Dr. Phil Exposes the Nefarious Tactics of Backstabbers
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- Опубліковано 14 чер 2024
- Dr. Phil defines conniving and deceiving people that you should always be on the lookout for with an acronym B.A.I.T.E.R (Backstabber, Abuser, Impostor, taker, Exploiter and Reckless).
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Sad that bad people (backstabbers) are in our families.
Not only in your family, but with co-workers, roommates, landlord situations, in academia, and with others !
Family means nothing to a snake
Esp when they married in and their low-life ways don't belong 😡
😂
Always 🔥🤬💔👹
My dad taught me at the age of 10 about this. How to walk so I'm not appearing like a victim. How to enter a room and scan my environment. He said "the trick is to not be paranoid, but be aware. " At 50 years of age, I can honestly say this was great advice, which I've passed on to my kids.
Good to know, I thought I was the only one doing these type of things. I am always scan my surrounding. I taught my son this too. Not because someone is going or walking in the same direction as you, that they also have good intentions.
When backstabbers collude to betray their friends and family. Story of my life. My family is full of bad people, really really BAD!
Poor thing ♡
There are millions of these predators 👹🔥
They TARGETED YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE GOOD, KIND, NORMAL AND COMPASSIONATE. GET AWAY FROM THEM ASAP.
Cheaters win financially but morally fail
I agree. I think the doc should have put that caveat in there. Cheaters & backstabbers "win" in the worldly realm, but their souls regress doing so.
And they're not happy people, so they really loose out on the good stuff.
I prefer to see Dr. Phil. I know this is a podcast, but whoever made the decision to roll camera on this is BRILLIANT.
I believe most people feel that something is odd, or strange about some people, but Dr Phil is able to aticulate those feelings in a easy to understand way, dont you think ?
True, true. Everything that honest parents taught you, does not apply in the real world, especially in these modern days. I got played because of my honesty which became their reason to laugh about it. Snitches, they backstabbed, they sabotaged and now, they are all quiet, they totally disappeared from my life. What a world we live in. God help us all.
As much as is practical ,, be separate from the world ,, ( toxic people )
Surround yourself with that small handful of people who are honest, trustworthy, empathetic and even keeled. Not perfect bc nobody is....but ok with admitting their mistakes and improving your relationship whether it's family, romance or friend. Its better to have 2 or 3 people like this, than a crowd of predators surrounding you.
@@santoparfano1910 No crowds of predators around me. Steer Clear from that whole group! NO BUENO!
It’s their loss. Just a bunch of immature losers. There’s nothing wrong with being honest. You’re on the right path to keep learning about toxic behaviour like narcissism if I can encourage you with that. Believe me God has the last laugh with people who choose to be evil. ♥️🙏🏽
I became an expert in narcissism. I realized I had a number of them around me: girl friends, bosses, family members, partner. Insecure copycats, jealous of what you are, trying to copy you and in the same time, doing everything to undermine you. Gossip, underhanded actions.
Church has some of the worst offenders
There are many false churches preaching false doctrine, dont be decieved ,, " Mathew chapter 7 "
Oh yes, they go to chuuurch and I've always said that they go in there legion of demons possessed and still walk out of there legion of demons possessed.
What church?
@@janedoe3648 Any and all that take peoples money, gladly and unapologetically .
Omggggg yes 👹🔥🤬🎚
A narcissist called me a back stabber for calling him out. He admitted he never
apologize because there is no reason to. You made it clear they never can see
anything in themselves it’s always everyone else.
Yes ...I would agree with this ! It is important to be highly aware of who is around you, and what is going on ! Sometimes you think that some of the people you know are good acquaintances, but they are NOT ! Then you realize what their intentions really are and it is disturbing.
By the way, Lance Armstrong was held accountable. Also, in my personal situation, justice is finally going to be served ! Amen ! ⚖️🙏
Your sons are lucky to have you as a father. Being raised without a father and a mother that had to work two jobs to make ends meet, I was not aware of just how many people will betray you, especially in the workplace. No one wants to train you because they think you will one-up them. They want to demean, ridicule, or public shame you in front of your team mates. Leaders want to get in your face and point their fingers to meet your deliverables, or else. All the while their programs are past due, and you are the only one making you're goals. They want to block your success or access to abundance, they want to make sure you are the black sheep come review time. Much evil lurks large corporations or businesses just trying to make a buck. What they do not realize is the karma they have to face for behaving badly. Thank you for sharing.
Some of us didn't get what you did! Some of us believed the best in people and were shocked by what we experienced as we grew older. I never knew betrayl until what I experienced in the last 10 years. I'm sorry I didn't get the memo that there were scammers and liars out there and I was a therapist for 22 years. My bad!
As a person who has become a bit of a prepper during the pandemic and who has had to go no contact, with a narcissistic family, yep, I’m situationally aware. While I might not be able to currently address some of the things I see, you can best be sure I see them, sometimes, long before they become apparent, I’m making plans for an exit, either by my own volition or because I might get fired, when I see jealousy coming from someone who holds enough power to financially impact me. What I’ve learned about jealous or envious people, is that you’d better not wait around for them to come to their senses, subscribe to better angels, or show remorse. Typically, they don’t. They may be quite aware of what they’re doing and, still, there are no checks and balances or feeling like they’d rather be a good person. They intend to carry out whatever they have in mind. So, that’s something you need to prepare for. Because they don’t at all mind countering whatever good happens in your life, as a result of their actions. They’ll sleep like a baby, knowing they’ve put your life in turmoil and, often, it’s your “BFF”. You often have to realize that, with the people you know and this could even be your parents, even if their life is going swell, and they have a broad smile on their face, sometimes, ANYTHING good happening for you, might be their worst nightmare - and they may intend to rectify that.
This is so true regarding jealous people. They will ALWAYS find a way to sabotage your life… it’s happened to me with college “friends”, church “friends” & siblings - sadly family have been the worst offenders. I now can’t have jealous people in my inner circle. I used to give these people the benefit of the doubt, but not anymore.
@@kb4083 yeah, the amount of absolute destruction they can try to exact on someone is crazy.
I used to be stunned at the glee with which some people would fire others, for the smallest, most inconsequential things. There may have been no conversation to rectify behavior. Not even one more chance given, after an initial offense. Of course, often, what happened wasn’t even the fault of the employee. Just glad to give them the boot. For me, I was fully aware that it wasn’t just the employee being fired, but possibly their entire family. They may lose all they have, have to pull their kids out of school, etc. It can create a real mess of an entire family’s life.
Where my family is concerned, my mother’s narcissistic mask dropped, although there’d been at least a decade of subtle, covert abuse. I don’t take abuse and I knew I’d exact reactive abuse so, it was time for me to close that chapter of my life, for the safety of all concerned. Nevertheless, there will always be a world of narcissistic enabling zombies, who will be certain to remind me that she’s my mother, she loves me and that I should return to the abuse, obediently. Fck no.
Living it at this moment 💥👹🤬🔥🚨🚨
@@kb4083 literally watched Dr Ramani on UA-cam she said those are the most Deadly words 👹🚨🚨Living it at this moment
@@lovewhitey2027 yeah, it’s really bad out there. I used to think I could easily spot someone who had it in for me. No. People actively mask it, to worsen the impact. Didn’t see my mother coming as, I subscribed to what most people do. Now, I know better. I’ve learned a great deal, from experts on narcissistic behavior, over the past few years. Sadly, it’s led to me trusting no one. But, I pick up red flags and patterns with lightning speed and give people the boot, as needed, when I can.
Best truest and most helpful video I’ve seen in years. I needed confirmation that indeed some people are basically “evil”, at least temporarily. They mean to harm others. I feel relieved. Because when you’re under attack… slander, gossip, malicious behaviours, hateful aggressive behaviours, I need to hear from someone that I’m doing the right thing to step away from them. Thank you.
Add witchcraft also 🔥👹🤬
I have been teaching my son "situational awareness" only I've been calling it "situational assessment". I really dig this side of Dr. Phil. Can't believe there aren't more subs to this channel.
My most disappointing antidote was " treat others like you want to be treated" boy was that farce. What happened - " they saw me coming" 🤣
SAME
Ditto
I'm in my walk and pray for discernment consistently, yes my rose colored glasses have been smashed to smithereens. I stay prayed up and have the WHOLE ARMOR OF GOD, along with his merciful blessing of Discernment. I rebuke them, cast them down and render them, POWERLESS AND INEFFECTIVE IN MY LIFE AND THE LIFE OF MY CHILDREN. And it is DONE because MY SAVIOR promised. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you! Please say a prayer for me, and may God Bless you!
Situationally aware. Thanks for the good info, Dr. Phil.
That’s a great point! Each morning, I am situationally aware. Why trash myself and live any way less than being aware. I make my life worth living. It’s choice.
This is such an excellent piece!!!
Vital vital info!!
It brings joy to my heart to hear such grounded sanity 💕
I told my kids if a bear is chasing them down the road or if a bad person is trying to hurt or grab you and you run up to a neighbors house for help and you see their car in the yard so you know they are home and your banging on their door but no one is coming to help its ok to break their window. Someone will show up then. There is a time that it is ok to break the rules. We can pay for their window later. That does not make them a wolf - it makes them have disernment - and it keeps them safe.
Except that they could end up getting shot. A lot of people own guns.
In the Bible Matthews 10:16, Jesus says it wisely: " Behold I send you firth as Sheep in the midst of Wolves: Be ye therefore wise as Serpents, and harmless as Doves." Most of these antidotes are easier said than than trying to apply in our every day walk. It is for me. Most times its an after thought. " gee I shoulda did...said....🙏
So true! I have been dealing with that “How the world should work” education for decades. It’s taken six decades of hard work to begin to get past that education.
The funny thing about people who run other people down is they each in turn run eachother down when they are not present. I run from people like that preferring solitude as they are depressed downers. I believe what u let out of your mouth or think and if it is negative is dangerous data entry for the brain. It will harm the negative ones in the end. I have a happy disposition it is a blessing. Kindness is the key. So if someone is running someone down to you, just think about what they say about you when u aren't around. Blessings 🙏 to all. Regards.
Very true. However, if one of your kids is a taker, chaos maker, ( wasn’t raised that way by me, came wired that way) then what? People in general are his doormat, and he only treats someone nice if he thinks there is something to gain. When he uses them up, they are tossed aside. What do you do if it is your kid! This is epidemic. I see other parents dealing with it too, and it is scary.
Nothing to do Susan, they just become people who make up our world.
I love Optimists.
Everyone has the opportunity for spiritual improvement.
Thank Q for another chance to learn. ☆
God bless you Dr Phil. I love this channel
Me too I have been an idiot letting people around me ! Loads of bad around me it’s crazy !
Love your episodes. Thank you so much. Please don't stop putting out all this gold and incredible knowledge. You've given me hope and a tremendous amount of protection against the unkind people
What a great and informative video. Thank you so much.
"Be situationally aware".......that is keep your wits about you.
God bless you Dr. Phil
This is so wild! I am situationally aware all the time but people think I'm paranoid. I'm so thankful you talked about this. It makes me feel better knowing I'm not paranoid and I'm as wise as the great dr. phil sorta 🤓
What you say here is what I learned at 3-4 years old so it blows my mind to know that so many don’t!
The real world is so disappointing sometimes
Watch out for two faced, lying, backstabbers. They are every where. If they gossip about someone else, they will gossip about you. Dump them.
Nope I never even knew the world was like this
Your comment about situation awareness is so common among combat vets. In the military we think of america as the Disneyland of the world. Some struggle with not being able to turn of hyper vigilance when finally home.
Life is a stage...? Your statement, "We teach others how to treat us." accompanied with a very astute young therapist preaching to me about slipping boundaries, helped this old gal learn to create, maintain, and sustain "Boundaries"; I had NONE; you both helped me immensely. I am so grateful 🙏 thank you so much.
Thank goodness for your brutal honesty here!!
Aperson who talks about you behind your backor intentionally do things to hurt you behind your back are right where they need to be behind you. Nice Harley you have there Dr. Phil!! I love riding them too.
It is incredible how important it is to be situationally aware! Yes.
Oh my so so tru it took me so long to realise but it has finally clicked in over the last couple of years I love when Dr. Phil does this kind of things I always watch it and try to better myself and remind myself not to compare myself to others but just try and be better today than I was yesterday
Thank You Dr . Phil .
They smile in your face…🎶
So true. Watch you’re back and trust very few
That is true and I am optimistic but one must be cautious which I must be due to those that try to be take advantage.
Yes! Situationally aware!
Ty... prayers for change ❣️💯💛
So many people play others for financial benefit. Then they kick back and enjoy the other person's effort.
That was great. Personality is so interesting
Thank you for your help
When you die, you and I die, we all must answer to our creator. What you say, is true, however, we have to know that we are not alone in this life. God is always with each of us.
These are great. I am an optimist.
he never really ever mentioned the actual tactics used by these deranged people.....sometimes the titles here on you tube are totally inaccurate
Sadly find them in all walks of life even in support groups like AA meetings. Suppose the only way some people can pick themselves up is to put someone else down
That’s exactly right! How it is and not how it should be.
Thank you.
So we basically have to teach our kids to be wolves well this world is just stupid
Yes. Jordan Peterson talks about it too. “Sometimes the hero must be the monster “
I feel the same way…. I just want peace 😫
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@@privateperson2 my pleasure sister. 🙏🏼❤️💪🏼❤️
Yass I love Dr Phil!!! Preach!!!❤❤❤
I'm so glad I'm me. I know stuff about people and that sort of thing. I always did. Don't know why but I just do. And I'm 63 yrs old. I knew it then and I know it now. Just always known it!!!!!!
God bless you , for educating the world on the reality of human behavior ‼️🖤👺 #Narcissism #EvilInbornHeart
Love your bike Dr Phil
3:55 My goodness 🙄 that's so true. Everyday many times a day strangers calls to try to take what we have. Thank GOD I am very aware of it and smart🙏Since 21 years ago when Internet start the Scammers started.
True, the occult takes one to court to get rid of them!
Thanks Phil
Yes, knowledge is power! Yes!!!
thank you Doc
I think doctor Phil loves motorcycles.
Game of divide & conquer on a unbelievable level!
Well said true story
I've said this a long time ago to someone. There is always someone ripping of another
He hits a cord. What we were taught vs. what really is…it’s a stark realization.
I know what you mean about being situationally aware. After many years of being follow and still experiencing it will be In your interest. I rather over do than to under do.
Ancient Arabic wisdom..."The world is a golden vase, filled with vipers and scorpions."
"You're either gonna play or be played." No F'ing sh*t.
so greatful my dad taught me survival skills in the real world
BE STRONG ENOUGH TO BE KIND
EDUCATE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU EDUCATE OTHERS
PEACE BE WITH YOU
Stunning motorcycle.
Yes true we have to be situation aware because you can get trapped or rape you never know people purpose or intention
Hey Doc, I have family members that fill this bill. Oldest brother, sister in-law. I just got done watching your show, body language experts,. by the way, cool Bike in background
Few family members of mine fit this bill to
My God me too Blaise. Bless
Yes, do all of that! And know your exits!
Situationally Aware.......perfect
People these are great
John Calvin’s “total depravity” is true!
JESUS CHRIST said " in this world you will have tribulation, but fear not, i have overcome the world "
He thinks it’s a joke messing with other peoples life.
backstabbers need to put someone down in order to feel better about themselves- it’s on them
This is some solid shit. Some of his best content right here.
Don’t ever confront these people or let them know you’re into them or they will turn it all around you and convince others too that you are the bad one!! Since they are masters at their game so people will unfortunately believe them.
FAMILY!!!!🤦♀️😔😳
Truth right here 👆🏼
This is really great stuff. These are things I always do when I enter a room. The question becomes, what happens when you realize that you are sitting next to the most unstable person in the room? LOL
Cheaters win in the short term though.. This is what Always happens
Life is game!
All along the watchtower by Bob Dylan
Jimi Hendrix
If you have followed Dr Phil sow for some time and know it/ him, please tell me: Does he ever scrutinize social authorities abusing, deceiving, lying to, taking advantage of and stealing everything off serious, active clients with handicap/ disability in vulnerable, unmanageable long-term situations, who have come to get the personal assistence they need and have the legal right to? Or the courts , the Police, the insurance, the health care system, dentists and psychiatrics? I should be so grateful and glad if you would kindly Please help me and tell what you know for sure..
You sound like some of my experiences. I thought I was the only one.
I wish I had listened to this in my twenties. I've been so gullable
In the case of Lance Armstrong, it wasn't just him, but the whole sport where money is involved. For those who are honest, it is the joy of the competition that is important.
So true
They are everywhere
Truman said it, if you need a friend, get a dog.
You are a pragmatist!