickly, everyone is so sorry, there life must suck, I cry, I'm just being ridiculous. Listening to this song and singing makes me happy and feel good at something.
I sang this song for my sisters funeral. She struggled with anxiety and depression for many years. After time she recovered and she was her happy 14 year old self again. Then one day.. she was gone. What we didn’t notice is she didn’t recover. She wasn’t happy. It was fake. She had battled for to long. The battle had to end. And I still love you alannah. You were brave 😭
2 years later, I am so extremely sorry this happened to you. I know how much it hurts to lose someone/something and you always think about something, or see something, that reminds you of them, I just want you to know you got this and keep going, it will get better I promise, she's watching over, loving you and being proud everyday. You got this. - Addi
This song is so emotional it makes me cry all the time but I still love this song sooo much this song should be number ☝ 1 in trending It is super inspiring I just luv it so much
Don't be so hard on yourself. No one is perfect. It's just not possible. We were made different to make life more interesting. I used to hide part of my personality, because I found people who made feel bad because of it. Then I found someone who excepts every bit of me. I fangirl. They let me fangirl. I obsess. They let me obsess. They like me because I act like me. And I like them because they stay true to themself. For those of you who cause self harm, or hate themself, or just want to die; don't feel that way. We were put on this planet to live. We're all different, and that's okay. Embrace what makes you different. You'll find people who love you for it. Whoever you are, I love you. You're you, and that makes you awesome. Don't change yourself for other people. Just be you
You random person are the best. I read the part about self hard and hating themselves. I will try not to do that anymore cause this comment inspired me. :)
Why does this song have to be *deppressing*? I just got Confirmed and I am so filled of joy. This song really encourages me to be stronger and never give up.
I’m fat and I want to lose weight. When I say that to others, they think I’m trying to lose weight just to get more attention. But I told them that I’m not doing that for attention. I’m doing that so that I can feel better for myself and have more confidence (and actually wear clothes that are my style since I couldn’t cause of my body). I don’t know why but I just felt like I needed to say this. The song was so good ☺️
In the name of the lord I pray for you right now that jimination blue has self confidence let them see that you don’t make mistakes that they are perfect maybe not in the eyes of their selves or others but the eyes of you and now I say amen. Jimination blue I’m 14 I only weigh 90 pounds I want to gain weight so have confidence bc we cane both do what we want to do
Random Person awwww this is so sweet! And def being underweight is not different from being overweight at all and I really hope you can get your desired weight! I’m 14 but weight 135 and am constantly being told that I’m fat or that I gained weight and need to lose some even by my own family but due to personal problems, I can’t work on my weight or haven’t found the right conditions yet. I wish you to become more healthy and beautiful than you already are! ❤️
For all the women that believe they need make up to dress and impress to be attractive: That's not true. If someone is truly going to be attracted to you and love you, then they will be just as loving and attracted to you on your sick days and days where you're not going to dress up. I'm truly sorry that guys can be shallow minded and hearted. But that's the qaulity of love is not? To find the one person that will appreciate you more than anyone else is. Don't give up, and stay true to your own natural beauty.
Love is gentle, not forceful. It's not love that actually hurts you, it's the absence of it. Love isn't forcing the person you're with into the person you want them to be, Love is knowing that person will change on their own, and to be with them when that happens and to still show them the same love.
+Sam Grey i felt useless to every one... how i am at school, i feel complete useless and dumb/ugly/stupid. sometimes i wish i had no life, some girl is being really rude/mean to me, she's making me feel like i should give up each minute! im not sure about how valuable my life is to me... :'(
+coolanimals102 AJ You're not useless. The fact is, She is being ugly to you. The keyword there is "She is being ugly." Do you really want to be valued by someone as cruel as her? I wouldn't. Some people are going to make your life hell, you just have to look them in the eye and say "No, this is who I am." I would say you have no reason to be like her. In fact, I don't know why you would even want to be like her. She's as fake as her words. It's not that your life is meaningless, the fact is that considering how she treats you, she should be meaningless to you. Keep your head up and your pretty heart bright. There's no reason to let her dim it.
I'd just like to say.... You're probably sitting where you are right now, reading this comment, listening to this song and thinking 'I'm not pretty. I'm so ugly. All the other girls in my school are so beautiful and I'm not' etc. I relate to the last thing I said. Yeah there are girls in my school who ARE prettier than me. And you guys are feeling so insecure about the way you look. But.. I want to tell you something. Love the way you are. God made you look like yourself. God never makes mistakes. Wether you think so or not he made you with beauty in mind. Never let anyone tell you different
I suffer from mild depression, for my bad and awkward looks, body maturity, and my size. Weighing at 124 Lbs and thick thighs for a 13 year old I felt like that was way way too over weight so I stopped eating for about two weeks only nibbling on very little which resulted in worrying my mom and sisters. I always feel like I'm pushing everyone away and making them worry. My sisters helped me realise I'm only human and no everyone is gonna be perfect, so please don't judge yourself and love yourself for who you are only human, and human is not perfect. You all are beautiful!! 👌
I'm 11 I weigh 118 and I have deppsion (I know I spelled that wrong) I think I have it cause I want to cut (I don't) and I cry a lot because my uncle died in jail.😦
I weight almost 160 lbs and I'm 13. And YOU think YOU'RE fat?! Common you aren't even close to being overweight, stop lying to yourself, besides I'm sure you're a beautiful person!
I suffer from depression of my appearance. Don't worry about what others think of you. As long as you trust someone or yourself, then you can fight it back. Stand up, don't fake yourself. Cause you know that your real self what's to be liked.
people comite suicde almost everyday because of this things being judged bullied heart breaks and more why arfe peope so mean when we all can just learn what we have in commen instade of what we don have in commen and remmber YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL IN THE INSIDE AND OUT AND F YOUR KIND HEARTED GOOD THINGS WILL HAPPEN TO YOU BUT YOU CANT STOP THE BAD THINGS FROM HAPPENING JUST KEEP LOOKING UP AND SMILING AND NOUGHTING I REPEAT NOUGHTING IS GONG TO BRING YOU DOWN
Ok, this comment section is bringing me down, so this is what I have to say I'm 12 I have back problems that make me feel like a grandma I've got acne I have too many scars to count My legs aren't the same length I feel fat sometimes But ... I have friends who don't care about my appearance or my past, and if your friends do, they're not the right people to be thought of as your friends. You're all so amazing and so beautiful, no matter the size, shape, color, race, gender, or mindset
hey, you don't have to take uneven limbs as a flaw hun. I have uneven shoulders, which make my arms (to me) noticeably off length. Uneven legs and hips. I'm assuming you have scoliosis?
This is what true friends are!!!! I talk to fast sometimes, I also have back problems, I'm really quirky. Everyone has flaws, but Jesus loves you the way you are, and nobody can change that. So DON'T try to fit in, DON'T change who you are so you can have friends, because real friends will like you for you, not your stuff.
I cried so much... Today I was with my mom in the car and I noticed I have a bit of baby phat under my chin. I looked at my mom and said " mom I have a double chin. What do I do?" And my mom said " you're seeing things. You're fucking beautiful baby and I love you". I started crying because I'm a bit on the heavier side for my age, 13 and 102 pounds, and then this song came on. It was perfect because it made me feel better. Tonight, 5 minutes ago I told myself that I was beautiful no matter what and I put this song on. Please, know that you're beautiful no matter what
sweet heart! I'm turning 13 this weekend and I weigh 110! do not say you're fat... most of my weight may come from my height because I'm 5.9 and it comes very naturally, and I eat LIKE A HORSE! hey you're only overweight if your over 150 lbs AND 13 ok??? do not starve yourself, God gave you a body to take care of so that means take care of it! You know a good diet you can start, its very useful, my mom was 178 lb like a couple months ago and now she's 150 lb because of this diet... no rice, potatoes or any starches! If you try this you will see a big difference if you really want to change how you look. But DO NOT STARVE YOURSELF! I've learned how to take bullying and insults like their nothing because I know I look gorgeous in the eyes of my creator and my Savior The Lord Jesus Christ. Besides, I have A LOT of things I can be terribly bullied for, like I like My Little Pony, I still sleep with my mom and a blanket, I can't stand being alone AND I AM CHRIST FOLLOWER!
I finally found this after years of searching and honestly everyone needs this song at least once. To anyone out there who needs this: You are so amazing, you don't have to try so hard because you are beautiful just as you. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Just so people know, I lost my mom in a snorkeling accident on April 4, 2015, and her number one favorite song is Try. She told me that makeup doesn't make you beautiful, it's what's inside that makes you beautiful. To ALL the girls feeling insecure, it's ok to not be gorgeous, or skinny. We don't have to be models to be beautiful, we just have to have beauty inside us, and that's what matters. I feel insecure EVERYDAY because I'm not good enough to have a guy like me for me and I understand that guys like skinny girls which I'm not and they like girls with no acne on their faces which I do and I just don't feel good about myself!! Every girl needs to have a good grip on being beautiful WITHOUT any MAKEUP!!!
+Katya LaLonde i'm sorry for your loss she's in a better place and even though i din't know her i'm sure she passed away doing what she liked? snorkeling and she did it in the best way possible (except for the accident) she will be missed
+Keila Annis bless yourself. I bet that so many people love you for you and if don't feel loved then make people love you by bringing your inner beauty out for the world to see and you don't know how much that means to me what you said. You're an amazing person
I'm so sorry about ur mom. I bet she was a wonderful woman and she will be missed even though I do not know u nor her. I also feel insecure about myself and I'm scared to tell anyone about it. It's probably because I get bullied a lot at school and people tell me straight to my face that they downright hate me. But I know I'm beautiful in my own way and same with anyone else! Have a great day everyone :D
Hey you ! Yes yes you ! You are beautiful ❤️ All 1k, girls or boys all are beautiful, don't forget to smile always. A smile is the most powerful weapon in the world ^^
From my childhood this song was so important to me... now that I'm 18 going on 19 I came across it again and it's a reminder to me that I'm perfect as I am even on the days when I feel like I'm less. This song will always hold a place within my heart
Look....... everyone is different don't worry what they say, you are amazing. You dont change anything about you, you are beautiful how you are. TELL THEM BULLIES THAT YOUR TOO GOOD FOR THEM AND WHY BULLY? If your sad I really hope I made your day. This song describes me too much of my life and its true and I want to look out for you....... thanks for reading....
WikedGirl55 I suffer from depression and ur comment I found while I was crying and when I read it I stopped and for once in a real long time I feel a little sense of hope :) 🙏🏻
jess b yes, but there will always be love out here too and, if you believe in this, then it will win over any hate. Try to look at little things such as a flower, the sky or even a bug positively and with at least a small smile. I know it’s extremely hard because I’m feeling the same way and often lose any hope. But I will keep trying to fight for my happiness together with you. I promise🌟 It was meant me to reply to you and give some comfort and this means you’re important to us, to me. Plz, promise me you will continue fighting because all the dark will definitely pass. Promise?
Your not the only one,You have try to give in,yourself like all other people do,if ur ugly or not pretty,don’t judge yourself,if your not pretty like the other kids in ur school,don’t bother them,if ur getting bullied,then try fight back,if your have different size of your body who cares?,You have friends with you,they can care about you like everyone else does,If you face don’t fit with others,Then don’t judge it,if ur fat,then lose some weight,I’m not trying to be mean,but everyone thinks I am,But I’m not,I’m trying to be nice,like the other kids does,sometimes there is hate in this world,but your beautiful,Because GOD made us that way,JESEUS made us way to,Because we have faith in us,if your hopeful to others,then give it out,we Donny care about haters,or mean people who don’t care about nerds,or poor people,they don’t have to bully other kids,they have to stay strong,like me,I always do,because I have FAITH!...I think u need faith because you have trouble in your life,If you reading this,please be my friend..Or subscribe me,because I am one of the persons who always nice,not mean...Please...Just please,be nice to others...Just please..
Beauty is vain, and charm is deceitful: but a woman that feareth the Lord, SHE shall be praised! -Proverbs 31:30 That's worth way more than any other praise we could ever get, whether we realise it or not😃
The most beautiful songs that actually have meaning in the generations are so underrated it's sad. This song is a jewel and will always be in the bottom of my heart.
This is why I love this song. So many people aren't confident about themselves and they need to hear this. It's fine to put on makeup or get fancy if you feel like it and you like dressing up but don't do it to impress others.
I support all of the people in the comment section or anyone in general. I'm a suicidal, anxious, bullied and derpressed soul myself, so I know how you feel. But I go through everyday and give and give. Just remember that I love you if you feel like no one does. You are a beautiful person. I go through it to see other people smile so they don't feel my sadness. Bless you all and may you have another breath in the morning. ~Your Admirer
Skin isn't paper don't cut it Your face isn't a mask don't cover it Your life isn't a book don't end it xx For everyone who is hurting you can get through it xxxx
Okay you know what!? I'm done with these stupid comments! 1). YOU JUST COPIED THIS! 2). THIS DOESN'T HELP PEOPLE WITH DEPRESSION I SHOULD KNOW I HAD DEPRESSION! THIS MAKES ME WANNA KILL MYSELF MORE
It’s amazing how this one song can make you break down in tears. People here are commenting on how this song makes them feel less ugly or pretty or whatever but for me I was in a very bad toxic relationship with 2 people back to back. And I tried so hard to be everything they wanted and made myself exhausted and depressed and I didn’t like myself. I changed who I was for them. And I’ve never listened to a song that really hit that feeling until now
I'm seeing comments to all the insecure girls, and I wanna tell all the insecure boys out there the same goes for you. Don't beat yourself up for being the stereotypical male, you're perfect the way you are.
I can't listen to nor sing this song without crying. I have my own struggles in which I'm choosing to keep private, but regardless of what anyone is going through what makes you beautiful and strong is every time you fall and get back up and for the most part not letting other's get to you. I know it's easier said than done because we're human, but I promise whoever reads this that you're beautiful and unique in your own way. DO NOT LET OTHERS CHANGE WHO YOU ARE TO GIVE YOU A FALSE SENSE OF HAPPINESS, I learned that the hard way. I can't promise there won't be any mean cold hearted people in this world, but what I can promise is that you'll always have at least yourself as your best friend first and foremost, but you'll also have at the very least one special person in your life that'll remind you of how special and beautiful you are outside and inside, regardless of the relationship.
"No matter who you are,where you're from,your skin colour,your gender identity just speak yourself" - an angel who taught me to love myself,to be confident and work hard 💜
What if I don't like me? Uh? What if I want to try? What if I WANT to change - not a single thing- everything of me? People say 'I don't care about what people say'. But after all... we care... we care more than we would like to admit. (Sorry for my english)
sunshine girl thats actually kind of true.. i was trying actually.. trying a lot. but nothing seccided. so i gave up. thats all. sorry for my bad english btw
Evreyone has flaws everyone has talents everyone has regections but get up do it again your sure youre not perfect so no one is sure someone look like it but there not to ok
okay im crying so much because this song is seriously giving me feels I really am those kind of girls who like looks down on herself and I try so hard to make people like me I don't wear make-up im not those "pretty girls" I don't believe in myself most of the time and I care way too much about what people think of me this song just showed me that I shouldn't let what people think of me get in the way of loving myself that I don't have to try so hard to make people like me I'm just me and I should believe in myself more and love who I am so thank you Colbie I have a song to listen to whenever I'm looking down bad on myself
yes. I agree ^_^ I'm so happy about this song glad I'm not the only one who leaves comments about how touched u are ^_^ seriously. I don't see that much people on utube commenting about the special things and words of a sweet song >_< and I'm also not those pretty/popular girls so yea high five! *puts hand up*
I make it my everyday job to make sure my friends smile and laugh. And it works. I don't need money or a compliment as a reward. Hearing there laughter and seeing them smile is a reward enough. I tell each and everyone of them they are beautiful, but I don't see myself being beautiful though. I don't know if this is a bad thing or not, I just want my friends to know they are perfect the way they are.
Luna Swirl You have a beautiful heart. Though is it possible that you can do the things you do for your friends for yourself. Like complimenting yourself. It's a little vain but when I'm in good mood I like to serenade my self with fun songs like Baby you're so Classic
Me too I don’t care how much I hate myself or if I o feel like total waste of space I try to make my friends happy cause knowing they’re good makes me feel better about myself
I love this song. It's so important to remember that people should love us for who we are. We should need to try and become someone we're not. Yes, reach for the stars but don't lose yourself in the process. If you don't love yourself, how can you expect other people to love you? Love yourself, you're amazing just the way you are! Maybe you have a crooked nose or extreme acne, but that shouldn't define you. I love you all!
OMG!! This is the song i have been missing for years. Its so strong. Great message. I nearly cried listening to the words. AAAAHHHHHHHHH!!!!! Too much. Plus to all those out there who are self consious and think you look bad. You dont! You may think that nobody likes the way you loo. Nobody. Thats not true. there is at least 2 people who belive you are beatiful the way you are. Me and most of all God. You belong, dont let anyone tell you otherwise. Screenshot this message and set is as your home screen if you dont like the way you like. i also have a challenge for you. steal a friends phone for a while, come to this song, find this post, screen shot it, set it as their homescreen. once they read it, show them is video and make them listen to the words. if they shed a single tear at least. Mission accomplished. that was strong on my heart tonight. P.S. Im only 12. young kids can make a difference too, dont out them down, belive in them.
I'm 11 I went through a time i tried to kill my self I still have a scare I told my friend and no one else she smacked me and yelled at me and said if you try to do that again thank of me and I'm like why and she is like you will see I'm like ok 2 weeks later I found out she had canser and she died a week latter I tryed and cryed
This is an amazing comment. I love knowing the fact even kids know that life doesn't revolve around one person- which means usually you get it wrong and people aren't actually staring at you for the wrong reason. After all, if you're getting stares in public or at school or anywhere, it could be for the right reason. Either they think you're beautiful, or love what you have to say.
I've been trying to find this song for years! Ever since I was little and listened to this song in my aunts car I fell in love with it. I'm so glad I found it now, may y'all have an amazing day/night! 😁
Alright...I need to say something about this which made me inspired but upset. I am 13 years old, I am both tomboy and girly girl. I'm not fat or skinny I'm pretty chubby, i have hair all over my body and I have the acne on me. I don't wear makeup bcuz I feel like being my own self would bring out someone that would understand and would love me for who I am. I am upset about this is because mostly the guys would tell me how ugly I am...and how stupid I am...everything tore me apart...but actually...no...I grew stronger! And I became myself! I don't care! To all the girls forget about those haters...you are amazing! Don't make the mistakes that I did for feeling the pain for no reason because you are amazing! You are you❤️
Shakira Meza me too I'm a tomboy and I get bullied all the times. It sucks but then I realized it doesn't matter of what other ppl think just be yourself. I feel bad for ppl who go through the same situations.
Michelle Shang yes! That's very true! BE who you are and be confident! In this world it can get you messed up but that's cuz others wants to be powerful! Don't let powerful people get to you cuz they are the ones to move out of the way in your life!
Bullied in 3rd grade to 4th grade.. when i first heard this.. i can remember my first friends in my life that actually didn't care what i acted like.. or what i thought.. this song changed my life.. it's powerful.. god bless you..!
): My heart breaks for girls and boys who struggle with accepting themselves as they are. You are perfectly and uniquely made. You have a purpose. And you are loved.
No, no, one day you will go back to the life everyone should have! I believe you can do it! Don't give up─=≡Σ((( つ•̀ 3 •́)つ I'm sorry what I said was not particularly good.
I do have a hard time accepting myself and I want to be average to myself but then a family member of mine will go ahead and say something like, "how I wish I was slim like you" or "that I have a small/slim figure" and that I am "skinny" and now I will have times where I will barely eat but other times I will want to eat all day. This is all dependent on my good/bad days.
My great grandpa passed away and he was and is the only person on Earth who will ever really understand me. He is one of the most important people to me and I will never forget him.. He always told me to be myself and never change for anyone except for me and that I was beautiful and I would always be loved. Its really hard to lose someone but you need to remember to be yourself and the people who don't like you are jealous of you. Never change for anybody except yourself. Have a good life and always look on the bright side if things.
This world right now is full of people who judge others so very badly and it pushes them to a certain point that they have to change themselves in order to be liked. The thing is, why waste your time trying to change yourself when you can be looking for a person that likes you for you. Finding someone that will like you for you is a rare chance now a days but it is going to worth finding those people. Just be yourself.
Very well put! I went to a high school game last night, after years of my graduation. It was one thing being a high school student and watching the game, but seeing all those girls trying desperately please other girls or young men by making fun of others. I was shocked and hurt, wondering if I was ever that way. But I never was in the crowd and now that I see them from a distance, I am so glad I never was in the main 'Group' because I am sure that I would regret all that I said or do. Once I was heading home, I heard this song and thought wow. I wish the girls there had heard these words. They would be better off being who they are, without the pound of make up they put on themselves to make themselves look prettier. High school is such a hard time in anyone's lives, and I am glad I am done with that section of my life.
jesus is the answer, he is the only one who will love you no matter what you do. He died for you to be happy...you just have to find him! Just pray to him :) my life is awesome with him
OK let's get things straight: Im a girl My crush doesn't like me my crush hates me But i don't try to be who he wants me to be because i am better as myself not he want's me to be
Not to make you sad but I have a overprotective bf and he's loves me for me, yeah I rarely where make up and it for special occasions ONLY and he knows that
@@enderqueenminecraft3191 okay your bf may like you for who you are but you don't have to rub it in people's faces cuz over 4,4500 teen kill them selfs! Because of these rude ass people so keep your mouth shut bc you dunno what people are going though so stop this world is full of rude ass people but it's a beautiful place we have trash everywhere
I am not perfect I have thick hair I have bad posture I have braces I hate my eyebrows I feel like makeup makes it better I play with toys even though a lot of people my age don't Lots of people love me how I am, I am not perfect. But no one is. So I guess that makes it ok. I do love myself and to who ever is reading this remember that you have imperfections and that is something everyone has. Don't hide it :)
You ARE perfect don't let anybody think not because god made us all beautiful. And ps I still play with toys I just hope you know there not you they can't tell YOU want to do :)
You guys don't have try so hard to be pretty.. Be you. Being you is what matters most, I don't care what you look like, what you believe in, or what you sound like. Be you! Being someone else, isn't you.. do you like not being you? Everyone is beautiful.. no matter what! No matter what Gender... No matter what!!!!! Be you!! 😊😁 Treat others the Way you Want to be Treated..! [Golden Rule]
Okai so this is what I have to say I'm 14 I'm not the prettiest girl on earth ,I have pimples on my face people hate me my boyfriend and I constantly fight about shit he hardly tells me I'm beautiful anymore we hardly talk and it feels like he's cheating on me yeah sure I'm scared to lose him and all that and I love him but how you unlove someone that doesn't love you back understand its hard I know its difficult to always look on the positive side of things and sure I know what all of y'all are saying but think of this God created us ,built us made us strong men and woman and if you are reading this right now I want you to know you are amazing smart, beautiful in ways you could not even have imagined yeah its a bit Crazy coming from a 14 year old girl who has almost no experience in life but I'm trying And we are only going to get through this dark ass tunnel with the help of Jesus he is amazing he is all mighty he will help all of y'all if you going through hard times if you feel alone if you have no one pray pray and pray even if you have nothing to say all you say is Jesus i can't talk listen to my heart and sometimes it feels like you talking to the wall but trust me Jesus is listening and he might not help you straight away but he will guide you and help you silver your problems be strong in the name of Jesus Don't be insurcure be happy and let God take control be happy in the persuit of what sets your soul on fire because being happy isfar better than being sad❤❤ To all the girls and guys reading this you are created beautifully and wonderfully you are a work of art you are amazing and don't be insurcure Jesus loves you 👑👑❤ Like if you agree🙋❤
You are amazing I hope you live a great life best comment ever!!!!! God bless you hope you fell better I'll pray for you to have a great life ahead of you
This song has helped me through the darkest parts of my life and I just sent it to one of my favorite people in hopes that it does the same with them. Everyone has a purpose in this world. You don’t have to try to fit everyone’s expectations.
This song is the back bone of our salvation, this songs comments section is where we can express with no judgement just supportive comments. We’ve all been through hell and back. We are still picking up the shatters prices of our selves, hurting our selves in process as we try and fit into society. It’s not us that need to change, it’s society, it’s people shallow view on a person, a judgment by the cover of a book. I’m a 16 teen year old teenager who’s considered killing my self off in order to stop feeling. I’ve been broken by many people, kicked and knocked around but I still manage to look them in the eye and say stop. I can’t stand the thought of other kids going through stuff like me or worse, it makes my eyes water with sadness as I know how much one can go before they fall in. Sometimes just holding on to the thought being able to leave this town and finding people who genuinely love me for who I am. Not the make up I wear, not the clothes I wear, the mask I wear but just me. Some days I look at my self and feel confident others I hit rock button and refuse to leave me bed. But one day, I’ll pick up all my broken pieces and they will fit back perfectly. But for now, I leave my life in the hands of god to lead me on to that path, by protecting my heart. I love all of you girls and guys. No matter the skin colour,religion,sex,sexual orientation or moral beliefs.
I loved reading this. It shows me that I am not alone in a battle one may face in life. And even if I may not know you I hope you have great following years ahead of us.
I'm crying😭❤️I had a boyfriend...He took me as I was, but the cool girls said I'm not good enough and excluded myself .. So I pulled back with some other girls .. The problem was that most of my old friend was with the Cooles and I lost a lot of friends. But then I changed School so I haven't my friends there... There I have become popular in class, but not by my appearance or something, but because of my character .. I'm very grateful for that ❤️. Everyone wants to do something with me, but I mostly wonder why ... Because I'm not pretty or anything like that .. But I think it's great that there are also people who pay attention not only to the outside but to the inside ❤️❤️❤️ love all my new friends❤️❤️❤️❤️💎
OK let's get things straight: :I'm about to be 11 in a few months -my crush hates me now. -he said he cheated on me. -he played a joke on me -I have a unibrow -I have a big nose -I'm to tall -I have about no friends - im shy - I have anxiety -I have First stage depression -my parents are not together I see my dad 2 times a week -I'm weak -my mom don't have money to afford a house so we rent a room -neither of my parents have a car and I hear ppl saying, "my parents are broke" or "I don't have nice stuff". Please, you don't ask me if I'm OK and stuff I keep it to myself cuz I know nobody wants to hear it I appreciate the little things I thank you for reading my comment
It's not fare when people are bullied i know cuz i was bullied sometimes i still am And it's hard people are so mean they don't even know you and talk about you i always put my self down but this song made me think i don't have to take 2:00 hours to put makeup on no one should and im not none of us should we are the way God wanted us to be made and we should except that we should love our selves the way we are and be yourself always because everyone else is taken never change yourself for no one.
Someone sang this at my school talent show, I broke into tears. People were staring at me but I didn't care. Once she finished and sat down I gave her a hug and I said "Thank you"
Miss Maxi-Cutie U are one of the most special and beautiful person, u are those people who dont care and just go along with a happy and loving emotion. and this is coming from a 13 year old :) thank you for ur good works :)
Night Chaos I listen to this song literally everyday😭 it’s a good song it sends people the message that they are amazing how they are and shouldn’t judge themselves or change that ever😫
A little birdy told me you aren’t okay and struggling. :/ So, I’m here to help you!!! If you are ever feeling down and feel like you need someone, I’m here. If you need a shoulder to cry on, I’m here. You are loved and there are many reasons to live. I will list some down below later. If you don’t like your past and hate it, try your best to ignore it. Time heals. Things will get better, It will take time. Just believe it will. Your past will only hold you back and bring you down. I want you to understand there are many people who don’t even know you and love you. There are many people and many opportunities. Do NOT ever give up. You can cry if it makes you feel better. Just whatever you do, don’t give up. Because that isn’t the answer. You need to keep trying and trying until you get what you’re trying to do. If you want to die, stop. You are worthy and everyone is here for a reason. Don’t shorten your time. Don’t give up. I love you. I care. Please don’t hurt yourself. I don’t want to see you hurt. Do you need a hug? You can do ANYTHING if you just believe! Don’t ever lose hope. There are always people to help, but you might have not met them yet. My socials: Discord: ruby;#0069 Snapchat: rubycaris My social media will not change. But, my discord might. But please contact me if you’re in pain and/or need anything. I’m here to help. I want to help. Reasons to live: 1: We would miss you. 2: It’s worth it to be alive. 3: It does get better, believe it or not, it will eventually get better. 4: There’s so much you would miss out on doing. 5: You are worth it don’t let anyone, even yourself tell you otherwise. 6: God made you for a reason, you have a purpose. 7: There is always a reason to like you may not know it right now, but there’s always a reason to live. 8: So many people care about you. 10: You are amazing 11: I don’t even know you and I love you. 12: I don’t even know you and I care about you. 13: There are plenty of other people that love you. 14: There are plenty of people that care about you. 15: God loves you. 16: God cares about you. 17: Sometimes will be really tough, but it will just make you a stronger person. 18: What about all the things you’ve always wanted to do? What about all the things you’ve planned, but never got around to doing? You can’t do them if you’re dead. 19: I want you to be alive. 20: People care about you, they care about you even more than you know it. 21: You won’t be able to listen to music if you die. 22: You’ll never be able to listen to your favourite song if you die. 23: You’ll never be able to listen to your favourite singer if you die. 24: You’ll never be able to listen to your favourite rapper if you die. 25: listening to really loud music. 26: Killing yourself is never worth it, you’ll hit both yourself and the people who care about you. 27: There are so many people that would miss you including me. 28: You’re preventing a future generation, your kids, from even being born. 29: You are Gorgeous. 30: Someone out there loves you. 31: How do you think your family would feel? Would it improve your life if you die? 32: Proving people wrong with your success. 33: Watching the jerks that doubted you fail at life. 34: You’ll never have the feeling of walking into a warm building on a cold day. 35: You’ll never have the feeling of walking into a cold building on a hot day. 36: Being stupid in public just because you can. 37: Helping other people. 38: You have a future to live for. 39: Being alive is just really good. 40: Not being alive is just really bad. 41: Finding your soulmate. 42: All Nighters. 43: Sleeping in all day. 44: You can look back at your self later in your life and be glad you didn’t commit suicide. 45: Nobody will ever be like you. 46: Your Unique. 47: Puppies. 48: Puppy Kisses 49: Netflix. 50: Decorating the Christmas tree. 51: The kind of dreams that wake you up and you can’t stop smiling. 52: Breakfast in bed. 53: New Clothes. 54: New Shoes. 55: New books by your favourite authors. 56: Sunrises and Sunsets. 57: Friends. 58: The Ocean. 59: Sunlight that is warm on your back but not too hot. 60: Your Family. 61: Inside Jokes. 62: Birthdays. 63: Christmas. 64: Family Traditions. 65: The taste of your favourite food. 66: Watching your favourite tv show. 67: Watching your favourite Movie. 68: The adventure of going somewhere new. 69: The ability to pursue whatever you choose ( there are over 7 billion people on Earth, don’t be afraid to be you ) 70: To earn money and rewards. 71: You can always flip your life around. 72: To find the perfect job of career. 73: Pizza. 74: Kittens. 75: New Haircuts 76: Awkward moments you can look back to and laugh. 77: God is Good. 78: The world needs you. 79: Roller Coasters. 80: Showers. 81: Cake. 82: Growing old. 83: Growing old with the person you love. 84: Singing. 85: Sleeping. 86: Ice Cream. 87: Eating warm cookies straight out the oven. 88: Food in general. 89: Movie nights. 90: Candy. 91: Popcorn. 92: Daydreaming. 93: Happy moments. 94: Halloween 95: Sleepovers. 96: Parties. 97: Having a good personality. 98: Making people happy. 99: Bonfires. 100: Sitting on rooftops. 101: Going on vacation. 102: Hearing crazy stories 103:Telling crazy stories. 104: Treehouses 105: Starbucks 106: You’ve changed someone’s life. 107: If you end your life, you’re stopping yourself from achieving great things. 108: Everyone has a talent including you. 109: Eating crazy food. 110:Hanging out with your friends. 111: Nobody can ever replace you. 112: You have so much to live for. 113: Your dreams need some fulfilling to do. 114: Living life to the fullest. 115: Heck, I would miss you like crazy. 116: Your family and friends would be devastated if you died. 117: Someone out there is constantly praying to meet someone like you. 118: Your future kids will never come to existence if you die right now. 119: You could save someone’s life. 120: You are too beautiful to disappear. 121: You are bigger than any of your problems. 122: You are never alone in this struggle. 123: Tomorrow is another day, please be there to see it. 124: You are worth more than you think. 125: But, the final and most important one is, just, being able to experience life. Because even if your life doesn't seem so great right now, anything could happen. if anyone wants to talk about something: All suicide hotline numbers if you need someone to talk to: Argentina: +5402234930430 Australia: 131114 Austria: 142; for children and young people, 147 Belgium: 106 Bosnia & Herzegovina: 080 05 03 05 Botswana: 3911270 Brazil: 188 for the CVV National Association Canada: 1.833.456.4566, 5147234000 (Montreal); 18662773553 (outside Montreal) Croatia: 014833888 Denmark: +4570201201 Egypt: 7621602 Estonia: 3726558088; in Russian 3726555688 Finland: 010 195 202 France: 0145394000 Germany: 08001810771 Holland: 09000767 Hong Kong: +852 2382 0000 Hungary: 116123 India: 8888817666 Ireland: +4408457909090 Italy: 800860022 Japan: +810352869090 Mexico: 5255102550 New Zealand: 0800543354 Norway: +4781533300 Philippines: 028969191 Poland: 5270000 Portugal: 21 854 07 40/8 . 96 898 21 50 Russia: 0078202577577 Spain: 914590050 South Africa: 0514445691 Sweden: 46317112400 Switzerland: 143 United Kingdom: 08457909090 USA: 18002738255 Veterans' Crisis Line: 1 800 273 8255/ text 838255. be Safe and ily
Danganronpa pfp Edit: Since you have most likely seen Danganronpa I shall tell you, I simp for Ryoma and my thoughts though-out this whole thing was ‘Can Ryoma relate to this’ kittens he shall relate to kittens
This comment saved me 6 months ago and I just want to say thank you I found my way out and you were right I met someone who had waited to me someone like me their whole life and I never want to give up again thank you I love you and what you are doing 🥲
•I'm 11 •I'm 69 pounds •I'm a gymnast •I've cut myself •I've sat and cried in my room •people call me fat and stupid at school •I'm a girl •I guess I'm not strong or good enough •cause I'm a girl? try to get to know a girl before thinking your better then them. And saying bad stuff about them. I thought he liked me. Then it clicked. He called me fat and stupid like all the other girls in the world. and you know what? I'm not fat, I'm not stupid. I'm a girl. A strong, pretty and SMART girl. don't give them a reaction. Cause they need something to laugh about. go look in the mirror and laugh at yourself for being a huge jerk. Boy aren't stronger Girls aren't stronger Boys aren't smarter Girls aren't smarter God put us on this world to be nice to eachother. I understand, life has bumpy roads. But, let's stop this competition.
hey even I have those days when i fell that people don't like me. I just say I was created to be this way if you don't like me that's OK cause I love myself. I also tell them don't hate me cause u ain't me😂😂😂lol but just your confidence up and don't let people put you down like that. that's the only way they figure they can rule over you
I came here because I needed it hear this song.. I knew there would be some comments to help me, I didn't believe it would help, but it did. I really am proud to be me, even if I'm not perfect.
I'm 19 I weigh 200lbs I cut myself I live with depression I usually hate myself everyday I'm single and always will be 😭 Nobody likes me My life sucks And I just wanna end it Thanks everybody who I read y'all's comments 😭 you made me realize that I can be a somebody but to me inside I can't 😭😭😭😭
+Heather Huffstetler I get how it can feel to live with depression. I've found that music and playing instruments have helped me to vent. I love the piano because I know that with every note, I'm making something beautiful and something that someone will appreciate. I get how it feels to hate yourself. You've probably had/having a bad life. But hang in there. You don't know when someone or something is going to enter your life and change it completely. I get it. My life sucked too. But if you give up now, you might never meet the people that will change your life completely.
+Kitty Kat thank you and yes I know that god is with me and won't judge me but I pray and hope everyday tht someone will come change my life and I know it takes time but I hate waiting I'm impatient I'm tying to stay strong but everyday it's a battle I got saved and all and I'm changing a lil bit but not much 😭
This song mean so much to me ive been a dancer since I was two and my appearance meant everything to me and I wouldn't wear bra tops and shorts to dance I would wear long shirts and short but all my teachers and family and friends have been so helpful and when I heard this song it told me I'm not alone my appearance isnt the only thing that matters it's what's on the inside so now I'm eleven years old and I have so much more confidence and I CAN wear certain clothes without worrying about what other people say I CAN be myself and I just know I CAN 🙂🙂
argh this is my favourite song yet it still reminds me of my stupid so-called 'friend' that i really hate at the moment. lets call her sarah. sarah is a 13 year old girl. she's very self-conscience of her body weight. every time we do PE she gets her mum to write an excuse in her notebook to show the teacher so she can get out of it. ever since she started skipping PE every lesson she'd began to put on weight as she never did any exercise. but she still kept on getting out of PE because she didn't want people to judge her for her bod weight when we were doing swimming or running. she thought that if she attended a PE lesson people would laugh at how 'fat' she was. yet the only thing missing PE was doing was making her put on the weight that she desperately wants to magically disappear without putting any work towards losing. tbh, this is fine. she was 'comfortably uncomfortable' with her body weight. but this isn't what i hate about her. what i hate is just how much she BRAGS about it! every day the conversation is taken over by her saying something along the lines of 'uh, i gained 2 pounds yesterday, and only had 3 mcdonald happy meals for lunch instead of 5! UH' or 'uh, im sooo fat. do you think i look fat? you know what, don't answer. i'm going to KFC' WHYYYYYYYYYYYY!? its the same with her makeup. she never wears it. i think in my mind 'GOOD FOR HER, SHE'S COMFORTABLE WITH HER FACE!' but no, how wrong i was. i mean, if you're going to not wear makeup, please don't then say things like 'UH, my face is so ugly. its so spotty and gross, because i have 2 tiny spots on my cheek!' or 'OMG look at my eyebrows! they're so misshapen and haven't been plucked in YEARS! anyway, ill see you later! im going to go complain about this to someone else instead of dealing with the problem' there's people in this world that change themselves because they're self-conscious about their appearance in some way-whether that's losing weight thinking that it's important to get people to like you, doing makeup in a way that they personally HATE, yet they think that they can hide behind even though it's not what they would usually wear etc. there is also people who wear a little makeup, do their hair up every once in a while, don't care about their weight etc. they have accepted themselves. they do these things because its FUN. because they're enjoying their lives in a way that many can't because they're so worried about what people think of them. and THEN...there's girls like Sarah. people who wear NO MAKEUP, people who dont care about their BODY WEIGHT, who don't do anything with their HAIR...but then go around complaining even though they're perfectly capable of losing weight if it bothered them that much. they could EASILY pluck their eyebrows instead of complaining about it. their the people in life that get to a problem, complain about it and never resolve it. theres the people who are afraid of trying, so they shy away from it, people who don't care whether it goes wrong but they'll give it their best shot... and then people who moan and whinge and want the world to evolve around them and never have to to anything to get what they want. just have it be done for them. this is why i HATE sarah. she always complains about these things, yet she has never attempted at TRYING to fix them. if your going to not wear makeup, please dont then go complaining about your face. if your going to gain weight, please don't go complaining about how fat you are. you get the idea.
ThePopcornPro's good message. You can't fix things you don't try. I have a similar friend, but she's nice. I mean you shouldn't hate anyone, but I get how your frustration is fueled. Perhaps you can try and give her some advice or help her work out? Try to persuade her to care about what happens to her body. But if she doesn't, it's her own problem.
I am not a lover of secular music, but the lyrics of this song speaks volumes of wisdom that’s been lost. Many young girls and grown women need to sit down and take copious notes on how to not please others to the extreme, where in the end, you will be the one who’ll suffer through your own manufactured pain all by yourself, because they don’t and won’t care about you or who you really are. Simply understood; plastic never generates real life.
This song is so beautiful. It's my theme song. I'm 13 and 130lbs. I've tried so hard by I can't seem to loose weight. I've always been over weight ever since I turned 9. This song helps me so much.
Olivia Whitten I wish I was 130 pounds. I've been 200 and up since I was about 12 years old. You have nothing to worry about because I have not been judged. The only person who judged me was me. I always thought that I was ugly because I wasn't skinny and pretty like everyone else who was 12 but I then got over that. Again, you don't have anything to worry about. I love myself and you should too. No matter if you are over weight or under weight. Just be yourself. Don't let these judgemental people bring you down. 💜 yourself.
This song relates to me. When I see pretty girls with makeup and nice clothes getting all the attention from guys I ask myself do I look beautiful without makeup and those pretty clothes. Now these days guys pay attention to those pretty girls and it seems that no guy pays attention to girls like me that don't wear makeup at all😞
when I'm sad and mad at myself I say "I'm ugly no one loves me ;(" then I remember this song and it makes me feel better so I sing it and I stop crying and wash my face. I LOVE THIS SONG!!
I remember listening to this song constantly while suffering with episodes of severe depression and anxiety at the age of 10. Dealing with an ongoing battle with suicide attempts, psych wards and more, I felt this song as a comfort that understood feelings I couldn’t express. I decided to make a change for myself at the age of 14, since having to fight with misery and despair for 7 years. I hadn’t listened to this song since, and hearing it again reminds me of how much I’ve come through since. I’m almost 17 now. And being without hurting myself, whether it be physically or mentally I name myself being “healed.” It took patience, motivation and a lot of bravery to be able to embrace self love and total acceptance of myself. It’s certainly difficult and almost impossible to change in a way that makes you feel the slightest of real joy. But knowing how much I would’ve missed, I don’t regret using all of my energy to fight the urge of falling back into that toxic mindset. In the midst of fighting every second, of every day. I believe it was worth it, I’ve never conquered a feeling of happiness and glory like I feel now. It’s a message from me, and something that I’ve achieved in my life. I won’t turn my head back on the past anymore, but sometimes I find it good for myself every now and then to let a cry out. A cry of happiness that I’ve made it this far. And I know so many more can and will achieve this amazing feeling.
I’m twelve years old.
To the people at school, I’m the smart one.
I have a weird laugh.
I’m quiet.
I don’t really fit in anywhere.
The people at school..they don’t see underneath.
They see me for who they think I am, and then they don’t take the time to get to know me.
The real me.
I sing when I’m home alone.
I cry at sad songs and sad movies.
I have a crazy imagination
I’m a picky eater
The books in my room are color coordinated
and my phone wallpaper is a quote from my favorite musical.
I’m a great listener.
I love love stories, because I long for one myself.
I give my whole heart to every person I meet because I can’t find love for myself.
To all the people at school:
to Riley, to Alexis, to Maddy, to Nick, to Raionna, even to Natalie;
please try, so that I can take a break from doing so.
edit: For several months now I've been monitoring the replies to this post. Hearing that there are so many people that can relate to my story and are going through the same thing is very reassuring, and I smile every time I see a new reply. In case anyone was curious, here's an update:
I'm thirteen now, and I'll be fourteen soon. I've been diagnosed with depression and I see a therapist regularly. I have gotten "worse" since this original post, but I'm happy to say that, in a lot of other ways, I've gotten better. I have great friends, a loving family, and as of last month, a parakeet!! (whom I love very much).
I want anyone reading this to know that IT DOES GET BETTER. I haven't gotten there completely yet, but every day I try my best to improve. Even if it seems like it'll be this way forever, it won't, I promise. And to anyone struggling with self-love specifically: I'll bet you are beautiful, inside and out. That pimple on your nose isn't actually that big. Your hair looked cute today, even though you thought it was messy. Maybe you weren't as kind as you could've been today, but that's okay. You always have the chance to start over tomorrow, so take it. If there's one thing I've learned, it's that.
~ Kylie
Focus on wt u like and love, the crowd is gonna let u down
I somewhat understand your pain
I'm always happy to others and can't bring myself to hurt others. Recently I have been having mental breakdowns,as soon as I leave my room I act happy, like I'm putting a mask on.It got so bad I did something pretty bad. I always seem like a positive, attention seeking, person when really I'm a ball of self-doubt and hate. Stay positive, don't do anything harsh like I did.
Kylie Agan hey don’t ever try to fit in just be yourself your a amazing person don’t let someone tell you who you are
You are so much like me....hearing you say these things I see myself in u
Is this a mirror?
Liuxin bring me here. But this song is so beautiful. I cant stop listening now. "You dont have to try", thanks for reminding me.☺
Same
We are pretty the way we are
Sammmme
Sameeee💗
OMG Wut? Saaaaameee
I hate when people judge for no reason. This is a good song for Bullying. I have gone through bullying my whole life, and its still hard to get over it. It is very damaging, but I always give and give. I get up everyday faking my anxiety and depression all thanks to the bullying, and family issues I have.. please keep my family in prayers.. going strong still, but we still got issues.
Stay strong! I believe you can be who you are, without being bullied for it! Eventually you'll show all of them and prove them wrong :3 You're so much better than the people who insult you to feel good about themselves.
every time someone says something mean to me, I just say, "sorry, I have this hearing problem, I can't hear when people say mean stuff about me... " then laugh and walk away. it shows them that you don't care and that you never will care, so they eventually stop.
That is beautiful... I've also been bullied once and u enspired me🙂
+Fluffycat156 you have to show them that you don't care. I was bullied for years and years, and I learned that if you laugh it off and walk away, they'll stop. the reason that bullies bully is because they feel bad about themselves, so they bring others down to make them stronger. if you show them that they can't bring you down, they stop.
+Alyssa Thatcher nice I did that once and it did work😀
This song is absolutely beautiful. I love the message behind it.
“Your skin is not paper, don't cut it. Your face is not a mask, don't hide it. Your size is not a book, don't judge it. Your life is not a film, don't end it.”
Thanks
thank you I needed that
👏
+Bailey Clark Beautiful. *claps*
+Gaming Bros bruhhhhh XD lol
*takes everyone in the comment section hands* We are all amazing and perfect, no matter what society says
yup
Edme and Faulon The Gaming Gnaw Wolves yup yup yup yup yup yup yup
to many Maby
God doesn't make mistakes and none of us are ugly because God made us to be different and that's okay❤💙💜
my friend called my best friend ugly..
Edme and Faulon The Gaming Gnaw Wolves
Y-yes... we are all beautiful,wonderful,fantastic..and nothing can change that. It's better to be you,than be a fake..
I'm n-not crying..the ninjas are back at it again cutting onions with the sharp blades of feels ;~;
My grandmother was diagnosed with brain cancer a little bit ago and she suffers from depression and thinks she's ugly and worth anything but the truth is my grandma my hero and perfect the way she is❤
Madison Rodriguez yeah my grandpa had that it was hard seeing him like that
Madison Rodriguez I'm so sorry I hope your grandmother gets well! 💚💛💙 God Bless You!
Madison Rodriguez prayers
Is she alright now?
no she had passed away
"It's the things we love most, that destroy us."
-President Snow (The Hunger Games)
Rabies I laughed at him when he said that lol
Oh i remember when he said that
Truth.
I agree
Is this a book or movie quote? I'm like the only person on earth that hasn't seen the movies soo😂
Your skin is not paper....don't cut it......your face isn't a mask.....don't hide it......your size isn't a book......don't judge it......your life isn't a film.....don't end it 💜
I don't get this quote... If my face would be a mask I wouldn't hide it I would use it to hide something else...
🙁that has been me all my life. When I read something like that it makes me feel confident. U are true size doesn’t matter. I hope you have a really good day 😔🙃
You have copied this
Jovi Lee wow so....Just...,wow
you heart isnt glass, dont break it.
If you are thinking on being someone else, just be yourself, because everybody else is taken...
I accidentally clicked the thumbs down cos I'm on my phone and it was small, but I like this :)
Citlali Farfan that is deep
Citlali Farfan your profile pic jimin, a kpop fan yay, and I agree with you
BTS Army thanks
I am 10 and when I was younger, i wanted yo make a girl I didn't like and everyone else liked like me, so I faked about liking cats, now I like cats because I faked it for so long
I regret doing that every day.
I also have friends who are so skinny, their hair is like silk, they wear 'cool' outfits. Everyone always says they are so cool and compliments them. I feel too big, then I feel to skinny, mom says my hair is terrible then I want to scresm, my hair is ugly.
I also always doubt I'm smart. I take tests and pass but always am last or first to finish, "how us everyone else done and I'm not?, I just speed through I messed up didn't I" I always freak out.
My friends cry or say they arnt popular and are very quickly, everyone is so sorry, there life must suck, I cry, I'm just being ridiculous.
Listening to this song and singing makes me happy and feel good at something.
I sang this song for my sisters funeral. She struggled with anxiety and depression for many years. After time she recovered and she was her happy 14 year old self again. Then one day.. she was gone. What we didn’t notice is she didn’t recover. She wasn’t happy. It was fake. She had battled for to long. The battle had to end. And I still love you alannah. You were brave 😭
That really made me tear up and she's in a better place now🥺
I’m so sorryyy 💔
2 years later, I am so extremely sorry this happened to you. I know how much it hurts to lose someone/something and you always think about something, or see something, that reminds you of them, I just want you to know you got this and keep going, it will get better I promise, she's watching over, loving you and being proud everyday. You got this. - Addi
I'm so sorry to hear this!😭
I can relate I sang this song when I found my nan died
take your makeup off💖
let your hair down 💓
take a breath💚
look into the mirror, at yourself❤
don't you like you💙
CAUSE I LIKE YOU💞❣💕
Uh... no? I don't like me.
@@maxspratt2989don't say that , you are awesome 🙄
@@MrGorjanin nah..
@@maxspratt2989 Come on you know you are. It's a nice day. 😊😉
@@MrGorjanin Eh, I guess
This song is so emotional it makes me cry all the time but I still love this song sooo much this song should be number ☝ 1 in trending
It is super inspiring I just luv it so much
Don't be so hard on yourself. No one is perfect. It's just not possible. We were made different to make life more interesting. I used to hide part of my personality, because I found people who made feel bad because of it. Then I found someone who excepts every bit of me. I fangirl. They let me fangirl. I obsess. They let me obsess. They like me because I act like me. And I like them because they stay true to themself. For those of you who cause self harm, or hate themself, or just want to die; don't feel that way. We were put on this planet to live. We're all different, and that's okay. Embrace what makes you different. You'll find people who love you for it. Whoever you are, I love you. You're you, and that makes you awesome. Don't change yourself for other people. Just be you
I like Markiplier and Jacksepticeye too :D
+Grumpy_Cat Karzon Cool!
You random person are the best. I read the part about self hard and hating themselves. I will try not to do that anymore cause this comment inspired me. :)
+Jack Mills Awesome, I'm glad my words helped someone. I may not know you, but I hope you're happy and just know you're you so you're awesome!
+Jack Mills Also, thank you for making me feel better about myself! Your comment made me really happy, thank you
Why does this song have to be *deppressing*? I just got Confirmed and I am so filled of joy. This song really encourages me to be stronger and never give up.
Same🥰 but i care about what people of me think...
some happy songs are sad to sad people
@@losttothefood4ever300 why is that SO true😭
I can not stop listening to this song
LostToThe Food4ever that’s so true
I’m fat and I want to lose weight. When I say that to others, they think I’m trying to lose weight just to get more attention. But I told them that I’m not doing that for attention. I’m doing that so that I can feel better for myself and have more confidence (and actually wear clothes that are my style since I couldn’t cause of my body). I don’t know why but I just felt like I needed to say this. The song was so good ☺️
In the name of the lord I pray for you right now that jimination blue has self confidence let them see that you don’t make mistakes that they are perfect maybe not in the eyes of their selves or others but the eyes of you and now I say amen.
Jimination blue I’m 14 I only weigh 90 pounds I want to gain weight so have confidence bc we cane both do what we want to do
Random Person awwww this is so sweet! And def being underweight is not different from being overweight at all and I really hope you can get your desired weight! I’m 14 but weight 135 and am constantly being told that I’m fat or that I gained weight and need to lose some even by my own family but due to personal problems, I can’t work on my weight or haven’t found the right conditions yet. I wish you to become more healthy and beautiful than you already are! ❤️
@Jimination Blue they are the same thing and I’m sorry I just wanna point out the fact that you aren’t fat your perfect the way you are
Don’t let anyone tell you different
Random Person ❤️❤️❤️
For all the women that believe they need make up to dress and impress to be attractive:
That's not true. If someone is truly going to be attracted to you and love you, then they will be just as loving and attracted to you on your sick days and days where you're not going to dress up.
I'm truly sorry that guys can be shallow minded and hearted. But that's the qaulity of love is not? To find the one person that will appreciate you more than anyone else is. Don't give up, and stay true to your own natural beauty.
Love is gentle, not forceful. It's not love that actually hurts you, it's the absence of it. Love isn't forcing the person you're with into the person you want them to be, Love is knowing that person will change on their own, and to be with them when that happens and to still show them the same love.
+Sam Grey i felt useless to every one... how i am at school, i feel complete useless and dumb/ugly/stupid. sometimes i wish i had no life, some girl is being really rude/mean to me, she's making me feel like i should give up each minute! im not sure about how valuable my life is to me... :'(
+coolanimals102 AJ
You're not useless. The fact is, She is being ugly to you. The keyword there is "She is being ugly." Do you really want to be valued by someone as cruel as her? I wouldn't. Some people are going to make your life hell, you just have to look them in the eye and say "No, this is who I am." I would say you have no reason to be like her. In fact, I don't know why you would even want to be like her. She's as fake as her words. It's not that your life is meaningless, the fact is that considering how she treats you, she should be meaningless to you. Keep your head up and your pretty heart bright. There's no reason to let her dim it.
+coolanimals102 AJ
Plz don't feel that way I stick up for kids in my grade but ur life is valuable and blessed don't let someone ruin that for u
Now all I need to find a women that doesnt need to try so hard to impress me and truely loves me.
It's an inspirational song for anyone who loses him/herself because of trying to "belong".
God made us all unique, so He planned out this path for you.
He loves every single one of you.
You are wonderful in every way!
❤❤❤
that is so nice Belis metht
Pikachu Thompson
I believe god made us unique Cuz the same is boring and everyone is human I except everyone even haters
....what are you supposed to believe if you're atheist though
"There are four types of matter.
Liquids, solids, gasses, and you.
You matter"
-anonymous
Emma Moisa Holt wow. i love this.
I love this, thanks♥
My heart: this is so sweet 🥺🥺
my brain: *ScIeNce*
Liquid solid glass plasma.... (this is why I hate myself sometimes...)
Well, technically...
I'd just like to say.... You're probably sitting where you are right now, reading this comment, listening to this song and thinking 'I'm not pretty. I'm so ugly. All the other girls in my school are so beautiful and I'm not' etc. I relate to the last thing I said. Yeah there are girls in my school who ARE prettier than me. And you guys are feeling so insecure about the way you look. But.. I want to tell you something. Love the way you are. God made you look like yourself. God never makes mistakes. Wether you think so or not he made you with beauty in mind. Never let anyone tell you different
I love this comment
Your beautiful just the way you are
thank you for letting me know that I am pretty no matter what the humans say :)
brooksbutterfly no one can say your not beautiful if they never meet you and by this comment you seem pretty beautiful keep encouraging others
Yeah be you and don't try to be something else
If you are in a stressful situation, you yourself dont have to be stressed.
You may be inside the storm, but don't let the storm get inside you.
I suffer from mild depression, for my bad and awkward looks, body maturity, and my size. Weighing at 124 Lbs and thick thighs for a 13 year old I felt like that was way way too over weight so I stopped eating for about two weeks only nibbling on very little which resulted in worrying my mom and sisters. I always feel like I'm pushing everyone away and making them worry. My sisters helped me realise I'm only human and no everyone is gonna be perfect, so please don't judge yourself and love yourself for who you are only human, and human is not perfect. You all are beautiful!! 👌
I'm 13 too and I'm 135 pounds. And I still have all these insecurity's, but no one ever notices
I'm 11 I weigh 118 and I have deppsion (I know I spelled that wrong) I think I have it cause I want to cut (I don't) and I cry a lot because my uncle died in jail.😦
Im 11 I way 146 and im fat and have thick thighs and get bullied for it
I weight almost 160 lbs and I'm 13. And YOU think YOU'RE fat?! Common you aren't even close to being overweight, stop lying to yourself, besides I'm sure you're a beautiful person!
What did you eat your family?!?!😂
I wish there were more empowering songs like this to tell girls that what you look like doesn’t matter.
Victoria’s Secret by Jax. I recommend to you
I suffer from depression of my appearance.
Don't worry about what others think of you. As long as you trust someone or yourself, then you can fight it back. Stand up, don't fake yourself. Cause you know that your real self what's to be liked.
thank you. I needed that 😌
yes that is what people should say more often and do more people llike you will save the world of cyber bully and any bulling
people comite suicde almost everyday because of this things being judged bullied heart breaks and more why arfe peope so mean when we all can just learn what we have in commen instade of what we don have in commen and remmber YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL IN THE INSIDE AND OUT AND F YOUR KIND HEARTED GOOD THINGS WILL HAPPEN TO YOU BUT YOU CANT STOP THE BAD THINGS FROM HAPPENING JUST KEEP LOOKING UP AND SMILING AND NOUGHTING I REPEAT NOUGHTING IS GONG TO BRING YOU DOWN
stay strong guys!
aww
Ok, this comment section is bringing me down, so this is what I have to say
I'm 12
I have back problems that make me feel like a grandma
I've got acne
I have too many scars to count
My legs aren't the same length
I feel fat sometimes
But ...
I have friends who don't care about my appearance or my past, and if your friends do, they're not the right people to be thought of as your friends. You're all so amazing and so beautiful, no matter the size, shape, color, race, gender, or mindset
hey, you don't have to take uneven limbs as a flaw hun. I have uneven shoulders, which make my arms (to me) noticeably off length. Uneven legs and hips. I'm assuming you have scoliosis?
this is deep well done
u r so right
This is what true friends are!!!! I talk to fast sometimes, I also have back problems, I'm really quirky. Everyone has flaws, but Jesus loves you the way you are, and nobody can change that. So DON'T try to fit in, DON'T change who you are so you can have friends, because real friends will like you for you, not your stuff.
I'm 12 too and all I do when I get bullied is explain why I don't fight back and some listen others don't what can you do.
I cried so much... Today I was with my mom in the car and I noticed I have a bit of baby phat under my chin. I looked at my mom and said " mom I have a double chin. What do I do?" And my mom said " you're seeing things. You're fucking beautiful baby and I love you". I started crying because I'm a bit on the heavier side for my age, 13 and 102 pounds, and then this song came on. It was perfect because it made me feel better. Tonight, 5 minutes ago I told myself that I was beautiful no matter what and I put this song on. Please, know that you're beautiful no matter what
You are beautiful on the inside and out. Don't let anyone think that you aren't.
Thank you bae
You're 13 and 102 pounds? You're skinny! I'm 13 and I'm 110...
Oh... Well the docs said I'm heavier for my age. I was like wtf are all 13 year olds twigs or something?
sweet heart! I'm turning 13 this weekend and I weigh 110! do not say you're fat... most of my weight may come from my height because I'm 5.9 and it comes very naturally, and I eat LIKE A HORSE! hey you're only overweight if your over 150 lbs AND 13 ok??? do not starve yourself, God gave you a body to take care of so that means take care of it! You know a good diet you can start, its very useful, my mom was 178 lb like a couple months ago and now she's 150 lb because of this diet... no rice, potatoes or any starches! If you try this you will see a big difference if you really want to change how you look. But DO NOT STARVE YOURSELF! I've learned how to take bullying and insults like their nothing because I know I look gorgeous in the eyes of my creator and my Savior The Lord Jesus Christ. Besides, I have A LOT of things I can be terribly bullied for, like I like My Little Pony, I still sleep with my mom and a blanket, I can't stand being alone AND I AM CHRIST FOLLOWER!
I finally found this after years of searching and honestly everyone needs this song at least once.
To anyone out there who needs this: You are so amazing, you don't have to try so hard because you are beautiful just as you.
❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Just so people know, I lost my mom in a snorkeling accident on April 4, 2015, and her number one favorite song is Try. She told me that makeup doesn't make you beautiful, it's what's inside that makes you beautiful. To ALL the girls feeling insecure, it's ok to not be gorgeous, or skinny. We don't have to be models to be beautiful, we just have to have beauty inside us, and that's what matters. I feel insecure EVERYDAY because I'm not good enough to have a guy like me for me and I understand that guys like skinny girls which I'm not and they like girls with no acne on their faces which I do and I just don't feel good about myself!! Every girl needs to have a good grip on being beautiful WITHOUT any MAKEUP!!!
sorry for you and your right it's notvthe outvsidevthat mattered it's the inside
thanks butterfly friends
+Katya LaLonde i'm sorry for your loss she's in a better place and even though i din't know her i'm sure she passed away doing what she liked? snorkeling and she did it in the best way possible (except for the accident) she will be missed
+Keila Annis bless yourself. I bet that so many people love you for you and if don't feel loved then make people love you by bringing your inner beauty out for the world to see and you don't know how much that means to me what you said. You're an amazing person
I'm so sorry about ur mom. I bet she was a wonderful woman and she will be missed even though I do not know u nor her. I also feel insecure about myself and I'm scared to tell anyone about it. It's probably because I get bullied a lot at school and people tell me straight to my face that they downright hate me. But I know I'm beautiful in my own way and same with anyone else! Have a great day everyone :D
She is such a wonderful role model. This is exactly the type of song this society needs more of. You're all beautiful ladies. Inside and out.
Hey you ! Yes yes you !
You are beautiful ❤️
All 1k, girls or boys all are beautiful, don't forget to smile always. A smile is the most powerful weapon in the world ^^
why are you lying to me....?
Daria _ØMG You are really beautiful, everybody is beautiful ^^
@@daria_mg7936 I'm with you they are lying to me
I'm not beautiful
hooooo so cute thanks you so much, i'm smilling ! Sorry for my english...
From my childhood this song was so important to me... now that I'm 18 going on 19 I came across it again and it's a reminder to me that I'm perfect as I am even on the days when I feel like I'm less. This song will always hold a place within my heart
wow same
Look....... everyone is different don't worry what they say, you are amazing. You dont change anything about you, you are beautiful how you are. TELL THEM BULLIES THAT YOUR TOO GOOD FOR THEM AND WHY BULLY? If your sad I really hope I made your day. This song describes me too much of my life and its true and I want to look out for you....... thanks for reading....
WikedGirl55 I suffer from depression and ur comment I found while I was crying and when I read it I stopped and for once in a real long time I feel a little sense of hope :) 🙏🏻
Sometimes it really hurts trying , makes me
question myself why i even bother to when
there will always be hate out here ..........
jess b yes, but there will always be love out here too and, if you believe in this, then it will win over any hate. Try to look at little things such as a flower, the sky or even a bug positively and with at least a small smile. I know it’s extremely hard because I’m feeling the same way and often lose any hope. But I will keep trying to fight for my happiness together with you. I promise🌟 It was meant me to reply to you and give some comfort and this means you’re important to us, to me. Plz, promise me you will continue fighting because all the dark will definitely pass. Promise?
Your not the only one,You have try to give in,yourself like all other people do,if ur ugly or not pretty,don’t judge yourself,if your not pretty like the other kids in ur school,don’t bother them,if ur getting bullied,then try fight back,if your have different size of your body who cares?,You have friends with you,they can care about you like everyone else does,If you face don’t fit with others,Then don’t judge it,if ur fat,then lose some weight,I’m not trying to be mean,but everyone thinks I am,But I’m not,I’m trying to be nice,like the other kids does,sometimes there is hate in this world,but your beautiful,Because GOD made us that way,JESEUS made us way to,Because we have faith in us,if your hopeful to others,then give it out,we Donny care about haters,or mean people who don’t care about nerds,or poor people,they don’t have to bully other kids,they have to stay strong,like me,I always do,because I have FAITH!...I think u need faith because you have trouble in your life,If you reading this,please be my friend..Or subscribe me,because I am one of the persons who always nice,not mean...Please...Just please,be nice to others...Just please..
Keep on trying, don’t give up! I believe in you
Same......but smiling isnt the answer! Everyone says it is. You just, let it be hownit is
Beauty is vain, and charm is deceitful: but a woman that feareth the Lord, SHE shall be praised! -Proverbs 31:30 That's worth way more than any other praise we could ever get, whether we realise it or not😃
The most beautiful songs that actually have meaning in the generations are so underrated it's sad. This song is a jewel and will always be in the bottom of my heart.
This is why I love this song. So many people aren't confident about themselves and they need to hear this. It's fine to put on makeup or get fancy if you feel like it and you like dressing up but don't do it to impress others.
Be yourself, the right people will come!
I support all of the people in the comment section or anyone in general. I'm a suicidal, anxious, bullied and derpressed soul myself, so I know how you feel. But I go through everyday and give and give. Just remember that I love you if you feel like no one does. You are a beautiful person. I go through it to see other people smile so they don't feel my sadness. Bless you all and may you have another breath in the morning.
~Your Admirer
Skin isn't paper don't cut it
Your face isn't a mask don't cover it
Your life isn't a book don't end it xx
For everyone who is hurting you can get through it xxxx
Thanks
Stolen 😒
This light made me cry coz I used to cut. ❤❤
Okay you know what!? I'm done with these stupid comments! 1). YOU JUST COPIED THIS! 2). THIS DOESN'T HELP PEOPLE WITH DEPRESSION I SHOULD KNOW I HAD DEPRESSION! THIS MAKES ME WANNA KILL MYSELF MORE
It’s amazing how this one song can make you break down in tears. People here are commenting on how this song makes them feel less ugly or pretty or whatever but for me I was in a very bad toxic relationship with 2 people back to back. And I tried so hard to be everything they wanted and made myself exhausted and depressed and I didn’t like myself. I changed who I was for them. And I’ve never listened to a song that really hit that feeling until now
I really hope that you are feeling better or at least a bit better from this.
I'm seeing comments to all the insecure girls, and I wanna tell all the insecure boys out there the same goes for you. Don't beat yourself up for being the stereotypical male, you're perfect the way you are.
beautiful song to campaign about body positively
You know how much I try not to.....
Yep
Thank you
I agree with her, us girls may have it hare but s do you boys out there!!
I can't listen to nor sing this song without crying. I have my own struggles in which I'm choosing to keep private, but regardless of what anyone is going through what makes you beautiful and strong is every time you fall and get back up and for the most part not letting other's get to you. I know it's easier said than done because we're human, but I promise whoever reads this that you're beautiful and unique in your own way. DO NOT LET OTHERS CHANGE WHO YOU ARE TO GIVE YOU A FALSE SENSE OF HAPPINESS, I learned that the hard way. I can't promise there won't be any mean cold hearted people in this world, but what I can promise is that you'll always have at least yourself as your best friend first and foremost, but you'll also have at the very least one special person in your life that'll remind you of how special and beautiful you are outside and inside, regardless of the relationship.
I totally love this...!! I like the "meaning" of the song, like 'Be yourself'.
I showed it to my mum, she loved it as well.
"No matter who you are,where you're from,your skin colour,your gender identity just speak yourself" - an angel who taught me to love myself,to be confident and work hard 💜
What if I don't like me?
Uh?
What if I want to try?
What if I WANT to change - not a single thing- everything of me?
People say 'I don't care about what people say'. But after all... we care... we care more than we would like to admit.
(Sorry for my english)
Yes, we care about what others think of us...and I hate being like that...
sunshine girl
thats actually kind of true..
i was trying actually.. trying a lot. but nothing seccided. so i gave up. thats all.
sorry for my bad english btw
Why won't you like you
I care about everyone😇
Evreyone has flaws everyone has talents everyone has regections but get up do it again your sure youre not perfect so no one is sure someone look like it but there not to ok
okay im crying so much because this song is seriously giving me feels I really am those kind of girls who like looks down on herself and I try so hard to make people like me I don't wear make-up im not those "pretty girls" I don't believe in myself most of the time and I care way too much about what people think of me this song just showed me that I shouldn't let what people think of me get in the way of loving myself that I don't have to try so hard to make people like me I'm just me and I should believe in myself more and love who I am so thank you Colbie I have a song to listen to whenever I'm looking down bad on myself
yes. I agree ^_^ I'm so happy about this song glad I'm not the only one who leaves comments about how touched u are ^_^ seriously. I don't see that much people on utube commenting about the special things and words of a sweet song >_< and I'm also not those pretty/popular girls so yea high five! *puts hand up*
dont ever look down on yourself! one day it will pay off that you stayed strong)
I don't know you, but I can tell you for a fact that you're beautiful. Just be yourself and love yourself for it.:)
this song is like me as well:)
I know how ya feel cuz I entered middle school XDDD
I make it my everyday job to make sure my friends smile and laugh. And it works. I don't need money or a compliment as a reward. Hearing there laughter and seeing them smile is a reward enough. I tell each and everyone of them they are beautiful, but I don't see myself being beautiful though. I don't know if this is a bad thing or not, I just want my friends to know they are perfect the way they are.
Luna Swirl You have a beautiful heart. Though is it possible that you can do the things you do for your friends for yourself. Like complimenting yourself. It's a little vain but when I'm in good mood I like to serenade my self with fun songs like Baby you're so Classic
Your heart is so good. Make sure you are happy too. Its not your job to make everyone happy and its too bad that you don’t feel it.
Me too I don’t care how much I hate myself or if I o feel like total waste of space I try to make my friends happy cause knowing they’re good makes me feel better about myself
I love this song. It's so important to remember that people should love us for who we are. We should need to try and become someone we're not. Yes, reach for the stars but don't lose yourself in the process. If you don't love yourself, how can you expect other people to love you? Love yourself, you're amazing just the way you are! Maybe you have a crooked nose or extreme acne, but that shouldn't define you.
I love you all!
OMG!! This is the song i have been missing for years. Its so strong. Great message. I nearly cried listening to the words. AAAAHHHHHHHHH!!!!! Too much. Plus to all those out there who are self consious and think you look bad. You dont! You may think that nobody likes the way you loo. Nobody. Thats not true. there is at least 2 people who belive you are beatiful the way you are. Me and most of all God. You belong, dont let anyone tell you otherwise. Screenshot this message and set is as your home screen if you dont like the way you like. i also have a challenge for you. steal a friends phone for a while, come to this song, find this post, screen shot it, set it as their homescreen. once they read it, show them is video and make them listen to the words. if they shed a single tear at least. Mission accomplished. that was strong on my heart tonight.
P.S. Im only 12. young kids can make a difference too, dont out them down, belive in them.
Thx this is so good
I'm 11 I went through a time i tried to kill my self I still have a scare I told my friend and no one else she smacked me and yelled at me and said if you try to do that again thank of me and I'm like why and she is like you will see I'm like ok 2 weeks later I found out she had canser and she died a week latter I tryed and cryed
This is an amazing comment. I love knowing the fact even kids know that life doesn't revolve around one person- which means usually you get it wrong and people aren't actually staring at you for the wrong reason. After all, if you're getting stares in public or at school or anywhere, it could be for the right reason. Either they think you're beautiful, or love what you have to say.
I'm 10 so, YEAH GIRL!
i luv this song. it inspires me, i get bullied. it inspires me to not ever change who u are. be urself :)
I'm glad I clicked on this video.
I almost read this wrong and thought you said 'I'm glad I chickened on this vid' XD
Chloe Oshetski
Lil
Same. (Also, I love your profile picture)
I've been trying to find this song for years! Ever since I was little and listened to this song in my aunts car I fell in love with it. I'm so glad I found it now, may y'all have an amazing day/night! 😁
Alright...I need to say something about this which made me inspired but upset. I am 13 years old, I am both tomboy and girly girl. I'm not fat or skinny I'm pretty chubby, i have hair all over my body and I have the acne on me. I don't wear makeup bcuz I feel like being my own self would bring out someone that would understand and would love me for who I am. I am upset about this is because mostly the guys would tell me how ugly I am...and how stupid I am...everything tore me apart...but actually...no...I grew stronger! And I became myself! I don't care! To all the girls forget about those haters...you are amazing! Don't make the mistakes that I did for feeling the pain for no reason because you are amazing! You are you❤️
good job
Alexa Dondiego thanks!
Shakira Meza me too I'm a tomboy and I get bullied all the times. It sucks but then I realized it doesn't matter of what other ppl think just be yourself. I feel bad for ppl who go through the same situations.
Michelle Shang yes! That's very true! BE who you are and be confident! In this world it can get you messed up but that's cuz others wants to be powerful! Don't let powerful people get to you cuz they are the ones to move out of the way in your life!
we must be the same person.
We're not all clones be yourself, an original work of art is worth more.
Bullied in 3rd grade to 4th grade.. when i first heard this.. i can remember my first friends in my life that actually didn't care what i acted like.. or what i thought.. this song changed my life.. it's powerful.. god bless you..!
I absolutely love songs like these. the message is so uplifting, especially for us women who struggle with low self-esteem.
this song made me cry so hard. it hit me somewhere. and i wasn't expecting it too ( T 0 T ) such an amazing message!!
One of the most beautiful songs I've ever heard, thank you Colbie :')
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My heart breaks for girls and boys who struggle with accepting themselves as they are. You are perfectly and uniquely made. You have a purpose. And you are loved.
No, no, one day you will go back to the life everyone should have! I believe you can do it! Don't give up─=≡Σ((( つ•̀ 3 •́)つ
I'm sorry what I said was not particularly good.
I do have a hard time accepting myself and I want to be average to myself but then a family member of mine will go ahead and say something like, "how I wish I was slim like you" or "that I have a small/slim figure" and that I am "skinny" and now I will have times where I will barely eat but other times I will want to eat all day. This is all dependent on my good/bad days.
My great grandpa passed away and he was and is the only person on Earth who will ever really understand me. He is one of the most important people to me and I will never forget him.. He always told me to be myself and never change for anyone except for me and that I was beautiful and I would always be loved. Its really hard to lose someone but you need to remember to be yourself and the people who don't like you are jealous of you. Never change for anybody except yourself. Have a good life and always look on the bright side if things.
This world right now is full of people who judge others so very badly and it pushes them to a certain point that they have to change themselves in order to be liked. The thing is, why waste your time trying to change yourself when you can be looking for a person that likes you for you. Finding someone that will like you for you is a rare chance now a days but it is going to worth finding those people. Just be yourself.
Very well put! I went to a high school game last night, after years of my graduation. It was one thing being a high school student and watching the game, but seeing all those girls trying desperately please other girls or young men by making fun of others. I was shocked and hurt, wondering if I was ever that way. But I never was in the crowd and now that I see them from a distance, I am so glad I never was in the main 'Group' because I am sure that I would regret all that I said or do. Once I was heading home, I heard this song and thought wow. I wish the girls there had heard these words. They would be better off being who they are, without the pound of make up they put on themselves to make themselves look prettier. High school is such a hard time in anyone's lives, and I am glad I am done with that section of my life.
sadly i've been judged by my own family my whole life. i have moved out for almost 2 yrs now. I've never been happier =)
Ken Lau how come ur family does that??? My family does it to encourage me but it's not working ^_^'
jesus is the answer, he is the only one who will love you no matter what you do. He died for you to be happy...you just have to find him! Just pray to him :) my life is awesome with him
OK let's get things straight:
Im a girl
My crush doesn't like me
my crush hates me
But i don't try to be who he wants me to be because i am better as myself not he want's me to be
u go girl
Exactly
Not to make you sad but I have a overprotective bf and he's loves me for me, yeah I rarely where make up and it for special occasions ONLY and he knows that
@@enderqueenminecraft3191 okay your bf may like you for who you are but you don't have to rub it in people's faces cuz over 4,4500 teen kill them selfs! Because of these rude ass people so keep your mouth shut bc you dunno what people are going though so stop this world is full of rude ass people but it's a beautiful place we have trash everywhere
Keep being yourself
DO THEY LIKE YOU?
ME: IDFC
DO YOU LIKE YOU
ME: I LOVE MYSELF
there needs to be more people like you, with the highest self esteem I have ever seen!!
I don’t need you to love me
I love me
But maybe you could get to know me
If you change your mind~
You go girl!
*Do they like you?*
Me: No
*Do you like you?*
Also me: -Leave me and my 27 cats alone-
No
Y A S
I’m 11
I used to live with my mom (ended at 10)
and she made me be GIRLY
but now I live with my dad and I’m the happiest person alive
same but other way around
ima tomboy and same
Am I the only one who is mixed and my mom doesn’t want me to wear anything or my dad I am a girly girl and a tomboy I just don’t care how I look-
Depressed Weirdos I wish I could do that, but I’m 11 and I can’t do that
Same here I'm a tomboy she doesn't allow me to get like boyish haircuts and stuff but that's just who I am I can't change it
I am not perfect
I have thick hair
I have bad posture
I have braces
I hate my eyebrows
I feel like makeup makes it better
I play with toys even though a lot of people my age don't
Lots of people love me how I am, I am not perfect. But no one is. So I guess that makes it ok. I do love myself and to who ever is reading this remember that you have imperfections and that is something everyone has. Don't hide it :)
You are perfect
You ARE perfect don't let anybody think not because god made us all beautiful. And ps I still play with toys I just hope you know there not you they can't tell YOU want to do :)
U r perfect and u will always be
😍❤
This comment was 2 years ago but im still going to reply..Hope so u reply.. It's easy for u to say because you are beautiful and im not...
You guys don't have try so hard to be pretty.. Be you. Being you is what matters most, I don't care what you look like, what you believe in, or what you sound like. Be you! Being someone else, isn't you.. do you like not being you? Everyone is beautiful.. no matter what! No matter what Gender... No matter what!!!!! Be you!! 😊😁 Treat others the Way you Want to be Treated..! [Golden Rule]
Thank you . You encourage me with your words
Exactly Brother Straight Facts 💪💯💪💯
Okai so this is what I have to say
I'm 14
I'm not the prettiest girl on earth ,I have pimples on my face people hate me my boyfriend and I constantly fight about shit he hardly tells me I'm beautiful anymore we hardly talk and it feels like he's cheating on me yeah sure I'm scared to lose him and all that and I love him but how you unlove someone that doesn't love you back understand its hard
I know its difficult to always look on the positive side of things and sure I know what all of y'all are saying but think of this God created us ,built us made us strong men and woman and if you are reading this right now I want you to know you are amazing smart, beautiful in ways you could not even have imagined yeah its a bit Crazy coming from a 14 year old girl who has almost no experience in life but I'm trying
And we are only going to get through this dark ass tunnel with the help of Jesus he is amazing he is all mighty he will help all of y'all if you going through hard times if you feel alone if you have no one pray pray and pray even if you have nothing to say all you say is Jesus i can't talk listen to my heart and sometimes it feels like you talking to the wall but trust me Jesus is listening and he might not help you straight away but he will guide you and help you silver your problems be strong in the name of Jesus
Don't be insurcure be happy and let God take control be happy in the persuit of what sets your soul on fire because being happy isfar better than being sad❤❤
To all the girls and guys reading this you are created beautifully and wonderfully you are a work of art you are amazing and don't be insurcure Jesus loves you 👑👑❤
Like if you agree🙋❤
You are amazing I hope you live a great life best comment ever!!!!! God bless you hope you fell better I'll pray for you to have a great life ahead of you
I am happy u think that why I think that way too I am inside and out hhahah ☺️
I know i may be late but im sorry, if it helps send him the song count on me by Bruno Mars. itll help.
I pray for you God bless you
Amelia kotze Look at the movie 10 things I hate about you...
Who listening this in 2020?
Ok so just me😓
I'm here too!
MEEEEEE!!!!💕
meh
me
Mee
Take your makeup off
Let your hair down
Take a breath
Look at your self in the mirror
Do you like you?
'Cause i like you~
anna ou
that makes me feel like I need to throw my make up in the bin
if you see this, dont forget to smile today!! someone loves you :)))
and that someone is you
You spread smile on my face:-)
liu yuxin brought me here.. i'm gonna keep this on my daily playlist.. thanks for this beautiful song:)
Same😍😍
This song has helped me through the darkest parts of my life and I just sent it to one of my favorite people in hopes that it does the same with them. Everyone has a purpose in this world. You don’t have to try to fit everyone’s expectations.
This song makes me feel like no matter how weird I am I can show everyone who I truly am
This song is the back bone of our salvation, this songs comments section is where we can express with no judgement just supportive comments. We’ve all been through hell and back. We are still picking up the shatters prices of our selves, hurting our selves in process as we try and fit into society. It’s not us that need to change, it’s society, it’s people shallow view on a person, a judgment by the cover of a book. I’m a 16 teen year old teenager who’s considered killing my self off in order to stop feeling. I’ve been broken by many people, kicked and knocked around but I still manage to look them in the eye and say stop.
I can’t stand the thought of other kids going through stuff like me or worse, it makes my eyes water with sadness as I know how much one can go before they fall in. Sometimes just holding on to the thought being able to leave this town and finding people who genuinely love me for who I am. Not the make up I wear, not the clothes I wear, the mask I wear but just me.
Some days I look at my self and feel confident others I hit rock button and refuse to leave me bed.
But one day, I’ll pick up all my broken pieces and they will fit back perfectly. But for now, I leave my life in the hands of god to lead me on to that path, by protecting my heart.
I love all of you girls and guys. No matter the skin colour,religion,sex,sexual orientation or moral beliefs.
I loved reading this. It shows me that I am not alone in a battle one may face in life. And even if I may not know you I hope you have great following years ahead of us.
So inspirational may god bless you
everyone is commenting on their sad stories and I’m over here like “i just like sad songs”
I agree. Even if it makes people cry (maybe).
I love sad songs plus i cry sometimes i Call myself a cry baby cuz i cry alot
aw. katie heh, same
😂
Same
there is only one thing I wanna say you're never truly alone no matter what.
I'm crying😭❤️I had a boyfriend...He took me as I was, but the cool girls said I'm not good enough and excluded myself .. So I pulled back with some other girls .. The problem was that most of my old friend was with the Cooles and I lost a lot of friends. But then I changed School so I haven't my friends there... There I have become popular in class, but not by my appearance or something, but because of my character .. I'm very grateful for that ❤️. Everyone wants to do something with me, but I mostly wonder why ... Because I'm not pretty or anything like that .. But I think it's great that there are also people who pay attention not only to the outside but to the inside ❤️❤️❤️ love all my new friends❤️❤️❤️❤️💎
Be who you want to be inside those popular kids they are crying out to break free
its energy. Dont betray youself.......yourself is the best. Be like Nike. JUST DO IT!
You are amazing as you are, dont let people bring you down!
me and you if a boy likes you for you then that’s golden bc he likes you
Ella Tu yes they are i’m very thankful
OK let's get things straight:
:I'm about to be 11 in a few months
-my crush hates me now.
-he said he cheated on me.
-he played a joke on me
-I have a unibrow
-I have a big nose
-I'm to tall
-I have about no friends
- im shy
- I have anxiety
-I have First stage depression
-my parents are not together
I see my dad 2 times a week
-I'm weak
-my mom don't have money to afford a house so we rent a room
-neither of my parents have a car
and I hear ppl saying, "my parents are broke" or "I don't have nice stuff".
Please, you don't ask me if I'm OK and stuff I keep it to myself cuz I know nobody wants to hear it
I appreciate the little things
I thank you for reading my comment
I try so hard to fit in with people,but they don't notice me 😢
+AngelWish Official you're amazing be strong, ask God for help, keep you're head up and be hopeful
+nereya montes :')
Love yourself!
@angelwishofficial I don't have a mom because she died and I don't have a dad because my mom never married so I don't get that advantage
It's not fare when people are bullied i know cuz i was bullied sometimes i still am And it's hard people are so mean they don't even know you and talk about you i always put my self down but this song made me think i don't have to take 2:00 hours to put makeup on no one should and im not none of us should we are the way God wanted us to be made and we should except that we should love our selves the way we are and be yourself always because everyone else is taken never change yourself for no one.
Someone sang this at my school talent show, I broke into tears. People were staring at me but I didn't care. Once she finished and sat down I gave her a hug and I said "Thank you"
I sang this at my talent show...my crush went...we together🤗🤗
Everyone is beautiful on the inside
ikr c:
Bless you,Miss Maxie-Cutie
Maggie Peak Thank you
Miss Maxi-Cutie U are one of the most special and beautiful person, u are those people who dont care and just go along with a happy and loving emotion. and this is coming from a 13 year old :) thank you for ur good works :)
Micharoolos 123 Thank you.
I had some bullys and i think if anyone is getting bullied please listen to this song
I'm still getting bullied🙁
it doesn't help tho
@@cloeybennett2264 it does it teaches you to be yourself
After being in 2 extremely toxic relationships back to back this song really hits me and made me break down in tears. Thank you Colbie
have anyone listen right now??? 2019?
Night Chaos I listen to this song literally everyday😭 it’s a good song it sends people the message that they are amazing how they are and shouldn’t judge themselves or change that ever😫
Kinda have to find inspiration somewhere... This helps a lot
yes I'm here
Me
Me
I showed this to my music teacher and thanks 2 you it's going to be in the 5h grade performance
I come here from Naughty Egg performance in Masked Dance King but fell in love with the music and lyrics ❤✨ the meaning really calming💙
A little birdy told me you aren’t okay and struggling. :/
So, I’m here to help you!!!
If you are ever feeling down and feel like you need someone, I’m here. If you need a shoulder to cry on, I’m here.
You are loved and there are many reasons to live. I will list some down below later.
If you don’t like your past and hate it, try your best to ignore it. Time heals. Things will get better, It will take time. Just believe it will. Your past will only hold you back and bring you down.
I want you to understand there are many people who don’t even know you and love you.
There are many people and many opportunities. Do NOT ever give up. You can cry if it makes you feel better. Just whatever you do, don’t give up. Because that isn’t the answer. You need to keep trying and trying until you get what you’re trying to do. If you want to die, stop. You are worthy and everyone is here for a reason. Don’t shorten your time. Don’t give up.
I love you.
I care.
Please don’t hurt yourself. I don’t want to see you hurt.
Do you need a hug?
You can do ANYTHING if you just believe! Don’t ever lose hope.
There are always people to help, but you might have not met them yet.
My socials: Discord: ruby;#0069
Snapchat: rubycaris
My social media will not change. But, my discord might. But please contact me if you’re in pain and/or need anything. I’m here to help. I want to help.
Reasons to live:
1: We would miss you.
2: It’s worth it to be alive.
3: It does get better, believe it or not, it will eventually get better.
4: There’s so much you would miss out on doing.
5: You are worth it don’t let anyone, even yourself tell you otherwise.
6: God made you for a reason, you have a purpose.
7: There is always a reason to like you may not know it right now, but there’s always a reason to live.
8: So many people care about you.
10: You are amazing
11: I don’t even know you and I love you.
12: I don’t even know you and I care about you.
13: There are plenty of other people that love you.
14: There are plenty of people that care about you.
15: God loves you.
16: God cares about you.
17: Sometimes will be really tough, but it will just make you a stronger person.
18: What about all the things you’ve always wanted to do? What about all the things you’ve planned, but never got around to doing? You can’t do them if you’re dead.
19: I want you to be alive.
20: People care about you, they care about you even more than you know it.
21: You won’t be able to listen to music if you die.
22: You’ll never be able to listen to your favourite song if you die.
23: You’ll never be able to listen to your favourite singer if you die.
24: You’ll never be able to listen to your favourite rapper if you die.
25: listening to really loud music.
26: Killing yourself is never worth it, you’ll hit both yourself and the people who care about you.
27: There are so many people that would miss you including me.
28: You’re preventing a future generation, your kids, from even being born.
29: You are Gorgeous.
30: Someone out there loves you.
31: How do you think your family would feel? Would it improve your life if you die?
32: Proving people wrong with your success.
33: Watching the jerks that doubted you fail at life.
34: You’ll never have the feeling of walking into a warm building on a cold day.
35: You’ll never have the feeling of walking into a cold building on a hot day.
36: Being stupid in public just because you can.
37: Helping other people.
38: You have a future to live for.
39: Being alive is just really good.
40: Not being alive is just really bad.
41: Finding your soulmate.
42: All Nighters.
43: Sleeping in all day.
44: You can look back at your self later in your life and be glad you didn’t commit suicide.
45: Nobody will ever be like you.
46: Your Unique.
47: Puppies.
48: Puppy Kisses
49: Netflix.
50: Decorating the Christmas tree.
51: The kind of dreams that wake you up and you can’t stop smiling.
52: Breakfast in bed.
53: New Clothes.
54: New Shoes.
55: New books by your favourite authors.
56: Sunrises and Sunsets.
57: Friends.
58: The Ocean.
59: Sunlight that is warm on your back but not too hot.
60: Your Family.
61: Inside Jokes.
62: Birthdays.
63: Christmas.
64: Family Traditions.
65: The taste of your favourite food.
66: Watching your favourite tv show.
67: Watching your favourite Movie.
68: The adventure of going somewhere new.
69: The ability to pursue whatever you choose ( there are over 7 billion people on Earth, don’t be afraid to be you )
70: To earn money and rewards.
71: You can always flip your life around.
72: To find the perfect job of career.
73: Pizza.
74: Kittens.
75: New Haircuts
76: Awkward moments you can look back to and laugh.
77: God is Good.
78: The world needs you.
79: Roller Coasters.
80: Showers.
81: Cake.
82: Growing old.
83: Growing old with the person you love.
84: Singing.
85: Sleeping.
86: Ice Cream.
87: Eating warm cookies straight out the oven.
88: Food in general.
89: Movie nights.
90: Candy.
91: Popcorn.
92: Daydreaming.
93: Happy moments.
94: Halloween
95: Sleepovers.
96: Parties.
97: Having a good personality.
98: Making people happy.
99: Bonfires.
100: Sitting on rooftops.
101: Going on vacation.
102: Hearing crazy stories
103:Telling crazy stories.
104: Treehouses
105: Starbucks
106: You’ve changed someone’s life.
107: If you end your life, you’re stopping yourself from achieving great things.
108: Everyone has a talent including you.
109: Eating crazy food.
110:Hanging out with your friends.
111: Nobody can ever replace you.
112: You have so much to live for.
113: Your dreams need some fulfilling to do.
114: Living life to the fullest.
115: Heck, I would miss you like crazy.
116: Your family and friends would be devastated if you died.
117: Someone out there is constantly praying to meet someone like you.
118: Your future kids will never come to existence if you die right now.
119: You could save someone’s life.
120: You are too beautiful to disappear.
121: You are bigger than any of your problems.
122: You are never alone in this struggle.
123: Tomorrow is another day, please be there to see it.
124: You are worth more than you think.
125: But, the final and most important one is, just, being able to experience life. Because even if your life doesn't seem so great right now, anything could happen.
if anyone wants to talk about something:
All suicide hotline numbers if you need someone to talk to:
Argentina: +5402234930430
Australia: 131114
Austria: 142; for children and young people, 147
Belgium: 106
Bosnia & Herzegovina: 080 05 03 05
Botswana: 3911270
Brazil: 188 for the CVV National Association
Canada: 1.833.456.4566, 5147234000 (Montreal); 18662773553 (outside Montreal)
Croatia: 014833888
Denmark: +4570201201
Egypt: 7621602
Estonia: 3726558088; in Russian 3726555688
Finland: 010 195 202
France: 0145394000
Germany: 08001810771
Holland: 09000767
Hong Kong: +852 2382 0000
Hungary: 116123
India: 8888817666
Ireland: +4408457909090
Italy: 800860022
Japan: +810352869090
Mexico: 5255102550
New Zealand: 0800543354
Norway: +4781533300
Philippines: 028969191
Poland: 5270000
Portugal: 21 854 07 40/8 . 96 898 21 50
Russia: 0078202577577
Spain: 914590050
South Africa: 0514445691
Sweden: 46317112400
Switzerland: 143
United Kingdom: 08457909090
USA: 18002738255
Veterans' Crisis Line: 1 800 273 8255/ text 838255.
be Safe and ily
THIS ONLY HAS 6 LIKES WTAF-
You are an angel....thank you
I swear if it was that owl that I hooted to in summer camp when I was 12 that told you that-
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Edit: Since you have most likely seen Danganronpa I shall tell you, I simp for Ryoma and my thoughts though-out this whole thing was ‘Can Ryoma relate to this’ kittens he shall relate to kittens
This comment saved me 6 months ago and I just want to say thank you I found my way out and you were right I met someone who had waited to me someone like me their whole life and I never want to give up again thank you I love you and what you are doing 🥲
•I'm 11
•I'm 69 pounds
•I'm a gymnast
•I've cut myself
•I've sat and cried in my room
•people call me fat and stupid at school
•I'm a girl
•I guess I'm not strong or good enough
•cause I'm a girl?
try to get to know a girl before thinking your better then them. And saying bad stuff about them.
I thought he liked me.
Then it clicked.
He called me fat and stupid like all the other girls in the world.
and you know what? I'm not fat, I'm not stupid.
I'm a girl.
A strong,
pretty
and SMART girl.
don't give them a reaction. Cause they need something to laugh about.
go look in the mirror and laugh at yourself for being a huge jerk.
Boy aren't stronger
Girls aren't stronger
Boys aren't smarter
Girls aren't smarter
God put us on this world to be nice to eachother. I understand, life has bumpy roads. But,
let's stop this competition.
Share This. Please.
if they call u things like this just know that u are a strong, beautiful, talented young phenomenal women. u rise above the hate
hey even I have those days when i fell that people don't like me. I just say I was created to be this way if you don't like me that's OK cause I love myself. I also tell them don't hate me cause u ain't me😂😂😂lol but just your confidence up and don't let people put you down like that. that's the only way they figure they can rule over you
:,)
+Dance Moms your comment had made me cry I feel like that I'm that same girl and I've done things like you have said in your comment 😭
I came here because I needed it hear this song.. I knew there would be some comments to help me, I didn't believe it would help, but it did.
I really am proud to be me, even if I'm not perfect.
I'm 19
I weigh 200lbs
I cut myself
I live with depression
I usually hate myself everyday
I'm single and always will be 😭
Nobody likes me
My life sucks
And I just wanna end it
Thanks everybody who I read y'all's comments 😭 you made me realize that I can be a somebody but to me inside I can't 😭😭😭😭
+Heather Huffstetler I get how it can feel to live with depression. I've found that music and playing instruments have helped me to vent. I love the piano because I know that with every note, I'm making something beautiful and something that someone will appreciate. I get how it feels to hate yourself. You've probably had/having a bad life. But hang in there. You don't know when someone or something is going to enter your life and change it completely. I get it. My life sucked too. But if you give up now, you might never meet the people that will change your life completely.
+Kitty Kat thank you and yes I know that god is with me and won't judge me but I pray and hope everyday tht someone will come change my life and I know it takes time but I hate waiting I'm impatient I'm tying to stay strong but everyday it's a battle I got saved and all and I'm changing a lil bit but not much 😭
Don't give up! I believe in you :D Besides, you seem like a really strong person
+clawdeen 〈31 MSP that makes me feel good :) thank you
+Kitty Kat thank you :)
This song mean so much to me ive been a dancer since I was two and my appearance meant everything to me and I wouldn't wear bra tops and shorts to dance I would wear long shirts and short but all my teachers and family and friends have been so helpful and when I heard this song it told me I'm not alone my appearance isnt the only thing that matters it's what's on the inside so now I'm eleven years old and I have so much more confidence and I CAN wear certain clothes without worrying about what other people say I CAN be myself and I just know I CAN 🙂🙂
Pitch as vhf
this is my moms favorite song she loves it and so do i remember u don't have to try to be liked by somebody just keep being yourself❤❤💙💚💛💜 plz like
This is my FAVOURITE SONG!!!!!! it makes me really really really happy❤️😊
argh this is my favourite song yet it still reminds me of my stupid so-called 'friend' that i really hate at the moment.
lets call her sarah.
sarah is a 13 year old girl. she's very self-conscience of her body weight. every time we do PE she gets her mum to write an excuse in her notebook to show the teacher so she can get out of it. ever since she started skipping PE every lesson she'd began to put on weight as she never did any exercise. but she still kept on getting out of PE because she didn't want people to judge her for her bod weight when we were doing swimming or running. she thought that if she attended a PE lesson people would laugh at how 'fat' she was. yet the only thing missing PE was doing was making her put on the weight that she desperately wants to magically disappear without putting any work towards losing. tbh, this is fine. she was 'comfortably uncomfortable' with her body weight. but this isn't what i hate about her. what i hate is just how much she BRAGS about it! every day the conversation is taken over by her saying something along the lines of 'uh, i gained 2 pounds yesterday, and only had 3 mcdonald happy meals for lunch instead of 5! UH' or 'uh, im sooo fat. do you think i look fat? you know what, don't answer. i'm going to KFC' WHYYYYYYYYYYYY!?
its the same with her makeup. she never wears it. i think in my mind 'GOOD FOR HER, SHE'S COMFORTABLE WITH HER FACE!' but no, how wrong i was. i mean, if you're going to not wear makeup, please don't then say things like 'UH, my face is so ugly. its so spotty and gross, because i have 2 tiny spots on my cheek!' or 'OMG look at my eyebrows! they're so misshapen and haven't been plucked in YEARS! anyway, ill see you later! im going to go complain about this to someone else instead of dealing with the problem'
there's people in this world that change themselves because they're self-conscious about their appearance in some way-whether that's losing weight thinking that it's important to get people to like you, doing makeup in a way that they personally HATE, yet they think that they can hide behind even though it's not what they would usually wear etc.
there is also people who wear a little makeup, do their hair up every once in a while, don't care about their weight etc. they have accepted themselves. they do these things because its FUN. because they're enjoying their lives in a way that many can't because they're so worried about what people think of them.
and THEN...there's girls like Sarah. people who wear NO MAKEUP, people who dont care about their BODY WEIGHT, who don't do anything with their HAIR...but then go around complaining even though they're perfectly capable of losing weight if it bothered them that much. they could EASILY pluck their eyebrows instead of complaining about it. their the people in life that get to a problem, complain about it and never resolve it. theres the people who are afraid of trying, so they shy away from it, people who don't care whether it goes wrong but they'll give it their best shot... and then people who moan and whinge and want the world to evolve around them and never have to to anything to get what they want. just have it be done for them. this is why i HATE sarah. she always complains about these things, yet she has never attempted at TRYING to fix them. if your going to not wear makeup, please dont then go complaining about your face. if your going to gain weight, please don't go complaining about how fat you are. you get the idea.
ThePopcornPro's good message. You can't fix things you don't try. I have a similar friend, but she's nice. I mean you shouldn't hate anyone, but I get how your frustration is fueled. Perhaps you can try and give her some advice or help her work out? Try to persuade her to care about what happens to her body. But if she doesn't, it's her own problem.
my friend does this with her "depression". I have many, many reasons to believe she has Munchausen syndrome.
SlimeInArt mhmm.
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I am not a lover of secular music, but the lyrics of this song speaks volumes of wisdom that’s been lost.
Many young girls and grown women need to sit down and take copious notes on how to not please others to the extreme, where in the end, you will be the one who’ll suffer through your own manufactured pain all by yourself, because they don’t and won’t care about you or who you really are. Simply understood; plastic never generates real life.
This song is so beautiful. It's my theme song. I'm 13 and 130lbs. I've tried so hard by I can't seem to loose weight. I've always been over weight ever since I turned 9. This song helps me so much.
Olivia Whitten I wish I was 130 pounds. I've been 200 and up since I was about 12 years old. You have nothing to worry about because I have not been judged. The only person who judged me was me. I always thought that I was ugly because I wasn't skinny and pretty like everyone else who was 12 but I then got over that. Again, you don't have anything to worry about. I love myself and you should too. No matter if you are over weight or under weight. Just be yourself. Don't let these judgemental people bring you down. 💜 yourself.
This song relates to me. When I see pretty girls with makeup and nice clothes getting all the attention from guys I ask myself do I look beautiful without makeup and those pretty clothes. Now these days guys pay attention to those pretty girls and it seems that no guy pays attention to girls like me that don't wear makeup at all😞
Don't ever doubt yourself. I thought the same until I finally met a guy who told me I looked better without make up :)
Thanks
Landon Conatser you're lucky
Some of the boys at my school pay more attention to the girls without make up instead of girls with it
Kenzie Fullbuster You have the good type pf guys. There aren't many of those around anymore
when I'm sad and mad at myself I say "I'm ugly no one loves me ;(" then I remember this song and it makes me feel better so I sing it and I stop crying and wash my face. I LOVE THIS SONG!!
I remember listening to this song constantly while suffering with episodes of severe depression and anxiety at the age of 10. Dealing with an ongoing battle with suicide attempts, psych wards and more, I felt this song as a comfort that understood feelings I couldn’t express.
I decided to make a change for myself at the age of 14, since having to fight with misery and despair for 7 years. I hadn’t listened to this song since, and hearing it again reminds me of how much I’ve come through since. I’m almost 17 now. And being without hurting myself, whether it be physically or mentally I name myself being “healed.” It took patience, motivation and a lot of bravery to be able to embrace self love and total acceptance of myself.
It’s certainly difficult and almost impossible to change in a way that makes you feel the slightest of real joy. But knowing how much I would’ve missed, I don’t regret using all of my energy to fight the urge of falling back into that toxic mindset. In the midst of fighting every second, of every day. I believe it was worth it, I’ve never conquered a feeling of happiness and glory like I feel now.
It’s a message from me, and something that I’ve achieved in my life. I won’t turn my head back on the past anymore, but sometimes I find it good for myself every now and then to let a cry out. A cry of happiness that I’ve made it this far. And I know so many more can and will achieve this amazing feeling.
Oh babygirl, I genuinely hope you're in a better head space now and never go back to that dark place! Xoxo